So refreshing to see. I think that I am a unicorn sometimes because I don't cheat on my wife. Aint no holding back sex. Going to bed mad. No propositioning other women. She knows that she is loved and respected.
Him feeling the need to tell her that was cringey and inappropriate. Let that be your truth and your ACTIONS, you don't need to say that. If that was me, I would have left.
@@deelosupreme5630 - My thoughts exactly yet I also respect where @nunyabusiness3516 is coming from. Due to how she received it I feel as though it was confirmation him saying it was Holy Ghost led. 🙏🏾
This was sooooo good!!! I just had a convo with my bestfriend about my abstinence. I told her the next time I have sex I want it to be with my husband so I can express outwardly how that person makes me feel emotionally. Sex outside of marriage is overrated in my opinion.
Very overrated. I was abstinent for 4 years before I met my husband and it was the best decision ever. We both practiced abstinence while courting and waited until marriage. It’s worth the wait!
And cheating takes away that safety, security, trust etc from the bedroom, also how you treat your wife impacts those things. Men want to cheat and mistreat and still get sex.
Man I love this.I’m single and 37. I talk to GOD all the time and I try not to even look at random women I speak and treat them nice but that’s it. I’ve been in the grocery store and the gym and I’ve literally had women come in front of me while I was working out and bend over to get weights I’ve had women in stores flirt with their eyes and try to come close to me ain’t none of that worth it to me I want my future wife to be secure knowing that I’m for her and only her
I have no social media but I can relate to this. After making a vowel in front of witnesses to be faithful to one woman(wife) until I die, I stand on it! Self-Discipline is one of my best qualities, and my word is all I have. Man up, woman up or dont get into any commitments long-term, especially marriage. Know who you are and what your role in a marriage. If we control our minds, followed by our hearts, we can control our bodies. Also, we can control what goes into our ears and comes out of our mouth. If you know nothing, you can't teach anything. Good day to you all.
I say this all the time. Self-Control & Integrity are priorities BEFORE you make a covenant. If you lack either, don’t Vow to GOD or a spouse. Immature people excuses. Mature ones keep their word. Teach it Brother‼️
Thank you brothers for letting me see there is still men in this world that is committed to having a faithful committed relationship with one partner...so deep and inspiring for me..Thank you.
Whewwww!! I thank you, Lord for my husband!!! He is a man that knows how to lead, PROPERLY, not “PERFECTLY” I love my husband so much! This is the type of conversation s that he and I have. I’ve never had that before and I thank him second to God for being patient with teaching me!! Thank you, Jesus!! Spiritual Growth and Guidance is needed in all marriages!! ❤️🙏🏽
I have been married for 40 years and definitely can relate when they said that your marriage transitions through the years , because you both change to different human beings which is a healthy part of life. Sometimes the other person can’t relate to their partner, because they don’t want them to grow or evolve which translates to getting divorced or worst cheating. But those of us who stay together & respect our spouse and gracefully embrace their progress have successful long term relationships. 😊❤️
I’m single-and y’all discussing this was my favorite part of the show! We need more men to understand this (and stay out our DMs 😩)!! Keep your paletes on the finer things in life gents! EXCELLENT analogy. 🍷❤
Truth! This why I used to hate when I heard people say “you have to do what you did in the beginning” when we’re not the same person and not married to the same person. And for me, I was terrible in the beginning so I can’t go back to being that guy 😂.
I absolutely love everything about this. Each of them have solid characters. It makes sense that they’re with excellent women. They match their character.
Love this. Everyone cheats for void. And boredom . And mainly disrespect. For one, cheating on a person is just disrespect not just what you’ve invested but what you have disrespected.
I mean what I said when I made these vows. I have made the decision that there is not another option.I agree and I just got married two months ago. This is such a great clip that more men need to hear. So many Christian men cheat and think it’s ok.
WOW😮, this is "THE BEST" honest, direct, passionate conversation I've heard about commitment, sacrifice, discipline, integrity, trust, covenant, wisdom, obedience to God regarding HIS COVENANT CALLED MARRIAGE❤❤❤❤❤❤👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿! I am sharing this with a "whole lot" of men who I know!!!! God's peace, blessing, and love👍🏿!
This is one of the most honest and mature conversations between men of God, pertaining to marriage, I’ve ever….. EVER been privy to hear. Soooo seasoned with flat out wisdom.
"We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked." Wooo! That's a whole word right there! And I love how it enforces the idea that "it's us against the problem, and never us against each other."
👏👏👏👏👏. Thank you for doing this for the community. We need more positive black male role models like y'all flooding the web and not the debased crap we're dished out telling us to devalue ourselves and good men if character don't exist!
Love this!!! This is a conversation that’s needed but I also feel there needs to be a discussion about the other side of it cause all ppl aren’t perfect and both men and women have made mistakes even pastors. Let’s have a conversation about grace and rehabilitation from these mistakes.
Wow this is so good. I have learned this for sure. Mistakes and all and I'm on my second marriage and knowledge is power. Thanks fellas for speaking on this so eloquently.
Why can't the response just be simple. I'm a good human. Cheating is a matter of your integrity not if there is someone or something better or worse. Simply your integrity.
Love seeing Black men talk about loving their wives! Beautiful!
I need THIS to be black culture; will the real leaders please stand up!!!
Me too. It’s so fulfilling ❤
😂😂😂😂 imagine not cheating on your wife being a profound statement. Im here like dont cheat on anyone
Right on amen.
@@TheJarlath9Exactly. Not cheating should be the bare minimum.
Women want to be loved out loud like this ❤ praying to get here with a spouse one day
Me too sis!!!!
And men would want to be loud too... but the risk, the risk, the risk is too great.
Same here sis!!!! This is so refreshing!
YES 🙏❤️🙌
Yes!!!
So refreshing to see. I think that I am a unicorn sometimes because I don't cheat on my wife. Aint no holding back sex. Going to bed mad. No propositioning other women. She knows that she is loved and respected.
God bless you ❤
GoD bless you bro keep it up
Keep it up.
Tim's conversation with that young lady BROKE MY HEART because HOW MANY OTHER PASTORS had PREYED UPON HER instead of PRAYING FOR HER!!! 😱🤬😭💔
This was sooooooo real smh 😢
Just sad
Him feeling the need to tell her that was cringey and inappropriate. Let that be your truth and your ACTIONS, you don't need to say that. If that was me, I would have left.
@@nunyabusiness3516I feel you
However remember Tim said the Holy Spirit told him to say that. It’s what the young lady needed to hear & see it.
@@deelosupreme5630 - My thoughts exactly yet I also respect where @nunyabusiness3516 is coming from.
Due to how she received it I feel as though it was confirmation him saying it was Holy Ghost led. 🙏🏾
We NEED this example and conversation more! Men talking the talk and walking the walk ❤
Be faithful!!
These are the conversations to be had all 2024. Stop talking about tables please!
Y’all brothas gotta know how important this conversation is for young men like me to hear. This is golden
I was literally drinking Grape Juice when Tim said I’m not trading my wife(wine) for grape juice 😳🤦🏾♀️🫤😐🤣
Lol
😬🤭🫠
Ooooooooffff 😅
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
This video needs to be broadcasted everywhere. Gods way in marriage is the only way.
Amen 🙏
That's not what thet said.
“I been with six different women” as she changed and grew etc.. that’s deep if more people could think on this level! Whoah
They say
Bees don't spend time explaining to flies why honey is better than shit
Oooooooo I needed to read this. ❤
Honey!!!!!!!! That touched my soul❤❤❤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😂 Thank you for putting this in my mental rolodex ❤
Listennn!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
When Kev has a word he has a word🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬
Indeed. Respect!!
Indeed. Respect..
True
This was sooooo good!!! I just had a convo with my bestfriend about my abstinence. I told her the next time I have sex I want it to be with my husband so I can express outwardly how that person makes me feel emotionally. Sex outside of marriage is overrated in my opinion.
Very overrated
Very overrated. I was abstinent for 4 years before I met my husband and it was the best decision ever. We both practiced abstinence while courting and waited until marriage. It’s worth the wait!
And cheating takes away that safety, security, trust etc from the bedroom, also how you treat your wife impacts those things. Men want to cheat and mistreat and still get sex.
Yeah they do
Theres women who aren't here anymore or struggling with their health because their husband decided to cheat & bring home HIV.
The thought of allowing someone to touch me after infidelity makes my skin crawl
In My Experience You Are Absolutely Correct.
I’m getting married in December and I am hoping, praying and working towards my marriage being like this.
I wish there were more men who had a moral compass and integrity and honor… thanks brothers for being that man! Your wives are truly blessed
Man I love this.I’m single and 37. I talk to GOD all the time and I try not to even look at random women I speak and treat them nice but that’s it. I’ve been in the grocery store and the gym and I’ve literally had women come in front of me while I was working out and bend over to get weights I’ve had women in stores flirt with their eyes and try to come close to me ain’t none of that worth it to me I want my future wife to be secure knowing that I’m for her and only her
So so great 😊
This deserves All the views and more than Katt Williams on Club Shay Shay. Great content!
Equal too in the context of GOD!!!
Facts!
I have no social media but I can relate to this. After making a vowel in front of witnesses to be faithful to one woman(wife) until I die, I stand on it! Self-Discipline is one of my best qualities, and my word is all I have. Man up, woman up or dont get into any commitments long-term, especially marriage. Know who you are and what your role in a marriage. If we control our minds, followed by our hearts, we can control our bodies. Also, we can control what goes into our ears and comes out of our mouth. If you know nothing, you can't teach anything. Good day to you all.
I love this. Blessings to you and your wife!!
Love this advice!❤
I say this all the time. Self-Control & Integrity are priorities BEFORE you make a covenant. If you lack either, don’t Vow to GOD or a spouse. Immature people excuses. Mature ones keep their word. Teach it Brother‼️
I needed this. God is preparing me for my marriage, and this was helpful!
These men exist. I have one 😊❤. Yours is one the way.
It warms my soul to hear black men speaking like this about their wives. Warms me to the core.
Please God let me have this kind of love!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That wine analogy was 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you brothers for letting me see there is still men in this world that is committed to having a faithful committed relationship with one partner...so deep and inspiring for me..Thank you.
😭Your the first Pastor that has not tried to have sex with me. This is scary!! I am so glad that young lady found a safe place🙌
All I have to say is THANK YOU!!! How wonderful it is to hear 2 men talking about how they LOVE their wives and being married.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Whewwww!! I thank you, Lord for my husband!!! He is a man that knows how to lead, PROPERLY, not “PERFECTLY” I love my husband so much! This is the type of conversation s that he and I have. I’ve never had that before and I thank him second to God for being patient with teaching me!! Thank you, Jesus!! Spiritual Growth and Guidance is needed in all marriages!! ❤️🙏🏽
I have been married for 40 years and definitely can relate when they said that your marriage transitions through the years , because you both change to different human beings which is a healthy part of life. Sometimes the other person can’t relate to their partner, because they don’t want them to grow or evolve which translates to getting divorced or worst cheating. But those of us who stay together & respect our spouse and gracefully embrace their progress have successful long term relationships. 😊❤️
Glad I have this growth mindset. Hopefully one day I’ll find someone who will do the same
I’m single-and y’all discussing this was my favorite part of the show! We need more men to understand this (and stay out our DMs 😩)!! Keep your paletes on the finer things in life gents! EXCELLENT analogy. 🍷❤
Truth!
This why I used to hate when I heard people say “you have to do what you did in the beginning” when we’re not the same person and not married to the same person.
And for me, I was terrible in the beginning so I can’t go back to being that guy 😂.
I absolutely adored this whole conversation yesterday! It is so encouraging!
I gave up on relationships. I just watch everyone else be happy. 7 years in. 90 more to go
I absolutely love everything about this. Each of them have solid characters. It makes sense that they’re with excellent women. They match their character.
This is sooo refreshing!!! Grown Men having Grown Men conversations 🥰
Singles edtions : I am somebody's fine wine. I will not allow anyone to treat me like grape juice lol We are worth the wait!
Love this. Everyone cheats for void. And boredom . And mainly disrespect. For one, cheating on a person is just disrespect not just what you’ve invested but what you have disrespected.
That young lady’s story is my story and God has restored .. thank you Lord 😢
God, bless these gentlemen so they can reach out to more brothers with this powerful message.
Amen 🙏🏿
This is great content brothers. I’m 11 years in the game…faithful and focused! 💯
I mean what I said when I made these vows. I have made the decision that there is not another option.I agree and I just got married two months ago. This is such a great clip that more men need to hear. So many Christian men cheat and think it’s ok.
It's not okay for Christain men to cheat! It's an abomination!
So real men do exist. Whew thank God
Thank you guys for the maturity of this conversation. Wish more brothers could level up.
" we divorced ourselves from the marriage that no longer worked" 🔥🔥🔥
From the version of our marriage that no longer works... Barssss
W A I T ! ? WHAT !?!?
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
That one line is going to save some marriages out here !
So how do you determine if it’s worth fixing? We quit so easily on marriage
See most marriages take 15 plus years to really get and we quit after 6 or my ex wife quit after 9
This was a real Man convo, 💯
Totally agree! The feeling of having sex without the condemnation was so free and wonderful! Thank God for sending me my wife!
WOW😮, this is "THE BEST" honest, direct, passionate conversation I've heard about commitment, sacrifice, discipline, integrity, trust, covenant, wisdom, obedience to God regarding HIS COVENANT CALLED MARRIAGE❤❤❤❤❤❤👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿! I am sharing this with a "whole lot" of men who I know!!!! God's peace, blessing, and love👍🏿!
You said it-VALUE!!!!!!!!!! It's very easy to tear up and leave something that is not deemed valuable. God bless y'all!
This is one of the most honest and mature conversations between men of God, pertaining to marriage, I’ve ever….. EVER been privy to hear. Soooo seasoned with flat out wisdom.
Tbh I’m not the biggest supporter of Tim Ross, but this is a really good healthy real convo. Props👏🏽
"so you're always finding each other." -Kev ...From a poetic standpoint, that's a beautiful perspective.
Also, cheating on your spouse leads to burning in a fiery bottomless abyss forever and forever, that's a good reason too.
Been a fan of kev from marriage be hard. But hearing the integrity of how he interacts with female employees made me a bigger fan
RESPECT TO THESE MEN. GOD BLESS YA’LL
"We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."
Wooo! That's a whole word right there! And I love how it enforces the idea that "it's us against the problem, and never us against each other."
This was sooo good Men of God these conversations are so needed thank you for your truths & realness.. 🙏🏾👏🏾
This is HOPE right here. Priceless. I wish this for everyone 🙏🏼
Needed to hear this. Glad God brought me here 🙏
👏👏👏👏👏. Thank you for doing this for the community. We need more positive black male role models like y'all flooding the web and not the debased crap we're dished out telling us to devalue ourselves and good men if character don't exist!
This conversation straight bars 🎯
This is made me run around my house!! A word!! Thank you Tim and Kevin!! This was an amazing interview and very insightful!
Right! Y’all know you got it good with the wives you have. Glad to hear you understand that! 👏🏾👏🏾Nuff respect to y’all. ✊🏼✊🏽
Sending this to my hubby now! We are 22 years in, this is so goood❤
Thank you for putting the 'cigarette moments' first in the video. it's the ultimate podcast hook.
We need moooore of these kind of podcasts. I loooove this
What a POWERFUL conversation!! I’m so encouraged! Thanks men of God!
This was a really good conversation! I can relate to Kev about the sex before marriage subject.
My GOD! I LOVE THIS! My Prayer is that every couple with have this bliss with each other!❤
Absolutely 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thanks for locking in, Kings!
I love seeing you both together ❤
Yall betta SAY THAT. These are words of wisdom. What is understood does not need to be explained.
Kev spit that wine knowledge from Chateau Elan 😂😂😂
This convention did my heart good!!!
Standing Ovation!!!👏🏾 this is a WORD
This is DEEP! WELL SAID!!!!
These men have said it better than anyone could ever explain❤❤
Love this!!! This is a conversation that’s needed but I also feel there needs to be a discussion about the other side of it cause all ppl aren’t perfect and both men and women have made mistakes even pastors. Let’s have a conversation about grace and rehabilitation from these mistakes.
I’d like to see that too I think. Trying to trust a man that has left you for another woman is sooooo hard, almost impossible 💔
This snippet was fantastic.
The depth of your wisdom is on another level 🔥
I picked mine!!! I’m all in!! ❤
I love this!!! Problem is we live in an era where everyone wants everything fast and now. More me need to watch this.
Wow this is so good. I have learned this for sure. Mistakes and all and I'm on my second marriage and knowledge is power. Thanks fellas for speaking on this so eloquently.
Dope analogy. Awesome conversation.
The strength of something that grows stronger!!!😮💨❤️
“ We divorced ourselves from the part of our marriage, that no longer worked!” I love this. ❤
I love ALL OF THIS. Great conversation.
The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it to something else
Great interview!!!
Loved all 3+ hrs of this!
Such a mature, honest conversation. Married or dating, if you can't be totally committed to your "person" do you both a favor and bounce.
Why can't the response just be simple. I'm a good human. Cheating is a matter of your integrity not if there is someone or something better or worse. Simply your integrity.
💯💯💯💯💯
This conversation is so refreshing! God bless you!
This needed to be a longer segment. It blessed me.
Damn.. I needed to hear this. Thank You 😢✊🏾.
"We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."
This made me want to run around my air bnb! Jesus!
Well God Thank You! All the smart people are Not Dead👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Hallelujah✨
Came upon this podcast and glad I did. Really enjoyed this conversation!
You better preach Kevin!!!!!!
"I picked mine!" sends meeeeeeeeee 🤣
Love the transparency and honesty. I agree it is a choice-beautiful ❤
This was excellent. It is great to hear some wisdom instead of the foolishness we typically get on the subject of sex and marriage.
Bottle this conversation and give it away!!! ❤
Dope quick tidbit to let it marinate and HOPEFULLY apply!
Wow Tim Ross, your divorce comment you made about you and your wife was POWERFUL!! The video ended at the same time, I literally heard a mike drop 👊🏾