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I still remember sir. 1st yr took a whole yr to gauge people. By the end of 1st yr cemented life long friendships. Now about to enter pg i am skeptical about people esp dont want them to know me personally( they prey on ur weakness whenever u fight with them..i ll try to be on face and keep a distance for my own sanityand will learn to say no whenever required( not seniors though. Have to say yes!
With or without reasons what if you feel like you missed all your good times, friends and by the end of your UG life you feel like that no one is beside you .. You feel like you are left alone while seeing the new group or bunch of juniors hanging around in groups, calling many as their best friends and making me miss those days really bad.. Hoping for a reply from you sir and I am a NEET PG preparing doctor ..
Here's my story: Actually,I don't have any friends. No one is like me, I am completely different from rest of them. I tried so much to fit into different kind of people, But their and mine interest/idea/behaviour/thoughts always differs alot , i still try my best to fit in , but no matter whatever I do, at the end of the day I'm still alone. I am very good guy and always respect other's feelings, thoughts, but I don't know why people always avoid me.Everyone acts like just a classmate with me and not as a friend. I'm like second choice, and not anyone's priority. I was not choosen as anyone's best friend. I don't have any proper friend group also, I tried to fit into different friend group,too but as always I was most ignored memeber of all. No one enjoy my company. No one wants to be with me. That's how it is! If you read all of this , Thanks for listening to me.
This all teaches you to be comfortable living alone and being yourself rather than fit in with those whoes thoughts and vibes don't match to yours. And according to me this is a great advantage as you get to enjoy your own company which is always there for you and is unconditional, you'll never feel the need to look for friends in others. If you're an introvert than this is blessing in disguise.
I sadly dont have any connection with my old school friends till class 10. I think they might have forgetten me by now. Those school friends whixh i made at class 5 or class 3 till class 10 were the best
My friends ditched me and left me and breakup bhi hogaya aur engagement bhi break hogaya... .....I feel so sucidal due to lonleyness socha tha residency k time friends banenge ..but lagta hai apna naseeb hi kharab hai ...itna akelapan feel hota hai ki lagta hai kabhi kabhi ki galti se paida ho Gaye may be i should just kill myself ...but pata hai ki life ek hi hai isiliye countinuinh to survive ..sometimes I feel I will stay unhappy forever aur khushiyan nasseb me hi nahi hai hamare
if all this education failed to hammer some empathy into them, then it wasnt the real education. विद्यां ददाति विनयं -True Knowledge comes with humility
I wish there was someone like you to make this video back in 2015 when I joined college . I think I am depressed now. Wasn't able to make any friends in college. Now I am dropping this year and the future doesn't look good either with the kind of prepration that I have done and the kind of studies that I did in the past 6 years of college. Here I am, 26yrs, no friends, no postgraduate, no hope for future, all my batchmates got into PG already...not even thinking of gettig arranged marriage cz who knows what kind of person will the opposite side be. Well, your voice is very soothing Sir. I wish the best to pupils joining UG and my seniors joining PG. May god bringall of you loads of happiness.
Dont worry dear ...GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN ,which may not go according to our calculations. Trust in Him . ISAIAH 55:8-9 I passed out mbbs in 2020 , directly joined for coaching.....had tried hard ....still struggling to get out of this cycle .But i believe everything has a time. Profession is just a small percent of our lives . Just smile ,work smart ,trust in Him and keep going just remind u in phases of depression and anxiety,that only GOD knows what is good for us 10 years down the lane of life ....All that blossom now may not appear same in future. Also ,each one is unique and so something good for one ,might not work good for the other one Only thing we can do is trust in HIM and work smarter....God bless❤️
Sir my fmge exam is in dec 2022 i have covered 15-20% of syllabus from main videos__ now i want to skip main videos and i am thinking just to focus on RR only will it be beneficial for me..
Sir pls talk about how to prepare for the exam along as a duty doctor. How to balance work n pg preparation. Pls sir. Becoz of my family suituation I hv to go fr job. How to do both.
6:27 best part starts 😀😀😁 Thanku dr...... i will try to follow this as i m going far away from home for ug course..... i will remember all what u said .... Again THANKU this was what i really need at this time even i was thinking how to live or adjust in new environment.....
Sir, Your voice is like a guidance that calms me... It is also the tone I will use to guide my juniors when I grow to be a PG or consultant. We need your motivation sir, in life. Keep making videos for us! You are so amazing sir, though I know you must also be having your share of hardships and managing it well and skillfully! Hope you and your family are together happy and in good health. ❤
Yes sir .. I faced it but at the end of first yr .. i completely understood all the stuffs and is on correct path🙂Hope so you make some more college life hacks solution 😎
I had same situation. .I try to fit in someone's life but that was mists I made ...I got a friend who had same vibe of me I'm happi now a lot ..so don't worry you never should be with topper only..we are different we are average let's accept it and appreciate other aspect of our life
I have the same best friend from mbbs through residency junior n senior ... It has been a blessing ... Not only do we discuss work .. we sort out life issues! Nothing beats a good friend for this .. wen she called me out on my stupid errors n behavior and I helped her out of her fears .. it's the best feeling to have a person u trust by your side and it all comes with time and bonding!
Dear sir I am Morris final yr student from Andhra Big fan of your lectures Want to attend your face to face live classes Pls 🙏 inform if any classes jn south india sir so that i can be benefitted Pls reply sir i msged u in telegram, jnsta,fb
Good evening sir. ! Can I crack neet if I start from now from zero level. Or kaise manage hoga avi tk kux v nhi aata hai.. Plz sir suggest kro . Hard work krne k liye teyar hun mai but guidence do aap . Give up krne ka mn kr rha ha . Mn se lg rha hai ki jo 2-2 saal se teyari mai lge hai bo koi pgl ni hai. Ab ni ho payega 3 months mai
Hello sir.. I m a mother of two daughters.. planning to appear for meet pg.. started studying from this month only june.. actually I hav done cps diploma in pathology.. but after 10 yrs of practicing came to know that I m not enjoying my work.. I hav developed an interest in dermatology.. plz guide me as i hav never appeared for any entrance exam
Badly needed this type video... Was too worried about my residency how should I read what books to look for all those thoughts were crumbling me whole time. Thank you sir once again ❤️❤️
Sir vedio is very nice I m in private hosp and I m on stdy leave as I was medical officer I come with punctuality do most of work sincerely .and I m als have set boundaries.it’s been 6month still they always humiliate me before others ki yahan Tu sabse junior he and I still respect but every time cannt listen to same bullshit.what should we do@ boneteacher
Sir you should have saved me from all this bullshit and asshole people if you would have get this video 3yr back. Thank you , I will apply it from now on. Life is big .
Perfect video at the perfect time! Most needed one.Sir, Its amazing that how you come to know abt the different kinds of hurdles your turtles are/ will be facing and come to the rescue👌
Hello sir... I've recently joined in Anaesthesiology and have been facing a lot of toxicity and negetivity from my seniors... Pls guide us how to face it.... Thank you
These teachings are much more important than academic teachings , because a student can learn anything from books or internet in today's digital times , but what makes the life a blessing , is the clarity regarding driving it clearly , which matters alot for the peace of mind . Everyone will pass through the academic journey , but , the state of mind in which they pass it , is all that will make a difference in their life . Thank you for this much realistic guidance . 😊 🙏
I never make frnds in a new place I observe them Nd then decide whether they can be my frnds or not so it's pretty hard to get a chance of making frnds as it's better to be with old friends
Someone said me long ago. And I remembered the same thing recently - u will have colleagues eventually not friends. And ur video is in my suggestion as an answer. Thank u for taking out ur valuable time to make our lives meaningful.
You are such an amazing person.. "Sab aapke jaise to nahi rahenge" .. you make us think about situations like- genotypic things phenotypically dominant- so that we make our mind soothy..
I have that 2 friends of mine who have been in my life from my 2nd standard till 11th now, though they have chosen different streams, we still be the same as we were before... Still love to hang out with those 2, very close to my heart.. wish we continue this is our college too...
Your words helped a lot in simplifying the tangled equation ...thanks for giving us a clear understanding how to tackle the situation ...please keep positing such guidance video ..many of us need it !
So tell me if you have made similar mistakes in the past? Did you make friends you regretted about later? What's your method of gauging friendships?
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I still remember sir. 1st yr took a whole yr to gauge people. By the end of 1st yr cemented life long friendships. Now about to enter pg i am skeptical about people esp dont want them to know me personally( they prey on ur weakness whenever u fight with them..i ll try to be on face and keep a distance for my own sanityand will learn to say no whenever required( not seniors though. Have to say yes!
he he
With or without reasons what if you feel like you missed all your good times, friends and by the end of your UG life you feel like that no one is beside you .. You feel like you are left alone while seeing the new group or bunch of juniors hanging around in groups, calling many as their best friends and making me miss those days really bad.. Hoping for a reply from you sir and I am a NEET PG preparing doctor ..
Let me tell you sir! I'd definitely like you to make such videos!!!
Also, you should make such great videos Directly touching hearts!
"Don't forget your past. Old friends are there to remind you of your old patterns and behaviour"👌🏻
Therefore old is gold❤️
Hence, never forget ur old friends while making new ones.🙂
Thankyou for making such an amazing content. keep it up sir!👍
Best wishes
6:38 😂😂😂😂 How I motivate myself watching couples
😂
Here's my story:
Actually,I don't have any friends. No one is like me, I am completely different from rest of them. I tried so much to fit into different kind of people, But their and mine interest/idea/behaviour/thoughts always differs alot , i still try my best to fit in , but no matter whatever I do, at the end of the day I'm still alone.
I am very good guy and always respect other's feelings, thoughts, but I don't know why people always avoid me.Everyone acts like just a classmate with me and not as a friend. I'm like second choice, and not anyone's priority. I was not choosen as anyone's best friend. I don't have any proper friend group also, I tried to fit into different friend group,too but as always I was most ignored memeber of all.
No one enjoy my company. No one wants to be with me.
That's how it is!
If you read all of this , Thanks for listening to me.
Same here
Try being funny🙊msy be that'll work
I'm in ur gang ✋✋ ...
U try ur best to fit in but no one gives u a shit .. Learning to live alone.
Same here
This all teaches you to be comfortable living alone and being yourself rather than fit in with those whoes thoughts and vibes don't match to yours. And according to me this is a great advantage as you get to enjoy your own company which is always there for you and is unconditional, you'll never feel the need to look for friends in others. If you're an introvert than this is blessing in disguise.
I sadly dont have any connection with my old school friends till class 10. I think they might have forgetten me by now. Those school friends whixh i made at class 5 or class 3 till class 10 were the best
My friends ditched me and left me and breakup bhi hogaya aur engagement bhi break hogaya... .....I feel so sucidal due to lonleyness socha tha residency k time friends banenge ..but lagta hai apna naseeb hi kharab hai ...itna akelapan feel hota hai ki lagta hai kabhi kabhi ki galti se paida ho Gaye may be i should just kill myself ...but pata hai ki life ek hi hai isiliye countinuinh to survive ..sometimes I feel I will stay unhappy forever aur khushiyan nasseb me hi nahi hai hamare
if all this education failed to hammer some empathy into them, then it wasnt the real education.
विद्यां ददाति विनयं -True Knowledge comes with humility
😅😆🤣Parents hai na bass shadhi me hi kush hoge .....galti se pvt college ke liye matt soch lena.....
I wish there was someone like you to make this video back in 2015 when I joined college . I think I am depressed now. Wasn't able to make any friends in college. Now I am dropping this year and the future doesn't look good either with the kind of prepration that I have done and the kind of studies that I did in the past 6 years of college.
Here I am, 26yrs, no friends, no postgraduate, no hope for future, all my batchmates got into PG already...not even thinking of gettig arranged marriage cz who knows what kind of person will the opposite side be.
Well, your voice is very soothing Sir.
I wish the best to pupils joining UG and my seniors joining PG. May god bringall of you loads of happiness.
I am also in the same state as yours! We can be friends.. Lol!! 😄
Every one has their own pace,
Consistency is imp than speed,
Dnt worry do ur best to reach ur goal
Am 27. I was in the same phase in 2020. And you know what 2021 did to us. But with time things change.
Dont worry dear ...GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN ,which may not go according to our calculations. Trust in Him .
ISAIAH 55:8-9
I passed out mbbs in 2020 , directly joined for coaching.....had tried hard ....still struggling to get out of this cycle .But i believe everything has a time.
Profession is just a small percent of our lives . Just smile ,work smart ,trust in Him and keep going
just remind u in phases of depression and anxiety,that only GOD knows what is good for us 10 years down the lane of life ....All that blossom now may not appear same in future.
Also ,each one is unique and so something good for one ,might not work good for the other one
Only thing we can do is trust in HIM and work smarter....God bless❤️
same here
Sir my fmge exam is in dec 2022 i have covered 15-20% of syllabus from main videos__ now i want to skip main videos and i am thinking just to focus on RR only will it be beneficial for me..
Do psychiatry and psychoanalyse everyone while in residency. Everyone is a subject nobody is friend of colleague anymore.
Most needed video at this time ... Thank you sir for giving advise for personal life too
Sir pls talk about how to prepare for the exam along as a duty doctor. How to balance work n pg preparation. Pls sir. Becoz of my family suituation I hv to go fr job.
How to do both.
"Don't make friends..... Be friendly with everyone".
Before joining my Med School I started watching this Gentleman’s videos ‘ now he become my respected ortho teacher 😊❤️
🐢💙
Wow ! Lucky you
@@Boneteacher Salm I am from Pakistan .. Sir i want ur orif ortho book in PDF 🆓free. (Poor student)
6:27 best part starts 😀😀😁
Thanku dr...... i will try to follow this as i m going far away from home for ug course..... i will remember all what u said ....
Again THANKU this was what i really need at this time even i was thinking how to live or adjust in new environment.....
This was such an amazing video! I am definitely gonna recommend this video to the freshers in my college. Love from Bangalore! ❤️☺️
Its difficult somehow. But will try to avoid negativity in pg. Dont want new people anymore i swear
Sir, Your voice is like a guidance that calms me... It is also the tone I will use to guide my juniors when I grow to be a PG or consultant.
We need your motivation sir, in life. Keep making videos for us! You are so amazing sir, though I know you must also be having your share of hardships and managing it well and skillfully! Hope you and your family are together happy and in good health. ❤
all the best
I just loved such videos, it tells us the solution of genuine life problems 🕯️it plays a really important role in onces life❤️
Amazing content, Sir! Not everybody has the privilege of guidance and when it comes at the right time, it becomes a blessing. So, thankyou for that.
Yes sir .. I faced it but at the end of first yr .. i completely understood all the stuffs and is on correct path🙂Hope so you make some more college life hacks solution 😎
Much needed video sir!
As I'm facing difficulty in making new friends in my college I will surely try your methods!
patience
Sir was relevant in my life before NEET PG and sir is relevant after NEET and I think he will remain so forever ❤️
You are the OG 🐢
Best wishes 💙
@@Boneteacher 🥺🥺🥺🥺 thank you sir and same to you!! Please let me know if you ever come to Delhi we can meet 😊
🥳Amazing video Sir,,,, I experienced lot in my ug lyf🤢every single word in this video r already happened in my lyf💔
Nice video Doctor we Just enjoyed listening to this video...most useful video for introverts like me 😉
Glad it was helpful!
Sir,i seen all ur marrow videos.
I want u to be my anat,bio,phy,pharm,micro,fm,patho,ent,optho,cm,med,sur,og Teacher..
Please🤗
Thanks for the love, I wish I could 💙💐
But I am sure all the other teachers have done an amazing job & you will love and admire them equally 😊
@@Boneteacher omg..Thank u for reply sir..😍😍❤❤
I had same situation. .I try to fit in someone's life but that was mists I made ...I got a friend who had same vibe of me I'm happi now a lot ..so don't worry you never should be with topper only..we are different we are average let's accept it and appreciate other aspect of our life
i love it please 🥺❤️ make more videos on it
I have the same best friend from mbbs through residency junior n senior ... It has been a blessing ... Not only do we discuss work .. we sort out life issues! Nothing beats a good friend for this .. wen she called me out on my stupid errors n behavior and I helped her out of her fears .. it's the best feeling to have a person u trust by your side and it all comes with time and bonding!
you are lucky !
Dear sir
Please inform about your offline classes in South India in this year sir so that we can attend
Pls sir
sure
Dear sir
I am Morris final yr student from Andhra
Big fan of your lectures
Want to attend your face to face live classes
Pls 🙏 inform if any classes jn south india sir so that i can be benefitted
Pls reply sir i msged u in telegram, jnsta,fb
Arrange marriage hai na! Lolam lol
Sir please introduce yourself family sir . About your children,madam, parents..
Great guidance !! "You don't the baggage of your past in a new start" is so true!
😀
Love from kashmir
Never forget your past. Past always motivate u to achieve your goals ❤
Good evening sir. !
Can I crack neet if I start from now from zero level.
Or kaise manage hoga avi tk kux v nhi aata hai.. Plz sir suggest kro . Hard work krne k liye teyar hun mai but guidence do aap . Give up krne ka mn kr rha ha .
Mn se lg rha hai ki jo 2-2 saal se teyari mai lge hai bo koi pgl ni hai. Ab ni ho payega 3 months mai
Very true i wish knew it during UG......learnt it through experiences
you'll never forget
Hello sir.. I m a mother of two daughters.. planning to appear for meet pg.. started studying from this month only june.. actually I hav done cps diploma in pathology.. but after 10 yrs of practicing came to know that I m not enjoying my work.. I hav developed an interest in dermatology.. plz guide me as i hav never appeared for any entrance exam
Badly needed this type video... Was too worried about my residency how should I read what books to look for all those thoughts were crumbling me whole time.
Thank you sir once again ❤️❤️
best wishes
Most worst mistake I made this in my life... Now I am suffering... 😞
Parents Hain na arrange marriage karene keliye!! 😆...hum tho ye himmat se Hien jee rahein Hein 😂
Sir what you said was absolutely true...i believe that bcus its based on knowledge gained over years of observation & exposure.
Best video ever seem
Yes sir … The video was really helpful just if in case you would have Made this video a year ago😓😓… Anyways Must watch for everyone
Sir what will happen to graduates if there is Only Next 2023 already NEET 2022 was a struggle
Most important lesson in journey of life thought by you sir !!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very very need full vde !💯
Correct guidelines😊
Sir ur expression on Arranged marg is soo natural 😂
😁
Ortho and life lessons... hats off sir.. you are an inspiration
Sir vedio is very nice I m in private hosp and I m on stdy leave as I was medical officer I come with punctuality do most of work sincerely .and I m als have set boundaries.it’s been 6month still they always humiliate me before others ki yahan Tu sabse junior he and I still respect but every time cannt listen to same bullshit.what should we do@ boneteacher
Always the best 💯
Sir you should have saved me from all this bullshit and asshole people if you would have get this video 3yr back. Thank you , I will apply it from now on. Life is big .
It is a life advice summarized in 7 min .Thanks a lot sir
💙🐢
You are one of a gem Dr.AbbasAli🌟 you always leave a reason to smile or laugh whenever we watch you❣
Perfect video at the perfect time! Most needed one.Sir, Its amazing that how you come to know abt the different kinds of hurdles your turtles are/ will be facing and come to the rescue👌
Glad it was helpful!
Hello sir... I've recently joined in Anaesthesiology and have been facing a lot of toxicity and negetivity from my seniors... Pls guide us how to face it.... Thank you
SIR THIS IS SUCH A GREAT VIDEO FOR THE BEGINNING OF MY RESIDENCY , WE NEED THIS TYPE OF THOUGHTS , MORAL SUPPORT FROM YOU AS WELL.. THANKU SIR
All the best
That’s true probably person who always finds mistakes is toxic just avoid them, if they pose their authority just throw them and save yourself
These teachings are much more important than academic teachings , because a student can learn anything from books or internet in today's digital times , but what makes the life a blessing , is the clarity regarding driving it clearly , which matters alot for the peace of mind . Everyone will pass through the academic journey , but , the state of mind in which they pass it , is all that will make a difference in their life . Thank you for this much realistic guidance . 😊 🙏
Arranged marriage is still the old pattern which you have reminded me now 😄😄😄😄
For everybody friendship doesn't happen,people initiate friendship
Business class family with No Corporate Hospitals Or Nursing Homes anyone here ... With Education Loans Anyone here ..
awesome
Sir, 1 question...
do the bad people realise that they are bad people?
" Don't lose yourself " !!
I never make frnds in a new place I observe them Nd then decide whether they can be my frnds or not so it's pretty hard to get a chance of making frnds as it's better to be with old friends
I wish every single medico n doctor watch it !!! it's highly important
6:33 "Parents hai na arranged marriage karane k liye?" ROFL😂😂😂😂😂
😁
Thank you sir ❤️❤️ support system of medicos
Parents he Na? Arrange marriage kileyeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣! I’m dead 😁😁😁
6:38 MD/MS Aspirants left the conversation
Old friends ,, when u shine in med college .. old friends can't digest that .. when u shine people wanna compete , Everyone gets jealous
Everyone does, it’s natural, even siblings do… what matters is what do they once that feeling goes away …
your topic for this video is quite catchy and misleading
Someone said me long ago. And I remembered the same thing recently - u will have colleagues eventually not friends.
And ur video is in my suggestion as an answer.
Thank u for taking out ur valuable time to make our lives meaningful.
Sir before how many days should I stop reading new topics in neet pg
And the title couldn't have been more clickbaity 🙂
YOU ARE AN AVERAGE OF FIVE PEOPLE YOU SPEND THE MOST TIME WITH
SOOOO CHOOSE WISELY....
I wish i knew this before joining Mbbs. But will surely consider these in my MD.
Will there be any new update on marrow edition after may 21 2022
You are such an amazing person.. "Sab aapke jaise to nahi rahenge" .. you make us think about situations like- genotypic things phenotypically dominant- so that we make our mind soothy..
Mere toh vese bhi dost nah bante...
Same.... Too introvert to make friends
Sir Jazaak Allah u khairaane kaseera !
6:30 -6:41wat a transition of expression👌👌😂😂🤣🤣😇🤣🤣
Amazing video, i wish if only i knew these concepts before .
No worries, I cant even make friends in old places.
😂😂 in search of finding a best friend you might find your life partner 👬😅😅
I have that 2 friends of mine who have been in my life from my 2nd standard till 11th now, though they have chosen different streams, we still be the same as we were before... Still love to hang out with those 2, very close to my heart.. wish we continue this is our college too...
Your words helped a lot in simplifying the tangled equation ...thanks for giving us a clear understanding how to tackle the situation ...please keep positing such guidance video ..many of us need it !
Thanks sir ,Really enjoyed ,only enjoyed .
Please make a video on "How to prepare for neetpg in 3rd yr?"
Sir what are the branches come under lower clinical?
Sir if I have these advices on my starting of mbbs I would make my college life more better than now
Liked such video . Better work sir 💫🙏🏼
So funny related to 'marriage'😁
Sir it is not about making many videos,it's about making the one at the right time...
Thank u sir for this video 🥰
indeed
Sir do you know when next is going to implement??
just what we needed to hear!!! Thankyou Sir❤️💕
Sir, can you please make a video on "How much one should learn in 1st year MBBS ?" Plz Sir,
can you elaborate teh question ?
Great sir 👍👍
👍🏼