Deepti this is your color! suits you sooo well! also on long distance relationships - i was always against them and thought it couldnt work. but then i realized that i) it didnt work because i didnt want to make it work with that person. it wouldnt have worked if they were in the same city and ii) it's a unique experience that definitely relies on (and builds) a lot of trust, communication, and transparency. love the pod! edit: create stickers that say "oooh i have a lot of thoughts on that" hahaha
Natalie, I am so here for you taking a break and really giving it your best go. Women lock down our options way too quickly and get so invested into relationships. I hope you got the answers you needed for the time being, and that if you need to step away from this relationship, you will do so.
Deepti never fails to give me great advice. I’m really struggling with my personal ‘timeline’ at the moment but need to realise everything will happen when it’s supposed to happen
@@leslievillanstyle lmao! IN MY OPINION I just thought their relationship was forced & fake since it seemed like all she does it post abt how much she’s obsessed w him lol
Omg I didn't know Giannina was pregnant too awww 🥺❤️ Vanessa is LIVING for this right now! Motherhood is hard but it has really beautiful moments too 😍
If you're counting the international Love Is Blinds, this is technically the 3rd Love Is Blind baby! Both of the married couples from LIB Japan have babies. But super happy for Bliss and Zack (and Vanessa lol)
I totally agree with you about the girl that asked for advice about the boyfriend and B situation. Her boyfriends #1 priority should be her. I get helping a friend but the way she describes it sounds like the friend is just taking advantage of B at this point. Boyfriend also needs to think through what does B bring to the table? Doesn’t sound like much. So is that worth ruining your relationship over? I’d have a serious discussion with him about it because 7 months is too long. I think you need to get to the conclusion before the lease is up because.. my worry for her is.. she gets out of her lease (which she won’t be able to get back from the sounds of it) and her boyfriend will still not confront B.. she’ll move in and B will still be around. Inevitably living with B like she doesn’t want to. Unfortunately if he won’t kick him out by June (before you move in) and doesn’t tell him before January I would not get rid of my lease. You will end up unhappy with the struggle of finding new housing. Boyfriend should absolutely make that sacrifice for you because I understand friendship but your partner is the person you should ALWAYS be there for. Also if he won’t do this he may not end up being a good partner in the long run. DO NOT move in if he’s not gone. I’ve seen it happen too many times people get stuck with a roommate they don’t want. I’d assume if moving in together y’all would share bills? If so you need to set the boundary that you will not be paying for B to live there which is 100% fair. Unfortunately, this would break the relationship for me if he won’t stand up for you and be on your side. What your asking for doesn’t sound absurd. Talk it through though extensively before deciding anything and this needs to be resolved before your lease ends. LOTS OF LOVE 🫶 Another great podcast episode.
Oh to add - if his friend is going to be mad at him asking him to move out then he’s not a real friend. If he’s willing to sacrifice your relationship for a friend that doesn’t care about him.. thats wrong. His friend should be so happy for him that he wants to take the next step in life and should do his job as an adult to get his own place/life.
Oh my gosh I had never thought about that. Like on one end - if they open with the fact they saw you it’s like 👀 and then if they don’t tell you they know you it’s also like 👀 That’s a tough one Natalie!
i think the difference in attachment style is that millennial women tend to have the illusion of choice gen x women know that choice is fleeting you only think you have a plethora of choices in reality you don't as you age you will see this
Honestly we all want what we don’t have I am a mom and sometimes I am jealous of my friends with no kids I am married to their dad we are happy but sometimes you just see the freedom they have
It's crazy that millennials think it's weird to stay in contact with someone after you decide you are not a romantic match,,,,, it's not weird it's actually very human just because it's not a romantic match it can mean you connect on whole other levels and its self limiting to cut yourself off from that connection why do people staying in contact with a friend is weird it's not what is weird is to just cut contact when you do have a connection but you are so devoid of emotion that you are unable or unwilling to compartmentalize and be a grown adult about levels of relationship millennials are way more avoidant than later GEN X I like the way GEN X did it better
I always wondered why Natalie only dates white man. South Korean people really are obsessed with white man. Deepti is brown woman and dates everyone including her own. Natalie why? ❤
Maybe white men are her type? Being attracted to white people isn't inherently racist, as it seems you're implying. As well, not being attracted to one specific race does not make you racist. Let people make their own life choices without having to justify and explain away every little thing.
Deepti looks so beautiful today. If she didn't already know then well sage green looks great on her.
Deepti your hair looks great styled like this! ❤
Deepti this is your color! suits you sooo well! also on long distance relationships - i was always against them and thought it couldnt work. but then i realized that i) it didnt work because i didnt want to make it work with that person. it wouldnt have worked if they were in the same city and ii) it's a unique experience that definitely relies on (and builds) a lot of trust, communication, and transparency. love the pod!
edit: create stickers that say "oooh i have a lot of thoughts on that" hahaha
Did a year of long distance with my now husband. Best decision ever !
Natalie, I am so here for you taking a break and really giving it your best go. Women lock down our options way too quickly and get so invested into relationships. I hope you got the answers you needed for the time being, and that if you need to step away from this relationship, you will do so.
Deepti your hair looks so beautiful. loving the style and the color too, suits you so well!
i LOVE deepti’s laughs 😭😭😭 it’s so wholesome
Deepti never fails to give me great advice. I’m really struggling with my personal ‘timeline’ at the moment but need to realise everything will happen when it’s supposed to happen
Natalie was referring to "The creepy thin Man" from Charlie's Angels 😂😂
Nothing wrong with watching love is blind as a single man 😅
Thank God you posted. The break was too long
Ok deepti! The hair looks good 🔥
I had noooo idea bliss was pregnant!! I literally unfollowed her the day before the announcement 🤣🤣 I’m so happy for her
Me being nosy wants to know why you unfollowed her 😂
We’re waitingggggggg👀☕️
@@leslievillanstyle lmao! IN MY OPINION I just thought their relationship was forced & fake since it seemed like all she does it post abt how much she’s obsessed w him lol
Omg I didn't know Giannina was pregnant too awww 🥺❤️ Vanessa is LIVING for this right now! Motherhood is hard but it has really beautiful moments too 😍
So is Shaina from season 1 too! And Jessica from season 1 just had a baby too so best believe Vanessa is floating on cloud 9
@@Freee479 yes thank you for reminding me! Love this for them too 😍
@@Freee479 yes thank you for reminding me! Love this for them too 😍
If you're counting the international Love Is Blinds, this is technically the 3rd Love Is Blind baby! Both of the married couples from LIB Japan have babies. But super happy for Bliss and Zack (and Vanessa lol)
Nanda Terra from LIB Brazil also had a baby with one of her castmates! Won't say who so as not to give you spoilers 👀
Deepti your vulnerability is beautiful♥️👏
Missed you guys! You guys are the best 😂
I honestly feel like I can be friends with ya'll, this ep was hilarious
I totally agree with you about the girl that asked for advice about the boyfriend and B situation.
Her boyfriends #1 priority should be her. I get helping a friend but the way she describes it sounds like the friend is just taking advantage of B at this point. Boyfriend also needs to think through what does B bring to the table? Doesn’t sound like much. So is that worth ruining your relationship over? I’d have a serious discussion with him about it because 7 months is too long. I think you need to get to the conclusion before the lease is up because.. my worry for her is.. she gets out of her lease (which she won’t be able to get back from the sounds of it) and her boyfriend will still not confront B.. she’ll move in and B will still be around. Inevitably living with B like she doesn’t want to. Unfortunately if he won’t kick him out by June (before you move in) and doesn’t tell him before January I would not get rid of my lease. You will end up unhappy with the struggle of finding new housing. Boyfriend should absolutely make that sacrifice for you because I understand friendship but your partner is the person you should ALWAYS be there for. Also if he won’t do this he may not end up being a good partner in the long run. DO NOT move in if he’s not gone. I’ve seen it happen too many times people get stuck with a roommate they don’t want.
I’d assume if moving in together y’all would share bills? If so you need to set the boundary that you will not be paying for B to live there which is 100% fair.
Unfortunately, this would break the relationship for me if he won’t stand up for you and be on your side. What your asking for doesn’t sound absurd. Talk it through though extensively before deciding anything and this needs to be resolved before your lease ends.
LOTS OF LOVE 🫶
Another great podcast episode.
Oh to add - if his friend is going to be mad at him asking him to move out then he’s not a real friend. If he’s willing to sacrifice your relationship for a friend that doesn’t care about him.. thats wrong. His friend should be so happy for him that he wants to take the next step in life and should do his job as an adult to get his own place/life.
Oh my gosh I had never thought about that. Like on one end - if they open with the fact they saw you it’s like 👀 and then if they don’t tell you they know you it’s also like 👀
That’s a tough one Natalie!
I have missed you all! ❤
Merch Idea "I choose me 💋"😊
Deepti, you look radiant, babe!
Lmao not the hair sniffer!!!!! 😂😂😂
If you guys live in the same building how come you don’t film in the same room ?
Natalie, you still look amazing!!!
Omg i love you guys sm
i think the difference in attachment style is that millennial women tend to have the illusion of choice gen x women know that choice is fleeting you only think you have a plethora of choices in reality you don't as you age you will see this
Omg I feel the same way Deepti! I wanted to be a mother forever. I told myself if I don’t have a partner by 30 I would have a baby all by myself.
Honestly we all want what we don’t have I am a mom and sometimes I am jealous of my friends with no kids I am married to their dad we are happy but sometimes you just see the freedom they have
googling sniff hair charlies angels immediately Natalie said it :DD
47:19 😂😂😂 I'm DEAD
Y’all make me laugh 😂 😂. ❤️
My son(23) is single 😉..... LIB is my secret 50yr old pleasure love u 2....so happy for Bliss
side parts crew ✊
Did you freeze your eggs or you didn’t? I would like to know your experiences if you did
It's crazy that millennials think it's weird to stay in contact with someone after you decide you are not a romantic match,,,,, it's not weird it's actually very human just because it's not a romantic match it can mean you connect on whole other levels and its self limiting to cut yourself off from that connection why do people staying in contact with a friend is weird it's not what is weird is to just cut contact when you do have a connection but you are so devoid of emotion that you are unable or unwilling to compartmentalize and be a grown adult about levels of relationship millennials are way more avoidant than later GEN X I like the way GEN X did it better
You forgot to bleep out his name a couple times
I always wondered why Natalie only dates white man. South Korean people really are obsessed with white man. Deepti is brown woman and dates everyone including her own. Natalie why? ❤
Maybe white men are her type? Being attracted to white people isn't inherently racist, as it seems you're implying. As well, not being attracted to one specific race does not make you racist. Let people make their own life choices without having to justify and explain away every little thing.
She can do whatever she wants. I’m sure she is not only focused on white men.
@@Godiswith_HER of course she can do what she wants 😂