SAYING GOODBYE TO PRINCESS ASPIEN
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- Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025
- "All stories, even the ones we love, must eventually come to an end and when they do, it's only an opportunity for another story to begin."
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Please understand that some of us still need to be Princesses, Queen, Fairy, Mermaid, and maybe even Witches because this makes us happy. We are also very happy for you deciding to be Chloe Hayden. That is WONDERFUL it makes you happy. ❤ Will continue to see you. If you ever find the need to wake up the Princess, we will understand too and if you never do the same because your are Wonderful.
I’ll always have this as apart of me, Princess/Queen/Pixie/Mermaid Chloé is just who it’ll be now instead 💛
@@chloeshayden will you be starting a new channel or using the same one
Also your videos have helped me understand myself
@@nl3087 absolutely still using this one! Nothing else changes!!
@@chloeshayden ok thankyou that's great😋😋😜😜😜😜
It is an interesting turn of events that I have witnessed over the past year that I have been observing your channel. I suppose, even though you might change, I could never stop seeing you as princess aspien. Not to be mistaken with stubbornness, but I never had the same ability to embrace change as you. It has been a long time since I was able to cope in a healthy way, so I apologize if I tremble a little at what I just watched. Comfort zones have kept me alive for the past 8 months, so I just can’t bring myself to step out of them, even if it means making enormous sacrifices along the way.
Oh, man. You SCARED me, Chloe!!! I thought you were quitting youtube!! I was like "Nooo! Not my beautiful queen!!" You go and be yourself, girl!! 💕💕 (Also, since I've found your channel, I've accepted my own autism/ADHD/stims much more!) Thank you.
Same I freaked out too, I'm like did she die, is she leaving youtube???? AAAAh very relieved
I’ve accepted being autistic too, my confidence was lowing, then it got to the point where I wasn’t me anymore, just pretending like I was this savage person who always had to get what she wanted. Then I realised I don’t need to be intimidating, and just became me.
Same I love you so much
I thought this too as I wasn't able to watch the vidio for a while as I was in school
Aye, same here. Went from "what!!?" to "okay, that makes sense" so glad you're not stopping. Always bring a smile.
You’re awesome, Chloé. Of course Princess Aspien will be missed, but we still support you 💕
hey where’d you make your pfp i’ve been looking for the website and i can’t find it again
@@chonkssandoval5613 it’s on a website called picrew
@@19_haylz tysm
This has the vibe of hanging up a superhero costume, or retiring a pro wrestler character. The real human is there and now at the forefront, but regardless of what name they went under before, the real person was always there. Does that make sense?
Nice to meet you, Chloe Sarah Hayden 😊
Way to go kid. As you close out 1 chapter in your life's story another chapter begins. This will go on until you leave this mortal world, and start anew.
I grew more fond of you the moment you mentioned Asperger's and wanting to step away from it as an identity. You've been a big part of me understanding my own Autism diagnosis over the past year, and I greatly appreciate you taking accountability today. The community has come a long way since you created that identity for yourself. You're a strong and beautiful person inside and out! I can't wait to see more videos from "Chloé Hayden".
(For the record, I also often use a pseudonym online and have considered using it as my name on a daily basis. My real name is Sarah -- as you can see -- a name that I was never sure suited me. But hearing that you share that name makes me like the sound of it a little bit more. It's easier hiding behind a pseudonym, even at the age of 26, but I hope to one day spread awareness like you without being afraid to use my given name.)
I am happy to hear that you have gained this newfound confidence. I will add though, that it is dangerous to use your real name online, since people can use that to find your information.
wdym "taking accountability"?
Hi Chloé Sarah Hayden. Nice to meet you again. You're an incredible inspiration for us, we love you and we will continue doing it, you have helped us so much.
I have known Chloe for many years now from when she was in school and what an incredible pleasure it has been to see how far she has come in life, embracing every opportunity open to her and bettering her life and future. You are a beautiful gift from God, Chloe. It is such a pleasure to see how far you have and continue to develop into.
Thank you for taking such good care of Ms. Hayden all these years, Princess Aspien. You were a dearly beloved friend, and will be remembered as such, who fulfilled her caretaking duties lovingly and with great compassion. Your ability to step to the forefront to assist Ms. Hayden in blossoming into the strong, intelligent, happy young woman we see standing before us today was remarkable, and for that, we will be forever grateful.
I’m gonna: cry
not to diverge from the topic too much,,,but dang this came at a perfect time for me- i'm trans and recently changed my name for the third time, and i absolutely feel you on the idea of hiding behind a character. Like, I'm trans just because i am, not because of how masculine my name is: everyone should be allowed to have the freedom to be themselves openly and authentically :)
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you
🖤 always do things because it would make you happy, if you think "so and so would accept me more if my name was (insert name)" that is unhealthy! Be you 🖤
I’ll miss Princess Aspien but I love your name also
Oh my god you scared me! I just got my diagnosis and your videos helped me through a breakdown when I pushed myself too far, I was terrified to loose that so soon. But this is wonderful!
You do you. Congratulations, Chloe, it's nice to meet you
You don’t need the title of Princess anymore Chloe...you have grown into a Queen 👑
Wow girl, You have grown.... I used to ignore your content most of the time because I hate the term 'Aspie' and everything related to it (despite originally being diagnosed with Asperger's myself). Asperger's is indeed outdated, and with good reasons. I love you had the guts to take this step. Respect!
All stories have endings and some stories have a sequel....Princess Aspien was a amazing story but all story's end and this book had a sequel called Chloè Hayden, Princess Aspien will be put on a shelf and be there for us to look back on one day but get your pens ready....a new story is about to be written ✏
That's beautifully said, quite poetic
@@acoulthard9048 thank you ☺ I'm not much of a poet though 😂❤❤
The thing with Princesses is that they grow up. So now you are a Queen. I am so happy that you now have the confidence to be yourself Chloé. And also remember that when times get tough, as they must it seems, you can always step back and revisit being a Princess. It’s not a crime or a failing to revisit favourite stories, even if they are your own. Sometimes to go forward, we need to first go back...probably to take a running leap. All my love, a much older and yet newer voyager on this journey of autism 💕
I shall miss Princess Aspien. But I'm glad to know you are continuing your journey.
I am glad that The Princess can lay down the role of public persona and you feel comfortable showing the world Chloe for who she fully is. I am so proud of you!
Thankyou for Different Not Less I so relate being autistic myself especially about our society as you said our society still doesn't understand us finding that out first hand I want to change that to I am trying to be a voice for others like us to chloe
You're no longer a princess, you're a real queen, Chloe💖 Keep up the amazing work, we love you💕
OMG! If I admire you before I admire so much more today Chloe
From Princess to Queen. One of my favorite creators. Beautiful video. 💕💙💜🌈✨🌸
Chloe you are growing as a person and that is wonderful. I can’t wait to hear more from you Chloe.
Chloe, I am so happy to see that I am seeing you:)!! Like Judy Garland said, "Be a first version of yourself, inside of a second rate version of someone else":)!! And Chloe Sarah Hayden is a very beautiful name which describes the very lovely person you are:)!!!!
I'm very proud of you, Chloe. I couldn't go past my old high school for years, as I had flashbacks to abusive incidents. In 2017, I was talking with my father, and he said that he'd looked at a Ford Escape but didn't want one because our ex-neighbour, who wasn't nice, had one. I said to him, "Dad, I'd like to tell you something I've been wanting to for years. Mum got angry because I preferred your Falcon to her Commodore, but the reason why was the people who bullied me were supporters of Holden and those who were kind to me had Fords." One day, in April, 1998, I froze at a set of traffic lights because a white Commodore, like one of the bullies' parents owned, pulled up on the opposite side. This bully threatened something terrible, and I feared seeing him, again.
I’m going through the process of an autism diagnosis (my doctor makes it 100% more difficult because he thought for the longest time girls can’t be autistic and I’m afab.) it’s been stressful but so much easier knowing that other people had similar experiences and struggles like me. It’s been such a crazy time but content like yours has helped me understand myself so much more.
Princess Aspien will be missed but we can always rewatch Chloes old videos if we do. Thx for bringing sparkles to your fans
This is a wonderful and beautiful tribute the the younger you. The little girl that perhaps didn't think she would ever amount to anything but did. This is so powerful!
Rebranding is a lot of work. Congrats on moving forward, and thanks for leading the change.
Chloe means blooming. 🌹 Sarah means princess. 👸Hayden means hedged valley. 🌄 So your name means Blooming Princess in a Hedged Valley. Which is what you've done, and at the same time, you've created a place for others to bloom. I like seeing the hedged valley as autism, as well as the safe, protected place we find to learn, grow and accept ourselves in you and others sharing your stories. You have blossomed as a princess and blessed us as you shared your process. 💕
Thanks Chloe! As a person going through the journey of seeking an autism diagnosis, your videos here and on tiktok have really helped me to personify autism and learn more about what it actually is outside from the (pretty bad) portrayal in media. We'll be supporting your new story! xx
I just found this channel like a month ago. Started to realize I'm fine the way I am. Made me get nervous you were leaving. A name means nothing if this makes you feel better than good.
O gosh when i saw the title i got a tiny heartattackXD.
I haven't been here long but i want to say that im realy proud of you:). I am glad to have learned to know you a little bit trough here wich started half a year ago somwhere after 15 of september when i got my adhd diagnosis and the idea was sparked that i may have autism:).
We will miss princess aspien
Congratulations on beginning a new segment of your journey! The thing I find fascinating about life is that it becomes as impossible to imagine going back to an old paradigm as it is to imagine a new paradigm before you enter it. I hope that this new chapter propels your life forward in new, interesting, and exciting ways.
This was a surprise, thought you were quitting for a minute there haha. I am so happy for you and totally support your choice. You and Princess Aspien will always have a special place in my heart. I used to use a fairytale themed sign off on my posts and now I use my name too. It feels amazing to be confident in who I am and I hope you feel that too. I am excited to see what you do next and to learn more from you!
Chloe, I am glad that you have found yourself enough to step out from behind a character to speak as yourself fully, I know how challenging a journey that is as I went through it before adopting my middle name as my baptismal name when I joined the Orthodox church.
While I have only recently found your channel not that long after I receiving an ASD diagnosis I have found it invaluable in helping me understand my own journey. We need more members of the community like you to help redress the balance in representation for the autistic community. You are also the much needed public voice for those of us who prefer to disappear into the quiet of our eye sparkles to reinvent whatever field that is. You are also a wonderful example for autistic people who struggle with eating disorders as there are so few success stories for autistic people who also have mental health challenges.
Growth is really terrifying, but there really come magical things out of it. I love the change you made! ♡
You're a legend Chloé! Princess Aspien will be missed. 🤍
Everything has to end but I am glad I got to experience it, you will always be a princess
Nothing ends unless you let it. It is all about moving foreward into the future you want, wether it resembles the past or something new.
Wow! What an inspiring story! 🔥
I actually had no idea you were creating content online for 7 years!
But this really goes to show that if you're consistent with whatever you're doing, whether it's blogging, videos, podcast, etc.
You can build something incredible 🚀
Because you were consistent, now you have this epic brand that you've built up!
As an autistic person myself, I strongly believe that online entrepreneurship is the answer for most autistic people. 👌
I know for many, getting and keeping a regular job can be tough, which is why I'm extremely thankful for platforms like RUclips & TikTok ☺
Congratulations Chloe. I'm new to your content, but you seem like a wonderful young woman. I wish you all the best.
♥♥♥♥♥ Thank you for showing over and over again, that it's ok to be one own self, the way one is born. Your words touch me in so many different ways and I just feel the need to say "thank you, Chloé Hayden"!
i couldn’t be more proud of you Chloé, you’re so great. the princess becomes a queen ✨✨✨💗
Close will miss princess S been but I am proud of you for moving forward and being brave enough to actually come out and be just yourself I’m here love you for it I’m proud of you
We understand! We will always love you, Chloé, or Princess Aspien.
Great video! You spoke about the change so well and with such maturity and tact! Excited for the new journeys the change in your internet name will bring you! Wish you nothing but the best, Chloe! With love 💝
I am so proud of you 🙏🦋 growth IS scary and hard. Being brave enough to show your truest self takes courage. You inspire me 💙
we are so proud of you girl!!!
Thank you Chloé! You are such a positive thoughtful voice in the community! And your enthusiasm for autism is sorely needed! Keep up the great work. And good luck on your next journey! I also love the way you talked about change in this video. Many of us struggle with change quite a lot, and it is important for us to remember what you said. That it is needed for growth! Change is both scary and exciting in equal measure!
oh phew you did scare me i dont want you to leave dont leave never leave if you leave i will cry
I'm literally crying right now. Thank you so so SO much Chloe! I've had a hard time in my life, but thanks to you and your beautiful videos, I've found confidence in myself I didn't even know I had. Again, thank you so much Chloe! 💕💕
Go Chloe as you are a true insperation
I don't know you well and never posted on your forum before. But my heart skipped a beat when I saw the title of this video.
But this is the right decision and so so so glad you are not afraid of growing up anymore.
Thank you for making this video to explain instead of just changing
Here's to new beginnings! So grateful for all of your worm Chloé, truly making this world a better place for all ♥💙💚💛💜
PS did you make your flower crown?! 👑 🌸🌹🌼🌺
We love you and support you no matter what you do
Chloe this is so beautiful
so happy for your growth 💗💗💗 you’re amazing
I'm so happy you don't feel like you need to hide behind a persona anymore!
You are enough.
P.S. also grateful you ditched the connection to Asperger, as far as I can tell he stood for the exact opposite of what you stand for 🥰
Ahh. . . I cannot let the name fall away from me. Asperger’s syndrome is a part of who I am. It has been a part of me since I was too young to understand the fullest extent of what an identity was. I cannot let this name be taken from me. It is one of the only things I have left to rely on.
This neat to hear the journey. I like cosplay, and making up characters, usually in the form of costumes that cover my whole body to find who I am, not have to deal with sensory struggles or eye contact, and I can even go mute without judgement since I'm a fictional character who can be whoever I want (a huge draw to the furry fandom, role play games, and fantasy for many neurodivergent people). I hope I can get to the point where I can do things like dancing, music, and just having fun doesn't need a costume, although it's a long way off as I do have multiple disabilities. But this has given me hope that hopefully these characters can help me find myself. I know I'm less shy since cosplaying, but we all have different journeys, and different situations call for different things.
Beautiful!!! Your videos are wonderful and comforting. 🧡
You inspired me to start making my own videos Chloe and as the saying goes: "a rose by any other name would still smell as sweet"❤
Always stay true to yourself👍
I’m so happy you have been able to become your own self and have confidence in yourself. You’re an awesome person and deciding to close a chapter and open a new one is a big change but an amazing one too 🌟🌟❤️❤️ I can’t wait to join you on your new journey
We ❤️ you Chloe, and are so excited for what’s to come!!
beautiful. this story, this, everything. beautiful.
This is Good for you, and this is Good for us, love to see You!!
So proud of you Chloe! Your so amazing with all that you do 💛
wow youre the best chloe im so proud
I am happy for you
Princess Aspien is what you can do
Chloe is who you are
Love you chloe!!! You can be you because you are amazing !!!! No one can be more amazing than you ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for just being you!
Also, chloe, hitting my feels !!!
"I'm going to write my own destiny! My Happily Ever After starts now!" --Raven Queen 💜
Always be proud of who you are. Time to move forward 💖
PS, yes I know most people, if nobody at all, actually know who Raven Queen is. Oh well.
I DO, EVER AFTER HIGH AND DOLLS ARE MY HYPER FIXATION
@@chrissyduncanson7461 OMG! I can't believe I found someone here who likes dolls like I do! I'm a major doll and toy collector, although I'm pickier with the kid cartoons I watch, but Ever After High is my favorite
@@elisakrivas That’s amazing 🤩
@@chrissyduncanson7461 Do you have a favorite character?
@@elisakrivas I don’t I just love the story in general
Thank you, Pincess Aspien and farewell!
And Hi Chloé. Thanks for everything you continue to teach me and other NTs who would not otherwise know squat.
Hi Chloe ur a hero I love coming to the yellow lady bug
When I found your channel about a year ago, I was trying to learn a little more about Autism and who I was because of it. Not only did I learn a lot from you, but you made me laugh and make learning about Autism fun(especially on your Tik Tok). I hope you cherish this new chapter in your life.
Love you, Princess Chloe 👸
This makes me really respect you even more!!!! Change is hard & I can’t imagine it was easy to make this change, but you saw what needed to be done & you did it. Good on you 💖
It’s lovely to officially meet you, Chloe 💕
Thank you so much for everything !! We love you and support you as you are. We're very proud of you 🌻✨💖 welcome Chloé Hayden
Beautiful amazing girl.... I am so proud of you. That was so hard to lt go of something you so identied with... You have helped me get diagnosised. Being on the spectrum I have always looked for someone who I felt oh that's me.... Well that was you. It was like I finally made sense. Calling a doctor and finally being aware and getting diagnosed ADHD and on the spectrum at 49. Shocking is an understatement. But watching you.. I get me if that makes sense. Keep being you. Simply amazing you. Nice to meet Chloe
I am so happy and proud of you I love you so much and thanks for being princess aspien when you put out your tiktok and face book post I was emotional and I am extremely sensitive and I am happy but you give me power I was sad but I am now doing what you are doing as autistic teen I taking over the role of princess aspirin my name is gidget Inge Roche I am asking you Chloe Sara Hayden can I be the new princess aspien I love you so much and I always though it should of been for you queen aspien because you are a true queen
So long Princess Aspien Hello Chloe Hayden and Welcome! 💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
Hi CHole! I'm ust now seeing this on my birthday May 11th & I just wanna say that though this is a hard thing to understand, I know that this is gonna be a butterfly in the making :) I love you Cholé, dont ever change & love will always be your guide! :)-LIZZY
Hey Chloe! Its that wise old (er) guy from Up north again! Hey Thank you for not misconstruing my intentions, and knowing we Both Love Tim Minchin's music for how silly,but acurate he is in his words. I still want to send you a bottle of wine for Christmas, the White wine Resupe that I've been calling instant merlot (about 355 ml sprite (12 oz here) and 50 ml Indoggo(strawberry jin by Snoop Dogg). Seems like a nice bit of bubbly for the holidays 😅. Thank you for your Music 🎶 and that autistic rant on TicToc was quite the moral boost I needed after a life long series of Medical Malpractice involding my autistic self. Sad to hear the Solaris Princess has dropped her title (being closer to our. Nearist star alpha centari I hope to get down there at some point 🤓) and hopefully to help spread Joy by setting up a few weddings! I have been working on my side of the globe, and now I'm between homes (to make a point on this foolish Homlessness problem we have here and help others with healthier perspectaves) Thanks for the P wing (if you catch the Super Mario reference 😂) Thank you again for your outstandang humanitarian efforts for children on the spectrum!
Queen Chloe... or just Chloe! we love u!
Technically your not saying goodbye your saying hello to a new chapter of life. Princess Aspien will always be a good part of chloes history to look back on 🤟💟☮ Princess Aspien has grown into Quirky Queen Chloe
Love you Chloé!!! 🤍
You're still a Princess.. but your Princess Chloe now.. Princess Aspien will be apart of you! 😍😘😘😘
That laugh at 4:02 .. cute and very meaningful
Congratulations, and we look forward to continuing your adventure with you.
Your awesome
Terrific. Good luck with moving into the future.
Love this Chloe! Here's to the next chapter! 🌼💕
I wish I could upvote this a hundred times.
Good luck on the next chapter, Chloe.
Proud of you! ❤️
We love you Chloé! Princess or not 💓
Fantastic! Honestly, the name was off putting when I didn't know anything else about the channel/ you and wasn't sure what your choice of language indicated about your perspective on these issues. Very comforted by this video.
Same!
Chloe, this is so so fantastic. Your content has been amazing but I have struggled with the term. Great work for listening, advocating, and growing xx