Black Love Live | Getting Past Addiction with Someone You Love

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Devale Ellis gets transparent about one of the darkest times in his life and how Khadeen played a huge role in getting through his addiction.
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Комментарии • 88

  • @LC-widowed
    @LC-widowed 4 года назад +152

    Real men do cry Devale. But you’re making me so emotional!

  • @minnieshadesofbeautyllc5395
    @minnieshadesofbeautyllc5395 4 года назад +6

    Some men try to show you how much they don't need you.

  • @esolo9209
    @esolo9209 2 года назад

    I feel that same as a black woman.....
    I feel as though I always have be a "strong black woman" its extremely draining "I just want to be a woman, just a woman" 😔

  • @nepps6766
    @nepps6766 4 года назад +159

    Respect him so much for showing his emotions and recognizing how much his wife held him down!

  • @TheLuvlfe
    @TheLuvlfe 4 года назад +125

    I have three sons who are young adults.. I pray that they end up with a wife like Khadeen. SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL. :)

    • @purpleprince2598
      @purpleprince2598 4 года назад +3

      Yes ma’am

    •  4 года назад +2

      Me too!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @knightoyin6500
      @knightoyin6500 3 года назад +1

      Amen. I'm a guy and I need a wife like her as well.

    • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
      @SpiritualLifeCoach43 2 года назад +1

      Show them this series.

    • @fatimadildy5997
      @fatimadildy5997 2 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @yaniquelarmond1254
    @yaniquelarmond1254 4 года назад +66

    Love and respect you guys so much. Thats the strength of a woman. I salute you Khadeen 😚😚😚😚😚😚

  • @islandgirl8914
    @islandgirl8914 4 года назад +46

    He’s the man of the house, but he wanted to rely on her......husband ♥️ wife....true meaning. 🥂🙏🏽🥂🙏🏽🥂🙏🏽🥂🙏🏽🥂♥️

  • @turklatasha191
    @turklatasha191 3 года назад +28

    Khadeen is so wise! She understood that that the NFL was just a job and she believed in him after football. Love all the Black love series! All of the couples in this series are beautiful!❤

  • @rodzaeries1981
    @rodzaeries1981 4 года назад +56

    Wow the memory of it still makes him emotional. Just wow.

  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 4 года назад +33

    I am so happy he is speaking up on addiction, so many people struggle with this. Being a professional athlete, especially in some sports is brutal to your body.

  • @tamirajohnelle4700
    @tamirajohnelle4700 3 года назад +25

    I have so much respect for him saying, “sometimes I don’t wanna be tough even though I’m the man of the house.” It’s okay to be you no matter what society tells you to be. I love them together.

  • @zoraidacastro5403
    @zoraidacastro5403 4 года назад +64

    This guy was blessed with a wife early on. WOW he doesn't want to know what would of happened without her. That is DEEP. Men need to believe in marriage early on. But it seems like men mature later on.

  • @metropcs7560
    @metropcs7560 4 года назад +20

    This is why, we need to cultivate, love, treasure, pray for and literally feed the boys who turn into men, my God!!! Help us Lord to get up out of ourselves, love and help others. The Father says come and we run away, help me Lord to do my part!!!

  • @CharCharJars
    @CharCharJars 4 года назад +22

    Thank you for being so real, yes this is what our community needs to see & know. Thank you all for sharing from the heart.😍

  • @mathewrym4381
    @mathewrym4381 4 года назад +40

    To khadeen,
    You're a blessing to the guy and same for him towards you.

  • @ms.johnson9627
    @ms.johnson9627 4 года назад +17

    I ❤️ the transparency of them both for this. We definitely need to see this more often.

  • @BEAUTYFUL18
    @BEAUTYFUL18 2 года назад +8

    KHADEEN IS ALREADY A CRYER AND EMOTIONAL BY NATURE.SEEING HIM LIKE THIS YOU CAN TELL SHE WANT TO BURST IN TEARS😢

  • @sherenay3109
    @sherenay3109 4 года назад +17

    His story had me crying 😭.

  • @kimbachapman8488
    @kimbachapman8488 3 года назад +8

    I totally understand how the depression goes! He needed her God is faithful because he would have been destroyed in that life style! I’m so glad he is okay

  • @henrydog80
    @henrydog80 4 года назад +15

    Oh gosh, Im crying for them too! 😭😩

  • @sheliaroberson3799
    @sheliaroberson3799 3 года назад +6

    That’s marriage!! It’s real… The two become one. Khadeen is ride or die for life!! He is blessed and so is she.

  • @slip7232
    @slip7232 4 года назад +26

    Your family is so beautiful and filled with so much love.

  • @bakarifuller88
    @bakarifuller88 4 года назад +17

    I want love.

  • @jenniferdurant9680
    @jenniferdurant9680 3 года назад +5

    This was the video that make me a follower for the Ellises family, they are so real just love them and I pray for them everyday God bless them.

  • @kimbachapman8488
    @kimbachapman8488 3 года назад +3

    That’s crazy 5 operations hell no forget that crap! He was going through hell

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 4 года назад +6

    Beautiful black love. This is wonderful, black love!

  • @liliantj
    @liliantj 4 года назад +15

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @lrj421
    @lrj421 3 года назад +2

    Your story reminded me of the Movie in few scenes called " JUST WRIGHT" starring a FINE Black Man named " Common" and his co-star Queen Latifah...
    What trigger that movie to mind when Devale said best year of his life was with his Wife Khadeen..
    What Common , who played, Scott McKnight, said that Leslie ( Queen ) made worst 3 months of his Life --THE BEST TIME OF HIS LIFE...
    IMMEDIATELY HE LEAVES INTERVIEWS TO PURSUE LESLIE IN MARRIAGE😭😭😭😭💎🎁
    WOOO!!
    AS WOMAN
    THAT BRINGS TEARS OF JOY ... Y'ALL

  • @ronisharichards1338
    @ronisharichards1338 4 года назад +6

    I love The Ellis’!

  • @doriscarthen3079
    @doriscarthen3079 3 года назад +3

    We just love you both on the show with the sister: and your t-v show with your beautiful family. We are so glad you made it through your storms. We wish you the best to come ahead.

  • @eloiseramsey9276
    @eloiseramsey9276 3 года назад +3

    This is what marriage is two people depending on each other to make it though. Live is hard ya'll, we have to hold each other up. Unfortunately we don't appreciate the fact that marriage is a partnership and both partners have to trust that she is about him and he is about her. When a man can't see survival without you, that's him ladies that's your man.

    • @BEAUTYFUL18
      @BEAUTYFUL18 2 года назад

      GLAD I GOT A GOOD HUSBAND SOULMATE FOR 12 YEARS

  • @ohshhitsvegan9301
    @ohshhitsvegan9301 2 года назад +2

    Wow 😳 I really respect the both of them so much more. The fact that he knows he’s safe enough with his wife to feel those emotions all the way through is just a blessing! Wow. Must respect and love to y’all.

  • @nicoleholley7049
    @nicoleholley7049 2 года назад +1

    I wish my husband said that about me!

  • @mariaelisavicini5959
    @mariaelisavicini5959 Год назад

    I know that feeling 💔😭when you suffer from addiction its so crucial to have the right person by you. I felt his stress even remembering , I know that feeling so much.

  • @AtheneHolder
    @AtheneHolder 3 года назад +2

    support. we all need it.

  • @matthews32
    @matthews32 3 года назад +2

    Wow beautiful im tearing up

  • @spencercms
    @spencercms 2 года назад +1

    This man truly loves his wife. I love this energy and I pray that God bless me with this one day ❤️🙏🏽

  • @Justnik05
    @Justnik05 3 года назад +2

    I. LOVE. THESE. TWO. PERIODT.

  • @Khyboh
    @Khyboh 2 года назад +1

    I love her, she's such a great Woman!! 🙏🏾💝

  • @tradinamosley8043
    @tradinamosley8043 2 года назад +1

    I love how much he loves her

  • @denisescott6469
    @denisescott6469 Год назад

    I love Khadeen and Devale! ❤❤❤

  • @ladyindaroom
    @ladyindaroom Год назад

    He really needs to be totally convinced in his heart that He is Forgiven!
    The enemy is still trying to hold that addiction over his head! That’s what the devil loves to do.
    I pray he gets delivers from that hidden self condemnation in Jesus name🙏🏿

  • @utube0803
    @utube0803 2 года назад +1

    Real talk

  • @lrj421
    @lrj421 3 года назад

    Athletes and Musicians go through alot...
    Not Easy....
    It's true... You don't know if you be on top today or down tomorrow😕
    I have been in music industry for awhile..
    I seen close hand stress behind-the-scenes😥
    Lord Jesus has been my ROCK and Spiritual Husband to this Woman.....
    I never been Married... Enjoy Singlehood and no hurry to marry...
    Devale. Hold onto Khadeen...

  • @kimbachapman8488
    @kimbachapman8488 3 года назад

    Stop making me cry D but he is so freaking brave yo! God bless

  • @sbonelocele3711
    @sbonelocele3711 3 года назад

    What was the role of the sister in the black dress?....

  • @vincenthouston6433
    @vincenthouston6433 4 года назад +1

    Aww

  • @TWN321
    @TWN321 3 года назад

    Dreams become nightmares....

  • @QueenChastity
    @QueenChastity 2 года назад

    I’m happy she saved his life!

  • @emykol
    @emykol 2 года назад

    Insane respect for Devale...

  • @annalisa8424
    @annalisa8424 4 года назад

    Y'all seriously mek mi a rethink marriage, i love y'all my my

  • @postivevibes3030
    @postivevibes3030 4 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher Год назад

    These two 💖

  • @purpleprince2598
    @purpleprince2598 4 года назад +1

    😯

  • @mygodisawesome6121
    @mygodisawesome6121 2 года назад

    Awww

  • @olivelanguagespace
    @olivelanguagespace 3 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @satindol69able
    @satindol69able 4 года назад +18

    Yup, my tear ducts work a-o-k! Thanks. 🖤

  • @ForThe.MOMENT
    @ForThe.MOMENT 3 года назад

    Why tommy ain’t said a word? He look like he don’t wanna be there

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 4 года назад +11

    Oh lawd Devale. Too emotional for no reason. Smh Co-dependency is not a good look

    • @SheniceSays214
      @SheniceSays214 4 года назад +129

      This is why men can’t win because of women like you they are damned if they do damn or damned if they don’t. He was not being too emotional he was reflecting on a very painful start time in his life but I guess you’ve never hit your bottle of rock-bottom. And don’t judge someone for how they handled what they’ve gone through the biggest thing is that they’re on the other side of it and they made it that’s what matters. It’s women who think like you are the reason why men don’t talk express themselves how they feel and what they think about things. Shame on you

    • @shashavengesayi6055
      @shashavengesayi6055 4 года назад +59

      I feel sorry for whatever man ends up with you or has already

    • @ooakRAREGEM
      @ooakRAREGEM 4 года назад +77

      He's not a machine, he's a human. Let the man express himself.

    • @tshegotams4546
      @tshegotams4546 4 года назад +40

      You came here to just drop hate for people you don’t even know?🤔

    • @rebuiltgirl3263
      @rebuiltgirl3263 4 года назад +22

      @@tshegotams4546 her last three comments on this channel were negative and very disrespectful. While I watched something that makes you so unhappy. If you know that it brings out negative words comments feelings watch something that makes you happy can you drink a soda or a nice iced tea. Life is too stressful to be watching and engaging in content that doesn't make you smile