the solution is: don't have children unless you are married - and to take marriage as an obligation not a place for entertainment. There's no such thing as toxic masculinity/hyper masculinity - people regardless of gender can be abusive with the power they hold. They ALL have abused their power. The guys on the panel are exactly the type who have many kids they are not looking after - their guilt conscience forces them to come to the public and bash fellow men.
There’s a lack of accountability in this country. You do your part. She does hers. Problem solved. The issue is most want to pick and choose their role. When asked to contribute they become abusive in all sorts of ways. Just wrap a condom and avoid all nuisances. In fact taking preventative pills should be mandatory for boys from age 15+
Truth is woman push us to take a step back. In the weekend you're supposed to see your kid, she goes out with her. Today it's her birthday, she hang up on me, what's stopping me from sending my money, cancel medical aid and savings for my daughter and know that I am useless? This shit hurts.
@@buntun3670 this us why we have this problem. Most men like yourself lack accountability. A woman does not fall pregnant by themselves, you know that right? If you do not want a child, abstain from sex or get a vasectomy. You're so lame for this statement!
Why does the ANC handout money to young women, encouraging them to have children out of wedlock??? They do it in the West too, simply because they want to destroy the FAMILY. You should be VERY careful not to follow what is going on in the West It is designed deliberately to destroy men and family - they do not want MEN to be MEN Wake up! . They want men to become weaklings. homosexuals, fools and pathetic specimens whom they intend to destroy. Go to henrymakow.com to read about how they are deliberately destroying the FAMILY by taking away the right of MEN to be FATHERS, Fe-manism is THE most destructive force or movement on Earth,it is utterly unnatural. Itis certainly unnatural for Black families, bur actually for all families. Look at what has happened to Western women! The women do not even WANT to HAVE CHILDREN.
@@ballinv2452 as someone who's speaking from experience. Money is required to raise children. Men must "men up" and work like the rest of us. Expecially because we have so many unemployed/unemployable men as well. Men must be willing to take any job to provide food. I know women with degrees/diplomas who are housekeepers today, but no men have become so complaisant that they'd never be caught dead doing garden work/ working at mcdonalds whilst holding a degree or master's. Men are full of excuses it's embarrassing....
+motlatso ramoshaba That doesn't make sense. in general men are bread winner. men can take care of their own without any help from a women. so i suggest women man up. if they want to be treated equal they have to do the same that men do. you argument has already been covered in my previous reply. so i don't know the reasoning in saying the same thing twice and adding fictitious facts with it. you might be a women because they have trouble sticking to the story and often wonder of into dream land.
the solution is: don't have children unless you are married - and to take marriage as an obligation not a place for entertainment. There's no such thing as toxic masculinity/hyper masculinity - people regardless of gender can be abusive with the power they hold. They ALL have abused their power.
The guys on the panel are exactly the type who have many kids they are not looking after - their guilt conscience forces them to come to the public and bash fellow men.
There’s a lack of accountability in this country. You do your part. She does hers. Problem solved. The issue is most want to pick and choose their role. When asked to contribute they become abusive in all sorts of ways. Just wrap a condom and avoid all nuisances. In fact taking preventative pills should be mandatory for boys from age 15+
Truth is woman push us to take a step back. In the weekend you're supposed to see your kid, she goes out with her. Today it's her birthday, she hang up on me, what's stopping me from sending my money, cancel medical aid and savings for my daughter and know that I am useless? This shit hurts.
Mpumelelo Mda at least u want to do something for your child some r just ignorant even though we allow them to be part of their kids's lives
Black men in SA we need to really dedicate and put effort into relationships with our women and kids
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why do people make babies if they know they cannot afford to mantain them
The people who have birth control, emergency pill and in the most extreme cases abortion - when a child is born, a woman decided it...
@@buntun3670
There’s a pill for men now, what’s the next excuse now.
@@buntun3670 this us why we have this problem. Most men like yourself lack accountability. A woman does not fall pregnant by themselves, you know that right? If you do not want a child, abstain from sex or get a vasectomy. You're so lame for this statement!
Absent or excluded? Very few fathers have the financial resources to get access to their children but we're 'absent'
Money is needed to raise children. Why is it that this social preassure has to fall upon the mother....
fathers do not ask compensation from mothers. equality. if you want to denies access to the child than you should be denied money also.
Why does the ANC handout money to young women, encouraging them to have children out of wedlock??? They do it in the West too, simply because they want to destroy the FAMILY.
You should be VERY careful not to follow what is going on in the West It is designed deliberately to destroy men and family - they do not want MEN to be MEN Wake up! . They want men to become weaklings. homosexuals, fools and pathetic specimens whom they intend to destroy.
Go to henrymakow.com to read about how they are deliberately destroying the FAMILY by taking away the right of MEN to be FATHERS,
Fe-manism is THE most destructive force or movement on Earth,it is utterly unnatural. Itis certainly unnatural for Black families, bur actually for all families.
Look at what has happened to Western women! The women do not even WANT to HAVE CHILDREN.
@@ballinv2452 as someone who's speaking from experience. Money is required to raise children. Men must "men up" and work like the rest of us. Expecially because we have so many unemployed/unemployable men as well. Men must be willing to take any job to provide food. I know women with degrees/diplomas who are housekeepers today, but no men have become so complaisant that they'd never be caught dead doing garden work/ working at mcdonalds whilst holding a degree or master's. Men are full of excuses it's embarrassing....
+motlatso ramoshaba That doesn't make sense. in general men are bread winner. men can take care of their own without any help from a women. so i suggest women man up. if they want to be treated equal they have to do the same that men do. you argument has already been covered in my previous reply. so i don't know the reasoning in saying the same thing twice and adding fictitious facts with it. you might be a women because they have trouble sticking to the story and often wonder of into dream land.
Black men in SA we need to really dedicate and put effort into relationships with our women and kids
ruclips.net/video/jSSMyFMmVcY/видео.html
This is stupid how is being masculine toxic... these folks need Jordan Peterson
Black men in SA we need to really dedicate and put effort into relationships with our women and kids
ruclips.net/video/jSSMyFMmVcY/видео.html
Any WOMAN can make a baby but it takes a real WOMAN to be a MOTHER
Real men don't run away from their shared responsibility of being a parent.