Black Love Live | Can You Balance Marriage, Careers & Children?

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • In this clip, the couples talk about finding balance and why putting yourself at the top of the priority list benefits everyone! Devale also dives into how he turned his frustration with the entertainment industry into something positive.
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Комментарии • 126

  • @rodzaeries1981
    @rodzaeries1981 4 года назад +198

    Khadeen and Devale are hilariously in love. He's so himself. I like that.

  • @sharonpulido9121
    @sharonpulido9121 4 года назад +63

    Khadeen and devale ellis you'll such a great inspiration for me and husband...love you guys

  • @Livelife95ify
    @Livelife95ify 3 года назад +4

    The wife is my best friend in my head.
    I loooooooove her.... kadeen is a 🌟

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 4 года назад +119

    It’s so true. Stay fresh. “You haven’t kissed me in 72 hours.” Yes. Stay in your lane.

  • @TheRenee10
    @TheRenee10 4 года назад +87

    I truly believe putting yourself first as a woman is what's best for the entire household

  • @lnj2000
    @lnj2000 4 года назад +190

    I’m single but love watching this show. I was in a relationship with my daughter father but he passed and I haven’t been in relationship since been 8 years. Watching this makes me want to find that love again.

    • @Ms.Jamieh297
      @Ms.Jamieh297 4 года назад +17

      Pray that God will bless you with love in your life again 🙏💜🤗

    • @femdivinemind7777
      @femdivinemind7777 4 года назад +10

      Sending you love a healing xxx

    • @lnj2000
      @lnj2000 4 года назад

      Femdivine Mind thank you

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад +1

      Grace to u.. 🔥❤🔥

    • @lnj2000
      @lnj2000 4 года назад

      Acharich Speaks thank you

  • @MichelleAvrielleKalyce
    @MichelleAvrielleKalyce 3 года назад +73

    Their body language is so beautiful! He never lets himself be closed off to her, did anybody else notice? When she had her arm up leaning toward him, his arm was down, but as soon as she moved her arm so she wasn't open to him, he lifted his arm so he was open to her. That was so cute

  • @Mikkima0203
    @Mikkima0203 4 года назад +41

    DeVale gives me MARTIN LAWRENCE tease! I love it! Kay is def his Gina. 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @MUNCHOSGIRL01
      @MUNCHOSGIRL01 3 года назад +2

      That is his idol....he impersonate him a great deal

  • @anjusmith843
    @anjusmith843 4 года назад +50

    I absolutely love this couple..I knew there had to be some Caribbean roots there... Devale is a born comedian...talented...

  • @LifeisSoSincere
    @LifeisSoSincere 4 года назад +89

    Black love is so beautiful 🖤

    • @Sybilgause
      @Sybilgause 3 года назад +3

      Black love is Powerful 👊🏾

  • @JustDemani
    @JustDemani 4 года назад +76

    Now he’s at a million and an actorrr!!!! Love the growth.

    • @Perfeccionista89
      @Perfeccionista89 4 года назад +4

      Money means nothing love. Trust me.
      My husband and I cover the bills and we are so in love and happy. We don't need more money as it's evil. Real Love is better than money. Trust me.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад +7

      @@Perfeccionista89 it's the love of money that's evil, not money itself.. 🔑

    • @Perfeccionista89
      @Perfeccionista89 4 года назад

      @@acharich I understand your point but my comment still stands. Too many people have died over currency. So, to me, money is evil.

  • @josephross3926
    @josephross3926 4 года назад +11

    Sounding like Oprah Obama😂😂😂

  • @lotusphoenix8
    @lotusphoenix8 2 года назад +8

    I think what's important is to do the check-in without fighting, without personalizing it and making your partner out to be the villain and not loving you. You just randomly grab them in the middle of the busyness of life and make-out. Take the laptop/dishrag/whatever out of their hand and just hold them. I'm here for that!

  • @sandrafacey579
    @sandrafacey579 4 года назад +43

    Love this family and all their shenagenans .

  • @LizzyLuv80
    @LizzyLuv80 4 года назад +19

    Yaaasss, the way Devale look at Kay, one day Lord🥰 #blacklove

  • @ntebe1
    @ntebe1 4 года назад +36

    Devale is a mess! Lol.

  • @IS33U
    @IS33U 4 года назад +17

    I remember when I relocated to the area where I live... co-worker was talking about growing in the hood with no father. She says "you know how was." I was like nope. I grew in a rural area 2 parent house hold. Chick was ready to fight me - said I was lying. After I reminded her that we FIGHT differently in the country , she killed all that nonsense. But my childhood had its issues even in a 2 parent household. The neighborhood was the same - even though some of the dads and moms was in the Streets! I think we have to realize those fairy tales don't translate to real life. Relationships, marriage , children, careers- THAT SHIT IS HARD SOMETIMES!!!

  • @ambition1224
    @ambition1224 4 года назад +11

    Not Oprah Obama!! They are so funny!

  • @istyleliz
    @istyleliz 4 года назад +9

    Married with 4 children 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏿‍♂️definitely hard for me & us time

  • @dezzyduke6963
    @dezzyduke6963 3 года назад +8

    I like the family videos. They are a awesome example of black family and love

  • @cmlady0437
    @cmlady0437 4 года назад +8

    That is so true...
    Also, listen to the video from 8:56 to the end.
    Thank God for the production of "Black Love".... I personally want to see it more and I am glad to see a whole panel of it discussed and shared in social media.
    And that's how people as a whole -- learn, grow, and redefine what we understand how black love should be.... For our young people & for the older generation, who never got a opportunity to see it clearly in their own lives.

  • @sharonpulido9121
    @sharonpulido9121 4 года назад +20

    And also being a mom, give me a great inspiration how you balance...just like u I have a 2yr old...love how u keep going and being very positive and real

  • @geraldcbaker2033
    @geraldcbaker2033 4 года назад +7

    BEING REAL! I'm so pleased to see young couples who are willing to show the world that we're humans--who happen to be black! but GOD is our greatest example of love and WE like it too, i.e., LOVE. From an 84 yr older who was married for 47.5 yrs to my high school sweeetheart, until my husbands's death. I still get goose pimples when I think about his person! O yea!!

  • @wanZ...
    @wanZ... 4 года назад +17

    Love love love love this platform!❤❤❤❤ Love love love love these people!!!❤❤❤❤Thank You‼

  • @hunibuni
    @hunibuni 2 года назад +3

    Watching this I just realized how much of Devale's personality is present in Zac's character LOL. I love what he said.."people need to see you with your bonnet on" So true, let's get away from all that fake stuff and love each other's truth.

  • @Sugastack
    @Sugastack 4 года назад +9

    They’re such a beautiful ,loving couple. I’ve watched DeVale and Khadeen’s videos. I’m glad they keep it real. You have to prioritize family life. It’s not always easy. My kids are grown now. I will be 50 on Sept. 30. I have 4 adult children. We had a routine back in the day. I have known my husband since I was 18 years old he was 21. We’re still together. He’s a good, hardworking man. I love him and I’m proud of the man he has become. Shoutout to all couples who are the epitome of Black Love. 👏🏾 ❤️🙏🏾

  • @CM-yr1ou
    @CM-yr1ou 4 года назад +13

    I love watching this show as well. My last relationship (and dating) was 13+ years ago. I agree with Inj2000 "watching this makes me want to find that love again".

  • @sarahkibunja3939
    @sarahkibunja3939 4 года назад +24

    I wanna be Khadeen right now and have Devale for a husband damn! He has hots for her till now

  • @riverst79
    @riverst79 4 года назад +7

    You guys are the truth! I’m 17 years married and going through exactly what he said. I’m learning so much from you guys..This video helped me so much!

  • @josesantana27
    @josesantana27 3 года назад +5

    What resonated with Me was when He said Great people created their Own lane. Awesome insight.

  • @deliciouseatsandsweets1031
    @deliciouseatsandsweets1031 3 года назад +7

    I am so happy that the Ellises are showing true black love on social media. Keeping it 💯

  • @LizzyLuv80
    @LizzyLuv80 4 года назад +7

    Nah, I love seeing us in a positive light, loving on each other, showing our black men doing what we know they do, love and provide for their family. I'll take this over the ratcheted, ijs🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @alisongardner7476
    @alisongardner7476 3 года назад +5

    Well ive learnt what eggplant friday is lol😅😅😅😅😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Shame on me at 49 and dont know this...😅😅😅😅😅😆

  • @patriciadavis5939
    @patriciadavis5939 3 года назад +5

    You have to keep on investing in your love for each other and at the same time giving each other space.

  • @ThatHoodGurl2TheHood
    @ThatHoodGurl2TheHood 4 года назад +6

    Black Love is such a powerful show. I love it. I pray that God bless me with a love like no other. Keep up the good work.

  • @roots4140
    @roots4140 2 года назад +2

    Wow. So so good. And tragic at the same time. This is the same thing they said when the Cosby show first came out - they said it wasn't a realistic portrayal of black folks. So sad.

  • @andreasmith9448
    @andreasmith9448 4 года назад +6

    That is very true, the feeling of hey I need my kiss like its been way to long and absolutely the feeling of I just want to be Andy, not something to everyone else at this moment!

  • @peggysueusa2946
    @peggysueusa2946 4 года назад +13

    Excellent I loved it

  • @Agishawashere.g
    @Agishawashere.g 4 года назад +10

    Hehehehe! They can smell your teeth through the camera.

  • @deewright5964
    @deewright5964 4 года назад +25

    I love seeing you guys because you're so inspiring

  • @LizzyLuv80
    @LizzyLuv80 4 года назад +6

    Yaaasss black love is great🥰

  • @JATM509
    @JATM509 4 года назад +10

    I love them!!!! Love this too lol

  • @CeeceeH1819
    @CeeceeH1819 4 года назад +4

    I would like to hear the couples talk more about a growth mindset in their relationship. How do they deal with their evolving relationship. There needs to be a conscious commitment to that because ppl do not stay the same and the dynamics of a relationship changes. How are these things addressed or they simply ignored until there is a problem.

  • @shannonsmith8884
    @shannonsmith8884 4 года назад +13

    Great message

  • @Luvinlife71
    @Luvinlife71 4 года назад +17

    I love the Ellises!!!

  • @chedbeckford8067
    @chedbeckford8067 3 года назад +3

    Sounding like Oprah Obama 😂😂

  • @meditativedestinations3117
    @meditativedestinations3117 4 года назад +2

    Dude, you're right!!! More people NEED to see and hear this. Cause honestly, I'm only here because I NO LONGER believe in "black" love. It's a bunch of B.S.

  • @queenesther743
    @queenesther743 4 года назад +8

    This was really good

  • @christthelord91
    @christthelord91 4 года назад +12

    great!!

  • @jkinese3841
    @jkinese3841 4 года назад +4

    Can you put the interviewees names in the credits so we can look them up please

  • @matthews32
    @matthews32 3 года назад +3

    Aww i felt there love ❤

  • @kensmichel7061
    @kensmichel7061 3 года назад +1

    Ok loving the convo. The honesty is superb. The microphone feedback is no Bueno though.

  • @TheTerrific1
    @TheTerrific1 Год назад

    2023, Devale and Khadeen 2.2M and 1.3M followers respectively. Absolutely beautiful watching their growth ❤❤❤

  • @kiaralewis30
    @kiaralewis30 3 года назад +2

    Love them! Very transparent!

  • @ebonysmith1800
    @ebonysmith1800 4 года назад +4

    Beautiful

  • @FindYourFree
    @FindYourFree 2 года назад +1

    a great family

  • @keisharowland6176
    @keisharowland6176 3 года назад +1

    Love this segment. Thank you 🥰 #Blacklove

  • @jenethompsonart
    @jenethompsonart 3 года назад +6

    I love how he loves her!!!!!!

  • @angelicashobby
    @angelicashobby 4 года назад +2

    Devale said all that needs to be said.

  • @BlessedDivine77
    @BlessedDivine77 4 года назад +8

    Great interview guys👏🏽💝

  • @annegichanga4000
    @annegichanga4000 4 года назад +5

    This was great. Kudos to Black Love.

  • @kadiriakhere2644
    @kadiriakhere2644 2 года назад +1

    I respect you guys...

  • @evekembumbulu1599
    @evekembumbulu1599 3 года назад +1

    Yeah you need to out yourself first for real

  • @ruthmoore-smith7834
    @ruthmoore-smith7834 4 года назад +5

    Love this real life series for beautiful brilliant African American couples. I am divorce and I enjoy celebrating with these couples. Keep the positive practical scenarios coming as many outside/inside of our Communities need to see positive images

  • @dawn7220
    @dawn7220 3 года назад +1

    He is so right. 😍

  • @harryhooven7428
    @harryhooven7428 Год назад

    Good job... You never loved me

  • @harryhooven7428
    @harryhooven7428 Год назад

    I never been so dishonored

  • @LNR82
    @LNR82 4 года назад +1

    Putting u first...sometimes 🤣

  • @madintlemojaki1019
    @madintlemojaki1019 Год назад

    Oprah Obama 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @roots4140
    @roots4140 2 года назад

    You know I have a father, right.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dkaydowell1102
    @dkaydowell1102 4 года назад +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @australiamcdougal7876
    @australiamcdougal7876 2 года назад

    I love black love🤗🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘

  • @maydavalle
    @maydavalle 4 года назад +1

    💗

  • @lisaclingingtochrist5295
    @lisaclingingtochrist5295 3 года назад

    YESSSSSSSS!!! THIS RIGHT HERE!!!!!!!!!

  • @Jaxya1
    @Jaxya1 2 года назад

    He’s telling the truth

  • @SomeThingsDontNeedCommentary
    @SomeThingsDontNeedCommentary 3 года назад

    Narh this guy is hilarious 🤣

  • @Jaxya1
    @Jaxya1 2 года назад

    I love it

  • @tiffanig9810
    @tiffanig9810 3 года назад

    So real

  • @patport3129
    @patport3129 2 года назад

    💞💞

  • @fielonw
    @fielonw 3 года назад

  • @jessicalewis2508
    @jessicalewis2508 3 года назад

    Knowing your father is NOT common. I'm glad you have that but it is quite shocking for the rest of us. Yes I'm black.

    • @thooker4999
      @thooker4999 Год назад

      Your comment surprises me. I knew my father since my parents were married and so did all of the kids in my neighborhood growing up and I'm Black too.

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 4 года назад +3

    The Ellises have help and really don't raise their kids. So they are not the best example

    • @TheRenee10
      @TheRenee10 4 года назад +19

      It takes a village! there's nothing wrong with having a support system I couldn't do it without mine.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад +2

      @@TheRenee10 🔥💎🔥

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 4 года назад +7

      Latise Wilson honey, I had a nanny and still raised my kids. Bitter much.

    • @jessicalewis2508
      @jessicalewis2508 3 года назад +4

      Having help isn't best? Please explain... Why do we have to struggle to be real? This sounds ignorant and jealous. Please expound.

    • @nthomengmajara8575
      @nthomengmajara8575 3 года назад +2

      Heal.... please. What you said is more indicative of what you've got going on, more than you realise.