Lola raised Lexi amazingly. For a little girl to have that much empathy, insight and just a maturity about it is amazing. There’s not many kids that would be able to forgive their dad like that, nor have better intellect than him too lol
@@robertoibarra8992 yeah, Ben has very much been hardened by his experiences, and I will admit he does have empathy I guess I was more so trying to say he was being too stubborn and selfish by not listening to his family when they tried to warn him about Lola’s timeline and didn’t focus on what Lola would’ve wanted. Whereas Lexi knew there wasn’t a chance and spent that time with her mum and being there for jay when he needed it despite literally being a child.
I'm glad someone got Lexi and Ben to hug. Sometimes it takes someone that's not family to get through to someone even if there little or stubborn like Ben and Lexi
What a lot of people don’t know is Max Bowden asked not to be written into Lola’s final episode as he lost his best friend to the same tumour and it would have been hard for him to film those scenes with that in his mind.
George is a miracle worker! I love how got through to Lexi about being mad at Ben and missing Lola @1:05. And while I love Ben’s apology and Max Bowden’s acting @1:20, I find it hard to believe he’s gonna keep his promise. Jay’s probably gonna have to be the one make sure poor, little Lex can carry on with her life, bless her. I feel awful for her. 😢😢😢💔
I believe he’s up to something but playing it off for a while, I reckon he’s the reason someone’s killed at Christmas. Playing mr innocent and hero right now to gain people’s respect but will eventually show his true colours. Clever man
Lexi needs her dad more than ever now her mummy is gone. Ben's the only surviving parent Lexi has now. Plus Ben has his mum Kathy Beale and his dad Phil Mitchell plus his husband Callum who's Lexi's other dad. Plus Lexi has not only her daddy but her pops Billy too, cousins Will and Janet Mitchell plus Honey Mitchell too. Lexi surrounded by alot who love her and care about her. But it's her daddy Ben she will need more than stepdad Jay Brown. Jay's only Lexi's stepdad and hasn't legally adopted Lexi yet and I don't think Jay will adopt Lexi now. Because don't forget Ben is Lexi's dad not Jay. And another thing Lexi has Beale,Pearce and Mitchell blood flowing through her veins and Beale, Pearce and Mitchell is in Lexi's DNA. Jay's not even related to the Mitchells. Actually he's not legally a Mitchell. Phil took Jay on after Jay's own father died.
Personne n'est parfait, Ben est parti en pensant aider sa fille, il est est là maintenant et il fait tout son possible pour soutenir sa fille. George a été de grand soutien, parce que dans les yeux d'un enfant vous avez tort ou raison.
@@Bruced82 I don’t have any issue w him helping Ben. I still don’t think he should have been used in such a HUGE scene like this w Lexi and Ben right after Lola died. It would have made more sense for it to be Bernie herself… he could have helped ben about something similar weeks from now instead! 😂
@@mechellemybell1000 Thought it was a poignant little scene that worked well, since George had experience in the matter, and easily defused the situation.
This guy made his own decision, a coward's decision, run away. In the end, this guy didn't do what he could do well: 1. Being a "brother" to Jay and helping him. He didn't want to because of his jealousy. 2. Being a father to Lexi. He didn't even care what Lexi thought when he left. 3. Being there for Lola. He ran away, like a coward, like he always does. This guy is useless, and even treatment can help him. He turned out cowardly, useless and a nuisance. Up to this point, I don't care about this guy anymore. Let him solve his problems elsewhere. I'm tired of that guy. Post-data: I don't like these new Knights poeple, even if they shared the same last name as me, but in Spanish.
Maybe educate urself. Ben didn’t run away, he went to America to try and get some medication to allow Lola to live a few more month. Even though he and everyone else knew it wasn’t gonna work he still did it as he is in denial (which is a big part of grief) grief makes people do regretful things, for example, Billy getting easily wound up and ending up behind bars, jay taking his anger out on Lexi etc. Ben was going to America not to just lengthen Lola’s life but to also keep his and Lola’s promise to Lexi that Lola will see her first day of secondary school. Ben had no intentions of letting anyone down, he was just tryna help. Also jay hasn’t made himself the easiest kinda person for Ben to pass support to, it’s like he’s jealous of Ben being Lexis dad and constantly pushing his buttons to wound him up. Jays lovely to Lexi but not Ben & Callum, he needs to grow up and learn how to deal with his late wife’s baby daddy otherwise this is all gonna reach Lexi and emotionally effect her
@@dancerztalentz2587 Really? At the last moment he went to USA. Did this guy ask Lola and Lexi about his trip? This guy never cares what others feel, he is always first, second and third. Therefore, he always blames others. That's why he always insults other, because he doesn't care. Was it the first time he did this? No, it's always him getting in the way, upset and upsetting others. Nobody likes him, he doesn't get along with almost anyone. As always, he comes first, which is why he returned using Lola and Lexi in his revenge against his father in 2019. He doesn't grow up, he doesn't learn, he doesn't want to see all the wrong he does. There are many years of the same. Patience is limited. Let him solve his problems elsewhere. Like everyone told him, that guy is no good for noone. In the end, his daughter will just go off with Jay and she'll leave him, because someone's patience has limits.
@@carloscaballerobravo3823 Ben hasn’t blamed anyone for the actions he made about going on the trip which wasnt even for him. It was for his child and the mother to keep his promise and be loyal. He didn’t wanna let his daughter down. Love and grief don’t work well together, Ben fucked up yes but we all do especially when we’re coming to terms with death. Ur the kinda person to only see the bad in people and their mistakes, hope u recover
@@dancerztalentz2587 All I said was true. He made a choice, he's gonna live with it, as the rest of all his failure choices. End off. At this point, I couldn't care less. He will be an annoying character, like another one
@@dancerztalentz2587 maybe educate YOURself. Ben did what Ben does best....doesn't listen and runs off and does his own thing....he may have had good intentions but he should have done it months ago when it still might have been treatable. Does he really think, in Lola's condition, that she would be up for a plane trip to America and then undergo testing, then treatment??? Come on, now. Educate yourself.
@@mechellemybell1000he’s stuffing himself with food and then deliberately throwing it back up actually. Try actually watching it like the other person obviously watches it.
@@Hannah-pv7bt maybe they should give him happier storylines. And maybe give callum a storyline rather than being just bens husband. He deserves better.
Lola raised Lexi amazingly. For a little girl to have that much empathy, insight and just a maturity about it is amazing. There’s not many kids that would be able to forgive their dad like that, nor have better intellect than him too lol
Ben had much empathy when he arrived to walford and after... well everybody knows the story
@@robertoibarra8992 yeah, Ben has very much been hardened by his experiences, and I will admit he does have empathy I guess I was more so trying to say he was being too stubborn and selfish by not listening to his family when they tried to warn him about Lola’s timeline and didn’t focus on what Lola would’ve wanted. Whereas Lexi knew there wasn’t a chance and spent that time with her mum and being there for jay when he needed it despite literally being a child.
@@charlottemartin4715 that’s exactly how it was. People fail to see it.
Loved how George got though to lexi about her dad she needed that hug
I really like this guy. If he can get through to even ben, hes a good one. I hope he gives nish a beating.
Agreed here
I'm glad someone got Lexi and Ben to hug. Sometimes it takes someone that's not family to get through to someone even if there little or stubborn like Ben and Lexi
the hug sent me over the edge 😭
The hug 😭 I was in tears dude I really hope Ben is going to be a good dad always to Lexi now she needs people around her who love her unconditionally
I love this scene so much it really made my heart bang against my chest when Ben would stop at nothing to get his daughter back. ❤
So small, but so grown up inside! This wonderful duo keeps getting better and better! Take care of each other's dearest!🥺💔
I love how Ben said "Thank you" ❤
That hug 🥺
I hope they make that new guy an actual genuine likeable character. They always start that way then turn out to be married, a murderer or abusive
What a lot of people don’t know is Max Bowden asked not to be written into Lola’s final episode as he lost his best friend to the same tumour and it would have been hard for him to film those scenes with that in his mind.
Really? Makes sense.
Love this father and daughter duo so much I know Ben loves lex but i hope he keeps his promise up x
George is a miracle worker! I love how got through to Lexi about being mad at Ben and missing Lola @1:05. And while I love Ben’s apology and Max Bowden’s acting @1:20, I find it hard to believe he’s gonna keep his promise. Jay’s probably gonna have to be the one make sure poor, little Lex can carry on with her life, bless her. I feel awful for her. 😢😢😢💔
The plodical plonker returns
Jay about to spiral over Lola's death and we about to enter a custody arc, calling it now.
0:06 and 0:08 Loved George defending Bernie! He’s such a gentleman.
Don't make promises you aren't able to keep, Ben.
This is Ben's last chance with Lexi, he better not fuck this up.
These feelings are with the child🥺💔
If I had a nickel for every time Ben promises he won't let Lexi down......
I cried so much .. love
Ben thanking someone loving Elaines new boyfriend.
Thank you for uploading, I'm abroad so missed this week's episodes, relying on these YT clips to keep me in the loop! How emotional was this 😭
You’re most welcome 🤍😊
I can’t make up my mind what George will be like as a character
I believe he’s up to something but playing it off for a while, I reckon he’s the reason someone’s killed at Christmas. Playing mr innocent and hero right now to gain people’s respect but will eventually show his true colours. Clever man
I’m hoping he’s not a twist villain, but this is EastEnders we’re talking about. 🙄
Lexi sorry line for a child hear age what a fantastic little girl Ben and Jay bless tham all so said the sorry line xxxxx xxxxx
Reminds me about when Ben was young and his mum 'died' he didn't have his dad he was away.
I hope this will change Ben for the better
It won't, it will probably make Ben even more unlikable because he never learns.
@@paulyb7267 Adoiii benci lah!!
@@YusmazyMdYusup tk payah lah reply dalam bahasa bro XD
He better get his shit together, because I think Lexi is done with giving him chances.
“I will never ever let you down again” a year later goes to prison
I bet you when Lexie walked in. And and looked at Ben Lola said give him a hug
Deffo! She would want them all to be around each other more than ever right now 🥺
@@bethgoode1227 just subscribed to your RUclips channel
Lola wasn’t even there cos she died 🙄
@@Guitar-qv6guthey meant that’s what Lola would say if she was there
@@alanafraser6902 that’s not what’s in the comment lol
George Knight gives Ben same advice how be single dad parent to Lexi. And Lexi forgive her father Ben and he say think-you.
Lexi! 👏🏽
That hug was beautiful.
But, when Ben promised Lexi he won’t let her down again, I hate to admit it, but a part of me doubts that.
No your right. Ben will probably self destruct and let her down, be Jay shaping her
Ben will always let Lexi down it is what he does.
I think i'm gonna like this guy,
Lexi needs her dad more than ever now her mummy is gone. Ben's the only surviving parent Lexi has now. Plus Ben has his mum Kathy Beale and his dad Phil Mitchell plus his husband Callum who's Lexi's other dad. Plus Lexi has not only her daddy but her pops Billy too, cousins Will and Janet Mitchell plus Honey Mitchell too. Lexi surrounded by alot who love her and care about her. But it's her daddy Ben she will need more than stepdad Jay Brown. Jay's only Lexi's stepdad and hasn't legally adopted Lexi yet and I don't think Jay will adopt Lexi now. Because don't forget Ben is Lexi's dad not Jay. And another thing Lexi has Beale,Pearce and Mitchell blood flowing through her veins and Beale, Pearce and Mitchell is in Lexi's DNA. Jay's not even related to the Mitchells. Actually he's not legally a Mitchell. Phil took Jay on after Jay's own father died.
There’s no Beale blood in her and you say Callum is her other dad but Jay isn’t important, Jay raised her more than Ben and Callum put together
I think Lexi is way better off without Ben he's too violent and self centred
They did adopt Jay, plus it would make him her uncle
@@abbieroseholden4174 he’s good, loving dad. Yes he’s messed up but so has every parent. Neither he or Lexi deserve to lose each other
@@emmajanewatts4388 agree 100%
I still can’t believe we won’t see Lola’s character again 😢
Aw. Lexi. Amazingly 😊
So going to miss this father and daughter hug When Ben leaves
Personne n'est parfait, Ben est parti en pensant aider sa fille, il est est là maintenant et il fait tout son possible pour soutenir sa fille. George a été de grand soutien, parce que dans les yeux d'un enfant vous avez tort ou raison.
He knew at the start that Lola would die. He refused to accept it.
😢😢😢 💔 😭
I love lexis outfit
💔💔💔
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Ballum part 5/ Ben Arrives home and Discovers Lola's Died
Ben was lying here. He spent all the money in America
This guy seems nice I think he’s a bit dodgy
I agree and let's face it, Elaine is definitely dodgy.....I don't trust her one bit.
Lola has been here for 2011
What?
Eastenders shouldnt have killed lola off she was great and interesting for the soap.....SHAME
Do not believe him Lexi!
Now why did they need to include this new dude into this? Lol
A neutral party interfering happens all the time on the show, seems more like you dislike him helping Ben.
@@Bruced82 I don’t have any issue w him helping Ben. I still don’t think he should have been used in such a HUGE scene like this w Lexi and Ben right after Lola died. It would have made more sense for it to be Bernie herself… he could have helped ben about something similar weeks from now instead! 😂
@@mechellemybell1000 Thought it was a poignant little scene that worked well, since George had experience in the matter, and easily defused the situation.
Lexi
This guy made his own decision, a coward's decision, run away. In the end, this guy didn't do what he could do well:
1. Being a "brother" to Jay and helping him. He didn't want to because of his jealousy.
2. Being a father to Lexi. He didn't even care what Lexi thought when he left.
3. Being there for Lola. He ran away, like a coward, like he always does.
This guy is useless, and even treatment can help him. He turned out cowardly, useless and a nuisance. Up to this point, I don't care about this guy anymore. Let him solve his problems elsewhere. I'm tired of that guy.
Post-data: I don't like these new Knights poeple, even if they shared the same last name as me, but in Spanish.
Maybe educate urself. Ben didn’t run away, he went to America to try and get some medication to allow Lola to live a few more month. Even though he and everyone else knew it wasn’t gonna work he still did it as he is in denial (which is a big part of grief) grief makes people do regretful things, for example, Billy getting easily wound up and ending up behind bars, jay taking his anger out on Lexi etc. Ben was going to America not to just lengthen Lola’s life but to also keep his and Lola’s promise to Lexi that Lola will see her first day of secondary school. Ben had no intentions of letting anyone down, he was just tryna help. Also jay hasn’t made himself the easiest kinda person for Ben to pass support to, it’s like he’s jealous of Ben being Lexis dad and constantly pushing his buttons to wound him up. Jays lovely to Lexi but not Ben & Callum, he needs to grow up and learn how to deal with his late wife’s baby daddy otherwise this is all gonna reach Lexi and emotionally effect her
@@dancerztalentz2587 Really? At the last moment he went to USA.
Did this guy ask Lola and Lexi about his trip? This guy never cares what others feel, he is always first, second and third. Therefore, he always blames others. That's why he always insults other, because he doesn't care.
Was it the first time he did this? No, it's always him getting in the way, upset and upsetting others. Nobody likes him, he doesn't get along with almost anyone.
As always, he comes first, which is why he returned using Lola and Lexi in his revenge against his father in 2019. He doesn't grow up, he doesn't learn, he doesn't want to see all the wrong he does.
There are many years of the same. Patience is limited. Let him solve his problems elsewhere. Like everyone told him, that guy is no good for noone. In the end, his daughter will just go off with Jay and she'll leave him, because someone's patience has limits.
@@carloscaballerobravo3823 Ben hasn’t blamed anyone for the actions he made about going on the trip which wasnt even for him. It was for his child and the mother to keep his promise and be loyal. He didn’t wanna let his daughter down. Love and grief don’t work well together, Ben fucked up yes but we all do especially when we’re coming to terms with death. Ur the kinda person to only see the bad in people and their mistakes, hope u recover
@@dancerztalentz2587 All I said was true. He made a choice, he's gonna live with it, as the rest of all his failure choices. End off. At this point, I couldn't care less. He will be an annoying character, like another one
@@dancerztalentz2587 maybe educate YOURself. Ben did what Ben does best....doesn't listen and runs off and does his own thing....he may have had good intentions but he should have done it months ago when it still might have been treatable. Does he really think, in Lola's condition, that she would be up for a plane trip to America and then undergo testing, then treatment??? Come on, now. Educate yourself.
I thought he was ON drugs
He’s starving himself
Nah he has bulimia
@@mechellemybell1000he’s stuffing himself with food and then deliberately throwing it back up actually. Try actually watching it like the other person obviously watches it.
r.i.pe to lora
Ben still selfish
So like 90% of the Square, he's in good company I guess...
How’s he selfish
Maybe he goes around things wrong but he does care about his daughter so much
How is he selfish? By trying to do everything to save Lola?
@@JoeyT1 Ik exactly and he clearly adores his daughter and loves her so much x
Looks like Ben going to be stropping and moping around for months on end, like usual. He is becoming so annoying. Rinse recycle and repeat.
Oh yeah cos it’s not normal to miserable after someone who meant a lot to u died is it🤦♀️
@@dancerztalentz2587 he is always miserable and moaning or going off at someone . That’s my point. Such an angry little character. So annoying.
But also kinda normal, the rape messed him up
@@Hannah-pv7bt maybe they should give him happier storylines. And maybe give callum a storyline rather than being just bens husband. He deserves better.
@@dancerztalentz2587he buggered off just before actually 🙄
He wasn’t there when Lexi needed him.