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Комментарии • 448

  • @mhenderson3407
    @mhenderson3407 9 месяцев назад +784

    Love seeing Black men talk about loving their wives! Beautiful!

    • @changetocome100
      @changetocome100 8 месяцев назад +15

      I need THIS to be black culture; will the real leaders please stand up!!!

    • @intentionalparenting2605
      @intentionalparenting2605 8 месяцев назад +3

      Me too. It’s so fulfilling ❤

    • @TheJarlath9
      @TheJarlath9 7 месяцев назад +4

      😂😂😂😂 imagine not cheating on your wife being a profound statement. Im here like dont cheat on anyone

    • @damon3347
      @damon3347 7 месяцев назад +1

      Right on amen.

    • @Mrs.704
      @Mrs.704 4 месяца назад

      @@TheJarlath9Exactly. Not cheating should be the bare minimum.

  • @ronnitv1537
    @ronnitv1537 9 месяцев назад +524

    Women want to be loved out loud like this ❤ praying to get here with a spouse one day

  • @thedolphe
    @thedolphe 8 месяцев назад +178

    So refreshing to see. I think that I am a unicorn sometimes because I don't cheat on my wife. Aint no holding back sex. Going to bed mad. No propositioning other women. She knows that she is loved and respected.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 9 месяцев назад +423

    Tim's conversation with that young lady BROKE MY HEART because HOW MANY OTHER PASTORS had PREYED UPON HER instead of PRAYING FOR HER!!! 😱🤬😭💔

    • @TiTaughtYou
      @TiTaughtYou 9 месяцев назад +12

      This was sooooooo real smh 😢

    • @TheDjGrateful
      @TheDjGrateful 8 месяцев назад +4

      Just sad

    • @nunyabusiness3516
      @nunyabusiness3516 8 месяцев назад +5

      Him feeling the need to tell her that was cringey and inappropriate. Let that be your truth and your ACTIONS, you don't need to say that. If that was me, I would have left.

    • @deelosupreme5630
      @deelosupreme5630 8 месяцев назад +27

      @@nunyabusiness3516I feel you
      However remember Tim said the Holy Spirit told him to say that. It’s what the young lady needed to hear & see it.

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 8 месяцев назад

      @@deelosupreme5630 - My thoughts exactly yet I also respect where @nunyabusiness3516 is coming from.
      Due to how she received it I feel as though it was confirmation him saying it was Holy Ghost led. 🙏🏾

  • @Grace4thislife
    @Grace4thislife 9 месяцев назад +646

    I was literally drinking Grape Juice when Tim said I’m not trading my wife(wine) for grape juice 😳🤦🏾‍♀️🫤😐🤣

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab 9 месяцев назад +428

    We NEED this example and conversation more! Men talking the talk and walking the walk ❤

    • @humbleDAD
      @humbleDAD 9 месяцев назад +4

      Be faithful!!

    • @stclarewalters9168
      @stclarewalters9168 8 месяцев назад +7

      These are the conversations to be had all 2024. Stop talking about tables please!

  • @KennethClark-fc4zz
    @KennethClark-fc4zz 7 месяцев назад +33

    Y’all brothas gotta know how important this conversation is for young men like me to hear. This is golden

  • @delanbarnes2083
    @delanbarnes2083 9 месяцев назад +158

    “I been with six different women” as she changed and grew etc.. that’s deep if more people could think on this level! Whoah

  • @1All-TimeAuntie
    @1All-TimeAuntie 9 месяцев назад +415

    They say
    Bees don't spend time explaining to flies why honey is better than shit

    • @thasfun
      @thasfun 8 месяцев назад +4

      Oooooooo I needed to read this. ❤

    • @Stayret
      @Stayret 8 месяцев назад +2

      Honey!!!!!!!! That touched my soul❤❤❤

    • @matsepomofokeng6344
      @matsepomofokeng6344 8 месяцев назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @prclark072
      @prclark072 7 месяцев назад +2

      😂 Thank you for putting this in my mental rolodex ❤

    • @msroz9804
      @msroz9804 7 месяцев назад

      Listennn!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @AuntieSenSen
    @AuntieSenSen 8 месяцев назад +97

    This video needs to be broadcasted everywhere. Gods way in marriage is the only way.

  • @shortgurlfitness
    @shortgurlfitness 9 месяцев назад +256

    When Kev has a word he has a word🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬

  • @britneymixon8990
    @britneymixon8990 8 месяцев назад +92

    This was sooooo good!!! I just had a convo with my bestfriend about my abstinence. I told her the next time I have sex I want it to be with my husband so I can express outwardly how that person makes me feel emotionally. Sex outside of marriage is overrated in my opinion.

    • @lexxthegreatt
      @lexxthegreatt 8 месяцев назад +14

      Very overrated

    • @mzmyla
      @mzmyla 7 месяцев назад +7

      Very overrated. I was abstinent for 4 years before I met my husband and it was the best decision ever. We both practiced abstinence while courting and waited until marriage. It’s worth the wait!

  • @thesportsperspective1818
    @thesportsperspective1818 9 месяцев назад +81

    And cheating takes away that safety, security, trust etc from the bedroom, also how you treat your wife impacts those things. Men want to cheat and mistreat and still get sex.

    • @christiangamer3669
      @christiangamer3669 8 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah they do

    • @yellej3314
      @yellej3314 8 месяцев назад

      Theres women who aren't here anymore or struggling with their health because their husband decided to cheat & bring home HIV.

    • @thetwudu3706
      @thetwudu3706 7 месяцев назад +5

      The thought of allowing someone to touch me after infidelity makes my skin crawl

    • @laquamartin4602
      @laquamartin4602 7 месяцев назад +1

      In My Experience You Are Absolutely Correct.

  • @relentless-mg2vw
    @relentless-mg2vw 9 месяцев назад +133

    This deserves All the views and more than Katt Williams on Club Shay Shay. Great content!

  • @madeinhisimage9277
    @madeinhisimage9277 9 месяцев назад +90

    Please God let me have this kind of love!

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 9 месяцев назад +2

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @karabrooks9091
    @karabrooks9091 9 месяцев назад +67

    I needed this. God is preparing me for my marriage, and this was helpful!

    • @ladytinag4276
      @ladytinag4276 9 месяцев назад +4

      These men exist. I have one 😊❤. Yours is one the way.

  • @Bsharpnotflat
    @Bsharpnotflat 9 месяцев назад +57

    I have no social media but I can relate to this. After making a vowel in front of witnesses to be faithful to one woman(wife) until I die, I stand on it! Self-Discipline is one of my best qualities, and my word is all I have. Man up, woman up or dont get into any commitments long-term, especially marriage. Know who you are and what your role in a marriage. If we control our minds, followed by our hearts, we can control our bodies. Also, we can control what goes into our ears and comes out of our mouth. If you know nothing, you can't teach anything. Good day to you all.

    • @unpredictable244
      @unpredictable244 9 месяцев назад +1

      I love this. Blessings to you and your wife!!

    • @nynyjohnson1
      @nynyjohnson1 8 месяцев назад

      Love this advice!❤

    • @LadyArielle
      @LadyArielle 8 месяцев назад

      I say this all the time. Self-Control & Integrity are priorities BEFORE you make a covenant. If you lack either, don’t Vow to GOD or a spouse. Immature people excuses. Mature ones keep their word. Teach it Brother‼️

  • @ConradDeas
    @ConradDeas 9 месяцев назад +49

    Truth!
    This why I used to hate when I heard people say “you have to do what you did in the beginning” when we’re not the same person and not married to the same person.
    And for me, I was terrible in the beginning so I can’t go back to being that guy 😂.

  • @righteousmasculine
    @righteousmasculine 8 месяцев назад +23

    Man I love this.I’m single and 37. I talk to GOD all the time and I try not to even look at random women I speak and treat them nice but that’s it. I’ve been in the grocery store and the gym and I’ve literally had women come in front of me while I was working out and bend over to get weights I’ve had women in stores flirt with their eyes and try to come close to me ain’t none of that worth it to me I want my future wife to be secure knowing that I’m for her and only her

    • @nelliediemo
      @nelliediemo 6 месяцев назад +1

      So so great 😊

  • @Thompson42223
    @Thompson42223 9 месяцев назад +46

    Whewwww!! I thank you, Lord for my husband!!! He is a man that knows how to lead, PROPERLY, not “PERFECTLY” I love my husband so much! This is the type of conversation s that he and I have. I’ve never had that before and I thank him second to God for being patient with teaching me!! Thank you, Jesus!! Spiritual Growth and Guidance is needed in all marriages!! ❤️🙏🏽

  • @MeshaIngram
    @MeshaIngram 8 месяцев назад +20

    All I have to say is THANK YOU!!! How wonderful it is to hear 2 men talking about how they LOVE their wives and being married.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Di-hk1qk
    @Di-hk1qk 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you brothers for letting me see there is still men in this world that is committed to having a faithful committed relationship with one partner...so deep and inspiring for me..Thank you.

  • @TiTaughtYou
    @TiTaughtYou 9 месяцев назад +23

    I’m single-and y’all discussing this was my favorite part of the show! We need more men to understand this (and stay out our DMs 😩)!! Keep your paletes on the finer things in life gents! EXCELLENT analogy. 🍷❤

  • @AceKINGME24
    @AceKINGME24 8 месяцев назад +14

    That wine analogy was 🔥🔥🔥

  • @saraw7050
    @saraw7050 9 месяцев назад +67

    I absolutely adored this whole conversation yesterday! It is so encouraging!

  • @ijustluv2listen
    @ijustluv2listen 7 месяцев назад +3

    This is sooo refreshing!!! Grown Men having Grown Men conversations 🥰

  • @lexy231
    @lexy231 8 месяцев назад +19

    I gave up on relationships. I just watch everyone else be happy. 7 years in. 90 more to go

  • @vetgirl71
    @vetgirl71 8 месяцев назад +16

    I have been married for 40 years and definitely can relate when they said that your marriage transitions through the years , because you both change to different human beings which is a healthy part of life. Sometimes the other person can’t relate to their partner, because they don’t want them to grow or evolve which translates to getting divorced or worst cheating. But those of us who stay together & respect our spouse and gracefully embrace their progress have successful long term relationships. 😊❤️

    • @KT-pw1cq
      @KT-pw1cq 7 месяцев назад

      Glad I have this growth mindset. Hopefully one day I’ll find someone who will do the same

  • @tierramonique
    @tierramonique 9 месяцев назад +102

    " we divorced ourselves from the marriage that no longer worked" 🔥🔥🔥

    • @amaram7169
      @amaram7169 9 месяцев назад +14

      From the version of our marriage that no longer works... Barssss

    • @afletcher257
      @afletcher257 9 месяцев назад +7

      W A I T ! ? WHAT !?!?
      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
      That one line is going to save some marriages out here !

    • @talaeperry6430
      @talaeperry6430 7 месяцев назад

      So how do you determine if it’s worth fixing? We quit so easily on marriage

    • @talaeperry6430
      @talaeperry6430 7 месяцев назад

      See most marriages take 15 plus years to really get and we quit after 6 or my ex wife quit after 9

  • @jaayeee24
    @jaayeee24 9 месяцев назад +21

    This is great content brothers. I’m 11 years in the game…faithful and focused! 💯

  • @norellenunn9111
    @norellenunn9111 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you guys for the maturity of this conversation. Wish more brothers could level up.

  • @tanyshajackson4037
    @tanyshajackson4037 9 месяцев назад +49

    That young lady’s story is my story and God has restored .. thank you Lord 😢

  • @tamirajohnellestyle
    @tamirajohnellestyle 9 месяцев назад +22

    I absolutely love everything about this. Each of them have solid characters. It makes sense that they’re with excellent women. They match their character.

  • @Ladytiffanyr
    @Ladytiffanyr 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’m getting married in December and I am hoping, praying and working towards my marriage being like this.

  • @CallmeLucy81
    @CallmeLucy81 7 месяцев назад +6

    It warms my soul to hear black men speaking like this about their wives. Warms me to the core.

  • @dgkincy
    @dgkincy 9 месяцев назад +15

    WOW😮, this is "THE BEST" honest, direct, passionate conversation I've heard about commitment, sacrifice, discipline, integrity, trust, covenant, wisdom, obedience to God regarding HIS COVENANT CALLED MARRIAGE❤❤❤❤❤❤👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿! I am sharing this with a "whole lot" of men who I know!!!! God's peace, blessing, and love👍🏿!

  • @InterRecruit
    @InterRecruit 8 месяцев назад +9

    God, bless these gentlemen so they can reach out to more brothers with this powerful message.
    Amen 🙏🏿

  • @SanMan0407
    @SanMan0407 8 месяцев назад +12

    Totally agree! The feeling of having sex without the condemnation was so free and wonderful! Thank God for sending me my wife!

  • @mariahh6309
    @mariahh6309 7 месяцев назад +6

    Singles edtions : I am somebody's fine wine. I will not allow anyone to treat me like grape juice lol We are worth the wait!

  • @MaryKayPinkLady24
    @MaryKayPinkLady24 8 месяцев назад +4

    You said it-VALUE!!!!!!!!!! It's very easy to tear up and leave something that is not deemed valuable. God bless y'all!

  • @charleshenry8194
    @charleshenry8194 9 месяцев назад +18

    I mean what I said when I made these vows. I have made the decision that there is not another option.I agree and I just got married two months ago. This is such a great clip that more men need to hear. So many Christian men cheat and think it’s ok.

    • @flourishorji6681
      @flourishorji6681 8 месяцев назад

      It's not okay for Christain men to cheat! It's an abomination!

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love this. Everyone cheats for void. And boredom . And mainly disrespect. For one, cheating on a person is just disrespect not just what you’ve invested but what you have disrespected.

  • @cgheart123
    @cgheart123 8 месяцев назад +13

    Also, cheating on your spouse leads to burning in a fiery bottomless abyss forever and forever, that's a good reason too.

  • @MsTonJon
    @MsTonJon 8 месяцев назад +5

    RESPECT TO THESE MEN. GOD BLESS YA’LL

  • @CrowdSpectator24
    @CrowdSpectator24 8 месяцев назад +3

    "so you're always finding each other." -Kev ...From a poetic standpoint, that's a beautiful perspective.

  • @ChefG55
    @ChefG55 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was sooo good Men of God these conversations are so needed thank you for your truths & realness.. 🙏🏾👏🏾

  • @danzellsayles2555
    @danzellsayles2555 9 месяцев назад +33

    Tbh I’m not the biggest supporter of Tim Ross, but this is a really good healthy real convo. Props👏🏽

  • @raedene3
    @raedene3 8 месяцев назад +6

    👏👏👏👏👏. Thank you for doing this for the community. We need more positive black male role models like y'all flooding the web and not the debased crap we're dished out telling us to devalue ourselves and good men if character don't exist!

  • @brandijames8635
    @brandijames8635 9 месяцев назад +5

    This is made me run around my house!! A word!! Thank you Tim and Kevin!! This was an amazing interview and very insightful!

  • @MagnoliaMolasses
    @MagnoliaMolasses 3 месяца назад

    This is one of the most honest and mature conversations between men of God, pertaining to marriage, I’ve ever….. EVER been privy to hear. Soooo seasoned with flat out wisdom.

  • @brittanysherida
    @brittanysherida 8 месяцев назад +8

    Been a fan of kev from marriage be hard. But hearing the integrity of how he interacts with female employees made me a bigger fan

  • @tretre4u72
    @tretre4u72 26 дней назад

    I wish there were more men who had a moral compass and integrity and honor… thanks brothers for being that man! Your wives are truly blessed

  • @kenyaparmes1544
    @kenyaparmes1544 7 месяцев назад

    What a POWERFUL conversation!! I’m so encouraged! Thanks men of God!

  • @charleasaj1322
    @charleasaj1322 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is DEEP! WELL SAID!!!!
    These men have said it better than anyone could ever explain❤❤

  • @bessiesimmonsmusic1368
    @bessiesimmonsmusic1368 6 месяцев назад +2

    😭Your the first Pastor that has not tried to have sex with me. This is scary!! I am so glad that young lady found a safe place🙌

  • @dhalixina
    @dhalixina 3 месяца назад

    This is HOPE right here. Priceless. I wish this for everyone 🙏🏼

  • @JerubbaalgodSlayer
    @JerubbaalgodSlayer 8 месяцев назад +2

    Right! Y’all know you got it good with the wives you have. Glad to hear you understand that! 👏🏾👏🏾Nuff respect to y’all. ✊🏼✊🏽

  • @millafontenot
    @millafontenot 7 месяцев назад

    Sending this to my hubby now! We are 22 years in, this is so goood❤

  • @ashleygarrett4087
    @ashleygarrett4087 7 месяцев назад +1

    Needed to hear this. Glad God brought me here 🙏

  • @jeroneanthonytyler
    @jeroneanthonytyler 6 месяцев назад

    Absolutely 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    Thanks for locking in, Kings!

  • @Ms.ERICA.
    @Ms.ERICA. 8 месяцев назад +1

    Yall betta SAY THAT. These are words of wisdom. What is understood does not need to be explained.

  • @mrjay3047
    @mrjay3047 8 месяцев назад +2

    Dope analogy. Awesome conversation.

  • @iainthavenit
    @iainthavenit 8 месяцев назад +1

    My GOD! I LOVE THIS! My Prayer is that every couple with have this bliss with each other!❤

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 9 месяцев назад +7

    This was a really good conversation! I can relate to Kev about the sex before marriage subject.

  • @jessembrace5320
    @jessembrace5320 9 месяцев назад +6

    This conversation straight bars 🎯

  • @thearaward6112
    @thearaward6112 7 месяцев назад

    This conversation is so refreshing! God bless you!

  • @tiffathome
    @tiffathome 8 месяцев назад +8

    "We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."

    • @amcwal911
      @amcwal911 8 месяцев назад +1

      This made me want to run around my air bnb! Jesus!

  • @lynepascale3998
    @lynepascale3998 8 месяцев назад +3

    We need moooore of these kind of podcasts. I loooove this

  • @PiperZeus
    @PiperZeus 8 месяцев назад +2

    "We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."
    Wooo! That's a whole word right there! And I love how it enforces the idea that "it's us against the problem, and never us against each other."

  • @nellymakokha5683
    @nellymakokha5683 7 месяцев назад

    The depth of your wisdom is on another level 🔥

  • @freezethegreat1
    @freezethegreat1 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was a real Man convo, 💯

  • @ThatGirl92510
    @ThatGirl92510 8 месяцев назад +1

    Came upon this podcast and glad I did. Really enjoyed this conversation!

  • @Honor.Rebel77
    @Honor.Rebel77 8 месяцев назад +1

    This convention did my heart good!!!

  • @TheUnimini1127
    @TheUnimini1127 8 месяцев назад +2

    Standing Ovation!!!👏🏾 this is a WORD

  • @mace__face
    @mace__face 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for putting the 'cigarette moments' first in the video. it's the ultimate podcast hook.

  • @ChipDizard
    @ChipDizard 7 месяцев назад

    Wow this is so good. I have learned this for sure. Mistakes and all and I'm on my second marriage and knowledge is power. Thanks fellas for speaking on this so eloquently.

  • @mariabell7648
    @mariabell7648 9 месяцев назад +2

    This needed to be a longer segment. It blessed me.

  • @jolleystudioz
    @jolleystudioz 9 месяцев назад +13

    I love seeing you both together ❤

  • @PaulaJae_JusEnjoyinLife
    @PaulaJae_JusEnjoyinLife 9 месяцев назад +8

    Loved all 3+ hrs of this!

  • @Loveit45
    @Loveit45 6 месяцев назад +2

    So real men do exist. Whew thank God

  • @lavashawatson1674
    @lavashawatson1674 7 месяцев назад

    The strength of something that grows stronger!!!😮‍💨❤️

  • @Blessed372
    @Blessed372 9 месяцев назад +22

    The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it to something else
    Great interview!!!

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 7 месяцев назад

    Dope quick tidbit to let it marinate and HOPEFULLY apply!

  • @michaelmurry2566
    @michaelmurry2566 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love this!!! This is a conversation that’s needed but I also feel there needs to be a discussion about the other side of it cause all ppl aren’t perfect and both men and women have made mistakes even pastors. Let’s have a conversation about grace and rehabilitation from these mistakes.

    • @nynyjohnson1
      @nynyjohnson1 8 месяцев назад

      I’d like to see that too I think. Trying to trust a man that has left you for another woman is sooooo hard, almost impossible 💔

  • @ILovettPhoto
    @ILovettPhoto 7 месяцев назад +1

    I picked mine!!! I’m all in!! ❤

  • @andraeking8997
    @andraeking8997 8 месяцев назад +6

    Kev spit that wine knowledge from Chateau Elan 😂😂😂

  • @calisouthqueen
    @calisouthqueen 9 месяцев назад +62

    More reasons why I love KevOnStage! He's a faithful brother and that speaks volumes to my soul! I love to see it!

  • @RisingKing1024
    @RisingKing1024 6 месяцев назад

    Damn.. I needed to hear this. Thank You 😢✊🏾.

  • @elizabethbillingsley5534
    @elizabethbillingsley5534 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Kevin and Tim! I have come into alot of revelation in these last 4-6 months.

  • @TW-ek2kt
    @TW-ek2kt 8 месяцев назад +2

    “ We divorced ourselves from the part of our marriage, that no longer worked!” I love this. ❤

  • @dhalixina
    @dhalixina 3 месяца назад

    I love this!!! Problem is we live in an era where everyone wants everything fast and now. More me need to watch this.

  • @darrylgarrison2943
    @darrylgarrison2943 9 месяцев назад +1

    That was good!! Absolutely love these candid conversations. Truly edifying and life changing.

  • @itsjosephwells
    @itsjosephwells 9 месяцев назад +4

    I needed this… thank you for this. Listening to the full pod now

  • @InspiringYoungLady
    @InspiringYoungLady 9 месяцев назад +8

    You better preach Kevin!!!!!!

  • @shearron12
    @shearron12 8 месяцев назад +2

    Bottle this conversation and give it away!!! ❤

  • @TimothySpokes
    @TimothySpokes 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was a needed conversation ❤️ Thank you for this

  • @1MamaAye2
    @1MamaAye2 8 месяцев назад

    This makes me so happy... so so happy! Raw real revelation

  • @aundreabatte3572
    @aundreabatte3572 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well God Thank You! All the smart people are Not Dead👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Hallelujah✨

  • @CaptMoo
    @CaptMoo 9 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best interviews. Two of my fav talking and speaking life!

  • @RetroKyd
    @RetroKyd 9 месяцев назад +23

    This snippet was fantastic.