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Actualized.org So far to what ive observed elsewhere. you dont have to look good be wealthy or educated to get a girl due to some dude i personally know...but hopefully you can give me a quick brief summary on what I should mainly do to get a girl friend....ill wait patiently.. thanks...at times I am still wondering how the pros do it.
Actualized.org you are an immoral person. And i say this because you endorse and promote immoral and unfair female behaviour. I believe life is always about a balnce, an equilibrium...and that means that what you give is what you recieve. You can NOT give 1$ and expect to recieve 100$. this immoral mentality is basically being selfish and cheating the equilibrium i mentioned before (which others will have to overcompensate for your lack of input but exagerated output benefits), and it is exactly what you are forcing men to accept as normal/standard female behaviour. And ill give you an example: why do women like humor in men? because they typically lack humor themselves. Almost no succesfull standup comedian is a woman, and it's very easy to see how women usually are the first to get offended and dont understand humorous jokes. So is it moral for a woman to expect to recieve something she can not give herself? according to you it is...and when you accept this immoral premise as valid, in this un-important example, you open the gates for this unfairness to be extrapolated to more important fields such as: -requesting from the man to have intimate dirty sex but then be unattached with said woman... First of all those 2 characteristic are mutually exclusive in a healthy human mind. How can you expect someone who isn't that focused in you, who has your interests at a secundary level of importance, to then be extra intimitate with you? Second of all, is it fair for a woman to ask a man this but be unable to give it in return herself? Its almost always the woman who is clingy and overattached to the man in a healthy functioning relationship, so how can she morally expect from you to be the total opposite?... she can't you are, as many woman, asking for everything you potentially can without noticing that you can't get all of those characterisitics from ONE healthy sane human, because they are mutually exclusive in many cases. And i admit you are not the only type of men doing this, Pick UpArtists do the same, WITH THE BIG DIFFERENCE that they know at every second that they are faking all of those female requisites to get in their pants, and once they have achieved this goal, they stop faking and dump this delusional and immoral woman, to repeat the deed again and again... Perpetuating(as you do) this delusional dream/unrealistic expectations of finding a functioning healthy man with all the mutually exclusive characteristics, and setting the bar so high up, no legitimately interested man will ever be even given the time/chance because of the unralistic expectations woman have been promoted to have try to rebattle my comment points if you can, you seem like a rational man and i dont understand how can you still flow with the socialmedia delusional BS
allnamesarepicked Women are most attracted to detached men. Why? Because that's exactly what makes a man strong. Your problem is that you haven't yet accept this and you're trying to turn men into women. If you want a healthy relationship with men, you have to understand how masculinity works. How it actually works! Not how you wish it would work. The more you refuse to understand men, the bigger problems it will create for you with men.
Actualized.org ... you barely responded to any of my specific points... besides im a white MAN, not a woman as you have wrongly assumed. I still have a moral issue with your advice, the overburden of responabilities you condone to put on men, and the lack if such on women. You sound literally like the average mainstream leftist media, the young turks for example, who rally for a only woman controlled wrold instead of equality between both sexes
It’s also important to note that some men enjoy the emotional stimulation too, I was dating a girl for a few months who was by far the hottest girl I’ve been with, but she just had a bland personality. Didn’t joke much nor did she appreciate my attempts to make her laugh and I got super bored with her and left. So some of those points are important for both men and women!
The problem with advice sometimes is that the human beings often take it to one extreme or the other. Yes men do care about personality. the same way that women do care about looks. Especially if you're looking for more than just a one-night stand. If you're looking to develop a relationship with someone yes you want them to have a good personality. The problem is you're taking the advice from one extreme to the other. An epiphany that I realized recently that I sort of realized before but I realize even more right now how true it is in life in general, is that life is all about being balanced and things in life are not one way or the other. Men are not completely masculine women are not completely feminine. Men don't care only about looks and women don't care only about confidence. I came to this conclusion recently when watching a video on RUclips about do you need to be an a$$hole to led. It's free on RUclips I recommend watching it pretty short and it's entertaining. There was a documentary about directors and if they need to be a$$holes to be a director. Ultimately the video comes to conclusion that everybody has their own style. However I think they missed a very important point which is that balance is key if you're too much of an a$$hole you need to be nicer if you're too nice you won't be forceful enough. This combined with other things that I've learned over the years like different balance between different things. For example ideas such as should you be yourself or should you work on yourself. Should you be arrogant or should you be humble. Leo has a whole video that talks about contradiction like this. An answer I believe is balance. In fact I would say this is a major Epiphany that I came to because balance is the answer to almost every problem that we have. If we're too far one way we often over correct and go the complete opposite way. Instead we should just go a little bit more over to the other side until we find a balance that works for us.
I really think you nailed it here. the thing guys forget is that putting up a front of confidence isn't the same as feeling confident. as you said, for the most part women are far more emotional intelligent than guys. emotions don't have words, they are felt. words are like a third party observation from the logical side of the brain. confidence is not arrogance. today we are bombarded with imagery of the arrogant man winning the fair maiden. sure, you may peak her interest with your peacocking and loud manner but this is merely exciting to her, it tickles her danger button. it is not a display of confidence. it's a cheap trick. confidence is knowing yourself at the very deepest level. it's the stillness when you are completely comfortable with what you find there and an unwavering in your statement "I am". it's the coolness in the eyes of a predator. the peace made with our own mortality. know yourself without reserve or apology and bring this to the relationship. she will have more than just a passing interest. she will want to follow you. peace.
It's quite simple I recently realized. As a man, do this : - Own your shadow, your dark side. You'll become dangerous, but in control. - Stop being a victim. Stop blaming others. - Take personal responsibility for your life. Realize that your life is 100% your responsibility. You will gain your personal power back and your emotional independence. What are the offspring of these things ? Confidence and detachment from the outcome. These things will naturally allow you completely and utterly stop objectifying women as the source of your sense of self-esteem or self-worth. You will stop demanding, expecting, controlling or manipulating THEM to make YOU happy. She will be free and you'll be unconditionally yourself. You'll be able to just be who you are. You will become indifferent basically to rejection. You will then be able to be completely in your masculine core, be comfortable in your truth and women will naturally react to you in a very positive way. I was the typical nice guy and I got often rejected. Lately, I've learned these things and at my job, I am constantly flirting and vibing with some of the hot waitresses. To a point where I feel now the other guys are starting to feel a bit jealous of me cause the girls respond super well to me. Since learning these things, I'm even kinder. I'm even more sweet, but I'm genuinely confident and authentic. Because I'm not objectifying them, even as I flirt with them, it's not creepy. They are very comfortable with me. Send me kisses, tell me sweet nothings, jokes, are being cute, do me little favors, tell me compliments, etc. Am I getting laid by them ? No, but I don't need to to feel good as a man. That's the key. Your manhood is 100% your responsibility. When you are indifferent to the outcome, that's when you get good results. That will tell the girl that you are independent and that she won't need to "mother" you. You won't be needy or clingy with her. What happens is that mentality will not only help you with women, but with life and everyone.
I agree with many of your points, you're hitting emotional connection right on target. In the beginning, what attracts a woman (from my view point) is truly a genuine personality, confidence, (it's so attractive) financial stability, moral ethics, sexual compatiblity, etc.. We are overwhelmed emotionally in the beginning from all of these things and the new relationship. Once all of the "new" wears off we have an OVERBEARING demand for emotional intimacy and support from the man we are with. This can be a tulmutuous time because men do not always know how to provide deep emotional support and women don't know how to proactivley ask for it. Women need emotional and physical bonding without sexual intimacy; holding hands, looking up at the stars, walks on the beach, etc. Men truly jeopardize the relationship when they stop courting us and stop spending personal intimate time with us.
One additional thing is that when a girl sees you with other attractive girls it can short circuit the whole thing and make them attracted to you regardless of all the "key factors"
you are exactly right...my wife is "stunning"she's a 10+, not bragging I can't stand her, but ppl were nicer to me, I seemed to get more respect, hell the girls would check her out more than the guys would and talk about a slob, I'm an eddie van halen lookin' jeans and t shirt type guy with long hair!
This is solid gold!! Wow!! I've been studying and applying male to female social dynamics and attraction for 8 years and he is nailing some of the core fundamental aspects to it all. Take notes!! Seriously take notes! Get a notebook or journal and write down everything you learn from others and your own experiences, over time, you'll be amazed by how much better you get with women.
I'd like it to be known that I just left a guy who was that edgy emotionally stimulating guy because he was not enough of the practical, loyal guy. I agree with what you're saying Leo, but balance is still key.
You're correct Minah. A guy who is confident, is loyal as well as a good solutions provider, plus he shows kindness and a healthy sense of ambition and humor...he's probably a keeper.
My last girlfriend said one of the things that attracted her to me first was the fact that I wasn't overly confident and was humble about my own talents. She was sick of guys over-playing their abilities. I'd rank humility pretty high if you want to attract a woman that is actually worth attracting.
Obnxious arrogance can be a turn-off, sure. Core confidence is still a must. But I find girls fall in love even with obnoxious arrogance. I play arrogant a lot with girls and they eat it up. You just gotta do it in a playful way so she knows you don't take yourself too seriously.
+Actualized.org A core sense of confidence sure, I agree with that. But I never play anything except being my true self, its the only way to find a really good match. Quality over quantity for me. A girl attracted to arrogance is not attractive for me, and looks are but one tiny aspect of what makes a woman attractive in my world.
You actually don’t need to show _confidence per say._ You just need to avoid saying or do things that display insecurity. It doesn’t sound like there was anything you did that expressed insecurity.
+Leon Reaper hahahahah it will never happen until you looks like your picture , women is beautifull and she is always taking the advantage of it in this world
Men's range of emotions: "We're either happy, sad, angry, or horny" -- I laughed my head off. This is so true. I always thought I was a very emotional guy, but this pretty much hits the whole range for me. Too funny, but true.
This is a pretty good list. I do think that both the male and the female should strive for self embetterment. I noticed a bunch of guys in the comments section were like "why should I change myself?" You are right. You should be liked for who you are. The foundation does not have to change but why not make better the things you already have? Everyone should have goals, a sense of humor, deep connections with people, and good communication. Some of these will be intuitive and others you can learn and improve. It won't just help in relationships, but also in the quality of your life which is in my opinion, a bit -and by a bit I mean a significant amount-more important. The other stuff can come later.
+Maryann G. (MU QT) I agree. It should be two sided. I quite sad when Leo said 'supermodel' & 'pornstar' stuff... Yeah, that's the first thing, chronologically---same as woman isn't it? But absolutely not the most important thing.
Great video thank you! I'm a woman and still watched it out of curiosity and all you said is really true! Keep up the good work man, you're amazing! :)
If you want to get women focus on yourself and they will recognize it and flock to you, or don't put them on a pedestal when you talk to them because if she thinks that she is better than you its over.
+Cabdalla Cabdi if that happened RSD wouldnt have been successful for 10 years, you could be true in some cases though, onle youve established a social base
The reason why it is so hard for so many men is simply because a woman subconciously compares us to the dozens and dozens of other men they know in their lifes at the same time. It's natural that then it is very hard to be the one they want. You really have to proof to be the best of them. Sometimes this is not even possible with the hardest amount of work because there still remains auch a thing as a talent for leadership, provider and a mentally quick witted person who is able to act very quickly and kick down possible family threateners like James Bond if the don't stop when the confident stands in front of the family! I am sorry guys if I disappoint some of you now, but it is really naive to belief that for a really extraordinary pretty women (which you would call "a 10") it is enough to be just good at "game". Look at the thousands and thousands of offers they get each day from extraordinary rich and influencial guys. If you don't have a VERY(!) ambitious goal where she can really feel DEEP INSINDE her, that you are dilegently and quickly improving and getting closer towards your goal, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO BEAT THESE SUPERGUYS!!
OMG , I can`t say how much i thank you for this video . I met that amazing girl, and we like each other , in the procces of knowing each other thing started to get a little bit numb , i knew i did something wrong . Then i found your video , i realized i`m missing 4 of your dealbreakers , i only had the looks and the humor part ... but i was soo needy and atached to her , made her the center of my everyday ... So i started to get more detached from her and not being so needy. I had some work i started kind of ignoring her .... she didn`t stop calling me after that and be much more interested in me , i`m still working on the others , but i think i`m going in the right way ! THANK YOU SO MUCH ! (sorry for my bad english)
I like how half the comment section is about berleezy having this in his dangan playlist and like half way of them didn’t even watch the video on top of that😂
Everyone knows this by default. You are born with this knowledge (we'd have gone extinct by now if that wasn't the case) and it gradually unlocks with puberty. It's just that some are unluckier than others, get sad and/or frustrated with their bad luck and click videos like this where someone tells them "the secrets you aren't aware of". That is the sad but true reality. It doesn't mean that you should sulk and never care about it again, but it also doesn't mean that your frustration is unjustified and you're just doing everything wrong (like this video suggests). In most first world societies the younger generations, especially millenials, (not just women) are incredibly biased towards certain sterotypes, because that's what they're told they should be looking for. And if you don't fit the (incredibly shallow and boring in my eyes) norm, you're often already disqualified before you even get a chance. _"Any man who exhibits these characteristics shouldn't spend much time without a woman in his life."_ I would testify under oath that this is complete and utter bullshit. This video would've worked 20 years ago, but today's society is way different mate.
Have all of the 4 dealbreakers down except needyness. I didn't know this was a character trait in me, and need to solve it ASAP. Had a really good woman leave me because of this. Thanks Leo!
I'm a very "self-aware" woman and you are brilliant and super insightful. I have to say that character/substance/values are number one....Kindness. Integrity. Intelligence. Honesty. Let's be honest...any woman worth her salt requires those things in a man, and will give so much in return. A man that comes through for her....is there for her...for both security and her emotional needs...is her hero...and she will adore him and give all of herself in return...all the love, attention, affection, and adoration he could ever want. You are a real man! The bitter guys, so rampant these days, are total wimps. You have handled the pitfalls and disappointments you have experience with women like a man. The bitter guys are incredibly unattractive. You are not a whiner, you are not bitter or anger...You're a real man Leo! :-)
we want a man that takes responsibility for his actions, commitments - who has the ability to show his emotions when needed, a responsible person and a person who works full time to provide for his woman or family. Qualities I do not see in the men from the years 1985 till now...
***** Yes Johnny B. I know exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately, these girls and grown-ups do not realize this until it is too late. I myself passed up these great qualities in guys while I was in high school and I actually married a guy who was the tall, dark handsome guy but with no MORAL CODE. Divorced him after 3 years... I am aware....
I find that women often want opposing or nonsensical characteristics in a man. Funny but also serious. Confident but not cocky. Outgoing and adventurous but stable and secure. Ambitious but still wants him to pay attention to her. Wealthy and charitable but you better spend money on her. Good looking but she doesn't want to feel like she has to compete with other women for you. There is no "win" in any of this. I'll never understand it, I don't think anyone ever will.
Introduction to What Women Want in a Man (00:00) Why It's Important to Understand What Women Want (01:01) The Importance of Not Asking Women Directly (01:51) Women Want Deep Emotional Intimacy (03:15) Understanding Women's Social and Emotional Dynamics (03:29) What Women Look for in Men: The Complete Package (05:01) Market Dynamics in Relationships (05:59) Women's Ideal Traits in a Man (07:06) Detailing Core Traits Women Desire (08:33) Surprising Traits That Aren't as Important as Expected (08:52) Core Deal Breakers for Women (11:15) Critical Importance of Confidence and Humor (12:02) The Value of Detachment and Edginess (13:14) The Significance of Intimate and Adventurous Relationships (14:23) Traits That Are Less Critical But Desired (17:15) Focusing on What Really Attracts Women (18:09) Improving Essential Traits to Attract High-Quality Women (19:22) Summary of Ideal Traits for Attracting Women (22:27) The Ideal Scenario Women Dream About (23:06) Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Personal Growth (23:58) Call to Action and Introduction to the Newsletter (24:15)
12:20 Not all guys are a flat line emotionally. I'm a highly sensitive person to the extent that I'm also an empath; I am very complex emotionally and can sense the emotional energies of others and what they're feeling. I know you're generalizing, but there are still far more highly and deeply emotional guys out there than you would be led to believe. The problem is, like women and their love of sex, men are pressured by society to keep quiet about their sensitivity. Unfortunately, because everyone seems to equate vulnerability with weakness and effeminacy, there are very strong social stigmas against sensitive men.
Highly sensitive person??? What sort of guy refers to themselves in this way?? You are screwed sunshine and are going to be taken to the cleaners, it sounds like you will put a woman on a pedestal and will then be shocked when she doesn't respect you for kissing her arse. When I think back to Uni loads of the female teachers to be were the worse for playing around and getting laid and these are to be teaching the next batch of kids. God help us, the age of internet dating, selfies etc. etc. means people can be choosey and constantly looking for better things, trading up. The look at me, entitled women of today are hard work and it's getting worse and if you get married, have kids and things go south you are taken to the cleaners like my brother and one of my best mates and have to start from scratch. Modern day feminism blurs with man hating far too much. Bad times all round.
These points are the result and the reflection of inner process. Also they are interrelated. If you are confident, you are free to choice any interesting activity, that becomes a passion. In that, you’re detached. That creates joy, and a good ground for humour and making friends. Which leads to sex and sexual skills. All that keeps that lifestyle going. But there is the vibe, the initial energy behind that.
But where does that leave all the average girls, or lower than average girls? It's not very nice language. What is the majority of males - average or way lower than the average women going to do? There are not enough top hot women for all of them.
So when I was checking out all of the videos... There was *all the Danganronpa videos* in that playlist! So, there was no extras? Nope, there was *no extras* TRUTH BULLET> PLAYLIST ACCOUNT NO THATS WRONG! B R E A K ! ! Actually, that’s not so true... what was found in there was a video on 5 steps to becoming a man. You would’ve only knew that had you checked Berleezy’s playlist!
I agree completely. However, in reality, giving women the "whole package" even the five (confidence, humor, sex etc.) over the long term (years) is exhausting. You're better off putting your energy into being a Navy Seal or Astronaut.
My scores on these traits, the important ones first! Confidence: 7/10 Humour - high energy: 5/10 Detachment - non neediness: 6/10 Adventurous - Boldness: 6/10 Sex: 6/10 Looks: 8/10 Social Status - celebrity: 6/10 Security - financial security: 8/10 Loyalty: 7/10
The problem with this video is that it talks only about the first encounter / initial stages of a relationship. So unless you plan to date around until you're freaking 70 or go through 5 marriages taking another approach will be necessary. Sorry, but while learning how to "get" women can be actually achieved, being in a good relationship is a pretty different thing. There's a qualitative leap between the two, if you know what I mean.
Oh man as a woman this really helped me understand the problems I’m experiencing in my relationship. My man is a provider but there’s a couple other guys who have stimulated my emotions 😂
It's true that women desire deep emotional intimacy, are social creatures, are free flowing, spontaneous and relationship bound creatures. And, it's true that though good looks, security and social status draw a women to a man it's not what will keep her in his life. These traits may get her attention to come closer and take a look, but they are not the qualities women seek. I appreciate you putting into categories what awakens a women's spirit and soul. I agree that we seek men of confidence & detachment, mental strength, one who will lead and provide options for her when she's lost in her emotions and dysfunctional relations. We seek Humor and Adventure, as you say, but truly it's emotional stimulation, so that we may keep in touch with our delicate feminine nature to be able to reciprocate a mans desire for intimacy, closeness, and being the provider/protector. And finally, I agree that we long for the dirty & intimate sex because, I think, it's means of connecting both needs: physical and emotional. Thank you for your work. I personally thinks it's awesome! Keep it up.
this tip is for them guys that told the girl i love you and she said it back if you really want this girl to fall in love with you barley text her for 3 days now this tip is risky but it did a hell of a job for me my girl wasnt in love with me i was in love with her but she would tell me she love me. just want to mention saying i love you and being in love is two different things. so after i found out she wasnt in love with me now i didnt do this on purpose but literally a day after i didnt have chance to talk to her as often when i did she told me out of the blue word from her mouth ( nit being able to talk to you have made me realize that im in love with you)
1750 Humor is obviously NOT a deal breaker. Looks are FAR more important than humor, get real. Most guys don't have a great sense of humor, and a lot of girls don't even like Mr. Funny Guys. Think Chris Farley got more chicks than Leonardo Di Caprio? Or even Justin Irritating Bieber? And besides...how is someone supposed to have a better sense of humor, practice your stand up? How much do women like posers? She will read your desperation and no matter what you wont be able to keep it up.
***** Nah....not being uptight and boring all the time is not the same as having a good sense of humor. This boy is talking out of his ass is whats up.
“guy are calm and stoic. we're either this or that or horny.“ I had to stop the video and laugh. oh and... loyalty is on top of my list. to be honest, i think every woman has her own list/order, even if you say we don't psychoanalize ourselves that much.
Confidence, Detachment, Humor, Edginess and Sex. I think every body needs to learn and improve those five features to have more interesting and happy life. Great video. I learned something Today.
I agree with some of the things you said here. But for me, I dislike detachment; and loyalty is extremely important to me. I hate mind games. If he likes me, I want to know for sure, I hate feeling uncertain. I find a good sense of humor and intelligence super appealing. I really like men that look, sound, and act masculine, but at the same time are very considerate, compassionate, and attentive toward other people. It's super attractive when men are good with children. I don't like it when men are so lacking in confidence that they are indecisive, pushovers suffering from a victim complex. But, being shy isn't an issue, it can be cute.
I have several points to make about this video. I don't believe that you should generalise women at all, I am a women and I can pick a few of the obvious pointers you said. What you SHOULD do as a male is remember that everyone is different. You are not going to find a women every time who wants and is looking for the same thing. You should improve yourself mentally, physically and emotionally to understand how people work; understand body language.. Understand a women's priorities to know if she is worth keeping or fighting for or spending the rest of your life with. But most importantly, you should spend time understanding them as a person, their heart, how they approach people, are they kind? Do they care about their family? Do they work? Do they have goals and do they actually want to do something with their life? All of these things help you know if a girl will be a quicky or someone you could spend the rest of your life with. One things that annoys me big time is generalisation.
So you want men to take the initiative to do all that in understanding a woman. Have you accounted for the fact that some women can fake their personalities as well to get a man?
I had the same thing happen...to the extreme, she was a manipulator deluxe not to mention a succubus, I tried so hard with her, I guess she thinks "her toy broke" "not man enough to handle a severe toxic event, beat it only to contract crps...that took me down, but I had just beaten a poisoning which caused kidney failure, stroke, encephalitis and near heart failure and beat it ALL w/o 1 single side effect/affect, that was nothing compared to CRPS!
The Truth is HARD to believe lol you have no idea but no that's definitely not why. he wasn't rich but had a good job making a decent amount of money. the issues we had are to long to say here
This guy shaves his head. In my book, that must mean he is automatically some kind of brilliant Guru. How can you have a shaved head and not be the coolest dude ever?
wow, you hit the nail on the head in this video, everything you say is so true, atleast for me it is. Everyone is different, and there is someone for everyone, and I don't believe that people can change through a bit of advice, believe me, I know a guy, a friend of 20 years, who could use all the courses and teachings, because I have tried to help him and he just cant change, and still remains alone to this day. We all have different needs at different times in our life, but all in all this rings so true for me. When I was raising my boys, I wanted a man who was good with my sons, but not necessarily meet all of the criteria for me, now I choose for me. I don't want a man who can domineer me, because that just wont fly with me, but I also don't want a submissive man because I won't respect him, I want equality.
As a woman I have to disagree in one crucial respect: fidelity/loyality. Once a man has been unfaithful to me (no matter how deep my feelings and how long we've been together) it's completely over and I never look back. Some women may take back a cheater, but others like me will not. Also men who are 'detached' are almost always narcissists. Big red flag!
Speaking as a female, I am completely agree and I don't know one female who likes a "detached" guy. That a HUGE sign that the guy is a complete scumbag who will screw around on you and not care. This guy said in the beginning of his video he figured out the answers himself about what women wanted, and never actually asked a woman. Maybe he should have asked a woman. This is about as inaccurate as those "what a man wants" articles written by women in a womans magazine.
***** exactly! I feel sorry for the men who follow this advice, or worse who believe that "all" women are a certain way (i.e. they want men with large penises and a ton of cash). This is simply NOT TRUE, there are many good women out there who just want decent men.
Is a person who seeks validation from others really "actualized"? Would a Buddha seek to "hook women like crack"? lol. Will you finally love yourself once you have women "hooked" on you like desperate crackheads? Free yourself from the desire of such an outcome and be happy. You are here in this moment and that is enough.
...only if you are still at the stage in which you receive superficial validation from external forms, i.e., not really "actualized". Do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
wulf67 No, but it is in a girl's nature to fall for the guy. Guys do it to. That's the nature of romantic love. The better man you become, the more women will get hooked on you. Cause you're just too awesome! But what I am supposed to do? Not be awesome?? Love comes up with ups and downs.
omg! liked your other videos about finances~ but not this! what I watched of it at least! The best factors arer to: live a full life, create time for your creative endeavours daily, love yourself deeply, release all the old beliefs holding you back, take 100% responsibility for your life/world/and what you create, be honest, and then again learn to love yourself so much that you bring in a person that loves themselves too and you can create magic! Like attracts like!
1. Confident 2. Loyalty, inclusive 3. Adventurous, fun to be around 4. Intimate dirty sex! 5. Good looks 6. Humour 7. Edgy, challenging 8. Focused, successful, stature, provider 9. Intelligent 10. Skilled Are a must lol but on a more personal level: 1. Supportive, a man who wants his woman to be a success! 2. Creativity 3. Spiritual 4. A good conversationalist 5. Kind and compassionate but not a push over! Someone who has backbone and can stand his ground especially with other men.
01:57 Never listen to a women about what she wants in a man 03:28 Women want deep emotional intimacy 05:28 What does a guy want in a girl 09:10 Security 09:30 Social status 09:52 Loyalty 11:21 Deal breakers 11:53 Humor 13:00 Detachment 18:35 Emotional stimulation
To sum up all women in a nutshell, I don't think so. All women are NOT alike. What one woman wants, another may be the complete opposite. Do not be someone you are not. True beauty is being yourself. A woman (real woman) will love a man for who he truly is . Not his false ego.
+Actualized.org Also intimacy goes with honesty and vulnerability, and maybe a guy is attached to the girl, if he acts detached, he wont create intimacy.
1. Height over 6 foot 2. Head full of hair 3. Deep hunter eyes with thick eyebrows 4. Small forehead 5. Small symmetrical nose 6. Small distance from upper lip to root of nose (around 1/4 the size of chin) 7. Wide simmetrical lips 8. Visible chickbones, no facial fat 9. Forward grown lower jaw 10. Clean skin, slightly toned 11. Small ears 12. Straight white teeth etc...
Total Rubbish and you can see proofs everywhere. There are many women who are with guys with no money, sense of humour, confidence etc. Just look around yourself, your friends, colleagues, fellow workers etc. According to top psychologists women choose partners who remind them relations they had at home while they were children. It seems familiar to them and they feel safe (even if they come from bad families) That`s why people from pathological families very often end up having toxic partners and relations and vice versa. These women attract the same type of men all the time because they choose them subconsciously. Yes, they can change that but it will take some work Guys do not watch rubbish videos like this as it creates confusion and your knowledge will be based on rubbish later. Just, for example, buy a best seller book from an expert in this area (no from YT guru) and you will be fine. It is quite visible that the guy in the video is not the type (bald, very skiny,..) whom attractive women would like so he is probably trying to find explanation to... I see on my right that he has a video about the confidence. It is very interested because on this video he choking on air from time to time which is the very first sign of luck of confidence. Typical theoretical guy. Remember there is a big difference between what women want and choose! Just be honest and yourself and you will meet (if you did not meet already) a partner who will appreciate you.
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Actualized.org So far to what ive observed elsewhere. you dont have to look good be wealthy or educated to get a girl due to some dude i personally know...but hopefully you can give me a quick brief summary on what I should mainly do to get a girl friend....ill wait patiently.. thanks...at times I am still wondering how the pros do it.
Tin Vo See my video called How To Get A Girlfriend.
Actualized.org you are an immoral person. And i say this because you endorse and promote immoral and unfair female behaviour.
I believe life is always about a balnce, an equilibrium...and that means that what you give is what you recieve.
You can NOT give 1$ and expect to recieve 100$. this immoral mentality is basically being selfish and cheating the equilibrium i mentioned before (which others will have to overcompensate for your lack of input but exagerated output benefits), and it is exactly what you are forcing men to accept as normal/standard female behaviour.
And ill give you an example:
why do women like humor in men? because they typically lack humor themselves. Almost no succesfull standup comedian is a woman, and it's very easy to see how women usually are the first to get offended and dont understand humorous jokes.
So is it moral for a woman to expect to recieve something she can not give herself? according to you it is...and when you accept this immoral premise as valid, in this un-important example, you open the gates for this unfairness to be extrapolated to more important fields such as:
-requesting from the man to have intimate dirty sex but then be unattached with said woman...
First of all those 2 characteristic are mutually exclusive in a healthy human mind. How can you expect someone who isn't that focused in you, who has your interests at a secundary level of importance, to then be extra intimitate with you?
Second of all, is it fair for a woman to ask a man this but be unable to give it in return herself? Its almost always the woman who is clingy and overattached to the man in a healthy functioning relationship, so how can she morally expect from you to be the total opposite?... she can't
you are, as many woman, asking for everything you potentially can without noticing that you can't get all of those characterisitics from ONE healthy sane human, because they are mutually exclusive in many cases.
And i admit you are not the only type of men doing this, Pick UpArtists do the same, WITH THE BIG DIFFERENCE that they know at every second that they are faking all of those female requisites to get in their pants, and once they have achieved this goal, they stop faking and dump this delusional and immoral woman, to repeat the deed again and again...
Perpetuating(as you do) this delusional dream/unrealistic expectations of finding a functioning healthy man with all the mutually exclusive characteristics, and setting the bar so high up, no legitimately interested man will ever be even given the time/chance because of the unralistic expectations woman have been promoted to have
try to rebattle my comment points if you can, you seem like a rational man and i dont understand how can you still flow with the socialmedia delusional BS
allnamesarepicked Women are most attracted to detached men. Why? Because that's exactly what makes a man strong.
Your problem is that you haven't yet accept this and you're trying to turn men into women. If you want a healthy relationship with men, you have to understand how masculinity works. How it actually works! Not how you wish it would work.
The more you refuse to understand men, the bigger problems it will create for you with men.
Actualized.org ... you barely responded to any of my specific points... besides im a white MAN, not a woman as you have wrongly assumed.
I still have a moral issue with your advice, the overburden of responabilities you condone to put on men, and the lack if such on women. You sound literally like the average mainstream leftist media, the young turks for example, who rally for a only woman controlled wrold instead of equality between both sexes
Berlin Why is this in the danganronpa playlists?...
She doesn't like you? Too bad. Don't get stuck on her. Move on
Gladly!
or just play danganronpa
@@oumardiop1 🤣
Not really relevant to the content of the video.
It’s also important to note that some men enjoy the emotional stimulation too, I was dating a girl for a few months who was by far the hottest girl I’ve been with, but she just had a bland personality. Didn’t joke much nor did she appreciate my attempts to make her laugh and I got super bored with her and left. So some of those points are important for both men and women!
The problem with advice sometimes is that the human beings often take it to one extreme or the other. Yes men do care about personality. the same way that women do care about looks. Especially if you're looking for more than just a one-night stand. If you're looking to develop a relationship with someone yes you want them to have a good personality.
The problem is you're taking the advice from one extreme to the other. An epiphany that I realized recently that I sort of realized before but I realize even more right now how true it is in life in general, is that life is all about being balanced and things in life are not one way or the other. Men are not completely masculine women are not completely feminine. Men don't care only about looks and women don't care only about confidence.
I came to this conclusion recently when watching a video on RUclips about do you need to be an a$$hole to led. It's free on RUclips I recommend watching it pretty short and it's entertaining. There was a documentary about directors and if they need to be a$$holes to be a director. Ultimately the video comes to conclusion that everybody has their own style. However I think they missed a very important point which is that balance is key if you're too much of an a$$hole you need to be nicer if you're too nice you won't be forceful enough.
This combined with other things that I've learned over the years like different balance between different things. For example ideas such as should you be yourself or should you work on yourself. Should you be arrogant or should you be humble. Leo has a whole video that talks about contradiction like this. An answer I believe is balance.
In fact I would say this is a major Epiphany that I came to because balance is the answer to almost every problem that we have. If we're too far one way we often over correct and go the complete opposite way. Instead we should just go a little bit more over to the other side until we find a balance that works for us.
Deal Breaker qualities:
1-Confidence
2-Humor
3-Detachment
4-Edginess/Adventurness
5-Intimate Dirty Sex
Likeable Qualities:
1-Good looks
2-Financial Security/provider role
3-Social Status
4-Loyalty
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What does detachment mean?
@@sanataj 13:17
Hold on, this isn't Danganronpa
No one cares about whatever that is.
No man it is. This is a character who uses attraction to manipulate and set up the perfect murder and win
9/ good looks 8/ security 7/ social status 6/ loyalty 5/ confidence 4/ humor 3/ detachment 2/ edgy guys (adventurous) 1/ intimate dirty sex
That is what only the slimy primitive organisms that live under stones are obsessed with.
lots of (good) sex
Did Berlin Accidentally put this in this playlist (wow this blew up)
That's what's I'm Here to find out
Lmao I was coming here to see if anyone else saw
@@valentinmoscatello3282 ayyyyy Nagito
Our boi struggling 😔
I’m fr asking the same thing, what happened here 😂
I really think you nailed it here. the thing guys forget is that putting up a front of confidence isn't the same as feeling confident. as you said, for the most part women are far more emotional intelligent than guys. emotions don't have words, they are felt. words are like a third party observation from the logical side of the brain.
confidence is not arrogance. today we are bombarded with imagery of the arrogant man winning the fair maiden. sure, you may peak her interest with your peacocking and loud manner but this is merely exciting to her, it tickles her danger button. it is not a display of confidence. it's a cheap trick.
confidence is knowing yourself at the very deepest level. it's the stillness when you are completely comfortable with what you find there and an unwavering in your statement "I am". it's the coolness in the eyes of a predator. the peace made with our own mortality.
know yourself without reserve or apology and bring this to the relationship. she will have more than just a passing interest. she will want to follow you.
peace.
It's quite simple I recently realized. As a man, do this :
- Own your shadow, your dark side. You'll become dangerous, but in control.
- Stop being a victim. Stop blaming others.
- Take personal responsibility for your life. Realize that your life is 100% your responsibility. You will gain your personal power back and your emotional independence.
What are the offspring of these things ? Confidence and detachment from the outcome. These things will naturally allow you completely and utterly stop objectifying women as the source of your sense of self-esteem or self-worth. You will stop demanding, expecting, controlling or manipulating THEM to make YOU happy. She will be free and you'll be unconditionally yourself.
You'll be able to just be who you are. You will become indifferent basically to rejection. You will then be able to be completely in your masculine core, be comfortable in your truth and women will naturally react to you in a very positive way.
I was the typical nice guy and I got often rejected. Lately, I've learned these things and at my job, I am constantly flirting and vibing with some of the hot waitresses. To a point where I feel now the other guys are starting to feel a bit jealous of me cause the girls respond super well to me. Since learning these things, I'm even kinder. I'm even more sweet, but I'm genuinely confident and authentic. Because I'm not objectifying them, even as I flirt with them, it's not creepy. They are very comfortable with me. Send me kisses, tell me sweet nothings, jokes, are being cute, do me little favors, tell me compliments, etc.
Am I getting laid by them ? No, but I don't need to to feel good as a man. That's the key. Your manhood is 100% your responsibility. When you are indifferent to the outcome, that's when you get good results. That will tell the girl that you are independent and that she won't need to "mother" you. You won't be needy or clingy with her. What happens is that mentality will not only help you with women, but with life and everyone.
Amazing mate, this is 👌👌
None of this matters if you’re fucking black.
I like that, apart from your dark side. What on does that mean? It makes me think of paedophiles, rapists and serial killers or other fetishes.
Berleezy we caught you🤣 wtf
Maybe he’s just strugglin’ you know?
"Women, they're not that difficult to understand."
HEAD = EXPLODE!
I agree with many of your points, you're hitting emotional connection right on target. In the beginning, what attracts a woman (from my view point) is truly a genuine personality, confidence, (it's so attractive) financial stability, moral ethics, sexual compatiblity, etc.. We are overwhelmed emotionally in the beginning from all of these things and the new relationship. Once all of the "new" wears off we have an OVERBEARING demand for emotional intimacy and support from the man we are with. This can be a tulmutuous time because men do not always know how to provide deep emotional support and women don't know how to proactivley ask for it. Women need emotional and physical bonding without sexual intimacy; holding hands, looking up at the stars, walks on the beach, etc. Men truly jeopardize the relationship when they stop courting us and stop spending personal intimate time with us.
why was this in a berleezy danganronpa playlist-
I know right!
🤣
One additional thing is that when a girl sees you with other attractive girls it can short circuit the whole thing and make them attracted to you regardless of all the "key factors"
you are exactly right...my wife is "stunning"she's a 10+, not bragging I can't stand her, but ppl were nicer to me, I seemed to get more respect, hell the girls would check her out more than the guys would and talk about a slob, I'm an eddie van halen lookin' jeans and t shirt type guy with long hair!
even I would say , when she sees you with not that beatiful girls .
Pre selection
This is solid gold!! Wow!! I've been studying and applying male to female social dynamics and attraction for 8 years and he is nailing some of the core fundamental aspects to it all. Take notes!! Seriously take notes! Get a notebook or journal and write down everything you learn from others and your own experiences, over time, you'll be amazed by how much better you get with women.
I'd like it to be known that I just left a guy who was that edgy emotionally stimulating guy because he was not enough of the practical, loyal guy. I agree with what you're saying Leo, but balance is still key.
+Actualized.org Leo are you single I keep asking but you haven't responded to me yet haha ;b
You're correct Minah. A guy who is confident, is loyal as well as a good solutions provider, plus he shows kindness and a healthy sense of ambition and humor...he's probably a keeper.
@@minah2480 he too busy getting high af off of them shrooms
Hey I'm single ?
My last girlfriend said one of the things that attracted her to me first was the fact that I wasn't overly confident and was humble about my own talents. She was sick of guys over-playing their abilities. I'd rank humility pretty high if you want to attract a woman that is actually worth attracting.
Obnxious arrogance can be a turn-off, sure. Core confidence is still a must. But I find girls fall in love even with obnoxious arrogance. I play arrogant a lot with girls and they eat it up. You just gotta do it in a playful way so she knows you don't take yourself too seriously.
+Actualized.org A core sense of confidence sure, I agree with that. But I never play anything except being my true self, its the only way to find a really good match. Quality over quantity for me. A girl attracted to arrogance is not attractive for me, and looks are but one tiny aspect of what makes a woman attractive in my world.
+Actualized.org find one with some money so you can retire from your shit clown-job...
@@1wibble2Do you have your own world? Sounds like something a woman would say.
You actually don’t need to show _confidence per say._ You just need to avoid saying or do things that display insecurity. It doesn’t sound like there was anything you did that expressed insecurity.
What? This isn't Danganronpa Goodbye Despair Episode 32. This is What Women Want In a Man.
hey wait a minute
Berleezy my guy wtf is this doing here
Why should we go through all that? why can't women do it for a change? we've been trying to impress women since the stone age. It's their turn now.
+Leon Reaper hahahahah it will never happen until you looks like your picture , women is beautifull and she is always taking the advantage of it in this world
+Leon Reaper nowadays they arise on the street and call us to do......but costs 30 euro
+Leon Reaper wheres the fun in that
+Leon Reaper Bumble dating App :D
+Leon Reaper if you want a girl and she does nothing, its your job to do something
Men's range of emotions: "We're either happy, sad, angry, or horny" -- I laughed my head off. This is so true. I always thought I was a very emotional guy, but this pretty much hits the whole range for me. Too funny, but true.
This is a pretty good list. I do think that both the male and the female should strive for self embetterment. I noticed a bunch of guys in the comments section were like "why should I change myself?" You are right. You should be liked for who you are. The foundation does not have to change but why not make better the things you already have? Everyone should have goals, a sense of humor, deep connections with people, and good communication. Some of these will be intuitive and others you can learn and improve. It won't just help in relationships, but also in the quality of your life which is in my opinion, a bit -and by a bit I mean a significant amount-more important. The other stuff can come later.
+Maryann G. (MU QT) I agree. It should be two sided. I quite sad when Leo said 'supermodel' & 'pornstar' stuff... Yeah, that's the first thing, chronologically---same as woman isn't it? But absolutely not the most important thing.
This guy knows what he talks about. Good video. Thanks.
man wtf do u even have a life i see u in every of his vids replying to anyone "you dont fuck" "you will fuck"
iLoveDianabol1995 hahaha truuuuue!
iLoveDianabol1995 He acts like the determining factor of people's lives or something!? Lmao fortune teller I suppose 🙄
He better he did all this research
Great video thank you! I'm a woman and still watched it out of curiosity and all you said is really true! Keep up the good work man, you're amazing! :)
Good to see women who understand.
Kazuichi Soda probably put this in the playlist
Sounds like sumn he'd do 😔
😂
*wheeze 😂
If you want to get women focus on yourself and they will recognize it and flock to you, or don't put them on a pedestal when you talk to them because if she thinks that she is better than you its over.
You mean woman actually want to be worse than men? Shocking!
Wooooo, 'm ugly, poor and I live in my parents basement. Call me ladies.
That’s what I like! Honesty! Well done, mate!
You are super desired
Lacking in the confidence department, man.
Do you want to be a woman magnet? KNOW YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF! PERIOD!
false
+edymasta true
+Cabdalla Cabdi if that happened RSD wouldnt have been successful for 10 years, you could be true in some cases though, onle youve established a social base
The reason why it is so hard for so many men is simply because a woman subconciously compares us to the dozens and dozens of other men they know in their lifes at the same time.
It's natural that then it is very hard to be the one they want. You really have to proof to be the best of them. Sometimes this is not even possible with the hardest amount of work because there still remains auch a thing as a talent for leadership, provider and a mentally quick witted person who is able to act very quickly and kick down possible family threateners like James Bond if the don't stop when the confident stands in front of the family!
I am sorry guys if I disappoint some of you now, but it is really naive to belief that for a really extraordinary pretty women (which you would call "a 10") it is enough to be just good at "game". Look at the thousands and thousands of offers they get each day from extraordinary rich and influencial guys. If you don't have a VERY(!) ambitious goal where she can really feel DEEP INSINDE her, that you are dilegently and quickly improving and getting closer towards your goal, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO BEAT THESE SUPERGUYS!!
so women dont care about moral ethics. it wasnt listed. It makes sense though. You see it all the time.
OMG , I can`t say how much i thank you for this video . I met that amazing girl, and we like each other , in the procces of knowing each other thing started to get a little bit numb , i knew i did something wrong . Then i found your video , i realized i`m missing 4 of your dealbreakers , i only had the looks and the humor part ... but i was soo needy and atached to her , made her the center of my everyday ... So i started to get more detached from her and not being so needy. I had some work i started kind of ignoring her .... she didn`t stop calling me after that and be much more interested in me , i`m still working on the others , but i think i`m going in the right way ! THANK YOU SO MUCH ! (sorry for my bad english)
I like how half the comment section is about berleezy having this in his dangan playlist and like half way of them didn’t even watch the video on top of that😂
Everyone knows this by default. You are born with this knowledge (we'd have gone extinct by now if that wasn't the case) and it gradually unlocks with puberty. It's just that some are unluckier than others, get sad and/or frustrated with their bad luck and click videos like this where someone tells them "the secrets you aren't aware of". That is the sad but true reality.
It doesn't mean that you should sulk and never care about it again, but it also doesn't mean that your frustration is unjustified and you're just doing everything wrong (like this video suggests).
In most first world societies the younger generations, especially millenials, (not just women) are incredibly biased towards certain sterotypes, because that's what they're told they should be looking for. And if you don't fit the (incredibly shallow and boring in my eyes) norm, you're often already disqualified before you even get a chance.
_"Any man who exhibits these characteristics shouldn't spend much time without a woman in his life."_
I would testify under oath that this is complete and utter bullshit.
This video would've worked 20 years ago, but today's society is way different mate.
Dude you've got even less hair than me, this give me renewed hope.
Man LOL 😂
Confidence and detachment are what I personally find most attractive
You love narcissists don't ya. You need my younger brother, such an arrogant successful narcissistic idiot.
@ Rachel... from your aura you seem to have a cute and rare personality!
you don't know what you want
The Truth is HARD to believe The Lord alone knows who you are referring to.
Oh? Well, gorgeous, lovely lady - I am confident and detached...please, please, PLEASE pick me - or I'll jump off a bridge!
Heheheh! ;-)
Have all of the 4 dealbreakers down except needyness. I didn't know this was a character trait in me, and need to solve it ASAP. Had a really good woman leave me because of this. Thanks Leo!
I'm a very "self-aware" woman and you are brilliant and super insightful. I have to say that character/substance/values are number one....Kindness. Integrity. Intelligence. Honesty. Let's be honest...any woman worth her salt requires those things in a man, and will give so much in return. A man that comes through for her....is there for her...for both security and her emotional needs...is her hero...and she will adore him and give all of herself in return...all the love, attention, affection, and adoration he could ever want.
You are a real man! The bitter guys, so rampant these days, are total wimps. You have handled the pitfalls and disappointments you have experience with women like a man. The bitter guys are incredibly unattractive. You are not a whiner, you are not bitter or anger...You're a real man Leo! :-)
berlin, you wanna tell us something?
He's not just telling you, he's screaming it at you by putting something like this on the playlist 😂
Flawless analysis.
Absolutely correct for American women. Women in other countries, the mix differs. Great video! I don't know how you talk that long without notes.
we want a man that takes responsibility for his actions, commitments - who has the ability to show his emotions when needed, a responsible person and a person who works full time to provide for his woman or family. Qualities I do not see in the men from the years 1985 till now...
That's not who you're initially attracted to though.
Terri Robison
then quit demanding equality...
***** Yes Johnny B. I know exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately, these girls and grown-ups do not realize this until it is too late. I myself passed up these great qualities in guys while I was in high school and I actually married a guy who was the tall, dark handsome guy but with no MORAL CODE. Divorced him after 3 years... I am aware....
Terri Robison Women take NO responsibilities for anything.... they use their VAGINA and a get out of jail free card.
Terri Robison Were you able to nail down a beta provider after that?
I find that women often want opposing or nonsensical characteristics in a man. Funny but also serious. Confident but not cocky. Outgoing and adventurous but stable and secure. Ambitious but still wants him to pay attention to her. Wealthy and charitable but you better spend money on her. Good looking but she doesn't want to feel like she has to compete with other women for you. There is no "win" in any of this. I'll never understand it, I don't think anyone ever will.
A B it's called balance and acting according the situation
Introduction to What Women Want in a Man (00:00)
Why It's Important to Understand What Women Want (01:01)
The Importance of Not Asking Women Directly (01:51)
Women Want Deep Emotional Intimacy (03:15)
Understanding Women's Social and Emotional Dynamics (03:29)
What Women Look for in Men: The Complete Package (05:01)
Market Dynamics in Relationships (05:59)
Women's Ideal Traits in a Man (07:06)
Detailing Core Traits Women Desire (08:33)
Surprising Traits That Aren't as Important as Expected (08:52)
Core Deal Breakers for Women (11:15)
Critical Importance of Confidence and Humor (12:02)
The Value of Detachment and Edginess (13:14)
The Significance of Intimate and Adventurous Relationships (14:23)
Traits That Are Less Critical But Desired (17:15)
Focusing on What Really Attracts Women (18:09)
Improving Essential Traits to Attract High-Quality Women (19:22)
Summary of Ideal Traits for Attracting Women (22:27)
The Ideal Scenario Women Dream About (23:06)
Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Personal Growth (23:58)
Call to Action and Introduction to the Newsletter (24:15)
Simple truths are the hardest to accept
12:20 Not all guys are a flat line emotionally. I'm a highly sensitive person to the extent that I'm also an empath; I am very complex emotionally and can sense the emotional energies of others and what they're feeling. I know you're generalizing, but there are still far more highly and deeply emotional guys out there than you would be led to believe. The problem is, like women and their love of sex, men are pressured by society to keep quiet about their sensitivity. Unfortunately, because everyone seems to equate vulnerability with weakness and effeminacy, there are very strong social stigmas against sensitive men.
Jeremy Burleson 💀
The Ultimate Mario Fan good for you
Frédéric Chopin you are correct!😜
Highly sensitive person??? What sort of guy refers to themselves in this way?? You are screwed sunshine and are going to be taken to the cleaners, it sounds like you will put a woman on a pedestal and will then be shocked when she doesn't respect you for kissing her arse.
When I think back to Uni loads of the female teachers to be were the worse for playing around and getting laid and these are to be teaching the next batch of kids. God help us, the age of internet dating, selfies etc. etc. means people can be choosey and constantly looking for better things, trading up. The look at me, entitled women of today are hard work and it's getting worse and if you get married, have kids and things go south you are taken to the cleaners like my brother and one of my best mates and have to start from scratch.
Modern day feminism blurs with man hating far too much. Bad times all round.
These points are the result and the reflection of inner process. Also they are interrelated. If you are confident, you are free to choice any interesting activity, that becomes a passion. In that, you’re detached. That creates joy, and a good ground for humour and making friends. Which leads to sex and sexual skills. All that keeps that lifestyle going.
But there is the vibe, the initial energy behind that.
I am a woman and this is more than 200% accurate. Definitely explained some relationships in my life.
I need it B a d how about you
Always found it interesting to know how women felt about Leo's teachings. I always imagine his audience to be 100% men
Thank you for sharing!
@@edkuehn4007 - Slither back under your stone quickly, before another slimy organism takes it.
But where does that leave all the average girls, or lower than average girls? It's not very nice language. What is the majority of males - average or way lower than the average women going to do? There are not enough top hot women for all of them.
So when I was checking out all of the videos...
There was *all the Danganronpa videos* in that playlist!
So, there was no extras?
Nope, there was *no extras*
TRUTH BULLET> PLAYLIST ACCOUNT
NO THATS WRONG!
B R E A K ! !
Actually, that’s not so true... what was found in there was a video on 5 steps to becoming a man. You would’ve only knew that had you checked Berleezy’s playlist!
I'm very happy to have found you. You make sense. No games needed. Straight masculine quality.
I've been told that the answer is: EVERYTHING
Famous with alot of money and skills so he can cary her ass ...
That’s right!
Only money
I agree completely. However, in reality, giving women the "whole package" even the five (confidence, humor, sex etc.) over the long term (years) is exhausting. You're better off putting your energy into being a Navy Seal or Astronaut.
The whole package isn't for them, it's for you!
@@ActualizedOrg is this apply in country like India?
My scores on these traits, the important ones first!
Confidence: 7/10
Humour - high energy: 5/10
Detachment - non neediness: 6/10
Adventurous - Boldness: 6/10
Sex: 6/10
Looks: 8/10
Social Status - celebrity: 6/10
Security - financial security: 8/10
Loyalty: 7/10
You ain't. No celebrity
@@ManiNassah that's why he said 6/10... do you know his social circle?
The problem with this video is that it talks only about the first encounter / initial stages of a relationship. So unless you plan to date around until you're freaking 70 or go through 5 marriages taking another approach will be necessary. Sorry, but while learning how to "get" women can be actually achieved, being in a good relationship is a pretty different thing. There's a qualitative leap between the two, if you know what I mean.
I'm done trying to figure them out!!!
+TheDrunkerKing hahahahaha
Oh man as a woman this really helped me understand the problems I’m experiencing in my relationship. My man is a provider but there’s a couple other guys who have stimulated my emotions 😂
R u really a man 👨 ?
It's true that women desire deep emotional intimacy, are social creatures, are free flowing, spontaneous and relationship bound creatures. And, it's true that though good looks, security and social status draw a women to a man it's not what will keep her in his life. These traits may get her attention to come closer and take a look, but they are not the qualities women seek. I appreciate you putting into categories what awakens a women's spirit and soul. I agree that we seek men of confidence & detachment, mental strength, one who will lead and provide options for her when she's lost in her emotions and dysfunctional relations. We seek Humor and Adventure, as you say, but truly it's emotional stimulation, so that we may keep in touch with our delicate feminine nature to be able to reciprocate a mans desire for intimacy, closeness, and being the provider/protector. And finally, I agree that we long for the dirty & intimate sex because, I think, it's means of connecting both needs: physical and emotional. Thank you for your work. I personally thinks it's awesome! Keep it up.
Informative, accurate, insightful, practical, valuable, applicable...
this tip is for them guys that told the girl i love you and she said it back if you really want this girl to fall in love with you barley text her for 3 days now this tip is risky but it did a hell of a job for me my girl wasnt in love with me i was in love with her but she would tell me she love me. just want to mention saying i love you and being in love is two different things. so after i found out she wasnt in love with me now i didnt do this on purpose but literally a day after i didnt have chance to talk to her as often when i did she told me out of the blue word from her mouth ( nit being able to talk to you have made me realize that im in love with you)
1750 Humor is obviously NOT a deal breaker. Looks are FAR more important than humor, get real. Most guys don't have a great sense of humor, and a lot of girls don't even like Mr. Funny Guys. Think Chris Farley got more chicks than Leonardo Di Caprio? Or even Justin Irritating Bieber? And besides...how is someone supposed to have a better sense of humor, practice your stand up? How much do women like posers? She will read your desperation and no matter what you wont be able to keep it up.
***** Nah....not being uptight and boring all the time is not the same as having a good sense of humor. This boy is talking out of his ass is whats up.
***** Yeah.....uptight people don't get chicks. Then pretty much every boxer on the planet would be childless, and Im pretty sure that isn't the case.
***** Jesus you're a dumb fuck. Have you even considered what you are saying, or are you just a follower of this skinny guru?
Big R no. humour over looks any day
As FART that im concern your RIGHT GUARD on your material; not everyone likes a JOKER in the room. Specially if your BATMAN.
Q. What do women want?
A. HIS Money, so she can buy the life she wants without earning it.
im not caring, im not spontaneous, im not emotional, im not nurturing, am i a man?
Hi emina
What's up with you today 🤔😏👀🙂😉☺🤔
This episode of dangan is fucking fire.
“guy are calm and stoic. we're either this or that or horny.“ I had to stop the video and laugh.
oh and... loyalty is on top of my list. to be honest, i think every woman has her own list/order, even if you say we don't psychoanalize ourselves that much.
Confidence, Detachment, Humor, Edginess and Sex.
I think every body needs to learn and improve those five features to have more interesting and happy life. Great video. I learned something Today.
What women need, Danganronpa episode 32
I didn't think YT ads could get any worse than Tai Lopez. But now there's Scientology. LOL
+LorenzoNW I blocked Tai cause ya'll are whining about him. Oh the irony.
That's so funny! Sometimes ya just can't win. Haha
I agree with some of the things you said here. But for me, I dislike detachment; and loyalty is extremely important to me. I hate mind games. If he likes me, I want to know for sure, I hate feeling uncertain. I find a good sense of humor and intelligence super appealing. I really like men that look, sound, and act masculine, but at the same time are very considerate, compassionate, and attentive toward other people. It's super attractive when men are good with children. I don't like it when men are so lacking in confidence that they are indecisive, pushovers suffering from a victim complex. But, being shy isn't an issue, it can be cute.
BERLIN THIS ISNT DANGAN!! YOU GOOD??
This is a real nice video of Berlin playing Danganronpa
I have several points to make about this video.
I don't believe that you should generalise women at all, I am a women and I can pick a few of the obvious pointers you said.
What you SHOULD do as a male is remember that everyone is different. You are not going to find a women every time who wants and is looking for the same thing. You should improve yourself mentally, physically and emotionally to understand how people work; understand body language.. Understand a women's priorities to know if she is worth keeping or fighting for or spending the rest of your life with. But most importantly, you should spend time understanding them as a person, their heart, how they approach people, are they kind? Do they care about their family? Do they work? Do they have goals and do they actually want to do something with their life?
All of these things help you know if a girl will be a quicky or someone you could spend the rest of your life with.
One things that annoys me big time is generalisation.
Not all women are the same. Please remember that guys.
+ninasimone it's just a shame how men view women these days.. Some of us are terrible, I totally understand and I've seen it but it's not all of us.
So you want men to take the initiative to do all that in understanding a woman. Have you accounted for the fact that some women can fake their personalities as well to get a man?
Lol you're 100000% right
My ex was funny and good in bed that's about it, and I kept him around for way too long
I had the same thing happen...to the extreme, she was a manipulator deluxe not to mention a succubus, I tried so hard with her, I guess she thinks "her toy broke" "not man enough to handle a severe toxic event, beat it only to contract crps...that took me down, but I had just beaten a poisoning which caused kidney failure, stroke, encephalitis and near heart failure and beat it ALL w/o 1 single side effect/affect, that was nothing compared to CRPS!
you didn't hear ? he was funny and good at bed that's good but he wasnt rich i think maybe this is why she didn't like him ?
The Truth is HARD to believe my moneys on you truth...
The Truth is HARD to believe lol you have no idea but no that's definitely not why. he wasn't rich but had a good job making a decent amount of money. the issues we had are to long to say here
This guy shaves his head. In my book, that must mean he is automatically some kind of brilliant Guru. How can you have a shaved head and not be the coolest dude ever?
100% agree!
He looks like The Mask
That's why they call them enlightened; their heads are shining!
BINGO! I found this highly accurate, even down to what I would say versus what is. Well done.
He hit them points tho. Thanks for sharing :)
LMAOOOO BERLIN WAS FR WATCHING THIS I CANT-
wow, you hit the nail on the head in this video, everything you say is so true, atleast for me it is. Everyone is different, and there is someone for everyone, and I don't believe that people can change through a bit of advice, believe me, I know a guy, a friend of 20 years, who could use all the courses and teachings, because I have tried to help him and he just cant change, and still remains alone to this day. We all have different needs at different times in our life, but all in all this rings so true for me. When I was raising my boys, I wanted a man who was good with my sons, but not necessarily meet all of the criteria for me, now I choose for me. I don't want a man who can domineer me, because that just wont fly with me, but I also don't want a submissive man because I won't respect him, I want equality.
As a woman I have to disagree in one crucial respect: fidelity/loyality. Once a man has been unfaithful to me (no matter how deep my feelings and how long we've been together) it's completely over and I never look back. Some women may take back a cheater, but others like me will not. Also men who are 'detached' are almost always narcissists. Big red flag!
Speaking as a female, I am completely agree and I don't know one female who likes a "detached" guy. That a HUGE sign that the guy is a complete scumbag who will screw around on you and not care. This guy said in the beginning of his video he figured out the answers himself about what women wanted, and never actually asked a woman. Maybe he should have asked a woman. This is about as inaccurate as those "what a man wants" articles written by women in a womans magazine.
*****
exactly! I feel sorry for the men who follow this advice, or worse who believe that "all" women are a certain way (i.e. they want men with large penises and a ton of cash). This is simply NOT TRUE, there are many good women out there who just want decent men.
absolutely right...you forgot to mention men who are detached are usually screwing around.
Is a person who seeks validation from others really "actualized"? Would a Buddha seek to "hook women like crack"? lol. Will you finally love yourself once you have women "hooked" on you like desperate crackheads? Free yourself from the desire of such an outcome and be happy. You are here in this moment and that is enough.
The moment is just a little nicer when you got a hot girl in it ;)
...only if you are still at the stage in which you receive superficial validation from external forms, i.e., not really "actualized". Do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
wulf67 Lol, that's a marketing slogan! What do you want me to say, "Watch this video and you will never care about having sex again?"
The question was, do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
wulf67 No, but it is in a girl's nature to fall for the guy. Guys do it to. That's the nature of romantic love. The better man you become, the more women will get hooked on you. Cause you're just too awesome! But what I am supposed to do? Not be awesome?? Love comes up with ups and downs.
When you started on the first point I instantly liked this. That really IS number 1!
omg! liked your other videos about finances~ but not this! what I watched of it at least!
The best factors arer to: live a full life, create time for your creative endeavours daily, love yourself deeply, release all the old beliefs holding you back, take 100% responsibility for your life/world/and what you create, be honest, and then again learn to love yourself so much that you bring in a person that loves themselves too and you can create magic! Like attracts like!
F in chat for Berlin
1. Confident
2. Loyalty, inclusive
3. Adventurous, fun to be around
4. Intimate dirty sex!
5. Good looks
6. Humour
7. Edgy, challenging
8. Focused, successful, stature, provider
9. Intelligent
10. Skilled
Are a must lol but on a more personal level:
1. Supportive, a man who wants his woman to be a success!
2. Creativity
3. Spiritual
4. A good conversationalist
5. Kind and compassionate but not a push over! Someone who has backbone and can stand his ground especially with other men.
01:57 Never listen to a women about what she wants in a man
03:28 Women want deep emotional intimacy
05:28 What does a guy want in a girl
09:10 Security
09:30 Social status
09:52 Loyalty
11:21 Deal breakers
11:53 Humor
13:00 Detachment
18:35 Emotional stimulation
Intimate ..And Dirty. Got it! Thanks.
Is that a picture of Bas Rutten?
Don't shit in her mouth Qamar, we went over this, thats not what dirty means.
LMAO
@@colloredbrothers what if she says "please shit in my mouth"?
whenever i hear “every woman...” i lose a reason to keep listening
Hold up... Did Kazuichi put this in the danganronpa playlist?
Bruh Ik y’all are here from berleezy’s playlist of Super Danganronpa 2:Goodbye despair
Ye
Always insightful in every video, Leo. Keep it up! You deserve more views but very few want to self-actualize.
stop chasing after women!!! dont try to impress a women. let them make the move.
And end up being an incel !! .
Don't chase a woman? Ok...good luck living the rest of your life alone Mr. Beta Male 😂😂
This is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read
What women want bla bla bla do they ever ask what we want nope it's all about them
+Ryan Scherbluk There's a video telling women what men want too bruh
ur on this viedo cause,
+Jada Jackson?
Lydia xxx What do you mean "we". Your doing it to yourself.
Mr. Fitness Lol that was 43 weeks ago when I was cringey I forgot I posted that kms
I’m just looking for kindness. Genuine kindness and someone who inspires me to be the best version of myself.
Bro why did berleezy put this in the playlist
Wait are we all from danganronpa
Hey Leo I could tell you really enjoyed putting this information out there Awesome !! thank you
To sum up all women in a nutshell, I don't think so. All women are NOT alike. What one woman wants, another may be the complete opposite. Do not be someone you are not. True beauty is being yourself. A woman (real woman) will love a man for who he truly is . Not his false ego.
A bit too idealistic.
A bit too shallow.
stelle202 Clown is right!
+Actualized.org But wouldn't you as a male want to be in an honest relationship and be fully vulnerable which causes this intimacy?
+Actualized.org Also intimacy goes with honesty and vulnerability, and maybe a guy is attached to the girl, if he acts detached, he wont create intimacy.
hol up.. this aint danganronpa i-
1. Height over 6 foot
2. Head full of hair
3. Deep hunter eyes with thick eyebrows
4. Small forehead
5. Small symmetrical nose
6. Small distance from upper lip to root of nose (around 1/4 the size of chin)
7. Wide simmetrical lips
8. Visible chickbones, no facial fat
9. Forward grown lower jaw
10. Clean skin, slightly toned
11. Small ears
12. Straight white teeth
etc...
Total Rubbish and you can see proofs everywhere.
There are many women who are with guys with no money, sense of humour, confidence etc.
Just look around yourself, your friends, colleagues, fellow workers etc.
According to top psychologists women choose partners who remind them relations they had at home while they were children.
It seems familiar to them and they feel safe (even if they come from bad families)
That`s why people from pathological families very often end up having toxic partners and relations and vice versa.
These women attract the same type of men all the time because they choose them subconsciously.
Yes, they can change that but it will take some work
Guys do not watch rubbish videos like this as it creates confusion and your knowledge will be based on rubbish later.
Just, for example, buy a best seller book from an expert in this area (no from YT guru) and you will be fine.
It is quite visible that the guy in the video is not the type (bald, very skiny,..)
whom attractive women would like so he is probably trying to find explanation to...
I see on my right that he has a video about the confidence. It is very interested because on this video he choking on air from time to time which is the very first sign
of luck of confidence. Typical theoretical guy.
Remember there is a big difference between what women want and choose!
Just be honest and yourself and you will meet (if you did not meet already) a partner who will appreciate you.