Happy holidays! I hope you enjoy this video, and I hope it reminds you that you need to proactively make your interactions good rather than getting lazy and accepting an average conversation and result. By the way, this question was asked at an Immersion program toddimmersion.com for more information.
Common Questions should be taken and played with. "What do you do?" is a common enough question everywhere for anyone from all walks of life. Todd is right about making it vague and "milking" the question so that the girl will chase and we both can have fun. One way I play around is, when the girl asks, I ask them "who do they think I am." This does two things: 1. What the girls think about me (if positive, continue that thought; if negative, correct or tease them) 2. allows them to participate in the convo and create a story or running joke. Does anyone else do differently? As for meeting with women, I have this habit where I need all of the conditions to be right to push forward, and I hate this. Nothing in life is ever ready for the right moment. I'm shifting this by, repeating to myself, that "actions create emotions" - for me and the woman. My lack of action, which is an action, is making me feel bad, so I remember those bad feelings and go approach. No offense to Todd: I like that he is not in great shape - 6 pack abs and low body fat. This helps me realize that an average person can do what he's doing. It also makes the issues that I believed are false - two are must be in great shape and born with great looks. Whereas if we improved our appearance and social health, we would have a better cushion when we approach. My question to Todd would be: When leveling with a girl, is it ideal to create a level gap or is it better to have the same "level" as the girl. From my understanding, leveling is a display of where we are in society (for the lack of better words, working class vs middle class vs upper class). I don't have enough interactions to judge which is better - creating a value gap or be on the same level (any level) as the girl.
Moderate value gap, every girl wants a guy that's a win but not out of her league. Ofc you have to calibrate to the girl ie if whatever you're doing is leading to sex you're on the right path (as Todd says, there's hundreds of paths in any interaction that lead to sex)
also have a valid reason for getting the number and enough premise for her to anticipate you reaching out to her which makes it easier to actually make something happen. Also use texting and the phone only to make something happen and not for chatting, cur that will kill anything tension related in no time #beentheredonethat
I have come up with a funny thing, when I am asked question like "What do you do for a living?", I answer with a detailed movie plotline, that is ridiculous to believe but I tell it with as straight face as possible. One girl genuinely believed me that I was a genius predicting a financial market crisis (Christian Bale from The Big Short) and that was hilarious.
Hey Todd, great video. Does someone have to be the funniest in the group to stand out to women? I'm pretty funny on my own, but it seems the loudest, most rambunctious guy gets the most attention in the group.
Hey Todd, could you make another video about this. More specifically a video about sitting down with a girl and having the deep kind of direct conversation with her that most guys can’t do?
Hey Todd, I have an interesting topic that I’d wish for you to cover: is there any info you can give on time healing messed up sets? Like say you mess up with a girl and see her again a few months later and all the sudden the spark is back. This is something I’ve noticed but don’t really know the full concept of
Todd you often describe that in an interaction you with "game" you can achieve a high chance of success. Can you walk through on average what the statistics are for a beginner, intermediate, and advanced for both daygame and nightgame in terms of success. I understand the 2 games are pretty different and there are a lot of different variables, but on average what are the statistics? How often out of say 10 are you number closing, taking on dates, and taking to the bedroom. Appreciate it man.
Hey Todd! Thanks for all the amazing content... I've been trying things out myself with approaching, and although I'm not at the desired level of authenticity yet, I managed to identify the thing that's blocking the expression of my personality the most: I feel like I don't have a fear of rejection, but instead have a fear of bothering people, a fear of annoying them or making them angry (and thus getting embarrassed). This prevents me from being myself in public, especially in the streets, and I feel stiff and affected by the environment. I see people looking so serious, focused on their thing or even talking to their friends so comfortably that it intimidates me a lot. I'm not sure of where to send questions or issues like this for this channel, I was wondering if you could help on the fear of bothering people and coming out as annoying or creepy and what mindsets to adopt?
Question: have you ever get in to fight how to avoid it and still get the girls? , i just gaming last night try to approach 2 girls that already get approach by 2 other guys but they not there the girls seems to like me a lot and clearly not interested in those guys but after a while they came back and told me to back off from the girls , I don’t want to have problems so i did.. back off , how do you suggest? ps: i lived in bangkok and it easier to get stab by a knife here due to people are more dangerous (developing countries getting killed are very common) or maybe im just too scared btw thanks !! And Happy New Year !
Best to avoid fights, not worth fighting over a girl you just met, right?! Also, go at them with humor. When he pushes you"are we playing tag?😄", when he comes between you and the girl :"Hi, are you a pick up artist? Please show me how to pick these girls up, I'm all ears!" (Say this loud enough so everybody hears it, especially the girls) This will put them on the spot and they have to keep their cool because you are joking but they will still feel insecure. All of these lines should be said in a jokingly manner but loud. It also works if you ask the girls if they mind if you stay with them, if the girls give you approval the guys can't do anything really.
I walk with the girl around (at the first date),even in like 5 places,or more,then i end up to my house (in the daytime),the problem is,she just won't come into the house with me,i tried to find a way to make it sound socially accepted,but it just won't work. I surely know she likes me ,because she literally told me that ,and her actions,and she messaged me when i stopped talking to her. Any tips to fix this? I'm 18,the girl ,the same.
there has to be a reason for the both of you to go home together, from the limited info you gave here it seems that you have none other than wanting to fuck her
Raul N As long as you don’t imitate their personality but just take tips from them and develop your own approach you’ll be fine. I trust you! Merry Christmas!
Question for Todd V: If a girl says something for ex one called me petty. If she says this, but misunderstood that I was joking about something, should I clarify for her that I was joking? The reason I ask is because it could sound like qualifying myself. So is it okay to "qualify" in a sense if it's only to clarify? I personally think to just not give a fuck what she thinks, but also clarify.
Dont clarify since youre still qualifying yourself, this is actually a good way to qualify her by misunderstanding/misinterpreting something she says on purpose, if you want to make it even more effective change the topic after this really quickly so she wants to qualify herself but you dont even let her making her chase eveb more
How to game a girl u have a friendly vibe with her (not in the friend zone cuz we ain't friends, just basic convos here and there) in a place like school Btw I c her on a daily basis
news flash: you can be in the friend zone without even being friends 😜 generally be social with everyone, talk to her normally, add some playful banter, show that she caught your interest but she has to be actually cool to keep it, get her alone on a coffee or something. if she doesn't reciprocate, leave her alone. I've done this often, it's actually pretty simple because if you keep running into her, you can build up your interactions gradually and naturally, it doesn't feel created and if you do it right, it will seem to her she has won you over.
What should I do if she asks my political opinion? Since it’s become a huge dealbreaker now and I live in an area where most people disagree with my view, idk how to respond.
Tood you say flirting, push-pull has to be playful. You also say the negative spikes creates tension in the set. But if the girl knows that when you say "i dont know if we will get along" you are just kidding and messing with her and being playful then how is there tension in the set. The girl knows she can have you and you are just playing hard to get. Please help.
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Happy holidays! I hope you enjoy this video, and I hope it reminds you that you need to proactively make your interactions good rather than getting lazy and accepting an average conversation and result. By the way, this question was asked at an Immersion program toddimmersion.com for more information.
AskToddV Todd when are u going to release the new program verbal game?
Meep Meep he already commented on the Toddv channel last vid
@@finaltouchdownlol9717 just do it. Law of inertia
AskToddV Merry Christmas Todd
AskToddV any discounts on the system for the holiday?
Common Questions should be taken and played with. "What do you do?" is a common enough question everywhere for anyone from all walks of life. Todd is right about making it vague and "milking" the question so that the girl will chase and we both can have fun.
One way I play around is, when the girl asks, I ask them "who do they think I am." This does two things: 1. What the girls think about me (if positive, continue that thought; if negative, correct or tease them) 2. allows them to participate in the convo and create a story or running joke. Does anyone else do differently?
As for meeting with women, I have this habit where I need all of the conditions to be right to push forward, and I hate this. Nothing in life is ever ready for the right moment. I'm shifting this by, repeating to myself, that "actions create emotions" - for me and the woman. My lack of action, which is an action, is making me feel bad, so I remember those bad feelings and go approach.
No offense to Todd: I like that he is not in great shape - 6 pack abs and low body fat. This helps me realize that an average person can do what he's doing. It also makes the issues that I believed are false - two are must be in great shape and born with great looks. Whereas if we improved our appearance and social health, we would have a better cushion when we approach.
My question to Todd would be: When leveling with a girl, is it ideal to create a level gap or is it better to have the same "level" as the girl. From my understanding, leveling is a display of where we are in society (for the lack of better words, working class vs middle class vs upper class). I don't have enough interactions to judge which is better - creating a value gap or be on the same level (any level) as the girl.
Good questions. Keep it up man :-)
Moderate value gap, every girl wants a guy that's a win but not out of her league. Ofc you have to calibrate to the girl ie if whatever you're doing is leading to sex you're on the right path (as Todd says, there's hundreds of paths in any interaction that lead to sex)
Geofferey Chum - Thank god I saw this comment. U a champ dude, how can I personally message you? I’m a text game dating coach.
@@HawaiianCrow I'd like your coahcing. My case is unusual and I am trying to turn it into a positive thing somehow.
So its kind of a rule of thumb?!
Dont ask for numbers without some good interaction and dont go away right after getting the number.
also have a valid reason for getting the number and enough premise for her to anticipate you reaching out to her which makes it easier to actually make something happen. Also use texting and the phone only to make something happen and not for chatting, cur that will kill anything tension related in no time #beentheredonethat
Still ask for the number. Why not? Maybe in your mind the convo wasn’t interesting but to her it was. And it’s just a good habit asking for the number
Game 101, evaluate her about something more than just her appearance.
metnoc10 stfu virgin
This was really insightful. I didn’t realize asking for a number without having a nice convo ruins our chances
Be vague in your answer to get more engagement out of her
I have come up with a funny thing, when I am asked question like "What do you do for a living?", I answer with a detailed movie plotline, that is ridiculous to believe but I tell it with as straight face as possible. One girl genuinely believed me that I was a genius predicting a financial market crisis (Christian Bale from The Big Short) and that was hilarious.
im finding everything he says just traces back to are you coming from abundance or scarcity
Fantastic Todd! Very helpful.
Merry Christmas 🎄
merry Christmas bro :)
Hey Todd, great video. Does someone have to be the funniest in the group to stand out to women? I'm pretty funny on my own, but it seems the loudest, most rambunctious guy gets the most attention in the group.
Todd grinding videos during Christmas too. Respect ✊
Hey Todd, could you make another video about this. More specifically a video about sitting down with a girl and having the deep kind of direct conversation with her that most guys can’t do?
Hey Todd, I have an interesting topic that I’d wish for you to cover: is there any info you can give on time healing messed up sets? Like say you mess up with a girl and see her again a few months later and all the sudden the spark is back. This is something I’ve noticed but don’t really know the full concept of
You made some interesting points in this video that someone can actually use
Can concepts from game be applied to people who just want to be less socially awkward and not necessarily looking for something more romantic
absolutely! That's mainly what I use it for
Todd you often describe that in an interaction you with "game" you can achieve a high chance of success. Can you walk through on average what the statistics are for a beginner, intermediate, and advanced for both daygame and nightgame in terms of success. I understand the 2 games are pretty different and there are a lot of different variables, but on average what are the statistics? How often out of say 10 are you number closing, taking on dates, and taking to the bedroom. Appreciate it man.
Hey Todd! Thanks for all the amazing content...
I've been trying things out myself with approaching, and although I'm not at the desired level of authenticity yet, I managed to identify the thing that's blocking the expression of my personality the most: I feel like I don't have a fear of rejection, but instead have a fear of bothering people, a fear of annoying them or making them angry (and thus getting embarrassed). This prevents me from being myself in public, especially in the streets, and I feel stiff and affected by the environment.
I see people looking so serious, focused on their thing or even talking to their friends so comfortably that it intimidates me a lot.
I'm not sure of where to send questions or issues like this for this channel, I was wondering if you could help on the fear of bothering people and coming out as annoying or creepy and what mindsets to adopt?
You can be a bit vague; be intriguing enough to make her ask you questions.
That's about it (for the lesson of this video), really.
empathy
Analysis info. Thanks😎👍🏻
Q: what do you do for living?
A: i make money. I dont care about stuff like how & why, i let the universe take care of stuff like that.
Looking forward to watching verbal game academy 😍
Question: have you ever get in to fight how to avoid it and still get the girls? , i just gaming last night try to approach 2 girls that already get approach by 2 other guys but they not there the girls seems to like me a lot and clearly not interested in those guys but after a while they came back and told me to back off from the girls , I don’t want to have problems so i did.. back off , how do you suggest? ps: i lived in bangkok and it easier to get stab by a knife here due to people are more dangerous (developing countries getting killed are very common) or maybe im just too scared btw thanks !! And Happy New Year !
Best to avoid fights, not worth fighting over a girl you just met, right?! Also, go at them with humor. When he pushes you"are we playing tag?😄", when he comes between you and the girl :"Hi, are you a pick up artist? Please show me how to pick these girls up, I'm all ears!" (Say this loud enough so everybody hears it, especially the girls) This will put them on the spot and they have to keep their cool because you are joking but they will still feel insecure. All of these lines should be said in a jokingly manner but loud. It also works if you ask the girls if they mind if you stay with them, if the girls give you approval the guys can't do anything really.
I walk with the girl around (at the first date),even in like 5 places,or more,then i end up to my house (in the daytime),the problem is,she just won't come into the house with me,i tried to find a way to make it sound socially accepted,but it just won't work. I surely know she likes me ,because she literally told me that ,and her actions,and she messaged me when i stopped talking to her. Any tips to fix this? I'm 18,the girl ,the same.
there has to be a reason for the both of you to go home together, from the limited info you gave here it seems that you have none other than wanting to fuck her
How are you doing now?
my main problem is the delivery
Then watch verbal performance. Like Stand-up
@@afonsolucas2219 thanks, i will imitate someone
Raul N As long as you don’t imitate their personality but just take tips from them and develop your own approach you’ll be fine. I trust you! Merry Christmas!
just practice talking to a lot of different people over the course of a day for Awhile and it should get easier/ improve.
@@afonsolucas2219 thanks man
You should do a californication breakdown cause that show is the closest one to game iv ever seen i feel like you wrote the man to women scenes
Ok, I got her number couple days ago, and I texted her...... she was silent!
WTF!!???
Question for Todd V: If a girl says something for ex one called me petty. If she says this, but misunderstood that I was joking about something, should I clarify for her that I was joking? The reason I ask is because it could sound like qualifying myself. So is it okay to "qualify" in a sense if it's only to clarify? I personally think to just not give a fuck what she thinks, but also clarify.
Dont clarify since youre still qualifying yourself, this is actually a good way to qualify her by misunderstanding/misinterpreting something she says on purpose, if you want to make it even more effective change the topic after this really quickly so she wants to qualify herself but you dont even let her making her chase eveb more
How to game a girl u have a friendly vibe with her (not in the friend zone cuz we ain't friends, just basic convos here and there) in a place like school
Btw I c her on a daily basis
just sexualize the convos
news flash: you can be in the friend zone without even being friends 😜
generally be social with everyone, talk to her normally, add some playful banter, show that she caught your interest but she has to be actually cool to keep it, get her alone on a coffee or something. if she doesn't reciprocate, leave her alone.
I've done this often, it's actually pretty simple because if you keep running into her, you can build up your interactions gradually and naturally, it doesn't feel created and if you do it right, it will seem to her she has won you over.
I wish you would merge all your websites to one
What should I do if she asks my political opinion? Since it’s become a huge dealbreaker now and I live in an area where most people disagree with my view, idk how to respond.
Tood you say flirting, push-pull has to be playful. You also say the negative spikes creates tension in the set. But if the girl knows that when you say "i dont know if we will get along" you are just kidding and messing with her and being playful then how is there tension in the set. The girl knows she can have you and you are just playing hard to get.
Please help.
What do you do for living?I make a tone of money...
None these advice doesn’t work I’m jus bad with woman I’ll be 50 next month and l haven’t get laid