At this point, I think our dating lives as modern men was crafted in an alternate hell dimension within a large pit of agonizing flames, where brimming jewels of torment are made and were sealed into our consciousness one by one to produce true suffering for those around us to find delight from our pain.. lol. "Torture" is the greatest lover that we as modern men will always know." Great video, Javal and I'm glad you will win your case now with that evidence.👌
She absolutely does, from what shes told me she already got away with alot of shit, justice system lets women off all the damn time, BPD dudes arent walking around as much cuz they just get locked away
Javal, I recently blocked 🚫 a woman because she was giving signs something wasn't right with her especiallyher hot and cold behavior and how she communicates. Not sure if she is BPD but she is definitely giving me the evil eye when she drives by me during my runs/jogs. She doesn't even realize why I blocked her. A few weeks ago I completely scattered my phone and wasn't able to retrieve the messages we had on my new phone. I know I have to be even more careful and even my cousin said the same thing. A lot of what you said is spot on especially the control power.
@javalsmith2594 you and 10 other people have told me that. Even random strangers. Did the BPD ex ever make you feel guilty like it was your fault? She definitely made me feel like I was a horrible person for blocking 🚫 her. Like you mentioned, " It's all about them and their feelings" and no regard for someone else's.
@@Taylormademan900 oh the BPD ex did this all the time man, one of the most prominent times was after she attacked me with a paintball gun all because i was trying to leave the convo cuz she was getting heated, when she got arrested for it, a few days after she told me "i put her there" even though shes the one that attacked me when i was literally trying to run
@@javalsmith2594 I'm grateful 🙏 you were able to move on and get through this. A lot of men end up taking their own lives over false allegation incidents like this.
I can sympathize with wanting to help someone with mental problems but it’s nothing you can do they have to heal themselves. They’re very manipulative and they prey on empathetic people like you said. But at times people like that don’t even try to toxic they just have issues that make them behave irrationally
I know ur Glad thats over thanks 4 sharing bro. On a persinal note ive known about this condition all my life my mom has ts and trust me its horrible to grow up with.
Javal survived the "I can fix her" anime arc! Let's gooooo! Genuinely glad you are okay mate. If I knew you were involved with a BPD girl, I would have 100% told you to run for your life. Hindsight is 20/20 though. Like you said, most men are not equipped to help people who are mentally ill or depressed. Hell, even Therapists are ineffective at solving their problems. Barring extreme cases of mental illness, most individuals ultimately, HAVE to help themselves. And if they refuse to help themselves, or can't, you just gotta keep your distance as much as possible, or avoid completely. I bet being single and free never felt so good right about now, huh? lol Please don't pull a blue pill brain and go back to her. I'll be so mad if you do! *_~May you find your worth in the waking world~_*
12:39 bro after the first time you should’ve been gone mane. It seems like you traded a girl with lower looks that was good for you for a girl with great looks that was terrible for you. But I get what you’re saying about accepting the verbal insults because you grew up in it. We all make mistakes though
It's foolish to put up with an abusive relationship thinking you can change the other person. People are the way they are, you can't fix them. Find the broken person who's broken in a way that is compatible with you and don't settle for any less.
@@EpicMinecraftFail i called the cops on her once after she attacked me with a paintball gun that actually hurt like hell because i was trying to leave the relationship, to which she got arrested for like a day or 2, but that was it and she ended up persuading me to retake her again
That's good you were able to have that counter evidence. Unfortunately normies fail to realize how big of a problem false allegations are.
At this point, I think our dating lives as modern men was crafted in an alternate hell dimension within a large pit of agonizing flames, where brimming jewels of torment are made and were sealed into our consciousness one by one to produce true suffering for those around us to find delight from our pain.. lol. "Torture" is the greatest lover that we as modern men will always know." Great video, Javal and I'm glad you will win your case now with that evidence.👌
lol i think thats the only sensible explanation at this point
I had a mother like this, except she was never happy. She only showed me her angry side, and only angry side. Absolute bull shid
@natefoster5454 she probably blamed you for her shortcomings and failures too. Your mother is a pos 💩
I’m happy to hear that bro! She deserves jail time
She absolutely does, from what shes told me she already got away with alot of shit, justice system lets women off all the damn time, BPD dudes arent walking around as much cuz they just get locked away
Now stop letting your dick control you
@@Ronaldo-wg9hg lol yeah a tough pill to swallow but i will swallow it
She should go to prison for years for the false allegations.
This story is so common in USA
Its got to be ar least 10% of men have had this issue
Javal, I recently blocked 🚫 a woman because she was giving signs something wasn't right with her especiallyher hot and cold behavior and how she communicates. Not sure if she is BPD but she is definitely giving me the evil eye when she drives by me during my runs/jogs. She doesn't even realize why I blocked her. A few weeks ago I completely scattered my phone and wasn't able to retrieve the messages we had on my new phone. I know I have to be even more careful and even my cousin said the same thing. A lot of what you said is spot on especially the control power.
You probably dodged a bullet nice 6th sense
@javalsmith2594 you and 10 other people have told me that. Even random strangers. Did the BPD ex ever make you feel guilty like it was your fault? She definitely made me feel like I was a horrible person for blocking 🚫 her. Like you mentioned, " It's all about them and their feelings" and no regard for someone else's.
@@Taylormademan900 oh the BPD ex did this all the time man, one of the most prominent times was after she attacked me with a paintball gun all because i was trying to leave the convo cuz she was getting heated, when she got arrested for it, a few days after she told me "i put her there" even though shes the one that attacked me when i was literally trying to run
@@javalsmith2594 I'm grateful 🙏 you were able to move on and get through this. A lot of men end up taking their own lives over false allegation incidents like this.
You had you a CJ & Catalina from GTA San Andreas type relationship. Got damn. Kudos to you for climbing your way outta that circle of hell.
Good. Now go after her for damages and filing false reports.
Glad to see a turn around. Big up irmao
Im glad a good man like you is able to walk away from yhis
I can sympathize with wanting to help someone with mental problems but it’s nothing you can do they have to heal themselves. They’re very manipulative and they prey on empathetic people like you said. But at times people like that don’t even try to toxic they just have issues that make them behave irrationally
Glad things went well Javal!
Congrats bro, I hope this brings you much peace of mind! (I know thats not gonna last as a black piller but I hope at least for a lil while)
I know ur Glad thats over thanks 4 sharing bro. On a persinal note ive known about this condition all my life my mom has ts and trust me its horrible to grow up with.
it aint over over yet, but it should be good, yeah couldnt imagine growing up with people like this
Javal survived the "I can fix her" anime arc! Let's gooooo! Genuinely glad you are okay mate.
If I knew you were involved with a BPD girl, I would have 100% told you to run for your life. Hindsight is 20/20 though.
Like you said, most men are not equipped to help people who are mentally ill or depressed.
Hell, even Therapists are ineffective at solving their problems.
Barring extreme cases of mental illness, most individuals ultimately, HAVE to help themselves.
And if they refuse to help themselves, or can't, you just gotta keep your distance as much as possible, or avoid completely.
I bet being single and free never felt so good right about now, huh? lol
Please don't pull a blue pill brain and go back to her. I'll be so mad if you do!
*_~May you find your worth in the waking world~_*
Incredible vid mate
Very telling and important
Good luck
Yes my brother!more proof that dem bishes be crazy!
Congrats man🎉
As a dude with BPD 😂😂😂
She pulled a moth*****king SHANK on you???? Multiple times???
Goddamn bro...
@@Fupcel no shank a 5 inch chef knife
12:39 bro after the first time you should’ve been gone mane. It seems like you traded a girl with lower looks that was good for you for a girl with great looks that was terrible for you. But I get what you’re saying about accepting the verbal insults because you grew up in it. We all make mistakes though
It's foolish to put up with an abusive relationship thinking you can change the other person. People are the way they are, you can't fix them. Find the broken person who's broken in a way that is compatible with you and don't settle for any less.
brutally correct
so you're telling me she chased you with a knife and you never decided to call the cops?
@@EpicMinecraftFail i called the cops on her once after she attacked me with a paintball gun that actually hurt like hell because i was trying to leave the relationship, to which she got arrested for like a day or 2, but that was it and she ended up persuading me to retake her again
I know you don't believe in God, but I hope you thank God you got a second chance.
Na just thank the Lawyer
Bro got abused by a girl again 😂
Same one just reuploading