WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? Married at 23, divorced after only two years in marriage'- Margaret Wariko
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2020
- Margaret Wariko tied the knot at only 23. She was a role model to her younger cousins. But her marriage was to break only two years after following serious disagreements. Margaret says she doesn't regret walking away. She also has no plans of asking for matrimonial property.
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We also need a pastor to tell us why they are always hypocritical telling people to play for their spouses😏🙄that's rubbish
A1¹11
Hopefully one I will sit on that chair ...may God give me the grace. Healing is a process
Kagoni Jambo
I got married 14month nikamucemanio ndeitire I ask my self I this life I will stay until death I rem very well Dec ilifika nikasema naenda sikuu until today Niko sikuuu it's been 14 year's thiguku ndiri yathira
I have realized the nicer you are to your man the meaner he is to you
very true
You can say that again.they think u are stupid
True...when You become too nice he start seeing you as apathetic person,
Yes
Yes
So so glad to see that the younger generation of Kenyan women won't tolerate mistreatment. It is so refreshing to see women develop a backbone and stand for themselves. It is such a stance that will reduce the number of domestic violence cases and 'wife deaths' in the country.
I can only describe this lady as very intelligent,full of wisdom and understanding.I believe she is going far.I have liked her very much and I wish her all the best in her future life.
This is the definition of a woman who knows her worth, one who understands that no one should make you loose your purpose and vision..... I envy the courage
This lady is special in her own ways, I wish her the best
A very strong woman. Am glad she made a well informed decision to divorce that insecure, controlling and paranoid man.
Enda umuoe wewe secure na mature
Well done again girl , you didn't stop going to work so that you depend on him you were enlightened.Ladies truly speaking ,many of you can agree with me that 10 shillings on your hands is worth than a million in his pockets. Atakushow uwache job but whatever will follow , you will regret forever.
The truth
Jane Mungai have lunch send me pay bill
Naked truth
monica I love the way you ask Questions and at the same time you make someone feel okay when he she speaks out.... You are the best kudos.
I love this girl already , marriage is not a life insurance your peace matters alot, she still young with a lot of vision big up gal💞💞
One of the best interviews of the season.. strong woman who knows what she wants in life
Maggie was my classmate she was very bright in class.keep winning gal proud of what you have overcome👌
Hiyo jina yako ya katikati ni ya our family and its rare wewe ni wetu pls?
Trizah she got my attention too cos we've also got that name in my family too and it's very rare. Are we all related? Lol
My classmate too Maggie. Wow she just a strong woman
I am impressed by the wisdom and assertiveness in this lady. Wariko I support you a💯%. Just be you!!!
My mum walked away from millions after my dad died so I understand Maggie vizuri my mum said she has no time to keep fighting relatives and concubines Kama ukiwa na uwezo just walk away it helps in healing and by the way my mum is so blessed in wisdom and wealth. Society will always talk.kirindi ni kia rimire musa.
@Gashiki gashiki wow, this is encouraging, I would love to meet your mum ( margaret.wariko@gmail.com)
@@margaretwariko5057 sure thing love
Monica it is important to have some tissues in place when interviewing as most testimonies are and can be very emotional especially when it triggers the past.
Even water to
Very important for "ANY" interview.
Bottle of water, a glass of water a side table on the side and some tissue. Make it more presentable and welcoming!! Just sharing
Very important point or handkerchief s
I gave up on marriage when my son was 1week old and marriage was 2years old and now am doing perfectly fine and my son is 4years old and am a single mother feeling good while chasing my dreams...
How did duo it
@@leahmaina8450 it's all about the decisions and focus
Leah maina i want to Know too
@@veronicahwangui8226 I wonder How ucan do it painful en hard
Me i give up when my baby gal was 2yrs and now she's 13yrs am feeling good with my dota
Maggy you are such a gem, true you are a strong woman... We looked up to you when we were younger even today you stll have a beautiful soul
@Nancy Murugi... hahah nice to see you here
Maggie was my schoolmate nurse she was the press girl, very confident and sharp. Keep soaring girl.... God is on your side
@sarah Mburu the good old days.... God has continued to be faithful....
This is a very bright and strong woman with a great heart
Waah...You're very strong my dear. Imagine one would never think you went through all these...Continue winning gal, you're going far.
So refreshing to see a young woman hold on to her sense of power despite the odds. It comes with a price but its well worth it in the end. God bless you and grant you a man that will pour into your cup!
A true measure of maturity detected! A gift denied to many. "he is a good father, not a gud husband to her."she said. Life is for the living.
Powerful and beautifu lady, mother. She spouts great wisdom in this short clip. Be blessed.
Me am single coz nilirukwa kipetero kiyesu after conceiving... 🤔But si ni life, he thought that we will suffer na yy mungu ni nani? 😏😏😏
Go mama let karma deal with me
You're a strong woman bora Mungu hajakuruka.😍
hahahaha....gaka ni kajoya ati ulirukwa aje?
@@millicentndegwa9091 🤣🤣🤣
Kipetero Kiyesu hehehehe
I love the grace and maturity you have,,,I have learned from you something but I went through that I know it's painful!!! For sure have been single for 4yrs after i leave my marriage and am still pray God...only the strength
I was married to a freaking narc. Very insecure man. There's nothing a woman can do to make that marriage work. Taking the next exit is the best thing.
I get excited when I see more and more understanding narcissism. Many have been suffering in narcissistic abuse and the society been unknowingly supporting the abuser.
True
I adore the Texture of Her Mind..she's oozing wisdom and maturity
This lady is so mature, positive minded and very bright
She is a very wise person. She figured things out early!! Some of us have waited 25 years to see through the cracks. Well done Wariko
23 years to see the cracks
23 years to see the cracks.But it's okay we have different brains
Imagine... and we're still in 😭
The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
@Judy Mburu , It is never too late, I am sure there is so much to learn from someone like you
Alot of maturity and grace.Very inspiring Wariko.
Wariko , i do admire your courage , you such a brilliant woman, watching from Canada
Wisdom detected in this lady. Wewe ni shujaa. Keep winning my dear.
Clever girl, you played your cards very well, He could have duped you to buy him plots,migunda in the name of love alafu akudump,Rise up ladies.
Wow I have fallen in love with this show
Great attitude right there Margaret!
Very beautiful bubbly woman, huyu ni team kujiamini 💪💃💃no need to fake happiness haina haja ya kulia Lia, take a step...
Kabisa she is strong 💪 stronger woman
Tuko wengi....#TeamBabanMama
🙏♥️🙏
@eunice wairimu kabisa, while at it tuna pray for God's sustainability na wisdom....
I swear I love my single life thz nonsense ya mtu gutida akuhingiire na gugutiiria na naniguo ororire nikiii makoragwo me insecure. Great 👍 decision gal n life goes on
Keep the good work Kagoni ,am in love with your show
Well done Wariko and indeed this show is super super amazing
Wow Maggy, I know this lady. Oooh girl nice to hear your story.
How I Pray everyone who loves marriage will get a suitable partner no matter what have went through
That's a very toxic man. He was insecure and there was nothing you could have done to change that. Very sorry for that, I understand you Cristal clear. I have been there and I know how one feels, anyway you don't have to blame yourself for his behaviour. This is the best decision you took.. leaving him with his toxicity
The lady said it very well. The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
@Teresa Gitonga you accept and move on as you face the challenges that come with it.
@@joshuagitonga3164 The person who wears the shoes knows how well it fits. That said your opinion is noted
What a Strong & Mature Woman (Wariko). I admire your Sense of Reasoning inspite of what you've gone through.... God will bless you abundantly
a lady speaking with wisdom and maturity
Love her locks,her wisdom and maturity and aura!
Wow wow gal you are strong, beautiful and what you are destined for is way greater. I have always admired your strong personality, keep moving and see God do even amazing things in your life. Blessings
The author and finisher of your life will always be faithful gal,that's a bold step you talk swty kudos and continue chasing your dreams
I love the strength in this lady. She knew her worth. All the best wariko
This lady is wise.intelligent.someone to emulate.
I like the spirit of this gal.chase your dreams till you make it.
Awesome!👌.I can relate .God is super faithful.
She is so patient and humble perfect woman
aki time haisongi, I am so excited to watch today's episode
Wariko is such an independent soul, such a rare gem...
I applaud young women who say NO to abuse and take a step to run their own affairs. I especially love a hard working lady and one who shares her experience to help others. May you be blessed Wariko. Glad you did not fight for your property because God gives and God takes away. Materialism is one of the reasons many women stay in abusive marriages. Happy you acknowledge the positive side of your ex as being a good father. That's really wonderful and strange at the same time being that the child is partly you. May God bless Monica and her wonderful service.
The parting short was splendid...ata mm nilisema mzee wa wawenywe no go zone
Trust me that is the best decision you have ever made cute girl . God will see you through
Very true dear
@Alice Njambi, He is and he will continue to do it. Is it easy? no but we keep pour head up
Margaret , you are a wonderful girl.
Because you did your best, God will bless you with the right partner. Keep up your maturity and focus. I like your parting shot 'if you know you have done ya best, now love yourself enough to take the best decision for you. Lovely'
This is the kind of people who should mentor our daughters. I like your attitude, will and strength. If only our mothers knew when to walk out.
Present Monica nko ndani ici ihiko niikurema am a victim but God is our strength Ngai wa atumia ario giti ini that's why I hate pple who judge single mothers coz mundu nigwikora ekoraga kwa hiuha kiura ruga.nikuri Ngai waihinda ringi we nitwahanana mzee aliuza shamba sikufuatilia n ata hasaidii watoto ata kuwaona some men God is watching 13 yrs and loading thanks for sharing kweli watu wanaumia
Waria maa....nii kihiko giakwa kia 12yrs giathirire niundu wa gwitua mwega kwi muthuri niguo ndukamuhitirie...njiguaga mundu akingwetera kihiko ngethithimukwo...
@@monienjeri3042 we nitwahanana ndaamuire kurere twana twakwa tutikagererio ruo kama their dad dnt see or love them what's about another man my kids my everything mundu anarumwo ni nyoka onaga kamukwa akora kila wiki nlikua napigwa 2x ilikua doz nlikaa 4/5yrs nkasema basi maria ndorite nimo maingi n akanitishia nkahamia bali sana maasai mara
kaba guikara single gukira ruo maa,,Ngai witu dari hindi agatutiganiria ona twanyararwo ni andu
@@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 nii kwanja haro ya mwiri na ya heho nicio cianguritie gukira miaka yakwa...nagutiri kindu kiuru guikara na mundurume stingy na korwo e narcissists hau hatiri maisha.....na agakorwo ndarenda mundu agathukume ati niekumbwo....pole gal tulee watoi hawaja wekelewa mawe.
@mimsbaibe6 mmsgul Very true and the journey to heal genuinely is having a strong support system and also having true people you can open up to...
Magggyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love this lady to the moon and back
Wow such a wise woman ,, thanks Sana I have learn alot
I love this lady with her courage all the best my sister.
Waah🤔l hv seen my hrtmate.u hv almost my characters.even almost same wth my story.one day l will also tetify.u r strong woman we shall go far.👏👏👏👏God will NVR do away with us.he has a good plan for us
A Very mature gal God will give u a family coz u deserve better
So much wisdom.
Hv learnt alot thanks so much Kagoni for the show watching frm Doha
Maggggyyyyyy❤️❤️❤️❤️
You're such a strong human gal 💕💕...
Kagoni you are very smart....hio nywele 👌👌👌👌👌
I love your show monica..Very educative..Maggie is a very strong woman
Maggie jeez shocked you went through all that. Proud of you. Love and light Mama
@Milkah Maina my hommie .... Imagine, but I am good now... God Bless
I agree with you Margaret & kagoni thanks for sharing. Let the parent who can give the best be with the kid/kids . Forgiveness is key in this journey ,self love as u highlighted ...it's a process with stages similar to grief, denial,bitterness ,acceptance ,healing etc....been there 10yrs then Divorced .Nothing lasts forever
@sarah kiragu This is so good, healing takes time and I wish people resected that process... I am glad you are in a better space... may you continue to encourage others in different ways as well.
Am in love with this strong,wise, courageous, beautiful babygal.I like the wisdom and strength in her.You are one in a million Margaret.I have learnt a lot from this show.May God bless you Kagoni for bringing this show
@Leah Wanjiru it is a Blessing to know you learnt something. Baraka
Wow this lady is full of wisdom.
Waoh! Such a motivational story
Learning to be independent from a young age gals is very important .Live the best life unapologetically. Let Husband be a back up. Best decision this lady made after seeing the red flags👍
A woman full of wisdom
thanks for the show. psychologically when we don't go through the psycho social stages of life and skip the most important stage between 13 to 19 years of learning how to socialize, we develop isolation and are unable to form stable consistent friendships. abuse is a no no in relationships.
Pole Maggie for going thro all that, you are beautiful and a hard worker, I wish you all the best, God bless you.
@Pauline Kamau Amen and thank you
Wow kagoni ur show is now improved very well,keep it up
@Grace Wanjiru Indeed God is using her to change lives in a good way
Wow great one. Encouraging one 👌👌👌💪💪💪
May GOD CONTINUE OPENING DOORS OF BLESSINGSO TO U KAGONI MONICA GOOD JOB AND PASSION IN YOUR WORK THIS PROGRAMME IS CHANGING LIFE OF MILLIONS WITH _BE THOUGHTS TO A BETTER FUTURE
Gai nîaiguaga wahoya...Ameen🙏🙌 💞 she's wise confident and beautiful Maggie God knows what's better for you and thanks for encouraging other wamen out there
@wamsu wamsu It has taken time to get here and I am still learning everyday... I am glad I was able to encourage those going the same and are not able to speak up or do not even know where to start from.
@@margaretwariko5057 niî onadiraigua ta ngûkua nî depression ta he number ciaku tucemanie uhe narî kiugo gia kûnyûmîrîria Niko parklands opp museum0719528465
@@margaretwariko5057 niî onadiraigua ta ngûkua nî depression ta he number ciaku tucemanie uhe narî kiugo gia kûnyûmîrîria Niko parklands opp museum0719528465
Me am single coz nilifanyiwa ile kitu when I was 2 months pregnant. My son is now 12 years na hatujawai ona huyo mwanaume. I don't even know if he's dead or alive. But me and my son are doing 👌💯✔️
Same here mrembo 7yrs down the line sijui ako hai ama alikufa en we are doing well with my 2 dotas💪 now first born 13 en 10 respectively we thank God 🙏
@@junemarie2393 @Susan Ruo and may God always refill your cups that they may never run dry and you may always be able to give your kids the best in life.
@@margaretwariko5057
Did you consider deliverance?
This lady is so beautiful and kindhearted
Maggy you are so real,I love your attitude..
The first lady kusikia akiwa in love na even when in love anatumia kichwa na akili sawa sawa. The moment someone throws yu out at night or such cruelty yur head should alert yu of some danger regardless of how much yu feel in love .
Margaret I love you for living your life with confidence and realizing that it's important to love yourself under all circumstances. Don't allow people to shape your life allow God to do it because He's faithful. Don't condemn yourself for whatever reason instead love God ,yourself and then others. Seek wisdom from God not from people and don't listen to stupid ideas from anyone because when God is for you that's all that matters. I pray for God's blessings for you and for a loving lifetime partner. Monica God bless you as always. Lots of love, hugs and kisses for both of you from Tx. USA
@Wangui Bundi awww hugs are well recived... and indeed God is already blessing me...
Great advice
Eagerly waiting
This is me.this lady has my mind.all she has talked about and gone through but we hv to stay strong and love ourselves more before others love us.
please bring at least one man who is single. We wanna know why they are single, especially men in their thirties
Wow I have learnt alot from this , thanks to that lady
VERY BEAUTIFUL STORY......
i was married n ex husband was staying in sweden .. while i was with my kid kwa mother inlaw Life was very hard... tulishi tu Kama maskini!! i hate that Life up to date Life was drama after drama
Pole
Staying na mother in law isn't the best choice...especially when you are a new young family.
I don't support divorce but i think you are a very smart and brave girl because you saw the red flags and acted very early. Very few of us ladies act early enough we wait until we are heavily bruised. I want to be like you when i grow you Margaret
I have seen such a man and that is my dad. He even don't want my mum to talk to his siblings. He is also a narcissist and he made our childhood life to be nothing to remember. But to know he has never changed. Maggie you are a strong lady. Keep up
An independent mind, very sober and thoughtful. Am proud of your sanity Wariko
Benjamin Zulu has been advising ladies not to get married before 25yrs because below that we are doing things from an emotional perspective 😭am soo sorry for what you went through🙏I loathe abusive men 💔
He will save many
Not the scripture truth. Its commitment and maturity that makes the difference. There are lots of grown boys and grown girls masquerading as adults
have been following Zulu and his full of wisdom
True. Very few stay together happily. Some who stay together including some of our parents, it's always because one of the partners sacrifices their ambition or freedom.
@@Mercyy734 I agree like most Mexicans mature first while young just my opinion