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    Hi guys! This is a gentle, loving, positive affirmation video that ends with some negativity/stress plucking and cutting. It also has face tracing, ear to ear whispers, and personal attention. I hope your holidays are going great and you enjoy this video. Comment any affirmations you love or use. ❤️
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  • @litlaughlore
    @litlaughlore Год назад +619

    "it is not healthy for you to prepare for the worst case scenario" really kicked my ass. my brain always does this and I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. this helps

    • @SarahLavenderASMR
      @SarahLavenderASMR  Год назад +59

      I always have to tell myself this, it’s the reason for so many sleepless nights 😭

    • @drjonesey5
      @drjonesey5 11 месяцев назад +19

      The reason you get car insurance, life insurance, health insurance, carry a legal gun, lock your door, get a security system, create a emergency savings, exercise, Keep your resume up to date, wear a seat belt...the list goes on is to prepare for the worst case scenario. Anyone who thinks that's not healthy is a wack job.
      What actually is not healthy is living in a state of paranoia and fear assuming the worst will happen. That's not the same as preparing for worst case scenario's. You don't wear a seatbelt because you assume you will crash, you wear it incase you do, and you're prepared if it occurs. I live by hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

    • @doesitevenmatter7918
      @doesitevenmatter7918 7 месяцев назад +7

      Tbh I feel better when I prepare for the worst, because it
      1. Either will be what you've expected and it won't leave you disappointed
      2. Or will be better than what you've expected. It can never be worse.

  • @julialedra
    @julialedra 8 месяцев назад +144

    I just want to say that I loved the "it doesn't matter if you didn't give your best, you deserve rest" affirmation. Because just like you said, sometimes I know I didn't give my best and those "you did your best" affirmations always sounded like me gaslighting myself. So thank you for this, it was really helpful ❤

  • @nickcunningham6344
    @nickcunningham6344 7 месяцев назад +65

    Last night, I really needed the "you deserve sleep" part. As a uni student with adhd I completely feel that, like all the time. Feeling like I didn't accomplish enough that day and like I really didn't give my best. While simultaneously feeling completely unmotivated to do anything, every day. But even so, I deserve sleep

    • @addisoneaker8713
      @addisoneaker8713 Месяц назад +1

      Damn that’s relatable as hell. I keep reminding myself it will be worth it when we have reached our goal ❤️ Proud of you for doing what you can, doing a little is better than doing nothing!

    • @bellac9679
      @bellac9679 22 дня назад

      That is so real .. damnn

  • @carmennikhol-asmrmore5314
    @carmennikhol-asmrmore5314 Год назад +292

    The idea that "because you've done your best" affirmations aren't for everyone is so powerful and relevant. Thank you!!! I needed that. There are times when I can't, won't, or don't want to do my best, and it may suck, but it is what it is, and it's okay, and it's temporary. Dare I say, it's human!

    • @SarahLavenderASMR
      @SarahLavenderASMR  Год назад +49

      I’m so glad it resonates with others, I was never able to use those affirmations!! 🥺❤️

    • @Victor-tl4dk
      @Victor-tl4dk Год назад +4

      @@SarahLavenderASMR I guess that's why you post so few of them.

    • @Its_whats_his_face
      @Its_whats_his_face Год назад +3

      I do my 110% ultimate best to 1/2 ass it, and I've nailed it every day!

    • @celestica8474
      @celestica8474 Год назад +1

      But it's always your best, the best that you can do

    • @katerinas9103
      @katerinas9103 Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for wording this Carmen, you are amazing ❤️

  • @jordan-pt2qo
    @jordan-pt2qo Год назад +81

    The video starts at 1:28 💙💙

  • @willamccartney
    @willamccartney Год назад +110

    it was a real tough month and right as my heart ached with loneliness you said “you are not alone” and were with me. Thank you Sarah, I hope the new year brings you peace and comfort as you have brought me tonight.

    • @SarahLavenderASMR
      @SarahLavenderASMR  Год назад +9

      🥺 sending you love ❤️

    • @reenie_yaz
      @reenie_yaz Год назад +3

      I felt this way too! This video has been really a gift 🎁

  • @soupersleepASMR
    @soupersleepASMR Год назад +10

    You know the EQ is good for ASMR when the “T” and “D” make the exact same sound. They meet each other halfway between voiced and unvoiced. “D” isn’t pitched or adding its own light vowel to the end, and “T” doesn’t sound like a needle in your headphones. Just the perfect combo of present and clean. Oh so satisfying as it hits the ol’ eardrums.

  • @ip3931
    @ip3931 4 месяца назад +7

    It never fails to impress me how committed,focused and talented these creators are!

  • @matthewthehuman1744
    @matthewthehuman1744 Год назад +18

    Thank you, this was so kind of you. Scalable kindness. I almost cried like a few times. So many men, and people in general, go years without hearing one single compliment, encouraging, or kind word, particularly from a pretty girl. This is so needed.

    • @aniek4851
      @aniek4851 Год назад +6

      Hey Matthew, just wanted to acknowledge you, we read your comment and connect. We don't always know what to say, but your voice isn't lost into the void.

  • @KingCharles25
    @KingCharles25 Год назад +118

    Honestly, the only time I use affirmations are when I'm tired or feeling under the weather. I'll say, "you're stronger than this," or "do you think Sailor Moon would let this defeat her?" It usually works.

    • @graceisabel3612
      @graceisabel3612 Год назад +14

      LOLL im def going to be using that second one

    • @ericotto314
      @ericotto314 Год назад +5

      I made a version with Liam Neeson’s character from Taken now - “Do you think Bryan Mills would let this defeat him?”

    • @PsychoticWolfe
      @PsychoticWolfe Год назад +2

      That last line though 😂

    • @jamiebaby93
      @jamiebaby93 Год назад +2

      Hahaha sailor moon would have a good cry and then get back to kicking ass!! So great ❤

  • @thetoysofchildhood
    @thetoysofchildhood Год назад +35

    Plucking and cutting ✂️ is always so relaxing for some reason! Here we goooo 😴

  • @leahnelson9636
    @leahnelson9636 Год назад +31

    Going into my senior year of college, whew, it has been the worst 3 years of my life so far and I’m still in the thick of it. Hearing you share your experience of your dark time and that you came out through the end of tunnel was so comforting I appreciate

  • @mikaelarae9341
    @mikaelarae9341 Год назад +23

    I listen to this video every couple of days because not only are you my favorite ASMRtist but you share some beautiful/much needed reminders in this one. Each listen is just as comforting as the last. Thank you!

  • @MK22t
    @MK22t Год назад +3

    Whenever I’m having really bad anxiety, I always watch your videos. You’re the only ASMRtist that can calm me down. Thank you for being here 🤍

  • @xo_lexie
    @xo_lexie Год назад +4

    i was super anxious until I watched this. your vibes are positive and sincere. thank you so much for this- words can’t express how much it helped ♥️ you are a blessing

  • @leetuhoasmr
    @leetuhoasmr Год назад +45

    I'm gonna sleep well tonight, thank you Sarah, you are the first ASMRtist I discovered and still my favourite 😊💤

  • @Lou_Lay_
    @Lou_Lay_ Год назад +15

    Thank you for your comment at 15:38. There are days I can't allow myself to relax into ASMR, let alone those types of positive affirmations. Thank you so, so much for saying that out loud

  • @itoshirunin
    @itoshirunin Год назад +1

    ive been struggling with insomnia yet the asmr was so good that i didn’t realise when i had fallen asleep the next morning

  • @Ksawwier332
    @Ksawwier332 Месяц назад

    I started to watch affirm asmr to sleep and i feel much much better! 🍀 Thank you and everyone for just being here

  • @markcafebrown2883
    @markcafebrown2883 Год назад +4

    M’s. Lavender can do anything and I’ll be watching. She is who I get the most calming effect from and the only ASMR creator I get warm tingles from. I love her eyes and her expressions. I get more ASMR from visual than audio

  • @pepperoni__5
    @pepperoni__5 Год назад +4

    you said who feel defeated and that's exactly how I feel. I appreciate u very much for making this video for making me calm even tho I'm having lunch in my desk and being unemployed atm. I know that everything will be better because is a sad and tense moment not a sad and tense life. I hope u Sarah and everyone that read this have great happy days :)

  • @berthasbeauty
    @berthasbeauty Год назад +10

    Happy New Year Sarah! You are by far my favorite ASMRist. I am grateful to have found you this year. Your voice keeps my cortisol levels under control😅 Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @AdamFishkin
    @AdamFishkin Год назад +3

    Fell asleep from another comfort overdose. Woke up an hour and a half later.
    Happy new year to my favorite Lavender.

  • @ioanaa179
    @ioanaa179 Год назад +14

    Love this video I’m always looking forward to them! Highlight of my day!
    Would you be able to do a close ear whispering and saying Spanish triggers or a salon spa and makeup role play?
    Hope you’ve had a lovely Christmas week! ☺️

  • @naggy3087
    @naggy3087 Год назад +10

    The only issue I have is that I want to watch your videos but end up falling asleep after 10 minutes already 🤭 great job and thank you so much 👏 ❤
    Have a great start into the new year, Sarah 😚

  • @emmalizzotte4119
    @emmalizzotte4119 Год назад +9

    For anyone that needs:
    Goodnightttt

  • @3haljordan
    @3haljordan Год назад +9

    Your advertisements are the only ones that I don't skip on all of RUclips. That should tell you how good you are at making these videos and how much I love your content. Happy New Year Sarah!

  • @Abdirahman767
    @Abdirahman767 Год назад +1

    Thank you Sarah for being always there for your second family you are truly Amazing person, God bless you 😚🥰🥰🥰

  • @aswimwhitey
    @aswimwhitey 6 месяцев назад

    I always come back to this vid for the visual triggers and those scissor snipping sounds!
    Hearing affirmations on top is also a nice additive!

  • @Dom.777_
    @Dom.777_ Год назад

    I just want to take the time to let you know that everything you do for us is greatly appreciated and that you deserve the biggest hug ever. You’re a life saver❤

  • @chocolatebar2306
    @chocolatebar2306 Год назад +4

    this was so helpful, thank you so much, you are the best at this. sending all the love and positivity to you 💜💜💜

  • @jinxpatrovna707
    @jinxpatrovna707 9 дней назад

    The part where you said we might not feel like were doing our best really meant a lot to me i needed to hear it right now thank you

  • @naturalkimaASMR
    @naturalkimaASMR Год назад +5

    The promo videos be always lit I love seeing unexpected ones ❤️‍🔥

  • @rexewilde
    @rexewilde 11 месяцев назад +3

    Grateful I found your channel today, really love your healing style of videos! And I LOVE that you’re not calling it “reiki” because too many ASMRtists call their therapeutic sessions/energy work “reiki” even though they are not reiki practitioners! And I also love getting a similar healing style without the energy work cuz sometimes I need a break but still want the good feels! 😅 thank you beautiful soul, this session was so lovely 🥰✨

    • @SarahLavenderASMR
      @SarahLavenderASMR  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you!! 🥰 funny enough my video will be an energy cleanse video hahaha I just love them every once in a while 🫶❤️

  • @daisydargan9336
    @daisydargan9336 Год назад +53

    Just stumbled on this video, Never heard of ASMR before or what it does but my god your voice has calmed my anxious mind right down to nothing. Thank you so much and i cant wait to binge on all your videos and this asmr thing

    • @SarahLavenderASMR
      @SarahLavenderASMR  Год назад +24

      Aw!! I remember when I first discovered asmr and thinking it was so weird but then getting addicted 😝 I’m glad this helped with your anxiety though ♥️

    • @WinterGuardNerd
      @WinterGuardNerd Год назад

      i watched asmr for the first times as a joke and got tingles THEN i knew i was hooked 😂

  • @massivematt3113
    @massivematt3113 6 месяцев назад

    I listen to this literally every night (about 2 weeks) as i go to sleep. I’ve yet to finish the entire video before going to sleep. Did your job!

  • @viable_option
    @viable_option Год назад

    Oooh that sound where you grab the surround of the lens as you pluck. Love it!!!

  • @naturalkimaASMR
    @naturalkimaASMR Год назад +11

    Yesss the whispers are super crispy love

  • @jorgegaytan3012
    @jorgegaytan3012 9 месяцев назад +1

    Sarah,you have such a beautiful soul, your positive energy is so contagious ,thank u for your dedication, you have become part of our lives, all of your subscribers wanna thank u from the bottom of our hearts,,lots of love...

  • @babyhandmgee2353
    @babyhandmgee2353 Год назад +1

    This video really helped me today calming my nerves after a scary interaction, love how calming and soothing this is.

  • @Hotwheels5482
    @Hotwheels5482 Год назад +1

    Plucking and face touching are SO tingly ❤

  • @Elijah_Rivaz
    @Elijah_Rivaz Год назад +6

    I feel so much relief with all this plucking! I appreciate you Sara ❤

  • @happysmiles4339
    @happysmiles4339 Год назад +2

    I would love a whole video with the plucking and cutting (a bit more of the snipping)!

  • @isabellw1004
    @isabellw1004 Год назад +4

    Great video already and perfect timing for my sleep right now 🥰😊

  • @jocelyn1264
    @jocelyn1264 Год назад +4

    Happy New Year, Sarah! Thank you so much for all your videos this year, I know they've been such a help for me and so many others. You're the best!

  • @TingleStormASMR
    @TingleStormASMR Год назад

    Thank you Sarah, this was very comforting and I wish you a wonderful new year 💓

  • @vanessusrivera25
    @vanessusrivera25 11 месяцев назад +6

    Man i love hearing "your not alone" at 10:12 on a Tuesday night! XD anyways, this video is really relaxing and helping me with my stress. You are beautiful and amazing and i am grateful that people make videos like this. :)
    The people reading this are beautiful and amazing too💖

  • @teen1208
    @teen1208 Год назад

    Oh my goodness God. The tapping on the iPad screen was heavenly!

  • @hopereish6954
    @hopereish6954 Год назад

    Your whispers are so soothing and perfect to send me off to sleepy time. Happy New Year 🎊

  • @hannahlynn3
    @hannahlynn3 Год назад +3

    This was so comforting

  • @IAMCOACHFLOYD
    @IAMCOACHFLOYD 8 месяцев назад

    Best positive affirmation ASMR experience ever

  • @mm42rn42
    @mm42rn42 4 месяца назад

    This made me feel really relaxed especially amidst such an anxious time. Thank you

  • @marianneivaneska2851
    @marianneivaneska2851 Год назад

    This is one of the best arms videos I've heard. And its about the things you said that make it so special

  • @B400
    @B400 Год назад

    I actually think that you have motivated me to work at achieving the best for myself in everything that i do.

  • @erikatodorova5068
    @erikatodorova5068 Год назад

    I discovered your channel recently! It is very calming and your voice is sooo soothing

  • @bandobabyhovmtv
    @bandobabyhovmtv Год назад

    Really loved this one, perfect timing for me today. Thanks Sarah for your great work 💞🙏🥳

  • @Xbl-matrix
    @Xbl-matrix 3 месяца назад

    I’ve been in a lot of pain recently and your videos have helped to take my mind off it thank you

  • @empireofthelight2651
    @empireofthelight2651 Год назад +1

    I love it when you do these type of videos 😌. Looking great Sarah✌️❤️🌞🙏🌹🌹

  • @kiml9723
    @kiml9723 Год назад

    The nails and sweater are giving very Valentines vibes! ❤️🥰 Great color on you!

  • @katiecarney1049
    @katiecarney1049 Год назад

    I hardly ever comment, but just wanted to let you know that I value your videos so much and truly love the aura that you put out into the world

  • @NeverLeaveUs
    @NeverLeaveUs Год назад

    I got through the most difficult phonecall of my life by watching this video beforehand. Thank you 💖💖

  • @FF-po2xi
    @FF-po2xi Год назад

    First tingles in over a year thank youuuuu

  • @josephcottle2496
    @josephcottle2496 Год назад

    Sarah, these videos are great. Many of them have been useful for me, and I bet a lot of others benefit from them too.

  • @nikkogeyer
    @nikkogeyer 6 дней назад

    I felt like you were speaking to me directly. This was so helpful

  • @josiahstrachen
    @josiahstrachen Год назад +1

    You’re a true artist I love your style thank you!❤❤❤

  • @itszara457
    @itszara457 Год назад +1

    I would love to have a friend like you
    You seems so positive and happy person your smile is contagious.
    Your videos relax me, when you say you are not alone I feel like you are my friend and taking care of me 😀.
    💟

  • @BeccaB_
    @BeccaB_ Год назад +1

    Hi Sarah thank you for all your Content this year your channel is Growing so fast 💨 I hope you had a wonderful holiday Season and happy New Year 🎆🎈🎊 ❤

  • @the_gengar_master
    @the_gengar_master 9 месяцев назад

    I love your asmrs so much. Appreciate you!

  • @reenie_yaz
    @reenie_yaz Год назад +1

    Sarah!!! I can’t seem to know the ending in this video as I always fall asleep 😴 thank you! I really needed this video… I’ve been watching it at bedtime since you posted it! Sending you love 💗love the hand rubbing sound, it’s sooo soothing since the holidays are always so rough around this time 🖤🌈🐾

  • @floozle702
    @floozle702 Год назад

    The Gold Standard in ASMR right here

  • @imanni_music
    @imanni_music 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am grateful for this video 🙏

  • @123colt
    @123colt Год назад +2

    I had an idea for a video after watching a guy doing hardwood flooring in fast forward. The little scratching and drawing with pencil in fast forward was really tingly. 👍🏻

  • @johannaspalding5140
    @johannaspalding5140 Год назад

    Thank you Sarah, you are the only reason I can fall asleep while I am weaning off seroquel

  • @cherylhaynes2552
    @cherylhaynes2552 Год назад

    Bless you, Miss Sarah. I so needed this tonight. Thank you.

  • @chinanmathur1401
    @chinanmathur1401 4 месяца назад

    Sooo calm and relaxing 😴🥱

  • @SpaceForce635
    @SpaceForce635 Год назад

    Your background is particularly nice and relaxing on the eyes in this video. Great video!

  • @naturalkimaASMR
    @naturalkimaASMR Год назад +2

    I hope you have a great New Year ❤

  • @rosreviews
    @rosreviews Год назад

    You are my absolute favourite human on earth!! You're the reason I finally got the courage to post my first ever video yayyy!!! Sending you lots of love ❤️

  • @yellingtuna
    @yellingtuna 3 месяца назад

    This was just amazing. We need another!! ❤🎉

  • @Emiliano.B.H
    @Emiliano.B.H Год назад +9

    Hola Sarah.
    Espero que tengas un lindo fin de año junto con todos tus seres queridos. 🌟
    Muchas gracias por el nuevo video 🙏🏼

  • @Jordyn_Yt
    @Jordyn_Yt Год назад

    thank you for this! i really needed it and it felt like you were actually communicating with me. you seem like a nice person, new sub!

  • @micahsanders3813
    @micahsanders3813 Год назад +7

    I’ve been looking for a video just like this! Perfect timing as always, muchas gracias y buenas noches!

  • @surgezoom7079
    @surgezoom7079 Год назад +3

    You're the best Sarah 😌

  • @cathrinakorakova2679
    @cathrinakorakova2679 Год назад

    Hello there!!
    I am a very new fan, literally followed you a day ago! I love your videos so much, they are incredibly relaxing and your voice is so calming; especially in the First Therapy Session video.
    Thank you!

  • @AlejxndroGG
    @AlejxndroGG Год назад

    Gracias Sarah 🥰 ¡Feliz año nuevo! ✨

  • @allisonm13119
    @allisonm13119 Год назад +4

    this is super relaxing sarah 🥰 also what lipstick shade are you wearing? it is so gorgeous!!

  • @AYE.CT_
    @AYE.CT_ Год назад

    its gonna be the best year yet baby

  • @jess6529
    @jess6529 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this video! It’s incredible and so helpful!!

  • @justinhawsakajaybird
    @justinhawsakajaybird 4 месяца назад

    I could listen to your nails tap the ipad screen for hours 😊😊😊🙏 Thanks so much Sarah 💜

  • @thedenverhapas1
    @thedenverhapas1 Год назад

    One of my favorites is “I am safe and secure. All my needs are met

  • @druciferDMA
    @druciferDMA Год назад

    This was really nice before work today, thanks

  • @lilysunshine7604
    @lilysunshine7604 2 месяца назад

    Thank you!

  • @walterc77
    @walterc77 Год назад +3

    Thank you Sarah. You look great btw.❤️

  • @Nobody10225
    @Nobody10225 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your amazing asmr videos :) 💞

  • @ASMRDarkPurple
    @ASMRDarkPurple Год назад +1

    I needed this video 🖤🖤💜💜

  • @TavLand
    @TavLand Год назад +4

    Fantastic! Have A Happy New Year!

  • @ratro8208
    @ratro8208 Год назад +1

    I actually really love hello fresh I highly recommend the Shepard pie my favorite hands down

  • @lYODAl
    @lYODAl Год назад

    Well my favorite ASMRest and my favorite type of ASMR ❤️❤️

  • @Junebug96
    @Junebug96 Год назад

    So relaxing thank u for all you do

  • @naturalkimaASMR
    @naturalkimaASMR Год назад +4

    Your background is so pretty 🥹