We made this video to help bring awareness to bullying. Can you guys help share if you feel this video could make a difference, especially now that school is starting again?
I know this is unrelated to the video but My friend recommended this channel for me...I dont know if I have depression or not...I have emotional issues(anger) an I get upset easily with my parents and I argue with my mother all the time even when I dont want to an when I do, I take out my anger on my younger brother...what does this mean an how can i help myself?
@@giantsr1eva oh no! My mother would always tell me to have a look at myself to learn what triggered the behaviour in others. As for my siblings. My sister is an overarchiver and needed to let out some steam. I should not be offered by the truth. My brother is the youngest and obviously had to take a stand not to be overcome by his sisters
i told a teacher when it first started- she said “no one likes a tattle tale.” and so- it continued on for 8 more years bc I was too self conscious to tell anyone 🧍♀️🕺✨
The signs 1. You feel isolated 0:46 2. You have low self-esteem 1:13 3. You've become fearful 1:40 4. You've changed your personality or your looks 2:13 5. You're dealing with emotions like anger 2:40 6. You might struggle with self harm 3:08 If you feel like you're being bullied, dont be afraid to ask for help or talk to a trusted person :)
Yeah, same just today people were airdropping a picture of me to everyone :( I don’t know what’s gonna happen tomorrow but I had to make a lie because of it
how they think bullies will react to the anti bullying: *victim explains it hurts their feelings bully:im sorry i didnt know you felt this way FR thats how they think it goes
It is hurtful. U explained it in just two lines and bored it for 11 yrs. U know i am an indian and in our culture when this bad happens to someone it is said tht in past life u must hv done sth like tht to some person and now it is happening with u. If u beleive in god just pray to her everyday to make ur mind healthy. And believe me it did work for me. Praying wveryday is like meditation. U will memorize everything whtever happnd with u bt then ur mind will b gud to resolve problems quickly
That's a long time... I haven't even lived that long. I'm ten. I hope you'll be alright. I've been bullied too, but only for a year. Sometimes I bully myself with the words my bully said to me. It is very hurtful, and if this ever happens to you again, ask for help.
Whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you. They cannot kill your dreams, so they try to assassinate your character. They think they can fix themselves by breaking someone else. If you cannot ignore them, always reach out for help 🖖
During my elementary years I went home crying quite a few times. I didn't know I was being bullied. My mom noticed of course and I just told her I was being teased or being called names by my classmates. Her advice? Just punch them she said or just deal with them yourself. I had difficulty making friends because anyone who stands up to me gets bullied too. I was isolated by my peers. I was alone for most of my elementary years. If I hadn't begged my parents to transfer me to another school they would've enrolled me there again the next year. Thinking it back now made me resent my parents for doing nothing. Bullying destroyed my self-esteem, made me contemplate suicide and unmotivated to do anything.
I wish you the best and sending you a big virtual hug 💗, I hope you're getting the help to heal this traumatic event and I know this feeling bc I deal with the exact same thing in my elementary and highschool years, consequences of bullying can be devastating and sweetheart it was never your fault it was them, you're so precious, brave and resilient but It doesn't mean it have to happen again...not alone, you always deserve respect and a safe space. It's crucial to surround yourself with the correct support and therapy, things will get better.
imagine a girl who has been bullied since elementary school until high school, who has been made fun of, called names, been avoided, isolated and purposefully humiliated just for fun, that it made that girl question if she's even worth it, if she will ever find friends who will love her for who she is, and that led her to trust issues, low self esteem, social anxiety and fear of being judged by everyone... yeah, that's me.
I was always too mean to be the target of bullies at school but I sure stood up for kids who were bullied. It took me years to realize I was bullied at home.
I didn't realized I was being bullied until watching this video and reflecting, noticing how their 'teasing' or 'jokes' harmed my mental health, even their 'jokingly' punches or roasting made me become more introverted and made me feel like shit through the whole year. What hurts me the most is that it's my last year of high school, I'm 17 and being targeted like a little kid, it's frustrating
I have been bullied my whole life and no matter what I do nothing helps to stop the bullying from happening and it won't ever stop it will just continue on and on.
I was bullied throughout school mainly because I had learning difficulties. I hated myself and blamed myself for being too weak to make it stop. Now aged 35, I'm in therapy for severe Social Anxiety. Took me a long time to accept it wasn't my fault.
It's little too late now I'm almost 25 but I never forget what they had done to me. It made me have social Aniexty , depression and Im been diagnosed diabetes since I was 16. So Yeah I dont have friends or anyone that can defend me when I got beated up by so many bullies at school. Then i dropped out and dealt more worse with creepy dudes at college for ged. Since then I avoiding everyone. Dont suffer in silence like me.
I also have social anxiety due to bullying to.. and I developed major anger and anxiety problems.. and usually it’s verbal bullying.. and sometimes.. I can’t take it anymore from schools.. it just puts me down even more..
I also have diabetes but i was diagnosed when i was 3. I have no idea of my normal life and have always been surrounded with needles and blood checks. I never got bullied for it but some girl made fun of me because of my insulin pump and thought i was fat and pregnant, and i cut her off. Hard to believe she was one of my friends but i hated her a lot coz she was stuck up and mean. If people make fun of u becuase of your diabetes are people who are so lonely that they have to make fun of something you cant control and they are the biggest losers. I hope you are doing well now. ❤❤❤❤❤
I just lost control and broke down crying when she said "it's not your fault". My bullies will never know how profoundly hurt and sad and broken I am all these years later. I'm a 37 year old man that still sometimes cries himself to sleep like I did in high school when I was bullied. All of my problems with mental health, self-esteem, substance abuse and suicide attempts can be directly traced back to my teenage years and the bullying that came with them. They destroyed me for life. Permanently broke me.
"Ask for help" is definitely something to do and I encourage anyone who suffers or who knows someone who suffers from bullying to do it. BUT ! BUT it would be NECESSARY that THIS HELP you reach for would DO SOMETHING. And this wasn't my case... When we were in middle school, my twin sister and I have been bullied. We were in separate classes. In 7th grade, my sister has been bullied and then cyber-bullied : one of her classmates had hidden his phone in his sleeve during art class (the teacher was often getting something in the other room) and they recorded my sister, making mean comments about her. Then, they posted the video on Facebook. We didn't have a Facebook account back then but one of our friends did and she warned us about what happened. My sister was scared and didn't want to say anything about it, but I still told our parents who reached out the school authorities. Well, what did those so-called authorities do ? After my parents fought for something to be done, they just took the bulliers appart and basically just told them "this is not good, don't do it again"... And that's it ! They had been talking about a disciplinary council for a while but they didn't do it eventually. They just let them go with a "don't begin again". My father wanted to file a complain to the police about the video, to at least give a lesson to those bulliers, but the video had already been removed by that time. Then, the school authorities assured my sister that they would make sure she wouldn't be in the same class as them the year after. And this was indeed the case. But, guess what ? They put them in MY class ! And what did they do ? They began their bullying again on me ! Wow, the "non frustrating don't begin again" speech really had an effect on them ! They had just shifted the problem instead of fixing it ! Once again, we tried to reach help. I had lots of reflexions like : - "It is normal, kids are mean with each other" - "You just have to ignore them and get used to it, you will find the same ones when you're a grown up." - "You are grown ups now, settle your problems among yourselves." My parents had to fight for something to be done and it is only when one of my teachers finally banged on the table (litteraly) to raise awareness about the seriousness of the situation that they decided to do something. She said that what they were doing to me was "fundamentally mean" and that something had to be done. Then, and only then, things began to move a little bit. But the bullier once again just received a speech, a little stronger speech than the first one (my mother, who was present, told me that they were yelled at) but just a speech. At least the bullying calmed down, but just as it did for my sister. The year after, the bulliers were in other classes or other schools and I don't know if they began again with someone else. I hope not but I am a little pessimistic about the effect of that second speech on them... So please (please !), if you had the courage to read until here (thank you), whether you are part of a school staff, a parent, a victim or a witness of bullying, understand this : Bullying is NOT NORMAL, whatever age it occurs at. It is not up to the victim to get used to it. Bullying is not a little argument that can be settled just between each other. Bullying is BAD. Bullying HURTS. Bullying CAN KILL. And let me ask you one more question : why do you think "I will find the SAME ONES when I am a grown up ?" Because nothing is done RIGHT NOW ! Kids grow up with this idea that bullying is normal and all they ever get, if they ever get anything, is a little speech. Why would they stop ? After all, this is the other one who is too sensitive and touchy, and just doesn't have any humour. Even the adults say so, why would they stop ? So : AWARENESS IS GOOD. ACTION IS BETTER.
Ouch, I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah, the amount of people who say "just stand up for yourself" or "don't let it get to you" is shocking, like, how are you supposed to just... ignore them? Or stand up alone to a bigger group of people that laugh at everything you do anyway (or worse, cause you physical harm)?
I have the same problem too. These girls in my class keep on taking my stuff and hiding it, and taking my pictures and using that to blackmail me. My mother told this to the school serval of time but all they did was make them delete the picture, but they still have it so there’s literally no point. School is a place where students are suppose to learn and have fun. I couldn’t have fun and I didn’t feel safe at school which is a big problem. Also it’s a problem for these bullies because if the teachers don’t punish them, then they won’t know that what they are doing is unacceptable and keep on doing it even when they turn in to adults. These teachers aren’t doing there job and they are ignoring the problem. Schools often want to cover there problem up and only care for reputation. I have been bullied for years and I can say that the bullies are the problem, but the school also has responsibility too.
@@coldstonecanc3rgang994 I might be naive but I think like, a school counselor or someone should figure out why the person who started the bullying started it. Happy and secure people don't bully, and you have to treat the problem, not just the symptom which is the bullying! (Even if you don't believe bullies deserve that - which they do but whatever - they're just gonna start bullying someone else if their desire to bully doesn't cease to exist.)
@@darkacadpresenceinblood Personally, I think students should be made to take responsibility for their school. Every class takes turns cleaning the halls or emptying the trash. With harassers/bullies that could be done during lunch and throughout the day. At least it's some form of discipline
HOLY SHIT THAT SELF ISOLATION ONE IS SO ME!! I gave up trying to make friends because they bullied me for having Autism. That was all they knew me for. So yeah, I simply REFUSED to interact with ANYONE OUTSIDE OF MY FAMILY...... SPEAKING OF FAMILY, I AM SO SHOWING THIS TO MOTHER
@@Psych2go i relate to all off them, but honestly school doesn't really care, all that teachers do is teaching what they have to so they would get money, i heard them saying that
About 5 years ago or so, I was bullied and tried to reach out for help. Neither my teachers nor my family listened to me, although the times I tried to tell them about this were not few, they didn't want to listen to me. They always downplayed my problem (like saying: "it's not that bad"). I suffered bullying since pre-kindergarten (I don't know how it will be in other countries, but in Chile there is pre-kindergarten, kindergarten and 8 years of basic education, which would add up to 10 years). I tried to make friends with my bullies so that they would leave me alone but it didn't work, and hitting them wasn't an option since I've never been someone in favor of violence or had the support of someone, not even "friends".I'm already in college, and last year I spoke to them about it one last time, so that at least they would stop minimizing my problems, things continue as they were and seeking psychological support isn't an option, I have trust issues; speaking isn't hard for me, but I no longer want to open up with people, so far I have only entrusted this to my best friend, and a small part to whoever reads this comment.
Yeah I still have a lot of these 6 years out of school. It’s something that sticks around if you were a victim of consistent bullying over many years growing up
There’s this one person who’s a family friend, who always comes around and acts really nice and polite. But whenever I’m given the opportunity to help myself, and be a good person, he does it himself. It also happens a lot when I’m trying to have a conversation with people, and he just takes it over. And I KNOW he does it on purpose because I’ve told him multiple times about my low self-image and my own feelings of inadequacy. And the worst part is, I used to trust him, and tell him these things because I saw him as a guidance figure, and a good friend. But nowadays he’s always brushing me aside and acting superior in a very covert, and hurtful way.
It really annoys me that everyone keeps on saying to reach out for help. I was a victim and it just broke my life so bad that I ended up feeling so distant with people and it feels so hard to trust someone. I’ve tried reaching out to people so many times to help me get through this, but all i got was being ignored or being told “deal it yourself idk how to help you” and “venting is like seeking for attention, you are really annoying, it’s better to keep it to yourself if you don’t want to seek for unnecessary attention”. Surprisingly they are the same people who told me “if you want to vent, i’m here to listen”. So it seems useless to reach out to people for help, they dont give a shit about your life and I just stopped doing it. It’s better for me to let the negative thoughts build up inside me rather than feeling abandoned when i really seek for help. I just gave up.
I couldn't even begin to sit here and tell U how much I've struggled to cope with being bullied growing up and left to fend for me becuz I had NO ONE to defend me. I basically had no one for a friend growing up, I've felt really alone. I used to spend so many nights laying awake in bed with tears in my eyes, trying to figure out why the kids at school AND in my neighborhood growing up had such a disdain for me. Out of all the signs listed, the ones that basically describe me to a T are: feeling isolated 0:46, low self-esteem 1:13, fearful 1:40, and different emotions 2:40. All of the heartache and bullying I've endured growing up, it's caused me to put up barriers all around me becuz I had a difficult time trusting people (I still do), hurt, betrayed & stabbed in the back by people whom I THOUGHT were my friends but they really weren't (just used me for THEIR benefit and I was too vulnerable to see it)
My enemies come in team and it's really hurtful and fearful, being an introvert, I don't answer them except for sometimes only when I can't handle it anymore. Bullying also comes from my parents.
I have low self-esteem... one time in 3rd grade my bully kept stealing my things and one time we was moving for go noodle and she said "ew, stop dancing you are so ugly and weird. Oh and you dance bad! Ha!" And ive never danced sense... im in 4th now... i bite my nails for anxiety. I like to hide myself in dark places and i feel safe. I only feel safe when im in a dark place, like under a blanket. I also feel safe with my tablet or stuffed animals. My tabled calms me down and my stuffed animals help me fall asleep. If you are being bullied please get help from a trusting friend, parent, or a therapist. Have a good day/night and stay safe guys, goodbye for now.
As someone who has also dealt with this, and recently gone off to college, here is my terse advice: they are not worth your time, and although it's excruciatingly hard, you have to realize that your self happiness comes before all else. Those who cherish you for what you are and only critique you when you yourself ask for it are real friends and allies. Anything else other than that... Sadly, your rivals, or worse. But that's okay. You will ALWAYS have friends, and you will even have so-called "adults" who think they're cool by harassing you when they are pathetic cowards
TL;DR: super cliche, but you have to truly take care and appreciate what you yourself are amazing at. If these people who are harassing you continue their behavior even after you ignore them, AND you have tried to get help, while I absolutely do not promote a fight... If it is truly your last resort, bring the pain. :/
I remember getting bullied most through elementary school, middle and even my high school years, and then I slowly started to change my appearance, and then recently one of my bullies hit me up on Snapchat because his girlfriend left him and wanted to start "talking" to me, I declined because I will always remember how they treated me growing up.
as someone who was bullied for 2 years, i advice you to either play hard target (straight, tall posture, try to take as much space in a room as possible and react subtly to insults, just don't fake laughing, they will keep doing this etc...) or actually BE a hard target (when you realize that bullies call you nerd because you have better grades, or when they call you "spoiled kid" because you got better lunch or have full pencilcase, you will realize, that they want to get ahead of you by putting you below themselves, you will know what to do and what NOT to do. for example, remember the ammount of people who hate you and try using this as a success measurement, because succesful people always have a ton of haters)
Thank you for this video, I really really needed to hear that it's not my fault. People have been bullying me for my red hair since I was little and it has gotten to the point where I am always tired, not wanting to hangout/talk with friends, do activities I liked, and even self harm. I feel like I need to change the way I act and look to fit in and not be a target. I even had a boy in my class today say "You as a person aren't that bad but because you're a ginger you are awful." That comment made me feel ashamed and I went home and stabbed my thighs with pencils again. Hearing someone tell me that I am not at fault made me feel better about it. I love your channel and you have helped me so much recently. ❤️
Do you have someone in your life who seems to delight in making you miserable? Have you tried everything to turn this situation around and nothing seems to help? It's a bully at at work
My bullies hurt me a lot. To the point where they would sexually harass and touch me. Starting in 8th grade, I started to become depressed and suicidal. I'm almost done with college now, and I still have severe depression and questions. At this point, I've gotten to a point where I don't care if I get an apology from them or not. Now I just want closure on why they did the things they said/did. I didn't do anything to them.
I was bullied for ten years, it's more than half of my life. No one wanted to help me, people told me to ignore it and they were punishing me for my anger. I have anxiety now because of it. I hope one day I'll recover from it.
Not only is the bullying not your fault, but if they ever come up to apologize, it is NOT your responsibility to forgive them. If you feel like you're in a place to do so, or like their apology was genuine and heartfelt and they really have changed, then good on you! You've gotten over that pesky milestone. But if you feel like you can't forgive them yet, or ever, then that will always be on them. They had a choice, no matter what was going on in their life. Just because you get a half assed "sorry" doesn't mean they deserve diddly squat. Just because they're older doesn't mean they've matured at all, that's ultimately up to you to decide.
Because of bullying experience from Elementary to Highschool and even got to my first years of College plus childhood abuse, I believe I have PTSD, Paranoid Personality Disorder, trust issues, low self esteem and confidence, social anxiety, bad temper and insecurity. Thanks to all the people who contributed to all of these because I am now developing myself to be better and without those experiences I will not be the strong person I am today. Despite these extremely difficult challenges I had to face and go thru, I am still trying to live a decent and normal life. Fr, trauma still affects the way I behave and live my life today. I deal with the stress by singing, petting my dog, watching movies, working out and contemplating. I have talked to some friends about this but I ain't sure if they get me or not. I haven't yet seek professional health.
Bullying is seen so lightly as people only become concerned of it when someone is suicidal. Bullying does not only become serious when someone is starting to self harm. It is like poison, it hurts u over and over again until u are reduced to nothing. If you are a bystander, please do something before anything else can happen. We should solve the problem before it is too late
Bullies are the most pathetic people on the planet. The power and strength they project is strictly a facade. Inside, they’re as weak and fragile as glass. They’re normally pretty insecure and desperately need to hurt someone else as a way to validate what little self-worth they possess. I got picked on pretty much from grade school until high school. I suffered, but I learned how to take a bully’s power and turn it against them. The best part is that bullies LOVE to run their mouths and talk about themselves. Really listen to them and watch them. Example: let’s say that your bully has a girlfriend. Befriend her. Earn her trust. Get her to open up to you. If she offers misgivings about the relationship, validate them. Don’t openly attack her boyfriend, but definitely take her side and make her wonder if he’s really worth keeping around. Plant little seeds of doubt in her mind. THEN, you’ll have front row seats when your bully and his girl split up. Congratulations. You’ve beaten your bully without fisticuffs.
I never knew, even to this day, whether I was really bullied or not. In elementary and middle school (but especially elementary) these kids on the bus would give my friends and I mean nicknames and constantly try to get a reaction out of us when we were just minding our own business. They all sat in the back of the bus, while my group sat in the front and upper middle. They used to sing We Will Rock You by Queen on the bus, but insert my name. “You got blood on your face, big fat [insert my name, I know it doesn’t even rhyme], Waving your banner all over the place...” It took me so long to listen to that song again, because the negative memories attached to it made it hard. In middle school, people used to think I was just a complete idiot, so I thought I was too. The school made me feel this way as well, since I had to be in a resource class since I missed most of 3rd & 4th grade due to being in and out of the hospital. The same bus kids would ask my best friend, “Why is Mason (me) so ugly?” I walked with my head down, staring at my feet throughout elementary, middle, and part of high school. Movies depict bullying to be mostly physical or calling someone terrible names to their face, (trying to start a fight or something), shoving kids in lockers, gaslighting, etc etc, so I never considered myself a victim of bullying. I still don’t know whether that’s just regular kids being kids, or bullying. Please tell me.
Teasing every now and then is normal, most people do it. To a sensitive person light teasing might feel like bullying. So first thing to do is find out if your a sensitive person. Also some people are just incensitive. So they may be making hurtful comments and not realise it. Not everyone's level of empathy is on the same level. No bullying is not normal. Think about it, who lives for bothering someone else? Why do they obsess so much over someone they think is beneath them weaker than them? Excatly because they percieve you as beneath them, weaker. They need that feeling of being superior of dominating someone, causs there unhappy. There really sadistic individuals.
ArGonzalez To be fair, there was a power balance between me and those assholes. They’d also make fun of me for being not straight (I’m bi but they’d call me faggot). I don’t like to bring it up since there’s no point in sharing my sexuality with strangers. I wouldn’t call it “light teasing” since their comments basically caused me to revert into a shell. I didn’t talk in middle school, some people forgot I was even there. To this day I’ve had horrid anxiety and I’m just now getting medicated for it. Between that and a shit home life, I didn’t have a fun childhood (this shit lasted till 6 months ago). It’s had a lot of shitty psychological affects on me, so I’d appreciate if you didn’t downplay it. Maybe it was bullying, maybe not, but I don’t think the teasing was “light.”
SAME people have recently been getting a reaction out of me and taunting me and i was asked whether i was gonna cry myself to sleep and it really got to me so i just ran off,desperate to get home
I'm so relieved to hear that is isn't my fault. I've been taught by my elders that I was bullied because of something I needed to change about myself whether it was my voice or the way I looked. But it's good to know that I should be myself and not try to be somebody that I'm not.
I am currently being bullied in high school, just because I am myself, they even say that I am childish for going to the bathroom. I hate my peers so much.
Some signs that may point to a bullying problem are👇👇 Unexplainable injuries Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry Frequent headaches or stomach aches, feeling sick or faking illness Changes in eating habits, like suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they did not eat lunch. Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares Declining grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school Sudden loss of friends or avoidance of social situations Feelings of helplessness or decreased self esteem Self-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicide
bullies are everywhere unfortunately. some people don’t grow out of their bitchy, childish rude behaviours from childhood, through college and up to the working in jobs
Sahil C well it’s happened in the past, you can’t go back now. but i hope you’ve changed your ways and realised that you don’t need to be rude to people to assert dominance or even just being able to defend yourself. there are other ways to do that, without affecting innocent people.
I remember for me middle school was absolute hell. (elementary to if I'm being honest) You see I went to a private catholic school and came from a fairly lower middle-class family. I didn't have all the new trendy things. My class had 12 people in it, and it was an absolute nightmare, I didn't even realize I may have been bullied until I got into high school and a good environment. The first story that always comes to my mind was my sixth-grade year, we were doing a class presentation in front of the entire church and parents, I wanted a speaking part, to show my mom. I had gotten the part the teacher said yes, and I was ecstatic I remember excitedly going home and informing my mom of it and asking her to come and she said yes, I was on a high until two weeks later, the teacher left the rest of the presentation into the classes hands. I remember listening in writing something, I didn't mean to eavesdrop they were standing right next to me. The "cool girls" and "popular girls" got to lead the class (looking back I realize it was probably because they had money) I remember them talking about me and the face they made when they realized I had that role the sneer, the disgust, the look I thought they were my friends. Then they said something along the lines of "her? seriously? let's change that." I was so shocked I couldn't breathe, I remember this moment with so much clarity, I was trapped in my own mind until we regrouped and one of the girls was in mine, I felt so much anger, and I tried to suppress it best I could, I always had slight anger issues, but at one point I just couldn't take it anymore and I screamed at them, told them how unfair they were in front of the entire class, I remember the pitying look, the look that I was just a cry baby or something. Then the high faded way to the embarrassment I had lost control, and I began to hate myself. I thought I had done something wrong. This was my middle school years from then on, believing I had to be better, I remember the first day of seventh grade, making a vow to myself to never cry again as I had started a new year. I didn't want to be known as the crier anymore. I didn't want to be told to grow up. So I did, at least in my head. I felt embarrassment looking back to it for the rest of my middle school career, until the summer after my eighth-grade year, literally the only person who did not do anything of the sort in the class came over to my house, and admitted to a similar experience and even self-harm, I was shocked. I didn't know I was being bullied so later that night I looked back on it all and admitted to myself that I was not in a good environment. To this day I have never told anyone this so take of it what you will.
Real Actual Bullying is not just what's on this Video ! Bullying Is also accusing people of doing things that they're not trying to do ! Having someone taking things from you and don't ask ! Always finding things wrong with you no matter how much good you try to do ! Telling you that you can't do anything ! Being Judged by what others think of you !
I was bullied at school by everyone and I mean all the students, teachers and even the principal. It was an all girls school and becuz of a stupid childish mistake, the whole school bullied me becuz that's the principal's orders. At home, I was bullied by my own said that its my fault and I have to deal with it. The only who stood up for me is my mom. Tbh, I'm actually grateful becuz it made me stronger and I'm not someone that can be bullied ever again. Whenever those bitches saw me in public, they just averted their eyes cuz they know they have no more power over me.
i think i might be bullied cuz i really messed up the other day and everyone started taunting me at school and someone asked whether i was gonna go cry myself to sleep,but i didnt,and now i have to go back tomorrow and im dreading it
I was bullied by about 12 kids a day in middle school. I often thought of suicide, my grades were terrible, I ate junk and became overweight which made bullying worse. My parents were always angry at my bad grades. I told them I was being bullied and they said it was no excuse and that everyone gets bullied. Then I was even told it was my fault I was being bullied because I must be a doormat that doesn't stand up for themself. My teachers would just ignore the bullying towards me. I thought that they felt I deserved it for my bad grades.
I've been bullied my entire life by family members, school mates and teachers. Whether it was on my looks or my hair or my tastes in things like music or fashion. It lead me to becoming a person with solitary tendencies and occasional bouts of rage. My family would just call me an angry loner, but the truth was I did it to avoid ridicule. Ive thought of killing my bullies more times than I can count. In my dreams, I do horrible things to them. In my thoughts, I scream and break things. On my own, I'm locked in a cage of seething hatred.
You know what, you make me feel grateful my bully isn't that bad, i feel bad for you, please don't do anything that you just said, sometimes i feel that to but i always find something to makes me feels better like doing my hobbies... Do you have hobbies? If not, find some
I have recognized the signs (1 and 5) I feel like my friends are bossing me around (to hang out with them even I didn't wanted to) and sometimes it makes me angry. So I didn't hangout with them anymore and that makes me feel happy. I spend my self alone a lot and TBH I don't feel lonely a all :) I'm Soo relieved I picked the right decision (for me).
1:20 I liked when she was mentioning the symptoms of bullying, it helped a lotttt! It made me feel like I wasn't alone, and that this information is sooo true. The bully I'm dealing with got in my head. She made me believe in her insults, and she also flipped me off. Straightforward to my point, I like how the Narrator has known my symptoms without even asking me or knowing me.
Next video: Ways to get rid of a bully Step 1: Choose your weapon Step 2: Dispose of the body Step 3: Hide the evidence Step 4: Meditate Step 5: Blend in with society
1. You feel isolated 2. You have low self esteem 3. You become fearful 4. You've change part of your personality or your looks 5. You're dealing with emotions like anger 6. You might struggle with self harm
Wow... I've always compared the way one of my parents treats me to the feeling of getting bullied but never was completely sure because it sounds insane when you think about it, that your own parents would bully you after knowing you were previously bullied at school years ago, it all makes sense now.
Bullying Is usually committed by Sadistic people,Those who struggles to get attention from others,Those who Has gotten bullied and vents it out by bullying others.
Man I keep getting recommended videos of bullying or depression signs and like, how does RUclips know my personal life? I have had a really bad case of bullying at a really young age, every one in my class bullied me for the smallest things like if I was sad or changed my style or my hair or basically anything I did. I remember my teacher 'tried' to stop it but that just maid things worse. I had to go to therapy at 11 because as my mental health got worse my body physically started to get more sick and I guess It was a way to avoid my class. I liked therapy I could calm down more and my health got better but the bullying didn't stop until I was around 14 when the 2 biggest bully's moved to a different school and the others just kinda stop doing it as bad. I'm 15 now and i guess I'm doing pretty good for my self!
I've been bullied my whole childhood, by a girl younger than me. She makes me madder than heck, I just wanna kick her until she's bruised... I've been called "loser" before. Made me almost commit suicide 😞 by so much hatred on me. I've been called names, pushed, ignored and been teased **not the good way** I'm so grateful I moved away from that bitch and started to get out of my shadow and make new friends. Now everyone in the my neighborhood knows me. Even my crush who I live close to. I just have to fight through my life and see what it takes me to.
ive been called titan and titanic and just told to shut up constantly whenever i try to talk,just shut up and almost humiliated,with them all eager to get a reaction out of me all beacuse of this one idiot who started it
I was a victim of bullying when I was younger because I was small or didn't have many friends or even just because I'm quiet and I just got out of the cycle of constantly getting bullied I hope if any of you are getting bullied you try to search for someone you trust and ask them for help
I though I was just sensitive… I always thought I was too sensitive and started to pretend to laugh at things they tell me every time people bully me. I even thought they were my friends.
I feel like I can’t say something in school without it being used against me, I can’t breathe I can’t be myself without being made fun of by a group of people while being alone
I’ve been emotionally abused by youngsters, 6 years back near my home. I also engaged in physical fight with them. Now they’re all grown ups and have hired young kids to do the same. It still continues. The worst thing is that they’re multiplying in number. And there are also idiots who scold you from back. This is something very pathetic in our daily life.
For starters: -A sociopath is someone who has antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). Antisocial personality disorder is defined by a pervasive and persistent disregard for morals, social norms, and the rights and feelings of others.[3] Individuals with this personality disorder will typically have no compunction in exploiting others in harmful ways for their own gain or pleasure and frequently manipulate and deceive other people, achieving this through wit and a façade of superficial charm or through intimidation and violence.[11] They may display arrogance, think lowly and negatively of others, and lack remorse for their harmful actions and have a callous attitude to those they have harmed.[3][4] Irresponsibility is a core characteristic of this disorder: they can have significant difficulties in maintaining stable employment as well as fulfilling their social and financial obligations, and people with this disorder often lead exploitative, unlawful, or parasitic lifestyles.[3][4][12][13] Those with antisocial personality disorder are often impulsive and reckless, failing to consider or disregarding the consequences of their actions. They may repeatedly disregard and jeopardize their own safety and the safety of others and place themselves and others in danger.[3][4][14] They are often aggressive and hostile and display a dysregulated temper and can lash out violently with provocation or frustration.[3][13] Individuals are prone to substance abuse and addiction, and the abuse of various psychoactive substances is common in this population. These behaviors lead such individuals into frequent conflict with the law, and many people with ASPD have extensive histories of antisocial behavior and criminal infractions stemming back before adulthood.[3][4][12][13] Serious problems with interpersonal relationships are often seen in those with the disorder. Attachments and emotional bonds are weak, and interpersonal relationships often revolve around the manipulation, exploitation, and abuse of others.[3] While they generally have no problems in establishing relationships, they may have difficulties in sustaining and maintaining them.[12] Relationships with family members and relatives are often strained due to their behavior and the frequent problems that these individuals may get into. Symptoms may lessen with age. Treatment may include talk therapy and support for affected family members. Source Wikipedia
If your being bullied there's nothing you can do no matter how many times you tell a teacher or "someone who can help" they never help even your best friends abandon you and your parents ignore you if you font want to get bullied don't stand out or make yourself known.
I’ve previously been the target of social and Verbal bullying. The reason I am here is because I am still recovering from it. There have been several times when I would just cry for hours because of it. My mom tried helping me but it just was no use. I tried talking to the school social worker (while in literal tears) but they dismissed it as ‘girl drama’ and tried to tell me it was my fault. I’m still being bullied. Just not as badly. Mainly because I’ve just had to manually remove myself as nobody would do it for me. Bullying is no joke, that’s shit does stuff to you.
2:12 "You change your personality or looks." This means you're a sycophant. You'd be surprised at how many sycophants exist here in society. They are sooo common!
The profound hurt of feeling 'less than' or 'not a quality human being' due to constant bullying,cuts so deep I feel like I can't describe it. And this happened yrs ago,but I can still remember what it was like coming home,from as day where I failed to make myself invisible enough,and they closed in on me.. On a positive note,I have long since learned to stand up for myself,and not care so much what others say about me. But trusting ppl is still very hard.
My bully changed me . I was a cheerful active kid .I was really good in sports and my grades were average . I was humiliated in front of the whole school several times . My bully turned me into a drug addict scumbag . I have developed Social Anxiety Disorder. I haven't interacted or had a relationship with anyone for the past 2 years. #Recovering
I've been bullied by my own close family members that I find it sometimes embarrassing when other people are really happy for the holidays just to see their aunts and cousins.. its really sad.. They always talk behind my back, if I come into the room they change the subject. I cry about it all the time. It really is bad When they're gonna go out together, I always am left alone. EVEN children younger than me get to go they never ask me to any of the events, if they're going to a cafe or a shop to get snacks. When I try talking to them, they look at their phones and ignore me. One time, I was sitting alone minding my own business, the girls started pointing at me and laughing. CAN I HAVE DIFFERENT AUNTS AND COUSINS CAUSE THEY MESSED WITH MY SELF ESTEEM. LIFE. MENTAL STATE. EVERYTHING THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPY I SEE IT AS A BAD THING BECAUSE OF THEM. SOME SONGS REMIND ME OF THEM. BUT I ALWAYS HAVE TO GO WITH THEM BECAUSE I'M FORCED BECAUSE THEY'RE MY "FAMILY" THEY HATE ME, I HATE THEM TOOI ( I'm sorry, but If you're reading this.. Have a nice day, I wish to have a better life that doesn't exist, bye. )
I was bullied and it was very painful, I have wondered if these former bullies ever felt any guilt or remorse for what they have done. Regardless, in the end, I have nothing to be ashamed of because I wasn’t the bully, I wasn’t the mean one. For anyone out there who has been bullied, don’t let them win over you, they don’t deserve that power. You deserve better. ❤
I encourage victim to speak out to a professional when u face this kind of problem...but not to ur friend I was once a victim I hardly tell out the thg I’ve been through to my parent... because I do not want them to worry about me... and I think it’s unnecessary to bother them... tht time I feel so disappointed so depressed and even lonely... but luckily I’m still good. Eventho I cried every night w/o anyone noticing... but Im still fine... I do smtg to distract myself, not in a serious case tho... but I can’t distract myself not to think how ppl always bully me, how am I supposed to face my friends the next morning... so I decide to skip school for almost 1 month... I know tht kind of feeling when nobody are willing help u out... Some Friend will feel unbothered or annoy when u speak w them bout this and some toxic friend do not even wan to help u out... and also some toxic friend might use ur past experience of cyber bullying to harm u.. I’m sorry for my poor eng... but I really really really prefer u to speak to a professional rather than ur friend... even they are trustworth... even they enjoy staying w u afterall, just because u r a funny person but they won’t care about ur dark side...they doesn’t want to know wht u’ve been through... that kind of toxic friend will hurt u more even once a while u feel comfortable with them... the duration of relationship doesnt proof anytg... u can either enjoy being w them in 4 years or suffer in 4 years... P/S Be careful when u make friend and reach out for help when u need help :) 😄 Have a good day ❤️
We made this video to help bring awareness to bullying. Can you guys help share if you feel this video could make a difference, especially now that school is starting again?
Love the video
thanks for making this
Okay but like... DOES ANYBODY FEEL SO GUILTY YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DONT DESERVE HAPPINESS- LIKE-
I know this is unrelated to the video but My friend recommended this channel for me...I dont know if I have depression or not...I have emotional issues(anger) an I get upset easily with my parents and I argue with my mother all the time even when I dont want to an when I do, I take out my anger on my younger brother...what does this mean an how can i help myself?
I love the plant on the main Ocs head-
Ok
“Friends ask you questions; enemies question you.”
― Criss Jami
"NPCs quest you" - Me
Whaaat?!?
@iicecrexm he credited the original creator , so shut up
@iicecrexm YOU!
@iicecrexm you're cringe...
Just hearing the words, "It's not your fault," when it comes to being a victim of bullying sounds so affirming.
+musicredsubaru
I always felt that it was obvious to believe that when you’re a victim of bullying, it’s never your fault.
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@@giantsr1eva oh no! My mother would always tell me to have a look at myself to learn what triggered the behaviour in others.
As for my siblings. My sister is an overarchiver and needed to let out some steam. I should not be offered by the truth.
My brother is the youngest and obviously had to take a stand not to be overcome by his sisters
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This.
_I just love how the main oc has a plant on their head-_
Lol same😂
Just like any decent protagonist would.
How do I have many likes than the creator-
It shows how they are growing and evolving like a plant
lol yep..
Teachers need to watch this, they can't even tell a person is bullying someone else cuz they ain't paying attention
And yet they tell their students to pay attention
@@hydra1346 Exactly-
Ikr I wish they would
i told a teacher when it first started- she said “no one likes a tattle tale.” and so- it continued on for 8 more years bc I was too self conscious to tell anyone 🧍♀️🕺✨
ikr
"To belittle, you have to be little."
--Kahlil Gibran
savage
Khalil Gibran was a wise man
@@levantinedoomer2317 agreed. 😊
@Канал Светкин Анал 😂😂😂
the kid who bullies me is short so i mean you aren’t wrong
The signs
1. You feel isolated 0:46
2. You have low self-esteem 1:13
3. You've become fearful 1:40
4. You've changed your personality or your looks 2:13
5. You're dealing with emotions like anger 2:40
6. You might struggle with self harm 3:08
If you feel like you're being bullied, dont be afraid to ask for help or talk to a trusted person :)
LETSDOTHIS some people might be in a rush and can’t watch the video :]
PLEASE DON'T BE RUDE IN THE REPLIES
I have all of these but it’s for a different reason not bullying
How can't they copy it- I mean it's the real time tho-
@@fluffydice9410 good point.
Been bullied in school since I was 6, now it turned into online bullying. Sometimes I just wish my mind can have some peace from it.
Sigh I relate. But I try to be strong for all the people who love me :)
Yeah, same just today people were airdropping a picture of me to everyone :( I don’t know what’s gonna happen tomorrow but I had to make a lie because of it
Your get though this just don't ever let them win
@@everskiess7639 that's sad but your all away have people there that love you you are not alone
@@chanisewilson9003 thank you ❤️
Teachers: **put up anti bullying posters**
How they think bullies will react: *Understandable have a nice day*
teachers: eat me: eat
Exactly!
Some of them who always think they are right: *Having a narcissist mind*
how they think bullies will react to the anti bullying:
*victim explains it hurts their feelings
bully:im sorry i didnt know you felt this way
FR thats how they think it goes
Some teacher are just as bad as the bullies
I’ve been bullied for like 11 years straight, it’s over but now I’m my own bully
It is hurtful. U explained it in just two lines and bored it for 11 yrs. U know i am an indian and in our culture when this bad happens to someone it is said tht in past life u must hv done sth like tht to some person and now it is happening with u. If u beleive in god just pray to her everyday to make ur mind healthy. And believe me it did work for me. Praying wveryday is like meditation. U will memorize everything whtever happnd with u bt then ur mind will b gud to resolve problems quickly
That's a long time... I haven't even lived that long. I'm ten. I hope you'll be alright. I've been bullied too, but only for a year. Sometimes I bully myself with the words my bully said to me. It is very hurtful, and if this ever happens to you again, ask for help.
@vaishnavi verma - You're indian?? I'm Japanese and I got bullied got being short. :/
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Sorry to hear :( How did you cope with the bullying?
Whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you. They cannot kill your dreams, so they try to assassinate your character. They think they can fix themselves by breaking someone else. If you cannot ignore them, always reach out for help 🖖
Well i was ignoring them for to long but i was to angry that i get depressed so i'm going to make them paye.
@Old Dudes Wisdom - Life requires Wisdom Channel this is very good wisdom
Exactly! Bullies will pigeon hole you every time, it's more convenient for 'em.
Thanks
Thank you for this comment. I really needed to read this! ❤
During my elementary years I went home crying quite a few times. I didn't know I was being bullied. My mom noticed of course and I just told her I was being teased or being called names by my classmates. Her advice? Just punch them she said or just deal with them yourself. I had difficulty making friends because anyone who stands up to me gets bullied too. I was isolated by my peers. I was alone for most of my elementary years. If I hadn't begged my parents to transfer me to another school they would've enrolled me there again the next year. Thinking it back now made me resent my parents for doing nothing. Bullying destroyed my self-esteem, made me contemplate suicide and unmotivated to do anything.
Im sorry to hear you had such an unfortunate past, I actually would be your friend if I went to your school back then lol
I hope things are better for you know ...
Stay strong ♡
Stay strong pal ♡
I couldn't relate more to
I wish you the best and sending you a big virtual hug 💗, I hope you're getting the help to heal this traumatic event and I know this feeling bc I deal with the exact same thing in my elementary and highschool years, consequences of bullying can be devastating and sweetheart it was never your fault it was them, you're so precious, brave and resilient but It doesn't mean it have to happen again...not alone, you always deserve respect and a safe space.
It's crucial to surround yourself with the correct support and therapy, things will get better.
imagine a girl who has been bullied since elementary school until high school, who has been made fun of, called names, been avoided, isolated and purposefully humiliated just for fun, that it made that girl question if she's even worth it, if she will ever find friends who will love her for who she is, and that led her to trust issues, low self esteem, social anxiety and fear of being judged by everyone... yeah, that's me.
Your statement accurately describes me
Same☹️
I'm in the same situation as you
same
Yeah.. I experienced the same
I was always too mean to be the target of bullies at school but I sure stood up for kids who were bullied. It took me years to realize I was bullied at home.
Bullied at home how?
@@swatisaini6447
Parents can bully their kids for example (when they are toxic for example)
Yeah me too.I've been being bullied by parents.Especially,My mother.l already harmed myself with sharp a knife
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@@roseuchiha2617 are you doing okay?
I didn't realized I was being bullied until watching this video and reflecting, noticing how their 'teasing' or 'jokes' harmed my mental health, even their 'jokingly' punches or roasting made me become more introverted and made me feel like shit through the whole year. What hurts me the most is that it's my last year of high school, I'm 17 and being targeted like a little kid, it's frustrating
I have been bullied my whole life and no matter what I do nothing helps to stop the bullying from happening and it won't ever stop it will just continue on and on.
@vanilla that is so sweet thank you love you too
the bullies will only make you stronger so jokes on them!
@@Storielle I guess so !
@@jackierodriguez811
Same thing used to happen to me until I beat their asses to a bloody pulp.
@@PerceptionVsReality333 oh but my situation is so different even if I stood up for my self they would always say I am chismosa
If you're horrible to me, I'm going to write a song about it, and you won't like it. That's how I operate.
Taylor Swift
_Taylor is in the HOUSSSEEE_
😂😂😂
And that’s why you don’t bully a singer.
@@roar443 _singers are ringers_
Not really that noteworthy.
Take steps to learn how to defend yourself. Wrestling, boxing, karate. Knowledge is key! You’ll develop your character.
Correct, which is why you strengthen your mind with knowledge and self worth.
Question: what if you want to defend yourself, but family don't want you to?
They aren't the ones being bullied, only you know when it's time to take it that far.
Don't attack them, just defend yourself.
@Robot Man but it's the problem, they say I should be quite and don't pay attention to them, but it's useless
It's really useful advice, it will improve your self confidence.🙏❤️selfhelpchampion
I was bullied throughout school mainly because I had learning difficulties. I hated myself and blamed myself for being too weak to make it stop. Now aged 35, I'm in therapy for severe Social Anxiety. Took me a long time to accept it wasn't my fault.
It's little too late now I'm almost 25 but I never forget what they had done to me. It made me have social Aniexty , depression and Im been diagnosed diabetes since I was 16. So Yeah I dont have friends or anyone that can defend me when I got beated up by so many bullies at school. Then i dropped out and dealt more worse with creepy dudes at college for ged. Since then I avoiding everyone. Dont suffer in silence like me.
I also have social anxiety due to bullying to.. and I developed major anger and anxiety problems.. and usually it’s verbal bullying.. and sometimes.. I can’t take it anymore from schools.. it just puts me down even more..
I also have diabetes but i was diagnosed when i was 3. I have no idea of my normal life and have always been surrounded with needles and blood checks. I never got bullied for it but some girl made fun of me because of my insulin pump and thought i was fat and pregnant, and i cut her off. Hard to believe she was one of my friends but i hated her a lot coz she was stuck up and mean. If people make fun of u becuase of your diabetes are people who are so lonely that they have to make fun of something you cant control and they are the biggest losers. I hope you are doing well now. ❤❤❤❤❤
Same here Because ,of bullying in Highschool I have a high level of Anxiety .it’s hard for me to make friends even know that’s I’m 27 .
I wish I had more help than ever
U know wht if u r discarding everyone from ur life then take a pain to beat their self respect. B strong it was with me too
I just lost control and broke down crying when she said "it's not your fault". My bullies will never know how profoundly hurt and sad and broken I am all these years later. I'm a 37 year old man that still sometimes cries himself to sleep like I did in high school when I was bullied. All of my problems with mental health, self-esteem, substance abuse and suicide attempts can be directly traced back to my teenage years and the bullying that came with them.
They destroyed me for life. Permanently broke me.
There's still someone that love you...even if not, you'll find it
"Ask for help" is definitely something to do and I encourage anyone who suffers or who knows someone who suffers from bullying to do it.
BUT !
BUT it would be NECESSARY that THIS HELP you reach for would DO SOMETHING. And this wasn't my case...
When we were in middle school, my twin sister and I have been bullied.
We were in separate classes. In 7th grade, my sister has been bullied and then cyber-bullied : one of her classmates had hidden his phone in his sleeve during art class (the teacher was often getting something in the other room) and they recorded my sister, making mean comments about her. Then, they posted the video on Facebook. We didn't have a Facebook account back then but one of our friends did and she warned us about what happened. My sister was scared and didn't want to say anything about it, but I still told our parents who reached out the school authorities. Well, what did those so-called authorities do ? After my parents fought for something to be done, they just took the bulliers appart and basically just told them "this is not good, don't do it again"... And that's it ! They had been talking about a disciplinary council for a while but they didn't do it eventually. They just let them go with a "don't begin again". My father wanted to file a complain to the police about the video, to at least give a lesson to those bulliers, but the video had already been removed by that time.
Then, the school authorities assured my sister that they would make sure she wouldn't be in the same class as them the year after. And this was indeed the case. But, guess what ? They put them in MY class ! And what did they do ? They began their bullying again on me ! Wow, the "non frustrating don't begin again" speech really had an effect on them ! They had just shifted the problem instead of fixing it !
Once again, we tried to reach help. I had lots of reflexions like :
- "It is normal, kids are mean with each other"
- "You just have to ignore them and get used to it, you will find the same ones when you're a grown up."
- "You are grown ups now, settle your problems among yourselves."
My parents had to fight for something to be done and it is only when one of my teachers finally banged on the table (litteraly) to raise awareness about the seriousness of the situation that they decided to do something. She said that what they were doing to me was "fundamentally mean" and that something had to be done.
Then, and only then, things began to move a little bit. But the bullier once again just received a speech, a little stronger speech than the first one (my mother, who was present, told me that they were yelled at) but just a speech. At least the bullying calmed down, but just as it did for my sister. The year after, the bulliers were in other classes or other schools and I don't know if they began again with someone else. I hope not but I am a little pessimistic about the effect of that second speech on them...
So please (please !), if you had the courage to read until here (thank you), whether you are part of a school staff, a parent, a victim or a witness of bullying, understand this :
Bullying is NOT NORMAL, whatever age it occurs at.
It is not up to the victim to get used to it.
Bullying is not a little argument that can be settled just between each other.
Bullying is BAD.
Bullying HURTS.
Bullying CAN KILL.
And let me ask you one more question : why do you think "I will find the SAME ONES when I am a grown up ?"
Because nothing is done RIGHT NOW !
Kids grow up with this idea that bullying is normal and all they ever get, if they ever get anything, is a little speech. Why would they stop ? After all, this is the other one who is too sensitive and touchy, and just doesn't have any humour. Even the adults say so, why would they stop ?
So :
AWARENESS IS GOOD. ACTION IS BETTER.
So what do you expect the school to do? I have my own ideas but I'm curious to hear yours.
Ouch, I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah, the amount of people who say "just stand up for yourself" or "don't let it get to you" is shocking, like, how are you supposed to just... ignore them? Or stand up alone to a bigger group of people that laugh at everything you do anyway (or worse, cause you physical harm)?
I have the same problem too. These girls in my class keep on taking my stuff and hiding it, and taking my pictures and using that to blackmail me. My mother told this to the school serval of time but all they did was make them delete the picture, but they still have it so there’s literally no point.
School is a place where students are suppose to learn and have fun. I couldn’t have fun and I didn’t feel safe at school which is a big problem. Also it’s a problem for these bullies because if the teachers don’t punish them, then they won’t know that what they are doing is unacceptable and keep on doing it even when they turn in to adults. These teachers aren’t doing there job and they are ignoring the problem. Schools often want to cover there problem up and only care for reputation. I have been bullied for years and I can say that the bullies are the problem, but the school also has responsibility too.
@@coldstonecanc3rgang994 I might be naive but I think like, a school counselor or someone should figure out why the person who started the bullying started it. Happy and secure people don't bully, and you have to treat the problem, not just the symptom which is the bullying! (Even if you don't believe bullies deserve that - which they do but whatever - they're just gonna start bullying someone else if their desire to bully doesn't cease to exist.)
@@darkacadpresenceinblood Personally, I think students should be made to take responsibility for their school. Every class takes turns cleaning the halls or emptying the trash. With harassers/bullies that could be done during lunch and throughout the day. At least it's some form of discipline
HOLY SHIT THAT SELF ISOLATION ONE IS SO ME!! I gave up trying to make friends because they bullied me for having Autism. That was all they knew me for. So yeah, I simply REFUSED to interact with ANYONE OUTSIDE OF MY FAMILY......
SPEAKING OF FAMILY, I AM SO SHOWING THIS TO MOTHER
if you are being bullied, don't suffer in silence. there is help out there!
@"there is help out there!"
Not for high I.Q males in childhood and early teens.
What stops bullying is revenge violence.
My family doesn't give a shit
•łıłıęķ• UwU
That's true!! Did you relate to any of the signs mentioned in the video? :)
@@Psych2go i relate to all off them, but honestly school doesn't really care, all that teachers do is teaching what they have to so they would get money, i heard them saying that
About 5 years ago or so, I was bullied and tried to reach out for help. Neither my teachers nor my family listened to me, although the times I tried to tell them about this were not few, they didn't want to listen to me. They always downplayed my problem (like saying: "it's not that bad"). I suffered bullying since pre-kindergarten (I don't know how it will be in other countries, but in Chile there is pre-kindergarten, kindergarten and 8 years of basic education, which would add up to 10 years). I tried to make friends with my bullies so that they would leave me alone but it didn't work, and hitting them wasn't an option since I've never been someone in favor of violence or had the support of someone, not even "friends".I'm already in college, and last year I spoke to them about it one last time, so that at least they would stop minimizing my problems, things continue as they were and seeking psychological support isn't an option, I have trust issues; speaking isn't hard for me, but I no longer want to open up with people, so far I have only entrusted this to my best friend, and a small part to whoever reads this comment.
I hope you get help soon
I’ve been bullied for so long that it’s just normal for me at this point. Even when my bullying stopped I still have these symptoms
Yeah I still have a lot of these 6 years out of school. It’s something that sticks around if you were a victim of consistent bullying over many years growing up
There’s this one person who’s a family friend, who always comes around and acts really nice and polite. But whenever I’m given the opportunity to help myself, and be a good person, he does it himself. It also happens a lot when I’m trying to have a conversation with people, and he just takes it over.
And I KNOW he does it on purpose because I’ve told him multiple times about my low self-image and my own feelings of inadequacy. And the worst part is, I used to trust him, and tell him these things because I saw him as a guidance figure, and a good friend. But nowadays he’s always brushing me aside and acting superior in a very covert, and hurtful way.
It really annoys me that everyone keeps on saying to reach out for help. I was a victim and it just broke my life so bad that I ended up feeling so distant with people and it feels so hard to trust someone. I’ve tried reaching out to people so many times to help me get through this, but all i got was being ignored or being told “deal it yourself idk how to help you” and “venting is like seeking for attention, you are really annoying, it’s better to keep it to yourself if you don’t want to seek for unnecessary attention”. Surprisingly they are the same people who told me “if you want to vent, i’m here to listen”. So it seems useless to reach out to people for help, they dont give a shit about your life and I just stopped doing it. It’s better for me to let the negative thoughts build up inside me rather than feeling abandoned when i really seek for help. I just gave up.
I couldn't even begin to sit here and tell U how much I've struggled to cope with being bullied growing up and left to fend for me becuz I had NO ONE to defend me. I basically had no one for a friend growing up, I've felt really alone. I used to spend so many nights laying awake in bed with tears in my eyes, trying to figure out why the kids at school AND in my neighborhood growing up had such a disdain for me. Out of all the signs listed, the ones that basically describe me to a T are: feeling isolated 0:46, low self-esteem 1:13, fearful 1:40, and different emotions 2:40.
All of the heartache and bullying I've endured growing up, it's caused me to put up barriers all around me becuz I had a difficult time trusting people (I still do), hurt, betrayed & stabbed in the back by people whom I THOUGHT were my friends but they really weren't (just used me for THEIR benefit and I was too vulnerable to see it)
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Without empathy there will be no humanity. #stopbullying
yeah
No one heals himself by wounding another - unknown
Very true!
If you see this
Have a wonderful day you beautiful and amazing person I’m rooting for you 🖤
Thanks
The Slasher of course 🖤🤍🖤
kodiak maybe there’s a part of me that does, but I also know that posts like these have made my day better.
My enemies come in team and it's really hurtful and fearful, being an introvert, I don't answer them except for sometimes only when I can't handle it anymore.
Bullying also comes from my parents.
Stay strong
I have low self-esteem... one time in 3rd grade my bully kept stealing my things and one time we was moving for go noodle and she said "ew, stop dancing you are so ugly and weird. Oh and you dance bad! Ha!" And ive never danced sense... im in 4th now... i bite my nails for anxiety. I like to hide myself in dark places and i feel safe. I only feel safe when im in a dark place, like under a blanket. I also feel safe with my tablet or stuffed animals. My tabled calms me down and my stuffed animals help me fall asleep. If you are being bullied please get help from a trusting friend, parent, or a therapist. Have a good day/night and stay safe guys, goodbye for now.
Hello there! :) i understand your situation please talk to someone that you trust and I suggest you to move to new school to avoid low self-esteem
As someone who has also dealt with this, and recently gone off to college, here is my terse advice: they are not worth your time, and although it's excruciatingly hard, you have to realize that your self happiness comes before all else. Those who cherish you for what you are and only critique you when you yourself ask for it are real friends and allies. Anything else other than that... Sadly, your rivals, or worse. But that's okay. You will ALWAYS have friends, and you will even have so-called "adults" who think they're cool by harassing you when they are pathetic cowards
TL;DR: super cliche, but you have to truly take care and appreciate what you yourself are amazing at. If these people who are harassing you continue their behavior even after you ignore them, AND you have tried to get help, while I absolutely do not promote a fight... If it is truly your last resort, bring the pain. :/
I remember getting bullied most through elementary school, middle and even my high school years, and then I slowly started to change my appearance, and then recently one of my bullies hit me up on Snapchat because his girlfriend left him and wanted to start "talking" to me, I declined because I will always remember how they treated me growing up.
as someone who was bullied for 2 years, i advice you to either play hard target (straight, tall posture, try to take as much space in a room as possible and react subtly to insults, just don't fake laughing, they will keep doing this etc...) or actually BE a hard target (when you realize that bullies call you nerd because you have better grades, or when they call you "spoiled kid" because you got better lunch or have full pencilcase, you will realize, that they want to get ahead of you by putting you below themselves, you will know what to do and what NOT to do. for example, remember the ammount of people who hate you and try using this as a success measurement, because succesful people always have a ton of haters)
Only 2 years i have been bullied my whole life
Thank you for this video, I really really needed to hear that it's not my fault.
People have been bullying me for my red hair since I was little and it has gotten to the point where I am always tired, not wanting to hangout/talk with friends, do activities I liked, and even self harm. I feel like I need to change the way I act and look to fit in and not be a target. I even had a boy in my class today say "You as a person aren't that bad but because you're a ginger you are awful." That comment made me feel ashamed and I went home and stabbed my thighs with pencils again.
Hearing someone tell me that I am not at fault made me feel better about it. I love your channel and you have helped me so much recently. ❤️
I’ve been bullied but if you go through therapy it can help you a lot. Thank you Psych2Go you helped me a lot!
We're glad our videos have helped you! Are you going through therapy right now? :)
I like how when I tell someone about my bullying that I think will help me, they just say "dont worry just get help from a trusted adult."
@Jack Smith used to, not anymore
Do you have someone in your life who seems to delight in making you miserable?
Have you tried everything to turn this situation around and nothing seems to help? It's a bully at at work
Yeah. Just smack them up senseless. Then they'll stop
My dad :(
No I haven't suffer from bullying
My bullies hurt me a lot. To the point where they would sexually harass and touch me. Starting in 8th grade, I started to become depressed and suicidal. I'm almost done with college now, and I still have severe depression and questions.
At this point, I've gotten to a point where I don't care if I get an apology from them or not. Now I just want closure on why they did the things they said/did. I didn't do anything to them.
I was bullied for ten years, it's more than half of my life. No one wanted to help me, people told me to ignore it and they were punishing me for my anger. I have anxiety now because of it. I hope one day I'll recover from it.
Hey i know its been 4 years so... hows life going for you ?
Did you graduate ? ❤❤
Not only is the bullying not your fault, but if they ever come up to apologize, it is NOT your responsibility to forgive them. If you feel like you're in a place to do so, or like their apology was genuine and heartfelt and they really have changed, then good on you! You've gotten over that pesky milestone. But if you feel like you can't forgive them yet, or ever, then that will always be on them. They had a choice, no matter what was going on in their life. Just because you get a half assed "sorry" doesn't mean they deserve diddly squat. Just because they're older doesn't mean they've matured at all, that's ultimately up to you to decide.
Because of bullying experience from Elementary to Highschool and even got to my first years of College plus childhood abuse, I believe I have PTSD, Paranoid Personality Disorder, trust issues, low self esteem and confidence, social anxiety, bad temper and insecurity. Thanks to all the people who contributed to all of these because I am now developing myself to be better and without those experiences I will not be the strong person I am today. Despite these extremely difficult challenges I had to face and go thru, I am still trying to live a decent and normal life. Fr, trauma still affects the way I behave and live my life today. I deal with the stress by singing, petting my dog, watching movies, working out and contemplating. I have talked to some friends about this but I ain't sure if they get me or not. I haven't yet seek professional health.
i have bad temper
Bullying is seen so lightly as people only become concerned of it when someone is suicidal. Bullying does not only become serious when someone is starting to self harm. It is like poison, it hurts u over and over again until u are reduced to nothing. If you are a bystander, please do something before anything else can happen. We should solve the problem before it is too late
you know whats worse
its not just peers but teachers and your own family bully you too
Both are worse,whether it's your peers,teachers and families,if they bully you, what they do is not a good thing to do
Bullies are the most pathetic people on the planet. The power and strength they project is strictly a facade. Inside, they’re as weak and fragile as glass. They’re normally pretty insecure and desperately need to hurt someone else as a way to validate what little self-worth they possess. I got picked on pretty much from grade school until high school. I suffered, but I learned how to take a bully’s power and turn it against them. The best part is that bullies LOVE to run their mouths and talk about themselves. Really listen to them and watch them. Example: let’s say that your bully has a girlfriend. Befriend her. Earn her trust. Get her to open up to you. If she offers misgivings about the relationship, validate them. Don’t openly attack her boyfriend, but definitely take her side and make her wonder if he’s really worth keeping around. Plant little seeds of doubt in her mind. THEN, you’ll have front row seats when your bully and his girl split up.
Congratulations. You’ve beaten your bully without fisticuffs.
Stealing a girl from the "nice" guy/girl
I was bullied in middle school and now those same people are trying to be my friend!
AWKWARD
Although to be frank, many rats like that do dramatically change over time
I never knew, even to this day, whether I was really bullied or not. In elementary and middle school (but especially elementary) these kids on the bus would give my friends and I mean nicknames and constantly try to get a reaction out of us when we were just minding our own business.
They all sat in the back of the bus, while my group sat in the front and upper middle. They used to sing We Will Rock You by Queen on the bus, but insert my name. “You got blood on your face, big fat [insert my name, I know it doesn’t even rhyme], Waving your banner all over the place...” It took me so long to listen to that song again, because the negative memories attached to it made it hard.
In middle school, people used to think I was just a complete idiot, so I thought I was too. The school made me feel this way as well, since I had to be in a resource class since I missed most of 3rd & 4th grade due to being in and out of the hospital. The same bus kids would ask my best friend, “Why is Mason (me) so ugly?” I walked with my head down, staring at my feet throughout elementary, middle, and part of high school.
Movies depict bullying to be mostly physical or calling someone terrible names to their face, (trying to start a fight or something), shoving kids in lockers, gaslighting, etc etc, so I never considered myself a victim of bullying. I still don’t know whether that’s just regular kids being kids, or bullying. Please tell me.
Teasing every now and then is normal, most people do it. To a sensitive person light teasing might feel like bullying. So first thing to do is find out if your a sensitive person.
Also some people are just incensitive. So they may be making hurtful comments and not realise it. Not everyone's level of empathy is on the same level.
No bullying is not normal. Think about it, who lives for bothering someone else? Why do they obsess so much over someone they think is beneath them weaker than them? Excatly because they percieve you as beneath them, weaker. They need that feeling of being superior of dominating someone, causs there unhappy. There really sadistic individuals.
ArGonzalez To be fair, there was a power balance between me and those assholes. They’d also make fun of me for being not straight (I’m bi but they’d call me faggot). I don’t like to bring it up since there’s no point in sharing my sexuality with strangers.
I wouldn’t call it “light teasing” since their comments basically caused me to revert into a shell. I didn’t talk in middle school, some people forgot I was even there. To this day I’ve had horrid anxiety and I’m just now getting medicated for it. Between that and a shit home life, I didn’t have a fun childhood (this shit lasted till 6 months ago). It’s had a lot of shitty psychological affects on me, so I’d appreciate if you didn’t downplay it. Maybe it was bullying, maybe not, but I don’t think the teasing was “light.”
SAME people have recently been getting a reaction out of me and taunting me and i was asked whether i was gonna cry myself to sleep and it really got to me so i just ran off,desperate to get home
I'm so relieved to hear that is isn't my fault. I've been taught by my elders that I was bullied because of something I needed to change about myself whether it was my voice or the way I looked. But it's good to know that I should be myself and not try to be somebody that I'm not.
I am currently being bullied in high school, just because I am myself, they even say that I am childish for going to the bathroom. I hate my peers so much.
Some signs that may point to a bullying problem are👇👇
Unexplainable injuries
Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry
Frequent headaches or stomach aches, feeling sick or faking illness
Changes in eating habits, like suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they did not eat lunch.
Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares
Declining grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school
Sudden loss of friends or avoidance of social situations
Feelings of helplessness or decreased self esteem
Self-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicide
Why is this me😓 (except self harming)
bullies are everywhere unfortunately. some people don’t grow out of their bitchy, childish rude behaviours from childhood, through college and up to the working in jobs
Sahil C well it’s happened in the past, you can’t go back now. but i hope you’ve changed your ways and realised that you don’t need to be rude to people to assert dominance or even just being able to defend yourself. there are other ways to do that, without affecting innocent people.
I remember for me middle school was absolute hell. (elementary to if I'm being honest) You see I went to a private catholic school and came from a fairly lower middle-class family. I didn't have all the new trendy things. My class had 12 people in it, and it was an absolute nightmare, I didn't even realize I may have been bullied until I got into high school and a good environment. The first story that always comes to my mind was my sixth-grade year, we were doing a class presentation in front of the entire church and parents, I wanted a speaking part, to show my mom. I had gotten the part the teacher said yes, and I was ecstatic I remember excitedly going home and informing my mom of it and asking her to come and she said yes, I was on a high until two weeks later, the teacher left the rest of the presentation into the classes hands. I remember listening in writing something, I didn't mean to eavesdrop they were standing right next to me. The "cool girls" and "popular girls" got to lead the class (looking back I realize it was probably because they had money) I remember them talking about me and the face they made when they realized I had that role the sneer, the disgust, the look I thought they were my friends. Then they said something along the lines of "her? seriously? let's change that." I was so shocked I couldn't breathe, I remember this moment with so much clarity, I was trapped in my own mind until we regrouped and one of the girls was in mine, I felt so much anger, and I tried to suppress it best I could, I always had slight anger issues, but at one point I just couldn't take it anymore and I screamed at them, told them how unfair they were in front of the entire class, I remember the pitying look, the look that I was just a cry baby or something. Then the high faded way to the embarrassment I had lost control, and I began to hate myself. I thought I had done something wrong. This was my middle school years from then on, believing I had to be better, I remember the first day of seventh grade, making a vow to myself to never cry again as I had started a new year. I didn't want to be known as the crier anymore. I didn't want to be told to grow up. So I did, at least in my head. I felt embarrassment looking back to it for the rest of my middle school career, until the summer after my eighth-grade year, literally the only person who did not do anything of the sort in the class came over to my house, and admitted to a similar experience and even self-harm, I was shocked. I didn't know I was being bullied so later that night I looked back on it all and admitted to myself that I was not in a good environment. To this day I have never told anyone this so take of it what you will.
I've been isolated for so long, that i can't react to when someone touches or talks to me. My brain just shuts down.
Real Actual Bullying is not just what's on this Video !
Bullying Is also accusing people of doing things that they're not trying to do !
Having someone taking things from you and don't ask !
Always finding things wrong with you no matter how much good you try to do !
Telling you that you can't do anything !
Being Judged by what others think of you !
Yeah :(
I'm doing a digital academy this year, I've noticed I'm more happy less worried and overall more excited for school.
I was bullied at school by everyone and I mean all the students, teachers and even the principal. It was an all girls school and becuz of a stupid childish mistake, the whole school bullied me becuz that's the principal's orders. At home, I was bullied by my own said that its my fault and I have to deal with it. The only who stood up for me is my mom.
Tbh, I'm actually grateful becuz it made me stronger and I'm not someone that can be bullied ever again. Whenever those bitches saw me in public, they just averted their eyes cuz they know they have no more power over me.
Mom is the best
You are God
For how long did this go?
i think i might be bullied cuz i really messed up the other day and everyone started taunting me at school and someone asked whether i was gonna go cry myself to sleep,but i didnt,and now i have to go back tomorrow and im dreading it
Another sign of bullying is that you become a bully yourself. Kids who are bullied at home often become bullies at school.
Me having all the symptoms but I'm my own bully: 👁💧👄💧👁
How many signs did you relate to?
I was bullied by about 12 kids a day in middle school. I often thought of suicide, my grades were terrible, I ate junk and became overweight which made bullying worse. My parents were always angry at my bad grades. I told them I was being bullied and they said it was no excuse and that everyone gets bullied. Then I was even told it was my fault I was being bullied because I must be a doormat that doesn't stand up for themself. My teachers would just ignore the bullying towards me. I thought that they felt I deserved it for my bad grades.
I've been bullied my entire life by family members, school mates and teachers. Whether it was on my looks or my hair or my tastes in things like music or fashion. It lead me to becoming a person with solitary tendencies and occasional bouts of rage. My family would just call me an angry loner, but the truth was I did it to avoid ridicule.
Ive thought of killing my bullies more times than I can count. In my dreams, I do horrible things to them. In my thoughts, I scream and break things. On my own, I'm locked in a cage of seething hatred.
You know what, you make me feel grateful my bully isn't that bad, i feel bad for you, please don't do anything that you just said, sometimes i feel that to but i always find something to makes me feels better like doing my hobbies...
Do you have hobbies? If not, find some
I cried at the self-harm one because my old or new bullies make me feel like that, and it makes me have a hard time telling people about it.
I have recognized the signs (1 and 5) I feel like my friends are bossing me around (to hang out with them even I didn't wanted to) and sometimes it makes me angry. So I didn't hangout with them anymore and that makes me feel happy. I spend my self alone a lot and TBH I don't feel lonely a all :) I'm Soo relieved I picked the right decision (for me).
1:20 I liked when she was mentioning the symptoms of bullying, it helped a lotttt! It made me feel like I wasn't alone, and that this information is sooo true. The bully I'm dealing with got in my head. She made me believe in her insults, and she also flipped me off. Straightforward to my point, I like how the Narrator has known my symptoms without even asking me or knowing me.
Next video: Ways to get rid of a bully
Step 1: Choose your weapon
Step 2: Dispose of the body
Step 3: Hide the evidence
Step 4: Meditate
Step 5: Blend in with society
You just give me an idea
Update:yeah...it's done...very easy
It's bad way to blend with society.You'll lose your authenticity to their conformity
@@mightypopkorn What did you do?
@@rona.68 nothing :)
1. You feel isolated
2. You have low self esteem
3. You become fearful
4. You've change part of your personality or your looks
5. You're dealing with emotions like anger
6. You might struggle with self harm
Wow... I've always compared the way one of my parents treats me to the feeling of getting bullied but never was completely sure because it sounds insane when you think about it, that your own parents would bully you after knowing you were previously bullied at school years ago, it all makes sense now.
Bullying Is usually committed by Sadistic people,Those who struggles to get attention from others,Those who Has gotten bullied and vents it out by bullying others.
Man I keep getting recommended videos of bullying or depression signs and like, how does RUclips know my personal life? I have had a really bad case of bullying at a really young age, every one in my class bullied me for the smallest things like if I was sad or changed my style or my hair or basically anything I did. I remember my teacher 'tried' to stop it but that just maid things worse. I had to go to therapy at 11 because as my mental health got worse my body physically started to get more sick and I guess It was a way to avoid my class. I liked therapy I could calm down more and my health got better but the bullying didn't stop until I was around 14 when the 2 biggest bully's moved to a different school and the others just kinda stop doing it as bad. I'm 15 now and i guess I'm doing pretty good for my self!
It’s unsettling to see them only say “Skip meals”. Many bullied victims has been eating a lot more. Like comfort eating.
I've been bullied my whole childhood, by a girl younger than me. She makes me madder than heck, I just wanna kick her until she's bruised...
I've been called "loser" before. Made me almost commit suicide 😞 by so much hatred on me. I've been called names, pushed, ignored and been teased **not the good way** I'm so grateful I moved away from that bitch and started to get out of my shadow and make new friends. Now everyone in the my neighborhood knows me. Even my crush who I live close to. I just have to fight through my life and see what it takes me to.
ive been called titan and titanic and just told to shut up constantly whenever i try to talk,just shut up and almost humiliated,with them all eager to get a reaction out of me all beacuse of this one idiot who started it
All the signs! HR should watch this because workplace bullying is real
I was a victim of bullying when I was younger because I was small or didn't have many friends or even just because I'm quiet and I just got out of the cycle of constantly getting bullied I hope if any of you are getting bullied you try to search for someone you trust and ask them for help
I though I was just sensitive…
I always thought I was too sensitive and started to pretend to laugh at things they tell me every time people bully me.
I even thought they were my friends.
I hope everyone is having a wonderful day or afternoon or night ❤️
Wishing you the same
Thank you
Thank you, I hope the same for you 🥰💕
Thanks for sharing positivity!! You too!
“Your enemies will never be the ones to betray you”
-a wise person
The animations are cute, by the way.
Thank you so much
@@Psych2go Yes, I do please😊😊😊
I feel like I can’t say something in school without it being used against me, I can’t breathe I can’t be myself without being made fun of by a group of people while being alone
The problem is, I'm the bully of my own self...
I have to quit being mean to or too harsh on myself but it's so hard to get out of this vicious cycle.
You should find a way to break the cicle; I personally reaaaaaally recommend therapy; it’s kinda hard but it gets easier, and it really does help
same i always put myself down whenever i fail at things other can do
I’ve been emotionally abused by youngsters, 6 years back near my home. I also engaged in physical fight with them. Now they’re all grown ups and have hired young kids to do the same. It still continues. The worst thing is that they’re multiplying in number. And there are also idiots who scold you from back. This is something very pathetic in our daily life.
*I have a request*
can you talk about the definition and differences of Anti-Social Personality Disorder/ Psychopath/ Sociopath... Thank you!!
i hope they see this 🤧
For starters:
-A sociopath is someone who has antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). Antisocial personality disorder is defined by a pervasive and persistent disregard for morals, social norms, and the rights and feelings of others.[3] Individuals with this personality disorder will typically have no compunction in exploiting others in harmful ways for their own gain or pleasure and frequently manipulate and deceive other people, achieving this through wit and a façade of superficial charm or through intimidation and violence.[11] They may display arrogance, think lowly and negatively of others, and lack remorse for their harmful actions and have a callous attitude to those they have harmed.[3][4] Irresponsibility is a core characteristic of this disorder: they can have significant difficulties in maintaining stable employment as well as fulfilling their social and financial obligations, and people with this disorder often lead exploitative, unlawful, or parasitic lifestyles.[3][4][12][13]
Those with antisocial personality disorder are often impulsive and reckless, failing to consider or disregarding the consequences of their actions. They may repeatedly disregard and jeopardize their own safety and the safety of others and place themselves and others in danger.[3][4][14] They are often aggressive and hostile and display a dysregulated temper and can lash out violently with provocation or frustration.[3][13] Individuals are prone to substance abuse and addiction, and the abuse of various psychoactive substances is common in this population. These behaviors lead such individuals into frequent conflict with the law, and many people with ASPD have extensive histories of antisocial behavior and criminal infractions stemming back before adulthood.[3][4][12][13]
Serious problems with interpersonal relationships are often seen in those with the disorder. Attachments and emotional bonds are weak, and interpersonal relationships often revolve around the manipulation, exploitation, and abuse of others.[3] While they generally have no problems in establishing relationships, they may have difficulties in sustaining and maintaining them.[12] Relationships with family members and relatives are often strained due to their behavior and the frequent problems that these individuals may get into.
Symptoms may lessen with age.
Treatment may include talk therapy and support for affected family members.
Source Wikipedia
@Potato Life I'm not also sure about that, but I hope they see this so at least if there's no video about that, I hope they can make one.
@Potato Life it's fine HAHA
fr this has been bugging me for so long, i'll def watch if they do
Imagine seeing your friend laughing along with the bullies. What a life huh
When you're early enough for people to notice you.
Hi
hi
*me over here begging people to notice my being early comment*
@vanilla Hi vanilla
Last time I was that early when suga was still shorter than jimin
@@toughhope9627 Whuddup BTS Reference!
If your being bullied there's nothing you can do no matter how many times you tell a teacher or "someone who can help" they never help even your best friends abandon you and your parents ignore you if you font want to get bullied don't stand out or make yourself known.
When I was younger, I thought a bully was a type of bull, bison, or buffalo! I was sooo stupid and I still am! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
omg lmaoo
Wow.
Lmao 😂
@@carnage2967 😝😝😝
No matter what, no one to help for recovering from bullying disorder.
I get to Escaping Bullying and Racism 😢
I’ve previously been the target of social and Verbal bullying. The reason I am here is because I am still recovering from it. There have been several times when I would just cry for hours because of it. My mom tried helping me but it just was no use. I tried talking to the school social worker (while in literal tears) but they dismissed it as ‘girl drama’ and tried to tell me it was my fault. I’m still being bullied. Just not as badly. Mainly because I’ve just had to manually remove myself as nobody would do it for me. Bullying is no joke, that’s shit does stuff to you.
Psychology should be taught in schools alongside philosophy, it would be so useful for the future generations.
100%!
Peace was never ever an option
2:12 "You change your personality or looks." This means you're a sycophant. You'd be surprised at how many sycophants exist here in society. They are sooo common!
The profound hurt of feeling 'less than' or 'not a quality human being' due to constant bullying,cuts so deep I feel like I can't describe it.
And this happened yrs ago,but I can still remember what it was like coming home,from as day where I failed to make myself invisible enough,and they closed in on me..
On a positive note,I have long since learned to stand up for myself,and not care so much what others say about me. But trusting ppl is still very hard.
My bully changed me . I was a cheerful active kid .I was really good in sports and my grades were average . I was humiliated in front of the whole school several times . My bully turned me into a drug addict scumbag . I have developed Social Anxiety Disorder. I haven't interacted or had a relationship with anyone for the past 2 years.
#Recovering
I've been bullied by my own close family members that I find it sometimes embarrassing when other people are really happy for the holidays just to see their aunts and cousins.. its really sad.. They always talk behind my back, if I come into the room they change the subject. I cry about it all the time. It really is bad When they're gonna go out together, I always am left alone. EVEN children younger than me get to go they never ask me to any of the events, if they're going to a cafe or a shop to get snacks. When I try talking to them, they look at their phones and ignore me. One time, I was sitting alone minding my own business, the girls started pointing at me and laughing.
CAN I HAVE DIFFERENT AUNTS AND COUSINS CAUSE THEY MESSED WITH MY SELF ESTEEM. LIFE. MENTAL STATE. EVERYTHING THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPY I SEE IT AS A BAD THING BECAUSE OF THEM. SOME SONGS REMIND ME OF THEM. BUT I ALWAYS HAVE TO GO WITH THEM BECAUSE I'M FORCED BECAUSE THEY'RE MY "FAMILY" THEY HATE ME, I HATE THEM TOOI
( I'm sorry, but If you're reading this.. Have a nice day, I wish to have a better life that doesn't exist, bye. )
Sticks and stones may break my bone but words will leave emotional trauma that will haunt me deep into adulthood
RIP.
I was bullied and it was very painful, I have wondered if these former bullies ever felt any guilt or remorse for what they have done. Regardless, in the end, I have nothing to be ashamed of because I wasn’t the bully, I wasn’t the mean one. For anyone out there who has been bullied, don’t let them win over you, they don’t deserve that power. You deserve better. ❤
God her voice is so calming ☺️
My childhood story in a cartoon, life would have been much easier if RUclips and this video existed back then.
I encourage victim to speak out to a professional when u face this kind of problem...but not to ur friend
I was once a victim
I hardly tell out the thg I’ve been through to my parent... because I do not want them to worry about me... and I think it’s unnecessary to bother them... tht time I feel so disappointed so depressed and even lonely... but luckily I’m still good. Eventho I cried every night w/o anyone noticing... but Im still fine... I do smtg to distract myself, not in a serious case tho... but I can’t distract myself not to think how ppl always bully me, how am I supposed to face my friends the next morning... so I decide to skip school for almost 1 month...
I know tht kind of feeling when nobody are willing help u out...
Some Friend will feel unbothered or annoy when u speak w them bout this and some toxic friend do not even wan to help u out...
and also some toxic friend might use ur past experience of cyber bullying to harm u..
I’m sorry for my poor eng... but I really really really prefer u to speak to a professional rather than ur friend... even they are trustworth... even they enjoy staying w u afterall, just because u r a funny person but they won’t care about ur dark side...they doesn’t want to know wht u’ve been through... that kind of toxic friend will hurt u more even once a while u feel comfortable with them... the duration of relationship doesnt proof anytg... u can either enjoy being w them in 4 years or suffer in 4 years...
P/S Be careful when u make friend and reach out for help when u need help :) 😄
Have a good day ❤️