The couple where the girl cheated, because partner was not giving her what she needed physically....I think this would have been a good opportunity to discuss open relationships, and how that could have been an option for this couple. For her to explore physical intimacy outside of the relationship openly with her partner knowing. Deepti mentioned her partner could have had low self confidence, but he could also just be asexual, and not require physical intimacy. Or maybe has other sexual preferences that he hasn't explored. I love your podcast, This was such a great discussion!!
Yeah… no, I’m with Natalie. There is zero excuse for cheating. If that’s the direction you go in for whatever reason, even relational dissatisfaction or whatever, you’re shitty.
I believe when I enter a relationship I am very up front with my zero tolerance. No cheaters, no smokers etc. This sets up my expectations and boundaries.
Well I’m glad your life is so black and white and it’s just so easy for you to do this. It’s not always even possible to just leave. Life is complicated sometimes and things happen.
@@philmccracken2534 It’s not like the options are leave OR cheat. You are responsible for yourself. Always. If you feel you can’t leave for some reason, regardless of what else is going on there is no excuse to cheat.
Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex. It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.
Genuinely curious, would you take the same stand for a man who cheated. Like for example New York Boy. No judgement, just very interested in your opinion
@@MartinaFerra Gender doesn’t make a difference here. If the hypothetical guy in this situation is in therapy and he’s not cheating on his current partner, he deserves grace. I don’t think people should just become written off from having any future romantic relationships ever because of infidelity
@@TheJadedJamesI phrased my question incorrectly, I apologize. What I meant was would you accept New York Boy going on about his dating life with a new partner knowing the details Natalie provided about him in the video. Regarding your general point I agree that people should be able to get second chances
Wholeheartedly agree with Natalie...cheating shows a lack of integrity, self-control, shows insecurity and smallness and low emotional intelligence. While the act of cheating brings the analysis up to the forefront, my decision would primarily be based on that person's need for growth to mature and discover themselves. It's not a personality/characteristic I would be attracted to, which in turn I'd not be interested. I like STRONG people, the ones that do the HARD work, not ones that can't have just one cookie but binge over the whole jar until they get fat and sick and alone.
Here’s what I don’t get from Deepti, on one hand you’re saying you reconsidered because you saw him as your husband and on the other hand you say you were unsure about him after multiple years. You cannot have both. Is always either one or another. my perspective comes because I lived through something similar were I was the person someone else was unsure of. Love the podcast!
I would love for you guys to do an episode on distorted thinking. For the pod bestie who has someone who cheated on an ex with 7 guys, I think it comes down to figuring out what is reality. They don't have to discount the positive but it would benefit them to figure out what is reality and what is the potential to happen. How they in his relationship is real, but there's also a real past and truth to the pattern. They can love this person but also go forward knowing they have a higher potential of having poor coping mechanisms.
The girl who cheated 7 times, I'm pretty sure she was never in a real relationship with any of the guys. She was just sleeping around and not commiting. Maybe there was some sort of miscommunication.
I NEED you and Sam from “Locked on Cubs” to meet! He is more pessimistic like Natalie and I think Deepti and him would vibe so much! Ugh I just want y’all to meet in the bleachers and have your backward hat love story!
Natalie has no idea what she is talking about! Good god! Who are you to pass judgement about people that you don’t even know, SHUT UP PLEASE!!! Deepti is soo right, so empatic and so in the right mindset, I salute you girl❤️
Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex. It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.
“Don’t cheat - just break off the relationship!” 💯
Thank goodness Natalie is honest. Deepti is trying to placate the listeners .
“Leave my community alone!” 😂
I love Natalie's dry response to Deepti's singing and her Cubs jacket 😂 Deepti is so cute 🥰
Deepti is 5’2”! She looks 5’8” to me. Even when I watched her season, I thought she was taller
What's wrong with 5,2 in comparison to 5,8 for a female 😂
I love Natalie's personality LOL "Here we go, with the backwards hat" hahahahaha
Beards are also a guys’ makeup 🤣
True that!!
I grew up like Deepti and understand 100% of not bringing anyone around unless you’re going to marry them. I finally introduced someone at 31
Love your podcast and simply enjoy your conversation simply just flows. Thank you so much
The couple where the girl cheated, because partner was not giving her what she needed physically....I think this would have been a good opportunity to discuss open relationships, and how that could have been an option for this couple. For her to explore physical intimacy outside of the relationship openly with her partner knowing. Deepti mentioned her partner could have had low self confidence, but he could also just be asexual, and not require physical intimacy. Or maybe has other sexual preferences that he hasn't explored. I love your podcast, This was such a great discussion!!
Yeah… no, I’m with Natalie. There is zero excuse for cheating. If that’s the direction you go in for whatever reason, even relational dissatisfaction or whatever, you’re shitty.
I agree. It’s an excuse to not do the hard thing and leave.
I believe when I enter a relationship I am very up front with my zero tolerance. No cheaters, no smokers etc. This sets up my expectations and boundaries.
Well I’m glad your life is so black and white and it’s just so easy for you to do this. It’s not always even possible to just leave. Life is complicated sometimes and things happen.
@@philmccracken2534 It’s not like the options are leave OR cheat. You are responsible for yourself. Always. If you feel you can’t leave for some reason, regardless of what else is going on there is no excuse to cheat.
@@racheljane_ You’re very naive.
Look forward to listening every week!
I love Deepti's laugh , she has amazing sense of humour ❤
Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex.
It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.
Genuinely curious, would you take the same stand for a man who cheated. Like for example New York Boy. No judgement, just very interested in your opinion
@@MartinaFerra Gender doesn’t make a difference here. If the hypothetical guy in this situation is in therapy and he’s not cheating on his current partner, he deserves grace. I don’t think people should just become written off from having any future romantic relationships ever because of infidelity
@@TheJadedJamesI phrased my question incorrectly, I apologize. What I meant was would you accept New York Boy going on about his dating life with a new partner knowing the details Natalie provided about him in the video. Regarding your general point I agree that people should be able to get second chances
singer/music teacher here! it’s totally possible to learn how to sing :) hehe
love your podcast ❤❤
Wholeheartedly agree with Natalie...cheating shows a lack of integrity, self-control, shows insecurity and smallness and low emotional intelligence. While the act of cheating brings the analysis up to the forefront, my decision would primarily be based on that person's need for growth to mature and discover themselves. It's not a personality/characteristic I would be attracted to, which in turn I'd not be interested. I like STRONG people, the ones that do the HARD work, not ones that can't have just one cookie but binge over the whole jar until they get fat and sick and alone.
Hey, you have a typo in the description, it says "Next York Boy", not "New York Boy" :)
I read it as onto the next :)
Thank you! We updated it :)
Omgg not the babies on season 30😂😂
More like season 70 with how many they are doing🤣🤣
Love this podcast so much I always hurry to listen u guys😅💕 my personal girl talk time!!
It doesn’t matter what everybody thinks. This is why couples should defined what is considered cheating for the each other. Set boundaries.
Wow coffee 5.99 in Chicago I thought things in Texas were cheaper my coffee is like 9.88 😮
Love you girls!! Are you going to interview anyone from the last season on your show?
Listening from Aussie land love you both 🌺🌺🌺
Y’all are so funny🤣. I can’t bring myself to pay for apps either!!!
A mans makeup is our beard lmao. I'll never let a woman see me without my beard 😩
Here’s what I don’t get from Deepti, on one hand you’re saying you reconsidered because you saw him as your husband and on the other hand you say you were unsure about him after multiple years. You cannot have both. Is always either one or another. my perspective comes because I lived through something similar were I was the person someone else was unsure of. Love the podcast!
17:36 was exactly my reaction after i watched selling the oc & googled everything
anyway, Brittany Snow 💅
I would love for you guys to do an episode on distorted thinking. For the pod bestie who has someone who cheated on an ex with 7 guys, I think it comes down to figuring out what is reality. They don't have to discount the positive but it would benefit them to figure out what is reality and what is the potential to happen. How they in his relationship is real, but there's also a real past and truth to the pattern. They can love this person but also go forward knowing they have a higher potential of having poor coping mechanisms.
The girl who cheated 7 times, I'm pretty sure she was never in a real relationship with any of the guys. She was just sleeping around and not commiting. Maybe there was some sort of miscommunication.
Can you guys cover the upcoming season of selling Oc? Coming soon.
Great timing just found out my bf was cheating on me lol!!!!! In midterm season!!
Noo😭
LIB Sweden does have a couple that had the female much taller than her pick. Now they are married and have a kid on their way🙈
I don’t enjoy watching anyone doing anything mostly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The backward hat ... Every time my boyfriend wears it this way I love him even more 😂
And I look like a postman when I wear a hat ...... 🙃
I dislike baseball with a passion lol but I agree with Deepti about the backwards hat!
The serial cheater... they should try couples therapy if they do decide to go on with the relationship. There's a lot to unpack with that fiance..
$2.99 shipping LOL girl math
No judgement but...backwards caps, lip rings, and tattoos? Girl. I feel like your subconscious has stories to tell. Stay safe please!
I NEED you and Sam from “Locked on Cubs” to meet! He is more pessimistic like Natalie and I think Deepti and him would vibe so much! Ugh I just want y’all to meet in the bleachers and have your backward hat love story!
Tayler always flirted with Alex, but I guess he cheated on his wife with Polly, when they secretly kissed and Kayla found out. He's an idiot
Baseball is the ONLY sport i like. GO CUBBIES
Natalie has no idea what she is talking about! Good god! Who are you to pass judgement about people that you don’t even know, SHUT UP PLEASE!!! Deepti is soo right, so empatic and so in the right mindset, I salute you girl❤️
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Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex.
It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.