Phaedra is the type of person who says everything is cool, but behind the scenes scheming to destroy you. Just say how you really feel, & leave the passive aggressive tactics at home.
Jax James my point exactly I'm not a scorpio ...they actually get on my damn nerves because they sit bk and be sneaky and plot and 9 times out of 10 the shit ALWAYS blows up in their face..
Phaedra was her own demise. She failed to be honest with herself, she always hid her true feelings about Kandi, and wore a poker face. She was still hurt about Kandi hiding Apollo stuff in the garage. Instead of confronting Kandi and being honest about being hurt, she took the chance to hurt Kandi back but it hurt her in the end.
Mykee Wattz Ghetto is what that is. Kandi doesn't understand true friendship. Why would she try to put Phaedra on blast on tv. And she feels if what she is saying is true I can say it. And you say Phaedra didn't tell her laundry list. I would have put her on blast.
Taunna Tee I totally agree when Phaedra first joined the show she was very slim but them two babies she popped out and that dick she was getting got her weight up 🤷🏾♀️
This was the moment, I believe, Phaedra decided to plant the lie in Porsha’s head about Kandi, Todd and the fake sex dungeon. Kandi clearly won this showdown Phaedra set up. And without even trying deliberately to hurt her. And Phaedra was like “I will end you.”
was Phaedra wrong for repeating the rumors she heard about Kandi to Porsha, who was the one who said it on tv? No. Y’all won’t admit it, but Phaedra wasn’t far off. Clearly the same rumors came out about Kandi’s best friends, Tiny & TI, about drugging and raping women yrs later. Phaedra was obviously onto something about how them celebs in ATL get down 🤷🏽♀️
@@dannieisKING well you're believing a liar. Drama said that he was going to blow her office up. Then Phaedra lied to cover it up, saying somebody called the police on him because Drama said his "album was going to be the bomb." This is not 2001. Nobody talks like that in 2016 when this happened
I think Phaedra expressed that it was not about him specifically, it is the fact that the father of her kids is literally leaving and she is going to be a single mum, who would not be distraught by that?
90s lover ...Phadrea wasn't either,she was just letting Kandi know about how she felted about what her Mom said nd nothing else.But Kandi had to bring up other mess,which had nothing to do with what Pha was asking her about
Casandra Morrow that's couse kandi is worst for trown shade at u, and when it comes to FAMILY members could of been bit kinder about it. I always like pheadra and still do over Kandi. Pheadra could not get word in at all with her. Kandi very cleaver specks louder faster known that's not pheadra way of talking back. Give her no opportunity to say her peice, and she laughs all time like I don't give A fuck I have my muma Todd baby. Her daughter told her she couldn't handle another baby that made her mad. U could see it in her smerky face
I felt the exact same. I always wondered what the particular reason was that Phaedra went so hard on Kandi to destroy her in the (let's be honest) criminal way she did. We're not talking harmless gossip. The woman was trying to actually ruin her, her livelihood, her family, even put her in jail w/that type of accusation. This moment showed her motive behind all that was straight up rooted in bitter jealousy. She saw Kandi having the life she wanted, and that she also felt she deserved. And top of that, Kandi managed to put Phaedra together, and that hurt her pride. That shows another level of evil, when you stoop to act on resentment in the violent and poisonous way Phaedra did.
I love Kandi. She’s concise, pragmatic and to the point. She sees through BS and refuses to be manipulated. She also has a heart of gold. Phaedra is evil. Fake Christian.
which is why I know Kandi isn't so innocent in this. Remember that employee that sued her? Kandi settled, and then sealed the settlement. She is not the sweet and innocent Kandi. Think about it, if she was friends with a snake to begin with.
Azoo Cola he sued her for no reason, because of Phaedra convinced him to do so. He was,getting paid . he started not getting paid because he didn't do his JOB. Wanted his 15 minutes. 😂😂♀🤦🏽
Azoo Cola Exactly! Then why settle? Business move or not, I would have bodied him in court! Kandi counter sued for defamation and lost! That’s why that attorney said that he possibly had a case. So, obviously his entire law suit wasn’t frivolous! That’s why her turn over rate is so high at that restaurant. Want hard work but pay with crumbs!
Now how is she gonna say Todd is scraping for change when SHE is the one who couldn't give that man 5,000 that SHE owes HIM? Phaedra is so fake. Kandi spoke facts to her face.
Kandi kept Phaedra’s cheating secret for seasons and only revealed it after Phaedra started talking about Todd. As far as the Kandi Koated Klique is concerned, she can check them a lil more, but she checks her mother lightly and respectfully. She tells her when she’s wrong, but Kandi has said multiple times she’s not gonna go in on her mom because that’s her MOTHER. Phaedra just should’ve admitted that she was pissed at Kandi and that’s why she made up the lie.
It’s funny how Phaedra said “You have everything going for you”. “If anything I should be mad.” Sounds like she liked the fact that when she was with Apollo she felt like she had one up on Kandi. That is NOT a friend.
but her candy been known each other for years way before the show and I think when she met candy candy was not an escape anymore of the group Kandi was Raising her daughter as a single mom trying to navigate her way in life after Escape ended and Phaedra was this lawyer she had a husband she thought she was better and she was always the friend that had everything and then once the story flipped and Candy had it all the business the husband no longer single mom and Phaedra was breaking the law with her husband and he went to jail she's a single mom and now she's jealous and now she's mad plus she cannot be be mad at candy for heaven Apollo's back when candy was having toss back Todd new Apollo before he knew Phaedra are candy and so of course he's going to have his friends back and he probably thought her not being there for Apollo's trial or whatever was wrong and so he want his wife to have his back and she did and that is why are Phaedra is mad because Phaedra's fake she was cheating on Apollo towards the end but I do agree with most of the years he was cheating and then in the end she was just fed up and ready for him to go but then she doesn't want to be a statistic and be a single black mom and she just feels like because she has a degree supposed to have the husband kids and the perfect home because she got her degree and she feels like she's better than other black people I've always got that vibe from her
Always! I love how Kandi even tried to tell her "let's stop talking because I don't wanna say anything crazy." Even at that moment she was still trying to be a better "friend" to Phaedrah when she didn't have to be. Like she said to Nene on a reunion, she doesn't like to talk about things that weren't brought up on the show out of respect.
@@omnip3469Nope, it's Eva with her short lived presence.. Otherwise, low-key Cynthia was a Beast! She just tried to ACT LIKE she was some innocent Person. *In NeNe Leakes voice!
You can see the hurt in Phaedra’s face the way kandi was so nonchalant about this whole situation. Kandi did interviews about Phaedra while Phaedra remained quiet and that showed she truly did love kandi and she wanted to repair the friendship
I don't think she necessarily said it out of hate- it just pissed Kandi the hell off because she was disappointed in Phaedra's hypocrisy to go crying and confiding in Nene of all people, the same woman who called Phaedra things like "not fabulous" and spent the first few seasons acting like she didn't know her. Kandi was just mad at Phaedra's blatant fakeassery
Naw I dont agree with that. Kandi was very loyal and quiet when it came to phaedra. Until all the shyt between Todd & Phaedra so then she had to step in cuz thats her husband. Plus, kandi was getting drug wrongfully so that's when she shed light on some things. She didn't do it out of spite. She did it to protect her brand, her family and her name. And I understand that. You can only be loyal for so long if someone else is willing to throw you under the bus. 🤷♂️ &&Idc what nobody says that's Average and normal human behavior. If someone puts a gun to your head and forces you to tell some things most people would sing like a damn canary. And that's facts.
4:38 you can tell Phaedra was shocked Kandi said that on camera. When she did that head nod you can tell she was thinking in her head: “oh that’s what we doing? Got it” And that was the moment she planned to get her revenge.
Thank you everyone letting her play victim like are we not watching the same show. Kandi went round telling everybody that phadrea was sleeping with someone else in season 7 when yet they were still friends. And she keep trying to use their divorce as excuse why she can’t be sad that she’s a single parent. Anybody would be hurt if their spouse is going to jail might not have Romantic feelings. And the whole problem was she was mad that phadrea was crying to nene because she could not stand nene fr. If nobody else will kandi was the problem she provoked phadrea not saying the lie was right but hey gotta learn how to stop being vindictive. And one last thing and she sided with her husband because of apollo.
Nah. The only reason Kandi aired out that particular secret was to defend herself against Phaedra trying to make her look like a bad friend , when the reality was that Phaedra was the one being fake. I’m sure she had a lot more secrets to tell but she didn’t.
Kandi needed to be held accountable for being unsympathetic. What she can’t grasp is this is why Phaedra went crying to Nene; imagine Kandi’s dry reaction when her tears would start to fall. This is similar to what she’s going through now with Marlo
@benjaminevans4856 If I call you to check on you and you are in the middle of a divorce and you are telling me " girl I am seeing someone and we are getting married as soon as this divorce is over", a reasonable person would act like Kandi. It would be inferred that you have moved oh. Phaedra didn't think kandi was going to bring up that detail on the show which was why she was crying to other women who didn't have that information.
@Auset Ausar oooookayyyyyy.... exactly, I don't know why they think Kandi suppose to diss her mother for them....I don't care how wrong my mama is I'm not checking her in front of no bitch
Phaedra went there to check Kandi but got checked herself 😂😂 and then tried to plan a plot to destroy Kandi but only destroyed herself . “ you never win when you play dirty !” Linnethia leakes .
She did too with all that humming her and her mom did while eating in past seasons lmbo.... they did it so much I couldn't eat a bologna sandwich without humming and savoring the moment lmbo
"You've got everything going for you... I don't know why you're so angry with me"..... That was pretty heartbreaking...Phaedra did go low with Kandi later in the season but she was a hurt woman.
When Phadrea said I'm the one that should be mad and then she started to explain!!! In my opinion she was telling.Kandie why she was jealous of her!! 🙃 👂 Listen when people talk folks 💯
Kandi was more upset with Phaedra over this petty stuff than she was with Kim stealing her Tardy for the Party money. She gave Kim a second chance but told Phaedra ✌🏽
The breakdown of Kandi & Phaedra started with Phaedra introducing Kandi to Todd. Todd developed a weird friendship with Apollo and stuck by him. The whole video thing was put on Phaedra when they had a deal with PHAEDRA & APOLLO. How about you ask Apollo for the money when he dropping 1k on strippers a night (that was from the horses mouth). Kandi stuck by her man and she used Phaedra going to Nene as the huge thing that broke up their friendship. I didn't see anything wrong with Phaedra talking to Nene bc Kandi was quick to befriend Nene when she called truce. If you watch the seasons you see where it all started.
I wholeheartedly agree. Kandi let her mother and Don Juan and the Kandi coated clique talk all this smack. When Phaedra and Apollo were going through their divorce Kandi chose Apollo over Phaedra cause Todd was friends with him.
@@sierramcclary2897 but shouldn't she be loyal to the friend that's like a sister to her? The very friend that introduced her to her husband? At the very least tell Phaedra I'm keeping your husbands things in my house
Refreshing to see an adult end the conversation and leave gracefully. Stated they knew the friendship wasn't there, only wanted to address the mom situation, wished her well and dipped.
I didn’t like that either cuz as a friend phaedra never told kandi’s business but then after phaedra had enough of kandi not being there for her and talking about her in the streets and hiding Apollo stuff she was done and I didn’t blame her yea she took it a lil over the charts with the raping allegation but I don’t think it was gonna damage kandi brand cuz everyone knows kandi don’t do drugs so it wasn’t that deep for phaedra which is why she didn’t care.
@@adamscameron64 I feel Phaedra has paid her dues for that lie and should get another chance in RHOA. Kandi said she would leave if Phaedra comes back. 🙄
Was she talking about her man or the fact that she didn’t want her man while portraying to be so hurt. Sounds like she was talking about her, not her man.
Kandi always wanna have the last word and "end" something when she knows her and/or her mom and husband is dead ass wrong. Phaedra is very dirty no doubt but Kandi is not innocent and needs to stop playing victim.
Kandi is not perfect but she can’t be criticised for this situation, the conversation was one of nonsense and most people would have wanted to “end” it and “end” such a friendship also.
Kandi is not fat and she used to be really skinny when she first started the show but Phaedra always been shaped like a toad so I don’t know why she wants to sip on that.
But I wasn't referring to that so why would you even imply that? I am referring to other things Kandi did in her friendship with Phaedra and just because Phaedra was wrong doesn't mean that Kandi was perfect in their friendship because she was not. Kandi plays the victim a lot and never takes responsibility when she is wrong. She does this a lot on RHOA and she did that with her Xscape group on their show.
Exactly , nobody can say shh about kandi but she is the worst and acts a innocent person and she cries at the drop of a hat. Over kandi. She never been interesting period
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Phaedra is the type of person who says everything is cool, but behind the scenes scheming to destroy you. Just say how you really feel, & leave the passive aggressive tactics at home.
Correct
@limited access nooo phaedra, a true snake, she act liké a White person.
No Reason .lol
She dis say how she felt the whole time. Nobody cared.
Anonymity Facts
As Kandi was getting Phaedra together, Phaedra was plotting in her head......
Boom! Big facts!
#FACTS...just like a damn SCORPIO...they sit back and plot their comeback
@@lamyraberry2458 And did that comeback work for her?!! 😂😂😂
Jax James my point exactly I'm not a scorpio ...they actually get on my damn nerves because they sit bk and be sneaky and plot and 9 times out of 10 the shit ALWAYS blows up in their face..
😂😂😂
The beginning was awkward asf
It seemed edited
It was edited that way.
This is the moment where Phaedra planned Season 9
Yup
Isn’t this S9??
Devinn Edwards yes it was
@@1ddedde yass
Lol
she ordered water only because she planned on reading Phaedra then dipping. 😂
The Angry Engineer Kandi does not drink at all never have
😂
Yep 😂😂
The Angry Engineer are you a sonic fan?
To all the people like "buT kAnDi dOEsNt DriNk" STFU...y'all act like iced tea wasn't on the menu.
I said what the fuck I said. 😂😂
Phaedra was her own demise. She failed to be honest with herself, she always hid her true feelings about Kandi, and wore a poker face. She was still hurt about Kandi hiding Apollo stuff in the garage. Instead of confronting Kandi and being honest about being hurt, she took the chance to hurt Kandi back but it hurt her in the end.
💯. Ding ding ding. You got it!
Phaedra got a lesbian crush on Kandi that's why.....
Kandi was an inconsiderate friend. Terrible friend. What is up with Nene's wig.
BrownGirlrep classic Scorpio
I don’t understand why Phaedra was mad at Kandi for hiding Apollo stuff. Apollo and Todd were good friends.
Kandi did not come to play with Phaedra this day lol
pauline Kelly yassssss and Kandi usually loses arguments cus she gets all choked up but she got this one love her she my gurl
chile no lol. She had that stank face on at the start. I am rolling .
She didn’t do anything but her usual prance ... Phaedra held it down
Mykee Wattz Ghetto is what that is. Kandi doesn't understand true friendship. Why would she try to put Phaedra on blast on tv. And she feels if what she is saying is true I can say it. And you say Phaedra didn't tell her laundry list. I would have put her on blast.
Just wait until Todd leaves-who will she cry to
That shade about Kandi loving to eat was weak cause Phaedra isn't so slim herself and Kandi look good. 😍
Taunna Tee I totally agree when Phaedra first joined the show she was very slim but them two babies she popped out and that dick she was getting got her weight up 🤷🏾♀️
@@mckenziepayne5185 Apollo look like he can put it down, the crazy ones have the best sex.... trust me I know.
Taunna Tee exactly
Taunna Tee That was hilarious because It had zero to do with size It was about how greedy Kandi Is😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Word
I don't care what anyone says. Kandi is number one when it comes to clearing up the mess. I freaking love her.
Expect the mess with her mama 😂
Yeah, Kandi tends to tell the truth even on herself 😂
She’s extremely effective getting Phaedra into place. But other events, she’s ok
“You know Kandi don’t drink. She remember everything.” 😂😂😂
Yep she speaks the truth
*Phaedra's make up is ON POINT!!*
Kerra Johnson she needs it.
Always
I noticed that too
Her eye makeup and hair looks sexy af
Because it's more muted and nude as opposed to those pastels and bright colours she be trying to pull off. This looks much better on her.
NeNe should never wear that Frankenstein wig again.
What in the world was she thinking 😂does she have a mirror, good Lord😂😂😂
Nene and her struggle wigs .
Brenda LaprinceGoogle next I also thought she looked like the bride of frankenstine. LOL
Brenda LaprinceGoogle next 😂😂😂
Brenda LaprinceGoogle next girl yes that was hidious
Yes, her wig does look like the bride of Frankenstein!!
This was the moment, I believe, Phaedra decided to plant the lie in Porsha’s head about Kandi, Todd and the fake sex dungeon. Kandi clearly won this showdown Phaedra set up. And without even trying deliberately to hurt her. And Phaedra was like “I will end you.”
Kieran Scarlett yup she a Scorpio they are very vindictive
Also, in that same episode Phaedra told Porsha that Shamea and Kandi were dating each other
Hell yeah
The very moment when things went down!
was Phaedra wrong for repeating the rumors she heard about Kandi to Porsha, who was the one who said it on tv? No. Y’all won’t admit it, but Phaedra wasn’t far off. Clearly the same rumors came out about Kandi’s best friends, Tiny & TI, about drugging and raping women yrs later. Phaedra was obviously onto something about how them celebs in ATL get down 🤷🏽♀️
Kandi can never keep her mom in check
Can any of us 🤦🏾♀️
Agree. Her mom is EVIL
Right
@@vegas9440 Yes some of us with morals... I keep her in check all the time
Her parents got her a bodyguard. She lies as easily as she breathes. Just, wow! 😁
😂😂😂😂i'm disgust by her
Right!
I believe her
@@dannieisKING lmaooooo nah she lied cause eat the reunion she said that was the security she uses when she travels lmaoooo
@@dannieisKING well you're believing a liar. Drama said that he was going to blow her office up. Then Phaedra lied to cover it up, saying somebody called the police on him because Drama said his "album was going to be the bomb." This is not 2001. Nobody talks like that in 2016 when this happened
Phaedra was shook...never win when you play dirty
Amen!
In the words of Nene Leakes
"This ain't Phaedra, bitch!! This ain't Phaedra!!"
@@xavierandrews5774Zactly.
Never!!!
Basically Kandi was saying you were being fake with Nene acting like you were hurt about Apollo, meanwhile you had already moved on with another man.
Exactly
That part...
@@LeeDfinedu look familiar
I think Phaedra expressed that it was not about him specifically, it is the fact that the father of her kids is literally leaving and she is going to be a single mum, who would not be distraught by that?
Why they put NeNe on camera with that wig 😭😭
Lmfaooooooooooooo
RJW 😂😂😂
Lol she was doing Broadway during that time
RJW I couldn’t take her serious when that shit
I KNOW RIGHT! I said gotdamm bride of Frankenstein! Hahahahaha
Kandi was not here for Phadera bull this day like Kandi was over her and that conversation
90s lover ...Phadrea wasn't either,she was just letting Kandi know about how she felted about what her Mom said nd nothing else.But Kandi had to bring up other mess,which had nothing to do with what Pha was asking her about
Casandra Morrow that's couse kandi is worst for trown shade at u, and when it comes to FAMILY members could of been bit kinder about it.
I always like pheadra and still do over Kandi. Pheadra could not get word in at all with her. Kandi very cleaver specks louder faster known that's not pheadra way of talking back.
Give her no opportunity to say her peice, and she laughs all time like I don't give A fuck I have my muma Todd baby.
Her daughter told her she couldn't handle another baby that made her mad. U could see it in her smerky face
90s lover wassup
Trell Johnson hey wats up
Yes. She was over it all.
I think Phaedra showed her jealous side when she said “you got everything going for you” which is probably why she tried to take down kandi but failed
I felt the exact same. I always wondered what the particular reason was that Phaedra went so hard on Kandi to destroy her in the (let's be honest) criminal way she did. We're not talking harmless gossip. The woman was trying to actually ruin her, her livelihood, her family, even put her in jail w/that type of accusation. This moment showed her motive behind all that was straight up rooted in bitter jealousy. She saw Kandi having the life she wanted, and that she also felt she deserved. And top of that, Kandi managed to put Phaedra together, and that hurt her pride. That shows another level of evil, when you stoop to act on resentment in the violent and poisonous way Phaedra did.
What life did Kandi have that Phaedra wanted? Phaedra was already successful.
😂😂😂 Kandi had the last laugh.
@@djm4854 Scorpios can be dangerous
@@alldoodlesmatter6095successful at what?? 😂
I love Kandi. She’s concise, pragmatic and to the point. She sees through BS and refuses to be manipulated. She also has a heart of gold. Phaedra is evil. Fake Christian.
Agreed!!
But when it comes to her mamma she loses all brain cells. SMH.
I love Kandi !!
Amen!!!! All FACTS
I LOVE your expansive vocabulary
Sad to see 2 woman that was so close ..and friendship and over some messy bs🤔🤔
which is why I know Kandi isn't so innocent in this. Remember that employee that sued her? Kandi settled, and then sealed the settlement. She is not the sweet and innocent Kandi. Think about it, if she was friends with a snake to begin with.
Azoo Cola he sued her for no reason, because of Phaedra convinced him to do so. He was,getting paid . he started not getting paid because he didn't do his JOB. Wanted his 15 minutes. 😂😂♀🤦🏽
Phaedra was never a friend to her or anyone. That's evident. Phaedra has mental issues
Azoo Cola Exactly! Then why settle? Business move or not, I would have bodied him in court! Kandi counter sued for defamation and lost! That’s why that attorney said that he possibly had a case. So, obviously his entire law suit wasn’t frivolous! That’s why her turn over rate is so high at that restaurant. Want hard work but pay with crumbs!
@@azoocola1064 are you an idiot?
The hell did Nene had on her head at 5:12 lmao
Amancio Walker
She came from a play (Broadway) she said that
Season 7 I was laughing at Nene’s hair the whole season!
😂😂😂
looks like road kill
I can't stop crying.
Phaedra didn't realize what a good friend she had. Kandi kept all her secrets, especially about Mr. Chocolate(cough*Jamal Bryant)
Lady T Jamal Bryant? ???? was that really true??
Pink Pearls I don’t believe it at all!
Lady T you better spill that tea girrrl
If she kept it it never would of came out 🤷🏽♂️
Still til this day
Now how is she gonna say Todd is scraping for change when SHE is the one who couldn't give that man 5,000 that SHE owes HIM? Phaedra is so fake. Kandi spoke facts to her face.
Kandi kept Phaedra’s cheating secret for seasons and only revealed it after Phaedra started talking about Todd. As far as the Kandi Koated Klique is concerned, she can check them a lil more, but she checks her mother lightly and respectfully. She tells her when she’s wrong, but Kandi has said multiple times she’s not gonna go in on her mom because that’s her MOTHER. Phaedra just should’ve admitted that she was pissed at Kandi and that’s why she made up the lie.
Tangi M. I want her to publicly admit it😩
Tangi M. You're right!
so wait a minute was it kandi who spread the rumor to cynthia and kenya that phaedra was sleeping with mr. chocolate? damn!
Kandi was a good friend to Phaedra. The gloves were off at this point.
Tangi M. ...Pha wasn't cheating nd when if she was,her husband cheated on her I'm sure multiple times but I truly don't believe Pha did that
It’s funny how Phaedra said “You have everything going for you”. “If anything I should be mad.” Sounds like she liked the fact that when she was with Apollo she felt like she had one up on Kandi. That is NOT a friend.
but her candy been known each other for years way before the show and I think when she met candy candy was not an escape anymore of the group Kandi was Raising her daughter as a single mom trying to navigate her way in life after Escape ended and Phaedra was this lawyer she had a husband she thought she was better and she was always the friend that had everything and then once the story flipped and Candy had it all the business the husband no longer single mom and Phaedra was breaking the law with her husband and he went to jail she's a single mom and now she's jealous and now she's mad plus she cannot be be mad at candy for heaven Apollo's back when candy was having toss back Todd new Apollo before he knew Phaedra are candy and so of course he's going to have his friends back and he probably thought her not being there for Apollo's trial or whatever was wrong and so he want his wife to have his back and she did and that is why are Phaedra is mad because Phaedra's fake she was cheating on Apollo towards the end but I do agree with most of the years he was cheating and then in the end she was just fed up and ready for him to go but then she doesn't want to be a statistic and be a single black mom and she just feels like because she has a degree supposed to have the husband kids and the perfect home because she got her degree and she feels like she's better than other black people I've always got that vibe from her
Huh? Connect the dots for me. Thia comment makes no sense.
I don’t see how you got that from what she said
That was her. Telling Kandie in so many words! Why she so Jealous of her.🤷🏼♀️😬
That was the beginning of her really saying. "Well let me tell you why I'm jealous of you"
People call Phaedra the shade assassin but Kandi ALWAYS got her together with facts 😂
It's not "shade" or a "read" when all you're doing is revealing secrets. I see nothing clever here.
Always! I love how Kandi even tried to tell her "let's stop talking because I don't wanna say anything crazy." Even at that moment she was still trying to be a better "friend" to Phaedrah when she didn't have to be. Like she said to Nene on a reunion, she doesn't like to talk about things that weren't brought up on the show out of respect.
The shade assassin is Kenya.
@@omnip3469Nope, it's Eva with her short lived presence.. Otherwise, low-key Cynthia was a Beast! She just tried to ACT LIKE she was some innocent Person. *In NeNe Leakes voice!
I think that Phaedra did love Kandi as a sister. I think that’s why she tried to get back at her.
That damn Gucci Finally someone who gets it. She was hurt. Not that what she did was right. People kill me when they say Phaedra is jealous of Kandi.
Chocolate Capricorn Yes!!! People don’t try to get you back if they never cared about you
I would hate to have a sister like her.
Yes, she may have been hurt. However, she could've come up with a million other lies.
You can see the hurt in Phaedra’s face the way kandi was so nonchalant about this whole situation. Kandi did interviews about Phaedra while Phaedra remained quiet and that showed she truly did love kandi and she wanted to repair the friendship
5:04 Kandi hates Nene deeply. The way she said FUCKING NENE told a whole story 😂😂😂
I know how that feels 😂
They both hate each other idk why
Their relationship has always been up and down, off and on. 🤷🏽♀️
I don't think she necessarily said it out of hate- it just pissed Kandi the hell off because she was disappointed in Phaedra's hypocrisy to go crying and confiding in Nene of all people, the same woman who called Phaedra things like "not fabulous" and spent the first few seasons acting like she didn't know her. Kandi was just mad at Phaedra's blatant fakeassery
Kandi hate anyone who knows jer ass ain't innocent she's still mama joyce
I would have cried in front of that wig Nene had on too
I’m cryinggg
😂🤣🤣
Kandi is the kinda friend not to tell your business to ... cause when they get mad they spill all the tea...
Jay Speaks but according to her everyone else does it to her! I can’t make this shit up!
Says the girl that made a rape lie
Jay Speaks I'm sure Kandi got a lot on Phaedra. She kept a lot in during that reunion.
Jay Speaks ...right I agree,so two don't make it right.
Naw I dont agree with that. Kandi was very loyal and quiet when it came to phaedra. Until all the shyt between Todd & Phaedra so then she had to step in cuz thats her husband. Plus, kandi was getting drug wrongfully so that's when she shed light on some things. She didn't do it out of spite. She did it to protect her brand, her family and her name. And I understand that. You can only be loyal for so long if someone else is willing to throw you under the bus. 🤷♂️
&&Idc what nobody says that's Average and normal human behavior. If someone puts a gun to your head and forces you to tell some things most people would sing like a damn canary. And that's facts.
I bet kandi left that place and went straight to another restaurant to grub on LOL
I can't stand Phaedra but she look beautiful in this scene. makeup & hair on point ❤️
She really did.
She always wear extra extra thick makeup, to hide her real face clearly😂
Kandi never takes accountability
Kandi said let's stop lol she meant it.
Truths were about to start flying like confetti.
“ you had chocolate melting in your mouth and not in your hands honey” 🗣
That was a low blow kandi was very buck this season.
I don’t get it
@@GETYOUREDUCATIONwell how about this one she's known for being the "head doctor" she had a friend that was "pursuing her" that she named Mr.chocolate
@@jada9401 Ooop!👀
@@adamscameron64That wasn’t low it was true lmao
4:38 you can tell Phaedra was shocked Kandi said that on camera. When she did that head nod you can tell she was thinking in her head: “oh that’s what we doing? Got it”
And that was the moment she planned to get her revenge.
When the friendship dies the secrets do too. Kandi was dead wrong for airing her out on TV.
Thank you everyone letting her play victim like are we not watching the same show. Kandi went round telling everybody that phadrea was sleeping with someone else in season 7 when yet they were still friends. And she keep trying to use their divorce as excuse why she can’t be sad that she’s a single parent. Anybody would be hurt if their spouse is going to jail might not have Romantic feelings. And the whole problem was she was mad that phadrea was crying to nene because she could not stand nene fr. If nobody else will kandi was the problem she provoked phadrea not saying the lie was right but hey gotta learn how to stop being vindictive. And one last thing and she sided with her husband because of apollo.
Thank you! Somebody that can see what really happened!
Nah. The only reason Kandi aired out that particular secret was to defend herself against Phaedra trying to make her look like a bad friend , when the reality was that Phaedra was the one being fake. I’m sure she had a lot more secrets to tell but she didn’t.
Ummm Phaedra did way worse so foh.
@@KMnnAafter the fact.
Kandi did NOT come to play with Phaedra on that day. Okrrr!!
Kandi came wanting Phaedra to hold herself accountable and Phaedra came wanting to sweep everything under the rug.
Kandi did the same
@@tiffanygarner2229Kandi didnt need to be held accountable for anything.
Kandi needed to be held accountable for being unsympathetic. What she can’t grasp is this is why Phaedra went crying to Nene; imagine Kandi’s dry reaction when her tears would start to fall. This is similar to what she’s going through now with Marlo
Accountability doesn't equate to blatantly lying of people trying to ruin their name...
@benjaminevans4856 If I call you to check on you and you are in the middle of a divorce and you are telling me " girl I am seeing someone and we are getting married as soon as this divorce is over", a reasonable person would act like Kandi. It would be inferred that you have moved oh. Phaedra didn't think kandi was going to bring up that detail on the show which was why she was crying to other women who didn't have that information.
Kandi just will NEVER admit when that low down mother of hers is wrong!
It ain’t her job to correct her momma tf
That is right it is not Kandi"s job to correct her mother. So Phaedra should have CUSSED JOYCE ASS TF OUT!
@Auset Ausar oooookayyyyyy.... exactly, I don't know why they think Kandi suppose to diss her mother for them....I don't care how wrong my mama is I'm not checking her in front of no bitch
@@mspiesundee7202 LOFL 😂 😂 FFSE
@@brittniarchie9068 fact's......not her job at all. She can't control her mama or what she say.
I'm sorry but Nene wig at 5:12 was the funniest part of the video, lol! 😂
love action looked like top ramen noodles 🍜😂
Lmbo
“A lundry list” they so country 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Phaedra is miserable and did not expect to be read like that
Phaedra went there to check Kandi but got checked herself 😂😂 and then tried to plan a plot to destroy Kandi but only destroyed herself . “ you never win when you play dirty !” Linnethia leakes .
Phaedra know she can be shady AF but her shades are funny lmao i heard you .."we know kandi loves a good meal" jeeeez🤣
LMAO!!!!
She did too with all that humming her and her mom did while eating in past seasons lmbo.... they did it so much I couldn't eat a bologna sandwich without humming and savoring the moment lmbo
Kandi's hair is so pretty💋💖
Kandi was low down! Always throws rocks and hides her hands.
Miss me with she successful crap..she’s a low down dog
Nene's wig @ 5:13 has to go down in a hall of fame. 😂😂
Phaedra looks pretty
"You've got everything going for you... I don't know why you're so angry with me"..... That was pretty heartbreaking...Phaedra did go low with Kandi later in the season but she was a hurt woman.
Right there you can see the pain..
true
No! She was telling Kandie in so many ways... why she really jelous of her and why she envy her!! Down the line we seen what she did
@@shayholley6480 Phae was never jealous of Kandi.... that doesn't even make sense
Nope!! She was telling her why she hated her! That women is a demon and a 🐍 she wasn't that dam hurt!!
Can't hate on Phae her makeup, outfit and reads are so on point, 😍😍
Always!!!!!!!
Kresta Nge she needs it all her beauty is from a bag.
I just said that with her evil wicked ass!!
Nene: "I TRY." BRUH!
I truly believe Phaedra when she said she loved Kandi more than Apollo.
So then that’s proves the point that phaedra wasn’t mad or sad at all when apollo left.
I am with you on that.
I believe they were having sex, look at how she got mad and said she was talking her business to NE NE.
Kandi facial expressions be having me weak loll
I believe phadra was very envious !
I don't think so.
What does she have to be envious of? A woman that has many degrees, and is successful. They’re both successful women. She was hurt but not envious.
Advocate Speaks lmao the bitch is a fraud & a lier ! Go look it up yourself until then bitch STFU !
I love how phaedra tilts her head when she listens to someone 😭
It shows discomfort and agitation.
05:28 Phaedra trying to hold back her laugh
Tory Takken lmao
Lmaooooo
@Tory Takken did you see how the asian waiter turned around to look in the background when Phaedra said that😂
When Phadrea said I'm the one that should be mad and then she started to explain!!! In my opinion she was telling.Kandie why she was jealous of her!! 🙃 👂 Listen when people talk folks 💯
Yes I noticed that, very jealous but Ion understand why cause she claim 2 have all these jobs so...
Nene’s hair in that flashback tho😂
Kandi was more upset with Phaedra over this petty stuff than she was with Kim stealing her Tardy for the Party money. She gave Kim a second chance but told Phaedra ✌🏽
Being accused of being a rapist is petty?
@@bez26like Fr. Even being accused could ruin your life
The way phaedra said"look at this fancy dress you have one" was like girl what hell are you wearing
She Said "look at this fancy dress you got on" not One
The breakdown of Kandi & Phaedra started with Phaedra introducing Kandi to Todd. Todd developed a weird friendship with Apollo and stuck by him. The whole video thing was put on Phaedra when they had a deal with PHAEDRA & APOLLO. How about you ask Apollo for the money when he dropping 1k on strippers a night (that was from the horses mouth). Kandi stuck by her man and she used Phaedra going to Nene as the huge thing that broke up their friendship. I didn't see anything wrong with Phaedra talking to Nene bc Kandi was quick to befriend Nene when she called truce. If you watch the seasons you see where it all started.
EXACTLY!
I wholeheartedly agree. Kandi let her mother and Don Juan and the Kandi coated clique talk all this smack. When Phaedra and Apollo were going through their divorce Kandi chose Apollo over Phaedra cause Todd was friends with him.
@@michaelkeenan5550 Todd was her husband. Of course she was going to stand by her husband
Kandi is a fake snake that’s why Phaedra go so hard on her
@@sierramcclary2897 but shouldn't she be loyal to the friend that's like a sister to her? The very friend that introduced her to her husband? At the very least tell Phaedra I'm keeping your husbands things in my house
Yaas Kandi well said.! Address, Got up Classy and walked out. Thats how you do it. Grown folks! Classy to the bone!
💯
“Look at this fancy dress you have on” I’ve fallen and I can’t get up 🤣🤣🤣
The stare down in the beginning is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Phaedra is jealous of Kandi! She basically said it "you have everything Kandi".
That was sarcasm tho 😂
Exactly!!!!
I am convinced that Phaedra has visited Kandi's dungeon. 😂 There is so much emotion between the two ladies. This is deeper than friendship.
Oh yes lol
This is when Kandi needed Speak on it lol
Phaedra dissed kandi's outfit on the low duing 1st sec of video ahahah
Olof Olofersond lol she knew those flowers weren't fancy lmbo
Team Kandi. Phaedra is full of it.
the show is so evil it will kill marriages and friendships fast!!
Most of their arguing was done behind the scenes
Phaedra mad cause she couldn't use people!
I love how Phaedra is always culm
kimberly Dube like a snake
Calm
A dirty lying snake.
kimberly Dube true sometimes makes me wonder if she’s really a Scorpio!💯🇯🇲
Queen Phaedra stays unbothered!
This is why I’m glad Nene said what she said 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I believe fadra when she said she loved Kandi than her own husband
Lmao
She won’t understand until she’s going through her own divorce…
Phaedra definitely was wrong for all the jabs and shadiness, but I really hate their friendship went down like this. Damn I LOVED them together
Refreshing to see an adult end the conversation and leave gracefully. Stated they knew the friendship wasn't there, only wanted to address the mom situation, wished her well and dipped.
Then the worst kind of betrayal AFTER all that.
Smdh
That laundry list comment was Phaedra snake ass warning
Kandi was serving body in that dress. " Legs and hips and body." 🥰😂
"Maybe I loved you more than my husband!" Phaedra couldn't even keep a straight face! ;-)
Kandi did not have to expose Phaedra like that. She's really crossing a lines too imj
Exactly! That’s what set Phaedra off. She saw red after that.😡
I didn’t like that either cuz as a friend phaedra never told kandi’s business but then after phaedra had enough of kandi not being there for her and talking about her in the streets and hiding Apollo stuff she was done and I didn’t blame her yea she took it a lil over the charts with the raping allegation but I don’t think it was gonna damage kandi brand cuz everyone knows kandi don’t do drugs so it wasn’t that deep for phaedra which is why she didn’t care.
@@adamscameron64 I feel Phaedra has paid her dues for that lie and should get another chance in RHOA. Kandi said she would leave if Phaedra comes back. 🙄
@@123heydatsme so be it she needs a break anyway lol
Nenes wig...haha lol
damn Kandi threw the whole sink at her wow
Kandi know Phaedra full of ish!
Phaedra tried to play that single mom card 😅 kandi was like girl you were counting down 😂😂😂
Kandi like “Don’t talk about my man but let me talk about yours!” #hypocrite 🙄
Finally somebody sees it lol
Didn't notice that, wow.
Was she talking about her man or the fact that she didn’t want her man while portraying to be so hurt. Sounds like she was talking about her, not her man.
Fraudra doing what she does best...being messy
Steve L And the rest of bitches up there is messy especially Kandi and her trifling noisy ass mother
Kandi is low key one of the messiest ones on the show! She always running back info to somebody. She about 1-2 levels down from Sheree!
Fraudra 😂😂😂
And lying
@@chocolatecapricorn9418 the lies, the lies, the f'n lies
Kandi always wanna have the last word and "end" something when she knows her and/or her mom and husband is dead ass wrong. Phaedra is very dirty no doubt but Kandi is not innocent and needs to stop playing victim.
Corijuan Reese I'm going to do malicious things towards you and tell you to stop playing the victim.
Kandi is not perfect but she can’t be criticised for this situation, the conversation was one of nonsense and most people would have wanted to “end” it and “end” such a friendship also.
Corijuan Reese epic
Corijuan Reese Thank you!! She is full of it.
King Coletin Exactly!! Kandi didn't get brave until Todd came along. Wait until he leaves.
“maybe i loved you more than i loved my husband” 🤭✂️👩🏾❤️💋👩🏾 //.
That awkward ass silence in the beginning
Miss Phaedra parks ❤❤❤
Kandi is not fat and she used to be really skinny when she first started the show but Phaedra always been shaped like a toad so I don’t know why she wants to sip on that.
Kenya said it best, Kandi has a shape (she’s a brick house as Kenya said), meanwhile Phaedra is just a blob lol.
Phaedra is thinner than kandi now
Nene looking like the bride of Frankenstein. Lol
20 seconds of pure silence
This when Pheadra deceided that she was going to take down Kandi
Phaedra did Kandi wrong
And that way I could never ever respect her especially with all the lies she made up on kandi
They both did each other wrong. Kandi plays the victim alot.
Exactly and Kandi was suppose to be her "best friend" ? Gtfoh phadrea is fake and shady asf
James Brock and tell you that maybe I loved you more than my husband ☺️
They did each other wrong
But I wasn't referring to that so why would you even imply that?
I am referring to other things Kandi did in her friendship with Phaedra and just because Phaedra was wrong doesn't mean that Kandi was perfect in their friendship because she was not.
Kandi plays the victim a lot and never takes responsibility when she is wrong. She does this a lot on RHOA and she did that with her Xscape group on their show.
Kandi came to READ ~
Kandi is very one sided about things, she can do things that no one else can. She did Phaedra wrong too.
Exactly , nobody can say shh about kandi but she is the worst and acts a innocent person and she cries at the drop of a hat. Over kandi. She never been interesting period
Despite how this conversation ended, we all have to agree that Phaedra was right. Kandi mama was WRONG. That ain’t none of her business.
Amen amen amen!!!!!