Man Takes Dad To Nursing Home To Sell His House, After Coming Back For More, This Happens

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  • Man Takes Dad To Nursing Home To Sell His House, After Coming Back For More, This Happens
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  • @hanefa283
    @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +41

    وَقَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا ﴿۲۳﴾
    Your Lord has ordered you to worship none except Him, and to be good to your parents. If either or both of them attain old age with you, do not say: "Fie on you", nor rebuke them, but speak to them with words of respect. (23)
    وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُلْ رَبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ﴿۲۴﴾

    • @hanefa283
      @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +1

      وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُلْ رَبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ﴿۲۴﴾And lower to them the wing of humbleness out of mercy and say: 'My Lord, be merciful to them, as they raised me since I was little. ' (24)

    • @hanefa283
      @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +1

      رَبُّكُمْ أَعْلَمُ بِمَا فِي نُفُوسِكُمْ إِنْ تَكُونُوا صَالِحِينَ فَإِنَّهُ كَانَ لِلْأَوَّابِينَ غَفُورًا ﴿۲۵﴾
      Your Lord knows very well what is in your hearts. If you are good, He is forgiving to those who are penitent. (25)

    • @hanefa283
      @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +1

      وَقَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا ﴿۲۳﴾
      Your Lord has ordered you to worship none except Him, and to be good to your parents. If either or both of them attain old age with you, do not say: "Fie on you", nor rebuke them, but speak to them with words of respect. (23)
      وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُلْ رَبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ﴿۲۴﴾
      And lower to them the wing of humbleness out of mercy and say: 'My Lord, be merciful to them, as they raised me since I was little. ' (24)

    • @hanefa283
      @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +1

      Your Lord has ordered you to worship none except Him, and to be good to your parents. If either or both of them attain old age with you, do not say: "Fie on you", nor rebuke them, but speak to them with words of respect. (23)

    • @FredBehner
      @FredBehner 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤ a

  • @maggiemaemaggie
    @maggiemaemaggie 3 месяца назад +292

    My mom passed away almost a year ago. My mom left me and my sibblings a bit of money. I would rather have my mom than the money. We also had to sell her home, which was my second home and that was so hard to do. How can anyone be so greedy! I think about my mom every day.

    • @arlenefreeman9477
      @arlenefreeman9477 3 месяца назад +18

      I totally understand you, same here. But, put your faith in GOD and lay your worries at God's
      Feet and find His Peace😅

    • @FatimaFatima-hw6lm
      @FatimaFatima-hw6lm 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤​@@arlenefreeman9477

    • @annawofford559
      @annawofford559 2 месяца назад +4

      Sorry for your loss

    • @Happype702
      @Happype702 2 месяца назад +8

      My mom's been gone just under 2 years she didn't have anything that she could leave me other than personal effects I miss my mom so much you feel like I just lost her yesterday

    • @chrislastnam6822
      @chrislastnam6822 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Happype702Personal effects , paintings, jewelry, antiques ,photos are important.

  • @MaryKelleher-nh2mq
    @MaryKelleher-nh2mq 2 месяца назад +120

    My Father treated all his eight children the same when he died leaving us nothing . Not one of us expected nor wanted anything from him . He left this world knowing how loved and cared for he was

    • @singmysong1167
      @singmysong1167 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm confused. He left you nothing. You didn't expect nothing. He was loved and cared for much. Am I reading your comment correctly, friend?

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 2 месяца назад +4

      Not suprising with eight children. There wouldn’t be anything to pass on anyway. All funds were used keeping the children alive and thriving. Any will needs to be split eight ways which dilutes the inheritance. This is not the way to go in modern society though. Those who have generational wealth will be streets ahead of those who have none of that. Generational wealth is very important these days when there is a lack of social mobility.

    • @linsfisher5448
      @linsfisher5448 2 месяца назад

      ​​@@whitneyanders5945I've been left comfortable with a mortgage free home.
      Well I know my father was thinking about me, I personally have never wanted to own a property. I don't believe generational wealth is important because I believe we should be making our own positive steps not relying on elders wealth
      'edited'. You either get off your bum or you don't quite frankly

  • @anne-marigavin1740
    @anne-marigavin1740 2 месяца назад +111

    You will be surprised to hear how many children do this to their parents!!! Dumped in old age homes never to see or hear from them ever again. 😭😭😭

  • @jackiewhitehurst5600
    @jackiewhitehurst5600 2 месяца назад +144

    Kids that treats their parents like that will have their pay day some day. I miss my mom and how she loved to cook for us all.

    • @nika1103
      @nika1103 2 месяца назад +9

      So true❤

  • @Dyosa-me
    @Dyosa-me 2 месяца назад +287

    In the Philippines we take good care of our parents until their last breath even if they don't have money or properties. Just pure love

    • @Shirley-q3i
      @Shirley-q3i 2 месяца назад +13

      Well here in America in 1971. We did the same. So stop with what you’re culture does. It’s not about culture it’s actually about the person you are, and how you raised.

    • @brianbrown4315
      @brianbrown4315 2 месяца назад +2

      Wow God bless you all 🙏🙏🙏

    • @marymartin-s7g
      @marymartin-s7g 2 месяца назад +3

      That's the way supposed to be

    • @neldaabcballos
      @neldaabcballos 2 месяца назад +2

      excuse me not all ,children some are maltreated thier parent...some treated thier parent good...only few.

    • @vtorialyn
      @vtorialyn 2 месяца назад +11

      White Americans can be very cold. We don’t really have a sense of family bonding. I love the way so many other cultures are so family oriented. I would love to have been born into a culture like that ❤

  • @kimfitzgerald6039
    @kimfitzgerald6039 3 месяца назад +273

    Honor thy father and mother...

    • @cynthiasolomon6383
      @cynthiasolomon6383 2 месяца назад +11

      So your Days will be Longer.Peace

    • @MarieGrimsley-gv9ee
      @MarieGrimsley-gv9ee 2 месяца назад +2

      Never had a father, he left when I was a baby and my mother didn’t spank us , she beat us up telling us we were worthless. Not honoring them!

    • @euphemiarobinson1039
      @euphemiarobinson1039 2 месяца назад +3

      You cant used fire fight fire what they did is rong but thats there burden not you're

    • @cynthiasolomon6383
      @cynthiasolomon6383 2 месяца назад +4

      @@MarieGrimsley-gv9ee I'm sorry for that Pain I can Relate, I hope it doesn't make You bitter but Better baby ❤️

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 2 месяца назад +2

      @kimfitzgerald6039 The Lord blesses those that honor their parents "

  • @rosebud8231
    @rosebud8231 2 месяца назад +109

    The kids that are mistreating their parents at their old age will get theirs. Both my parents were sick, both had hospice nurses. We kept our parents at home, us kids took care of both parents in the same home they worked so hard for. My sisters and I bathed, changed and feed them, everyday. They lived longer than the Drs expected they would. We loved our parents so much, till God took them both home. The hospice nurses told us they were both well taken care of. God bless those seniors who are being mistreated, God sees everything.

    • @hanefa283
      @hanefa283 2 месяца назад +4

      WAXAA TIHIIN ILMO BAARIYAAL AH ❤

    • @crystaltiner5512
      @crystaltiner5512 2 месяца назад +4

      I love this ty

    • @kimdean6055
      @kimdean6055 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen to that .

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 2 месяца назад +3

      @@rosebud8231 The Lord Blesses Those That Honor Their Parents "...

  • @SadieMyles-v1l
    @SadieMyles-v1l 2 месяца назад +67

    I miss my Dad so much i would give anything to have him back love u Dad

  • @stephaniepiazzese2602
    @stephaniepiazzese2602 2 месяца назад +75

    I dropped everything to take care of my Mom,,, my job, my belongings,, etc,,, her disease came on fast and accelerated fast. I regret nothing. We had one whole year,,, when we always thought we had many more. No one can know,, what illness is coming on, overtaking us, even in abundant health,, it strikes fast. Make the most,,, love deeply, forgive fully, embrace Gods guidanc and Mercy.

    • @robinschimka1947
      @robinschimka1947 2 месяца назад +3

      I also did same thing, 5 n half years now. Bless you.

    • @fionagray3594
      @fionagray3594 2 месяца назад +3

      Thankyou for sharing.❤

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 2 месяца назад +3

      @@stephaniepiazzese2602 Stephanie ' "Blessings to you for honoring your parent!

    • @JenniferC-wb6tv
      @JenniferC-wb6tv 2 месяца назад +1

      Same here. While it took 2 years to plan because 10 sets of people canceled on me, and I risked my own life to do it, I moved 1100 miles away with three fur babies, one of which is senior and has issues, to move into my parents. Originally I came to start a new business near them but when I got here and saw how bad they were I decided to stay. My dad has been in total denial about both of their illnesses and they are still functional, but need help. I've been here 4 months now and I only wish I could have come sooner. I have a mother who cannot retain beyond a minute, and never knows where she is and this is never been addressed with a doctor, I'm taking them both to the doctor next week. So whoever goes first, it is going to be so much work for me and I don't know how I would handle it alone but I will. I'm never putting them in a facility.

    • @fionagray3594
      @fionagray3594 2 месяца назад

      @@JenniferC-wb6tv praying for you and your parents. God bless you all. 🙏

  • @cindyj4258
    @cindyj4258 2 месяца назад +85

    My son moved back to the house after college. Never moved out and his girlfriend lives there too. Husband has allowed this and no room for me after working and living 8 hours away for 15 years. I now live in an RV which my husband pays for. Last thing my son said to me is that I should be paying for the RV.
    My son nor his girlfriend Have ever paid rent, property taxes, or high California fire insurance for the rural area and they’re both well into their 30s “college-educated.” Without calling bad names I define this behavior as parasitic.

    • @Julie-ne3sx
      @Julie-ne3sx 2 месяца назад +13

      I’m so sorry 😢

    • @64onehotmama
      @64onehotmama 2 месяца назад

      Why do you allow this?????? Are you a glutton for punishment??

    • @seemagayadin5199
      @seemagayadin5199 2 месяца назад +10

      Dear cindy4258, I am so so sorry for u. Your son/girlfriend are just dumb and selfish. As mother of your son you deserves respect

    • @Cherryblossom18634
      @Cherryblossom18634 2 месяца назад +11

      Shame on them 😡

    • @PhillipB78
      @PhillipB78 2 месяца назад +10

      I must say, you are much kinder than I would be! If my spouse and children did that to me, either one, children would be informed that they will in fact move out, spouse would be on board with this. If not, after me devoting so many years to working and helping support the family, there would be a divorce, spouse would be forced to sell house to give me half, And son and son's girlfriend would be out on the street. It's sad, but sometimes we have to show them a little tough love! My heart goes out to you, be blessed!

  • @debicaron6046
    @debicaron6046 2 месяца назад +56

    I would give up everything to have my parents back😢😢

  • @gtilusso2101
    @gtilusso2101 2 месяца назад +43

    How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child.

    • @BellaNY00
      @BellaNY00 2 месяца назад +4

      Perfectly said.

  • @CarolynBucy
    @CarolynBucy 2 месяца назад +34

    Worked in a nursing home. Happens all the time 😢

  • @debraspencer6438
    @debraspencer6438 2 месяца назад +45

    You would not believe how many folks do this to there loved ones.

    • @cynthiasolomon6383
      @cynthiasolomon6383 2 месяца назад +3

      Oh I believe it and have seen it, Cruelty from Children can be horrible.Peace

    • @philliphall5198
      @philliphall5198 Месяц назад

      Yes it’s very very common 😢😢😢
      Evil people

  • @movingforward2570
    @movingforward2570 2 месяца назад +35

    Used to work as a cna at a nursing home. And the loneliness thise people endure. Some never see their families again. I had to use clothes from other residence on others

    • @manjugrey1198
      @manjugrey1198 2 месяца назад

      I have done the same thing while I worked as a CNA so sad 😢

  • @DarleneHarris-s6h
    @DarleneHarris-s6h 2 месяца назад +37

    I would give anything to my mother and dad back!! I miss them sooo much. They were the best parents ever. My sister was the oldest, then by brother then me( sister) My dear brother passed away one yr. ago. Oh how I miss them all!! I still cry and my high school sweethearts and we married at age 22. Had 2 beautiful girls. My husband passed away at age 47 from a heart attack. I still have all his love letters we wrote to each other! My mother and father in laws who passed away yrs ago were the very best I miss them every day! God has blessed me in every way!! No amount of money I would want. I would give anything to have them back! 💖💕🥲

  • @JudyCarolA
    @JudyCarolA 2 месяца назад +17

    Family can be the worst betrayers.😢💔

  • @Desertb420
    @Desertb420 3 месяца назад +113

    Greed, Disrespect, and inconsiderate will catch up every time, Bravo Dad,

  • @LindaEllison-e5o
    @LindaEllison-e5o 3 месяца назад +39

    Bible says honor thy father and mother this Man is not honoring his Father at all. I would never put my parents in a nursing home I took care of my mother until she passed away in my arms.❤

  • @Brooklynlife1000
    @Brooklynlife1000 2 месяца назад +28

    I took care of my Mom for years knowing I would inherit nothing but her art and stuff she kept over the years. I stayed dedicated till the end. I'm glad Dad sorted this ingrate only child out.

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 2 месяца назад +6

      Same. Took care of my beautiful Mom, she was my Life Compass,,, the person I most respected ever. She had quietly made a living Trust and left me her Manufactured Home, old but debt free. I could never have known, how badly I needed a home I could afford. And space/ privacy/ sanctuary for our animals. She planned ahead,, for me. No cash,,, just so much love ,,,, ❤

    • @TheLightbright01
      @TheLightbright01 2 месяца назад +3

      I was willing to give up all for mom. Everyone else left. I sat next to her till she died. The day before my birthday. She left all to me.

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 2 месяца назад +3

      @TheLightbright01 Blessings ' to a Beautiful Child..'

    • @TheLightbright01
      @TheLightbright01 2 месяца назад +2

      My mom was a hard working woman. She didn't have much. But, she always took care of us. We were not around our dad much. In fact he didn't even know I was married till it came up in court. Always tried as I could to take care of her. A couple of years before she died I got to take her out to New Mexico. We had a great time.

    • @Brooklynlife1000
      @Brooklynlife1000 2 месяца назад

      @@TheLightbright01 Bless you. You are an amazing strong woman. It's a heavy task to take on especially when it's Mom. The relationship between mother and daughter is a strength like no other.

  • @VirginiaPereiranickolas
    @VirginiaPereiranickolas 2 месяца назад +20

    God thank you 🙏 I am 70 but god gave me a good kids all them knows went I die and my husband to every thing I have is for them

  • @opaloliver3323
    @opaloliver3323 2 месяца назад +27

    I hope this will teach some people a lesson after sitting and watching this. People don't be greedy , ungrateful and selfish. It's always better to do the right thing and don't let greed get the better of you.

    • @QueenQueen-el3sk
      @QueenQueen-el3sk 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes but what if this happens to you and it’s not greed like people may have thought? What if your mother and father had you molested and raped as a child? What if most people in your life lied, never even listened in the first place when you tried to tell them things. These same setups happened to me only by peopele who were actually the GREEDY ONES!!!

  • @carmenbrown7761
    @carmenbrown7761 3 месяца назад +48

    Gavin is greedy and doesn't have any love for his adoptive father. Great job sir.

  • @Jana-vj3vf
    @Jana-vj3vf 2 месяца назад +40

    This is the reason that adults should have their course of being elderly. Do not depend on your kids

    • @matildaannlaythe3230
      @matildaannlaythe3230 2 месяца назад +3

      You are so correct 💯

    • @matildaannlaythe3230
      @matildaannlaythe3230 2 месяца назад

      I bet he loses everything

    • @matildaannlaythe3230
      @matildaannlaythe3230 2 месяца назад +3

      I am being done wrong by my children so Do you think that his father is stupid NOT AT ALL.
      I BLOCKED ONE ALREADY IM NEEDING HELP BUT I'M TREATED VERY DISRESPECTED BY THEM . I THINK Karma is coming back ten fold.

    • @kerriknight5347
      @kerriknight5347 2 месяца назад

      Easier said than done

  • @dianewilson2740
    @dianewilson2740 3 месяца назад +45

    A house cant be sold without the owners signing the deed. Dad did not sign the deed so legally the house could not be sold.

    • @debbiecaldwell489
      @debbiecaldwell489 2 месяца назад +14

      If someone has " Guardianship" they can sign for EVERYTHING.

    • @netclips2023
      @netclips2023 2 месяца назад +10

      You can if you have power of attorney..

    • @alicel3992
      @alicel3992 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@netclips2023
      Power of Attorney can be dangerous bc it gives someone your permission to do things you may not want them to do.

  • @CarolynBucy
    @CarolynBucy 2 месяца назад +16

    "(he) overlooked truly valuable items" That just about says it all😢

  • @jamesbosworth4191
    @jamesbosworth4191 2 месяца назад +87

    People, be VERY CAREFUL about granting somebody CONSERVATORSHIP.

    • @PaulHayman-tq5kb
      @PaulHayman-tq5kb 2 месяца назад +2

      @@jamesbosworth4191 why don't the social workers have more power over a husband who belts The crap out of his wife and goes to hospital and at the end of the day he then has The Wright to sign he out of the hospital

    • @jamesbosworth4191
      @jamesbosworth4191 2 месяца назад +4

      @@PaulHayman-tq5kb All they can do is make recommendations. They are not law enforcement officers.

    • @rebeccamiller8434
      @rebeccamiller8434 2 месяца назад +4

      Never give the state conservatorship!

    • @jamesbosworth4191
      @jamesbosworth4191 2 месяца назад

      @@rebeccamiller8434 Never give kin-folks conservator-ship either!

    • @Hugh_Manitee
      @Hugh_Manitee 2 месяца назад +5

      Or letting kids talk you into a "reverse mortgage" unless that's a last ditch effort to avoid homelessness.

  • @ruthanderson4432
    @ruthanderson4432 2 месяца назад +18

    So disheartening, but I am glad the father came to himself, and surprised and exposed his son...

  • @marjoriepereira5055
    @marjoriepereira5055 2 месяца назад +14

    Another thing is that he is not his blood son too. What a wicket adopted son he is.

  • @H4me7215
    @H4me7215 3 месяца назад +67

    Thats what happens when a parent spoonfeeds their child instead of having that person learn the value of a dollar..

    • @opaloliver3323
      @opaloliver3323 2 месяца назад +7

      I don't think so that is because of spoon feeding I think it's just greed ungrateful and selfish.

    • @yvonnewright3449
      @yvonnewright3449 2 месяца назад +5

      You are so right about that

    • @miraclesforus
      @miraclesforus 2 месяца назад

      What a disgusting and stupid comment.

  • @victoriahazard1181
    @victoriahazard1181 3 месяца назад +40

    My God how could u do that to your father he gave u life greed with hurt u in a long run Gavin you deserve everything your dad dished out bravo dad

    • @jenniferhejhal4101
      @jenniferhejhal4101 3 месяца назад +2

      NO HE WAS NOT HIS SON , HE WAS ADOPTED.

    • @jeanlallathin1047
      @jeanlallathin1047 2 месяца назад

      😅 13:22 13:22 13:22 13:22 ​@@jenniferhejhal4101

    • @Sherry-hk2vs
      @Sherry-hk2vs 2 месяца назад +2

      @@jenniferhejhal4101but the father raised and treated him like a biological son ! Instilling care love, empathy, morals and values !

  • @annetmaryfamilyofficial8038
    @annetmaryfamilyofficial8038 2 месяца назад +38

    parents we need to bring up our children with Biblical principles of working. kids knowing that wealth is worked for

  • @wallywalkabout
    @wallywalkabout 3 месяца назад +42

    That is what Gavin deserve, betraying his father because of greed (gavin's greed)

  • @pahouayang1063
    @pahouayang1063 2 месяца назад +13

    So many children are so evil to their parents…sad.

  • @earlphillips7847
    @earlphillips7847 2 месяца назад +10

    Many Of us Could Learn. From This Compassionate Story❤

  • @jemgonzales12
    @jemgonzales12 2 месяца назад +1

    I don’t have nothing to leave my children when I die … they provide for me …. But they’re all good … 😊 thank you very much

  • @jjsalt1982
    @jjsalt1982 3 месяца назад +30

    Horrible!!! Can't believe a son would do that to a parent! I wouldn't ever do that to my parents. They mean so much to me. This guy has much greed!!! No thank you!!! No appreciation of what his parents done for him. He had everything!!! Yet wants more!! Spoil Brat!!

    • @vivianidelacerda9708
      @vivianidelacerda9708 3 месяца назад +3

      I know a son who did this to his parents... luckily they were financially stable...

    • @Sherry-hk2vs
      @Sherry-hk2vs 2 месяца назад +2

      Most kids born in the late 89 through today, treat their parents in ways that those that are 40+ find shocking , they think very little of they’re parents and I’m talking about even those who dotted upon they’re kids gave them everything they could …it truly makes parents of 35+ children , wonder what’s happened, as they’re children were taught to respect others especially their parents and grandparents, only to learn first hand how these children really don’t care about anyone more than themselves .

    • @evelyngookool9255
      @evelyngookool9255 2 месяца назад

    • @Sherry-hk2vs
      @Sherry-hk2vs 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jjsalt1982 that’s how recent generations treat they’re parents. The had wonderful parents that took very good care of them . We all know there are exceptions, but the majority of parents take good care of their children along with giving them many things, that the parents themselves were never given. This was done in hopes of making things easier for they’re children when they are young adults , things like cars, pair college tuition , letting the kids live home rent free till they’re in their 30s. Generations from the 80s till today treat their parents badly. Don’t care what happens to them, forget the thought of helping them when they get older !

  • @lifereality1818
    @lifereality1818 2 месяца назад +2

    I saw this happen when I was working at nursing home. It broke my heart and made me quit that job. Can’t I handle to see such actions.

  • @Maria-g9u6v
    @Maria-g9u6v 2 месяца назад +26

    Ban nursing homes and move far-far away from relatives, maybe mountains or overseas. Where they can't "elder abuse" you. Run,run!!!

  • @darryltognarelli6769
    @darryltognarelli6769 2 месяца назад +3

    My mother lived approximately 1,100 miles from where I lived and I had a full time job!! I tried to have her move closer, but she did not want to, and I was going to get everything set up for the transportation! So I had taken many of trips to help her be as comfortable as possible and anything I had done to her house I payed for myself and to this day I do not have any regrets at all for I love mother!! She’s been gone for 4 years now and miss her so so dearly!! It hurts!!

  • @katherineg.7427
    @katherineg.7427 2 месяца назад +23

    My sister did so much harm to my mother. She changed the will and took everything from her and put her in a nursibg home. Mom passed away, but my attorney is on it. I hope my sister and her evil daughter goes to jail for the emotional, physical and financial harm they did to her and the rest of my siblings. I have pictures and documentation. My mom didn't raise a fool

  • @astergemech6579
    @astergemech6579 2 месяца назад +3

    So sad to hear. Some people do not have a soul

  • @robind9914
    @robind9914 2 месяца назад +8

    Is this a lie because when you take someone to nursing home, the nursing home takes all of the assets

    • @lydiaorrock4657
      @lydiaorrock4657 2 месяца назад +2

      I'm told they only take the first £80.000 from the property the rest can be shared by the children ..well that's what happend to my sister in law and her two children

  • @CindyLopez-e7q
    @CindyLopez-e7q 3 месяца назад +12

    Shame on you for putting your own father in a nursing 👨‍🍼 home 🏠; I would never put my mother in that place

  • @ssieJons-nx52si
    @ssieJons-nx52si 3 месяца назад +28

    Very good story, job well done 👍✅😮🎉❤

  • @erickiabartee6898
    @erickiabartee6898 3 месяца назад +110

    The story is crazy I would never do that to my parents, but I think the father is going to get him back for everything he did he will learn his lesson.

    • @AlittleBitThis
      @AlittleBitThis 3 месяца назад +12

      There's people drinking and living their life like they're rich now somewhere in this country. But in reality, they're waiting for their parents to die so they can get whatever they can from their parents. Some don't even care about working or do more for their family because they live in the pass and is waiting for whatever their parents will leave. People are devil and for this reason we need to be wake and always prepare.

    • @AlittleBitThis
      @AlittleBitThis 3 месяца назад +3

      Some individuals are raised to do this to be desonest with others by their parents! They forget that karma hit and don't let anyone know!

    • @susanneharris96
      @susanneharris96 3 месяца назад +4

      So sad that this happens more than you think. I don’t know how anybody could do something like this to their parents and think stealing something. That’s not theirs that they’re entitled to. I pray the dad leaves it all to someone else.

    • @cherylhorner3097
      @cherylhorner3097 3 месяца назад +2

      Things like this really happen

    • @vz9226
      @vz9226 2 месяца назад +2

      As a caregiver keeping Elders at home out if the nursing home I've seen it many times . I of course pushed back protector of Elders and those who can't protect themselves

  • @buddha2845
    @buddha2845 2 месяца назад +4

    My wife and my two sons want my properties but never helped me to work with these properties,,
    Now I am thinking to adopt a orphan child who has emotional attachment

    • @kuuipojones631
      @kuuipojones631 2 месяца назад

      Do you love your wife and sons? Do the right thing

    • @buddha2845
      @buddha2845 2 месяца назад

      @@kuuipojones631 everyone loves his family unless he feels their greedy attitude

  • @celestecruthird7842
    @celestecruthird7842 2 месяца назад +7

    Gavin Should Be Locked Up!😮

  • @Maria-g9u6v
    @Maria-g9u6v 2 месяца назад +6

    Oh! Maybe a will donating "all" assests to animal rescue businesses. No loopholes to change will.😜

  • @tutsecret499
    @tutsecret499 2 месяца назад +5

    I don't understand why putting people on nursing home. Just hire a caregiver, a babysitter to take care of the elderly if the son/daughter works. It's cheaper to hire somebody at home. You are tossing money to these greedy organizations.

  • @slash2487
    @slash2487 2 месяца назад +1

    My brothers and I decided we would not put our mom in a nursing home. I couldnt even fathum it no matter how hard it gets. Mom is 90 years old, we love her and I take full responsibitiy for her care.❤❤❤❤

  • @anitadossett4905
    @anitadossett4905 2 месяца назад +3

    God will not let you enjoy anything you have go wrong period.

  • @fosterkhan8697
    @fosterkhan8697 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks. Sir. For. A. Great. Lesson. ❤. May. God. Bless. You. Aamin. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💓💓💓💓💓💓☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️💙💙💙💙💙

  • @bellafa2120
    @bellafa2120 3 месяца назад +7

    Sad but it's true...some children do changed n for the worse...

  • @babygroot2365
    @babygroot2365 3 месяца назад +14

    I understand his hurt, our brother cheated us over inheritance, it really hurts when it is a little brother, he is a SNAKE in the ground

  • @Janeair41....
    @Janeair41.... 2 месяца назад

    For children who do similar acts, and realize that love is more powerful than anything else in a parent/child relationship. You will regret it. But by then your parents will be on a higher plane. 🕊🕊🌹🌹🙏🏾

  • @christinanevils3376
    @christinanevils3376 2 месяца назад +4

    They don't deserve a dime! you can be treated better by a complete stranger with-out money exchanged? smdh shame on them 😢

  • @alfrdup
    @alfrdup 2 месяца назад +5

    Can't wait till my brother gets his, after what he did with me with my dad's stuff. Sometimes that stuff just brings out the worst in people, karma.

  • @user-Tortured-soul
    @user-Tortured-soul 3 месяца назад +27

    Sadly this story is all to familiar out of six children only three truly love us the other three do nothing but talk about what they want when we pass. It’s so hurtful and has spoiled our retirement we can’t believe the depth of greed that some have. The greedy all have good jobs but it seems they want more including all we have including our home. I am praying that we out live them. We are looking into leaving what we have to various charities.

    • @battles146
      @battles146 3 месяца назад +7

      best to seek out a good estate planning attorney who can give you sound legal advice and direction -

    • @victorialockheart5213
      @victorialockheart5213 2 месяца назад

      You don't love your children but expect love? Interesting concept. Try getting one of those charities to love you. If you loved them, your outcome would have been different. Control is not love. I'm sure you voiced your control issues to them, that you are willing to give to strangers first. Don't be surprised when some of them treat you like a stranger. The ones that still love you after you stated that charities will benefit are fools. If my parents can't love me unconditionally, I don't want their love.

  • @robinsymonds5353
    @robinsymonds5353 Месяц назад

    My dad had very little but he had my love and I had his he was my best friend and that's worth more than gold 😢

  • @margiehornsby5702
    @margiehornsby5702 2 месяца назад +2

    Dont leave kids NOTHING!!!!!!!!!

  • @Erranaught2178
    @Erranaught2178 2 месяца назад +5

    Money is but an illusion...
    Real wealth is in the people n love around you... Don't sell your honour for an illusion.
    Love is the true currency of life...

  • @delfincruz6786
    @delfincruz6786 2 месяца назад

    We have to learn to value what we have, material things come and go but true love and respect should be with us till the end and forever.

  • @FionaMinhinnick
    @FionaMinhinnick 2 месяца назад +4

    unfortunately this a common place in society where entitled adult children take drastic measures for there own greed. This is also a factor where not so fortunate are taken for granted too. in my mid 60's have never asked or taken from my parents or family during life nor after death although my siblings have recieved & none of whom are greedy or were inheritance driven. Elderly abuse is a real problem world wide. So sad so sad so sad

  • @TrustMe55
    @TrustMe55 2 месяца назад +3

    I find this hard to believe because you can’t just put your parents in a nursing home and you cannot sell their house and keep the money because it’s gonna cost money to put them in the nursing home and they’re gonna have to liquidate their assets and pay for their room and board until that money is spent

  • @joeblowjohnny2297
    @joeblowjohnny2297 2 месяца назад +1

    I live in a van down by the river ! I'm still waiting on someone , friends , or family members to take me to the nursing home BUT WITH NO LUCK !
    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mary7857
    @mary7857 2 месяца назад +6

    I had two kids and both of my kids said they're never putting me and every time at home old age home whatever you want to call it they get mad when I say I want to look around for what would be best place retirement home for me they say they get mad and tell me I ain't going into one I thank God for my children everyday there are blessing

  • @lynetteeades9010
    @lynetteeades9010 2 месяца назад +3

    Where’s there’s a WILL there’s a WAY!!! 👍👍

  • @cherylhorner3097
    @cherylhorner3097 3 месяца назад +5

    The son would have had to have Power of Attorney and Executor of the Will

  • @brianrhodebeck6465
    @brianrhodebeck6465 2 месяца назад +2

    sometimes when you have kids to give them support and insure them that money is not everything but give them things that matter

  • @Ashurah-u7q
    @Ashurah-u7q 2 месяца назад +3

    The UNJUST will Neva PROSPER

  • @bebotartiaga7113
    @bebotartiaga7113 2 месяца назад +2

    Greediness is always evil,you can have all.millions but ,you cannot buy the real joy and peace,you hope.

  • @rubyr884
    @rubyr884 2 месяца назад +2

    Im glad i hav nothing for my son to get interested with,thank God my son finish university and hes doing well on his own

  • @terrijackiw4577
    @terrijackiw4577 2 месяца назад +4

    My dad passed away 2022i was only daughter I never put my dad in nursing home ever he lived his life untill 83 after my mom passed dad gave up my father didn't have much money he wanted cremated after everything was done insurance company sent check for 900 that wasn't lot dad always said what I have is yours I never looked like that he was my father he had car I didn't drive had sell .had no choice but my dad is with my mom together now

  • @donnavincent8077
    @donnavincent8077 2 месяца назад +2

    Disgraceful what some kids do for money 😢😢😢

  • @JAM-zb2vh
    @JAM-zb2vh 3 месяца назад +6

    AMEN

  • @ceebee6633
    @ceebee6633 2 месяца назад

    Its so hard when looking after dying parent. You want to take pain from them. It hurt going back to mums house. All the memories and love that was there and more importantly her independance. She stayed with us until she passed. No one can prepare you for the emotions you will feel.

  • @ardevenuta37
    @ardevenuta37 2 месяца назад +1

    Unbelievable what kind of betrayal is that

  • @anitadavis234
    @anitadavis234 2 месяца назад +1

    Is there anything that can be done my mom has been going through the same thing with my older sister,me and my mom have contacted elder abuse,and has talked to the facility she is at,and my mom has made a sheriff crime report for theft and bank fraud and has told the sheriff's department she wants to press charges and still nothing has been done. And no authorities have stepped up or tried to help.

  • @judithjemmott8679
    @judithjemmott8679 2 месяца назад +2

    Honor your father .his life. Shorten.the bible say eph .6.2

  • @lindaboone2051
    @lindaboone2051 2 месяца назад +1

    He betrayed his dad he was greedy as far as putting his dad in a nursing home, not caring about his dad's feelings,and selling his home and belongings his dad got even showing is son a lesson.

  • @christinanevils3376
    @christinanevils3376 2 месяца назад +2

    So you have it? what drives you, will come back to bite! If your intentions are not genuinely from the heart...

  • @Ukwemustcarryonok
    @Ukwemustcarryonok 2 месяца назад +3

    Don't disrespect elderly I was with my dad in his home llast stages of life shopping, gp, washing, cooking, chatting, driving to park, clothing shop, pension etc spending time playing records my dad was 85. My mum.and dad shown me their will when 49 my parents both died and respect filly buried on a village with a special kerbstone chosen and told to wait a year to sell house my brother and me did this looking after house. Garden 2 years later sold it and my brother and me got 50/ 50 a lot of work pre getting money respect them we will.all get old❤
    My brother kept my dad's wedding ring. I had my mums engagement ring. I had some of my mums China and my brother and I had my mums coat and my brother my dad's coat. All kept and grave kept nice. Once a year will honour my parents death. Respect please religion played a part. Miss them deeply. I have my mums cat whom I love deeply indeed. Love plays a part. I love looking at my mums bone China and their wedding album all covered in 3 bags so won't get frayed or dirty.

  • @themysticmuse
    @themysticmuse 2 месяца назад +2

    Well thats half an hour of my life I'll never get back.....

  • @mysaviour587
    @mysaviour587 2 месяца назад +3

    Make his inheritance $1 that's all.

  • @dianeholmes6502
    @dianeholmes6502 2 месяца назад +2

    To God be the Glory ... Amen. 🎉🎉😂😂

  • @gardy4390
    @gardy4390 2 месяца назад +2

    Children want you gone because of the inheritance or because you have no money at all. Either way it's horrible for children to want to be free of their Parents.

  • @celestecruthird7842
    @celestecruthird7842 2 месяца назад +2

    He Knows His Son! He Would Have Not Put Him I😮n His Will! I Would Have Left Everything To A Stranger!

  • @jeffreybaier5312
    @jeffreybaier5312 2 месяца назад

    Gavin there's a lake of fire when you meet judgment. 🔥

  • @fluffgirl1000
    @fluffgirl1000 2 месяца назад +2

    no one can get you out of your house if you dont want to go

  • @MelissaMines-se4qo
    @MelissaMines-se4qo 3 месяца назад +3

    How could anyone do that to a parent this is sad😮😢

  • @gerelynreynolds2391
    @gerelynreynolds2391 Месяц назад

    At 84 years and a widow my sons do not want any inheritance from the sale of my house. They make me so proud.

  • @Joyce-ow1ks
    @Joyce-ow1ks 2 месяца назад +1

    Why disclose that "You're not even mine." Then he never considered him as his child. Just disinherit and leave it at that.

  • @jamesmercer3693
    @jamesmercer3693 2 месяца назад +1

    It's devastating when your children turn on you like this The sad thing is when you lose everything and they don't want anything to do with you because of your monetary status😢 I know The positive is Thank God I still Have my oldest daughter😊

  • @CeceliaKellmanThomas
    @CeceliaKellmanThomas 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes, thats some kids habit
    They do not like to sweat for their own, just waiting for parents hand over, bleesed is the child that has its own

  • @KathleenHarray
    @KathleenHarray 3 месяца назад +12

    How can a son sell his father's house? Isn't it in his father's name? It's legally not done. I have listened to a few stories like that. Usually it's the mother's house.
    I was just wondering.

  • @FessanPanafric
    @FessanPanafric 2 месяца назад +1

    Working in nursing home, I’ve seen children moving their parents in the nursing home and selling the house in a heartbeat. It’s understandable if the parents are suffering from a terrible health condition, or dementia or are a risk to themselves and others. Most of these children don’t even bother to come visit their parents.
    I’ve heard again and again, the elderly saying “Why am I here?” “Where are my children?” “I paid for them to go to college, now they don’t care about me” “why can’t I stay home?” How sad is that? I think it’s a Western culture thing!🤔

  • @MigdaliaQuinones-p4i
    @MigdaliaQuinones-p4i 2 месяца назад

    Such a sad 😢 but true story 😭

  • @lindabradley6185
    @lindabradley6185 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow, look at all the comments. I thought I was the only one 😢