This is SUCH a great video! Living in China as an American IS constantly holding two opposing ideas at the same time. I'm totally stealing this lol. I'm loving the plan for embracing more Chinese food and cities but if anyone feels you on going to Thailand all the time its me. 🤣🤣 It's been so great watching you grow and flourish over the past year! Keep up the great work!
the probIem with you: you look at them from a western perspective...for example the 'N word, no prejudice there but what do you expect when rap songs always have that word?? they thought it's okay to say...no prejudice here duh....learn more abt their cuIture and stop trying to push your corryupt western ideoIogy there...they have 6000 years civilization and wisdom and are better than the west...
I live in Shanghai, have visited a couple of cities in China. I have visited quite many counties mostly in Europe and I can say that Chinese public transport has been by far the best so far. In Shanghai you can literally go anywhere quite convinietly by public transport. Regarding staring and taking pictures, it happens for all foreigners regardless the race, skin color or anything. I do not think they mean anything like that, at least I do not get that feeling. By the way if you ever come to Shanghai do not miss to visit the Bund especially in the evening.
I'm really pumped to visit Shanghai someday! When I was moving here I was between Shenzhen and Shanghai! I know all 外国人 get stared at and I still think it's silly!
Better than Chinese get attacked by Americans everyday , me and my friends and a Chinese old lady were attacked and dizzy on the streets, nobody found her until she woke up,and of course no media’s coverage of USA
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces I am a HongKonger and I just returned from Shanghai. I can be sure no one will stared at you because there are so many foreigners there. Similar to that in HK.
As a Chinese living in Shenzhen, I'm very happy to see foreigners sharing their lives here. As you said, Shenzhen is a young city. There are many people from all directions. Their education level is not the same, so understanding the difference of race is not easy for everyone. I hope you don't feel sad. This is not your problem, this is where the entire society needs long -term progress.
I’ve randomly kinda started getting these videos of people living in China and omg I love your videos. I never imagined really living in China but hearing so many people talk about moving to China and having shared positive experiences is so fun and now I’m wishing I was there. Amazing work!!
The hardest part for learning languages is ACTUALLY speaking for me as well. I gotta throw that shyness away and tell myself how bad I want to improve. It’s all about mindset. You can do it you know you can!!!
@@BrianaisGoingPlacesI thought myself Japanese but now I’m learning Mandarin. I’m actually going to school for it though so I’m hoping it won’t take nearly as long as Japanese did. 🥰🥰
Welcome to China sister! I’ve visited Shenzhen many times I love Shenzhen. And FYI, in case you haven’t found out yet almost every city on the eastern part of the country has top-tier public transportation. I live in a second tier city here in Jiangsu province, and the transportation here is top-tier.
I can’t believe it has been a whole year!!! It was so cool hearing about all of your expectations. Still so brave to move! You will always be a star in my eyes ✨
Omg hi from Guangzhou!! I moved from Maryland from about 6 months ago :) I totally hear what you mean in the first few minutes about “two opposing realities, conflicting realities, etc etc. I totally feel you :) So glad I found your channel! Best of luck ❤
First time watched this channel and I have subscribed! Do you like to be a very driven and friendly person. I’m sorry to hear that people staring in China is so annoying. I do hear that Cantonese half prejudice against the Black people because there are so many of them from Africa who lives in Guangzhou. China has grown rapidly in the last four decades but civility takes longer time to improve. Now I’m really curious to find out from your other videos to understand why you came to China during Covid time when most foreigners are leaving. That’s extraordinary and takes courage.
I love this :D I've been living in Beijing for 3 out of the last 5 years. You might've already tried some or all of these, but here are some vegetarian recommendations: 地三鲜、煎饼、拔丝地瓜、拍黄瓜 or if you get 烧烤 there's usually some good veggie options！！
Wow I appreciate all these suggestions! I've had the first three (And the cucumbers I am OBSESSED with, and I didn't really like eating cucumbers much in the U.S.). I need to try the bbq. I've been hesitant to try bc I didn't think it'd be super veggie friendly, but now i know!
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces If you go to BBQ, most places have at least 蒜蓉茄子 (Garlic Eggplant)、金针菇 (Enoki mushrooms, usually cooked in sauce... so good)、豆皮卷香菜 (Tofu-skin wrapped cilantro, they usually have other tofu-wrapped stuff if you don't like cilantro)、土豆片 (Potato slices)、烤馒头 (Roasted Mantou) and some other great options, but they have probably been on the same grill as meat (if that is important to you). I'm not vegetarian, but the veggies at bbq places are so good that I usually end up getting more veggies than meat lmao
Thanks for a great video! I am thinking about visiting Shenzen in the future (since I love public transport and parks) from the US. Would love to see more about your experience on public transport and videos on other sustainable things in Shenzen you come across! I am also vegetarian like you so was wondering if it would be super difficult and its nice to find a youtuber who talks about their experience! Thanks for covering all this info. Really appreciate your channel and hope all is well! 😄
Without question, 5 of the very best years of this black man's life was spent in Shenzhen, having a great, but highly demanding job as IB Coordinator . Made lifelong friends, still have to this day, absorbed the culture in every way, learned Mandarin, learned to cook the food, saved a lot, and friends titled me 'ABC' (American Black Chinese) due to my complete absorption of the culture. So, if one is truly open to the people/culture a black person will be wrapped in their warm blanket and it will be nearly impossible to take it off. That is how embracing the Chinese are. Truth is, they don't care. If you come to love them, they will return that love x 10.
So true about the opposing ideas and attitudes that prevail while living in China. You have a great attitude and such a great energy! Your perseverence will make the difference in the change you want to make 🙏
To think that the cost of living is so much more than our nearest US city (which is literally 30-45 mins away) to hear China cost of living is even cheaper ?!?!? 🤯. Great video.
As a Chinese woman this is so relatable as well, I have large chest and that's not super common here in China so like even I get the death stares for as long as I can remember and it freaking suuuuuuuuuucks all the time. Like I literally have seen girls on subways asking their boyfriends to look at my chest like I'm an animal. I don't know if that makes you feel better or not. But like I remember when I was little my mom always always told me to never stare. I thought everybody's mom taught them that in China but apparently I was wrong.
if you like Thailand, you may want to travel to Dehong Dai and Jingpo @ Yunnan province.... whilst you're @ Yunnan, you may also want to check out the Miao people as well.... also Yunnan's puer tea and mushrooms are top notch
Hi Briana, Chinese people are generally friendly, hospitable, and welcoming. I noticed so many interracial marriages between Chinese and foreigners, particularly blacks. You should venture out Shenzhen more and see and feel other places in China.
I want to give you the biggest hug after seeing the racial section of the video, and especially the way you handled all the comments about it and understanding na ge (that one) vs the n word. And how exhausting it must be to be the "ambassador". You are a trailblazer and a superstar and I love your attitude and outlook of positivity despite all of that you don't carry yourself with a chip on your shoulder which a lot of people would have! How you chose the path of understanding and grace when others would have chosen blame and spite. Your positivity is infectious. Please keep making videos you have yourself a subscriber here! PS. Did you say you were studying the CFP? What plans do you have with that going forward?
Wow, this is such a kind comment! I needed it, and I so appreciate you taking the time to share some kind words. I did begin studying my CFP, and I still need to finish. I'm not entirely sure where it will take me because I'm not really interested in going back to finance in a corporate way, but we shall see!
'First time coming across your channel. This video is so refreshing. I can relate to you so much. I live in Foshan Guangdong. Also get stared at but love their reactions when I speak a bit of Mandarin. Keep going with your Chinese lessons. You Go Girl!!!
During the Qing Dynasty, China closed its border for nearly a hundred years, and then invaded by Europe and Japan for over a hundred years. Then the People's Republic of China was sanctioned and blocked by Western countries for nearly half a century. Therefore, Chinese people are curious about foreigners. Many people really only see people of other skin colors on TV. If taking photos, it is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for some people. There are too many Chinese people and relatively few foreigners. In fact, when I go to some countries in Africa and even some countries in South America, my experience is similar to yours. Moreover, due to two to three hundred years of isolation, there is almost no concept of racial discrimination. Therefore, Chinese people will speak some discriminatory words in the West directly. For example, black people, white people, and yellow people are just some basic terms in China with no other meaning. As I said, most Chinese people don't even know what racism is. However, some people intentionally use the "N" word to discriminate against black persons. A lot of black men, I mean a lot, came to China and had sex with Chinese girls. After the girls got pregnant, they abandoned them and returned home. There are many mixed-race babies in China. These things were quite common in the early years, especially in Guangdong. Hong Kong people often discriminated against black people. This has existed since the 1970s. In the early years of China's reform and opening up, around 1980, many wealthy Hong Kong people went to neighboring Guangdong to set up business. And many of these people have backgrounds living in the West. You know what the rich people are like back then. At that time, many nasty words about black people were brought into China, especially in the south. Many mosquito species in China were also brought in by freight from Southeast Asia during that time, BTW, haha. So, you can understand how isolated China was in the past and its impact on the present.
Of course, history always has an impact on the present. I understand where a lot of these behaviors come from on a large scale, but being the one that has to deal with it in the day to day is not always fun! Either way, my experiences here are more positive than not, and I really like living in Shenzhen.
Hey Briana; almost all restaurants in China have vegetarian options. Normal Chinese menus normally consist of meat dishes versus vegetarian dishes. My mother is a Buddhist vegetarian, and she could go to any Chinese restaurant (she also doesn't eat garlic and onions, so she added to tell the chef about not putting that in her veggie dishes.) Even the traditional meat options could be left without if you just tell them bie fang rou 别放肉(don't add the meat). I hope this helps!
I'm halfway through my 9th year now. I had such a completely different experience because i started in a really poor and underdeveloped part of Suzhou. I have been in Chengdu for three years and planning to move to Shenzhen in July. Good luck！ and dont rule out staying here the rest of your life, its a great country.😂
thanks for sharing! so interesting to see what others' experiences are in China! love your personality and outlook on things! Hope year 2 will be exciting and fun! I am also curious as to why Chinese people sometimes view black people negatively since--like you mentioned--there hasn't been a lot of beef between China and African countries/peoples. Unfortunately (especially) older generations or less educated people do have a negative stereotype. My thought is possibly that Chinese people still have the idea that darker skin means less educated or poorer (since historically farmers are the ones out in the sun)--but not sure how much this carries to other ethnicities. Another thought is that historically American Hollywood/media portrayal of African Americans was not very inclusive and oftentimes portrayed African Americans negatively/as a specific stereotype. I remember as a child, replicas of foreign movies/shows was pretty common
Happy for you to enjoy your life in China. There are a few things I want to clarify. 1, Hongkong has always been part of China, period, and it runs a different system. Britain handed it over in 1997 after the 99 years of renting ended. You may think otherwise and I don’t care as long as you keep it to yourself. I am offended as a Chinese when you mentioned that. 2, About the staring issue, that will probably last very long time in China and you did your homework before coming which is good. One suggestion, if you don’t like it, maybe just say no thank you? I feel bad for both of you and those people‘starting’. It’s good to experience different cultures and I really hope your stay in China will be a good one.
Stop explaining to brainwashed westerners, they can’t change anything about China, Taiwan province will be reunited with mainland very soon from the western evils hand
I appreciate you sharing. If you watch the video, you'll notice that I did not say any thoughts on whether HK was part of China. Generally if people are staring I don't tell them not to because it's their eyes. However, I will either walk away or ask them not to take pictures of me and people do listen for the most part.
I live in Nigeria in Africa, when we see foreigners we also stare. In terms of prejudice, i believe that if Africa becomes great and powerful there will be much more respect for black people. Respect is earned not given.
Very insightful video. I’be actually been offered a position in Shenzhen and was wondering about some of the points you mentioned. Appreciate the input.
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces It's there or Guangzhou. Both are high priority locations for me but i'll wait and see where I get the best offer. Keep up the good work.
Usually I don’t get many stares, but I have experienced people randomly taking photos and as a human, it makes me feel so uncomfortable and self conscious 💀(ps, I also hope the Shenzhen expat community evolves and becomes better 🥲)
RUclips pushed your video to me haha. I also traveled to Kazakhstan and other countries in August 2023. I felt the same as you, feeling the customs and customs of different countries. I'm in Guangzhou. If you need travel advice to Guangzhou one day, feel free to ask me!
Wow these sound like cool adventures! How was Kazakhstan? I've been to GZ a few times but I need to go on a proper tourist trip! All advice apprectiated!
Hi Briana, welcome to China and congrats on your 1 year anniversary in SZ. Sorry that a kid called you the 'N' word. Its most probably he or she learned it on TV or listening to some Rap, but I can bet that they don’t even know what it means so, please don’t take it to heart! There is a little prejudice towards Africans here in Guangzhau and a bit in SZ. Its mosly because there was a big case long ago with a lot of Africans selling drugs here in Guangzhau and there was a lot of Overstays here as well, but the majority of Chinese have 0 beef on African Americans, they just couldn’t tell the difference. So have a Great time here and hopfully youcan travel to more places here in China! God Bless !
Actually you can have veg dish in most restaurants especially if you are not a vegan. Ma La Tang, Hot Pot, very popular dish, and you just choose veg soup and veg dishes of your choice. Don't try Mapo Tofu, it is not veg. Then you have snacks as Jianbing. I believe once you can communicate well, you can get veg dishes almost in every restaurant.
I made the mapo tofu mistake when I first arrived in China.! I think it def depends on the restaurant because lots of restaurants love to sprinkle meat into the veggie dishes! But I still have time to learn and try!
You don't have to go to a vegetarian restaurant to get tasty vegetable dishes...Two dishes to look for at restaurants that serve 炒面 and 炒河粉(chow mein and chow fun) is veggies chow mein or veggies chow fun. 素炒麵，or时菜炒河粉。時菜=whatever fresh vegetables they happen to have at the restaurant that day. Another thing most restaurants have that most people consider tasty is veggie oil stir-fried spinach with garlic 蒜茸菠菜 with garlic, or pea sprouts蒜茸豆苗。。。But, don't expect these to be cheap...I think it's some form of "If you're so lazy you can't be bothered to cook something so simple, we're going to charge you prima donna prices" punishment from the chefs, who work super hard to serve so many different tasty and varieties of foods at low prices relative to most of America and the West in general. Here's a tip about cooking: If there's a recipe on the packaging of some foods you buy from the markets, follow it! The reason is, the recipe is likely to be one that is relatively easy and "foolproof"...This is because the company knows that if you follow the package's recipe and it turns out bad, you're likely not to buy it again.
I am a black man, now middle-age, and lived i in Shenzhen long enough to qualify for a residence permit, which allowed me to purchase a flat in Futian, which I still own to this day. I devoted much time and energy learning Mandarin so I could communicate; developed many great friends who shielded me from some of the darker aspects of urban living which can be intense. Learned to embrace the food, cook the dishes I loved. and overall, I would NEVER return to our damaged, divided country on a full-time basis. China is home to me, and if there does any degree of racism for being black, I can honestly say I've never felt or experienced it. My friends refer to me as 'ABC' which means 'American black Chinese' a sign of respect that I'm been accepted. The same can happen with you, as well.
@@Tommie-m5d Daeker aspects are the same for every foreigner, When you make Chinese friends they will protect and shield you from some cultural annoyances you know noting about, and probably could never learn because they involve nuances of language. habits, attitudes that they know but could not 'teach' you. It's the same for anyone entering a U.S. ghetto; nuances of language one just wouldn't 'get' because if you're not bred in the hood you just would't know how to navigate. It's the same there. i.e. just let your heart find good friends and let all else become the adventure you're there for. Living in China is nothing short of amazing and the experience is life-changing. Like I mentioned, I didn't' wish to leave, but I do have a flat as a second home, so I can return whenever I want to.
Been here 5 years now. As far as the expat community thing goes, eventually you get to realize they all suck. Think about how many people you hang out with at home. Do you need an entire community? And then there's the reality that as soon as you get to know someone they will be going. Eventually you make real friends who move on, or you do. And its a great excuse to visit other cities. But as far as meeting new expats, the new guys thinking we are a band of brothers or something get a bit annoying...in a nice way.
Hehe maybe it's because I'm a people person but I'm hesitant to think most communities suck. I also hang out with lots of people soooo it's def partially a me thing. I've recently been going to board game nights around town which has opened up a whole new community of expats and locals that I'm really enjoying though, so I'll keep digging for it!
Hi Briana, they're not saying the N word, they're actually saying 那个 (nage, but pronounced neige 内个 in common spoken form), which just means "that". This is a common theme, when foreigners hear the "N word" everywhere they go, because it's literally one of the most used words in China, but rest assured, they're just saying "that". The students might be saying "that teacher" "那个老师" which is maybe a little impolite, but it's still not what you think it is. The N word is a very specific term that your average Chinese person will simply not understand because even if their english is decent enough to somehow know the term, they would still have no "cultural experience" to be able to use it.
No, you're wrong, and I think it's rude to try to tell me my experience as if you were there. I know the difference and I know what was said. I do live here, and I have been learning Chinese, so I of course know what 那个/这个/etc are. I also think you're underestimating the average Chinese person and their exposure to things outside China as well as how bratty middle schoolers can be.
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces Alright then, sorry if that came off as offensive. I've just had plenty of experiences where I was out with a friend and they've asked something like "did that cashier just call me a N....". Obviously it's a sensitive word and it's common to pick it up from all the random sounds around you. But if you know what you've heard then I don't doubt you.
I’m so excited for you and I would LUV to do such a thing (again). When I did I didn’t vlog. My son said the food is so cheap and you get a lot. Is their a huge difference in the $ value. Do you think you can understand the language more? I’ve heard such amazing things about Thailand. Yes my friend said it’s so weird how they stare at us. They tried to touch her and play with her plaits.
Chinese people may look at you twice because of your skin color and may call you black woman, but they have no malice in their hearts and no discrimination.
Welcome to China specifically our city , being a vegetarian is hard in our city ? did you get a chance to try finding salads in meituan delivery apps, I found many options of salads there though 😂 but depends on where do you live Opps did someone say n word to you ? you need emphasis you’re from the US all the time publicly, you probably found they immediately respect you a lot 😂 it works
Yeah def depends where you live. If you're in Futian or Nanshan you're prob okay! I do not live there! When I'm at work, there's certainly a lot more options :)
Briana, China has tons of varieties of vegetables. For vegetarian, you can try out any vegetable dishes, without meat, in a restaurant, just name a few 炒时蔬 （seasonal veggie stir-fry, tons of options ），番茄炒蛋（tomato egg stir-fry) ，地三鲜（potato, eggplant, green pepper stir-fry）, 干锅花菜（spicy cauliflower pot）, 干煸豆角（spicy green beans stir-fry）, 蒜蓉西兰花（broccoli garlic stir-fry）and so on. You can go to any restaurant, open the menu, navigate to the veggie dishes section, then order any dish and ask them not to put mean in it (不要放肉 or 我吃素).
Thank you for the recommendations! I do love 番茄炒蛋. I definitely love veggies, but if I'm going to a restaurant, eating just vegetables is not really a full meal (though I do it often hehe)
People that say it is not easy being a Vegetarian or Vegan in China obviously don't know local restaurants. And probably bubbled up in their own Western bubble in China. Besides India, I don't think there is another country in the world that have ease of access to Vegetables or vegetarian/vegan dishes as China. Sure there are a lot of meat eating restaurants but access to vegetarian/vegan dishes is very easy also.
Are you a vegetarian? I'm curious because China is a very big place and maybe some places it's easier than others. Where I live is not that Western haha if it was maybe I'd find more options. But I will say I do more waimai than going to restaurants which probably makes it harder. But I have been to restaurants where I order vegetarian dishes and they come out with meat, so to me that's not easy
Sometimes you can look for Buddhist temples or Buddhist restaurants. It’s usually very cheap and all vegetarian, and there’s no requirement to be Buddhist. Outside of buddhism meat consumption is very high in China. Especially if you consider traditional pastries made with lard😅For those who want to know about chinese veg options: -面镜(miàn jīng) gluten (comes in multiple forms) -素肉(sù ròu) veg meat (Also comes in many forms) 素鸡，素鹅，素鸭，etc. Any imitation meat you can think of, they probably have it. -烤麸kaofu (baked cake) It’s a form of gluten that has a lot of air bubbles. Veg meat options aren’t for everyone because of the texture 😅 As for why Chinese people can have prejudice beliefs towards black foreign nationals. It’s usually because of western films and media, as well as poor reputation caused by certain black individuals. But I think it’s mostly media portrayal and western influences (if we go back in history) because contrary to what most people think, a lot of Chinese people eventually hear about western news. They knew about the Asian hate problem during Covid, and they knew about the huge theft problem in California 😅Culturally Chinese people tend to stare, it’s a social activity called people watching. It can be very annoying but it’s usually benign, especially if you wave and say Hi. If you’re really upset about it, just say 看什么看？😂
I love all these suggestions! Thank you! I've eaten a lot of 面镜 (especially the bbq kind if you know what I'm talking about!) I think one of the things with Shenzhen is because it's so new (and some other people's complaints about it, both Chinese and foreigner) is that it really has no history haha. Like we don't have the buddhist temples that you would see in GZ and HK (of course there's some but it's not as common) I def have found stuff I can buy and make at home, but the veggie restaurant scene isn't as big (but it's growing)! Also yes people here love to stare at ANYTHING! Which is fun because I'm nosy so I like joining in but quickly becomes annoying when I'm the object of the stares haha. It's life here though so I'm used to it unless it's been a looooong day.
Racism, prejudice and bigotry exists everywhere in the world including in the continent of Africa, unfortunate but is reality. However, I like to point out there is a high chance that your encounter with it in China regarding the "N" word could be a mistaken identity in translation. There is a word "neegerh" or "neegor" in Chinese that means "this", "this?", "Could it be this?", "This or that", etc. Not sure if this is the case but many have came across this situation and thought they were being called the "N" word. Especially this may be the case if it was coming from one of your students. As most students highly respects the teachers. Just thought to throw that possibility out there.
I appreciate you sharing the possibilities, but I know the difference, and they weren't trying to say 那个。Most of the Chinese speakers I've encountered, at least where I live aren't really pronouncing that with an R. I know in Beijing they tend to have r pronounciations so maybe they could sound similar there.
For point 6, let me explain a little bit as a Chinese. Keep in mind, China is not an immigrant country, so foreigners are not seen often till recent years, and especially in not tier one cities. Even though I don't live in GuangDong province, but it is often heard on internet that GuangDong province now is packed with Africans ( roughly 0.4 millions probably). So it doesnt matter either you are an African or African American, it all stays in the category as "black people". ( Akin to the perspective that Americans feel Asian people all look the same based on skin color). As I mentioned, China is not an immigrant country for past thousands of years, people have grow into this natural identity, seeing too many foreigners are causing anxiety to locals. And there were some serious crimes caused by black people in China, for instance that homicide incidence happened in NingBo city. So it is not about racial discrimination, it is all natural human defense mechanism, some feel curious, some feel threatened so keep distance. It is part of Chinese culture as " None Immigrant country".
Are you sure that they were actually use “N word “? there is common expression that is equivalent to English expression of “you know”or “eh“， which is “ 那个”, that sounds really like “N word”. Some Chinese tourists actually got beaten up in the US because of this misunderstanding. I say this is because very few Chinese people know about the N word, if they want to insult at you, most likely they would cuss at your mom instead…. Those Chinese who are well travelled or educated to know about the significant connotation of the N word would most likely don’t use “N-word”…
I'm positive. I know the difference. I think more people than you would expect know about things like this haha. My students know about trending (American) tik tok sounds, songs, etc.
Do you know what? I'm doing a meatless march next month and trying to be fully vegan! I'll let you know how it goes! If you don't already, I highly recommend following Vegan in China on instagram. She shows it is possible! She also lives in Beijing though
in Mandarin, when you want say that thing or that one. it really sounds like the N word. maybe the kid just meant he wanted that thing over there. and when people runs out of words during a conversation, they normally use that word too. it means " it's just like...."
about those kids calling you the N word, you need to ask them where or how they learn that word..because I don't think it's a common thing at all in China to call black ppl the N word. I have never heard of it before you brought it up. I'm so curious as how they learn it..
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces Are you sure it was the N-word? Mandrin has a word that means "this one" that sounds exactly like the n-word. They also use that word as a filler word, like how we use "umm".
@@BrianaisGoingPlacesI also live in Shenzhen and I’ve been called the N word twice on different occasions by children on the road. I haven’t even been in China for a year as yet 🫠… So it’s a thing for sure.
Yeah, a lot of what you said I totally agree. Anything new and different is interesting to people, but I think the more we talk and interact the more we get to see and know each other as humans, and that's the goal for me! I love getting to hear others' perspectives so I appreciate your comment.
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This is SUCH a great video! Living in China as an American IS constantly holding two opposing ideas at the same time. I'm totally stealing this lol. I'm loving the plan for embracing more Chinese food and cities but if anyone feels you on going to Thailand all the time its me. 🤣🤣 It's been so great watching you grow and flourish over the past year! Keep up the great work!
Haha please steal!! I'm like stopping myself from going AGAIN on national holiday like I need to chill out!
the probIem with you: you look at them from a western perspective...for example the 'N word, no prejudice there but what do you expect when rap songs always have that word?? they thought it's okay to say...no prejudice here duh....learn more abt their cuIture and stop trying to push your corryupt western ideoIogy there...they have 6000 years civilization and wisdom and are better than the west...
Don’t believe American media. If you visit China, you’ll never want to leave.
Life is so beautiful there, fucking affordable and convenient.
I live in Shanghai, have visited a couple of cities in China. I have visited quite many counties mostly in Europe and I can say that Chinese public transport has been by far the best so far. In Shanghai you can literally go anywhere quite convinietly by public transport.
Regarding staring and taking pictures, it happens for all foreigners regardless the race, skin color or anything. I do not think they mean anything like that, at least I do not get that feeling.
By the way if you ever come to Shanghai do not miss to visit the Bund especially in the evening.
I'm really pumped to visit Shanghai someday! When I was moving here I was between Shenzhen and Shanghai!
I know all 外国人 get stared at and I still think it's silly!
I 100% agree!
Better than Chinese get attacked by Americans everyday , me and my friends and a Chinese old lady were attacked and dizzy on the streets, nobody found her until she woke up,and of course no media’s coverage of USA
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces I am a HongKonger and I just returned from Shanghai. I can be sure no one will stared at you because there are so many foreigners there. Similar to that in HK.
Me too 15 yrs. there , Now in Canada.
As a Chinese living in Shenzhen, I'm very happy to see foreigners sharing their lives here. As you said, Shenzhen is a young city. There are many people from all directions. Their education level is not the same, so understanding the difference of race is not easy for everyone. I hope you don't feel sad. This is not your problem, this is where the entire society needs long -term progress.
Aww I love meeting other 深圳人 (even if you're not born here)! I am mostly enjoying my time in China so I'm happy to be in Shenzhen!
I’ve randomly kinda started getting these videos of people living in China and omg I love your videos. I never imagined really living in China but hearing so many people talk about moving to China and having shared positive experiences is so fun and now I’m wishing I was there. Amazing work!!
Wow glad you randomly found mune! Maybe it's a sign to jump in and do it!
I just arrived in China. It's a wonderful and advanced country. I would like to explore it too by making videos, showing my perspective. 😃
Please do! I love seeing other people traveling around China! I'll be sure to check out your vids!
Welcome to China
WOW!!! 1 year already!! Congrats Briana
I'm shocked the time went SOOO quickly!
It’s so brave to move halfway across the world!! This video was so fun and informative for me. Rooting for you 🎉
Aww thanks so much for watching!
The hardest part for learning languages is ACTUALLY speaking for me as well. I gotta throw that shyness away and tell myself how bad I want to improve. It’s all about mindset. You can do it you know you can!!!
Yes! I feel like I've mastered some situations (I order coffee like a boss!) but others it definitely is harder. What language are you learning?
@@BrianaisGoingPlacesI thought myself Japanese but now I’m learning Mandarin. I’m actually going to school for it though so I’m hoping it won’t take nearly as long as Japanese did. 🥰🥰
Welcome to China sister! I’ve visited Shenzhen many times I love Shenzhen. And FYI, in case you haven’t found out yet almost every city on the eastern part of the country has top-tier public transportation. I live in a second tier city here in Jiangsu province, and the transportation here is top-tier.
You go to central China... there are even better subways and free ways in Wuhan
@@DescendantofYellowEmperor I'm planning to go to Wuhan for Golden Week.
I can't wait! There's so many places I want to visit here. Do you mind sharing your city? Do you like it?
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces I live in Changzhou in Jiangsu Province and I love it
I can’t believe it has been a whole year!!! It was so cool hearing about all of your expectations. Still so brave to move! You will always be a star in my eyes ✨
Me neither! Time really flies!! Thank you so much :)
oooouuuuu I remember you posting the cloudy mountain scene! SO BEAUTIFUL
I am from the US and I have lived in Singapore for 4 years and I CANNOT live without good public transportation anymore. I love it so much!!
Omg hi from Guangzhou!! I moved from Maryland from about 6 months ago :) I totally hear what you mean in the first few minutes about “two opposing realities, conflicting realities, etc etc. I totally feel you :) So glad I found your channel! Best of luck ❤
I'm glad you found too! Glad you're in the neighborhood! ;)
First time watched this channel and I have subscribed! Do you like to be a very driven and friendly person. I’m sorry to hear that people staring in China is so annoying. I do hear that Cantonese half prejudice against the Black people because there are so many of them from Africa who lives in Guangzhou. China has grown rapidly in the last four decades but civility takes longer time to improve. Now I’m really curious to find out from your other videos to understand why you came to China during Covid time when most foreigners are leaving. That’s extraordinary and takes courage.
Yeah I definitely want to make a video about why I came to China!
@@ysw8291 agreed
I just saw your video for the first time. Don’t give up, just share your experience more often. You might become a star 🌟 🙏
Thanks so much! I'm glad you got to stop by and watch!
I love this :D I've been living in Beijing for 3 out of the last 5 years. You might've already tried some or all of these, but here are some vegetarian recommendations: 地三鲜、煎饼、拔丝地瓜、拍黄瓜 or if you get 烧烤 there's usually some good veggie options！！
Wow I appreciate all these suggestions! I've had the first three (And the cucumbers I am OBSESSED with, and I didn't really like eating cucumbers much in the U.S.). I need to try the bbq. I've been hesitant to try bc I didn't think it'd be super veggie friendly, but now i know!
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces If you go to BBQ, most places have at least 蒜蓉茄子 (Garlic Eggplant)、金针菇 (Enoki mushrooms, usually cooked in sauce... so good)、豆皮卷香菜 (Tofu-skin wrapped cilantro, they usually have other tofu-wrapped stuff if you don't like cilantro)、土豆片 (Potato slices)、烤馒头 (Roasted Mantou) and some other great options, but they have probably been on the same grill as meat (if that is important to you). I'm not vegetarian, but the veggies at bbq places are so good that I usually end up getting more veggies than meat lmao
Wow! I’m ready for this video I’m curious to learn how your year has been.
Thanks for a great video! I am thinking about visiting Shenzen in the future (since I love public transport and parks) from the US. Would love to see more about your experience on public transport and videos on other sustainable things in Shenzen you come across! I am also vegetarian like you so was wondering if it would be super difficult and its nice to find a youtuber who talks about their experience! Thanks for covering all this info. Really appreciate your channel and hope all is well! 😄
Wow! Thank you for sharing! We have a lot in common! I definitely would love to do videos like that! I'm adding to my new year's youtube goals!
Without question, 5 of the very best years of this black man's life was spent in Shenzhen, having a great, but highly demanding job as IB Coordinator . Made lifelong friends, still have to this day, absorbed the culture in every way, learned Mandarin, learned to cook the food, saved a lot, and friends titled me 'ABC' (American Black Chinese) due to my complete absorption of the culture. So, if one is truly open to the people/culture a black person will be wrapped in their warm blanket and it will be nearly impossible to take it off. That is how embracing the Chinese are. Truth is, they don't care. If you come to love them, they will return that love x 10.
So true about the opposing ideas and attitudes that prevail while living in China. You have a great attitude and such a great energy! Your perseverence will make the difference in the change you want to make 🙏
you're most definitely a ⭐!! I'm moving to china for a few months in March and this rllllly helped 🙏💛💛
Thanks for the love and encouragement! I hope you enjoy your time in China!
To think that the cost of living is so much more than our nearest US city (which is literally 30-45 mins away) to hear China cost of living is even cheaper ?!?!? 🤯. Great video.
Yuuuup it's pretty amazing!
As a Chinese woman this is so relatable as well, I have large chest and that's not super common here in China so like even I get the death stares for as long as I can remember and it freaking suuuuuuuuuucks all the time. Like I literally have seen girls on subways asking their boyfriends to look at my chest like I'm an animal. I don't know if that makes you feel better or not. But like I remember when I was little my mom always always told me to never stare. I thought everybody's mom taught them that in China but apparently I was wrong.
Ugh that's so frustrating! Sorry to hear that. It's always such an awkward experience.
The train stations look so nice lmaoo way better than NYC
I remember you posting how your building was on lockdown and you couldn't get out. They blocked that whole entrance
if you like Thailand, you may want to travel to Dehong Dai and Jingpo @ Yunnan province.... whilst you're @ Yunnan, you may also want to check out the Miao people as well.... also Yunnan's puer tea and mushrooms are top notch
Oh my gosh I want to go to Yunnan SO BAD!! Thank you for these recommendations. I will definitely try to do them all when I go!
Hi Briana, Chinese people are generally friendly, hospitable, and welcoming. I noticed so many interracial marriages between Chinese and foreigners, particularly blacks. You should venture out Shenzhen more and see and feel other places in China.
I definitely hope to venture outside of Shenzhen more! There's so many places around China to see!
Girl you're A STAR
I’m a foreigner living in Shenzhen too, thanks for sharing a bit of your experience here 😊
That's so fun! 深圳人！
It’s good to see what uve been up to since u disappeared from the group chat
Lol I don't even get group messages here :( I'm always on insta!! (and wechat ;) )
im tuning innnnnnnnn
I want to give you the biggest hug after seeing the racial section of the video, and especially the way you handled all the comments about it and understanding na ge (that one) vs the n word. And how exhausting it must be to be the "ambassador". You are a trailblazer and a superstar and I love your attitude and outlook of positivity despite all of that you don't carry yourself with a chip on your shoulder which a lot of people would have! How you chose the path of understanding and grace when others would have chosen blame and spite. Your positivity is infectious. Please keep making videos you have yourself a subscriber here!
PS. Did you say you were studying the CFP? What plans do you have with that going forward?
Wow, this is such a kind comment! I needed it, and I so appreciate you taking the time to share some kind words.
I did begin studying my CFP, and I still need to finish. I'm not entirely sure where it will take me because I'm not really interested in going back to finance in a corporate way, but we shall see!
'First time coming across your channel. This video is so refreshing. I can relate to you so much. I live in Foshan Guangdong. Also get stared at but love their reactions when I speak a bit of Mandarin. Keep going with your Chinese lessons. You Go Girl!!!
Make some videos about cool places to go in Shenzhen! Awesome video
Ohh this is one I def wanna make! Maybe my fave spots around SZ!
Lol! You are a star, the blow up is coming!
✨⭐✨⭐✨⭐✨🌟💫💫 Love your channel and I do believe that you're going to blow up
Aww that's so nice! Claiming it! Thank you!!
When someone stare at you, you can say "Ni Hao" to them and you will be rewarded with a friendly smile.
Sometimes I do, but I would be saying Ni Hao all day everyday sooooo
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces LOL, now you know why NewYorker and Chinese seem so rude.
During the Qing Dynasty, China closed its border for nearly a hundred years, and then invaded by Europe and Japan for over a hundred years. Then the People's Republic of China was sanctioned and blocked by Western countries for nearly half a century. Therefore, Chinese people are curious about foreigners. Many people really only see people of other skin colors on TV. If taking photos, it is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for some people. There are too many Chinese people and relatively few foreigners. In fact, when I go to some countries in Africa and even some countries in South America, my experience is similar to yours.
Moreover, due to two to three hundred years of isolation, there is almost no concept of racial discrimination. Therefore, Chinese people will speak some discriminatory words in the West directly. For example, black people, white people, and yellow people are just some basic terms in China with no other meaning. As I said, most Chinese people don't even know what racism is.
However, some people intentionally use the "N" word to discriminate against black persons. A lot of black men, I mean a lot, came to China and had sex with Chinese girls. After the girls got pregnant, they abandoned them and returned home. There are many mixed-race babies in China. These things were quite common in the early years, especially in Guangdong. Hong Kong people often discriminated against black people. This has existed since the 1970s. In the early years of China's reform and opening up, around 1980, many wealthy Hong Kong people went to neighboring Guangdong to set up business. And many of these people have backgrounds living in the West. You know what the rich people are like back then. At that time, many nasty words about black people were brought into China, especially in the south. Many mosquito species in China were also brought in by freight from Southeast Asia during that time, BTW, haha. So, you can understand how isolated China was in the past and its impact on the present.
Of course, history always has an impact on the present. I understand where a lot of these behaviors come from on a large scale, but being the one that has to deal with it in the day to day is not always fun! Either way, my experiences here are more positive than not, and I really like living in Shenzhen.
omg just hearing you speak the language gives me the chills lol
Hey Briana;
almost all restaurants in China have vegetarian options. Normal Chinese menus normally consist of meat dishes versus vegetarian dishes. My mother is a Buddhist vegetarian, and she could go to any Chinese restaurant (she also doesn't eat garlic and onions, so she added to tell the chef about not putting that in her veggie dishes.)
Even the traditional meat options could be left without if you just tell them bie fang rou 别放肉(don't add the meat).
I hope this helps!
I'm halfway through my 9th year now. I had such a completely different experience because i started in a really poor and underdeveloped part of Suzhou. I have been in Chengdu for three years and planning to move to Shenzhen in July. Good luck！ and dont rule out staying here the rest of your life, its a great country.😂
Wow! You're a China vet! And you're getting to see all the different sides of China! Hope you have a safe move down south ;)
This was so thorough and helpful!! Thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Aww thank you I'm glad to hear!
thanks for sharing! so interesting to see what others' experiences are in China! love your personality and outlook on things! Hope year 2 will be exciting and fun!
I am also curious as to why Chinese people sometimes view black people negatively since--like you mentioned--there hasn't been a lot of beef between China and African countries/peoples. Unfortunately (especially) older generations or less educated people do have a negative stereotype. My thought is possibly that Chinese people still have the idea that darker skin means less educated or poorer (since historically farmers are the ones out in the sun)--but not sure how much this carries to other ethnicities. Another thought is that historically American Hollywood/media portrayal of African Americans was not very inclusive and oftentimes portrayed African Americans negatively/as a specific stereotype. I remember as a child, replicas of foreign movies/shows was pretty common
Happy for you to enjoy your life in China. There are a few things I want to clarify.
1, Hongkong has always been part of China, period, and it runs a different system. Britain handed it over in 1997 after the 99 years of renting ended. You may think otherwise and I don’t care as long as you keep it to yourself. I am offended as a Chinese when you mentioned that.
2, About the staring issue, that will probably last very long time in China and you did your homework before coming which is good. One suggestion, if you don’t like it, maybe just say no thank you? I feel bad for both of you and those people‘starting’.
It’s good to experience different cultures and I really hope your stay in China will be a good one.
Stop explaining to brainwashed westerners, they can’t change anything about China, Taiwan province will be reunited with mainland very soon from the western evils hand
I appreciate you sharing. If you watch the video, you'll notice that I did not say any thoughts on whether HK was part of China. Generally if people are staring I don't tell them not to because it's their eyes. However, I will either walk away or ask them not to take pictures of me and people do listen for the most part.
❤❤❤you will be a star!
Thank you that's so kind!
Oner year is just scratching the surface. Shenzhen is one little corner, before you leave you should travel more.
You're right I feel like I've barely been here. I definitely hope to see as much of the country as I can while I'm here!
I live in Nigeria in Africa, when we see foreigners we also stare. In terms of prejudice, i believe that if Africa becomes great and powerful there will be much more respect for black people. Respect is earned not given.
That's fair and the people being stared at probably think it's weird too!
Keep going, you have the potential.
Thank you so much that's so kind of you to say!
Very insightful video. I’be actually been offered a position in Shenzhen and was wondering about some of the points you mentioned. Appreciate the input.
Wow that's awesome! Shenzhen is a cool place! If you decide to come here, let me know if you need any help plugging in!
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces It's there or Guangzhou. Both are high priority locations for me but i'll wait and see where I get the best offer. Keep up the good work.
I am moving to Shenzhen to teach in September!! This was so so helpful thank you so much for sharing your experiences. Keep youtubing!!!!!
Oh that's so exciting! Hope Shenzhen is good to you!
I am planning to go to Shenzhen in September to teach too 🙌🏻
Subscribed from this video!
Usually I don’t get many stares, but I have experienced people randomly taking photos and as a human, it makes me feel so uncomfortable and self conscious 💀(ps, I also hope the Shenzhen expat community evolves and becomes better 🥲)
RUclips pushed your video to me haha. I also traveled to Kazakhstan and other countries in August 2023. I felt the same as you, feeling the customs and customs of different countries. I'm in Guangzhou. If you need travel advice to Guangzhou one day, feel free to ask me!
Wow these sound like cool adventures! How was Kazakhstan? I've been to GZ a few times but I need to go on a proper tourist trip! All advice apprectiated!
LMAOO THAT SMIlE IN THE END LOL I lOVE IT
Briana. Keep up the work. It will pan out.
how is the expat community now? I hacve lived in china for years....but finally will visit and move to shenzhen soon.
Hi Briana, welcome to China and congrats on your 1 year anniversary in SZ. Sorry that a kid called you the 'N' word. Its most probably he or she learned it on TV or listening to some Rap, but I can bet that they don’t even know what it means so, please don’t take it to heart! There is a little prejudice towards Africans here in Guangzhau and a bit in SZ. Its mosly because there was a big case long ago with a lot of Africans selling drugs here in Guangzhau and there was a lot of Overstays here as well, but the majority of Chinese have 0 beef on African Americans, they just couldn’t tell the difference. So have a Great time here and hopfully youcan travel to more places here in China! God Bless !
Thank you for the warm welcome! I hope I can travel to more places across China as well! There's so much to see!
Im right behind you. Im planning my leave from the US to China Now
Best of luck on your journey over! Where are you moving?
lmfaoooooo YES keep practicing ! cause it already sounds good already and idk what you're saying lol
Actually you can have veg dish in most restaurants especially if you are not a vegan. Ma La Tang, Hot Pot, very popular dish, and you just choose veg soup and veg dishes of your choice. Don't try Mapo Tofu, it is not veg. Then you have snacks as Jianbing. I believe once you can communicate well, you can get veg dishes almost in every restaurant.
I made the mapo tofu mistake when I first arrived in China.! I think it def depends on the restaurant because lots of restaurants love to sprinkle meat into the veggie dishes! But I still have time to learn and try!
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I do like China! I hope to see a lot of the country!
You don't have to go to a vegetarian restaurant to get tasty vegetable dishes...Two dishes to look for at restaurants that serve 炒面 and 炒河粉(chow mein and chow fun) is veggies chow mein or veggies chow fun.
素炒麵，or时菜炒河粉。時菜=whatever fresh vegetables they happen to have at the restaurant that day.
Another thing most restaurants have that most people consider tasty is veggie oil stir-fried spinach with garlic 蒜茸菠菜 with garlic, or pea sprouts蒜茸豆苗。。。But, don't expect these to be cheap...I think it's some form of "If you're so lazy you can't be bothered to cook something so simple, we're going to charge you prima donna prices" punishment from the chefs, who work super hard to serve so many different tasty and varieties of foods at low prices relative to most of America and the West in general.
Here's a tip about cooking: If there's a recipe on the packaging of some foods you buy from the markets, follow it!
The reason is, the recipe is likely to be one that is relatively easy and "foolproof"...This is because the company knows that if you follow the package's recipe and it turns out bad, you're likely not to buy it again.
Aww I appreciate all these suggestions! I think that's funny about the prices with things like 蒜茸菠菜 . I will definitely keep that in mind!
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces It might also be partially like the Asian version of how American restaurants make money via sodas.
I am a black man, now middle-age, and lived i in Shenzhen long enough to qualify for a residence permit, which allowed me to purchase a flat in Futian, which I still own to this day. I devoted much time and energy learning Mandarin so I could communicate; developed many great friends who shielded me from some of the darker aspects of urban living which can be intense. Learned to embrace the food, cook the dishes I loved. and overall, I would NEVER return to our damaged, divided country on a full-time basis. China is home to me, and if there does any degree of racism for being black, I can honestly say I've never felt or experienced it. My friends refer to me as 'ABC' which means 'American black Chinese' a sign of respect that I'm been accepted. The same can happen with you, as well.
I am black considering moving to china. What are the darker aspects ypu speak of? Anything i should be wary of?
@@Tommie-m5d Daeker aspects are the same for every foreigner, When you make Chinese friends they will protect and shield you from some cultural annoyances you know noting about, and probably could never learn because they involve nuances of language. habits, attitudes that they know but could not 'teach' you. It's the same for anyone entering a U.S. ghetto; nuances of language one just wouldn't 'get' because if you're not bred in the hood you just would't know how to navigate. It's the same there. i.e. just let your heart find good friends and let all else become the adventure you're there for. Living in China is nothing short of amazing and the experience is life-changing. Like I mentioned, I didn't' wish to leave, but I do have a flat as a second home, so I can return whenever I want to.
Great video, I am also living in Shenzhen
Omg I'm learning about a lot of new people living in Guangdong through this video!
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces That's awesome, same here
Been here 5 years now. As far as the expat community thing goes, eventually you get to realize they all suck. Think about how many people you hang out with at home. Do you need an entire community? And then there's the reality that as soon as you get to know someone they will be going. Eventually you make real friends who move on, or you do. And its a great excuse to visit other cities. But as far as meeting new expats, the new guys thinking we are a band of brothers or something get a bit annoying...in a nice way.
Hehe maybe it's because I'm a people person but I'm hesitant to think most communities suck. I also hang out with lots of people soooo it's def partially a me thing. I've recently been going to board game nights around town which has opened up a whole new community of expats and locals that I'm really enjoying though, so I'll keep digging for it!
Hi Briana, they're not saying the N word, they're actually saying 那个 (nage, but pronounced neige 内个 in common spoken form), which just means "that". This is a common theme, when foreigners hear the "N word" everywhere they go, because it's literally one of the most used words in China, but rest assured, they're just saying "that". The students might be saying "that teacher" "那个老师" which is maybe a little impolite, but it's still not what you think it is. The N word is a very specific term that your average Chinese person will simply not understand because even if their english is decent enough to somehow know the term, they would still have no "cultural experience" to be able to use it.
No, you're wrong, and I think it's rude to try to tell me my experience as if you were there. I know the difference and I know what was said. I do live here, and I have been learning Chinese, so I of course know what 那个/这个/etc are.
I also think you're underestimating the average Chinese person and their exposure to things outside China as well as how bratty middle schoolers can be.
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces Alright then, sorry if that came off as offensive. I've just had plenty of experiences where I was out with a friend and they've asked something like "did that cashier just call me a N....". Obviously it's a sensitive word and it's common to pick it up from all the random sounds around you. But if you know what you've heard then I don't doubt you.
@@lzl4226 I appreciate your apology! I totally get it if you're new to the country it can be confusing and people def get confused!
I’m so excited for you and I would LUV to do such a thing (again). When I did I didn’t vlog. My son said the food is so cheap and you get a lot. Is their a huge difference in the $ value. Do you think you can understand the language more? I’ve heard such amazing things about Thailand. Yes my friend said it’s so weird how they stare at us. They tried to touch her and play with her plaits.
Ugh I would so love to see your adventures if you did! I do highly highly highly recommend Thailand!! i LOVE IT THERE!
Interesting vlog🎉
Congrats!
Thank you!! ☺
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Aww I love that thanks so much for watching!
I am happy to touched on the being-a-vegetarian issue. All I see in Chinese vlogs is noodles and meat 😉
haha there is a TON of that!
It’s fact :ur Chinese pronunciation is really Goooooooood🎉
That's so kind! I'm working really hard because I don't just want to say the words with improper intonations and pronounciations!
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Thanks for the sub! This vid honestly feels like it!
Chinese people may look at you twice because of your skin color and may call you black woman, but they have no malice in their hearts and no discrimination.
Most people don't and I love that.
Happy anniversary 🎉
Thank you so much!! Can't wait for the next year!
really，your Chinese pronunciation is so good. You have language talent.
That's so kind! I get nervous sometimes to speak Chinese because the tones can be difficult but I will keep practicing!
There are lots of black Americans in China. Was in Shanghai for 15 years.
I'm sure there are, but it def depends on the area! I don't think Shanghai/Beijing are the most representative of other parts of China
Thank you for your great videos. What websites would you recommend using to look for jobs at international schools in Shenzhen?
Sorry I'm just now seeing this. I think eChinaCities is pretty good. Otherwise finding good recruiters can go a long way!
You mentioned sending home money. What type of bank account is recommended to do this
Welcome to China specifically our city , being a vegetarian is hard in our city ? did you get a chance to try finding salads in meituan delivery apps, I found many options of salads there though 😂 but depends on where do you live
Opps did someone say n word to you ? you need emphasis you’re from the US all the time publicly, you probably found they immediately respect you a lot 😂 it works
Yeah def depends where you live. If you're in Futian or Nanshan you're prob okay! I do not live there! When I'm at work, there's certainly a lot more options :)
Also thanks for watching and for the welcome!
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching! :)
Briana, China has tons of varieties of vegetables. For vegetarian, you can try out any vegetable dishes, without meat, in a restaurant, just name a few 炒时蔬 （seasonal veggie stir-fry, tons of options ），番茄炒蛋（tomato egg stir-fry) ，地三鲜（potato, eggplant, green pepper stir-fry）, 干锅花菜（spicy cauliflower pot）, 干煸豆角（spicy green beans stir-fry）, 蒜蓉西兰花（broccoli garlic stir-fry）and so on. You can go to any restaurant, open the menu, navigate to the veggie dishes section, then order any dish and ask them not to put mean in it (不要放肉 or 我吃素).
Thank you for the recommendations! I do love 番茄炒蛋. I definitely love veggies, but if I'm going to a restaurant, eating just vegetables is not really a full meal (though I do it often hehe)
Great vedio love your channel~
Thanks so much and thanks for commenting!
Good video, thank you for sharing
Thanks for watching !
I live in Beijing and can confirm it isn't that easy to be a vegeterian, maybe easier in shanghai.
People that say it is not easy being a Vegetarian or Vegan in China obviously don't know local restaurants. And probably bubbled up in their own Western bubble in China. Besides India, I don't think there is another country in the world that have ease of access to Vegetables or vegetarian/vegan dishes as China. Sure there are a lot of meat eating restaurants but access to vegetarian/vegan dishes is very easy also.
It is very easy actually
Are you a Beijing local? If so can you recommend some places to go?@@AmelieZh
Do you know of Vegan in China? She is Beijing based and knows how to find a lot of recs.
Are you a vegetarian? I'm curious because China is a very big place and maybe some places it's easier than others. Where I live is not that Western haha if it was maybe I'd find more options. But I will say I do more waimai than going to restaurants which probably makes it harder. But I have been to restaurants where I order vegetarian dishes and they come out with meat, so to me that's not easy
you are a star
Hi Briana, Sharlene here from Nairobi, Kenya. How's Shenzhen?
Hi Sharlene! Thanks for commenting! Shenzhen is great (and also hot cry cry!)
Can please I have your contact information I would like to talk more...
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Sometimes you can look for Buddhist temples or Buddhist restaurants. It’s usually very cheap and all vegetarian, and there’s no requirement to be Buddhist. Outside of buddhism meat consumption is very high in China. Especially if you consider traditional pastries made with lard😅For those who want to know about chinese veg options:
-面镜(miàn jīng) gluten (comes in multiple forms)
-素肉(sù ròu) veg meat
(Also comes in many forms)
素鸡，素鹅，素鸭，etc.
Any imitation meat you can think of, they probably have it.
-烤麸kaofu (baked cake)
It’s a form of gluten that has a lot of air bubbles.
Veg meat options aren’t for everyone because of the texture 😅
As for why Chinese people can have prejudice beliefs towards black foreign nationals. It’s usually because of western films and media, as well as poor reputation caused by certain black individuals. But I think it’s mostly media portrayal and western influences (if we go back in history) because contrary to what most people think, a lot of Chinese people eventually hear about western news. They knew about the Asian hate problem during Covid, and they knew about the huge theft problem in California 😅Culturally Chinese people tend to stare, it’s a social activity called people watching. It can be very annoying but it’s usually benign, especially if you wave and say Hi. If you’re really upset about it, just say 看什么看？😂
I love all these suggestions! Thank you! I've eaten a lot of 面镜 (especially the bbq kind if you know what I'm talking about!) I think one of the things with Shenzhen is because it's so new (and some other people's complaints about it, both Chinese and foreigner) is that it really has no history haha. Like we don't have the buddhist temples that you would see in GZ and HK (of course there's some but it's not as common) I def have found stuff I can buy and make at home, but the veggie restaurant scene isn't as big (but it's growing)!
Also yes people here love to stare at ANYTHING! Which is fun because I'm nosy so I like joining in but quickly becomes annoying when I'm the object of the stares haha. It's life here though so I'm used to it unless it's been a looooong day.
Racism, prejudice and bigotry exists everywhere in the world including in the continent of Africa, unfortunate but is reality. However, I like to point out there is a high chance that your encounter with it in China regarding the "N" word could be a mistaken identity in translation. There is a word "neegerh" or "neegor" in Chinese that means "this", "this?", "Could it be this?", "This or that", etc. Not sure if this is the case but many have came across this situation and thought they were being called the "N" word. Especially this may be the case if it was coming from one of your students. As most students highly respects the teachers. Just thought to throw that possibility out there.
I appreciate you sharing the possibilities, but I know the difference, and they weren't trying to say 那个。Most of the Chinese speakers I've encountered, at least where I live aren't really pronouncing that with an R. I know in Beijing they tend to have r pronounciations so maybe they could sound similar there.
For point 6, let me explain a little bit as a Chinese.
Keep in mind, China is not an immigrant country, so foreigners are not seen often till recent years, and especially in not tier one cities. Even though I don't live in GuangDong province, but it is often heard on internet that GuangDong province now is packed with Africans ( roughly 0.4 millions probably).
So it doesnt matter either you are an African or African American, it all stays in the category as "black people". ( Akin to the perspective that Americans feel Asian people all look the same based on skin color).
As I mentioned, China is not an immigrant country for past thousands of years, people have grow into this natural identity, seeing too many foreigners are causing anxiety to locals. And there were some serious crimes caused by black people in China, for instance that homicide incidence happened in NingBo city.
So it is not about racial discrimination, it is all natural human defense mechanism, some feel curious, some feel threatened so keep distance. It is part of Chinese culture as " None Immigrant country".
Really inspiring :))))
Thanks :)
Are you sure that they were actually use “N word “? there is common expression that is equivalent to English expression of “you know”or “eh“， which is “ 那个”, that sounds really like “N word”. Some Chinese tourists actually got beaten up in the US because of this misunderstanding. I say this is because very few Chinese people know about the N word, if they want to insult at you, most likely they would cuss at your mom instead…. Those Chinese who are well travelled or educated to know about the significant connotation of the N word would most likely don’t use “N-word”…
Yea it could be that
I'm positive. I know the difference. I think more people than you would expect know about things like this haha. My students know about trending (American) tik tok sounds, songs, etc.
Im going to china next year as an exchange student, what am I gonna do as an vegan haha TT
Do you know what? I'm doing a meatless march next month and trying to be fully vegan! I'll let you know how it goes!
If you don't already, I highly recommend following Vegan in China on instagram. She shows it is possible! She also lives in Beijing though
Omg what do you do when they stare and try to take pics of you?!! I would be so scared.
Usually I try to make it really obvious that I'm hiding to try and make them realize it's weird but some folks are oblivious!
in Mandarin, when you want say that thing or that one. it really sounds like the N word. maybe the kid just meant he wanted that thing over there. and when people runs out of words during a conversation, they normally use that word too. it means " it's just like...."
I know Mandarin, and I know the difference haha, so that wasn't the case in the situations I experienced it.
about those kids calling you the N word, you need to ask them where or how they learn that word..because I don't think it's a common thing at all in China to call black ppl the N word. I have never heard of it before you brought it up. I'm so curious as how they learn it..
You'd be surprised at the things kids can learn about. I had one of my students repeating a sound from U.S. tik tok, and I was shocked she'd heard it.
@@BrianaisGoingPlacesI’m sure the kids didn’t learn that word from their parents. This is the first time I heard that kids in China saying the N-word.
@@BrianaisGoingPlaces Are you sure it was the N-word? Mandrin has a word that means "this one" that sounds exactly like the n-word. They also use that word as a filler word, like how we use "umm".
@@BrianaisGoingPlacesI also live in Shenzhen and I’ve been called the N word twice on different occasions by children on the road. I haven’t even been in China for a year as yet 🫠… So it’s a thing for sure.
You are such a Lucky Girl Briana
You're right! When I'm feeling down, i remember that I am so lucky to have these opportunities, I don't want to let them pass by!
其实我看到那种不停拉其他肤色的人合照的人也觉得很烦。你不用觉得这其中有什么肤色歧视，他们只是纯粹的好奇。因为很多中国人这辈子都没出过国（任何国家都一样，没出过国的人肯定是占大多数），所以他们能见到个外国人就觉得很稀罕。这种近距离的接触不是你看了多少外国影视剧，或是上多少次油管，从荧幕上见过外国人能比的。搞不好更因为经常在荧幕上看见的人突然有一天在现实里见到了，会更让人兴奋。尤其是一些家长，硬推自己的小孩去跟路上遇到的白人或黑人合影，这对他们来说很新鲜，是个纪念的时刻，可是对于没有这种新鲜感的人来说就会觉得很怪异。比如我，或你。你可能想不到，中国旅游博主去阿富汗或伊拉克这些国家，也会被疯狂拉着合影。其实道理都一样，都是因为没亲眼见过，觉得新奇罢了。你要说这像是在看动物，我也不反对。因为人类对于新奇事物的观感其实不分人或动物。我作为一个Asia girl去欧洲时被欧洲的那些白人大老粗粗鲁对待的时候（当然，只是言语上的，没有肢体上的冒犯），我的感受其实和你一样，就感觉他们并没有把你当人，只是当成一种道具（甚至都不是动物。动物还有感觉，而他们认为不管对我说多冒犯的话我都应该是没感觉的）。
所以这应该就是去到不同国家生活本来就可能会面对的体验，而你对这个国家的观感只不过在于是正面感受更多，还是负面感受更多罢了。
能解决这个困扰的方法也很简单：说一口流利的当地语言。让人感觉你是个local。距离产生美嘛，当你用语言和他们迅速拉近距离之后，他们对你的新鲜感就会马上趋于0.因为在他们眼里你是个对他们知根知底的人。所以那句中国人很喜欢挂在嘴边对外国人条件反射式的话“你中文说得真好”（这属于纯纯的社交用语，是面对外国人心生紧张时没话找话），也可以这么解决。你一听到这么说，马上说一句“我在中国生活很多年了”，他们立刻能在这个问题上打住，把话题引到别的地方。而且只要你当地语言说得好，被骗的几率也会大大降低。
最后，依然欢迎你有机会再来中国走走看看。中国欢迎每一个友好的外国游客。
Yeah, a lot of what you said I totally agree. Anything new and different is interesting to people, but I think the more we talk and interact the more we get to see and know each other as humans, and that's the goal for me! I love getting to hear others' perspectives so I appreciate your comment.