kate gill - barbie&ken [Official Lyric Video]

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  • Опубликовано: 29 авг 2024
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    Official “barbie&ken” lyrics:
    two little girls
    with their heads up in the clouds
    dreaming like the rest
    didn’t stick out from the crowd
    but between themselves
    they knew that they were different
    but they pushed it down
    cause nobody would even listen
    their parents always saying “girl when you grow up you’re gonna find a nice man make sure you’re pretty enough. you’ll be living a life like barbie and ken, cmon suck it up and forget this nonsense”
    what if it’s not ken but barbie?
    why should she have to say sorry?
    tell me do you even listen,
    to all the dumb shit you’re slipping?
    we can love who we want to
    don’t say she’s not supposed to
    if it’s not ken but barbie
    she doesn’t have to say sorry
    no not to you
    not to me
    not to anyone
    not to you
    not to me
    not to anyone
    hiding how she feels
    saying things like “love ain’t real”
    all just to conceal that she’s
    not society’s ideal
    hearing what they say
    about those who feel the same way
    she’s really not okay
    tells herself it’s just a phase
    her parents always saying “girl when will you see, you don’t know what you want, trust us, we know what you need. you’ll be with your own ken, oh so happily, it’s no way to live with another barbie.”
    but what if it’s not ken but barbie
    why should she have to say sorry
    tell me do you even listen
    to all the dumb shit you’re slipping
    we can love who we want to
    don’t say she’s not supposed to
    if it’s not ken but barbie
    she doesn’t have to say sorry
    no not to you
    not to me
    not to anyone
    not to you
    not to me
    not to anyone
    she never wanted ken, but barbie
    she never ever has to say sorry
    nobody is gonna listen
    to all this dumb shit your slipping
    we can love who we want to
    don’t say she’s not supposed to
    it’ll never be ken, but always barbie
    and she doesn’t have to say sorry
    to you.
    Video Director & Animator: Carolyn Knapp (Instagram: @madebycarolyn | CarolynKnapp.com)
    Video Producer: °1824
    #kategill #barbieandken #kenandbarbie

Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @its_shanttia
    @its_shanttia 3 года назад +8797

    I'm bisexual and hearing how my parents talk about lgbtq+ scares me to come out to them so this song makes me cry every time...

    • @invisible_bean
      @invisible_bean 3 года назад +417

      Omg I can relate. I just realized that I'm bisexual myself, and I always thought that my parents would support me, but I've been hearing some things that they've said, and I don't think they will. So I totally understand what you're going through.

    • @alexiazoetrujillo3905
      @alexiazoetrujillo3905 3 года назад +90

      Same 🥺

    • @unknown-ew6nz
      @unknown-ew6nz 3 года назад +70

      Same

    • @shezilzf8495
      @shezilzf8495 3 года назад +149

      Its scares me bc my family really hate the such thing abt LGBT too

    • @Jaywa_1
      @Jaywa_1 3 года назад +114

      Me too almost my whole entire family is homophobic... Soo I'm not sure if I'm going to tell them or my parents 🥺

  • @mia-ye8pj
    @mia-ye8pj 3 года назад +3452

    omg i love this i didn’t even realize that this was a WLW version

    • @zoegoodhand6744
      @zoegoodhand6744 3 года назад +41

      What does WLW mean?

    • @zoegoodhand6744
      @zoegoodhand6744 3 года назад +20

      @Nithiya Sree oohhh ok thank you

    • @Shashaplays17
      @Shashaplays17 3 года назад +28

      Wait this isn’t the original?

    • @mia-ye8pj
      @mia-ye8pj 3 года назад +40

      @@Shashaplays17 the original is ken & barbie i think, it’s on her channel

    • @magdakozakiewicz304
      @magdakozakiewicz304 3 года назад +17

      Same, and then I started crying for sone reason 😌

  • @zhelme
    @zhelme 3 года назад +6355

    Remember
    Even if you don't need Barbie
    Or you don't need Ken
    If you don't need neither
    If you don't wanna be Barbie, but Ken
    If you don't wanna be Ken, but Barbie
    If you don't wanna be both Ken and Barbie
    You are still special.
    Never forget that.
    Never apologize for being yourself.
    Love you all.

    • @emma_rohr
      @emma_rohr 3 года назад +85

      i love this so much

    • @wwxisonlyhuman
      @wwxisonlyhuman 3 года назад +49

      *I LUV U♡♡*

    • @user-pv9np8ni6i
      @user-pv9np8ni6i 3 года назад +88

      I know my Parents always say why do you have TO BE A TOM BOY YOU CAN BE NORMAL LIKE GIRLS....😔

    • @zhelme
      @zhelme 3 года назад +38

      @@user-pv9np8ni6iThat's realy sad(
      I know, that can be hard. I wanna let you know, that I wrote this comment to support you.

    • @idkimsara3037
      @idkimsara3037 3 года назад +23

      This comment is so underrated, amazing words 💗

  • @sparkle2165
    @sparkle2165 3 года назад +820

    Her Parents always saying ,"girl when will you see , you don't know what you want ,trust us ,we know what you need" ....hits in many different ways.... and they don't really ever know what we need....

    • @user-pv9np8ni6i
      @user-pv9np8ni6i 3 года назад +7

      yeah😔

    • @bambamribbon9516
      @bambamribbon9516 3 года назад +18

      :((
      My dad always says this whereas his defination of my happiness is totally opposite of what I actually want

    • @malinet3203
      @malinet3203 3 года назад +7

      True🥺😔

    • @TrangNguyen-sj8ql
      @TrangNguyen-sj8ql 2 года назад +2

      how can we don't even know what we want-?

    • @user-vc2hc2hu7y
      @user-vc2hc2hu7y 2 года назад +1

      Are you bi girl?

  • @emma-qn1ix
    @emma-qn1ix 3 года назад +2703

    *closeted twerking*

  • @1ly.zonevv
    @1ly.zonevv 3 года назад +3185

    I apologize for the lgbtq people who receive bad things from people, i know it's hard but i just wanna say that you are an amazing and lovely person! believe that you are beautiful, i love youuuu! this is coming from a 13 year old, it's sad to see people suffer just because of gender. please live your life happily, those people who discriminate you can take their bullshit and leave the door!
    THERE'S THE DOOR BITCH!

    • @shikiradavis4607
      @shikiradavis4607 3 года назад +105

      You’re amazing kid I’m so glad that there are some people that don’t hate me cause of who I am

    • @adisynrae4139
      @adisynrae4139 3 года назад +64

      This made my day💖 thank you so much\ also when I read this I thought I did it because that is what I would say it is kind and hilarious

    • @bhagyak1833
      @bhagyak1833 3 года назад +44

      You are a great person and we love you....you made my day❤️❤️❤️

    • @pompedie2716
      @pompedie2716 3 года назад +35

      I heard form a girl in my class that someone else in my class said that is a sickness well I could cry but I was in class so I didn’t but then I came home and I cried in my mom arms

    • @nanapanabanana
      @nanapanabanana 3 года назад +23

      @@pompedie2716 that girl/boy should just leave you're life and not turn around because, there's the door 👉🚪. Ur amazing for putting up with that. Hope no one ever treats you like 💩:)

  • @ev-sb
    @ev-sb 3 года назад +377

    Hearing people in my year at school and other years making ‘gay’ jokes and laughing at people that ‘look gay’ and then listening to this song gives me so much confidence and yet almost makes me break down in tears wondering whether the world will ever accept our community :’)

    • @brock_is_key
      @brock_is_key 2 года назад +1

      W kids at ur schoop

    • @madokamagica-y8n
      @madokamagica-y8n 2 года назад +4

      Exactly

    • @tarawoodard1028
      @tarawoodard1028 Год назад +3

      Elementary school. I'm 10 and this is true where I go

    • @HeLLoW_aNYeoGHaseYO
      @HeLLoW_aNYeoGHaseYO Год назад +5

      *If no one I will accept everyone, it's my promise to everyone in this community(i will accept u no matter who u are!)💜*

    • @TH4T_W31RD_P3Rs0N
      @TH4T_W31RD_P3Rs0N Год назад +6

      THIS IS EVERY BOY IN MY GRADE!! I’m pansexual and non-binary, and they all keep saying “being gay is just weird” one guy even said, “how would you even be non-binary? It doesn’t work.” And a guy I used to like said, “I hate gays, like why would people even be gay?” And continued going on about how he doesn’t get why people are gay. He even said, “Gays are just so annoying.” He knows I’m pansexual, he even said it to me. I pretty sure he likes me, but screw him, I have a gf now.

  • @sadiehunt2689
    @sadiehunt2689 3 года назад +1773

    I love this I'm actually a lesbian and this is how I came out to my parents they are christian and don't support me but still know I'm there daughter and love me

    • @shezilzf8495
      @shezilzf8495 3 года назад +19

      💓

    • @sadiehunt2689
      @sadiehunt2689 3 года назад +10

      @@shezilzf8495 ♥️

    • @your_cute_asf4671
      @your_cute_asf4671 3 года назад +45

      You can go who you want to don’t let them tell you you’re not supposed to if it’s not can but Barbie you don’t have to say sorry no no to them that’s all anyone anyone anyone anyone ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

    • @sadiehunt2689
      @sadiehunt2689 3 года назад +10

      @@your_cute_asf4671 Tysm 🥰

    • @your_cute_asf4671
      @your_cute_asf4671 3 года назад +7

      @@sadiehunt2689 Np!

  • @actuallyasnail8342
    @actuallyasnail8342 3 года назад +997

    I'm bi, and once my sister was telling my dad about a song from a woman in the 70's (or something I dont remember) and she was saying that song was secretly for another woman. My dad dint even wait a second to say : "that is disgusting, don't you think so?" and I was so sad that he thought that being in love with another woman would make a woman disgusting, that I didn't even know what to say 💔

    • @niya7678
      @niya7678 3 года назад +69

      Same one time I heard my mom gossiping with one of her friend and she said " hey do you remember that friend we had on that meeting or something I think her relationship with her husband is broken bcs I think she likes women but I mean that's gross eww " that's what she said and it hurts

    • @clarosch7859
      @clarosch7859 3 года назад +16

      omg im so sorry:/

    • @benderrodriguez5691
      @benderrodriguez5691 3 года назад +24

      @@niya7678 hi im Amanda im your knew sister and i support you and love you no matter who you love

    • @benderrodriguez5691
      @benderrodriguez5691 3 года назад +21

      You can love ken barbie or a tree as long as you are happy

    • @niya7678
      @niya7678 3 года назад +3

      @@benderrodriguez5691 thanks:)

  • @tyannwhite1164
    @tyannwhite1164 3 года назад +198

    My daughter came out as bisexual in 4th Grade and Pansexual in nearly 5th grade when she realized it wasn't just "traditional" males and females she was attracted to. She shaved her head. Started shopping in the "boys" section. Her hair was down to her bottom for years. While I may have shed a brief little tear over her long and beautiful hair of nearly a decade falling to the floor, I can honestly say I loved her shaved head EVEN MORE. I love her soooo much and how she feels and who she loves will NEVER change that. I support her. I wish that for any young person struggling to come out to their parents because they think they won't accept them.
    I may not know you but I love you and accept you!!!!

    • @dygiilyiahspjdos
      @dygiilyiahspjdos 2 года назад +26

      You'd probably be such a good parent that your kid is comfortable in coming out to you in such a young age.

    • @aprildale4928
      @aprildale4928 Год назад +13

      i wish you were my momT>T

    • @Maya-wi7cw
      @Maya-wi7cw Год назад +13

      Will you adopt me? I wish my parents were more like you. I know when they I’m eventually outed (I’m sure it’ll happen) they will not respond well at all. You are a great mom and your kid is lucky to have you!

    • @artdeco777
      @artdeco777 Год назад +1

      What a horrible parent

    • @Ray-ne.
      @Ray-ne. Год назад +11

      @@artdeco777 may I ask why?
      im just kinda confused at your point of view on this

  • @jivikakulkarni3481
    @jivikakulkarni3481 3 года назад +358

    I'm straight but I'm crying uncontrollably, that's the impact this song has ...❤️❤️

  • @Hi-cu3jh
    @Hi-cu3jh 3 года назад +1559

    As a lesbian I hate when adults say " it's just a phase" bc it's not it's who you are. Happy Pride Month 🏳️‍🌈🌈👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨

    • @tamarac6882
      @tamarac6882 3 года назад +7

      @janne rose Same lmao

    • @twicepinkarmy2048
      @twicepinkarmy2048 2 года назад +12

      Im lesbian too

    • @euphoririss
      @euphoririss 2 года назад +9

      @janne rose same but now I’ve realised Im definitely not straight

    • @freepoopoopoo
      @freepoopoopoo 2 года назад +9

      I came out as bi to so many people now I think I’m gay but don’t know how to come out agian ecspsily to my mom but to my friends it’s easier and I’ve kinda drifted away from my boyfriend and have feelings do two of my girl friends I just feel so lost in this world

    • @maddawg934
      @maddawg934 2 года назад +8

      "i'm only going though a phase" pfft. . .yeah right.

  • @karla4551
    @karla4551 3 года назад +240

    I already needed the female version, just perfect✨

  • @causetaekookisinmyblood51
    @causetaekookisinmyblood51 3 года назад +233

    She is an artist who can speak to the heart

  • @rhegenalberca7780
    @rhegenalberca7780 3 года назад +470

    "Just a phase" I manipulated my mind to think that too until I finally came out to my parent and although she doesn't fully accept me, I still felt happy with no more hiding. Now I can finally put up the lgbt flag I secretly bought 😌

    • @nanapanabanana
      @nanapanabanana 3 года назад +16

      Good for you, you look happy and healthy:)

    • @ghada1351
      @ghada1351 Год назад +3

      Good for you I hope ur doing better ❤

  • @atsukopuff
    @atsukopuff 2 года назад +83

    I sent this to my teacher and she showed the class. After the video, she said “This is showing a lot, you can date whoever.” She looked at me…and smiled. Maybe I did get a lot of backlash, but my friends and my teacher was there for me. I feel accepted.

    • @euphoririss
      @euphoririss 2 года назад +6

      Your teacher is wonderful

  • @bark6775
    @bark6775 2 года назад +65

    I’ve had this song on repeat for hours while I’m scrolling through the comments, I cant tell which one is making me cry. I’m panromantic and demisexual, I came out to my mum in November and she supports me 100%, I’m so grateful for her. To anyone who is struggling with their gender, sexuality or coming out please remember to take your time and know that you are so incredibly valid. Whether you realise it or not there’s and entire community that supports you, including me. My whole heart goes out to all of you ❤
    If your parents don’t accept you, I AM YOUR NEW MOTHER ❤❤🏳️‍🌈

    • @tarawoodard1028
      @tarawoodard1028 Год назад +5

      My mum supports that I'm bi. I kept it a secret until a few months later, I came out. I was terrified. Thx. People like you will change this world

    • @EQ_Anneke
      @EQ_Anneke Год назад

      OMG hi fellow demisexual!

    • @user-gb5tx4cn8o
      @user-gb5tx4cn8o 11 месяцев назад

      I was doing the same thing lol, also thank you so much T>T

    • @maybe_dragon
      @maybe_dragon 11 месяцев назад

      so im i ❤❤

  • @connieluvr
    @connieluvr 3 года назад +508

    It hits hard when you relate to the song I’m bi (or lesbian) and I told my parents who I thought would be supportive but they just said that it’s just phase as I’m too young to know even though I’m 16 and that it’s not natural or normal... and that in a couple of years I’ll be normal again

    • @kaitdew
      @kaitdew 3 года назад +29

      i am so sorry. my mom's the same. i wish you a wonderful life with who you are and whoever or whatever will make you happy for all eternity 💜💙

    • @chloejohnson2582
      @chloejohnson2582 3 года назад +9

      I'm so sorry, I hope you have a wonderful happy life with whoever you want to.❤

    • @icedcream414
      @icedcream414 3 года назад +10

      I hope that you guys have a better time with your parents later on

    • @roseivy2278
      @roseivy2278 3 года назад +10

      i'm sorry, remember your valid and loved. no one can tell you how to feel. i hope eventually your parents accept you

    • @jordynd6373
      @jordynd6373 3 года назад +7

      omg i am so sorry but just know that there are thousands of people that support u no matter what❤️

  • @leafyveins4985
    @leafyveins4985 2 года назад +33

    I'm 28, and the way Gen Z sings for LGBTQ+ rights makes my chest do the inflating balloon feeling and my eyes make happy salt water. I love you Gen Z. You are doing amazing.

  • @ozvuchker13
    @ozvuchker13 Год назад +78

    I'm from Russia, I write through a translator, so I'm sorry if there are mistakes. This song is gorgeous and makes me cry :(
    I'm a pansexual and I'm sorry that I can't love who I want. In our country, especially now, the LGBTQ+ community is constantly being restricted. I don't even need to talk about the fact that my parents tell me things like "one day you will definitely find a boyfriend and get married". Yes, it may be so, but why constantly say such phrases?? It feels so good when I watch videos with people's cuming outs when they are accepted :) I really hope that one day in Russia and other countries they will not treat the LGBTQ+ community so badly :(I am for the fact that the love that is calmly treated is not only between a man and a woman.

    • @CierraChau
      @CierraChau Год назад +10

      ❤❤

    • @georgielouiseford6610
      @georgielouiseford6610 11 месяцев назад +3

      *coming PLEASE NEVER SPELL COME LIKE THAT SORRY IM DIRTY MINDED BUT this is beautiful seriously ❤

  • @charo3149
    @charo3149 3 года назад +153

    this song makes me cry every singe time

  • @None-ky8bp
    @None-ky8bp 3 года назад +216

    Your voice is so angelic and the song is so pretty

  • @emeeeeeeeee
    @emeeeeeeeee 3 года назад +114

    This song almost made me cry this morning, it’s making me question my sexuality

    • @hyeeekim
      @hyeeekim 3 года назад +10

      Same... I have been wondering for a while now :/

    • @gibobo7507
      @gibobo7507 3 года назад +4

      u might be going thru a phase if u dont actually feel something from the same gender

    • @emeeeeeeeee
      @emeeeeeeeee 3 года назад +3

      @@gibobo7507 that is true. But it is still weird considering myself straight. It might be intuition or I’m just straight, and I need to except that.

    • @s0phia71
      @s0phia71 3 года назад +9

      i remember when i said the same stuff and now im a lesbian LMAOHDJSHSJ

  • @lizzy689
    @lizzy689 2 года назад +84

    I'm lesbian and hearing how my parents talk about lgbtq+ scares me to come out to them so this song makes me cry every time...

  • @oritgumani3155
    @oritgumani3155 3 года назад +61

    I'm in tears, I waited so much to the girl ver.
    Thank you so much
    U are a queen everyone have to respect!!💜💜💜

  • @kimberlyooo6938
    @kimberlyooo6938 3 года назад +326

    My mom doesn't know that I'm pansexual but whenever I say I don't like a boy she asks me if I like girls but I just responded with no bc I don't want to tell her yet but she says that she'll love me no matter what whether I was to be a boy or a girl or if I like a girl or a boy I will be her child and that she'll always support me and that made me tear up bc I'm nonbinary to

    • @niya7678
      @niya7678 3 года назад +13

      Ur lucky

    • @sweetlikecinnamon493
      @sweetlikecinnamon493 3 года назад +12

      I'm so happy for you🤗

    • @tom.is.my.favorite2526
      @tom.is.my.favorite2526 3 года назад +11

      God bless you and your lovely momma

    • @mikaellagregorio2675
      @mikaellagregorio2675 3 года назад +6

      You're lucky to have those parents.
      My mother died 10 yrs ago without knowing what I really am...

    • @lostdarling.s8551
      @lostdarling.s8551 2 года назад +4

      Thats really nice honestly i get mixed signals from my parents so i dont really know if they support these things or not so it might be some time before i come out to them ;)

  • @anshikasrivastava3951
    @anshikasrivastava3951 3 года назад +97

    Me: I'm not gay..
    My YT algorithm and my playlist: Yes baby:)

  • @kylamocha
    @kylamocha 3 года назад +828

    to the one person who disliked this masterpiece....i would just like to talk to you ☺🗡

    • @nanapanabanana
      @nanapanabanana 3 года назад +19

      Me three🗡️

    • @whatthefvksk
      @whatthefvksk 3 года назад +16

      And their 10 friends

    • @whatthefvksk
      @whatthefvksk 3 года назад +13

      Me four ⚰️

    • @lixxiin777
      @lixxiin777 3 года назад +17

      I'm pretty sure they are bots but still.....🔪

    • @riley5374
      @riley5374 3 года назад +13

      Me five ☺️🗡️

  • @goodiev
    @goodiev 3 года назад +38

    This is such an important song, and it deserves so much more praise

  • @amityblight1960
    @amityblight1960 3 года назад +29

    1:43 this is my favourite part

  • @heartstxpper
    @heartstxpper 3 года назад +122

    Fun storytime:
    I was out with my friends today in the town and we all bought pride flags (because none of us are straight lmao) so I bought mine and we get to where we needed to go and I was debating coming out to my parents because I don't wanna have to hide my pride flag in my room somewhere for them to find it when they clean out my room (it's getting done up soon) and one of them to send me a pic while I'm in school like "we need to talk." I have no clue how cultured my parents are when it comes to pride flags but still I'm really really nervous.
    Edit: They found it in like July lmao. Kill me

    • @aimeek4324
      @aimeek4324 3 года назад +13

      i don't know if they've already found it or not but no matter what they (or anyone) says, you are so so valid and worthy and valued and loved. you're amazing, and happy pride month!!

    • @heartstxpper
      @heartstxpper 3 года назад +6

      @@aimeek4324
      Thank you for the message, happy pride month friend :)

    • @bookwormchalamet
      @bookwormchalamet 2 года назад +7

      what happend then?

  • @crazymunia6470
    @crazymunia6470 3 года назад +97

    I am straight, but I support all of you out there, who are gay, lesbian or bisexual, be whoever you wanna be.
    "Whoever you are, whoever you'd like to be, I love each every single one of you"
    -Harry Styles

  • @whotheheckcares0
    @whotheheckcares0 3 года назад +79

    Im bi, and im too scared to tell my family and friends, im scared that they will leave me, so I cry when I hear this

    • @benderrodriguez5691
      @benderrodriguez5691 3 года назад +5

      Hi im amanda and im not labeled i support you and love you and wont leave you you got this love

    • @whotheheckcares0
      @whotheheckcares0 3 года назад +1

      @@benderrodriguez5691 thank you 😔😔😄😁

    • @shadowinthecorner2745
      @shadowinthecorner2745 3 года назад +3

      I don't label my sexuality. I was scared to tell my bestie that, and had no idea how she would react. She was talking about one of her friends who is bi, then said, "I could see you being bi." I told her then that I don't label my sexuality and she didn't understand at first. Her and one of my other friends are the only people I have told. I'm scared too, but it will be okay.

    • @jamcam9295
      @jamcam9295 3 года назад +3

      It always feels like that at first. But honestly, its not their choice who you love, if it was something that could hurt you, itd be their business, but, its YOUR choics, and there are so many people that will support you💗💜💙

    • @Dabi_is_mine1
      @Dabi_is_mine1 2 года назад +1

      I feel the same way I'm scared pls help. ( I just came over this song and I cry everytime.)

  • @rosered7316
    @rosered7316 Год назад +19

    Kids in my school think being a lesbian or gay is a bad thing. My best friend, is a lesbian. She only talks about it with me, she can't trust her own parents or the school. I sent her this song, and she was really happy. Thank you ❤

    • @CHLOE_14
      @CHLOE_14 10 месяцев назад

      You're an amazing friend

  • @jameslinden9043
    @jameslinden9043 3 года назад +23

    When your parents say: ,,your future boy-friend''
    When you broke up last month with your ex-girlfriend.

  • @thatquirkyfairygirl101
    @thatquirkyfairygirl101 Год назад +9

    Everyone please remember:
    Gay men can be buff and "manly"
    Gay women can be girly and princessy
    Straight men can be femme
    Straight women can be masculine
    Men can turn out to be women
    Women can turn out to be men
    Both can turn out to be neither
    and thats ok
    but homophobia and transphobia isn't.

  • @steffanylyngdoh681
    @steffanylyngdoh681 3 года назад +33

    As it is said music is the best medicine ...when things or feelings is unexplainable lyrics speak more than words...be proud to love who you love ...becoz we will never regret if we are true to our feelings...

  • @mymessynotebook2207
    @mymessynotebook2207 3 года назад +32

    This song always gives me chills and makes me emotional.

  • @leo2364
    @leo2364 3 года назад +72

    This song warms my heart 🥺

  • @enzzzieeee
    @enzzzieeee 3 года назад +83

    This song needs to be heard by every single person on earth!
    Love is Love everyone..Dont be homophobic and make jokes around homosexual people..We are all humans, there is nothing to judge about the sexuality of a person. This is relatable so f***ing much to me 🙂🤚🏼

    • @holidayedits6664
      @holidayedits6664 2 года назад +4

      That's so true because all my friends make gay jokes around me and it kind of hurts my feelings

  • @iamzoainn9434
    @iamzoainn9434 3 года назад +16

    "We can love who we want to"🤍

  • @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf
    @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf 3 года назад +109

    I keep telling my mom I don’t like boys but each time she say “oh go- girl I know you like boys there is no why my child is lesbian “or she will either say”you can not be lesbian other people can but not you”

    • @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf
      @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf 3 года назад +3

      @Taylor Providence-Toho ❤️I know but she learning how to support me

    • @Ice_______
      @Ice_______ 3 года назад +8

      Dang, same thing happened with my dad when I told him I’m bi, he said ‘no one in my family or your mom’s family is gay and neither are you”

    • @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf
      @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf 3 года назад +5

      @@Ice_______ dang I feel bad for you I mean parents have to understand that there child might be gay or bi

    • @Ice_______
      @Ice_______ 3 года назад +5

      @@LolbitFnaf-ko8tf I know and I’ve always known that I’m bi since I was kid and parents always say ‘We always will support you no matter what’ and then you tell them you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community and they don’t support you and say it’s wrong

    • @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf
      @LolbitFnaf-ko8tf 3 года назад +1

      @Taylor Providence-Toho :)

  • @Shadowgamer-bg4md
    @Shadowgamer-bg4md 2 года назад +54

    Dear person reading this.......
    You are valid, you do matter. I love you, I am panromantic, trust me friend you are a wonderful, amazing person. I don't care if you're Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Asexual, Transgender, Intersexual, Two-spirited, Aromantic or anything else you are you, and being you is the best thing you can be

    • @fluffy_
      @fluffy_ Год назад +4

      Tysm ily this helped so much!! I hope you have an amazing day / night

  • @cael1474
    @cael1474 Год назад +6

    You know it's good when the song artist made 2 versions of the song😭💗

  • @cut3sys0ph1e
    @cut3sys0ph1e Год назад +5

    My parents accept if I don’t wanna be girly but then again, they body shame me. They always say things like “stop eating so much if you wanna have a perfect body!” and I just don’t answer. I’m Bisexual and ever since I came out, I never talked about it again. Since that day I’ve always been scared to have a girlfriend nor boyfriend. And it just upsets me when I hear people talking about me being Bisexual. My classmates are very kind but sometimes when they say stuff about me being “gay” or stuff like that what they say upsets me. And about my parents, they always try to get me to exercise but I just don’t have the right body to workout for a long period of time. If you’re experiencing this as well, I’m very sorry that this is happening. Have a great day!

  • @swoopnil111
    @swoopnil111 3 года назад +9

    " their parents always saying girl when will you see, you dont know what you want, trust us we know what you need". this part hits.

  • @Klover555
    @Klover555 3 года назад +17

    This song makes me feel better. I’m trying to learn who to accept myself and songs like these really help me 🧡🥺

  • @AprilDibrina-pp4sd
    @AprilDibrina-pp4sd Год назад +4

    Remember, you are who you are. You can't let anyone change that. This is coming from me, someone who also had to deal with homophobic surroundings. But trust me, there are many people who are feeling the same as you. They don't understand you, because they have their own beliefs. That doesn't mean those beliefs have to be yours as well. I'm sorry if anyone is trying to make feel ashamed of who you are. I can see how many people are scared and sad that they can't be LGBTQ+, or anything else, and it makes me sad. Don't let anyone control you, stay brave, I love y'all so much

  • @jeong-bom9974
    @jeong-bom9974 2 года назад +27

    I know people came out young and there scared to tell
    them but always *Remember* that someone will always be there
    to *support* you
    🏳‍🌈🏳‍⚧❤

  • @mishkamaheshwari2652
    @mishkamaheshwari2652 3 года назад +14

    Can't believe there's a full version of this!!! Yay

  • @mariaantoniabrasilmoreno
    @mariaantoniabrasilmoreno 2 года назад +6

    "you're too young, you don't know nothing about life, stop pretend you're an adult" I just know who I love.

  • @shaniaglencyrenosa-zy7qc
    @shaniaglencyrenosa-zy7qc Год назад +7

    My sister liked another girl but was afraid to tell our parents until everything bursted and our parents found out she said she didn't mean to like her even though she try to explain our parents still won't listen and was planning to kick her out of the house. I didn't like the idea and tried to complain about what they are doing, I told them they are ruining her self esteem making her feel like she doesn't belong to anywhere. And I started to hang out with a few friends that also has the same 'problem' I told them they should just tell their parents the truth before it's just too late, if they don't agree with what you love then they don't have to regret about it and just live your life the way you want to. To everyone that has the same problem with parents, remember you aren't alone there is always more out there supporting what you like and who your interested on... Cheer up for those who are bisexual, Gay, Pansexual and the rest... We, the LGBTQ+ is always there by your side :)

    • @gachavenom229
      @gachavenom229 Год назад +3

      Thank you I needed that and I'm sorry about your sister❤😢

  • @eerbothepirate
    @eerbothepirate 2 года назад +10

    the fact that the girl even told herself that it was a phase is so heartbreaking

  • @sunsetmeadows5729
    @sunsetmeadows5729 Год назад +3

    All of society needs to see this song but particularly those that still assume that their children will grow up to be straight and push heteronormativity onto them. I see it all the time, a little boy and a little girl play together and the parents of those children start saying they are "dating" or that they will "date" Can't they just be friends? A girl and a boy can be friends. It's just that stupid assumption that everyone is straight and boys will grow up to date girls and girls will grow up to date boys. People need to be open with their children, they need to stop assuming and allow their children to explore for themselves. This song sums it up perfectly ❤🏳️‍🌈

  • @Karianna2013
    @Karianna2013 Год назад +5

    I listen to this all the time when I’m sad. And yes, we can love who we want to love, but ever since I’ve came out to my parents, I haven’t been the same. I still have that memory and now I’m afraid to tell my parents I have a crush on this girl. So I keep it a secret for now. I feel like this song fits perfectly with the guitar :)
    Thank you for this song.

  • @alc8743
    @alc8743 3 года назад +30

    It reminds me of the girl I love. I'm still not sure but a lot of my friends (also her friends) that she loves me also. The only thing is that she's afraid of what her parents will think about that kind of relationship.
    Oh God why is it complicated to peacefully love someone who has the same sex

    • @Lynnea_yvonne
      @Lynnea_yvonne 2 года назад +1

      I hope you guys made it through and are happy now 💗

  • @druglord0001
    @druglord0001 3 года назад +274

    That one dislike is the homophobic hater

    • @adisynrae4139
      @adisynrae4139 3 года назад +4

      Update 8 dislikes

    • @druglord0001
      @druglord0001 3 года назад +6

      @@_mcchicken2818 lol sry i didnt see that increased, guess 9 homophobic karens

    • @vesper8042
      @vesper8042 3 года назад +1

      @@druglord0001 correction 27 homophobes

    • @druglord0001
      @druglord0001 3 года назад +4

      @@vesper8042 damn, the homophobic karens keep increasing

    • @mikaellagregorio2675
      @mikaellagregorio2675 3 года назад +1

      Update! There are 42 homophobes now! 🙃

  • @Jennie_AFK
    @Jennie_AFK 2 года назад +5

    I struggled with coming out for a long time (14 yrs), and to be honest I was scared as hell to tell anyone about it. So I chose to write it down on a paper, and as soon as I felt ready, I put the note on the dinner table ,so that my family could read it. I gave myself a hard time to think that I did something completely wrong, but it turned out that my parents respected my sexuality and they now even make some funny jokes about it. All I want to say is: I know it's scary, but you never know until you tried. And even if they don't like it, you are you, and be proud of it, you are the only YOU out there =)

  • @Brendonnotpixel
    @Brendonnotpixel 3 месяца назад +36

    Who's here in 2024?

  • @Your_local_fox_therian353
    @Your_local_fox_therian353 Год назад +8

    Im a lesbien and this song just makes me more conftreble

  • @adriannaburns2802
    @adriannaburns2802 Год назад +11

    This makes me feel so good bc my parents don’t let me show my sexuality and I got sent home at school on pride month for wearing pride and my sister said it’s embarrassing to do that

  • @theriversidewolfplyz
    @theriversidewolfplyz Год назад +5

    I straight up bawled when I listened to this because it reminded me of coming out to my mom.

  • @RudbeckiadeborgiaLOML
    @RudbeckiadeborgiaLOML Год назад +4

    Listening to this song makes me cry 😭

  • @cheystar
    @cheystar Год назад +8

    Being a lesbian with a supporting mom and dad, this song still makes me feel bad for everyone out there with parents who don’t support you or those who stay closeted out of fear..

    • @camellia..-
      @camellia..- Год назад +1

      I'm not lesbian but if I was I'll be dead
      Cuz I'm coming from most religious Muslim family in my city.
      They will never accept and will kill me without any hesitation :/
      I hope people would be normal and support everyone and their love

  • @d3mon.from.h3ll76
    @d3mon.from.h3ll76 Год назад +2

    i just found this song and im in love with it. i’m 20 i often felt not accepted as a queer child grew up in a conservative household so i was always scared to come out. my mom outed me when i was 16-17 without my knowledge ik people arent okay with it smh.. but noone like hates on me while im present often when i was 12-14 i wished to be normal.. i got depressed and it sucked

  • @Penguin-vc7nh
    @Penguin-vc7nh Год назад +4

    This song keeps me sane. My parents are very homophobic. My entire life they have told me people that are gay have a mental illness. My mom said if she found out one of her kids was gay they would be thrown out of the house. Whenever they bring up the topic and use slurs I cry inside. I love my parents more then anything it just breaks my heart that they wouldn’t accept me. I wish I could just change my feelings as I hate feeling I’m letting my parents down. Remember just be you and even if everyone you currently know doesn’t support you they are people you will meet in your future that will. Message from trusted 🐧

  • @ilni9364
    @ilni9364 3 года назад +4

    I'm in LOVE with these song, for ever since it came out

  • @SummerKiley
    @SummerKiley Год назад +6

    Being lesbian the lyrics "Cmon suck it up and forget this nonsense" exactly explain my home life. That's what all my siblings say to me. They all say to me it's a phase but it's not, I've known since I was 10 I was lesbian.

  • @marialenasiakavara8406
    @marialenasiakavara8406 2 года назад +6

    ✨Tells herself it's just a phase ✨ something cracked inside me 🥺

  • @user-sc7rp8ks7s
    @user-sc7rp8ks7s 3 года назад +10

    Been waiting for this 😭😭

  • @oliviakelly8752
    @oliviakelly8752 3 года назад +13

    I found this on tiktok and saw people coming out using this sound, I love it.

  • @cheyenneorr5075
    @cheyenneorr5075 Год назад +6

    As a pansexual & panromantic woman, this song is very accurate. I get a lot of crap from people I barely know whenever they find out I'm pan. I love the LGBTQ community & support it with all my heart. So, those who are in the LGBTQ community, you are loved. You are worth more than what others say. Surround yourself with people who support you & bring you up.

  • @avril222
    @avril222 3 года назад +5

    "She's never gonna say sorry" ❤️

  • @Tvdgirl1864
    @Tvdgirl1864 Год назад +2

    I’m Christian and bi … so this song helped me so much .. and didn’t hate on my religion and I love them for that 💕💕💕

  • @nataszaherman4568
    @nataszaherman4568 9 месяцев назад +7

    I’m bisexual and the way my mum reacted to me coming out to her was painful and it’s painful bc you get treated differently then I start to overthink but this song is my therapy I cry eyes to this song and it js helps me

    • @Freesk8er32
      @Freesk8er32 8 месяцев назад +1

      That's how my mom reacted and then proceeded to ask so many questions.

  • @pinkdrinkdeleted8144
    @pinkdrinkdeleted8144 Год назад +8

    Parents should always try to support their kids, as long as what they’re doing isn’t hurting anyone (including themselves). That’s part of your job as a parent. Even if you think it’s all nonsense or that we’re just being too sensitive, you shouldn’t say that out loud. Your children aren’t hurting anyone by being themselves. You can’t call yourself an ally if all you do is insult people for “making it all about being gay”. You’re not the victim and you never were. All we ask is that you try to understand. If you can’t do that, don’t blame your child for leaving.

    • @gachavenom229
      @gachavenom229 Год назад +1

      So true wish my family would support me but thanks for your kind words it made my day ❤❤😊

  • @myanhlam683
    @myanhlam683 3 года назад +76

    Two little girls
    With their heads up in the clouds
    Dreaming like the rest
    Didn't stick out from the crowd
    But between themselves
    They knew that they were different
    But they pushed it down
    'Cause nobody would even listen
    Their parents always saying
    "Girl, when you grow up
    You're gonna find a nice man
    Make sure you're pretty enough
    You'll be living a life like Barbie and Ken
    C'mon, suck it up and forget this nonsense"
    What if it's not Ken but Barbie?
    Why should she have to say sorry?
    Tell me, do you even listen
    To all the dumb shit you're slippin'?
    We can love who we want to
    Don't say she's not supposed to
    If it's not Ken but Barbie
    She doesn't have to say sorry
    No, not to you
    Not to me
    Not to anyone, anyone, anyone
    Not to you, not to me
    Not to anyone, anyone, anyone
    Hiding how she feels
    Saying things like "love ain't real"
    All just to conceal that she's not society's ideal
    Hearing what they say
    About those who feel the same way
    She's really not ok
    Tells herself, it's just a phase
    Her parents always saying
    "Girl, when will you see?
    You don't know what you want
    Trust us, we know what you need
    You'll be with your own Ken
    Oh so happily, it's no way to live with another Barbie"
    But what if it's not Ken but Barbie?
    Why should she have to say sorry?
    Tell me, do you even listen
    To all the dumb shit you're slippin'?
    We can love who we want to
    Don't say she's not supposed to
    If it's not Ken but Barbie
    She doesn't have to say sorry
    No, not to you
    Not to me
    Not to anyone, anyone, anyone
    Not to you, not to me
    Not to anyone, anyone, anyone
    No, no
    She doesn't have to say sorry
    No, no
    She's never gonna say sorry
    She never wanted Ken but Barbie
    She never ever has to say sorry
    And nobody is gonna listen
    To all the dumb shit you're slippin'
    We can love who we want to
    Don't say she's not supposed to
    It'll never be Ken but always Barbie
    And she doesn't have to say sorry
    To you

    • @savage_banana1
      @savage_banana1 2 года назад +5

      You just spend 10 minutes of your life writing this and i respect you for it

    • @melissadeaver6015
      @melissadeaver6015 Год назад

      @@savage_banana1 Same

  • @irishmanuel7180
    @irishmanuel7180 2 года назад +5

    I'm straight but I cried over this song.

  • @lunamoonlight305
    @lunamoonlight305 Год назад +6

    This song makes me feel safe

  • @ccookiexd9692
    @ccookiexd9692 2 года назад +6

    I like going back to this song after school. It helps me relieve stress.
    Another thing is that today (when posting the edit of this comment) it turns a group of people were telling everyone that me and my girlfriend were dating and laughing. My friend did tell an staff there about it and they got in trouble. Remember you can love whoever you want to, and not care of what others think

  • @isabelaserrano673
    @isabelaserrano673 3 года назад +5

    thank you thank you thank you for this

  • @kinayagipson8649
    @kinayagipson8649 3 года назад +11

    I loveee thisssss ❤❤❤❤

  • @Psycho_Icaa
    @Psycho_Icaa Год назад +8

    it's been 2 years but this song is the one i'll never forget❤🏳‍🌈

  • @dasey_leochi1102
    @dasey_leochi1102 Год назад +2

    You can love who you want!!
    You're an amazing either way!

    • @dasey_leochi1102
      @dasey_leochi1102 Год назад +1

      You're born the way you are!!
      And it's probably not just a phase

  • @domenica_2008
    @domenica_2008 Год назад +3

    “girl when will you see, you don’t know what you want, trust us, we know what you need"
    That's literally what my parents say everytime I say that I don't want a relationship.

  • @causetaekookisinmyblood51
    @causetaekookisinmyblood51 3 года назад +8

    This song is everything 😻💜

  • @idkdanymore9283
    @idkdanymore9283 3 года назад +10

    I love this song😭❤️

  • @Gatbsgfsnhwfgbsbeans
    @Gatbsgfsnhwfgbsbeans 11 месяцев назад +4

    This song makes me cry so hard cuz I just wish my family would except me

    • @ShaniaWhite-hb7fz
      @ShaniaWhite-hb7fz 11 месяцев назад +1

      Don't worry I support you ❤❤😊😊

  • @minoo9610
    @minoo9610 Год назад +2

    As someone who is gay and someone who is questioning their gender this song is so relatable I come from a conservative muslim family so I know my family will not except and im constintally reminded about how bad it is which has made me hate that part of myself so I haven't come out yet. But listening to this song helps me remember that being gay does not make me a bad person and i don't have to hatemyself or apologize for it.

  • @itsjuice93
    @itsjuice93 3 года назад +9

    The song is amazing, and you're voice is so beautiful

  • @Hooniverse._.
    @Hooniverse._. Год назад +3

    Dear someone,
    I know that if your listening to this song and your relating to it so much, then your scared.
    Don’t be afraid of being who you are. Sometimes right now is no the right time but there will be one. My friend Is Bisexual and she cries to me all the time about being scared to come out. So to you who’s going through the same thing. Don’t change yourself just because they said you habe to. Change for you. Be yourself. I support you. I Love you and I wish the best to you.
    I love you,
    Stranger

    • @gachavenom229
      @gachavenom229 Год назад

      That was very kind of you thanks for the kind words and have a blessed life💗

  • @morningmoss5847
    @morningmoss5847 3 года назад +5

    this song makes me cry

  • @Sparrowthebunny99
    @Sparrowthebunny99 3 года назад +8

    The whole songs describe my entire life growing up in the closet, everything is said here. I remember watching barbie with my little sister, having huge crush on Barbie instead of admiring to be her like the other girls, I hope I could be with her.

  • @supergirlfan1587
    @supergirlfan1587 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love that there are 2 versions of this song for
    Ken and Ken
    And
    Barbie and Barbie
    I am in love with both

  • @laura2868
    @laura2868 3 года назад +12

    I love thiss

  • @studywiths_boo5547
    @studywiths_boo5547 2 года назад +4

    She literally sing this for hearts. ❤️🌝

  • @natashyapedrosa7721
    @natashyapedrosa7721 3 года назад +7

    i really like the song 🥺❤️❤️

  • @lindseyhiggins1314
    @lindseyhiggins1314 2 года назад +7

    I relate to this a lot. I come from a very Christian family (only my mom’s side is Christian but I don’t talk to my dad or anyone on his side very much). Every time the lgbtq community gets brought into a conversation, my grandma always says stuff about how it’s not normal and “not the way God intended.” And I know that she has been going by that for years and isn’t going to change her mind. But I can’t help but think about what it would be like if my family would except me (I’m pan and poly :) ). I’m still Christian, but I believe that you can love who you love and still follow God. I have 2 other Christian friends that are queer as well, so they make me feel safer. I’m also from southern Indiana, so you’ll always hear people at my school using the f slur and making fun of the lgbtq community. One of my best friends, who I’ve been friends with for 3 years, would never talk to me again if I told him about this stuff. And it’s not like any of the people at my school that are homophobic are hardcore Christian either (not that that’s an excuse to be homophobic). Really wish that I didn’t live where I do, but hey, what can you do :/. Anyways, I guess that’s all. I know that no one will read this, I just needed a place to vent, and I guess this is the place it ended up being. Have a good day lovelies :)

    • @kalybug
      @kalybug 2 года назад +1

      dont worry im kinda the same way but not all my family is christian and im also pan poly and my parents are very skeptical about everything

  • @tom.is.my.favorite2526
    @tom.is.my.favorite2526 3 года назад +1

    Why aren't parents supportive of their child's happiness?! It tears me apart everytime I hear or read comments saying their parents don't support them and they're scared to come out! Like please! They are your kids, it won't kill you to support your own babies!!!! Like GROW UP?! Time has changed!

  • @thatoneperson.........
    @thatoneperson......... Год назад +2

    Thank you for making this ily sm