Breanne Dixon it's 80% to 85% with in the first 2 years, depending on if you met them before or after you were overweight. So not as much of a sure thing as 99% but pretty damn high
@@codytaylor7861 What's he so stressed about? I seriously don't know. I knew about him for a couple of years but I never watched his podcasts until recently, so I don't know what's the deal.
That's called a tick (or nervous twitch) often caused by stress and they're hard to stop. Similar to how tourettes is. And that's not even a bad tick at all, some people do some peculiar things.
about 180 pounds if i'm correct! That sure is a lot and he gained moblilty and now he is able to walk and mostly act like a regular person. So proud of him!
Man, I wish I was like that. I despise my girlfriend and have for ages. It would be nice to leave while there was still fondness but that ship has sailed and after I get out of being quarantined with her I'm guessing I will say leave while I still love you to try soften the blow. Is that the right way to go about it or wrong? Nobody wants to hurt anybody but leaving will do that and I can't stay and be miserable
@bittercottoncandy quarantined together. Tried to break it off ages ago. In a foreign country where the lock downs are pretty draconian and have been in place for months so can't get to an airport to go home. Been legally in a defacto relationship (basically married when it comes to the legal eyes of the law) for years. It isn't so simple when you say "not even" married. It's not so simple
My wife left me out of the blue. Doing better than I have ever done. As a 35 year old man with a good career and in the best shape of my life.. Im the best I have been.
I think Boogie's ability to own up to his own problems is what makes him such a genuinely great guy. He KNOWS that his problems ruined his marriage and he completely acknowledges them, accepts them, and works to be a better person. People like that seem rare these days.
vsGoliath yeah, as we can see with this comment section, pathetic people would rather make idiotic generalizations about women and go on little Incel rants.
Shit bait dawg. You gotta step up your game to make yourself seem genuine. It's really obvious you're just baiting. Your goal is to have a controversial and rage-inducing opinion while still making it seem realistic and genuine. You succeeded at the former, but failed spectacularly at the latter.
damn, dude. mad respect for both him and his ex wife for handling it like champs. it's too common in today's society to hear about relationships turning explosively sour that it's a breath of fresh air for a couple to take the mature, responsible, and still selfless route. I wish the best for both of them. edit: some of you are sad excuses for human beings and I pity you.
thefowles1 funny how right when he got the surgery and lost a ton of weight she left him? Maybe she expected him die off early so she can inherit the money, because boogie just boosted his life span by 10-15 years!
Shuntaro Furukawa to be honest, I doubt that. anxiety can be one of the most destructive things in a relationship, so I understand why they made the decision. it truly is a monster if you can't keep up with it. I don't see her like that, and I don't think you should either. based on facts and the current state of things, they seem to have been very responsible and mature with their decision.
thefowles1 Exactly. Boogie is mature, and he knows that if he told the truth that her life would be ruined. It definitely is a conspiracy but I think it could be true
No, it sounds crazy. Generally, women don't know what love really is. Why'd she marry him in the first place. ... then divorce him as things are getting better?
only thing you have to be careful of marring someone who actually doesn't believe in marriage, a lot of people just don't want to put in the work of a marriage when the convenience of divorce exists so easily. Boogie's story is classic example, they could have made it work by the sound of things, would just take work, marriage counseling, maybe talking to their rabbi, priest, rev what ever they are, but they really just didn't care to.
Mosk64 RUclips that is not true. Take my brother for example - not stereotypically good looking, is 32 still rents an apartment and he’s dating a beautiful lawyer who makes 10x he does. Not all women are like that, don’t give up
When I saw the title I got super sad, but after seeing this I can say I'm kind of happy everything worked kind of well. Keep it up Boogie! Proud of you!
Old man Wunder STOP CALLING ME FAT STOP CALLING ME FAT Francis what are you doing THEY KEEP CALLING ME FAT Well how do they know your fat I DONT KNOW HOW THEY KNOW IM FAT Francis what are you going to doo with that. IM GOING TO RUN IT OVER WHITH MY CAR Francis you don't have a license WELL SOMONE WILL RUN THE PEACE OF SHIT OVER FUCK FUCK FUCK Fancies the neighbours are watching WHAT
Adeniyi .Omishore she isnt horrible though. She gave some reasons, they didnt really matter. The generic reasons people give. Its reassuring to hear boogies calm and caring take on a breakup involving weight.
limescale onetwo Exactly, Boogie seems very emotionally mature and self-aware which is all you can ask for somebody who's been through everything hes been through. Seems like a great guy
even 50 percent seems crazy if the human has a job. the only time i could see giving any side of a divorce money is if kids are involved and they will stay with that person full time or if the person was dependent like boogie was. otherwise fuk no get ur own money
All these internet relationship experts make me laugh. You have no idea what the ins and outs of their relationship breakdown is. There are two sides to every story and the reality is that each side has a right to their hurt, rejection, pain and suffering. Unless one party cheated, of course.
“I’m gonna leave while I still love you” it’s was good that she was so amicable. A lot of people wouldn’t bother doing that with a soon to be ex partner Edit: hey look I fixed the typo that I made in a comment written in five seconds.
Forget that what about her not taking all of his shit and demanding alimony as she could easily have done? respect to her for being decent about it, that's super rare.
Mollusco Mollusco wonder = wouldn't. Took me 2 seconds to look at the context of the sentence to figure that out. Guess YOUR english skills aren't too good.
I had tears @ 2:40 when boogie breaks down you can tell how much pain is behind those words of forgiveness to his wife. What a great guy to be able to say "Yes she hurt me, but i thank her for all she did for me to be here today" wow.
I first found Boogie on his first h3h3 podcast, and I'm so happy Ethan and Hila have introduced him to us. He is such a positive and beautiful soul and knowing him and watching his content is a joy. Papa bless!
First off, no adult justifies acting shitty to family members "because he was going through a lot of anxiety". Everyone has anxiety, it's not a free ticket to act shitty. He always justifies being an asshole to his wife and all his problems because of anxiety or because he was "abused" as a child. He has a very hard time taking responsibility for acting like a dip shit.
This man here is someone you can feel compassion for and really want the best for him. You often get wisdom and the sense he wants the best for other people too. He's what a celebrity SHOULD be! Good guy, for sure.
DoctaPeppur Ruby wrestles several devils in the 7th Ward But Ruby can't afford to move towards the hoard just yet 7th ward dragon with a firey sword through the neck.
At this point having “till death do us part” in wedding vows is ridiculous. You’re much better off to say “it is my intention to stay with you through sickness and in health”. It’s such an empty platitude. And why either party is entitled to someone else’s earnings outside of support for children is absurd and corrupt.
I love how he's all like "I hope she forgives me for saying this" then goes on about legitimate reasons on how they both contributed to the end of the marriage. I love him♥️
I am glad that Boogie accepted the fact that he has his problems, like his morbid obesity, his crappy diet and his poor decisions had destroyed his marriage. That is very, very mature of him. It's always very important to look at ourselves first before we start pointing fingers. I always felt Boogie is a really nice guy, but his morbid obesity, it's morbid for a reason, is really going to kill aspects of his life. I am so happy that he is making changes to make his life better, I hope to see a much healthier and much fitter Boogie. I have enjoyed most of his content, so I really do wish he do well.
Probably the most genuine guy on youtube, and its sad to hear he had a divorce, but the lass he was with was as genuine as him by the sounds of it. Love this guy
It’s terrifying to me that divorce courts are so criminally against men. Lifetime alimony, spousal support agreements to maintain a lifestyle regardless of future earning potential- it’s extortion and organized crime. It is a billion dollar industry. How was it ever allowed to get this bad?
Old Man Doom If you're concerned about that just get a prenup. Most people in that situation are too blind to consider it but will then complain about something easily preventable
Old Man Doom lol can happen to women too my dears... if the women makes more money men can and do file for the same thing and take the women for their money
I love boogie super honest and just him. She also seems like an angel and helped him as best she could then didn't take him for everything. Says a ton about the character of both.
MAD respect for this man. Many people blame other things but he says “my morbid obesity” “MY shitty eating habits”. He owns it. It’s a such a refreshing thing to hear and props to you. You are recovering and all the best on this road, boogie
Dovakin Brown yeah I use to live in Arkansas when I was a kid and when my parents divorced my mother got about 90% of everything when my father obviously also deserved half of it
It sort of makes me wonder how many homeless men out there are in this position due to divorce. I am even more surprised how men could go through a 2nd or 3rd marriage with that debt baggage. Hopefully Boggie has found the resolve to get physically and mentally healthy after the divorce.
+Larry Chauncey you know for a fact she was getting tired of his gaming and telling him to grow up. He didn't stop so she went out and got slammed by some bull
People aren't giving the ex enough credit. With Boogie's mental health issues she could have *easily* driven Boogie to suicide and she would have ended up with everything. She asked for much less than half of what the marriage was worthy and Boogie upped the number to what he felt was fair. All the more sad that they couldn't make it work, because a woman like that is more and more uncommon these days.
Even gold diggers have a conscience. The vast majority of people don't want to think of themselves as murderers. "She asked for much less than half of what the marriage was worth" She didn't deserve anything lol. Boogie literally payed for everything. If you think making dinner and bathing an obese person is worth half of boogies net worth, you are fucking idiot. Boogie didn't even get sex, he payed half of net worth for a care taker.
Bob Smith she most definitely was entitled to quite a bit. She was his physical care taker enabling him to make videos, mangaged the books (for both the house hold and business), was a big part about making business decisions, and boogie even said she came up with a couple of the Fransis skits. Although she never could have part of the business as boogie ultimately is the business, she definitely helped build it into what it became. And because she was doing all of that she could not reasonably work a lot as the business grew. So she shouldn't just be left homeless and with nothing for wanting a divorce.
Live with guy for 4 years. Take care of him and the house while he pays 100% of the bills. Eat tons of food and make yourself fat while he sits on a computer all day making content for his fans to pay the bills. Go out and fuck dudes for 4 years behind his back because he is too fat to have sex. Realize that he is stressed out from making youtube content all day, nag and bitch at him anyway. When he snaps and gets angry at you, claim to be the victim Divorce him after he gets surgery to help save his life cause you don't want to wait to collect. Don't even have courtesy to wait till he has recovered to finalize divorce. Demand half his net worth even though he took care of you for 4 years, while you rode dicks and turned yourself into a land whale. What a time to be alive, when there are people retarded enough to defend behavior like this.
Bob Smith boogie wouldn't be functional if his exwife hadnt handled him for so long. He was able to build and maintain a RUclips career despite crippling mental issues
Boogie is a true humble man , he’s honest and just such a hero and idol to look up to , he admits his mistakes and bad decisions while still calling people out on theirs while being nice about it ❤️
See I dated a girl with severe anxiety and depression. And I felt like Boogies wife probably did, to the point where I would get anxiety about her anxiety. So even though I cared about her to death, I had to leave her to save my own mental health. But now, we are back to being best friends like we were before we dated and it’s great.
Remarkable way to illustrate there is good divorce for good cause, outcome and happiness for everyone. This worth so very much. There's so many couples in the world sticking together for love and sorriness only to go suffocate into down spiral hell hole (which was the case for my parents). I'm sorry for Boogie that it didn't work perfectly, but also congrats on being blessed with smartness and luck to have such a understanding partner! I wish you two more than just better luck!!!
Kerendips I didn’t know all that, but sometimes it’s just not worth hanging around. If it could stop making shit worse, well it might not be “good” but it’s still worth doing at very least.
Good idea in concept but what you don't know if that they are a quite flimsy piece of documentation and can still be easily broken by the lawyers. Not kidding, look it up. You're not safe no matter what unfortunately. Unless you just don't get married... but then if you have kids, the woman will get all the custody rights in that situation and there's nothing to protect the man or give him any rights to his children. Quite a fucked up part of our society if you ask me.
"As fragile as you are" Jesus effing Christ, if my wife ever said that to me I'd have to choose between Seppeku and getting some kind of ranger job where I could stay in the wilderness
So nobody has to believe me but I think Boogie is 100% sugarcoating this whole situation. Funny how he didn’t mention that a condition of his divorce was to make Dez sign a non-disclosure agreement basically making it illegal for her to disparage Boogie after the divorce. Notice how he blames her leaving on things that make him a victim: his obesity and his anxiety. He DOES mention that his anxiety would turn into anger, but the second he does he quickly downplays this, saying that he was in NO way abusive. SURE Boogie, I’m sure you always were able to reign in that anger, being that you’re so emotionally stable. Also he describes Dez leaving as her saying “people need me, I have things I want to do, I love you and I’m sorry” basically making it seem like the most amicable divorce ever. Boogie is a emotional manipulator and there’s plenty of evidence to back up that claim. I hate when he gets these softball interview questions and people just take him at his word, letting him control the narrative because he knows Dez is not even allowed to tell her side of the story. I’m willing to bet that Dez getting such a high monetary payout from Boogie was 100% BASED ON her keeping her silence about him. I used to be a huge fan of Boogie until I caught on to who he really is, and I hope everyone who reads this will look more into what I’m talking about
everynamewastakenomg If you ever do, get a prenup, have your own house before you propose, and make sure you have everything you want in your life before you do it.
He wasn't the perfect husband either, close to 600 pounds, mental illnesses and a constant need for attention. She put up with so much and stayed for so long. If anything, they don't belong to together and I hope they're happy with their new lives. Sometimes two people don't work out. Its not that their bad for each other, they're just not good together. And that's the difference.
I wish he didn't guilt himself so much. It's always two people in a marriage as well as in a divorce. You also don't choose to be anxious. I hope he can really forgive himself, whatever he's blaming himself of. God bless him and his former wife.
" I am leaving ( I don't love you anymore) while I still love you (respect you)." Respect you Boogie for choosing to fight the battles you can win! Looking good. Keep it up!
It sounds like they really handled this as well as possible, considering the situation. I hope Boogie is able to continue taking care of the problems in his life that got them to this state (which it sounds like he is) and that his ex-wife is able to move on and be successful in her own right. It honestly sounded like the best thing for them to do to split when they did.
boogie and his wife seem like very level headed people who care about eachother and actually know how to handle hardships. i wish them both the best of luck
Boogie. Thank you so very much for all you do. You are a great teacher. Your life experience makes you an expert on abusive behavior. You communication skills and your empathy for the human condition allow you to relate this experience to others so that we have a chance to learn from you and become better human beings. Thank you.
My mom did that. My dad's new girlfriend called my mom saying that daddy just accumulated some money. mom went to her lawyer with dad's social security number soooooo he was flat broke after that.
This hit's me hard now even though my longest relationship was only one year but I cannot imagine living the things steven has gone through. "love cannot fix it" that hits hard.
Hila seemed pretty interested in how to go about filing for divorce.
RM Renfield I don’t think her and Ethan are even married lol
@@TheLukePais Yes, they are
@@TheLukePais why the hell wouldn't they be, they've been together for years under the same roof through multiple countries and now they have a baby
cheekybananaboy because not everyone wants to get married
@@nonofyourbusiness3615 obviously, but in this case ethan and hila did get married.
His ex wife sounds like a very mature and considerate person. Glad all is well now
John Duncan You’re wrong.
John Duncan yeah you go wipe boogies ass for years ( and so much more) and tell me you don't feel like you are owed some money
explosivooo Check salaries for caretakers, then open your mouth.
John Duncan yeah let’s not even consider the fact that she was his full time care taker.
she fucked other dudes.
Its nice to see people that can act like adults and dissolve a relationship amicably, it doesn't always work out.
Won't stop the youtube vitriol though
JimsEquipmentShed it gets bad when you have someone in the relationship who is a substance abuser
Love is like that, sometimes you need the distance for it.
Isn’t the divorce rate after weight loss surgery like 99% anyways?
Breanne Dixon it's 80% to 85% with in the first 2 years, depending on if you met them before or after you were overweight. So not as much of a sure thing as 99% but pretty damn high
Ethans eyebrows are in a universe of their own
He has Tourettes
Have some respect man, he's under a lot stress and it comes out in facial ticks.
@@codytaylor7861
What's he so stressed about?
I seriously don't know.
I knew about him for a couple of years but I never watched his podcasts until recently, so I don't know what's the deal.
@@aleksa9255 Cultivating FUPA is a lot of work my guy.
That's called a tick (or nervous twitch) often caused by stress and they're hard to stop. Similar to how tourettes is. And that's not even a bad tick at all, some people do some peculiar things.
Haven't watched boogie for 1 year now but he looks like he has lost a lot of weight
Yeah he's doing really good on that front.
about 180 pounds if i'm correct! That sure is a lot and he gained moblilty and now he is able to walk and mostly act like a regular person. So proud of him!
You can see it even more when he's standing up he's looking really trim
He had gastric bypass surgery
Joli Kelly Yeah, but that still requires a HUGE effort and hard work on his side. With his knee problems, age, and anxiety that was his only way.
Boogie is easily one of the nicest people on the platform. I've always had love for him and i'm glad he's doing well now.
He’s a kind soul. I hope he knows how much we appreciate him.
mr johnson5
Did you even watch the video or the podcast?
He looks great too lost a lot of weight since back in the day I love him
Your vision of mariage is oversimplified in my opionion.
mr johnson5 he’s a fucking RUclipsr not a millionaire celebrity...
"Leave while I still love you" soo true, yet so heartbreaking.
😂😂
@bittercottoncandy maybe you're just a bitter person
Let me translate that for you
"Leave while i still got paid so i won't sue your azz and make your life hell, you fat piece of pig-shit!"
Man, I wish I was like that. I despise my girlfriend and have for ages. It would be nice to leave while there was still fondness but that ship has sailed and after I get out of being quarantined with her I'm guessing I will say leave while I still love you to try soften the blow. Is that the right way to go about it or wrong? Nobody wants to hurt anybody but leaving will do that and I can't stay and be miserable
@bittercottoncandy quarantined together. Tried to break it off ages ago. In a foreign country where the lock downs are pretty draconian and have been in place for months so can't get to an airport to go home. Been legally in a defacto relationship (basically married when it comes to the legal eyes of the law) for years. It isn't so simple when you say "not even" married. It's not so simple
My wife left me out of the blue. Doing better than I have ever done. As a 35 year old man with a good career and in the best shape of my life.. Im the best I have been.
Should I feel sorry for you or congratulate you?
@@cgasucks both
We comments section are here for you
But do you get sex is the real question
@@CJ9007 35, best shape of his life, good career; yeah he's getting some lol.
I think Boogie's ability to own up to his own problems is what makes him such a genuinely great guy. He KNOWS that his problems ruined his marriage and he completely acknowledges them, accepts them, and works to be a better person. People like that seem rare these days.
vsGoliath yeah, as we can see with this comment section, pathetic people would rather make idiotic generalizations about women and go on little Incel rants.
It's not rare. It takes intelligence and genuine kindness to do that. Can't imagine someone like that vile woman Sarkeesian doing something similar.
"These days." This isn't a new problem. Good people have been rare since the beginning of time. Today's generation is no exception.
Shit bait dawg. You gotta step up your game to make yourself seem genuine. It's really obvious you're just baiting. Your goal is to have a controversial and rage-inducing opinion while still making it seem realistic and genuine. You succeeded at the former, but failed spectacularly at the latter.
Super Awesome Space Paladin
Eh, I'll give you 4/10. At least made me reply. Try harder next time.
damn, dude. mad respect for both him and his ex wife for handling it like champs. it's too common in today's society to hear about relationships turning explosively sour that it's a breath of fresh air for a couple to take the mature, responsible, and still selfless route. I wish the best for both of them.
edit: some of you are sad excuses for human beings and I pity you.
thefowles1 funny how right when he got the surgery and lost a ton of weight she left him? Maybe she expected him die off early so she can inherit the money, because boogie just boosted his life span by 10-15 years!
Shuntaro Furukawa to be honest, I doubt that. anxiety can be one of the most destructive things in a relationship, so I understand why they made the decision. it truly is a monster if you can't keep up with it.
I don't see her like that, and I don't think you should either. based on facts and the current state of things, they seem to have been very responsible and mature with their decision.
thefowles1 Exactly. Boogie is mature, and he knows that if he told the truth that her life would be ruined. It definitely is a conspiracy but I think it could be true
Shuntaro Furukawa man, you insane
thefowles1 lol
Boogie is such a great guy, I wish the best for him 👍
o7 whooooaaa found another Yugioh guy :0
You know him ? In real life ? Have been hang 10 years ? You just know boogie its fucking character...
Nikke DosE gotta be that person huh?
Yeah a FAN i dont know him so who are U ?
Nikke DosE what’re you even talking about don’t be an idiot. Think before you type.
Honestly. Boogie has put up with so much shit in his life but still keeps going no matter what. Mad respect dude 🤟
Dialogo yah get it done boy
Pull through and be tough! :) good stuff will Happen around the corner
What has he put up with in his life?
TheTwitchybird are you kidding? Have you not listened to his childhood stories?
Dialogo yah boogie is a smart guy and strong minded!
1:18
Ethan:I know exactly what you mean *eyebrow dance*
Jamison yeee lmao nice
Deserves more upvotes
Jamison yeee HA
Jamison EYEBROW BOOGIE DOWN
That spelling.
Haven't watched boogie in a while but he looks fantastic, also respect for both him and his ex wife.
Supah saiyajin sree compared to how he used to look
Why so much hate on Awesome.C. Gatsby?
What has she done?
Supah saiyajin sree He has lost a lot of weight.
Sylis TM The dude used to look like an actual ball of fat... He's come very far from there and he definitely looks much better than he did
Keep on Truckin Boogie! We love ya man!
SquidBag oof edgy
1.1K likes, but only three replies? (Counting me)
“The key to doing this is to leave when I still love you”
Very true.
Gabriel Quinley She was probably cheating on him long before that though.
No, it sounds crazy. Generally, women don't know what love really is. Why'd she marry him in the first place. ... then divorce him as things are getting better?
@@GaryHighFruit lol
This story hits home a little too hard. Cathartic to listen to it. Thanks for sharing. Ethan man, you're looking fantastic.
I feel ya man me too... stay positive though and strive to make yourself the best person you possibly can.
NOT ANOTHER COOKING SHOW Ethan is a chubby boy, don't give him too much credit
I've been watching from old to latest, so all I see is a stunning transformation. What a fucking guy...
NOT ANOTHER COOKING SHOW Ethan's still.fat
Does that mean it happened to you?
This actually helped me learn a lot. I'm going to be careful who I marry.
Kyle Allen Music but still you never know, till you find out in the moment how someone really is 🤷🏻♀️
You don't know a women till you meet her in divorce court.
Just marry your brother. You’ll be just fine!
Don't marry. But if you do, try to marry a girl with more money than you OR get an ironclad prenup.
only thing you have to be careful of marring someone who actually doesn't believe in marriage, a lot of people just don't want to put in the work of a marriage when the convenience of divorce exists so easily. Boogie's story is classic example, they could have made it work by the sound of things, would just take work, marriage counseling, maybe talking to their rabbi, priest, rev what ever they are, but they really just didn't care to.
Sounds like such a reasonable and nice lady!
Authentic Mental Health Exactly what a scumbag like boogie needs
Boo from what I can tell he's not a scumbag, he's just a nice guy fucked up by his past demons
Lmfao says the guy who looks like he's wearing a parachute in his only video, go build your self man cant feel good having issues benching a toothpick
Mosk64 RUclips that is not true. Take my brother for example - not stereotypically good looking, is 32 still rents an apartment and he’s dating a beautiful lawyer who makes 10x he does. Not all women are like that, don’t give up
wasnt talking about you pleb.
This dude has became so relatable in this interview.. god bless this man
Damn she boogied right out of his life 💔
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Hila wearing da sweet outfit. Love that shirt
Reiji Saito can you tell me what that kind ruffly shirt is called? or where to get it?
Honestly wish they made shit like that’s for guys
GODLIKE Pls delete your comment
When I saw the title I got super sad, but after seeing this I can say I'm kind of happy everything worked kind of well. Keep it up Boogie! Proud of you!
*Llao Kvrera xdxd*
wow underated comment
When he said "I was worried about her but she was no longer worried about me man that hit"
Ok
Ok
You can’t even quote it right
"You dont quote a whole sentence that kinda defeats the purpose of quotes"
DID YOU DRINK MY MOUNTAIN DEW?!? LEMMIE SMELL YOUR BREATH
Good times
Old man Wunder
STOP CALLING ME FAT STOP CALLING ME FAT
Francis what are you doing
THEY KEEP CALLING ME FAT
Well how do they know your fat
I DONT KNOW HOW THEY KNOW IM FAT
Francis what are you going to doo with that.
IM GOING TO RUN IT OVER WHITH MY CAR
Francis you don't have a license
WELL SOMONE WILL RUN THE PEACE OF SHIT OVER
FUCK FUCK FUCK
Fancies the neighbours are watching
WHAT
Old man Wunder OH YOU MOUNTAIN DEW DRINKING BITCH
*I WANT MY GOD DAMN MOUNTAIN DEW!*
I CANT AFFORD MOUNTAIN DO! THE ECONOMY IS ROUGH RIGHT NOW, OBAMA!
You can tell that he's losing weight! Keep going, Boogie!
my gf recently had gastric bypass. she lost some weight, cheated and booted me out of her life. its absolutely devastated me
She sounds like a horrible person. Why did she cheat?
Adeniyi .Omishore she isnt horrible though. She gave some reasons, they didnt really matter. The generic reasons people give. Its reassuring to hear boogies calm and caring take on a breakup involving weight.
There is no good reason you can give for cheating my dude, only excuses...
YOU’RE A GODDAMN WEEDLE, DON’T BE AN ENTITLED PIECE OF SHIT!
stixbunny *casts stringshot*
"Whats the indignity?"
"She asked for a divorce"
i couldnt stop laughing
introspection, empathy, respect, honesty, STRENGTH. That is a good man right there. A good man.
limescale onetwo Exactly, Boogie seems very emotionally mature and self-aware which is all you can ask for somebody who's been through everything hes been through. Seems like a great guy
And people attack him for wearing his heart on his sleeve. It's good to see a role model with these emotionally mature qualities.
even 50 percent seems crazy if the human has a job. the only time i could see giving any side of a divorce money is if kids are involved and they will stay with that person full time or if the person was dependent like boogie was. otherwise fuk no get ur own money
or if u could prove damages that keep you from getting money that are a result of or the fault of the other party
yeah, one marry out of love and serve each other until death. Not for the divorce cash after 5 years.
MAN, HALF HIS BODY MUST BE HIS HEART. LIKE HE IS SUCH A GOOD PERSON. AMAZING AFTER ALL HE'S BEING THROUGH.
I'm proud of you, boog.
haHAA
All these internet relationship experts make me laugh. You have no idea what the ins and outs of their relationship breakdown is. There are two sides to every story and the reality is that each side has a right to their hurt, rejection, pain and suffering.
Unless one party cheated, of course.
Of course she did. Look at him, and I believe she was decent looking.
“I’m gonna leave while I still love you” it’s was good that she was so amicable. A lot of people wouldn’t bother doing that with a soon to be ex partner
Edit: hey look I fixed the typo that I made in a comment written in five seconds.
Forget that what about her not taking all of his shit and demanding alimony as she could easily have done? respect to her for being decent about it, that's super rare.
Mollusco Mollusco wonder = wouldn't. Took me 2 seconds to look at the context of the sentence to figure that out. Guess YOUR english skills aren't too good.
Akira Kush sounds dramatic. Sounds like a lie.
Mollusco Mollusco it is English when I accidentally mess up on autocorrect
Mollusco Mollusco You're more dense than this shitty loaf of bread I made yesterday.
Good show H3. Quality shit.
People seem to gravitate towards shock value garbage for views, and I appreciate something more real and heartfelt.
Mad respect for Boogie.
Yeah but what he is describing sounds like hangover anxiety from daily drinking.
Lightbringer if you’re joking, great. If you’re not, you seem like the worst person here by using dumbass words like that
That One Guy I respect abusers too
I had tears @ 2:40 when boogie breaks down you can tell how much pain is behind those words of forgiveness to his wife. What a great guy to be able to say "Yes she hurt me, but i thank her for all she did for me to be here today" wow.
1:19 “I know exactly what you mean” *eyebrow wave*
Yer boi n
lmaoo
Dem nervous ticks
*Hila taking notes*
I first found Boogie on his first h3h3 podcast, and I'm so happy Ethan and Hila have introduced him to us. He is such a positive and beautiful soul and knowing him and watching his content is a joy. Papa bless!
Do some research, boogie is a shitty person and a grown child
annoythefish fuck off dude. How is he a shitty person and a child? You can't just say that shit and provide no proof.
First off, no adult justifies acting shitty to family members "because he was going through a lot of anxiety". Everyone has anxiety, it's not a free ticket to act shitty. He always justifies being an asshole to his wife and all his problems because of anxiety or because he was "abused" as a child. He has a very hard time taking responsibility for acting like a dip shit.
annoythefish oh uhhh alright dude. whateva u say
Part of being an adult is keeping your composure no matter how you feel. If you can't control your behavior and blame it on anxiety, you're a child.
This man here is someone you can feel compassion for and really want the best for him. You often get wisdom and the sense he wants the best for other people too.
He's what a celebrity SHOULD be!
Good guy, for sure.
Uhhh yeah about that
That idea Hila got at 9:06
Her face at 9:18 lmao!
Lol she was like “yeah ethan yeah, I’ll remember that” xD nah lol I hope they stay happy and together
I'm telling ya, in their culture marriage is solid as rock
DoctaPeppur Ruby wrestles several devils in the 7th Ward But Ruby can't afford to move towards the hoard just yet 7th ward dragon with a firey sword through the neck.
I K E Real shit fam
At this point having “till death do us part” in wedding vows is ridiculous. You’re much better off to say “it is my intention to stay with you through sickness and in health”. It’s such an empty platitude.
And why either party is entitled to someone else’s earnings outside of support for children is absurd and corrupt.
Some people need offshore accounts to lock away assets because big name people who don’t deserve it get sucked dry all the time
Does one have to have a big name to get sucked dry? poggers
It’s too early in the Morning Glory to read another allegory story.
Morning Glory the actual statistic for first marriage is like 75% success. You are easy to fool.
Kyle Craig you’re arguing they American marriage is a successful institution?
I don't know many guys who talk so well about an ex wife. I feel like i could stab Boogie and he would remember me as a "energetic fan" lol
YpmuJ and you think that‘s a good thing?
Hahahah
And this is why I do not respect him.
He's really mature, and the right amount of selfless. I respect him and consider him as a great guy.
Brucie Kibbutz nice edge there
I greatly respect Steven. He helped me through some dark times a number of years ago. He is such a great person.
Well atleast I have a chance of getting with him now that he's single
Adam hmm... Ok
till you get his "Francis" part
Hold the fuck up
Adam what the heck man. Get some help friend.
Savage Jesus nice one jack ass.
I’m so proud of Boogie, I’ve been watching him since 2011 and I’m so glad for his growth as a human
Much respect to him for handling everything like a gent 👍!
there you go boys the state is the real husband xD
I love how he's all like "I hope she forgives me for saying this" then goes on about legitimate reasons on how they both contributed to the end of the marriage. I love him♥️
I am glad that Boogie accepted the fact that he has his problems, like his morbid obesity, his crappy diet and his poor decisions had destroyed his marriage.
That is very, very mature of him. It's always very important to look at ourselves first before we start pointing fingers.
I always felt Boogie is a really nice guy, but his morbid obesity, it's morbid for a reason, is really going to kill aspects of his life. I am so happy that he is making changes to make his life better, I hope to see a much healthier and much fitter Boogie. I have enjoyed most of his content, so I really do wish he do well.
I feel like Hila is going into mom mode for boogie, she looked so empathetic towards him.
Half Hour she’s Ethan’s carer. Probably hits home for her
Probably the most genuine guy on youtube, and its sad to hear he had a divorce, but the lass he was with was as genuine as him by the sounds of it. Love this guy
It’s terrifying to me that divorce courts are so criminally against men. Lifetime alimony, spousal support agreements to maintain a lifestyle regardless of future earning potential- it’s extortion and organized crime. It is a billion dollar industry. How was it ever allowed to get this bad?
Old Man Doom If you're concerned about that just get a prenup. Most people in that situation are too blind to consider it but will then complain about something easily preventable
Jurf_ how can you be a fan of h3h3 and say things like that against jews? Do you know anything about Ethan and Hila?
Old Man Doom SEXISM AGAINST MEN AND WOMEN. the dirty word that kills men in family court and gets female children fucked to death
Old Man Doom lol can happen to women too my dears... if the women makes more money men can and do file for the same thing and take the women for their money
Tiffany Wytte who says he is a fan of h3h3 though. He could be a boogie fan or just a random user
MARRIAGE; NOT EVEN ONCE.
Hila sitting there “ that’s so weird” thinking about how she’s gonna leave ethan 😂😂
She should, ethan is an egotistical asshole
john castillo he’s not but whatever
JTMVision he is, wake up
john castillo I could say the same about some ordinary gamer
JTMVision i don’t even know who that is
I love boogie super honest and just him. She also seems like an angel and helped him as best she could then didn't take him for everything. Says a ton about the character of both.
MAD respect for this man. Many people blame other things but he says “my morbid obesity” “MY shitty eating habits”. He owns it. It’s a such a refreshing thing to hear and props to you. You are recovering and all the best on this road, boogie
Boogie said that the state of Arkansas judges heavily favor the woman in settlements and can easily get more than 50 percent. That's screwed up.
dude seriously. when he said that a lawyer said she could get 89%, my jaw dropped. 89 fucking percent, that is just absurd.
Dovakin Brown yeah I use to live in Arkansas when I was a kid and when my parents divorced my mother got about 90% of everything when my father obviously also deserved half of it
It sort of makes me wonder how many homeless men out there are in this position due to divorce. I am even more surprised how men could go through a 2nd or 3rd marriage with that debt baggage. Hopefully Boggie has found the resolve to get physically and mentally healthy after the divorce.
He would probably be dead if not for her. She deserves 100%
Pluto : no not at all he made the business and made all the money how does she deserve every bit of what he built you’re an idiot
Poor Boogie :(
Your name. lol
That's what he wants his audience to feel. Suckers , if you ask me.
To me he seems happy. I think that he knows this was the right way to go for him
+Larry Chauncey you know for a fact she was getting tired of his gaming and telling him to grow up. He didn't stop so she went out and got slammed by some bull
at least the guy recognizes his mistakes
Damn I’m proud of boogie. Look at him man it’s just awesome to see how better he’s gotten. Bravo bro!
Nat lol nope not me although that does sound like a badass Andrew tho haha god bless
"The key to doing this is to leave when I still love you."
That statement alone just helped me immensely, and it makes perfect sense to me.
People aren't giving the ex enough credit. With Boogie's mental health issues she could have *easily* driven Boogie to suicide and she would have ended up with everything. She asked for much less than half of what the marriage was worthy and Boogie upped the number to what he felt was fair. All the more sad that they couldn't make it work, because a woman like that is more and more uncommon these days.
Even gold diggers have a conscience. The vast majority of people don't want to think of themselves as murderers.
"She asked for much less than half of what the marriage was worth"
She didn't deserve anything lol.
Boogie literally payed for everything.
If you think making dinner and bathing an obese person is worth half of boogies net worth, you are fucking idiot.
Boogie didn't even get sex, he payed half of net worth for a care taker.
Bob Smith she most definitely was entitled to quite a bit. She was his physical care taker enabling him to make videos, mangaged the books (for both the house hold and business), was a big part about making business decisions, and boogie even said she came up with a couple of the Fransis skits. Although she never could have part of the business as boogie ultimately is the business, she definitely helped build it into what it became.
And because she was doing all of that she could not reasonably work a lot as the business grew. So she shouldn't just be left homeless and with nothing for wanting a divorce.
Live with guy for 4 years.
Take care of him and the house while he pays 100% of the bills.
Eat tons of food and make yourself fat while he sits on a computer all day making content for his fans to pay the bills.
Go out and fuck dudes for 4 years behind his back because he is too fat to have sex.
Realize that he is stressed out from making youtube content all day, nag and bitch at him anyway.
When he snaps and gets angry at you, claim to be the victim
Divorce him after he gets surgery to help save his life cause you don't want to wait to collect.
Don't even have courtesy to wait till he has recovered to finalize divorce.
Demand half his net worth even though he took care of you for 4 years, while you rode dicks and turned yourself into a land whale.
What a time to be alive, when there are people retarded enough to defend behavior like this.
i don't know 4 years of work and then retirement sounds pretty good to me
Bob Smith boogie wouldn't be functional if his exwife hadnt handled him for so long. He was able to build and maintain a RUclips career despite crippling mental issues
Boogie is a true humble man , he’s honest and just such a hero and idol to look up to , he admits his mistakes and bad decisions while still calling people out on theirs while being nice about it ❤️
Ethan lookin' like Parappa the Rapper.
Hahaha
*da
Yooooooo! 😂
One, two, punch, kick....
See I dated a girl with severe anxiety and depression. And I felt like Boogies wife probably did, to the point where I would get anxiety about her anxiety. So even though I cared about her to death, I had to leave her to save my own mental health. But now, we are back to being best friends like we were before we dated and it’s great.
Francis lost his sister...
Rip
the idea of that skit from the get-go is weird tbh.
Great
There's a video of that.
"The key to doing this now is to leave when I still love you" holy shitballs. That is so awesome.
Remarkable way to illustrate there is good divorce for good cause, outcome and happiness for everyone. This worth so very much. There's so many couples in the world sticking together for love and sorriness only to go suffocate into down spiral hell hole (which was the case for my parents). I'm sorry for Boogie that it didn't work perfectly, but also congrats on being blessed with smartness and luck to have such a understanding partner! I wish you two more than just better luck!!!
Kerendips I didn’t know all that, but sometimes it’s just not worth hanging around. If it could stop making shit worse, well it might not be “good” but it’s still worth doing at very least.
Always sign a fkin prenup no matter how much you love them
Brandon Cue always!
Good idea in concept but what you don't know if that they are a quite flimsy piece of documentation and can still be easily broken by the lawyers. Not kidding, look it up. You're not safe no matter what unfortunately. Unless you just don't get married... but then if you have kids, the woman will get all the custody rights in that situation and there's nothing to protect the man or give him any rights to his children. Quite a fucked up part of our society if you ask me.
Thats Not Gaming They still have to prove abuse and if you do nothing wrong truthfully your fine, but yes I agree
Thats Not Gaming Makes me scared to commit to a woman or get married tbh. The government is basically against men unfortunately.
Sorry brandon, abuse is not necessary, look it up. All she has to do is convince the judge the prenup is not fair.
50% Tho.. Damn!! You know that had to be a couple Million. She definitely is living good right now. Lucky Her.
She lives in the middle of nowhere so she's probably comfortable but bored out of her mind lmao.
ditto
how do you even know where she lives...
I doubt she'll ever be able to hop on social media, without any hate.
ditto internet saves us all.
I think she got around 500 - 400k, based on another podcast PKA
hes so fucking HUMBLE and hes so fucking nice and mature about a sensitive subject. i want to hug him bro
89%. Up to 89% was possible Wow, thats some biased court system. I really like boogie, he´s so true, honest and well spoken :)
I think boogie is one of the realest people on this or any platform...
Interviewer: sounds like she was a real...
Boogie: she really was, man
He already knew what the guy was trying to say.
This is the first divorce i’ve heard of where no one hated eachothers guts
Get ready for the DogBeef video of "H3H3 laughs at divorce"
"As fragile as you are" Jesus effing Christ, if my wife ever said that to me I'd have to choose between Seppeku and getting some kind of ranger job where I could stay in the wilderness
Maybe that's why she thinks you're fragile.
nothing wrong with being vulnerable, fragile i suppose isn't good
Aidan Peter vulnerability doesn’t equal fragility. Getting called fragile basically means the person doesn’t think you can handle it.
So nobody has to believe me but I think Boogie is 100% sugarcoating this whole situation. Funny how he didn’t mention that a condition of his divorce was to make Dez sign a non-disclosure agreement basically making it illegal for her to disparage Boogie after the divorce. Notice how he blames her leaving on things that make him a victim: his obesity and his anxiety. He DOES mention that his anxiety would turn into anger, but the second he does he quickly downplays this, saying that he was in NO way abusive. SURE Boogie, I’m sure you always were able to reign in that anger, being that you’re so emotionally stable. Also he describes Dez leaving as her saying “people need me, I have things I want to do, I love you and I’m sorry” basically making it seem like the most amicable divorce ever. Boogie is a emotional manipulator and there’s plenty of evidence to back up that claim. I hate when he gets these softball interview questions and people just take him at his word, letting him control the narrative because he knows Dez is not even allowed to tell her side of the story. I’m willing to bet that Dez getting such a high monetary payout from Boogie was 100% BASED ON her keeping her silence about him. I used to be a huge fan of Boogie until I caught on to who he really is, and I hope everyone who reads this will look more into what I’m talking about
Boogie is so self aware & humble, I admire him a lot & honestly these qualities in a man are very attractive.
I’m never getting married
Me neither
Get married for kids
everynamewastakenomg If you ever do, get a prenup, have your own house before you propose, and make sure you have everything you want in your life before you do it.
Yup, it's difficult, especially if the individual is sensitive, just makes you emotionally drained.
He wasn't the perfect husband either, close to 600 pounds, mental illnesses and a constant need for attention. She put up with so much and stayed for so long. If anything, they don't belong to together and I hope they're happy with their new lives. Sometimes two people don't work out. Its not that their bad for each other, they're just not good together. And that's the difference.
No amount of therapy is going to fix a sexless marriage with no attraction
I wish he didn't guilt himself so much. It's always two people in a marriage as well as in a divorce. You also don't choose to be anxious. I hope he can really forgive himself, whatever he's blaming himself of. God bless him and his former wife.
" I am leaving ( I don't love you anymore) while I still love you (respect you)."
Respect you Boogie for choosing to fight the battles you can win! Looking good. Keep it up!
"Judge: What the indignity was?
Boogie: SHE DRANK MY MOUNTAIN DEW "
all jokes aside I hope for the very best for this guy
damn boogie really delivered some good shit and I’m thankful I heard it..
It sounds like they really handled this as well as possible, considering the situation. I hope Boogie is able to continue taking care of the problems in his life that got them to this state (which it sounds like he is) and that his ex-wife is able to move on and be successful in her own right. It honestly sounded like the best thing for them to do to split when they did.
boogie and his wife seem like very level headed people who care about eachother and actually know how to handle hardships. i wish them both the best of luck
Oh boy this comment section
Ikr so many retards
Welcome to the internet, where the most stupidest things are thought to be good.
Killmon10 preach
It’s all people who don’t understand divorce lol
Blood Red fuk off
Hila is taking notes so when she divorce Ethan
The Unknown Psycho lmao exactly cuz all women have this evil plan.
I mean, she is jewish :/
a boogie with the hoodie
yolodolo
This Boogie is a boogie without a hoodie, though...
a boogie with the boobie
yolodolo da*
yolodolo yess that is a rapartist! Good job kiddo!! You almost made a joke! Fuck you
#BoogieDown
I'm amazed by how incredibly humble this man is...
It’s always good to get something like this off your chest
I don't watch Boogie hardly enough. But Jesus Christ has he shrunk. I'm glad he's found something that works for him.
you can still love someone but you dont have to be with that person
Until they move on to a new person, then that love can become hate.
Boogie. Thank you so very much for all you do. You are a great teacher. Your life experience makes you an expert on abusive behavior. You communication skills and your empathy for the human condition allow you to relate this experience to others so that we have a chance to learn from you and become better human beings. Thank you.
7:33 Stop right there Ethan! Are you thinking about getting a divorce?
My mom did that. My dad's new girlfriend called my mom saying that daddy just accumulated some money. mom went to her lawyer with dad's social security number soooooo he was flat broke after that.
Love this guy so much and I don’t even play video games or really know of him up until he was on your podcast! Great podcast
This hit's me hard now even though my longest relationship was only one year but I cannot imagine living the things steven has gone through. "love cannot fix it" that hits hard.