@@viktor2338 I'm not saying one can't get laid using tinder but I think it depends on location. My friend in Warsaw, Poland (and he's ugly) had no problems finding casual fun.
@@alb12345672 Tinder isn't for getting LTRs, it's for getting casual action. No-one's disputing that millions of average guys spend a fortune on chaining themselves to Miss Averages.
@@realbenjaminseda Live will work well if one has good chemistry. Online only works if one is super beautiful. Most me are just average at best. 2024, USA
Right but you'll never know how much you've improved until you take a stab at new photos and prompts. It's easy to get lost down the self-improvement rabbit hole and put off dating while “improving” only to find out you've been living a loner life for so long you don't even remember how to flirt with a girl. So it's important to do both simultaneously
based zeus thank you very much ive watch your videos from 2016 since your subscribers are 300k and im not good at girls fast forward to 2024 my game got good ive dated a ton of girls and im not a shy boy anymore i think ive reach the part of my life that i dont need to watch your videos anymore thank you very much.
I agree with some things you mentioned, but it just seems like a few tricks just to get noticed or good enough for a possible one night stand, but more than that, I highly doubt since you solely focused on getting her attention and her attraction rather than having her grow genuine interest in you. What about what you want? How about instead of trying to catch the attention of a bunch of random women, tailor your profile for the type of women you're looking for.
I do both of Tinder and Hinge but also just randomly approaching people. My photos do need some work however. Gonna be working with a professional photographer in a couple weeks to get good shots.
BTW, I don't understand: ANY prompt that can be used for ALL/MANY women, i.e., that is not tailored to the SPECIFIC woman, is bad, and women feel it from 1000 miles away.
At least the smart girls you're probably after will notice. If the man you're pretending to be actually had status and class, he would pay a professional matchmaker. IMO this fake super rich business man stuff only attracts greedy girls with poor personality. It's not worth it. It might get you laid, but just getting jacked will do as well.
Benjamin, I wanted to ask you one question, is it possible for a man who is not funny or doesn't have a good sense of humor to attract a girl or just to get her number or Instagram when I approach her on the street?
Alpacas are really big ice breakers to start conversations if u have a couple there so cute and precious. I wore an alpaca sweater with alpacas on it and I had so many women compliment me on the alpacas and how cute it looks but I was already married to a sweet pretty Peruvian and she’s happy with a 1 bed apartment all her life if necessary. So I’m blessed in that aspect I don’t want any American princess I don’t vibe good or get along with modern women so I don’t connect w them. Boring is good it’s good discipline and strengthening of the mind to pray and get closer to God which is the only thing that’s matters cause we can all die at anytime…
I am wondering if the tender app is not working correctly for me. I am a 25-year-old, 178cm tall individual living in Europe. I am financially stable and looking for suitable matches through this channel. 🌍😅😮
I think you should give advice based on more real information or use a disclaimer. Surfing is not free. You might feel like surfing is free but a board, suit, and classes to learn are not free.... And if you're a good surfer, you're probably buying a new board every 1 or 2 years for the first years as you get better.
another reminder that men are the only gender that have to practice and do all the learning when it comes to knowing how to talk to or how to interact or communicate with the opposite sex. i've felt this way for years now, the way a man talks and behaves, acts, in a conversation or interaction with a woman, is what either makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around. Another way to put it, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to women, not the other way around. True or False? A woman doesn't need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with men, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with women. Or another way to put it, the way the man talks, acts, behaves, in interactions or conversations is what ultimately matters, thats what determines if the woman is gonna be attracted, interested or not, not the other way around. Am i right or wrong? I find it stupid and mind-boggling that women even seek advice on how to talk to men. Men are always the ones in position of where they can make a mistake or mess up an interaction that causes it to be boring, unattractive or make the other person uncomfortable, etc.
Come on Benjamin, we want old Zeus to be back and talk about real deal, What went wrong 😮. Let's get back to WORK. Let's talk about how to be a 1% and stuff.. #backupgirlsstuff*
I feel comfortable speaking for all women. We ain't going to be on no dating profiles. The only people on those dating profiles that you will meet are desperate catfishes
He looks like every average built guy I ever went to school with. He's just good at style and grooming and photography choices. Which is the whole point of the video. Average looking good.
First of all Tinder is trash and not everyone can be a high value man. For me being traditional is enough,for both genders or at least try to do your job as a guy/woman in a relationship. I don't want to post fake photos.I don't use social media etc,be genuine and simple
@@Will_taylor551 It does because most women look at the height on male profiles. If he doesn't say he's at least 6ft, he'll be unlikely to get any matches.
Tinder is for Chads. Real life is for average people who really want to meet nice women. Don't be afraid. Just approach them in real life. 2024 PS Tinder and Bumble is for Chads today and tomorrow. You can't win on line if you are average looking. You can be average looking in real life but you need to have good chemistry and click with them live. Online love is all visual. 2024, USA
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1. Don't waste time on tinder
How do you get action?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu Go outside, brother.
@@panwu6602 True, meeting outside is better. Gym, beach, park etc
@@viktor2338 I'm not saying one can't get laid using tinder but I think it depends on location. My friend in Warsaw, Poland (and he's ugly) had no problems finding casual fun.
@@panwu6602Poland. Yea right
Also be handsome
That' part.
@@latoshastanfield5523 But yet I see men who are FAR from "handsome" with women, have kids, etc. There is more to it than just that.
Working out and taking care of yourself helps. But the video is not about that it's about pictures.
Yes, the vast majority of men on Tinder get no action.
@@alb12345672 Tinder isn't for getting LTRs, it's for getting casual action. No-one's disputing that millions of average guys spend a fortune on chaining themselves to Miss Averages.
itraveledthere AI fixes this. "Beat Tinder Algorithm: Free Course"
These tips actually go hard
We need more tips like these based on science facts and statistics
Step 1: Delete Tinder Step 2: Join a run club
Did a run club - girls waste ur time there too😂
Smart
@@CommandoMaster Date nerd women. Play Chess. 2024
@@CommandoMaster Date Nerd women. Play Chess. 2024, USA
@@normanheurtematte Date nerd women. Play Chess. 2024, USA PS Best of luck.
Lie about everything,use a different picture of someone very handsome,lie about your wealth.
Finally a guide on photos. I always wondered on how to get correct photos thank you
I should probably reinstall tinder then and try switching my photos. I used it fir 2 years and never got a date. Basically gave up
1. Don’t waste time on dating apps. There’s a reason why people use them. Go outside, feel the grass, and approach women the old fashioned way
Do both
@@realbenjaminsedaonly eharmony for serious-marriage stuff though; the rest are for degenerate kids
why are you even here goofy
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@@realbenjaminseda Live will work well if one has good chemistry. Online only works if one is super beautiful. Most me are just average at best. 2024, USA
I think the best way is to improve yourself and/or your life so that generating these pictures or prompts feels effortless and without struggle
Right but you'll never know how much you've improved until you take a stab at new photos and prompts.
It's easy to get lost down the self-improvement rabbit hole and put off dating while “improving” only to find out you've been living a loner life for so long you don't even remember how to flirt with a girl.
So it's important to do both simultaneously
based zeus thank you very much ive watch your videos from 2016 since your subscribers are 300k and im not good at girls fast forward to 2024 my game got good ive dated a ton of girls and im not a shy boy anymore i think ive reach the part of my life that i dont need to watch your videos anymore thank you very much.
love the style of these new vids. keep it up man
Glad you like them!
Be good looking and tall, list your height on the app.
The prompt about miles focuses on sparing money (free miles), which is NOT status-oriented.
I agree with some things you mentioned, but it just seems like a few tricks just to get noticed or good enough for a possible one night stand, but more than that, I highly doubt since you solely focused on getting her attention and her attraction rather than having her grow genuine interest in you. What about what you want? How about instead of trying to catch the attention of a bunch of random women, tailor your profile for the type of women you're looking for.
Ben seda with another upload 💯💯🔥🔥
I do both of Tinder and Hinge but also just randomly approaching people. My photos do need some work however. Gonna be working with a professional photographer in a couple weeks to get good shots.
BTW, I don't understand: ANY prompt that can be used for ALL/MANY women, i.e., that is not tailored to the SPECIFIC woman, is bad, and women feel it from 1000 miles away.
At least the smart girls you're probably after will notice.
If the man you're pretending to be actually had status and class, he would pay a professional matchmaker.
IMO this fake super rich business man stuff only attracts greedy girls with poor personality. It's not worth it. It might get you laid, but just getting jacked will do as well.
Benjamin, I wanted to ask you one question, is it possible for a man who is not funny or doesn't have a good sense of humor to attract a girl or just to get her number or Instagram when I approach her on the street?
All this for a damn dating app. No thanks.
Great advice, I love it.
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Alpacas are really big ice breakers to start conversations if u have a couple there so cute and precious. I wore an alpaca sweater with alpacas on it and I had so many women compliment me on the alpacas and how cute it looks but I was already married to a sweet pretty Peruvian and she’s happy with a 1 bed apartment all her life if necessary. So I’m blessed in that aspect I don’t want any American princess I don’t vibe good or get along with modern women so I don’t connect w them. Boring is good it’s good discipline and strengthening of the mind to pray and get closer to God which is the only thing that’s matters cause we can all die at anytime…
I am wondering if the tender app is not working correctly for me. I am a 25-year-old, 178cm tall individual living in Europe. I am financially stable and looking for suitable matches through this channel. 🌍😅😮
Why was this recommended
because im the best channel on youtube :)
@@realbenjaminsedaThat sounds like something Zeus would say
What about guys who ain't rich and average looking
Date nerd women. You will be okay. 2024, USA
I think you should give advice based on more real information or use a disclaimer. Surfing is not free. You might feel like surfing is free but a board, suit, and classes to learn are not free.... And if you're a good surfer, you're probably buying a new board every 1 or 2 years for the first years as you get better.
4:22 this is literally if a moose eats a muffin
Why do I need all this crap to be worth loving?
Noti
This is literally Bilzerian from bigmouth
So 3 pics total or am I missing the point?
crazy how you go on all these dates yet you don't have a girlfriend.
How do you know I don’t have a gf?
@@realbenjaminseda If you did have a gf, you would be approaching random women all the time
@@Mylris Women are happy to share a man with a high enough value, the way it's always been
@@TC-yx1qt maybe in a religion like Islam but not in Christianity.
@@Mylris naw, regular guys no matter the religion in almost all countries.
another reminder that men are the only gender that have to practice and do all the learning when it comes to knowing how to talk to or how to interact or communicate with the opposite sex.
i've felt this way for years now, the way a man talks and behaves, acts, in a conversation or interaction with a woman, is what either makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around. Another way to put it, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to women, not the other way around.
True or False?
A woman doesn't need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with men, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with women.
Or another way to put it, the way the man talks, acts, behaves, in interactions or conversations is what ultimately matters, thats what determines if the woman is gonna be attracted, interested or not, not the other way around. Am i right or wrong? I find it stupid and mind-boggling that women even seek advice on how to talk to men.
Men are always the ones in position of where they can make a mistake or mess up an interaction that causes it to be boring, unattractive or make the other person uncomfortable, etc.
any tips on picking up girls through 7-9th grade (not meant to be a weird question)
Copy and paste? Nah bruh.
I just don’t have that many pictures of me. How can I build a profile if I don’t have good pictures? I need more pictures
Get more pics
@@realbenjaminseda through a professional photo shoot?
@@realbenjaminseda Some people are just not photogenic. 2024, USA PS even if they have a pro fotographer. 2024
Bro your 3 step formula video page is not loading 😢
gold
Was that tinder experiment video in NYC posted anywhere?
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Come on Benjamin, we want old Zeus to be back and talk about real deal, What went wrong 😮.
Let's get back to WORK.
Let's talk about how to be a 1% and stuff..
#backupgirlsstuff*
omg, yes. first I didn't realize.
Don't waste time on dating app
I feel comfortable speaking for all women. We ain't going to be on no dating profiles. The only people on those dating profiles that you will meet are desperate catfishes
Some people gotta take what they can get.
Yeah, it's easy when looking like Adonis. Smh.
He looks like every average built guy I ever went to school with.
He's just good at style and grooming and photography choices.
Which is the whole point of the video. Average looking good.
First of all Tinder is trash and not everyone can be a high value man. For me being traditional is enough,for both genders or at least try to do your job as a guy/woman in a relationship. I don't want to post fake photos.I don't use social media etc,be genuine and simple
Go
Benjamin you send me a sms on my phone but I cant reply
But women are not superficial!😂
If you don't have height, looks, athleticism etc., this wont get you anywhere.
Height doesn't help on dating apps
@@Will_taylor551 It does because most women look at the height on male profiles. If he doesn't say he's at least 6ft, he'll be unlikely to get any matches.
Second
man had notifications on
@@realbenjaminseda yessiirrr
First
welcome bro
Tinder is for Chads. Real life is for average people who really want to meet nice women. Don't be afraid. Just approach them in real life. 2024 PS Tinder and Bumble is for Chads today and tomorrow. You can't win on line if you are average looking. You can be average looking in real life but you need to have good chemistry and click with them live. Online love is all visual. 2024, USA
guys go outside to meet women. on the lil phone they don‘t see your masculine frame
Do both
@@realbenjaminsedanuh. Cold approaching has done wonders for me.
@@darkshadow955 why not? it's like passive income