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The Essential Reason Porn is Wrong by Matt Fradd
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Had a relapse but I gotta just get back on the wagon. No communion for me this Sunday though! Pray for me my brothers and sisters.
God bless you, brother! Let's bounce back together.
Praying for you sir! May the Holy Spirit give you strength.
God’a got this! How are you doing since?
don't worry brother we all fall down in masturbation sometimes, but it's important that you acknowledge it's a sin,and you go to confessionary.God bless you brother.
Praying for all who struggle with pornography. At one time in my life, I would fall over and over again with pornography. At one confession, I revealed to a priest that I kept falling with the sin over my pornography. Then the priest suggested that I ask Jesus to show you the way your soul looks. After confession, I did just that. I asked Jesus "how does my soul look?"
Later on, I believe I was given a vision. A man I believed to be Jesus told me this is how a soul looks without pornography. I was then shown a heart with lots of bright light shining forth from it. Then the man I believe to be Jesus told me this is the way your soul looks with pornography before confession. Then I was shown a heart with a lot of black with specks of light shining forth from it. Then the man I thought of as Jesus told me "Take heart, your soul will not look like this forever. The only reason your soul looks like this is because you consume so much pornography between each confession."
Afterwards, when I thanked my confessor about this, he asked me to share this with as many Catholics who struggle with pornography.
Find yourself a man like Matt who's holy, spits facts AND is hilarious
Why are there no lectures on how "vibrators" and "dildos" are wrong?? Why are men shamed for porn use when nobody EVER says a word about "sex toys". Men are visual and women are tactile......females use toys for the EXACT same reason men use porn....sexual stimulation to assist in producing orgasms. I do not know a female today (over the age of 20) that does not own at least one vibrator........funny, we never see any of these "brave" men, standing up against porn, ever say one word against sex toys??? What a shocker!!
Topsey Kretts i dont wanna get into argument about all the points that you’ve made. But please don’t generalise. When you said you dont know any woman above the age of 20 who doesn’t own a vibrator or any kind of sex toys, you were generalising. And it is wrong. Just because you dont know anyone who does or doesn’t do something, doesn’t mean that it isn’t exist. Because as far as i am concern, i am a woman, in my thirties, and i have never own any kind of sex toys. So please, stop generalising.
@@MsNovazz Where is it written thou shall not generalize?
10:09 "That guy's getting angry, okay let's continue."
I don't know why I laughed out loud at that...
Matt, God bless you!
It's just awesome how you use your great sense of humor in your speeches.. :D
Dues vult
Why are there no lectures on how "vibrators" and "dildos" are wrong?? Why are men shamed for porn use when nobody EVER says a word about "sex toys". Men are visual and women are tactile......females use toys for the EXACT same reason men use porn....sexual stimulation to assist in producing orgasms. I do not know a female today (over the age of 20) that does not own at least one vibrator........funny, we never see any of these "brave" men, standing up against porn, ever say one word against sex toys??? What a shocker!!
@@topseykretts7608 I got rid of my (disgusting) toys after I got serious about my relationship with Christ.... I also have engaged in porn.... I guarantee most women with toys also watch porn... it's a perversion.
Once you realize what sex was created for all that garbage is water under the bridge.
Most people watch porn is because they are lonely and lost... once you find love and a real human.. porn just doesn't compare to committing, intimacy and love
@@topseykretts7608 most men are oblivious to toys bc their hand does the job... just pointing out the obvious
@@mannss42884 ...yes.... but that's apples and oranges.....a woman's "hand" can do the same job for her without a toy!! Just like a man's can do the job without porn.
Men are visual and women are tactile......men are always shamed for porn use while women receive NO shame for "toy" use.
As for the rest of your comment.... you are right....but most people will never find love like the kind you describe.....if you have......you're one of the lucky ones
I struggle with this. God bless you
Well sir that makes two of us! Sucks doesn't it!?!
@@robertdelgadocapetillo8684 three
@@robertdelgadocapetillo8684 @Jason Love make that four
@@chrisesparza3786 make that around 3 billion probably
I need healing in this. For about 3-4 years i've struggled surpassing 3 weeks without doing/watching it
Pray and fast and if you have any chance of the week; go to the chapel where the Eucharist is at.
Keep yourself busy constantly, that’ll definitely help
Why are there no lectures on how "vibrators" and "dildos" are wrong?? Why are men shamed for porn use when nobody EVER says a word about "sex toys". Men are visual and women are tactile......females use toys for the EXACT same reason men use porn....sexual stimulation to assist in producing orgasms. I do not know a female today (over the age of 20) that does not own at least one vibrator........funny, we never see any of these "brave" men, standing up against porn, ever say one word against sex toys??? What a shocker!!
@@topseykretts7608 That falls under masturbation. And it's the same as porn, using a persons body for other people to see/use (I mean, sex toys are modeled after an actual male's body part)
@@KurffyOriginal EXACTLY!! But why the double standard?.....never any mention of the "evils" of sex toys?? Why? Because sex toys are primarily used by WOMEN.....and they refuse to be lectured to.
Love your accent and your communicative competence 🧐
This was a great talk. Thank you, Matt. God bless!
I'm a huge Matt Frad fan, but in this speech, he sounds like an oily aristocrat who would be the second-in-command to the main bad guy in a movie set in the late Renaissance.
Thank you. Please can you talk about how this relates to pornography in drawings and cartoons, or using inanimate objects, ie, that aren't people? You mentioned God not wanting us to try to have an intimate relationship with our phone. Asking especially because cartoon pornography is so common with kids at the moment.
I would say it is still leading to a perverted mindset. Whether it is drawn or video/photos, it is still a pornographic object. The intention is the same. And if consumed in the same circumstances as a person would consume regular porn, it is just as bad.
Not just a young person issue trust me.
If porn is misogynistic then its misandristic too, as it is degrading to both men and women. And it's not as though the men are the addicts to porn and the women are the ones exploited (in every case). Not only because of the reason I just gave (it harms both sexes), but because there are women who have real issues (addictions) with porn but because of the stereotype, they're overlooked.
The nuance in Matt’s understanding of porn is virtually nonexistent
i agree with you.
@Ismael Barrera I know that it makes sense that men are overwhelmingly the viewers of porn. I don't know that it is actually, in fact, the case. Females are overlooked. That's my point.
And I never accuse sexism or any other kind of "ism." That's no way to have a discussion.
I agree 300% with everything Matt said. But I think the argument is not persuasive. When you watch a tv show about cooking, you usually dont put much thought into the intrinsic value of the cook, if at all. The cook/host is providing a service for you - showing how to cook. People who consume pornography think of porn actors/actresses the same way. It is not intrinsically wrong to provide a service. Now, if there is something wrong with the service itself, you must show why, and its impossible to avoid consequentialism in doing that. The stronger argument would be - and Matt hinted at this - to show that
porn entices lust rather than healthy desire, and that it is intrinsically harmful to yourself and others, as it normalizes dysfunctional lust and objectification of others through habit. It is both a consequentialist argument, and one that shows the intrinsic evil in porn itself (porn cannot, by definition, not be about lust)...
when you watch a cooking show, you want to "use" not the host, but the food that he is preparing. Your atention is totally on the aliment. When you watch a porn, you don't want to use what the person is preparing for you (as it could be in a restaurant, a market etc) but THE PERSON ITSELF. The difference is simple and evident: in the porn, what you wanna use is THE PERSON, in the food show, what you wanna use is the FOOD. You don't care too much, generally, about the chef, sure, but it isn't him that you wanna use, as it is with porn! And that's the problem
Some evidence of that: watch a lot of porn, and you will begin to see other people as ways to reach pleasure. Watch a lot of tv food shows, and you will start to see the food SERVICE that other people are offering as ways to reach your pleasures. The second is not gonna stop you from seeing that person as a human being and somebody to be loved, but the first WILL.
@@luizfernandohauck4000 I agree with you! Maybe it wasn't the best analogy. But the point was to show how many - maybe the majority - of porn consumers view porn actors and actresses, as mere providers of a service. There´s a huge ideological campaign right now in the mainstream feminist movement with catchphrases like "sex work is real work". They want to dissociate the actual activity from the end goal of that activity, the means from the ends - "porn actresses are just people making money and there´s nothing wrong with making money". So that´s where I took that argument from, and that´s an essential misconception about porn that we need to address... (to be fair its not a misconception, campaigners know exactly what they are doing and they deliberately manipulate the wording they use to fit their political agenda, but we need to bring this awareness to people)
@@ThePhilosorpheus didn't know about that! Feminists were fighting against porn just a moment ago, and now they're supporting it? Those people are difficult to understand... But well, I think that some of those people who claim that it's "just a service" just don't care about participating in something dehumanizing. They know that admiting it fully will imply having to fight bravely their sexual habits, and they think that it's impossible to avoid it. There are some people also that don't perceive it as evil because their heart has already turned into stone, since, in our culture, it became normal to see the other person as a way to achieve your goals, so when you are imersed in a world like that, it appears as something absolutely normal. In that case, the only thing we can do is to show them those arguments (and others) presented in this video and pray for them, lest they become aware of it.
@@ThePhilosorpheus and also... "sex work is real work", well, it really is, as it is also earning money killing other people as a job. That doesn't imply that it's ethical or good for yourself. Being simply a consumer doesn't imply that the product you're consuming isn't perverse and extremely bad (for you or for the other).
Matt mentions LDS. I can love LDS, and indeed, I do, but I cannot love that they are a cult of counterfeit, masquerading as Christianity, especially as pertains to their fallen, and therefore, dispicable doctrine pertaining to the paramount importance of the ontology of God.
I don’t think he was advocating for them in any way. Simply acknowledging that we are on the same page on that one point.
I’m pretty sure Matt has stated publicly that Mormons are not Christians. I think he was just pointing how Catholics and LDS have common values on things such as porn. I’m also pretty sure the audience here is Mormon, so he’s not going to scold them.
I'm panicking I love my ex gf we broke uo a YEAE ago .. dont want anyone else ..
Takes time to get over someone you've spent a lot of time with and grown close to. But I always say if it didn't work out the first time, it's not going to the second.
Very helpful teachings
Still not recovered ,got fired 2014 , same yr Robin Williams died and mu uncle Jim passed away .it's 2019 I got nothing
While watching this, RUclips adds were about lingerie....god bless everyone trying to get better!
Now tell us about the horrible time Judy Garland had during the filming of "The Wizard of Oz" and tell us that making or watching movies is intrinsically wrong. You might as well.
Starts at 3:39
thank you so much bc it was long
The jokes in intro is also another treasure.
Porn only makes us want the skin of people. Not skin deep.
Awesome Matt
The homeless guy would think it a good act as he has had a hot meal that day!
The act is prideful and narcissistic due to the intentions behind it.
an action is not good or bad because of how others see it. that would be relativism
Self esteem sucks right now .stil pretty destized , miss my ex gf who Im depressed bc we're not t oghther
How about the case of pornographic animation? There is no real human involved in it. I feel there is something evil about it, but can we still apply the argument of Pope John Paul II on this case?
Hoi Kit Wong In a sense, it can be worse. When we say porn is unrealistic, and sexually bonding with what's unattainable isn't healthy. How much more so would that be with the exaggerated proportions of cartoon bodies, where extremes we may see as disgusting could become the norm for our brain
then you're basically worshipping a false idol and using it for a wrong purpose
Danny Nyman - my guess is that viewing porn has been a huge motivater for the lechery of "the priests" you speak of, rather than your possibility that it would be prohibitive. The priests, or anyone for that matter are led by the porn into committing the crimes.. Anyone can view porn anytime and anywhere, priests included. Why would you think they couldn't? My guess is that the easy access to all kinds of pornography keeps some people sexually hungry much of the time and creates a vivid imagination world of illicit sex acts that they finally decide to act out in reality. Rather than inhibit, it inflames. An obsessive preoccupation is the result, rather than satiety.
You list all the forms that human sexuality can take. The conclusion that I draw from what you say is that various sex acts are essentially the acts of any animal and are essentially amoral. Since, according to your viewpoint, human beings are basically just another kind of animal acting on instincts, that any kind of sexual activity is "normal" and should be seen without a "judgement" being made about the specific form it takes. That it's all OK. Do you really think so?
Hoi Kit Wong I would say that it's still a mocking of the dignity of the human person and the sacredness of the sexual act.
We're not designed to have sexual encounters with electronic devices or animations or anything that isn't a physical, consenting, adult.
not very convincing but fun to watch
My brain wont heal it's 2020 I got nothing
Todd, what kinds of things have you already tried to break away from porn? Here are a few things you could try in case you haven't already:
- Use an internet filter to block porn from your devices (Covenant Eyes is a great one)
- Block all other ways you have of accessing porn (get rid of sex toys and magazines, get a cell phone without internet access if you need to, etc.)
- Find someone you can trust to be your accountability partner: someone you tell every time you watch porn. Someone who will encourage you to keep trying and who will challenge you.
- join a porn accountability group or some other men's group that meets regularly in person who you can share your struggles with.
- seek a professional counselor (it will likely be pricey, but if it helps you quit porn, it's worth it)
I'm currently struggling with porn as well. God bless you, don't lose hope as hard as it may be!
Why are there no lectures on how "vibrators" and "dildos" are wrong?? Why are men shamed for porn use when nobody EVER says a word about "sex toys". Men are visual and women are tactile......females use toys for the EXACT same reason men use porn....sexual stimulation to assist in producing orgasms. I do not know a female today (over the age of 20) that does not own at least one vibrator........funny, we never see any of these "brave" men, standing up against porn, ever say one word against sex toys??? What a shocker!!
Almost fall 2019 I got nothing .man boobs etc .weight gain .man boobs .destized junk . frequent urination flAtline lethargy etc .of course the panel on Dr Oz never mentioned any of this .
Pray the Rosary. Even if you are not Catholic. Our Lady will always help, and will bring light, peace, and healing from God to our brokenness. Her prayers are always heard. Pray the Rosary faithfully and help will come.
How old are you
make male infant circumcision illegal
Dude its 2019 fall I got nothing .Dr Oz show 4 weeks are you kidding me
You're loved more than you know. Thanks for being here. Even in your darkest moments, Jesus never leaves you or stops loving.
Isaiah 43:2
When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
By this logic, couldn’t one circumvent the “essential problem” with porn if they, say, had a crush on a pornstar and watched porn about treating her well and having good sex with her? Like yes, it’s a ridiculous question in some ways because that doesn’t happen, but I’m curious. It seems to be in some niche circumstances there’s a sort of “way around” the problem with porn as he conceives of it (but that makes no mention of the other problems with porn that exist outside of this philosophical framework).
Not so ridiculous. It happens frequently.
Jeez dude 23 minutes in and you hit us with a Kelly Clarkson video? You gotta get to the point faster smh...
It's fall 2018 I got nothing
When you watch "Stranger Things" or any other of kind movie, you are also "using" those actors as means to an end, namely to tell a story for your entertainment. How is this different from porn besides the explicit sexual content? So it's more about this: that sex without love is wrong and that love is not possible via porn.
Love hardly justifies it, though. I may love my mistress more than my wife.
Very cool
5:50, 9:30
Hey Matt is acne and weight gain part of this
ya allah plz forgive me stop watching this.
On porn he says: "...treat people as two-dimensional objects to be consumed, without recognising them as persons to be cherished." Absolutely correct. The same logic should apply to the treatment of human beings by firms in a capitalist economy. In porn, people are treated as objects for the sake of pleasure only. In commerce, people are treated merely as inputs to production for the sake of maximising the firm's profit.
You are absolutely right... But I think that you have to distinguish between work and and the abuse of work... working for a store as a clerk in which there is just compensation for the work performed is there a problem? So long as their is just compensation for the work performed then there is no problem...
@@AntonioSanchez-lv6zi same argument could be said for porn actors. Of course there is a moral difference between sex work and other work. But it's also not moral to cast people aside from their livelihoods, with no recourse. These employees just become cogs in the system like any other input to production. It's the same model of alienating one's body that conservatives find so abhorrent when it comes to abortion.
@MC you have the ability to quit sex work too. Morals dont come into capitalist calculations. You're opening a whole can of worms when it comes to morals and most capitalists dibt wanna go there
Is this really fixaible.. trying to lose weight as well
Stubborn flztline , next appointment with useless doc. Dec 27th ...
What a sad song
I noticed that this is posted on the internet. A thing that wouldn't be here without porn.
Gr8 b8 m8, r8 8/8
The internet wouldn’t be here without porn? Just because evil unintentionally creates something you good (if we agree the internet is good) that doesn’t make the evil,thing less evil/more good
Showed my tgerapistvthis Dec 2014 .
I accept there are people less interested in the porn than me. So let me be like them or more like them. OK God?
A la verga.
Gained weight from this
Todd Bedusek - Todd, what happened? Was the loss of your GF caused by pornography?
No not really she knows im trying to better myself ,the last time we spoke she told me she watches it ,told her not to ,but not sure if she just watches it or pleasures herself but she told me about a spefic sight ,told her not to ,she lives 585 Miles away from me ,she just messaged me on messanger bc I told her I missed her ,
as soon as there is a hint of religion brought into these discussions, I stop listening.
You might want look that.
I spent 21 years as a practicing Catholic, so I feel I've given it enough chances!
Andrew Murphy I almost left the faith too. Then I started studying church history. I am now head over heals in love with God’s one holy church. Try it
Andrew Murphy, even if there isn’t a religious bias/agenda being told?
Your loss.
I was finding this helpful, interesting and enjoyable till the woman came on and started squawking.