Your openness to other views and beliefs and how you are raising your children has really made me curious about religion. I was brought up atheist and have never been spiritual even though I've envied those with faith. I always thought Christians as closed minded, but you have really made me understand that it was my own prejudice that was the problem. I appreciate you and how open you are about your faith and not trying to shove it down anyones throat. You have definitely opened my eyes.
Even as a Christian I find myself turned off to the way that “the church” operates. It feels contrary to the truth of the religion itself. I’m with you in that Megan’s channel gives me a renewed interest in my own faith. ❤️ thanks for sharing a glimpse of your faith journey with the internet 🤗
I used to wonder the same about those who believed (and envied them for it) until years later my eyes and ears and most importantly, my heart were opened to God. My life has never been more fulfilling. God is not done with you yet Allie! I pray you keep listening to that tug 👍❤️
I'm Christian also, but not Mennonite. I'm a woman and I wear pants, but I don't wear short shorts or low cut tops. I also try to explain to my daughter that modesty is important with things like not wearing swimsuits that your stomach isn't covered. I also explain that sometimes people things differently than we do and it's not necessarily wrong, just different. I know a lot of people who don't go to church "because of all the hypocrites" I will say there definitely are hypocrites, but we are all imperfect and unfinished; I promise we will tell you what we believe and we'll get it wrong. I think as long as you admit that you got it wrong and try to do better your doing good. Progress not perfection! I would encourage you to do some research on different denominations and just try it out. Visiting a church is totally fine and these days you can watch a ton of services online so you can build up to an in person visit. Sorry this is so long, one more thing...even in one denomination churches can be very different. Some more traditional with organ music or no instruments and others with guitars and slide shows. I'll pray for you to find the right path. Hope this was helpful
So glad you shared. If we believe Jesus is the Savior and have trusted him, then we need to keep our eyes on him. Church is a place where we should be able to go for help just like going to a hospital. People who really love and care for the things of God are there to help. Believe me there are some that go to church and that’s in all denominations that do not have a personal relationship with Jesus. I’m a Baptist and I also love Megan and how she share her believe, because she is not ashamed of being a Christian.
I am a muslim stay at home mom with 3 kids since over 10 years. Lately I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with the loneliness and never ending sometimes quite impossible tasks that a mother has to deal with. This channel feels godsend. I literally watch one of your videos for motivation during breakfast. I love how similar the muslim and christian faiths are when really concentrating on what the holy books say and not what all the preachers interpret it as. Thank you for doing what you do and helping me get out of my depression with your smiling face and motivating words. Love and prayers from Germany
I'm a Christian, too, and have a lifestyle similar to yours because of my relationship with Jesus. I really love that you are trying to teach your children not to label people "bad" simply because they are different.
What your talking about at 8:41. I totally agree with. We attend a holiness church which seems similar to Mennonite in some ways. We also believe it’s important to be set apart and live a holy life. I think it’s sooo important to express to our children that the other people are not bad or that they should stay away because Jesus didn’t and he walked along side all the sinners and remained the same. You aren’t going to draw anyone to the Lord by looking down on people. Thanks for saying that!
On hosting, I don't know if it's your culture but I was raised to always alwayyyyyyyyyyys offer to help the hostess. My mom would rather disown me than seeing me chit-chatting idly while the hosts wash the dishes/put the table on 😂😂. Now that I'm older I find it fun ! It's a kind of "thank you for having me" things.
That seems to be how most people are. In our home it was the opposite. NEVER, never have a guest clean. They are there to relax and enjoy the evening, not to wash dishes. There will be plenty of time to clean later. As Christians, it comes down to the same thing in these situations: where is the heart? Is it done because one sincerely wants to show love or does it just become fodder for gossip and a judging thing? When it is done with love, you don't care or aren't looking to see who else is doing what.
Megan, you are such a dear blessing to all who come here! I so appreciate your honesty and transparency, and most of all, your stand for God, modesty, Biblical principles, & your convictions. And you always do that in love. I hope you never change. You really encouraged me today. May God continually bless you and your sweet family and keep you close to Him and each other always. Sending love and hugs your way.
You just did a great job answering those questions! I think using “culture” to describe your Mennonite lifestyle! I loved it! The cookies are beautiful!♥️🙏🏼
I’m so blown away by your smart self!😀🤭 So good with words, so smart in your walk with God. I can’t tell you had a wonderful teacher ( your Mom)! I love the fact that you don’t discriminate or judge anyone. I was raised in a Holiness home and I too wear dresses, we don’t cut our hair, or wear pants, a lot like yourself. A bit different as far as learning to cook and brought up in passing down recipes in a culture. I love the fact that y’all are known for cooking and being brought up that way! I love how modest you are and I absolutely love to watch you and I’ve learned so much from you! You’re such a beautiful lady and family means so much to you!❤️🙌🏻❤️
Thanks for sharing your day with us! I am a 65 year old Baptist minister’s wife and I so relate to practicing hospitality in a simple style! You are such a blessing to watch, you have a beautiful spirit! I went through some anxiety in my 30’s and know how unpleasant it feels. Mine was temporary, and pray that yours is short lived! But I learned a lot of coping skills for life that I wouldn’t have if I hadn’t experienced it! Praying for you, and thanks for sharing your life❤️🙏❤️
I so love your attitude and being honest about how you feel... and then also not just staying in the dumps but explaining how you get yourself moving again. I also love the way you are teaching your kids that the way people live is just different, not bad... warms my heart as a pant-wearing, tattooed Christian 😛😘
I definitely agree with several of the things that you said ~~ first off, I also feel much more productive if I have an actual to do list of items that I want to get accomplished throughout the day. If I don't have stuff written down or planned I feel like I sit down on the couch and before you know it, the entire day has passed me by and I have literally gotten nothing done. Second, I really try not to look at things as being right or wrong, good or bad, but rather just different ways of approaching things. I am 57 years old and in my lifetime I have made some choices that I wish that I maybe had not made. But in my head I can hear my dad saying to me that people make mistakes; the important thing is to learn from those mistakes so that you don't make the same ones over and over again. Mistakes can be teaching moments. And as I sit here, I have a purplish pink color in my hair which I know goes against your religious beliefs. But I am a Christian and to me, it is just a color. I was diagnosed with stage 3 lymphoma (cancer) in November 2018 and in the first 4 months of 2019 I had to undergo 6 rounds of chemotherapy and I lost my hair. So when it finally grew back I decided to dye it a fun color and in November 2021 we went to Georgia for a family gathering so I thought that was the perfect opportunity. Would I do it again? Probably not. But I also don't regret it.
In Australia, 100s & 1000s (aka Nonpareils) on buttered bread is called "Fairy Bread". Very popular at children's parties. But it's also one my Dad's favourite foods - he's 95. LOL
haha we have psycho colored sprinkles here in the Netherlands as well called "hagelslag" (originaliteit hagelslag is chocolate) and we call it breakfast haha
Check your iron levels. It’s amazing how low iron can cause anxiety & a few other symptoms you mentioned. Have your doctor do an iron panel, it’s your ferritin levels you need to know👍🏻
Yes! Your iron can be okay but ferritin low. My daughter developed pica and was eating soap. She was so embarrassed and thought she was losing her mind. Her ferritin level turned out to be dangerously low (even though initial iron was only borderline low). Doctor told her the pica and anxiety was a normal part of low ferritin. Once she was on iron it went away. So often we blame ourselves and outside circumstances for what is a physiological issue.
Teaching tolerance and acceptance of others to your children is a valuable lesson that will positively impact the person they become and how they treat others later in life. Good job 👏
Thank you for this open and beautifully said video! Just wanted to say my family and I have moved a lot due to my husband’s work. You are so right about the value of community!! I felt myself nodding in agreement so often in this discussion! Having people around is everything ❤️
It's amazing. When I am ever having a rough day, it seems you post a video. I appreciate how authentic you are and are not afraid to share who you are and your faith and your feeling about it. I am sure those of us who regularly watch your videos feel blessed to have this community. Have a wonderful day and those cookies look so good!
I really appreciate your outlook on not casting stones at people different than you. I am Roman Catholic and I could not agree more! I try to teach my daughter the same. Jesus hung out with people from all different walks of life so we shouldn’t be afraid to either. Just because we choose to live our lives differently doesn’t mean we can’t love our neighbor. Especially among other Christian denominations we have so much in common with each other I don’t think we should focus on the differences so much. We can learn so much from people who are different from us. Sometimes I have in depth religious talks with friends who are different religions or non religious and honestly it strengthens my faith for me to know why I believe what I do and to understand other points of view. 💜 wish more people felt the same.
It’s so sad when parents teach their children that anyone different then they are not “good.” You’re raising judgmental obnoxious racist adults. It’s nice to hear those who teach their children to respect everyone’s choices and religion!!!! Thank you for your openness. 🌷💐🌸
I’m a long time subscriber but don’t recall posting at all. I’m originally from central PA. My father was a pastor and have a very Dutchy childhood. While we were not Anabaptist, my dad knew sects by coverings and my ancestry is heavily Swiss Mennonite. I have been gone from PA almost 30 yrs now and I am still as homesick as I was in my early days here. Watching you frost your sugar cakes reminds me of spending time with my PA friend, Joyce, who was a young mom when I was a newlywed. God bless you Megan. You are a sweet soul and so refreshing from what I see elsewhere on social media.
I just found you today and you touched my heart with your good vs. bad conversation. I love the way you speak on that! Being from Lancaster County myself, I see the stigma here and it foes both ways. So thankful to hear your point of view!
In Finland, each couple receives a "baby box" with things in it they'll need for a new baby and the box is the cradle! I love that idea! As well, your baby names must be approved in Finland! Thanks, Megan. Great video!
You are a ray of sunshine. I so appreciate the way you are not ashamed of your relationship with Christ, and your portrayal of Him. Thank you for sharing. Love and prayers.
I love hearing about your life as a Mennonite! I really had very little knowledge of Mennonites (I thought you all were very similar to Amish) until I saw many Mennonites at the Ark Experience last year. Most of the Mennonites there had all homemade matching dresses for the moms and daughters and the boys matched the dads. It was so cute! Everyone looked so nice, and my curiosity was piqued. That's how I found your channel, and I have absolutely loved hearing all about your life and beliefs, and as a Christian, I don't see any differences at all, except I don't wear the hair covering (though honestly I'd like to, but everyone would make fun of me). Thanks so much for your videos!
You are such a blessing. Truly. That's what I thought while listening to this. I just love that you pray for your viewers. And I love how encouraging you are. Thank you for all you do.
You said something awhile ago about you having a goal for your “essence” be in line with the Bible. I love this and your videos encourage me to be what God has called me to be. Thank you 🙏🏽 💕🙏🏽 I pray your anxiety eases.
Thank you for this recipe. I have lived in Lancaster Pa my whole life and always loved these cookies. I'm definitely going to be making them this weekend. I feel you about men/babies being sick.
Ahh! This is my first time to visit your channel & it’s just very wholesome. You’re cooking and casually talking to your friends about how you try to raise your kids to have good character & to love Jesus.
Love, love, love your heart for sharing. 💗 You are always so gracious in your responses! My heart always kind of hurts when people phrase the question as "What are you not allowed to do?" or "What can you not do?" because that's not how we see it. It makes me wonder if people believe that we begrudgingly obey? and I want them to know that that's not what the Lord is after. He is after our affectionate obedience. I am overwhelmed by the Lord's grace and love, therefore I obey. And it's also out of a loving trust that God who created all things knows FAR better than I how to live life than I do with my very finite knowledge. All the boundaries are for His glory, and our good. I trust that, therefore I obey. So instead of viewing it as something that we lack because we don't do certain things, I wish everyone could see that within those boundaries is great freedom. Psalm 16:6 is one of my favorites about the lines falling in pleasant places for us. Anyways, just a thought I had while watching and wanted to share! 🤣
You encourage me to keep going as a house wife. I wasn’t raised religious but recently found Christianity. Following people like you makes me know I’m on the right path. God brought me you.
I think your way of life is wonderful and inspiring, and the world would be a better place if more people followed your example. And your wedding dress was absolutely lovely. Enjoy your videos a lot!
We didn't do Halloween either with our kids (after the oldest turned 3 and we had come to a better understanding of our convictions). It has made for very interesting discussions as the children are now young adults. Also, I know what you mean about "stressed out" when you want everything to be nice for guests. It seems like a negative connotation but I really understand- with any type of hospitality, it is just that the stakes are high because you want everyone to enjoy themselves and have good memories of the experience. But it's okay to feel that, and it doesn't mean you don't want to do it. I personally believe that anyone who doesn't feel a little like that probably has a staff to get it all done! (e.g. Martha Stewart)😀
I think a good explanation for different ways of doing things when children are young is, “That is how some people do things, but this how Mama and Daddy decided we will do things in our family.” As they grow, explanations can grow in complexity and depth.
Thank you for being non judgemental, just because someone has purple hair/tattoos/wear jewelry doesn't make them a bad person, or if they have a bad habit such as smoking. Your helping your kids understand the difference in a bad habit versus bad person. We love Halloween and im in healthcare with some purple hair, i absolutely love caring for others. I just discovered your channel and although we have a difference in religion and views i still not only respect but love learning on your beliefs. Im gonna have to try your recipes and tips ad well❤
You’re a sweetheart! Thank you for taking the time to ‘chat’ with us! ❤️ I’m so glad you learned how to navigate RUclips. I often think of starting a channel, but end up feeling really intimidated by all there is to learn. Maybe one day I will step out! 😉
I grew up in a Christian Church organization that was rules based but the community and family fellowship was priceless. I'm still Christian and church attending but not organization based. I'm very thankful for the community teachings I received and don't regret it. I grew up modest. No pants or shorts, we didn't mix swim, dance and didn't attend sporting events or didn't go to functions where alcohol was at. I rode horses with a dress on and long shorts underneath, I'd help on our farm doing chores and hating in the fields with my brothers and father. Priceless. I loved your wedding dress style, it's beautiful. I hope you kept it for Vonnie.
I always watch your vids when I go for my afternoon nap, I’m a 55 yr old grandma and love an afternoon nap. You have a lovely way of delivering what ever your topic Is. Best wishes from the U.K.
wow, megan, just discovered your channel - you're one of the nicest people i've seen on youtube so far, and i'm looking forward to following your journey! :) have a blessed palm sunday!
My first video of yours a few years back was the about you and you said “yes my name is really Megan fox” 😆 you were adorable then and you are still adorable now
I just found your channel and found you super sweet and have a great personality. I appreciate how you are open about your life and gave me a glimpse in an unknown area. Keep up the great work and spreading joy.
I absolutely love your videos! Today has been a bit tough. No motivation, headache, and just a bit drowsy and pregnant so it’s been tough today but while watching this video I got motivation and my mood improved 😊
I love the chatty videos!!! :) Do Mennonite’s have food allergies? 😂 I feel like this sounds silly but i love hosting and all my friends have allergies or food restrictions. Either no gluten or dairy or sugar or peanuts. Or it needs to be local grass fed organic meat 🤣 So I feel like it makes hosting more difficult or at least more expensive. I’ve noticed most Mennonite cooking is much more relaxed when it comes to that 😂 Do you ever run into that with hosting?
Mennonite mom here who's daughter can't have dairy. When going away, I take my daughter's food. I don't expect the hostess to cater to that need. There's usually give and take... As hostess sometimes choosing to accommodate if you know, but also as the one with the food allergy expecting to provide for yourself or your child.
Yes, occasionally! It's so hard when it comes to that. Consider a make your own bar of some kind. Like a taco bar, or nourish bowl, even a cold cut sandwish bar? It does make things more complicated though. In the mennonite community veganism or vegetarianism is not common so that makes things a little easier!
Your wedding pictures are so beautiful. Your wedding dress and covering were so beautiful. You were a beautiful bride!Thank you for your prayers. 🙏 ❤ ♥
You know what Megan , despite the fact that I don’t agree with you on a lot of topics I appreciate the way you try not to judge others. Whether or not they are Christian or not, Mennonite or not and religious or not.
For the young lady who is having her first baby, congratulations!!! Please try to enjoy this time! You’ll do lots of things right, you’ll do some things wrong, and your baby will be okay! Take care of yourself. As for baby needs on a budget, find your closest ONCE UPON A CHILD. It’s a second hand store for babies and kids…they have clothes, furnishings, toys, and baby items for a HUGE bargain. Much of it is very gently used and you can easily find name brands and designer brands. Super well organized and great for a budget. ❤️
I really enjoy your videos! My husband also loves those cookies from Wal-Mart. Imma have to make him these for sure! They look great! Thank you for praying for the people who watch your videos. I know I appreciate it very much! God Bless you and your family!
Follow up question about the "no jewelry" comment: Do Mennonites wear wedding rings? It has been a little while since I last watched your channel so I can't remember if you addressed this in another video. I grew up in western Pennsylvania so we didn't have as large of an Amish or Mennonite population as the Lancaster area (though I feel like it was more common to see Mennonites than Amish), but both communities had reputations for really good food and baked goods. 😊
I know you said those people aren’t bad but I’m just sitting here thinking..I’m the daughter of a very conservative Christian pastor, I’ve been a born again Christian for almost 40 years and I am currently sporting 3-4 inches of purple hair on my ends never considered myself bad because of the hair. Just having a little fun with color that makes me happy. God made lots of beautiful colors in this world for us to enjoy.
it's so interesting to me that the christians many perceive as the most "old-fashioned" are actually some of the most open minded and accepting. so many people claim to be religious, but cherry pick their beliefs. i appreciate your dedication, and even though i am jewish, it is really wholesome to see a family that knows that religion is a communal thing, but not a universal thing. to clarify what i mean: communal being that there's a time and a place to embrace religion publicly, while still keeping that personal connection when it is not necessary. not universal meaning that not everyone has to share the same beliefs and people don't need to be judgemental of those who have different ones.
I like to remember to explain that Christianity is a relationship rather than a religion; puts everything in perspective. Yes to teaching the littles not to be judgmental, especially by modeling it. Compassion for everyone.
I love everything you said about teaching your kids to accept those who are different rather than judging them. I am curious what you mean by "holy and set apart" because I've never heard that phrase before (I also grew up Christian, but roman catholic specifically)?
Scrubbing showers at night and got you chatting in my earbuds, makes it not feel like I’m actually doing chores you know. Ps, I’m the same way with my kids and not telling them people are “bad” etc. at this point I know that you don’t know why people are the way they are and we have so many preferences in what’s good and bad that vary so widely!
you´re a sunshine! Everytime Im feeling better after watching your vids! Keep on filming!!Im praying for your good heart and soul and for your family!🙏🌹
As far as the question about people modeling bad behavior in front of your children… I loved your answer to that. My daughter was about 5 years old when we were standing in a line outside to enter a swap meet. A few people ahead of us there was a guy that was smoking. People started to do the ‘fake cough’ and were giving him a hard time about how bad it was for him to be smoking and how bad it smelled etc. My daughter looked up at me and said “Mommy look, that bad guy up there is SMOKING and it smells so bad” For the next few days she brought up quite a few times how people who smoke are smelly and bad. This gave me a pit in my stomach that somehow I was not raising my daughter to be free of judgement and it ate at me for days. I prayed about and thought about it constantly. On our next ‘family night’ later that week I spent time explaining briefly about mild ‘sinning’ and bad habits like the man in line who was smoking. I told the kids that everybody does things differently than other people and as we have our own free agency we all will do things that others may find offensive or not that doesn’t align with what we do. Most importantly that we can’t cast judgment on those things because if everyone’s bad habits or sins had a smell to them then smoking would probably be more pleasant smelling than a lot of other habits or sins. This somehow resonated with the kids. My daughter at 13 came and asked me if I remembered the talk we had about judging people and the smell of bad habits. She said that she still thinks about that when she sees someone doing something she otherwise might think badly or judge them for. We do have so much impact on our children’s behaviors and their road ahead. You are so insightful as a young parent and I’m so grateful to see you guiding your children in such a positive direction. Well done.
Hi. You are an inspiration, thank you for sharing your life, faith, and beliefs. I was wondering if you have a link to your radio on your kitchen counter. I'm going to make your butterrmilk cookies for my family's Easter dinner.
One of my favorite low maintenance, but seems more put together main dishes is pulled pork. I season then sear a pork butt the night before and put it in the crockpot on low and let it cook all night. Shred it in the morning and put the meat and some of the juices back into the crock pot with a couple splashes of Dr pepper or any dark cola. It's sooo good! Also pork butts are super cheap at Sam's club!
This was an unexpected pleasure! Watched while I worked on a sewing project. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. May God continue to bless you as you serve Him. I pray for your sweet family as well. ❤️
I do remember being surprised as a young church kid learning that the word gospel meant "good news." 😬 Imparting the beauty of the lived experience of following Jesus will inspire a child's heart. Fear of "rules" can be overcome, why enter that mindset? Love love love your passion for not casting stones, can't wait for your in depth video on Mennonites 🕊
I love your outlook on good, bad, and "just different." As Christians, we are to live like and share Jesus. Not call, justify, or sanctify. When we try to do God's part, we will most likely push people further away rather than pull them closer to Christ.
I think it is wonderful that you separate the action or difference from the person. Our children will be so much better off if they learn that distinction from an early age.
New subscriber and love your video. You are so down to earth and open, plus following another Christian mom makes my heart happy. On the note you mentioned starting a thing for yourself that can make money, if you live home fragrance have you ever thought about being a scentsy consultant? I started it to give myself my own thing. Anywho when you made the comment in your video it reminded me of myself and wanted to ask.
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Your openness to other views and beliefs and how you are raising your children has really made me curious about religion. I was brought up atheist and have never been spiritual even though I've envied those with faith. I always thought Christians as closed minded, but you have really made me understand that it was my own prejudice that was the problem. I appreciate you and how open you are about your faith and not trying to shove it down anyones throat. You have definitely opened my eyes.
Even as a Christian I find myself turned off to the way that “the church” operates. It feels contrary to the truth of the religion itself. I’m with you in that Megan’s channel gives me a renewed interest in my own faith. ❤️ thanks for sharing a glimpse of your faith journey with the internet 🤗
I used to wonder the same about those who believed (and envied them for it) until years later my eyes and ears and most importantly, my heart were opened to God. My life has never been more fulfilling. God is not done with you yet Allie! I pray you keep listening to that tug 👍❤️
I'm Christian also, but not Mennonite. I'm a woman and I wear pants, but I don't wear short shorts or low cut tops. I also try to explain to my daughter that modesty is important with things like not wearing swimsuits that your stomach isn't covered.
I also explain that sometimes people things differently than we do and it's not necessarily wrong, just different.
I know a lot of people who don't go to church "because of all the hypocrites" I will say there definitely are hypocrites, but we are all imperfect and unfinished; I promise we will tell you what we believe and we'll get it wrong. I think as long as you admit that you got it wrong and try to do better your doing good. Progress not perfection!
I would encourage you to do some research on different denominations and just try it out. Visiting a church is totally fine and these days you can watch a ton of services online so you can build up to an in person visit.
Sorry this is so long, one more thing...even in one denomination churches can be very different. Some more traditional with organ music or no instruments and others with guitars and slide shows.
I'll pray for you to find the right path. Hope this was helpful
So glad you shared. If we believe Jesus is the Savior and have trusted him, then we need to keep our eyes on him. Church is a place where we should be able to go for help just like going to a hospital. People who really love and care for the things of God are there to help. Believe me there are some that go to church and that’s in all denominations that do not have a personal relationship with Jesus. I’m a Baptist and I also love Megan and how she share her believe, because she is not ashamed of being a Christian.
It takes way more faith to be an atheist. To think all of this came from a salt water lab.
I am a muslim stay at home mom with 3 kids since over 10 years. Lately I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with the loneliness and never ending sometimes quite impossible tasks that a mother has to deal with.
This channel feels godsend. I literally watch one of your videos for motivation during breakfast. I love how similar the muslim and christian faiths are when really concentrating on what the holy books say and not what all the preachers interpret it as.
Thank you for doing what you do and helping me get out of my depression with your smiling face and motivating words.
Love and prayers from Germany
I'm a Christian, too, and have a lifestyle similar to yours because of my relationship with Jesus. I really love that you are trying to teach your children not to label people "bad" simply because they are different.
The stuff you're saying about "good" and "bad" and what we teach our kids is bringing tears to my eyes. Thank you, Megan. Love you.
What your talking about at 8:41. I totally agree with. We attend a holiness church which seems similar to Mennonite in some ways. We also believe it’s important to be set apart and live a holy life. I think it’s sooo important to express to our children that the other people are not bad or that they should stay away because Jesus didn’t and he walked along side all the sinners and remained the same. You aren’t going to draw anyone to the Lord by looking down on people. Thanks for saying that!
On hosting, I don't know if it's your culture but I was raised to always alwayyyyyyyyyyys offer to help the hostess. My mom would rather disown me than seeing me chit-chatting idly while the hosts wash the dishes/put the table on 😂😂.
Now that I'm older I find it fun ! It's a kind of "thank you for having me" things.
Haha yes! I feel useless unless I’m helping in some capacity.
I agree and my girls have been taught to do the same...
That seems to be how most people are. In our home it was the opposite. NEVER, never have a guest clean. They are there to relax and enjoy the evening, not to wash dishes. There will be plenty of time to clean later. As Christians, it comes down to the same thing in these situations: where is the heart? Is it done because one sincerely wants to show love or does it just become fodder for gossip and a judging thing? When it is done with love, you don't care or aren't looking to see who else is doing what.
Oh yes, same here!!! I now do it all the time without thinking! 😁 Proud of my mama!!
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Megan, you are such a dear blessing to all who come here! I so appreciate your honesty and transparency, and most of all, your stand for God, modesty, Biblical principles, & your convictions. And you always do that in love. I hope you never change. You really encouraged me today. May God continually bless you and your sweet family and keep you close to Him and each other always. Sending love and hugs your way.
You just did a great job answering those questions! I think using “culture” to describe your Mennonite lifestyle! I loved it! The cookies are beautiful!♥️🙏🏼
I’m so blown away by your smart self!😀🤭 So good with words, so smart in your walk with God. I can’t tell you had a wonderful teacher ( your Mom)! I love the fact that you don’t discriminate or judge anyone. I was raised in a Holiness home and I too wear dresses, we don’t cut our hair, or wear pants, a lot like yourself. A bit different as far as learning to cook and brought up in passing down recipes in a culture. I love the fact that y’all are known for cooking and being brought up that way! I love how modest you are and I absolutely love to watch you and I’ve learned so much from you! You’re such a beautiful lady and family means so much to you!❤️🙌🏻❤️
Your dress is absolutely beautiful! Simple is sometimes best. What a beautiful memory of yourself, your mom, and grandmother sewing your dress.
Your children are blessed to have you as a mom ! I like your way of the thinking and approaching others .
Thanks for sharing your day with us! I am a 65 year old Baptist minister’s wife and I so relate to practicing hospitality in a simple style! You are such a blessing to watch, you have a beautiful spirit! I went through some anxiety in my 30’s and know how unpleasant it feels. Mine was temporary, and pray that yours is short lived! But I learned a lot of coping skills for life that I wouldn’t have if I hadn’t experienced it! Praying for you, and thanks for sharing your life❤️🙏❤️
I always appreciate your honesty and authenticity Megan! May you bear much fruit on this unique journey!
I so love your attitude and being honest about how you feel... and then also not just staying in the dumps but explaining how you get yourself moving again.
I also love the way you are teaching your kids that the way people live is just different, not bad... warms my heart as a pant-wearing, tattooed Christian 😛😘
It's a blessing to see someone who delights in the homemaking skills and teaching your children the proper views of others not like them.
I definitely agree with several of the things that you said ~~ first off, I also feel much more productive if I have an actual to do list of items that I want to get accomplished throughout the day. If I don't have stuff written down or planned I feel like I sit down on the couch and before you know it, the entire day has passed me by and I have literally gotten nothing done. Second, I really try not to look at things as being right or wrong, good or bad, but rather just different ways of approaching things. I am 57 years old and in my lifetime I have made some choices that I wish that I maybe had not made. But in my head I can hear my dad saying to me that people make mistakes; the important thing is to learn from those mistakes so that you don't make the same ones over and over again. Mistakes can be teaching moments. And as I sit here, I have a purplish pink color in my hair which I know goes against your religious beliefs. But I am a Christian and to me, it is just a color. I was diagnosed with stage 3 lymphoma (cancer) in November 2018 and in the first 4 months of 2019 I had to undergo 6 rounds of chemotherapy and I lost my hair. So when it finally grew back I decided to dye it a fun color and in November 2021 we went to Georgia for a family gathering so I thought that was the perfect opportunity. Would I do it again? Probably not. But I also don't regret it.
You’re a truth teller and healer. Thank you for sharing both trials and triumphs…you help a lot of people… and maybe even without knowing it💛
In Australia, 100s & 1000s (aka Nonpareils) on buttered bread is called "Fairy Bread". Very popular at children's parties. But it's also one my Dad's favourite foods - he's 95. LOL
Mmmmm fairy bread. I’m 35 and still enjoy fairy bread but has to be on fresh bread lol
haha we have psycho colored sprinkles here in the Netherlands as well called "hagelslag" (originaliteit hagelslag is chocolate) and we call it breakfast haha
I'm from Aus too - we usually have 100s and 1000s in the pantry, lots of people put them on bread with butter for their kids (fairy bread)
Check your iron levels. It’s amazing how low iron can cause anxiety & a few other symptoms you mentioned. Have your doctor do an iron panel, it’s your ferritin levels you need to know👍🏻
Yes! Your iron can be okay but ferritin low. My daughter developed pica and was eating soap. She was so embarrassed and thought she was losing her mind. Her ferritin level turned out to be dangerously low (even though initial iron was only borderline low). Doctor told her the pica and anxiety was a normal part of low ferritin. Once she was on iron it went away. So often we blame ourselves and outside circumstances for what is a physiological issue.
What a nice Monday treat!! Do I watch now or save for later....gotta watch now! 😄
Love your family Megan. Love what you stand for. Ty for your prayers. I pray for you as well.
Thank the lord for Mondays with Megan ! Best way to start my week :)
Teaching tolerance and acceptance of others to your children is a valuable lesson that will positively impact the person they become and how they treat others later in life. Good job 👏
Thank you for this open and beautifully said video! Just wanted to say my family and I have moved a lot due to my husband’s work. You are so right about the value of community!! I felt myself nodding in agreement so often in this discussion! Having people around is everything ❤️
It's amazing. When I am ever having a rough day, it seems you post a video. I appreciate how authentic you are and are not afraid to share who you are and your faith and your feeling about it. I am sure those of us who regularly watch your videos feel blessed to have this community. Have a wonderful day and those cookies look so good!
Wow! So glad I could be there for you in someway! I hope your day turned around just a little!
@@MeganFoxUnlocked It did. Plus the sun came out from behind the clouds. Made me feel loved!
Megan, I find you and your channel so refreshing. You are a precious soul and I thank you for sharing your family, faith and time with us. ☺️
It was so fun to hear you answer my question!! Loved this video!
I really appreciate your outlook on not casting stones at people different than you. I am Roman Catholic and I could not agree more! I try to teach my daughter the same. Jesus hung out with people from all different walks of life so we shouldn’t be afraid to either. Just because we choose to live our lives differently doesn’t mean we can’t love our neighbor. Especially among other Christian denominations we have so much in common with each other I don’t think we should focus on the differences so much. We can learn so much from people who are different from us. Sometimes I have in depth religious talks with friends who are different religions or non religious and honestly it strengthens my faith for me to know why I believe what I do and to understand other points of view. 💜 wish more people felt the same.
It’s so sad when parents teach their children that anyone different then they are not “good.” You’re raising judgmental obnoxious racist adults.
It’s nice to hear those who teach their children to respect everyone’s choices and religion!!!!
Thank you for your openness. 🌷💐🌸
I would LOVE to see a story time of your wedding! I've been wanting to hear about it!
Kids getting sick is definitely tiring and difficult! Another GREAT video and everything was so well said!
I’m so impressed that the icing-cookie ratio was perfect! Lol
I’d be the most sad about dancing! It’s the best expression and really boosts my happiness
The Bible actually talks about dancing. Saying there is a time to Mourn and a time to dance
I’m a long time subscriber but don’t recall posting at all. I’m originally from central PA. My father was a pastor and have a very Dutchy childhood. While we were not Anabaptist, my dad knew sects by coverings and my ancestry is heavily Swiss Mennonite. I have been gone from PA almost 30 yrs now and I am still as homesick as I was in my early days here. Watching you frost your sugar cakes reminds me of spending time with my PA friend, Joyce, who was a young mom when I was a newlywed. God bless you Megan. You are a sweet soul and so refreshing from what I see elsewhere on social media.
I just found you today and you touched my heart with your good vs. bad conversation. I love the way you speak on that! Being from Lancaster County myself, I see the stigma here and it foes both ways. So thankful to hear your point of view!
In Finland, each couple receives a "baby box" with things in it they'll need for a new baby and the box is the cradle! I love that idea! As well, your baby names must be approved in Finland! Thanks, Megan. Great video!
I love her sincerity and way of thinking. Her wedding dress was beautiful. ❤
I just found this channel and never followed anyone before I finish a video but I did with you. There something about your vibe I love ❤️
You are a ray of sunshine. I so appreciate the way you are not ashamed of your relationship with Christ, and your portrayal of Him. Thank you for sharing. Love and prayers.
Really really loved this! You are an incredible representation of the Kingdom-- to your children, RUclips, and your community. The Lord Bless you.
I love hearing about your life as a Mennonite! I really had very little knowledge of Mennonites (I thought you all were very similar to Amish) until I saw many Mennonites at the Ark Experience last year. Most of the Mennonites there had all homemade matching dresses for the moms and daughters and the boys matched the dads. It was so cute! Everyone looked so nice, and my curiosity was piqued. That's how I found your channel, and I have absolutely loved hearing all about your life and beliefs, and as a Christian, I don't see any differences at all, except I don't wear the hair covering (though honestly I'd like to, but everyone would make fun of me). Thanks so much for your videos!
You are such a blessing. Truly. That's what I thought while listening to this. I just love that you pray for your viewers. And I love how encouraging you are. Thank you for all you do.
You said something awhile ago about you having a goal for your “essence” be in line with the Bible. I love this and your videos encourage me to be what God has called me to be. Thank you 🙏🏽 💕🙏🏽 I pray your anxiety eases.
Your Channel is good for my soul!! Love that I can have something to watch that feeds me spiritually!! ❤
Thank you for this recipe. I have lived in Lancaster Pa my whole life and always loved these cookies. I'm definitely going to be making them this weekend. I feel you about men/babies being sick.
Ahh! This is my first time to visit your channel & it’s just very wholesome. You’re cooking and casually talking to your friends about how you try to raise your kids to have good character & to love Jesus.
Beautiful wedding dress. The pictures are great! I love your chats on your channel ❤️ thank you so much for sharing!
Love, love, love your heart for sharing. 💗 You are always so gracious in your responses! My heart always kind of hurts when people phrase the question as "What are you not allowed to do?" or "What can you not do?" because that's not how we see it. It makes me wonder if people believe that we begrudgingly obey? and I want them to know that that's not what the Lord is after. He is after our affectionate obedience. I am overwhelmed by the Lord's grace and love, therefore I obey. And it's also out of a loving trust that God who created all things knows FAR better than I how to live life than I do with my very finite knowledge. All the boundaries are for His glory, and our good. I trust that, therefore I obey. So instead of viewing it as something that we lack because we don't do certain things, I wish everyone could see that within those boundaries is great freedom. Psalm 16:6 is one of my favorites about the lines falling in pleasant places for us. Anyways, just a thought I had while watching and wanted to share! 🤣
You encourage me to keep going as a house wife. I wasn’t raised religious but recently found Christianity. Following people like you makes me know I’m on the right path. God brought me you.
I think your way of life is wonderful and inspiring, and the world would be a better place if more people followed your example. And your wedding dress was absolutely lovely. Enjoy your videos a lot!
We didn't do Halloween either with our kids (after the oldest turned 3 and we had come to a better understanding of our convictions). It has made for very interesting discussions as the children are now young adults.
Also, I know what you mean about "stressed out" when you want everything to be nice for guests. It seems like a negative connotation but I really understand- with any type of hospitality, it is just that the stakes are high because you want everyone to enjoy themselves and have good memories of the experience. But it's okay to feel that, and it doesn't mean you don't want to do it. I personally believe that anyone who doesn't feel a little like that probably has a staff to get it all done! (e.g. Martha Stewart)😀
I like to think of “situational anxiety” as God’s caffeine 🤣
I think a good explanation for different ways of doing things when children are young is, “That is how some people do things, but this how Mama and Daddy decided we will do things in our family.” As they grow, explanations can grow in complexity and depth.
Your wedding dress was beautiful!! You two looked like babies😘😍🤩
Thank you for being non judgemental, just because someone has purple hair/tattoos/wear jewelry doesn't make them a bad person, or if they have a bad habit such as smoking. Your helping your kids understand the difference in a bad habit versus bad person. We love Halloween and im in healthcare with some purple hair, i absolutely love caring for others. I just discovered your channel and although we have a difference in religion and views i still not only respect but love learning on your beliefs. Im gonna have to try your recipes and tips ad well❤
You’re a sweetheart! Thank you for taking the time to ‘chat’ with us! ❤️
I’m so glad you learned how to navigate RUclips. I often think of starting a channel, but end up feeling really intimidated by all there is to learn. Maybe one day I will step out! 😉
Always a great day when I get a notification of a new video from your channel. Keep sharing your faith and encouraging other ladies.
100% on planning to be productive. I make a to do list before bed, so I don't struggle sleeping trying to remember everything I need to do tomorrow.
I grew up in a Christian Church organization that was rules based but the community and family fellowship was priceless. I'm still Christian and church attending but not organization based. I'm very thankful for the community teachings I received and don't regret it. I grew up modest. No pants or shorts, we didn't mix swim, dance and didn't attend sporting events or didn't go to functions where alcohol was at. I rode horses with a dress on and long shorts underneath, I'd help on our farm doing chores and hating in the fields with my brothers and father. Priceless.
I loved your wedding dress style, it's beautiful. I hope you kept it for Vonnie.
I always watch your vids when I go for my afternoon nap, I’m a 55 yr old grandma and love an afternoon nap. You have a lovely way of delivering what ever your topic Is. Best wishes from the U.K.
wow, megan, just discovered your channel - you're one of the nicest people i've seen on youtube so far, and i'm looking forward to following your journey! :) have a blessed palm sunday!
I come from a Holiness background and grew up very similar to you. I am so thankful for how I was raised and am trying to raise my children similarly!
I pray for you and your family, also! Thank you for being in my life!
My first video of yours a few years back was the about you and you said “yes my name is really Megan fox” 😆 you were adorable then and you are still adorable now
Wedding story. Yes!! PS . Your dress is lovely :)
I just found your channel and found you super sweet and have a great personality. I appreciate how you are open about your life and gave me a glimpse in an unknown area. Keep up the great work and spreading joy.
Megan you’re my favorite creator ❤️ you shine through your videos! You make us the viewers feel like friends! Thanks for this fun video!
I also can’t wait for your clothing line to drop with inherit co!! I’ll be all the shopping!
I absolutely love your videos! Today has been a bit tough. No motivation, headache, and just a bit drowsy and pregnant so it’s been tough today but while watching this video I got motivation and my mood improved 😊
I love the chatty videos!!! :) Do Mennonite’s have food allergies? 😂 I feel like this sounds silly but i love hosting and all my friends have allergies or food restrictions. Either no gluten or dairy or sugar or peanuts. Or it needs to be local grass fed organic meat 🤣 So I feel like it makes hosting more difficult or at least more expensive. I’ve noticed most Mennonite cooking is much more relaxed when it comes to that 😂 Do you ever run into that with hosting?
Great question!
Mennonite mom here who's daughter can't have dairy. When going away, I take my daughter's food. I don't expect the hostess to cater to that need. There's usually give and take... As hostess sometimes choosing to accommodate if you know, but also as the one with the food allergy expecting to provide for yourself or your child.
Yes, occasionally! It's so hard when it comes to that. Consider a make your own bar of some kind. Like a taco bar, or nourish bowl, even a cold cut sandwish bar? It does make things more complicated though. In the mennonite community veganism or vegetarianism is not common so that makes things a little easier!
@@MeganFoxUnlocked taco bar is a great idea!!!! Thank you!!!! 🖤
Your wedding pictures are so beautiful. Your wedding dress and covering were so beautiful. You were a beautiful bride!Thank you for your prayers. 🙏 ❤ ♥
Always lifts my sprits when I watch your channel. ❤️❤️ Goodness and health to you and your loved ones!
the one cookie smothered under the bowl is making me laugh so hard
You know what Megan , despite the fact that I don’t agree with you on a lot of topics I appreciate the way you try not to judge others. Whether or not they are Christian or not, Mennonite or not and religious or not.
Im in Australia too...thought that sprinkles container looked familiar! Those cookies 😍😋
For the young lady who is having her first baby, congratulations!!! Please try to enjoy this time! You’ll do lots of things right, you’ll do some things wrong, and your baby will be okay! Take care of yourself. As for baby needs on a budget, find your closest ONCE UPON A CHILD. It’s a second hand store for babies and kids…they have clothes, furnishings, toys, and baby items for a HUGE bargain. Much of it is very gently used and you can easily find name brands and designer brands. Super well organized and great for a budget. ❤️
I like your view of things. Your open while still maintaining your beliefs. Too bad all people can't be that way.
I really enjoy your videos! My husband also loves those cookies from Wal-Mart. Imma have to make him these for sure! They look great! Thank you for praying for the people who watch your videos. I know I appreciate it very much! God Bless you and your family!
Follow up question about the "no jewelry" comment: Do Mennonites wear wedding rings? It has been a little while since I last watched your channel so I can't remember if you addressed this in another video.
I grew up in western Pennsylvania so we didn't have as large of an Amish or Mennonite population as the Lancaster area (though I feel like it was more common to see Mennonites than Amish), but both communities had reputations for really good food and baked goods. 😊
I know you said those people aren’t bad but I’m just sitting here thinking..I’m the daughter of a very conservative Christian pastor, I’ve been a born again Christian for almost 40 years and I am currently sporting 3-4 inches of purple hair on my ends never considered myself bad because of the hair. Just having a little fun with color that makes me happy. God made lots of beautiful colors in this world for us to enjoy.
it's so interesting to me that the christians many perceive as the most "old-fashioned" are actually some of the most open minded and accepting. so many people claim to be religious, but cherry pick their beliefs. i appreciate your dedication, and even though i am jewish, it is really wholesome to see a family that knows that religion is a communal thing, but not a universal thing. to clarify what i mean: communal being that there's a time and a place to embrace religion publicly, while still keeping that personal connection when it is not necessary. not universal meaning that not everyone has to share the same beliefs and people don't need to be judgemental of those who have different ones.
Your wedding photo's are beautiful, I look forward to your videos each week and really enjoy watching your lovely family. All the best from the UK xx
I like to remember to explain that Christianity is a relationship rather than a religion; puts everything in perspective. Yes to teaching the littles not to be judgmental, especially by modeling it. Compassion for everyone.
I love everything you said about teaching your kids to accept those who are different rather than judging them. I am curious what you mean by "holy and set apart" because I've never heard that phrase before (I also grew up Christian, but roman catholic specifically)?
Scrubbing showers at night and got you chatting in my earbuds, makes it not feel like I’m actually doing chores you know. Ps, I’m the same way with my kids and not telling them people are “bad” etc. at this point I know that you don’t know why people are the way they are and we have so many preferences in what’s good and bad that vary so widely!
Listening to you is always good for my soul. Love the kitchen chats
you´re a sunshine! Everytime Im feeling better after watching your vids! Keep on filming!!Im praying for your good heart and soul and for your family!🙏🌹
I enjoy your chitchats :) And today I am 60 years old and watching your video on my birthday because it makes me happy :)
As far as the question about people modeling bad behavior in front of your children… I loved your answer to that. My daughter was about 5 years old when we were standing in a line outside to enter a swap meet. A few people ahead of us there was a guy that was smoking. People started to do the ‘fake cough’ and were giving him a hard time about how bad it was for him to be smoking and how bad it smelled etc. My daughter looked up at me and said “Mommy look, that bad guy up there is SMOKING and it smells so bad” For the next few days she brought up quite a few times how people who smoke are smelly and bad. This gave me a pit in my stomach that somehow I was not raising my daughter to be free of judgement and it ate at me for days. I prayed about and thought about it constantly. On our next ‘family night’ later that week I spent time explaining briefly about mild ‘sinning’ and bad habits like the man in line who was smoking. I told the kids that everybody does things differently than other people and as we have our own free agency we all will do things that others may find offensive or not that doesn’t align with what we do. Most importantly that we can’t cast judgment on those things because if everyone’s bad habits or sins had a smell to them then smoking would probably be more pleasant smelling than a lot of other habits or sins. This somehow resonated with the kids. My daughter at 13 came and asked me if I remembered the talk we had about judging people and the smell of bad habits. She said that she still thinks about that when she sees someone doing something she otherwise might think badly or judge them for. We do have so much impact on our children’s behaviors and their road ahead. You are so insightful as a young parent and I’m so grateful to see you guiding your children in such a positive direction. Well done.
Hi. You are an inspiration, thank you for sharing your life, faith, and beliefs. I was wondering if you have a link to your radio on your kitchen counter. I'm going to make your butterrmilk cookies for my family's Easter dinner.
Oh my gosh - I love your channel and your transparency. I very much relate to you. Thanks for this awesome content!
One of my favorite low maintenance, but seems more put together main dishes is pulled pork. I season then sear a pork butt the night before and put it in the crockpot on low and let it cook all night. Shred it in the morning and put the meat and some of the juices back into the crock pot with a couple splashes of Dr pepper or any dark cola. It's sooo good! Also pork butts are super cheap at Sam's club!
We usually make coleslaw to go with it the night before as well!
I love Q&As to listen to as I work around the house!!! 😍😍
I live in Lancaster County and i always talking about how much just by living here we are influenced by amish and mennonite without even knowing.
That's so true! For good or for bad too I guess!
This was an unexpected pleasure! Watched while I worked on a sewing project. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. May God continue to bless you as you serve Him. I pray for your sweet family as well. ❤️
I do remember being surprised as a young church kid learning that the word gospel meant "good news." 😬 Imparting the beauty of the lived experience of following Jesus will inspire a child's heart. Fear of "rules" can be overcome, why enter that mindset? Love love love your passion for not casting stones, can't wait for your in depth video on Mennonites 🕊
that candle under the cabinet gives me anxiety haha
I love your outlook on good, bad, and "just different." As Christians, we are to live like and share Jesus. Not call, justify, or sanctify. When we try to do God's part, we will most likely push people further away rather than pull them closer to Christ.
My family isn't Mennonite, but very similarly Pa Dutch. Your channel is refreshing & uplifting!
I think it is wonderful that you separate the action or difference from the person. Our children will be so much better off if they learn that distinction from an early age.
New subscriber and love your video. You are so down to earth and open, plus following another Christian mom makes my heart happy.
On the note you mentioned starting a thing for yourself that can make money, if you live home fragrance have you ever thought about being a scentsy consultant?
I started it to give myself my own thing. Anywho when you made the comment in your video it reminded me of myself and wanted to ask.