No way in hell is she 43. She has no teeth. Her speech and demeanor is that of an older woman. No woman in her 40's would wear a wig like that. Her daughter looks like she's in her 30's. She's at least in her 50's, maybe even 60.
I just feel so bad. Sometimes we aren't privileged enough to know what good love and support is so we just get so desperate to feel it. We see it everywhere but we want to feel it. Glad I learned before 30 but this poor woman deserves to know her worth.
Actually the Rasta was a different guy. It appears he tried to throw in her face that she was spending money on another guy (Rasta) before him (so she should be used to it) and she was trying to say that the Rasta didn’t get anything out of her and use her family as witness to that. She’s a sugar mama.
Americans nothing but judgemental people did any of you hear any argument about a visa ?? Just because he's from a small country it doesn't mean he's a low life
If he didn't come across like a scammer he would've won the case. It was clear the judge wanted to teach this 41-year-old woman a life lesson, but the dude was too slimmy.
If this was Judge Mathis, he would've given the plaintiff every penny just for the defendant's perjury. The Judge comes back: "Would you like to change any of your testimony here today???" The look on her face says it all.
May be a hard 43 but we also don't know what hardships she's had to face to get her to this place. Could be self induced or could be some crappy medical issues.
Oh I see so we pick and choice what women we give passes too cuz they don't look they age. Pretty sure she was wyte, nobody would said shit but let it ride. I see you....👀. Actually a hard 53 due no teeth.🤷💯
@@teet-zi8ksway to find a race issue where there wasn’t one. you’re ridiculous and people like you are what keeps these issues going. Grow up and realize when people make a statement it doesn’t have to do with race. If you look for something you’ll find it because you’ll fabricate it in your mind, you’re a prisoner of your own creation.
The defendant is wearing large diamond earrings and she said he drives a Range Rover so it makes you wonder how many other women he is doing this to!!!
She got all these things to say about him but yet she was willing to pay him to spend time with her. And yes he is a liar, but she is mad stupid. If a man was to say he gave her money to spend time with him, the world would be having a cow 😂 she is nuts.
I'm a huge fan, but with this one...the judge should judge the case, not people's personal choices. She recognized that the plaintiff should have more self respect, but she should have said that with kindness, not call her pathetic. If it's true that the plaintiff suffers from low self esteem, she doesn't need to be called pathetic.
Call it how we see it and she also went in on the defendant so it is what it is might want love nothing wrong with that but by certain time in life you should know bout these kinds of people
She said what the plaintiff needed to hear and in a way that would get her attention. She also expressed that she believed in the plaintiff as well to make better choices and love herself. I was very proud of JM personally for how she handled both situations
@@trekgirl65 I disagree. And so did JM. The Judge even rebuked the plaintiff for allowing /letting the defendant take advantage of her… especially at her age.
When the Judge called her pathetic that was harsh 😒 that was cold the plattif is a attractive woman she deserves so much more and I hope she took a good hard look at herself.
The plantiff looks like she had medical issues since shes sitting and looks older than 43. Sad from a judge to call her pathetic she already looks embarrassed and beating down
Age can make a difference sometimes but not all the time with true intentions. My husband and I have a 12-year difference, and in November, we will be celebrating 19 years together.
Her daughter should be embarrassed. I would be. She's clearly not right in the head. Whatever money she has should go to her daughter. She was even paying his family in Jamaica!! She must have a lot of money. She was going to buy him a Range Rover!
@@bajangenetics400 nuh pawt ah dat ah nuh Caribbean ting. Fling is universally used in English speaking countries. Mi listen tuh everything wah him seh. Ah damn shame an disgrace him deh bring dung pon wi. Wedda him seh fling or thing, him damn disgustin. An di eediat gyal weh cum deh wid him betta mine shi nuh get di same treatment.
Yet if the roles were reversed and he was "just a thing" the judge would have been laughing and high fiving the plaintiff. The hypocrisy of it all huh?
I just knew deep down in my heart she was in her 60's and he was in his 40's and I'm assuming the daughter has to be in her 20's but looks like she's in her 40s🤯🤯
She did not mean she was buying his time. She was saying if it's the money that keep u in the streets then get the money from me and stay with me. It doesn't mean I'm really going to pay u for ur time like come on the judge was very disrespectful to this woman in my opinion.
The Judge knew what she meant and gave it to her how it really is. The lady was desperate for him and he wasn’t for her and her money was offered in return for him. It’s transactional and sad and she should feel more worth it
Women need to stop believing these men want them when they’re not dating within their life status,whether it’s looks, financially, etc. Take a good look in the mirror and really be honest and ask yourself, “Why does this man REALLY want me?”
I MUST SAY AGAIN...THANK GOD FOR MY MOTHER AND FATHER...AND MY HUSBAND...I KNOW HOW A MAN AND WOMAN TREAT EACHOTHER...MY HUBBY WAS AN AWESOME SPOUSE...I KNOW MY WORTH...THIS WOMAN HAS TO LUV HERSELF 1ST...BLESSINGS...REAL TALK!!!
Men need to treat women better then this! So many episodes like this, especially accepting money from mothers with young children to feed. Mother is foolish for offering it and male is cold-blooded for taking it.
Lord those voice messages. Lmfao. Can you imagine how her daughter felt listening to that?
I PRAY I NEVER!
Embarrassing asf
I said the sameeeee😢
‘What you settle for is a reflection of what you feel you deserve’
AMEN There is a person that I just wiped from my life. I deserve better.
This is SO true.
That's a hard 43.
😂😂
Yes it is😂
That's why JM ask the age difference and when she said her age , judge expression (WTF?!?!)
I came here to say exactly this LOL
She looks way better than him
That’s crazy the judge said “get out of my sight, just stop” and that's before she made a ruling. Wow! She was mad at him.
Been watching her for years and never heard her say that. She even called him evil!
@@peekaboots01same thing I said!!!!
The moment he started talking I knew what was going on. She thought she was Stella 😂
Oof! Stella needs to lay off the smokes. And to stop grovelling after this dude. Those voicemails of her begging were all CRINGE.
😂😂😂 I thought the SAME THING 😂😂😂😂
Damn comment section 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stella's mom!
Not Stella 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
43 and she's on a cane, looks tired , whatever she's been through aged her. I pray things get better for her.
She's not 43. She's probably around 63. She just knew if she told her real age, people would consider her creepy.
@@magicworld3242 that's a giant assumption...
No way in hell is she 43. She has no teeth. Her speech and demeanor is that of an older woman. No woman in her 40's would wear a wig like that. Her daughter looks like she's in her 30's. She's at least in her 50's, maybe even 60.
There's no way she's 43. She's lying. She's in her 50's at least, maybe even 60.
@@Cloudancer2024 some people look older than their age
I just feel so bad. Sometimes we aren't privileged enough to know what good love and support is so we just get so desperate to feel it. We see it everywhere but we want to feel it. Glad I learned before 30 but this poor woman deserves to know her worth.
That’s a WORD!!! Preach! Something I am even trying to recognize with myself!
He’s a gigalo, using women for financial gain...
Well said, I agree with you
Black is whack
What goes around comes around, somebody is going to play the dude as well.........
JM hates these kind of cases where women allow themselves to be used by men.
True but she didn’t have to call her pathetic 😒
The judge is more proof women are emotional first...
@@mycrownfitsfine The truth can hurt sometimes
@@mycrownfitsfineexactly and she should have took this to Judge Mathis, he comes down more on the man
When he started talking it all made sense fr
Instantly 😂
What does that mean?
Yup faxxxx
She’s a passport sis 😂
@@tonyarmoore894 His voice is what got her interested in him.
The voicemail was embarrassing AF but she calling him “The Rasta” was too funny 💀
😂😂😂😂
Actually the Rasta was a different guy. It appears he tried to throw in her face that she was spending money on another guy (Rasta) before him (so she should be used to it) and she was trying to say that the Rasta didn’t get anything out of her and use her family as witness to that. She’s a sugar mama.
He was definitely trying to get his permanent resident card
Not from her. That's pretty clear. She was a cash cow and he was looking for the green card somewhere else.
Americans nothing but judgemental people did any of you hear any argument about a visa ?? Just because he's from a small country it doesn't mean he's a low life
@@zigzag7194 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That isnt a thing anymore. What era are you from?
@@carlawick2704 🤣🤣🤣
Ain’t no way she’s 43. She is giving grand ma ma
I swear. Notice when she said that, the Woman behind him rolled her eyes super hard lol.
@@briasworld8 i noticed that
@@briasworld8😂😂😂 I had to rewatch it
😂😂😂
Not “grand ma ma” now 😂😂😂😂😂
If this was Judge Mathis, he would've given the plaintiff every penny just for the defendant's perjury.
And made sure he and her weren’t on crack 😄 love Mathis !
I just commented saying she should have taken him to Judge Mathis, cause he come down hard on men that are users
“You’ve brooooooken my heart”
Why did I laugh at this 😭
@@KweenK07same 😂😂
“The Rasta didn’t get shit from me!!”
Hilari😳us
bajjjjj
Take Tay Diggs off this court show😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I’m cracking up 🤣
Right 😂
If he didn't come across like a scammer he would've won the case. It was clear the judge wanted to teach this 41-year-old woman a life lesson, but the dude was too slimmy.
Yep!
No she wanted to teach slimmy a life lesson. You cannot bash a lady for wanting get attention from a supposed man who turned into the devil.
If this was Judge Mathis, he would've given the plaintiff every penny just for the defendant's perjury. The Judge comes back: "Would you like to change any of your testimony here today???" The look on her face says it all.
@@trekgirl65Turned? No, he IS one already. That wasn’t sweet candy from him.
It was 🐂💩he sprinkled with sugar 🤭🤣🤣🤣
...with a bad wig.
I was kind of on her side at the beginning but those voicemails were the saddest most pathetic thing I've ever heard.
I am all the way on her side. Some young men are slime and slime dogs.
@trekgirl65 He must not have been that slimy if she was willing to buy him a car and pay his bills. We get the treatment we ask for
@@pisto30you better preach……
@@pisto30she was going to buy him a Range Rover!! I wonder what kind of car she and her daughter drive??
@@trekgirl65nah she’s waaay too grown to even be doing this in the first place.
Awe, she just wanted love. People are so evil! YOU ALSO, CANT BUY LOVE!!
43!!!! I'm sorry, I"m 42 and she looks older than my mother. I was floored when she said 43. He also looks older than 31.
They are fooling no one 💀
63 and 41, maybe.
@@suvariboy EXACTLY.
@@suvariboyLol tell me about it 😂
More like 60 to me 😂😂
"you have to say it in the mirror and you have to actively believe it"
May be a hard 43 but we also don't know what hardships she's had to face to get her to this place. Could be self induced or could be some crappy medical issues.
He said she’s a chain smoker. That’s probably a pack a day. Smh
I think some wigs make people look older too
Oh I see so we pick and choice what women we give passes too cuz they don't look they age. Pretty sure she was wyte, nobody would said shit but let it ride. I see you....👀. Actually a hard 53 due no teeth.🤷💯
@@teet-zi8ksoooh...that's why her lips seem a little sunken bc she has NO teeth? Wowsers😬
@@teet-zi8ksway to find a race issue where there wasn’t one. you’re ridiculous and people like you are what keeps these issues going. Grow up and realize when people make a statement it doesn’t have to do with race. If you look for something you’ll find it because you’ll fabricate it in your mind, you’re a prisoner of your own creation.
Both of them looks older than their alleged ages
The voicemail????? I was with her the first half but that second half took me out.
THE RASTA DIDNT GET ^$;@*× FROM MEEEEEE
Girl you down bad I would never pay for a mf time
What an incredible episode. The judge really laid into both parties here. I definitely think it was warranted as this was such a dodgy case.
She was never my girl.... but i took 7k from her 🙄🙄🙄
43😮 nah lady you’re at least 53! Girl,stop!
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63
53
The defendant is wearing large diamond earrings and she said he drives a Range Rover so it makes you wonder how many other women he is doing this to!!!
No she said she was going to buy him one.
The Judge comes back: "Would you like to change any of your testimony here today???" The look on her face says it all.
6:35 The look on Douglas's face is priceless!
LMFAOOOOO
I went back because of your comment he was in disbelief 😂😂😂😂
😂 watched it again. This was him: 😳
He cannot believe what he’s hearing ☠️ ⚰️⚰️
😂😂😂😂😂😂this comment too funny
Judge Milian DOES NOT PLAY about women loaning men money under suspicious circumstances....
She got all these things to say about him but yet she was willing to pay him to spend time with her. And yes he is a liar, but she is mad stupid.
If a man was to say he gave her money to spend time with him, the world would be having a cow 😂 she is nuts.
He knew she had low self-esteem and preyed on her. He's a giant loser.
She also wore slippers to court. What a pathetic woman.
The plaintiff literally looks old enough to be the defendant's grandmother.
LORD JESUS I felt so sorry for her sitting there looking like she would bust out crying any minute 😑
Ikr😂😂 43 no way we need to see birth certificate
Her daughter was just sitting there beautiful and JJ was just smiling at her ❤
I'm a huge fan, but with this one...the judge should judge the case, not people's personal choices. She recognized that the plaintiff should have more self respect, but she should have said that with kindness, not call her pathetic. If it's true that the plaintiff suffers from low self esteem, she doesn't need to be called pathetic.
100% agree
Call it how we see it and she also went in on the defendant so it is what it is might want love nothing wrong with that but by certain time in life you should know bout these kinds of people
She said what the plaintiff needed to hear and in a way that would get her attention. She also expressed that she believed in the plaintiff as well to make better choices and love herself. I was very proud of JM personally for how she handled both situations
It’s the truth
@@shirleywiese5230Exactly. And the truth ain’t always pretty.
A real Jamaican hustler.
Sadly, she has allowed that manipulative narcissistic abusive defendant to cause her much unwarranted physical and mental sickness & stress and pain.
She did not allow him. it just mere happened. No reason to bash a lady for making a mistake. Not her fault dude. Shame on you.
@@trekgirl65 I disagree. And so did JM. The Judge even rebuked the plaintiff for allowing /letting the defendant take advantage of her… especially at her age.
She did that to herself. She allowed it.
43? Lady please, she knew what she was doing getting involved with this man.
Stella was willing to pay to get her groove back💃
All that money, and she got that wigggg
That’s why she’s suing 😂😂 she needs her money back for a new wig
😂😂😂😂
I’m talking bout thousands, and she decides to wear and wear out that party city hat
I am so glad she called it as it is. You're evil!
He must've been laying down the pipe for her to be so sprung after 6 months.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Must have been" the Mack"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Doubtful. She wanted him to but he wasn't. He wasn't attracted to her. She even said I'll pay you to be with me.
Damn right
@@peekaboots01girl he got a baby momma in Jamaica that’s 30 years older than him. He is fuckin these women
Not that much pipe laying in the world, not with my money.
I'm 46 and that lady looks at least 65
I’m 44 & was thinking the same thing😂
Naaa .. mid 50s
She looks to be in her early fifties.
When the Judge called her pathetic that was harsh 😒 that was cold the plattif is a attractive woman she deserves so much more and I hope she took a good hard look at herself.
The plantiff looks like she had medical issues since shes sitting and looks older than 43. Sad from a judge to call her pathetic she already looks embarrassed and beating down
I agree, so damn judgemental
She is pathetic
She didn't look embarrassed at all.
Uhhhh no medical issues. She's just lying😳
Damn I don’t think I’ve ever been this on top a people’s court video
She’s not 43, more like 53 and he’s a crook. This is his profession. I know manyyyyyyy like him unfortunately
You nailed it.
Not even 53. My mother is 62 and looks younger !!
53? U mean 65
Oh hell no, I'm 52 and I look nothing like that, she looks like she's in her 60's.
Dang she look like she's in her sixties. She need to leave that young man alone.
She looks to be in her fifties.
My heart would shatter if I had to listen to my mom begging and pleading on a voicemail.
That audio message was funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Frfr 😂
Age can make a difference sometimes but not all the time with true intentions. My husband and I have a 12-year difference, and in November, we will be celebrating 19 years together.
He couldn't even look the judge in the eyes...that how bad he was lying
Her daughter should be embarrassed. I would be. She's clearly not right in the head. Whatever money she has should go to her daughter. She was even paying his family in Jamaica!! She must have a lot of money. She was going to buy him a Range Rover!
That “she was just a thing” makes me ill. He’s the lowest of low. I know he will meet the right woman to do him as dirty as he deserves. Bastard.
Agreed.
Fling, not thing. It's a carribean word for sex partner.
@@bajangenetics400 nuh pawt ah dat ah nuh Caribbean ting. Fling is universally used in English speaking countries. Mi listen tuh everything wah him seh. Ah damn shame an disgrace him deh bring dung pon wi. Wedda him seh fling or thing, him damn disgustin. An di eediat gyal weh cum deh wid him betta mine shi nuh get di same treatment.
@@bajangenetics400 ok? da fuck is the difference?
Yet if the roles were reversed and he was "just a thing" the judge would have been laughing and high fiving the plaintiff. The hypocrisy of it all huh?
I normally don’t judge a book by its cover but the lavender on lavender combo by the defendant is causing me to take pause
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
I almost spit out my food 😂😂😂
Go to Jamaica and you will see colorful clothes combinations are very common. Even for men
43?????? Wow she looks like she’s in her 60’s .
Stella tryna get her Groove back…cause he kinda look like Taye Diggs to me 😂🤦🏾♀️😂
I can’t believe she’s 43, that’s her stage age
Stage? U sound stupid. What stage? She didn't say she was an entertainer. U would've fell for this and it looks like someone u would date😳
That part 😂😂😂
He looks more older than 31 🤔 she seems older than 43 too.
I thought they were the same age 😮
Exactly. People in here dunking on her age.... he is WAY out on age!!!!
The second he talked it was over, she was dumb enough to fall for it. Caviat Emptor 😆😂
She needs to take better care of herself, thats a tuff 43
It’s all that chain smoking
You're absolutely right!
Absolutely 😂😊
It’s all that chasing men 😢😢😮
She is at least 57
He's a GIGOLO 😂 always wanted to use that term
Ok….. I had to come back after I heard the voicemail!!!! Omg!!! The daughter had her head down the whole time from pure embarrassment 😯😯😯😬
The camera zooming in while the judge was reading off the western union statements lmaooooooooo
You can't buy love !!!!!!!! 😂😅
She was buying youth. These old women Gotta know these younger men don't love or want them
Typical yaad mon ....and once them start saying "basically" oh yeah they bout to try scam you for sure 😂
She looks 55 at least
At least 😔
That is a seriously hard lookin 43, = WOW ALL THAT CIGARETTE SMOKING DO YOU BAD 😁
Bless her heart... I thought she was in her late 50s.
The backhanded dehumanization of his "resource" comment was...
I'm sad that these women miss all the red flags
Stella got some of her money back. Her daughter looks old enough to say “mama no. Don’t do this”. I hope she tried to warn her at some point
She can't force her mom to do anything...she looks sad and second hand embarrassed herself.
It’s funny how when they’re together it’s no big deal but once it’s over they sue
Are they both lying about their age? 31?!? Absolutely not
Most of these Jamaican 🇯🇲 men always come and embarrass the lil country...chro man
Awesome video, lovely advice from judge to the plaintiff, lovely expression of the defendants character by the judge.
That’s a TOUGH 43 and a ROUGH 31.
If you have to bail someone out of jail for domestic violence one would think that would be a big red flag and they would stay away.
Oh honey... Those voicemails. 😵
She hatessssss when women let themselves get taken advantage of. Rightfully so
I just knew deep down in my heart she was in her 60's and he was in his 40's and I'm assuming the daughter has to be in her 20's but looks like she's in her 40s🤯🤯
I can't 😂
Your heart is not lying😳
Yo for real!
She did not mean she was buying his time. She was saying if it's the money that keep u in the streets then get the money from me and stay with me. It doesn't mean I'm really going to pay u for ur time like come on the judge was very disrespectful to this woman in my opinion.
No. She was clearly trying to buy him.
The Judge knew what she meant and gave it to her how it really is. The lady was desperate for him and he wasn’t for her and her money was offered in return for him. It’s transactional and sad and she should feel more worth it
She was 43 years old 25 years ago.
It’s a daughters responsibility to tell their mothers about their ugly wigs
Lmaoooo. Most of the time, the mothers don’t listen (yes I’m speaking from experience. I gave up trying to help her out😂😂)
Maaaaaaaaaaaaa why are you packing that wig IKYFL! Look, we deal with it here but we going on tv, wear this 👩🏾🦳
@@kia0802bought my mama new wigs for years just for her to throw that carpet back on 😂😂😂😂😂
Women need to stop believing these men want them when they’re not dating within their life status,whether it’s looks, financially, etc. Take a good look in the mirror and really be honest and ask yourself, “Why does this man REALLY want me?”
Exactly. That's what I've always asked myself AND the Guy whenever a Guy tried to Date me.
The moment they walked into the courtroom, I knew what was up.
Homie had no shame, she's on a cane, no teeth and a terrible wig and he still smashed.
Lol Maybe once to get the money. I don't think he was smashing or she wouldn't have left that voicemail.
Right, heavy on the no shame
Damn, 43 & 31 😢
There's nothing wrong with the age difference in regards to dating BUT they look way older than what they stated.
Yes!!...sheesh
Uhhhhh u think?
Those cigarettes would kill ya! She should be in the commercials.
Deport him immediately!!!!
The ages don’t match the people and the whole thing is a mess. I won’t even get started with the defendant’s getup 😂
I MUST SAY AGAIN...THANK GOD FOR MY MOTHER AND FATHER...AND MY HUSBAND...I KNOW HOW A MAN AND WOMAN TREAT EACHOTHER...MY HUBBY WAS AN AWESOME SPOUSE...I KNOW MY WORTH...THIS WOMAN HAS TO LUV HERSELF 1ST...BLESSINGS...REAL TALK!!!
Them Jamaican men 🥴 they smooth chile 😂😭
The moment he walked into the court, I knew exactly what it was ‼️
Damn the judge didn’t have to call the plaintiff pathetic lol
She needs to hear it.
But she kinda was. Hopefully this will rally her to not be pathetic going forward. No one should pay for sex
I know right, that bothered me and I think the plaintiff felt that.
That was tough to hear. But it may be just what she needed to hear to turn things around.
It's true though 😢
I seen this episode once and have been looking for it ever since 😆
6:10 She went right on the defense before hearing what was on the recording. That's telling me she knew she was screwed!
Yet the recording seemed to work in her favor not his when it literally proves she was giving him money to be with her.
@@peekaboots01 I don’t think that would work in any other courtroom. Gifts are gifts and you don’t get that back when it’s over.
Men need to treat women better then this! So many episodes like this, especially accepting money from mothers with young children to feed. Mother is foolish for offering it and male is cold-blooded for taking it.
Stella got her groove back gone wrong 🤣🤦🏽♀️
Jesus…… that voice mail made me feel bad!
Looking 4 love in all the wrong places 🤦🏾♀️ 😢
It’s how smooth the judge be walking off for me…