Dapper, just on this note you being shamed by people saying your glorifying the lifestyle, that's what makes this podcast accessible and stand out. People want to acknowledge that getting on it IS fun, and have a laugh about it whilst talking about real issues and improving themselves. If it wasn't a good feeling, people would getting into it in the first place. Keep doing what your doing!
50 Days sober today all started for me watching this podcast ! Some of the things that I can hand on heart say have changed in my life over this time . . Happiest me and my wife have ever been (from her mouth also) . Spend so much amazing quality time with my two young kids . Smashing the gym 4 mornings a week 5am starts before work in best shape I’ve been in for years . Promoted in work into a career path I’ve been chasing for a long time . I was stuck in the rut like I read so many other people in the comments are. Believe in yourself get focused on something for me the gym is my escape and go smash it don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t ! Thanks for opening my eyes to my issues Dan literally changed my life 🫶🏻
Thank you for sharing. I’m now beginning to work with addicts of cocaine just recently in the last few weeks after many years of being a Hypnotherapist and this is really helping me understand it as I’ve never treated it before I’ve treated alcoholics people addicted to smoking cocaine. It’s a new one for me after many years, so this is really good information on it. The more I understand the more I help my clients
After listening to these podcasts i have only just realised i have a problem, I’m typing this hungover on 1 hour sleep and i always tell myself that i don’t have a problem i just like drinking and having a few bumps, i am realising its getting worse and worse and its not the person i want to be anymore
@@menacetosobrietypodcast yeah and like you said my kids an family get a shitty version of me for several days after, just because i want to go out an get on it, i need to just knock the drinking on the head to make sure my family get the best me
Day 98 for me and this podcast has been a big help for me along the way! 💯👊 Working my way through a load of these the next few days as I’ll be at your live show next Wednesday! Keep smashing it Dapper! 💯
I love these mate, congrats on your 100 days too! Keep the interviews real, over-produced podcasts are boring 😂 Elliot is a top bloke, I could listen to the both of you for hours. Also, fuck the negative press, you're not glorifying the sesh. This is EXACTLY the type of open conversations people trying to change need. Love you brother 🙏
Mate the absolute kick up the ass this podcast has given me over the last week realising I’m letting my kids down my mrs myself should be fucking proud of yourself for what your doing here because I can honestly for the first time see myself sober
I listen to every single one of these podcast and mention stuff I've heard to my mates because slowly but surely I know I'm coming to the end of giving it up because there are to many similarities, keep up the positivity mate I NEED IT
17 mins about the kids hit hard. I just can't find a way out of this vicious circle. I know what I need to do but after a stressful week, I just want to go to the pub and forget about it all. I work from home a lot so I just feel like I need to get away for a couple of hours and get out of the house from the cabin fever. Fridays need to change. Plan something with the family rather than the pub
Thanks for all the videos Dan you are helping so many people with out knowing today is my first day sober in 4 years and these videos do really help cheers
As a woman in recovery I’m glad you are there for men! You content really helps me, but men can relate to you and that important your helping a lot of people by being so open I’m 60 days today. Keep going and looking after the lads they need to hear this it make them feel less alone ❤
I'm obsessed with this podcast well done to Dan amazing. (As a woman too)but supporting a loved one with addiction. This podcast is a breath of fresh air isn't it.
Just discovered the podcast, this one is my first episode. I haven't struggled with addiction but have been around it. This has opened my eyes to some of my behaviours that are leading that way and has set out a path to how I can help others. I can't wait to tune into the next one!
Another smashing podcast! I watch every week and they are so relatable. Love Elliot! One of my faves! Great tip at the end there. Thanks for putting this out there ❤ Happy Sunday have a great week!
Cheers Dan, since watching your podcast my mindset has slowly come back, back in 2021 I was at my peak mentally and physically in my 40's, however last year I really let it slide, gained weight all round, lost the purpose,and binge drink. I'm now back in the gym, 30 days sober, and mindset is getting there, I resonated so much in what you was saying on the urges, triggers.....I use to get that even seeing a advert lol. Watching you guys for a hour on a treadmill really got me thinking, best regards from Malaysia.
There are people that really want to stop and will apply every fibre in their body to do so and there are those that have just put their next usage on pause whilst they momentarily abstain - it’s hard to distinguish between which path you are on - but the key is knowing there are two different paths and only one is out of jail
16 days today for me, Ive been thinking for a while about this. The real thing that connected with me is my wife and son getting the shitty version of me (hungover or excited waiting to go out and drink) its not fair.
Love the content brother, over 1200 days clean from class A dependancy and still find this podcast motivating to listen to. Only feedback is that I seem to find your videos much quieter than other RUclips content? Only videos I need to have on full volume? Either way, keep ‘em coming ❤
These podcasts are amazing very open/honest and true! More like this the world needs! I am coming upto 12months clean away from cocaine I take every day as it comes and I am very proud but honestly my story before that has been mental!
This a great awareness podcast. I wish most of my friends could watch this. How many times I’ve heard “I’m alright mate cause I only do it 3 times a week and I got to work every day (ish)” Like ya said: it’s not glorification. It’s a clear broadcast of what everyone’s ingesting and the reality of a vicious, pointless, self destructive lifestyle full of financial ruin and personal loss. Keep up the good work and keep those sober days on the infinite mark ♾
Some of the insights are crazy. I honestly thought I was the only one who would do secret lines in the bathroom while my misses was in the living room and.
Watching this has really opened my eyes I started using as abit of fun then year before the first lockdown I lost my sister in April 2019 and took until a month into the first lockdown 2020 where the mental health hit me through grieving and at that point I started using to cope and it helped me talk about things I had bottled up then as the last few years went on lost various family members best mate nan grandad uncles then I got to the stage where I felt good level still using but at that point was routine then last year around end of June 20202 I got diagnosed with testicular cancer went through scans surgery now I have one ball and I have sperm frozen to have my own kids through ivf but I’m still using even till this day I’m an addict and I know that and now I’m in remission cancer free I’m still using because I’m scared about if it comes back ivf been lucky haven’t had to do chemo I have 3 monthly check ups so I’m lucky but I still go out with the boys every weekend get smashed and get on it I know I need to stop but it’s so hard
I finally managed to get off of packet in middle of November. But it’s turned into drinking now every night and sometimes can go up to 12+ tins. I say I will stop when I wake up but it gets to 5pm and I’m pacing up and down and give in to drinking again
I'm wondering the age of people listening to this wanting to change their lifestyle. I'm 44 and have been heavily drinking and getting smashed from the age of 15-16. It's just boring now. Same scenario weekend after weekend. Pub, smashed, talking bollocks in someone's kitchen dreading the next day/days. Trying to sleep, can't, getting up the next day, cracking a tin because you can't face reality and prolonging the agony
Well done daps. Honestly watching your videos everyday. Some iv even watched multiple times. It was bank holiday monday yesterday and i was itching to get wrecked....i just watched your channel all night. Your really helping me become the man iv always wanted to be. Still skint, still ugly as fuck but mate your helping your brothers out here so much. Keep it up and much love brother
It's not a land mark clean date for me. But I'm 2 years 8 months today. We have the same day each month 🎉❤. Keep going mate. Keep doing the podcasts. I love living clean ❤.
Another great one dapper ! Huge respect mate ! Again you are winning and I am winning in so many ways mate . Godbless dapper 🎉 what’s that all about 😂😂
I loved this episode. It is an illness at the end of the day. I personally think that anyone with any kind of addiction wants to get better. However i fear for some its just not that straighforwrd. Not to say they cant but there journey is more preilous.
I’m 29 days sober now and listening to your podcasts really help aim is 6 months then wanna start getting years sober we will see ,thanks for your help along the way and good luck with yours
This vid influenced me to want some lolas cupcakes lol I put on 60lbs after quitting beak.. then after year got back in gym etc 2 years clean now fit and healthy
Great video, you should look at Michael Maisey or Craig Harrison and their weekend retreats. Michael's been sober for 15 years. You could do a similar weeked retreat for guys who are struggling with using. I think it would go down very well 🙂 Good luck with everything
“Yeah you can tick, because you’ll be back to pay and want another” That’s the trap. It’s hard to just walk away from your dealers when you take him money on payday
Dappa your inspiration no pressure but your showing its hard but you want to do it for what ever reason but your doing It and still a lad while doing it
@@menacetosobrietypodcast mate thank you. fucked up again 1 last time turned into that's the last time ⏲️ remember when you 1st started I didn't do the every 1 els doing it I'm left behind life. How fukking hard is it tho can you post the old fekker who looks better than most 20 yr @. Dap so good hearing you say ya Mrs is happy honestly just to think you are making her happy when really she has your kids so no matter what If she is happy she can make your little 1s happy defo worth it mate xx
One knows they’re getting addicted when one day after another keeps passing by and every day you tell yourself I’m not gonna buy a bag tonight and then you buy a bag that night and then you say to yourself this well is the last night tonight I know tomorrow I’m not going to and then tomorrow comes and a person buys another bag that’s when you start to realize that the addiction is subconsciously controlling your behaviors.
when i realised iwas needin a bump aorund 4pmish every day just to get to bedtime. not even for the hgh or to party. yrs of 'recretional' turnesdinto dailyfor the last 6months at least until new year there. 3 months clean now, when your told you could lose your babies thqtlscare you enough out of selfishness
I'm one of the girls who follows religiously to help me to stay clean. Mine was at home with my ex or myself always in the house. No drink. Para rippin but tell u I could sniff any man under the table sadly 😮😂😢 clean since new yr but your both a huge part of that of Insta
Question and I think a very good one Dan. Do you think being sober and not having your brain mashed up with drinking and drug life and all that comes with it. Do you think that your comedy content will or has taken a change of content theme etc?
Defiantly, im thinking alot more about what im doing, im not really sure where im at at the moment im taking my time and working more on my stand up then video content but my stuff was irratic before, I think its defiantly different. What do you think
@@menacetosobrietypodcast I think you will think and change what you thinks funny . Definitely open up and appeal to a different crowd too. .. definitely keep the foundations though for sure it's solid. Good luck to you man looking forward to seeing it.
Well done mate it's fukking hardddd I failed after a week if he done that to me I'd be on the fone it's fukking hardddd butttt when it passes ???what will it be like
At what point is it considered an addiction then, what if you choose to do it every now and then say once a month or when there’s a special occasion, all things in moderation, true moderation, you cannot go wrong lol
Some people like myself can't control and moderate. Unfortunately. Better off cutting it out completely. But good luck to ya if you can take it or leave it.
Dapper you make some great points in this podcast but the guest is the type of guy to just 1 up whatever point you are saying rather than listening to your points. Its a shame, still a great podcast and some very helful content.
What do u do when your working your arse off 60 hours a week and have nothing else no bird no place no kids and all u have is watching a bit of sport and a few beers
Yep but you think it doesn’t work the other way as well for the buyer They get it off the dealer on tic so they don’t have to pay the money then next week debt day comes they pay and get another or whatever then the week after the same and same and same they are always owing something but always ticking something so the dealer never actually sees his money from these kinda people n they know what they are doing they will have many they do it with and their will be ones that they don’t pay one week then will pay the next week they’ll always let one of them down and let a different one down the week after and go round in a circle. Their cheeky cunts some of these customers and these type of people the ones that do it are the ones that are your mates😂😂😂
Do you think its more prevalent in men than women cos women are more tuned into(looking after the kids,getting stuff done at home)?I'm not judging but us women do have to deal with the kids and life and men(not judging again)but we do have to literally get on with it.😊
I'm still stuck in this. I admit I've got an issue but struggling to get out of the rut. But watching your vids more and more os making me realise what I've gotta do. Thank you
@@menacetosobrietypodcast I know, I've known for a while. I have my kids 2 days a week and they r 4 and 6. The ex has dragged me thru so many court hearings and made my life hell. So after work when I get home and don't have my boys I try and numb the pain and drink or at weekends get some packet. And don't talk to anyone at all. Don't go out. Hate it and hate myself for doing it. But same old pattern every week. Whenever I don't have my boys I resort to the same shit to block it all out. 4 years now. I've had enough. Don't want this anymore.
@@menacetosobrietypodcast and I know I'm not your problem mate. Thank you for the videos Tho. It confirms what I've gotta do. Just ain't that easy if you get me. Wish it was. I will try my best. Just hope my best is good enough. 👍
Sounds like you’re going through tough times, Iain, but I’m sure you can do it. Take good care of yourself, be kind to yourself, and please know that you will be able to get through this 💯. Sounds like you are a good, dedicated Dad. Keep your chin up. Your kids need you. All the best, Tim
Dapper, just on this note you being shamed by people saying your glorifying the lifestyle, that's what makes this podcast accessible and stand out. People want to acknowledge that getting on it IS fun, and have a laugh about it whilst talking about real issues and improving themselves. If it wasn't a good feeling, people would getting into it in the first place. Keep doing what your doing!
50 Days sober today all started for me watching this podcast ! Some of the things that I can hand on heart say have changed in my life over this time .
. Happiest me and my wife have ever been (from her mouth also)
. Spend so much amazing quality time with my two young kids
. Smashing the gym 4 mornings a week 5am starts before work in best shape I’ve been in for years
. Promoted in work into a career path I’ve been chasing for a long time .
I was stuck in the rut like I read so many other people in the comments are. Believe in yourself get focused on something for me the gym is my escape and go smash it don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t !
Thanks for opening my eyes to my issues Dan literally changed my life 🫶🏻
Keep going ❤
Well done mate
Congrats mate I’m on day 5 carnt wait to get to that big 50 stay strong brother see you at the top
Thank you for sharing. I’m now beginning to work with addicts of cocaine just recently in the last few weeks after many years of being a Hypnotherapist and this is really helping me understand it as I’ve never treated it before I’ve treated alcoholics people addicted to smoking cocaine. It’s a new one for me after many years, so this is really good information on it. The more I understand the more I help my clients
After listening to these podcasts i have only just realised i have a problem, I’m typing this hungover on 1 hour sleep and i always tell myself that i don’t have a problem i just like drinking and having a few bumps, i am realising its getting worse and worse and its not the person i want to be anymore
Good luck mate. I had that realisation 4 years ago but still haven't made the difference. U can do it tho. Good luck
@@i.m1981 mate you can do it its not going to be easy but you have to believe in yourself 👊🏻
mate, thats how it started for me, then when you try stop and you can't you really see.. But in your own time mate, good thing is you know..
@@menacetosobrietypodcast yeah and like you said my kids an family get a shitty version of me for several days after, just because i want to go out an get on it, i need to just knock the drinking on the head to make sure my family get the best me
@@wgcHERTS thanks mate, appreciate it. You got this aswell . 💪
Day 98 for me and this podcast has been a big help for me along the way! 💯👊 Working my way through a load of these the next few days as I’ll be at your live show next Wednesday! Keep smashing it Dapper! 💯
Definitely please have this geezer back on and do a 2 hour chat
Thank you
Yeah he's great
He’s the best
Listening to these podcasts has made me stop drinking and bagging I realised I had a problem this has helped so much thanks dapper, ledgend
Ah well done brother. Thank you
I love this one guys, please share this for me I want it to get out there, if you enjoy then pass the pod!!
Good to meet you this morning mate, my mates just sent me these podcasts, looking forward to getting stuck in 👌🏻👊🏻
And we’ll done on 100days 💪🏻💪🏻
Elliot is bang on with everything and just listening to him on this podcast will give so many people a foundation to build on. 🙌🏻
Yeah absolutely spot on 👊
Thank you ❤
I love these mate, congrats on your 100 days too! Keep the interviews real, over-produced podcasts are boring 😂
Elliot is a top bloke, I could listen to the both of you for hours.
Also, fuck the negative press, you're not glorifying the sesh. This is EXACTLY the type of open conversations people trying to change need.
Love you brother 🙏
Thank you x
Thank you mate
Mate the absolute kick up the ass this podcast has given me over the last week realising I’m letting my kids down my mrs myself should be fucking proud of yourself for what your doing here because I can honestly for the first time see myself sober
I listen to every single one of these podcast and mention stuff I've heard to my mates because slowly but surely I know I'm coming to the end of giving it up because there are to many similarities, keep up the positivity mate I NEED IT
Same here my man 🙏
17 mins about the kids hit hard. I just can't find a way out of this vicious circle. I know what I need to do but after a stressful week, I just want to go to the pub and forget about it all. I work from home a lot so I just feel like I need to get away for a couple of hours and get out of the house from the cabin fever. Fridays need to change. Plan something with the family rather than the pub
Thanks for all the videos Dan you are helping so many people with out knowing today is my first day sober in 4 years and these videos do really help cheers
You’re an inspiration dapper👌🏻I’m on the start of my journey and already I feel great and alive and happy! Sobriety is the way to live ❤️
WELL DONE MATE 100 DAYS IS AMAZING ,KEEP GOING BROTHER
Love you're podcasts. 💯Real and very helpful. Thanks guys 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you for your comment
As a woman in recovery I’m glad you are there for men! You content really helps me, but men can relate to you and that important your helping a lot of people by being so open I’m 60 days today. Keep going and looking after the lads they need to hear this it make them feel less alone ❤
I'm obsessed with this podcast well done to Dan amazing. (As a woman too)but supporting a loved one with addiction. This podcast is a breath of fresh air isn't it.
thank you - I really appreciate that
@@Quartzone6145 thank you xx
Well done Lisa Keep up the good work you’ll get there!
Well done on 60 days clean ❤❤❤
God bless you Dan and Elliott. Thank you. I am a drunk right now but I'm going to sort out my life
Another great one Dan great to have Elliot back on watching these every week is really helping keep up the good work brother 💪🏼👍🏼
Thank you Dan is a great host
Brilliant podcast guys...great information 👏 👌 👍
That thing about triggers really resonates with me, i cant even go back to my home town coz ill end up back on it, the whole place is my trigger
Just discovered the podcast, this one is my first episode. I haven't struggled with addiction but have been around it. This has opened my eyes to some of my behaviours that are leading that way and has set out a path to how I can help others. I can't wait to tune into the next one!
Elliot is a G. Thanks for the podcast Dan. It's really helpful.
Thank you mate. Glad you enjoyed it
Thank you my friend
Fantastic podcast. Well done Dapper for geting to 100 days and hats off to Elliot Wald as well for being such a force for good in this space!
Thank you
Great show again bro thankyou Elliot. I remember doing bit of work in your back garden at least 20 years back wow thanku guys❤
Thank yu for your comment
Another smashing podcast! I watch every week and they are so relatable. Love Elliot! One of my faves! Great tip at the end there. Thanks for putting this out there ❤
Happy Sunday have a great week!
Thank you
Thanks to you dapper I’m am now getting the help I need thank you👍👍👍
can you please bring him on again for day 200 of yours these are the best episodes on the channel without a doubt
Thank you
Cheers Dan, since watching your podcast my mindset has slowly come back, back in 2021 I was at my peak mentally and physically in my 40's, however last year I really let it slide, gained weight all round, lost the purpose,and binge drink. I'm now back in the gym, 30 days sober, and mindset is getting there, I resonated so much in what you was saying on the urges, triggers.....I use to get that even seeing a advert lol. Watching you guys for a hour on a treadmill really got me thinking, best regards from Malaysia.
There are people that really want to stop and will apply every fibre in their body to do so and there are those that have just put their next usage on pause whilst they momentarily abstain - it’s hard to distinguish between which path you are on - but the key is knowing there are two different paths and only one is out of jail
Well done mate 👍🏼 I’m gunna be 50 days tomorrow thanks to you pal keep the great interviews coming 👏🏼🙏
16 days today for me, Ive been thinking for a while about this. The real thing that connected with me is my wife and son getting the shitty version of me (hungover or excited waiting to go out and drink) its not fair.
Really good podcast Dan. Congratulations on the 100 days 🙌👊🏻
Love the content brother, over 1200 days clean from class A dependancy and still find this podcast motivating to listen to. Only feedback is that I seem to find your videos much quieter than other RUclips content? Only videos I need to have on full volume? Either way, keep ‘em coming ❤
Ah ok mate I didn’t realise! I’ll take a look into that. Thanks for the kind words and well done on your 1200 days
These podcasts are amazing very open/honest and true! More like this the world needs!
I am coming upto 12months clean away from cocaine I take every day as it comes and I am very proud but honestly my story before that has been mental!
Well done mate. Keep it up.
Dan great podcast again. Just thought I'll mention it you look really good and healthy. Keep up the good work !
This a great awareness podcast. I wish most of my friends could watch this. How many times I’ve heard “I’m alright mate cause I only do it 3 times a week and I got to work every day (ish)”
Like ya said: it’s not glorification. It’s a clear broadcast of what everyone’s ingesting and the reality of a vicious, pointless, self destructive lifestyle full of financial ruin and personal loss. Keep up the good work and keep those sober days on the infinite mark ♾
This is brilliant! Follow this guy religiously now
Thank you
Great show again this time next week I hit my 100 days last few day’s cravings have been strong but I’m not going back to that hell hole
me to matey it gets like that! Stay strong
Some of the insights are crazy. I honestly thought I was the only one who would do secret lines in the bathroom while my misses was in the living room and.
We do these things and think we are the only one!
Watching this has really opened my eyes I started using as abit of fun then year before the first lockdown I lost my sister in April 2019 and took until a month into the first lockdown 2020 where the mental health hit me through grieving and at that point I started using to cope and it helped me talk about things I had bottled up then as the last few years went on lost various family members best mate nan grandad uncles then I got to the stage where I felt good level still using but at that point was routine then last year around end of June 20202 I got diagnosed with testicular cancer went through scans surgery now I have one ball and I have sperm frozen to have my own kids through ivf but I’m still using even till this day I’m an addict and I know that and now I’m in remission cancer free I’m still using because I’m scared about if it comes back ivf been lucky haven’t had to do chemo I have 3 monthly check ups so I’m lucky but I still go out with the boys every weekend get smashed and get on it I know I need to stop but it’s so hard
These podcasts have come at a perfect time for me and love when you two work together. Keep up the good work lads
Well done dapper!!!!
56 days for me 💪🔥
Xxxxx
Class brother keep going ! I’m 58 days sober feel better than ever
@@kylebookless2814 big up to you !!! We got this brother 🙌🙌
@@jordanc9474 yea brother we are all one big family trying to battle this hope you are well my friend 👌🏽☀️
100 percent !! Love bro!
Well done Dan keep going.im sure shelly and kids and so happy to have you there and present.
Thank you
Fantastic pod Elliott seems like a top guy keep up the great work Dan and have a great week people ✌🏻❤️🙏🏻
Thank you
@@ElliottWald your welcome mate
I finally managed to get off of packet in middle of November. But it’s turned into drinking now every night and sometimes can go up to 12+ tins. I say I will stop when I wake up but it gets to 5pm and I’m pacing up and down and give in to drinking again
I'm wondering the age of people listening to this wanting to change their lifestyle. I'm 44 and have been heavily drinking and getting smashed from the age of 15-16. It's just boring now. Same scenario weekend after weekend. Pub, smashed, talking bollocks in someone's kitchen dreading the next day/days. Trying to sleep, can't, getting up the next day, cracking a tin because you can't face reality and prolonging the agony
Well done daps. Honestly watching your videos everyday. Some iv even watched multiple times. It was bank holiday monday yesterday and i was itching to get wrecked....i just watched your channel all night. Your really helping me become the man iv always wanted to be. Still skint, still ugly as fuck but mate your helping your brothers out here so much. Keep it up and much love brother
Love how dappa said not a bag of gear then my kids are gona love these.
It's not a land mark clean date for me. But I'm 2 years 8 months today. We have the same day each month 🎉❤. Keep going mate. Keep doing the podcasts. I love living clean ❤.
Great podcast Thankyou guys
Thank you
I am an addict. I need to change. I will change.
Another great one dapper ! Huge respect mate ! Again you are winning and I am winning in so many ways mate . Godbless dapper 🎉 what’s that all about 😂😂
I loved this episode. It is an illness at the end of the day. I personally think that anyone with any kind of addiction wants to get better. However i fear for some its just not that straighforwrd. Not to say they cant but there journey is more preilous.
I'm starting to understand its an illness. You're right. I think I am on the perilous side of the journey. Kills me to say it but gotta be honest.
Amazing content keep it going 💪
I’m 29 days sober now and listening to your podcasts really help aim is 6 months then wanna start getting years sober we will see ,thanks for your help along the way and good luck with yours
When the dj says, "but don't you want the business?" Hahahahaha, that was brilliant.
Seriously though, great podcast
People may say the stories and the "glorifying" as triggers but also many will see it as their release with our having to go back there...
I’m ready to make that choice , I’ve been doing it for 15 years I’ve had enough now .
❤❤❤
This vid influenced me to want some lolas cupcakes lol I put on 60lbs after quitting beak.. then after year got back in gym etc 2 years clean now fit and healthy
Great video, you should look at Michael Maisey or Craig Harrison and their weekend retreats. Michael's been sober for 15 years. You could do a similar weeked retreat for guys who are struggling with using. I think it would go down very well 🙂 Good luck with everything
CIP Project 💪🔥🙏
“Yeah you can tick, because you’ll be back to pay and want another” That’s the trap. It’s hard to just walk away from your dealers when you take him money on payday
Dappa your inspiration no pressure but your showing its hard but you want to do it for what ever reason but your doing It and still a lad while doing it
Thank you so much Matt
@@menacetosobrietypodcast mate thank you. fucked up again 1 last time turned into that's the last time ⏲️ remember when you 1st started I didn't do the every 1 els doing it I'm left behind life. How fukking hard is it tho can you post the old fekker who looks better than most 20 yr @. Dap so good hearing you say ya Mrs is happy honestly just to think you are making her happy when really she has your kids so no matter what If she is happy she can make your little 1s happy defo worth it mate xx
Tell Elliot, lovely geeza, change the top must wear it 7 days a week
😂
LOL
Alan Sugar…… YOU’RE WIRED!! 👉🏻
One knows they’re getting addicted when one day after another keeps passing by and every day you tell yourself I’m not gonna buy a bag tonight and then you buy a bag that night and then you say to yourself this well is the last night tonight I know tomorrow I’m not going to and then tomorrow comes and a person buys another bag that’s when you start to realize that the addiction is subconsciously controlling your behaviors.
This guy is like jay from the inbetweeners with all his stories about his mega rich clients and super human abilities
Get Russell brand on the podcast dapper his bein soba 20 years realy like your podcasts realy helping
Glad you enjoy the pods mate!
when i realised iwas needin a bump aorund 4pmish every day just to get to bedtime. not even for the hgh or to party. yrs of 'recretional' turnesdinto dailyfor the last 6months at least until new year there. 3 months clean now, when your told you could lose your babies thqtlscare you enough out of selfishness
You don’t seem your self on this podcast mate your doing well keep going my mate every podcast you post is helping people
I'm one of the girls who follows religiously to help me to stay clean. Mine was at home with my ex or myself always in the house. No drink. Para rippin but tell u I could sniff any man under the table sadly 😮😂😢 clean since new yr but your both a huge part of that of Insta
Question and I think a very good one Dan.
Do you think being sober and not having your brain mashed up with drinking and drug life and all that comes with it. Do you think that your comedy content will or has taken a change of content theme etc?
Defiantly, im thinking alot more about what im doing, im not really sure where im at at the moment im taking my time and working more on my stand up then video content but my stuff was irratic before, I think its defiantly different. What do you think
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I think you will think and change what you thinks funny . Definitely open up and appeal to a different crowd too. .. definitely keep the foundations though for sure it's solid. Good luck to you man looking forward to seeing it.
What happens if you still enjoy the sesh and the gear SERIOUSLY?
that's up to you, if it aint causing your problems thats your choice brother
Then your not ready to change
Well done mate it's fukking hardddd I failed after a week if he done that to me I'd be on the fone it's fukking hardddd butttt when it passes ???what will it be like
14.05 they want to change but been selfish and want to hold other people back to make them feel better
At what point is it considered an addiction then, what if you choose to do it every now and then say once a month or when there’s a special occasion, all things in moderation, true moderation, you cannot go wrong lol
Some people like myself can't control and moderate. Unfortunately. Better off cutting it out completely. But good luck to ya if you can take it or leave it.
You should get tubes on from tubes and ange golf life
Tubes would be good content.
Great shout
Dapper you make some great points in this podcast but the guest is the type of guy to just 1 up whatever point you are saying rather than listening to your points. Its a shame, still a great podcast and some very helful content.
83 days for me today
Well done mate
What do u do when your working your arse off 60 hours a week and have nothing else no bird no place no kids and all u have is watching a bit of sport and a few beers
Yep but you think it doesn’t work the other way as well for the buyer
They get it off the dealer on tic so they don’t have to pay the money then next week debt day comes they pay and get another or whatever then the week after the same and same and same they are always owing something but always ticking something so the dealer never actually sees his money from these kinda people n they know what they are doing they will have many they do it with and their will be ones that they don’t pay one week then will pay the next week they’ll always let one of them down and let a different one down the week after and go round in a circle. Their cheeky cunts some of these customers and these type of people the ones that do it are the ones that are your mates😂😂😂
Dap
Do you think its more prevalent in men than women cos women are more tuned into(looking after the kids,getting stuff done at home)?I'm not judging but us women do have to deal with the kids and life and men(not judging again)but we do have to literally get on with it.😊
I think its more in men just form the lad culture growing up, every lad I know either does it or did.
Women are generally by nature more in touch with their emotions, men tend to bottle everything up until it becomes unbearable
he was getting triggered bad
I'm still stuck in this. I admit I've got an issue but struggling to get out of the rut. But watching your vids more and more os making me realise what I've gotta do. Thank you
Divorce, court custody hearings etc. She's taking my house. It's tough but I know what I've gotta do. It's hard tho so I'm proud of you mate
Thabks mate, if your going through tough times it’s the best time to get your stuff together to be there for yourself
@@menacetosobrietypodcast I know, I've known for a while. I have my kids 2 days a week and they r 4 and 6. The ex has dragged me thru so many court hearings and made my life hell. So after work when I get home and don't have my boys I try and numb the pain and drink or at weekends get some packet. And don't talk to anyone at all. Don't go out. Hate it and hate myself for doing it. But same old pattern every week. Whenever I don't have my boys I resort to the same shit to block it all out. 4 years now. I've had enough. Don't want this anymore.
@@menacetosobrietypodcast and I know I'm not your problem mate. Thank you for the videos Tho. It confirms what I've gotta do. Just ain't that easy if you get me. Wish it was. I will try my best. Just hope my best is good enough. 👍
Sounds like you’re going through tough times, Iain, but I’m sure you can do it. Take good care of yourself, be kind to yourself, and please know that you will be able to get through this 💯. Sounds like you are a good, dedicated Dad. Keep your chin up. Your kids need you. All the best, Tim
Alright David see what your doing it’s super mate is there an email address I can get you on fella? Cheers