MY MARRIAGE BROKE AFTER 30 BITTER YEARS. I've learnt that how you deal with pain is all about you

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  • Опубликовано: 27 май 2023
  • Rev-Dr Penny Njoroge Hsc is a mental health expert. She knows what it is to suffer from depression and losing the will to live 😥😥
    Her marriage ended after 30 bitter years. But her pain didn’t stop her from achieving what she truly loved: education!
    She joined college at the age of 56 in the US. At 76 years, she has a PHD in psychiatry.
    Her message is clear: they may have hurt you but how you react to the pain is all about you🥰🥰🥰😥
    Choose TO LOVE YOU!

Комментарии • 332

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 Год назад +11

    Fulfilling our dreams,also went for diploma at 47,today a master in Jesus name,I am 64 years

  • @Mdalasini
    @Mdalasini Год назад +76

    I am 40 years old this year, and I grew up in Kibera Laini Saba. I am a graduate. I have hope! I will be better!

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 Год назад +5

      Wow. The Ghetto Kids Rise To Be Prominent People. Write Your VISION In Capital Letters. Almost Your Age n We Should Hope For Big Things Sister💕💕

    • @ciccoann2311
      @ciccoann2311 Год назад +2

      Amen

    • @josephinewambugu4803
      @josephinewambugu4803 Год назад +2

      C🎉 congratulations

    • @Gorgeousij
      @Gorgeousij Год назад +1

      Go go go the sky is not the limit

  • @kezzybett1142
    @kezzybett1142 Год назад +33

    I was in a toxic marriage for 7 yrs an i thank God i quit before i ran mad
    Now my babies are grown up, nimekuwa shosh n i thank God very much

  • @rosemuthoni8135
    @rosemuthoni8135 Год назад +16

    I went through emotional abuse for more than 20 years. Today am free but it wasn't easy

  • @elizabethwanguiwambugu8381
    @elizabethwanguiwambugu8381 Год назад +22

    Very inspiring story from mum
    You have motivated me ,and you have given me the reason to go back to school ,and i attain my degree and if its Gods will even PHD,i did Form 4 in 1991,i attained grade C in a Provincial High which i joined with 427marks,,but being the first born in a family of 7,in a poor background i never continued with college.before end of this year i will have to join University by Gods grace
    Thanks alot Monica Kagoni for such an encouraging testimony

  • @marthagichuhi704
    @marthagichuhi704 Год назад +12

    Ooh my God.. I knew the story but barely half of it . This is my aunt...mama macharia..as we know her.. my heart goes out to you.

  • @mercywambui3400
    @mercywambui3400 Год назад +2

    This is an excellent interview. All form of abuse is urgly and must be stopped. Abusers are merciless and ruthless. Call them out and stop them. Expose the bruises, it's the only way to cure and wellness.

  • @lucywangari8140
    @lucywangari8140 Год назад +10

    Kagoni ndirekire form 4 2016 ndina 50years after the death of my husband and I'm still making

    • @MburawaUK
      @MburawaUK Год назад

      Lucy, it's never late. Don't stop there. Well done 🎉

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 Год назад +6

    If there’s someone who is happy about this interview is madam wakiama 🙏🙏

  • @esther_muiruri
    @esther_muiruri Год назад +13

    The most important thing I have learnt from her which I have also held on is seeking the blessings of my children from their father. And for that reason I forgave my husband too .

  • @marykamau2764
    @marykamau2764 Год назад +4

    Lessons I have learned (1)Do not let any obstacle hinder your dreams.(2)sacrifice for a positive agender pays.(3) Hard work is the only key to success.(4) Submission is good but do it wisely.(5) Education is for us all,regardless of one's age.(6) Always invest in your family because of your old age.Finally but not the least make God your best friend and always learn to forgive even the unforgivable.Thank you mum and Monicah.Mum you are a strong woman and you're going far in Jesus mighty name!

  • @susankamau9316
    @susankamau9316 Год назад +2

    Listening to Dr. Penny I see my antie.... Married to a psychopath, going through so much, and she has a good pay

  • @fridahblessed9296
    @fridahblessed9296 Год назад +3

    She looks younger than her age despite going through all the abuse God's grace is sufficient for sure

  • @judithgathuthi5253
    @judithgathuthi5253 Год назад +6

    God this is what happened to me , after 27 yrs of marriage God help women like me

  • @nancygitau5268
    @nancygitau5268 Год назад +46

    I have just come across this interview this morning. Shockingly I went back to school 2 weeks ago to persue my diploma and then degree in my early 40s. I almost gave up but this interview has inspired me.

    • @teresiamaina9573
      @teresiamaina9573 Год назад +6

      Wow you have inspired me did my degree but no job went back to doing cpa at 30 and felt like giving up but I'll hold my head high

    • @mwangare2337
      @mwangare2337 Год назад +7

      Very inspiring, watching as I do my application for school abroad, after accepting the end of my marriage as well, in my mid 40s

    • @carolinewambui9010
      @carolinewambui9010 Год назад +5

      My take away,Married women have your own money.

    • @janemwaniki6810
      @janemwaniki6810 Год назад +3

      Me too,am soo inspired

    • @njeriWaKinuthiaCA
      @njeriWaKinuthiaCA Год назад +1

      Keep going gal!!

  • @janewanjiru2410
    @janewanjiru2410 Год назад +1

    Those brains could not have gone to waste. She's too intelligent

  • @mercymuriuki6578
    @mercymuriuki6578 Год назад +6

    Thanks Monica for interviewing our mom. Like she said im a great follower of you and we can't wait to see you in America

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Год назад +11

    Am 21 yrs old ... Monica am a big fan of metha 😊..what was striking for me from Rev Dr penny is whatever you may have lost or taken away by the devil will surely be repaid heavily by God , all the sacrifices our siblings do for us especially firstborns is worth n God will pay it n lastly is that she acknowledges that life is too short n we are here for a while so we shouldn't be ungrateful for whatever reason ❤❤❤❤

  • @jjjoan100
    @jjjoan100 Год назад +7

    What an inspiring story! Many women in abusive marriages have been set free today!

  • @II-kn6he
    @II-kn6he Год назад +2

    Dr. Penny you are so youthful and beautiful. Quite inspiring: intellectually and emotionally.

  • @marienjerie8874
    @marienjerie8874 Год назад +37

    The way I have given up at only 26🥺🥺🥺I have changed my mind now.

    • @rosegithiri7383
      @rosegithiri7383 Год назад +6

      Hugs mom🤗 God is with us cos it's never too late

    • @simongitu7311
      @simongitu7311 Год назад +5

      You still young don't you ever give up,just believe in yourself!!

    • @flomaish9814
      @flomaish9814 Год назад +1

      Take heart, you are sooo young. Please believe us who have seen more sunrises. There’s never a time to give up, and more importantly, with every sunrise, you have a chance to change the trajectory of your life. Pray that Hod to deman your steps, and slowly change one thing at a time, as small as waking up early and getting ready and making your bed…you might not have any plans but your showing Hod that at the mention of one word if He changed your life, you would be ready and responsible to nurture and spread that blessing. I am speaking at 29 but who is God? I got married. Got a good job and hoping to start school next semester. At your age I was in jail. Don’t give up Njeri

  • @dzeffahhh
    @dzeffahhh Год назад +2

    These are the kind of women who should mentor the current so called modern woman. Unfortunately they are very few. She is very sober, realistic

  • @Joy_4_potatoes
    @Joy_4_potatoes Год назад +2

    Best show ever kweli live this life now because tomorrow is a promise and promises don't always fruition

  • @salomemwangi4099
    @salomemwangi4099 Год назад +3

    Mûtura muoyo ndagaga, I love this

  • @robinmanga4886
    @robinmanga4886 Год назад +31

    I left an abusive marriage 10 plus years ago i realised the law of life is greater than the law of marriage

    • @Wanjamburu.23
      @Wanjamburu.23 Год назад +1

      Absolutely

    • @louiseoluoch
      @louiseoluoch Год назад

      Well said dear, am also 12yrs out of marriage and the love I have for myself, I can only share with my kids. My focus is my kids, our cats, myself, my work, and our home. Also am grateful to God for his kindness and mercy. ❤❤

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 Год назад

      Congratulations for chosing peace ✌️

  • @mercynjeri7127
    @mercynjeri7127 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow,learnt alot about her,she has not revealed more about her spouse ,what an intelligent woman.She looks younger than her age .kudos mum.

  • @faithnjuguna-wc7lt
    @faithnjuguna-wc7lt Год назад +6

    I looked forward to watching the live show but I got held up at work,
    Such an inspirational talk I have been So broken in what I thought was marriage from the man to mother in law but got the freedom and working on my vision so hard, may God remember those who are going through such.

  • @maryparsaloi4808
    @maryparsaloi4808 Год назад +15

    Dr Penny is such an inspiration. Acknowledging her vulnerbility yet showing her strengths. Lets learn from her.

  • @puritymaina8567
    @puritymaina8567 Год назад +2

    wow, this woman has really inspired me, though in my late thirties with zero resources i can actually study again, God bless you mum.

  • @cate7942
    @cate7942 Год назад +2

    Men carry our children blessings
    Forgiveness and let go.
    Love yourself .

  • @joycenduta8313
    @joycenduta8313 Год назад +4

    Very inspirational. I remember its just recently a certain priest was reprimanding women in either Bungoma or Kakamega, one of those two, telling them that they shouldn't complain about their husbands coz they've got 6 more chances to marry and i protested. Why then should we have Holy Matrimony if that's the case? I feel as much as both genders may go through abuse, the society is to blame. This is why; when men cheat, they are validated mostly quoting the bible that David n Solomon had many wives but when a woman wants to leave the same man she is said to be foolish and demishing her own home. Therefore, can we stop with the double standards and solve this problem before the marriage institution becomes extinct. That phrase "GOD HATES DIVORCE" has caused many to endure hell in their marriages silently coz their is no where to run to.

  • @peninahnduta9776
    @peninahnduta9776 Год назад +2

    Ngarana Dr you are a fascinating woman. Hearing you reminds me that God is never late. You Inspire me. Congratulations❤

  • @kaari8557
    @kaari8557 Год назад +4

    Such profound lessons from Rev./ Dr. Penny Njoroge; 1. forgiveness, 2. it's never too late to accomplish dreams, 3. seeking the blessings of God and those He has placed on those seats of honor and blessings, regardless of what we know or think of them!
    May the Lord help us!

  • @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers
    @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers Год назад +2

    I already love this woman. I love people who choose to live a better and become better person and not pity themselves. Change and transition is an individual decision. Dr. Penny you are a great inspiration.

  • @beatricenjunge7312
    @beatricenjunge7312 Год назад +8

    Ngai wooooi.mimi sikufika hapo but kuna time my xhusband enjoyed me with my salo but nikasema never again.weuh mimi nikikuja metha ya kagoni nitajiiturura although i healed long time ago

  • @florencekariamuiruri7301
    @florencekariamuiruri7301 Год назад

    Thanks for this great inspiration

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 Год назад +7

    This lady is so inspiring. I can listen to her all day. May God continue to enlarge your boundaries Dr. Penny. Thanks for persevering.

  • @marynyaga8522
    @marynyaga8522 Год назад +2

    Oh Dr penny, I'm also getting healing from church I'm believing that my God is guiding my children to recover

  • @carolinengari7313
    @carolinengari7313 3 месяца назад +1

    Turned 35 doing a diploma I thought I was too old but hii degree I will definitely do it!at 36 she has inspired me

  • @RaliaMohamed
    @RaliaMohamed Год назад +2

    Hello am new here , cushite i understand kukuyu i can relate to your story mum , we say when there is hardship at the end come ease.

  • @veronicandirangu3637
    @veronicandirangu3637 Год назад

    That’s very encouraging about forgiveness we should learn from this testimony. God bless Dr Penny.

  • @auntiepiarants2238
    @auntiepiarants2238 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful show😢😢 i have learnt alot thanks Monica

  • @shirukogi5996
    @shirukogi5996 Год назад +1

    This is very educative,I needed to hear this today

  • @jacquelinendungu1086
    @jacquelinendungu1086 Год назад

    Great and wonderful woman of God to learn from. Thank you mamma

  • @carolinemathia4579
    @carolinemathia4579 Год назад +2

    mama you are blessed❤, the gals have found a mother in you, like Ruth did in Naomi. My prayer too..alot of lessons from this talk. Tears when you talk on depotation😢.

  • @eunicenyawira9420
    @eunicenyawira9420 Год назад +2

    I am inspired by Dr. Penny and kinda relate to her story. Thank you Doc for not giving up and for being real. I am now more than inspired to soldier on.

  • @charlesnification
    @charlesnification Год назад +3

    I know this lady & she is full of wisdom,great at events especially women conferences

  • @waridim9249
    @waridim9249 Год назад +6

    Îî, Monica rûu nî rûgano rwega mûno rûrahe andû aingî mwîhoko kana nî kîrîgîrîro? Mûgeni mwîhorereru ûtarî na matûhûhû. Kîrathimo kûrî ûrîa wothe ûkûmûthikîrîria.👍🏾

  • @mercywanjiru8557
    @mercywanjiru8557 Год назад +3

    And here i am feeling helpless at 33.. m joking.. Thank you for this inspiring interview ❤

  • @janenjoroge9425
    @janenjoroge9425 Год назад +1

    I can connect with this story soooo well.God is Ebenezer

  • @nyamburacathy1173
    @nyamburacathy1173 Год назад

    Thanks for the powerful story 🙏.
    I have noted and inspired that am not a failure in life 😂

  • @mwangimwangi5709
    @mwangimwangi5709 Год назад

    Am truly inspired,thank you Monica for the these story

  • @sarahkague4525
    @sarahkague4525 Год назад +2

    So refreshing and gives a lot of hope. Shosh you are very blessed indeed,at 76 years,you look very young and vibrant. Your knowledge and motivation is admirable

  • @neatsniper
    @neatsniper Год назад +2

    There is one thing Dr. penny said and I've always known to be true.. if you have good parents and they tell you don't marry someone please don't marry that person. I've studied so many women in my life who had ok parents, and they refused to heed to their parents' warning/advise. Some of these women are now dead.. Kuna pahali wazazi uona mbali. Thanks dr.penny for sharing your story. Indeed the roots of toxic/abusive marriages have been in Kenya for so long!

  • @faithwachu5073
    @faithwachu5073 Год назад

    So inspiring, thank you Monica for the good work

  • @georgeokudo
    @georgeokudo Год назад +9

    Hi Kagoni, we've been told to come here by Lynn but I don't understand Kikuyu, kindly provide subtitles if possible. Continue doing a good job

  • @jamiemo6568
    @jamiemo6568 Год назад

    Am inspired💯.I have learnt many things.

  • @tabithamaina5848
    @tabithamaina5848 Год назад

    Very inspiring story. Thank you Dr.penny for being vulnerable to share your experiences.
    Big lesson I learned is to guard my money as a woman and also support my children in all aspects. They grow fast.
    God bless you Dr. Penny❤

  • @antonythiongo6766
    @antonythiongo6766 Год назад +2

    Very inspiring

  • @cathykinyanjui510
    @cathykinyanjui510 Год назад

    I love Dr Penny. Such a strong woman

  • @ik2707
    @ik2707 Год назад +1

    Waaa,what a testimony....may God bless Dr.Penny

  • @SarahNgari-ur8gu
    @SarahNgari-ur8gu Год назад

    Waw!Sooooo encouraged thenk u Monica n Dr

  • @annieannie9444
    @annieannie9444 Год назад

    Thanks mum. You are such an encouragement, a strong pillar and a life couch. Some of ours need to hear this. Thanks ❤❤❤

  • @esther_muiruri
    @esther_muiruri Год назад +3

    I thank God for you Rev. You are speaking to me now. May the Lord preserve me and help me to accomplish his purpose

  • @modestapparells3802
    @modestapparells3802 Год назад +1

    Very inspiring story, very strong in spirit. God give you many more years to encourage many hearts that have been heartbroken

  • @modestapparells3802
    @modestapparells3802 Год назад +4

    This is very true. We see red flags in courtship but we ignore, i also was naive and have suffered the consequences

  • @salamawise
    @salamawise Год назад

    Blessings to you Monica and Dr. Penny. Am humbled by what God can do in ones life. Dr. Penny is an inspiration to many. Her reference for God encourages me to live for God every day, He never disappoint. Dr. Penny, God loves you. He will keep you to fulfill his purposes in your life. Keep going Monica &Dr. Penny

  • @WamboMerci
    @WamboMerci Год назад +1

    What a Resilient and Marvellous Woman, you are amazing, keep on inspiring 🙌🏿🙏🏾

  • @annmaina4343
    @annmaina4343 Год назад +1

    What an inspiration

  • @parent.single-annendungu
    @parent.single-annendungu Год назад

    What a powerful interview. I am so encouraged and blessed!

  • @terryngunjiri2916
    @terryngunjiri2916 Год назад

    What an inspiration!

  • @shironene2489
    @shironene2489 Год назад

    This is a blessed woman..She has lived the word..She has been restored 🎉

  • @carolinekolom5510
    @carolinekolom5510 Год назад

    Wow. This lady has inspired and challenged me at the sane time. Made some notes. God bless you.

  • @loco871
    @loco871 Год назад

    Sad to see those tears very sad may God heal you great lessons

  • @andrewmacharia
    @andrewmacharia Год назад +1

    Very interesting inspiration story,sad story

  • @RaliaMohamed
    @RaliaMohamed Год назад

    The heading got me here thank you for talking to me and a million others

  • @janeweru-oy7ci
    @janeweru-oy7ci Год назад +1

    Waoooh,what an inspirational story

  • @lillianwaweru5475
    @lillianwaweru5475 Год назад +2

    Wow....I am just applauding this courageous and beautiful hearted lady. Truly, it takes God to stand up and call out abuse especially in the face of societal judgment. So many are suffering. My personal takeaway is you can rebuild and be restored at any age. I feel encouraged and inspired. I pray for God's love and favor to adorn her and her family in every step ❤

  • @florencegachukia5641
    @florencegachukia5641 Год назад

    Am happy to hear despite everything you are in school no wonder you look young, true books makes one young, congrats keep up the spirit.

  • @graciewaforester8031
    @graciewaforester8031 Год назад

    What a blessing what an inspiration you have touched my life in a great way 🙏. Our girl ur doing a great job to our community and this country 👏

  • @beckymaina8872
    @beckymaina8872 Год назад

    Wow wow amazing. Great Testimony Great woman. Help me Lord to be a vessel of Honour.

  • @lucyiburu5588
    @lucyiburu5588 Год назад +3

    God bless you penny a good mentor to all❤

  • @Chings001
    @Chings001 Год назад +1

    What a powerful powerful story!! I have learnt a lot. Once again I am grateful that my late father treated us well.

  • @suzannenjogu6455
    @suzannenjogu6455 Год назад

    Fantastic interview.

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi4918 Год назад +1

    What an inspiring story..I have learnt the power of forgiveness and that God is a God of second chances...

  • @estherchege9074
    @estherchege9074 Год назад

    So so so amazing i love the passion of this golden gal....i love you doc Penny you are a gem

  • @reginanaiyama4952
    @reginanaiyama4952 Год назад

    Truly inspiring

  • @besensations1838
    @besensations1838 Год назад +2

    deeply inspired most variable lesson the power of forgiveness

  • @elizkimu3361
    @elizkimu3361 Год назад

    What a story,very inspiring and educative.Women are great pillars,GOD bless all

  • @midnightpraizes
    @midnightpraizes Год назад +2

    I am so encouraged by this story, I have changed my mind set, nothing is impossible, I would like to meet Dr on a personal level. It's amaizing

  • @njerij1511
    @njerij1511 Год назад +1

    A brilliant and inspirational mind there. Pole for what you went through . Your story is a testimony and has strengthened me.

  • @reginanyawira2134
    @reginanyawira2134 Год назад +5

    I'm so inspired by Dr. Penny, one day i shall testify in Jesus mighty name.

    • @janekogi6442
      @janekogi6442 Год назад

      He hates divorce,but marriage is for two,if one rebels,then it's not marriage any more

  • @janenjerikaringe6502
    @janenjerikaringe6502 Год назад +2

    God bless you Dr Penny your zeal and determination to pursue God and your dreams is most inspiring. This lessons will stay with me forever. Thank you Kagoni for hosting her. God bless you. ❤

  • @gk-fw9qp
    @gk-fw9qp Год назад +1

    Thanks...areal therapy for those in pain n agreat lesson about forgiveness for me . thanks more years n grace mum

  • @margaretnjoka5169
    @margaretnjoka5169 Год назад

    Thank you my sister GOD bless

  • @evlynnmollenhauer3798
    @evlynnmollenhauer3798 Год назад +13

    Thank you so much Monica for bringing Dr Penny on your show😘

  • @periskamau6619
    @periskamau6619 Год назад

    Very inspiring i know i will get in class someday

  • @karolinekinya7548
    @karolinekinya7548 Год назад +3

    Waooo! 👏👏👏👏The truth about marriage and why we take long to leave has been let out.....
    Very brilliant lady.... You make me understand my mother, myself and many others.
    Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @neemamutheu
    @neemamutheu Год назад

    Wuee a message in 😢 thank you God

  • @mmoraa9004
    @mmoraa9004 Год назад +1

    Inspiring