“Get Comfortable with People Not Liking you!” Florence Given on Embracing The Cringe!

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @fearnecotton
    @fearnecotton  20 дней назад +9

    How comfortable are you with embracing being cringe? Let us know in the comments!

  • @charlottegreaves1282
    @charlottegreaves1282 21 день назад +54

    Floss is such an inspiration to women and has guided me in rediscovering my spark for life. Long live women who are genuine and joyful!! Love u Floss

  • @okitstori
    @okitstori 21 день назад +28

    I hope this podcast reaches as many women as possible 💓 this is delicious food for the mind, body and soul that everyone should get a taste of

  • @lillymae2204
    @lillymae2204 19 дней назад +7

    Ever since I discovered this woman from reading her novel 'women don't owe you pretty' when I was 15, (I am now 19) my perspective has completely changed, I love my body and have become comfortable in my own skin. Words cannot describe how inspiring and excited this woman makes me feel, we love you floss ❤

    • @Ohnoitsruthio
      @Ohnoitsruthio 18 дней назад +2

      So inspiring that the skinny blue eyed, able bodied, middle class white woman can let us know that women don’t owe you pretty… but apparently being woke (I.e left wing) is a problem. I’m sure she made herself even more money from her vacuous book.

  • @allwellandgood8547
    @allwellandgood8547 21 день назад +16

    Thank you both this was incredible! What an absolutely inspirational and wise young woman. I wish I had had this mindset and insights two decades ago! ❤

  • @sarahcalderwood6821
    @sarahcalderwood6821 19 дней назад +4

    Oh I loved this chat 🩷 you are both an inspiration 👏 a yoga teacher once said to me 'it's about how it feels, not how it looks' and that spoke volumes to me. I love the way Florence voices her opinions, it really speaks to me, and likely most women. Keep up the authentic expression ladies 💫

  • @lilme7052
    @lilme7052 20 дней назад +10

    Sad to say as a non instagrammer i have never heard of dear Floss but thanks to you Fern I have now. I now have a few more books on my xmas list and MORE podcasts to watch. ughhh. Hard life!

  • @ramblinglowe7363
    @ramblinglowe7363 20 дней назад +4

    Quite glad I've watched this. What was discussed really helped me out with my own issues. Give some perspective, but also comfort that there are ways forward.

  • @melanieariadnaa
    @melanieariadnaa 21 день назад +9

    This podcast is everything! I love Florence 💗💗 we need more people like that in today’s world ✨

  • @lunamoon844
    @lunamoon844 13 дней назад

    Found this on my homepage randomly and decided to listen whilst I cleaned my kitchen and it was like hearing someone voice all of my thoughts, feelings and experiences. Just wonderful, thank you

  • @NAjq5db
    @NAjq5db 21 день назад +7

    she is the EPITOME of joy

  • @pigeonjcc7618
    @pigeonjcc7618 8 дней назад

    Absolutely loved this! Resonated so much! Thank you Florence and Fearne 🥰🥰 definitely popping your book on my Christmas list ❤️

  • @zeldas_lullaby
    @zeldas_lullaby 20 дней назад +11

    Love the comparison of the internet being an "unnatural portal." Yes!

  • @sarahharrington7674
    @sarahharrington7674 21 день назад +6

    This really hit hard. Floss is amazing and so inspiring

  • @patrycjawilczynska154
    @patrycjawilczynska154 11 дней назад

    two intelligent women 💖 this talk is a GIFT

  • @lisab9734
    @lisab9734 20 дней назад +1

    Coming to the end of this podcast and I feel I could burst and cry all at the same time! ❤ I love Florence’s warmth, passion and enthusiasm! It’s refreshing ! It’s delicious! Lots of people won’t like this approach ….. but now we know why 😉

  • @sandyfeet8175
    @sandyfeet8175 20 дней назад +5

    My son’s gf is Floss’s age, she sadly lost her mum when she was a toddler. I had the strongest feeling of “her mum would want her to hear what’s in this book” it was such a strange compulsion, it came out of nowhere, I bought it for her there and then. I’m here for her, she knows this, but you can’t beat your own mum, nor would I want to. But solid sound advice is always welcome for all of us. I’m 54 and Floss made complete sense to me too, she made me think. Loved this interview. There are several little book of mindfulness, anyone have an idea which Author they’re talking about?

  • @JadesFitnessBucketList
    @JadesFitnessBucketList 19 дней назад +3

    very interesting episode! Love what Floss said about how modern feminism has swayed to what it is now and also how she romantisises life.
    On the topic of cringe: I myself am extremely extroverted by nature and have a youtube channel so i have had to get over that feeling of thinking im cringe, and perhaps some people think i am.
    However, when i think of when i have found someone cringe its more to do that the individual lacks self awareness and is disturbing others in public as oppose to just dancing round in videos and being happy.This may sound controversial but i also think the evolution of 'cringe' developed in societies to keep decorum or congruence between large amounts of people, a bit like being polite. Politeness may stifle what you really want to say or how you communicate with others if someone has been rude etc, but many would maintain an element of politeness to an argument for it not to descent into chaos. I feel that way with why we sometimes feel this inherent cringe towards things.
    The friction comes with the fact different people find different things cringe, and because most humans care about what others think, it may affect us detrimentally and impede us from being our authentic selves if we perceive a group of people to find us cringe

  • @s.u.s.a.n.a
    @s.u.s.a.n.a 13 дней назад

    You can't set boundaries and get everyone to like you. True.

  • @mellmoi7571
    @mellmoi7571 20 дней назад +5

    So wise beyond her years yet still young in spirit.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @chickenhartlepool
    @chickenhartlepool 20 дней назад

    Her answer at the end is sublime x ahhhh ❤ strong beautiful ladies supporting each other

  • @lilme7052
    @lilme7052 20 дней назад +1

    Lol, so much of this is ringing true with me. I've been wearing grey for over ten years.

  • @queenwaffIes
    @queenwaffIes 19 дней назад +2

    this is one of the best podcasts i’ve ever watched, and i’ve watched a lot. Floss articulates things so beautifully. this video has really shifted my perspective and gave me a better understanding of myself. will be checking out her book, thank you ❤

  • @alasch_
    @alasch_ 19 дней назад

    This was amazing. A lot to think about! Thank you both so much

  • @pauldavies961
    @pauldavies961 21 день назад +2

    Favourite interview so far, great work!

  • @EmpoweredToBeMe
    @EmpoweredToBeMe 19 дней назад +2

    Treat yourself the way you want to be treated .

  • @lisab9734
    @lisab9734 20 дней назад

    Love love love this! Like, you don’t know how much! Thanks fearne and thanks for introducing me to Floss .

  • @cathyhershey1650
    @cathyhershey1650 18 дней назад

    Excellent interview. Thank you so much ❤

  • @Bekka_boo13-mt5km
    @Bekka_boo13-mt5km 18 дней назад

    It’s over the last year I’ve started set boundaries! I don’t care what other people think only my opinion of myself matters 🩷

  • @Raissa-p4l
    @Raissa-p4l 19 дней назад

    Your speaking out of my chest, i stumbled upon your amaizing book in just the right time. I'm eating up every word and i desire to find myself back to whom i was so similar to ur explination as a child. Thank you so much for ur Courage and determination ❤

  • @EmLTllc
    @EmLTllc 17 дней назад +1

    this conversation has been SO PROFOUND to me !
    I can't even begin to explain...
    it was been BREAKTHROUGH AFTER BREAKTHROUGH AFTER BREAKTHROUGH AFTER BREAKTHROUGH !! ✨✨✨
    & I mean... TOUCHING & HEALING DEEP LINEAGE STUFF !
    ❤‍🩹💗❤‍🔥
    thank you so much to both of you,
    & especially to Floss, for being so True to herself & with her words ❤
    WHAT A GIFT !
    (to being that way + to have her on this planet 💖💖💖)

  • @sophietucker3163
    @sophietucker3163 20 дней назад +2

    This podcast was AMAZING 👌🏽💕

  • @Chloe-gt6qp
    @Chloe-gt6qp 20 дней назад +1

    Floss is such an amazing author and inspiration for women, her books have so positively impacted my life and I’m so grateful for her 💗

  • @hollymcintosh3971
    @hollymcintosh3971 13 дней назад

    So inspiring
    Will definitely be getting a copy of living deliciously

  • @LouiseWilliams-p9n
    @LouiseWilliams-p9n 15 дней назад

    This is the 1st pidcast ive ever watched or about to watch ur fab florence🎉❤

  • @pnklady3788
    @pnklady3788 21 день назад +1

    Absolutely fabulous - loved this! :)

  • @housegirl9166
    @housegirl9166 21 день назад +4

    My Mum gave me The Little book of Mindfulness. ❤

    • @ericasmith5531
      @ericasmith5531 20 дней назад

      Who is the author? Floss doesn’t mention. I’d love to read it!

    • @housegirl9166
      @housegirl9166 20 дней назад

      @ericasmith5531 Tiddy Rowan ❤️

  • @LouiseWilliams-p9n
    @LouiseWilliams-p9n 15 дней назад

    P.s ferne ur great stuff & have always picked me up ur both great examples of females fairplay Lou❤

  • @IsidoraLeung
    @IsidoraLeung 20 дней назад +1

    Delicious!!

  • @CPCforever
    @CPCforever 21 день назад

    Great points

  • @blueapple686
    @blueapple686 20 дней назад +1

    Eloquent ladies🩷🧡

  • @Caketastic-w5y
    @Caketastic-w5y 20 дней назад

    So interesting 😊

  • @INAMORATATV
    @INAMORATATV 20 дней назад

    Floss 💖🌺💞

  • @elaineanderton9031
    @elaineanderton9031 21 день назад

  • @GudetamaEggson
    @GudetamaEggson 19 дней назад +2

    Florence has the prettiest white sclera.

  • @jadebel7006
    @jadebel7006 18 дней назад +1

    So when I cringe coz someone had a full face of acne it's bcoz I wish I had a full face of acne? When I cringe wen I hear ppl talk about ppl pooting on eachother in bedroom it's coz that's what I want deep down? Lool yh no I don't think so 😂 I don't want either of those nor are jealous of those as much I don't wanna dance around on the tok like someone a little too special n that's for any grown adult dancing online lol no offence

  • @LecheVitrineUK
    @LecheVitrineUK 8 дней назад

    Ok, but their is something missing in this version of feminism being presented here, we need to have intersectional feminism to have true power, and it's not here. Without it you risk alienating further marginalised groups, the black and brown women, the disabled women, the LGBTQ+. These need to be included. if they are not, this is progressive enough, and we need to do better.

  • @tarabicker7858
    @tarabicker7858 20 дней назад

    ❤❤❤👌👌👌👌

  • @ChileBoy-j6w
    @ChileBoy-j6w 20 дней назад

    🕎✝️🙏
    🌈🧚💫

  • @AnastasiaFrance
    @AnastasiaFrance 16 дней назад +1

    Should be called “Florence Given on exclusively white feminism and ignoring issues that affect women globally” you have a platform, if you care about women other than yourself, use it

    • @slavaukraini1487
      @slavaukraini1487 12 дней назад

      She does talk about listening to WOC as well. However since she's not a WOC she can't give that perspective herself. You can read her book and also feminists books by WOC too.

  • @b37h4ny
    @b37h4ny 21 день назад +3

    Ah, I can't belive/ am so happy you've had Florence on for a chat!🩷