Spot on ! Try exploitation now with all con artists on lockdown the traffickers are more likely to get caught - it disrupts and makes it increasingly difficult to run any dodgey networks 👍
GOOD GIRL 👊🏼.I was saying to a friend that i feel sorry for Empaths who didnt get rid of living with the Narc b4 lockdown .They WILL live off their HOST & take you for every penny You have .then Blame the situation of lockdown & not having anywhere to go & besides .....YOU invited them in so it's YOUR FAULT .Thank GOD you havnt let him make YOU responsible for him staying with you .you would NOT OF GOT RID OF THE FREELOADER
Narcissist roommate would keep coming in and out of my apartment. Gone for 5 days then back again. When I got home from a walk she had been in my bedroom. I asked her where is the respect? That's when she started insulting me and coughing in my face saying COVID-19 over and over. I went outside to gather myself when I heard a loud crash. She smashed my Buddha altar that was sitting on an antique mirror into a million pieces. I had to call the cops. They gave her a citation and escorted her out. She didn't pay April rent and wasn't on the lease so I had no qualms about making her leave. Now I can finally feel safe in my home. This video helped me understand why they feel so out of control.
I was dumb enough to contact my narcissistic, and asked if he remembered me and to be safe and take care being out with the virus and all the protestors. He replied back and said “can’t say I do, but thanks” it was then when I realized he is a horrible man wanting validation and an ego boost. Lesson learned.
Beware the covert narcissist. If they think you will leave them, your life may be on the line. When you express concern for your health, and they smirk, it may be your only warning.
Wow!! I am in preparation mode in cutting ties to a covert narcissist who is aware that I am cutting ties but I don't care of the repercussion. I am suffocating! Blessings
@@marciaheadley9933 January, in a snowbank, penniless, with seven cats on leashes, became a better option than another second with the narc. I still agree, many years later. Just Go No Contact!!
As a scapegoated, blacksheep, empath, I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I even shed a few joyful tears. God is in control. Thats all I need for comfort. God bless you and yours dear, sweet lady. Keep up the awesome work. Subscribed☺👍
I'm the scapegoat youngest daughter of a narcissistic family.... I went No Contact about 4 years ago and my life is more peaceful and happy.... even though I'm alone ... I am at PEACE..God is in Control.... I know they don't like being alone... turnabout is fair play..
While I don't believe in envy or jealousy, I cherish your happiness and freedom, for you. I can imagine how liberated and peaceful that must be. Like all the angels at once, "aaaaaahhhhhh!(in the key of G) Thats so awesome to my ears/eyes to see someone who's been through it, knows their destruction/evil, and is now free of it. Thank you Tammy, for sharing your experience and joy with me. It a actually lifted me a lil' bit. I'm not quite free of toxic family members yet. But I can definitely see soon, a Godly, peaceful life without them. Thanks again Tammy. BTW: With God/Jesus, we're never truly alone. God bless you and yours.❤☺🙏👍
They will love it if you tell them you can't find toilet paper. They will pretend they care but they don't. And if they don't have toilet paper they will expect you to give them some. If there's ever a food shortage they will expect you to give them your food but if you need food they won't give you any. Stay away from them all the more during this time! NO CONTACT.
Oh you're so right about them! The toilet paper and food really rang a bell for me....he expected me to provide these things for him....we were not in any kind of relationship!!
Covert narcissists and overt narcissists are the same. An overt only becomes covert because they are scared of punishment or social consequences of their behaviors. When the narcissist feels free to display their ways without receiving punishment they will be more overt about it. Example: head of the household will show their nasty behaviors behind closed doors to their family away from public view. In public they will behave and put on a show to look well mannered and charming.
I think you're right, my husband during our first year of marriage, 3 months after I had delivered our first born child....He slapped me, he slapped me a couple of months again. We then moved from our developing country to USA still on that first year with our then 8 months son. Upon arriving in USA he never again beat me up. I have only started learning about narcissistic abuse six months ago, my dad I now understand is a malignant narcissist & am the scapegoat child, my mom is a codependent and I have been a codependent all this time. I truly think my husband went from overt to covert and I was thinking he changed lol, when I started learning about all these I started explaining to him because I thought he is good but I saw the range.
This must be true ... broke up with the narc over a mth ago and received a msg yesterday... “I missed a call private number was that you?” ... no supply, no sports, no friends, the narc’s slowly suffocating
Narcissists can not be alone, need personal contact and need their gossip group to function so they can continue their mayhem. They work multiple groups of people at a time and this is near impossible to do while sheltering in place. Their victims may also notice they are experiencing a better life sans narc and may call triangulated friends which will wake them up to the narc among them. We may see many of them,purposely get sick, try to get others sick so watch out if you are sheltering in place with a narc.
They're bored. They've lost their "toys."They need their toys so that they don't descend into the abyss. Narcissists can't stand on their own two metaphorical feet; they keel right over. They need their crutch! I guess that's what happens when you have arrested ego development.
Same here. She reached out after 18 mos radio silence. Talking about I just hope you're okay. Yeah sure. You just know I'm still working and you can't find work because you're 35yo and still serving tables.
My father a textbook Narc has been texting me every day "I miss you" "Do you need anything?" "Are you ok?" And to an outsider he just looks like a concerned father but if you know him at all you know he's trying to manufacture a scenerio where he can swoop in and be the hero by providing me with supplies (he's already offered me lysol wipes and toilet paper. Which i don't need) OR create a narrative where he's a sad lonely victim of circumstance to attempt to get me to drop everything and pay attention to him. He's so desperate for narcassictic supply and he's not getting any. Sucks to suck my dude. I don't miss you, I don't need you, I don't want to talk to you.
Author Erica Hogan same with mine. Concern about the kids. Lol. My relpy: I have. I concerns. Nothing more. But I did then have to discuss one child and mentioned how stressful these times are and OMG. he isn’t stressed, their home is good, they ask the kids every day! Don’t imply he is taking this lightly. Lmao defensive much???
Same here. My ex narc tried to contact me and with fake concern and tried to connect with me tru my bestfriend. Told my bestfriend im ok and way so much better without my narc ex. And I'm at peace...
Ms. U Are EXACTLY Right About EVERYTHING You're Saying. I can't believe it•It's like you have a Crystal Ball or Something. I can give so many examples to illustrate how on point you are but I don't want to write an overly long msg so I will just give one... She Is EXTREMELY Heartless ANY Other Time & Doesn't Care or Respond to ANYTHING I say or if I "complain" about something she did or didn't do•But Sunday when she woke up she was a COMPLETELY Different person•Talking Nice to me & doing things I like like Cleaning Up & just Behaving like a Human Being-I didn't even think she could act like this anymore since she's been so Evil for so long•But the icing on the cake was when I said one of my Usual "complaints" that she Usually IGNORES or BLAMESHIFTS about and she said "I'M SORRY"•I couldn't believe what I was hearing but I kept my cool & didn't "Praise" her for her "Good Behavior" like I use to do in the past because I'm TOTALLY DONE with her & I Knew this was all a Trick because she's Losing Her Mind because of this Virus & your Video just CONFIRMED IT•When this is all over with & the traveling ban is lifted I'm Moving halfway across The Country to get away from her & Never Looking Back•She Has No Idea I'm Leaving so I Know this is gonna Crush Her-My Only Solace After Suffering Three Years Of Complete TORTURE............
Unbelievable. This channel is so enlightening. I love how she speaks and teaches. I've gained a lot from this channel. I relate too well to what she is saying. I grew up with Narcs.
I think this really helps me with knowing if I've been dealing with a covert narcissist or a covert psychopath. This person is loving covid, especially lockdown. She finds it really stimulating, all the drama, horror and all the weirdness. She's really calm, calmer than I've seen for years. She seems incredibly alive. She's just in her absolute element. I think she's a psychopath, not a covert narcissist. Thank you.
My exwife covert narcissist which as alienated my son for over 4 yrs recently texted me saying all communication needs to be open? Strange I thought. I think I'm gonna use this to make her more insane a little payback because shes a teacher stuck at home , while I'm a trucker out an about ! Thank you! Made my day
@Tina L. Ja shes fkn vicious wow I cant believe I used to share a bed w her for 11 yrs it freaks me out , my son is 14 she lies day and night but I dont argue anymore because my son ends up paying for it ! She treats him like her buddy not her son , I on the other hand talk to him like a father and he likes that kids have friends they need parents, she is gonna regret everything when hes independent adult w my guidance ofcourse, I dont say anything bad about her because hes still brainwashed but he will snap out of it. Everytime I'm w him a give him another piece to the puzzle very subtle hints or clues , thanks for your input, hows your friend now ?
Narcissist during the pandemic is forced to loose his grandiosity he becomes common like everyone else and faces the same consequences of the pandemic this causes narcissistic injury and mortification.
I returned home this week from a long business trip of many days to discover that my wife/CN had moved some furniture, household items, and personal belongings out of the house. When I completed unloading my car I was inform that she had somethings important to discuss with me and wanted me to come into the living room and sit down. I was then informed that "for personal health reasons" that she was "temporarily moving out for at least 30 days". Of course she had to provide me with one more ding of devaluation and claim that I was the reasons for issues in our marriage of 25+ years. She then got up gathered a few more things and departed. I feel relieved because she left me and our marriage long ago. Only her body remained and now that is gone and there is peace in my house. I am relieved and she is not missed. However, I expect her to attempt to return in a few weeks or gain access to my home to take more things away whenever she is certain that I am not about. She has already enlisted our youngest as one of her flying monkeys and a reporter of my activities. The irony is that before I departed over a week ago she informed me that she was lazy and selfish which is why she historically did not take positive and responsible actions. While gone I reflected on the fact that this personal declaration was the most honest that she has ever been in our25+ year marriage. I wish her well where ever she is, but not with me.
"It is better for a man to sit on the corner of his rooftop than to live in a house with a contentious woman".Proverbs 25:24. God took her out for a reason sir. It may be a sign he wants you to do something. Only you would know what that is. Bless
She is trying to keep a window open by putting a time stamp (30 days) on it. Whatever her real reason is for leaving she wants to be able to come back if necessary. So blaming you for her leaving and saying it's temporary it's all part of the game. She will be shocked when she realises there is no coming back! Peace and blessings for the future💖
You better take the dangerous and DECEPTIVE intents of a narcissist seriously. Make sure to get legal help and advice asap. Particularly regarding leaving property and how many days she can eturn. Make sure to document and find out State laws for voice recordings. Good luck. Remember the root if this is pure evil.
Yup. Mine wanted to bring me food all of a sudden. Then he wanted to bring me a gun. Then he was suddenly “Sorry, I know how you feel now losing your church”... (which he drove me out from!) 1-2-3 strikes yer OUT Narc! No, No,.. No you don’t. He knows I’m choosing NOBODY over him. 😂
I was just laid off from work and up just awhile ago when I started watching these videos I could never really put my finger on why the people who where in charge at my former place of employment where in charge . MIND blowing how the company hand picked the most narcissistic people imaginable to be team leaders [ Forman , etc ] I was paid very well for what I did but the arrogance towards anything new that would make things better or easier or more productive was always met with an almost disdain response and if anyone of them where proven wrong that’s when the back stabbing began . Ive always appreciated someone who was smarter than me just knowing if I ran into a problem I had trouble with there was someone who I could turn to to get a new prospective. 13 years with that company and ill miss my coworkers but its a mixed blessing . Not having to prove myself all the time is such a relief . I have a huge experience base to go on in my trade so I’m not to worried about finding a job but I will miss my friends I had there . Now there’s a case study if there ever was one .
They get into these positions for a few reasons one being they are really good at selling themselves and because of their love of control they make 'good' leaders but not really if you know what I mean.
Hi Brad...I just remembered I didn't finish commenting. Sorry that you were laid off work. I wish you all the best for the future with your new found knowledge of these heartless beings. Peace and blessings💖
My narcissist partner did the opposite ,used the opportunity of this time of stress , knowing that I need his help for shopping and care of the children and emotional support , as I work in the front line of covid19 , to kick me out the house with my children and cut all contact with me, blocking me in all the ways. He said that does not need my drama and he is more at peace by himself.
It's so much worse for the narcissists he can't get his Supply can't go to the bar and pick up anybody so he decided to hoover me by calling my number which I have blocked him for the last year-and-a-half then he found out where I was staying, to make a long story short I got a protection order. Let him suffer alone without supply. Such Agony for the narcissist
My covert narcissist has tried to get back with me day after lockdown...I already knew it was coming...they are really predictable. I know him better than he knows himself. I'm immuned to him!
This so true. The vulnerable narcissist whom I separated from is driving Uber now. Her pharmacy job is not supplying them as one video I watched, narcissist don't like sick people. Her driving Uber gives the opportunity to garner narcissistic supply from her passengers while leaving my children alone at home. Yes indeed this COVID 19 is effecting her and from what I saw in her Instagram messages to friends and her old supply. Isolation is purely leaving her anxious, stressed and loosing control of her false self.
@Reginald Dove I know what you are doing and what you want to do it does not matter to me anymore because I don't want any thing else to do with you and I hope you realize that they are only making sure that you are going to be a f for them
She dont want to get sick and dont like sick people but chose to drive Uber where she wont know if her passengers have it and can spread it to her faster in close quarters driving them to locations.🤨 Narcissists can portray being smart but will show you and prove the very opposite.
I was thinking this as well. That they, he may very well be finding ways to break through your no contact. And pretend to want to help you. And they will be finding ways to exploit this time of pandemic, for their own well being some how. That's what they do.
Haha the Narc I am detaching from now - has been playing “sick” since the COVID started in March - he has even called out of work and told his boss he might have COVID - meanwhile he is out and about doing God knows what and smoking weed all day - what a loser - he also try’s to call me looking for sympathy saying he’s sick and he’s dying .... LOL!!!!! A day later calls and says he’s better and it’s rinse wash repeat - Thank God after 6 years I truly see him for what he is -
During those terrifying times,there is a positive which is social distancing! I read local stories of people yelling at clerks in supermarkets or when they receive online orders too late to their liking.Coverts are probably hooked on watching garbage MSM as well😂😂.
I'm going to state something that I heard on the Andy Griffith show. In reference to an old man that was so mean, Andy said "when he goes, he ain't gonna go like everybody else. He's just goin' to nasty away". That's a Narcissist!
It is so true! Amazing your explanation ability and skills. The speak velocity also is very helpfull for those who are not curently english speakers or readers. A great "Thank you, Clarice!"💐
The problem is that I'm in lockdown with the CN because I live with her. And she's sleeping just fine at night, however, I haven't slept in 7 days. I keep trying to. So, why can't I sleep? Because I'm on a nocturnal schedule and she knows this- which is why she talks on her phone and tablet EVERY day DIRECTLY outside my bedroom door, which is on a whole separate floor from her bedroom. Very, very loudly. She doesn't need to do that. And she certainly doesn't need to ask me passive-aggressively when I come out of my room each day, doubled over in pain: "How did you sleep?" I truly hate her. I mean that.
My x narc sent me a letter just before the quarrentine... I ignored .. I’m getting some secret pleasure in knowing he’s not getting his usual supply of women and having to face himself after my rejection. I swear this virus came so I wouldn’t go back!!
Don't get hoovered back they will make you pay for leaving in the first place they will promise you everything and then they will forget every promise they told you
My ex husband narc is a mental health nurse and told our children that Covid-19 is not a big deal and the media is blowing it out of proportion. Of course it doesn’t help that this is messing with his wedding plans next month in Kenya with his online foreign fiancé. He still thinks he is going, and hasn’t accepted that the travel restrictions apply to him...
I started listening and stopped at 1:1 to write this comment. I have for a number of years been the recipient of increasingly unwelcome overtures and predations on the part of a woman who happens to attend the same church as me. The last encounter was so harrowing that I decided to cut her completely out of my life. A few months later, church members' birthdays were marked at a certain point in the service, as every Sunday, and after the service I got into a conversation with a fellow-member and noticed this woman hovering in the background no doubt with the intention of resuming contact under the pretext of wishing me happy birthday. My anxiety level skyrocketed. Luckily, my interlocutor changed his position, so that I could no longer see her. By the time I'd finished my conversation, she had disappeared. I knew enough about her upbringing to attempt to put together some kind of a psychological profile and eventually had some sort of light-bulb moment ad started to explore the possibility that she had narcissistic personality disorder of the compensatory kind--or that she is at least on that spectrum. On the Wednesday before last, she phoned out of the blue under the pretext that she was phoning other church members due to the lock-down. Though I immediately switched into fight or flight mode, I was collected enough to tell her that I had no desire to speak to her and that this was because I didn't like the way she had spoken to me the last time we had had a conversation. Had kept to the script I prepared months ago, I would have said, "I'll get straight to the point. I do not wish to resume contact until you have provided answers to certain questions and until I have set appropriate boundaries". She claimed not to remember, which may be true or a lie. After the phone call, which was short, I googled "narcissism selective memory", which was enlightening. I also learnt the meaning of the word, "hoovering". It also occurred to me that I had at no point given her my number. I wonder how many others are being approached by narcs whom they've cut out of their lives at this time.
The way she responded claiming not to remember is typical of the covert narcissist. I covered that in my last video ruclips.net/video/Y9LAYZRFs8U/видео.html I am glad that you are learning and becoming wiser to their ways. Churches are filled with them, that's another video I have done😅 Peace and blessings to you! God Bless💖
I am no contact with my covert narcissistic sister for a year and a half. Since this outbreak, she has tried to contact me twice through email. She said that she loves me and is praying for me.
Reign I know the feeling! My dear cousin is calling me and texting, like crazy to make sure I’m ok! I finally had to text her back to let her know I’m fine and told her what’s wrong with me ignoring you & ur mother, you both do it to me all the time! Yep, I texted her that. She said I broke her heart. Ugh, what about mine all these years! Crazy, huh? I do feel a little guilty bcus this is forever that I’m cutting ties!
Pat Coco yep , unfortunately they are still acting up. I had a neighbor sit in her car a block me from getting through the drive way for 10 mins for no apparent reason. I also had an interview two weeks ago and stayed there for 2.5 hour only to tell me they are economizing smh
We live in the same building. I went no contact over 3 months ago. There are flying monkeys around but I use them to my advantage rather than allowing him being able to take advantage of me. The flying monkeys are not his friends, they simply want gossip. I'm confident he knows not to ever contact me or come near me. Do I care if he bashes me or attempts to ruin my reputation? No. It would be much easier for me to destroy his, and he's already made many enemies and he doesn't need one more. Listening to you keeps me on my toes.
I know one thing...if I get rid of the Dragon Lady Queen of the Narcs, I’ll never get married again. It’s been a progression over the last 30 years, and it took that much time for me to label her with this demonic disease. I just have one more college grad to move out. I’ll be gone gone bye bye and only my children will be able to reach me. I smile just thinking about it.
I experienced his hoover right away when the pandemic started. This is exactly his message: " I know and it’s obvious that you do not want to have any connection with me anymore and it’s understandable but I just want to know how are you and Axel ( my son ) is doing. How are you coping up with the pandemic, the lockdown, and the typhoon that just passed. I am not messaging you for us to reconnect nor rekindle what we had before I just really want to know how the both of you are doing." He messaged me for one year without my response so he tried to go into my house.. I did not open the door.
Look at those celebrity breakdowns, that's what happens to Narcessists during this. Expect a lot of online activity to try to reach out and stay relevant. Thankfully I still have my ex blocked, she can enjoy this time alone (or with the new supply) after my recent discard. What I will say is that be careful of hoovers after this is over. How many will come back turn on the charm and claim that the isolation "gave them perspective" about breaking up with people? Stay strong folks, stay no contact.
Wow yessss you said it be careful when this is over because they might come back with that false sense of charm , but to be honest I don’t think things will go back to normal.
FLUSH 'EM , PUT DOWN THE LID FIRST, NO FLASH BACK...THESE PEOPLE WOULD STEAL JESUS OFF THE CROSS...KARMA BUS NEVER FORGETS NOR RUN OUT OF GAS...SHE IS COMING FOR THAT SASS...
You nailed it sista! My 85yr dad doesnt even SPEAK to me on a regular basis. I moved in to help? watch out for him??. 9 months ago. I can tell you exactly all the fd up statements that have come out his mouth the last month alone. I'm quarantined in the same house with him... 🙄 I quarantine myself in garage/my cave on a regular basis cause he is toxic. I only go to my room to sleep after he FINALLY tires himself from monitoring me and finally goes to bed. I'm also almost knocking myself out with bleach and cleaning more just to keep from him bringing the virus IN to me! He just HAS to go out EVERYDAY ??no mask, no gloves, hand wipes etc. I'm wearing the gloves and mask outside and at stores. I keep a damp cloth to wipe fingerpfints, refrig..you name it. I am not fooled by him or my narc3rd degree sibling whio lives in LA. My other family members passed away. My mom 64 (2006).MS, brother 56(2018) stomach perforation and youngest sister 40(2006 aneurysm while sleeping) I'm 61 female the oldest. left with one sibling female 59 and dad. Both 3rd degree CORONONARCS! WITH GOD 24/7 it is possible. Neither have fooled me. And STILL I RISE! Peace everybody😇
I just had to cut off a covet narcissist right around when covid started to be reported back in February. So glad I did. This anxiety inducing enough as it is
HI CLARICE!THIS SHOULD BE GOOD!🤔SHE KNOWS WAAAAAY BETTER THAN TO CONTACT ME.SHE DIDN'T"BURN"THE BRIDGE SHE PUT 5 TONS OF NITROGLYCERINE SOME TNT,AND ADDED SOME C4 AND VAPORIZED THAT BRIDGE.SHE'S DEAD&BURIED TO ME!
My narc ex discarded me at height of pandemic. I couldn’t work and he put me in a dire financial situation to chase new supply out of his boredom. I was forced to sell the home and move on. I am starting to thrive again a year later. Last I heard, he’s an exposed, nearly homeless joke. I am grateful to have learned all about narcissistic abuse. I can never unsee this behavior.
This has already happend to me I was hoovered 28 April approx 1 year after being discarded this is the msg I received HIGH ITS BEEN AWHILE HOW ARE YOU XX there bored with what's going on in the world at the moment
Spot on, as usual. My narc brother already tried to Hoover me through this crises. I’m finished feeding him, and supporting him financially while he lies around playing on his phone. I so recognized the Hoover, thanks to this channel and others...Angie
I'm still living with one, and you on point he's doing exactly that, even started praying for few minutes, helping to clean washed dishes, but keeping the kids up at all night.
So on point: their niceness is only temporary until they slip up again. The covert narcs in my life started contacting me out of the blue... my initial hunch was “stay away, they want narcissistic supply.” On top of the pandemic, Global Warming will cause mass migrations. I’m pretty sure (as the covert narcissists in other people’s families will do the same), they’re only reaching out especially, in particular, if they live in expensive beach front homes that will be underwater-these people shouldn’t/won’t be surprised that the Narcs will come around and exploit-they’ll probably do what colonialists do and find a way to kick you out of your own place where you share with others just so they can secure their spot, and scapegoat their narc supply. 💯
My ex narcs place was apparently like Piccadilly Circus during the national lockdown, a constant stream of girls in and out of his home, absolute dirty b*stard, he still wants copious amounts of supply during a whole pandemic smh... I was given the unsolicited information by a neighbour of his 🙄🤨
I just would like to say that was super Hilarious!!! They posses especially weak character!!! I just couldn't stop laughing!!! Thanks for your insight!
Im cutting the strings! I’m not planning to be anybody’s therapist or psychologist making them feel good! I’m taking care of myself in my peaceful and calming home! I’ll let her get her narc supply from ALL her Facebook so called friends and pretend family! Seriously, I’ve been ghosted many times and ignored when she’s in town. Why care about MY well being now?
True.I'm not a shrink either but they'll use u to feel good When they can't get supply from u they go on social media and trash ppl for reaction and supply ! ..LOL😂
My ex narc used this COVID/ “ lock down” to discarded my replacement. I knew he was going to do that cause her “ 7 month” was up. She didn’t know... I did. Now he’s on Social dating sites right where he belongs. Swimming with the Piranhas.🐟
I just found your channel and it's great. I love this video very much,all of the things said is true. I went no contact 9 months ago and never looked back, doors are locked for life. These beings are truly evil, demonic, and the only place they are going is in the lake of fire,where they won't be able to hurt another soul. EMPATHS STAY WOKE AT THIS TIME!!!
@@komaweig89 thanks for the information, but won't need it. My attorney's have been on the job now,over two years. They and the agency they work with won't share with me what they have gathered. I'm in good hands,I will share your information with others who need that kind of help. I walked out almost 10 months ago and never felt healthier, satisfied, PEACEFUL.
Haven’t heard from my narcissistic ex yet, because she’s got a rebound feeding her the supply. I am sure if he wasn’t there I would’ve heard back weeks ago. 😂
It just happened two days ago she msged me saying she's worried about me and that she loves me, misses me and telling me let's fix things, when she was the one who discarded me suddenly 2 months ago with no viable reason, just thrown me like trash giving me no closure.. I felt disgust and disturbed so I blocked her on social media and phone and I never felt better after now to me she doesn't exist anymore but truth is that person I knew never really existed because it was all fake, just a mere illusion to deceive us
In a comment under the Magic Prepper channel, a few months ago, I mentioned narcissistic marauders. In the Prepper community, the worry has been marauders during a SHTF situation. People who will come, packing weapons, to break in, while you’re at home, to eat your food preps, take your supplies and even kill and eat you, if necessary. I think my comment was cause for concern for some as, that is the picture they have in their heads, in regards to marauders. That it is an obvious and abrupt situation. But, perhaps, it’s possible that more people know about prepping, than they do about narcissism. I explained that there is what I’d consider to be the “soft marauder”. My neighbor, as I’d mentioned about before, might be one of them. That they would be the soft, slow, insidious and imperceptible ones, that are on what’s called the “long con”. They may be working within this pandemic dynamic or they may be planning ahead for personal SHTF. But, they may pick a target, maybe even while things are still going somewhat well or at least appear to be so. They don’t come packing weapons an attitude. They come with a plan. They want to become a friendly face, so that when SHTF, they already have their foot wedged in your door. They’re the friendly face you can’t turn away, from a warm meal or bed. They may have also found out that you’re a Prepper so, they may even feel that they will redirect you to doing the Christian thing, like share your preps with them and to whomever else they’d like to scream to, from the mountain tops, unless they’d like to keep you and what you have, solely, for themselves. Some of these people are narcissistic parents and other narcissistic family members. They’ll try to hoover you, using the word “family”, as long as it is in their interest. They’ll use virtue and victim signaling to ensure a one way beneficial relationship. And, as per some of the stories I’ve heard on the Dave Ramsey channel, once they’re in, they may even tell you that it’ll take a court order to get them out. They weren’t looking for a meal and a night’s stay. But a place to live. They were looking for there to be home, at your place, all day, everyday, while you worked your tail off and they helped themselves to your preps. They like to setup shop and establish normalcy to it, for you and they’ll work on stretching out time or negating it altogether, if you’ve got the wherewithal to tell them they are leaving in 1 month or 6 months. There’ll be a reason you can’t push them out the door every time. You may quickly find yourself, even as a Prepper, being overtaken by a master survivalist, that has psychologically, emotionally, physically and financially enmeshed themselves into your life. This is one of the reasons why, although I don’t know enough about my neighbor, to actually call her a narcissist, there was ZERO chance I was leaving myself open to another round of narcissism, after dealing with my mother and, now, possibly with someone I work for. One has to not simply look out upon the world, but also see how the world seems to look upon them. While I know I’m a person who can self advocate pretty well, I know that most of the world sees me as a single, black woman, who possibly has some smarts and resources, that they need to latch onto. That I’ll be sold the, “You are just so smart.” BS, to massage my ego, for the specific purpose of making me “feel good” and coercing me to do more for them. That they don’t know that I know that they’re simply looking at me, as a resource to take advantage of. That not having a husband and children and having a decent job, according to them, means I should be sharing any good fortune I have and that they’ll decide what to do with my time. So, there’s more than the narcissists that are described in your video and they will look at hard times in a different, even more opportunistic light. You won’t find yourself at the end of a gun barrel with them. But at the end of a kitchen table, thinking how you’ll get them out of here, while they’re thinking that you’ll be gone, before them.
Holy crap...the same.thing happened to me. Which is why I'm quick to not be friends without getting to know people after a LONG time. I refuse to be used. I don't need validation from the world and don't care if they call me mean, they just need to stay the fk away from me.
@@icalotdonthide2646 I fixed those typos. It was hardly intelligible. But, these situations play out A LOT. You’re not the first to say that the same or similar has happened to you. The only reason you don’t hear about it more, is because so many more people have no idea what is actually happening and a good majority of us have been raised and groomed to not know the difference between helping someone and being used and abused. That “boundaries” is an ugly and cold word, never to be uttered. My narcissistic mother passed a few weeks ago and I do believe my neighbor has MS. But, it still doesn’t negate that there was more than “neediness” that I saw coming from that neighbor. While she’d asked for my help a couple of years ago, before things turned worse for her, I’d seen all sorts of red flags and I’d gotten the sense that her “asking” did not at all mean that I had the option of saying no and that she’d already “decided” that she’d start me off on something small, to groom me to eventually spin like a top for her, no matter my own life and that I was a convenience and building perk, for someone who, even knowing they may become ill, did nothing to mitigate her circumstance, because she felt I lived in her attic, rather than a separate tenant above her. She is also not the first to assume I’m a building perk. But, this neighbor not only adopted a dog that she could not care for, but tried to get another neighbor to convince me to do for her, including to care for the dog. You have to look at the entirety of the picture and in the long run to understand. I’d be caring for her untrained Labrador, with a knee injury, no matter the weather, like clockwork, walking him probably morning and night, while she watched TV. It was to not only to get me to say yes circuitously, but, to have me on a daily schedule. Lastly, she wanted my phone number, to give to her husband, who’s imprisoned for the double murder of a woman and her child. Yeah, no, not interested. But, it is up to the individual to discern people, keep up good solid boundaries, be self sufficient so you don’t cross other’s boundaries and watch for those friendly, smiling faces. Not everyone is evil. But, the world is structured in such a way, where there is predator and prey and, if you’re a good person, you must try to be what Jordan Peterson calls a positive monster, where you have the wherewithal to kick the crap out of someone, but not use it. That you simply protect yourself. The reality of life is that, on several levels in society, there are people who look at others, for the sole purpose of their own consumption. They don’t have any empathy for you and the lens through which they see you, is how they can manipulate, groom and even carve you up, so their needs are met. It can be so much a part of them, that they become perplexed and angered as to why, like cattle, you won’t comply, with your own demise. BTW, this also applies to those relatives that moved in for a minute, just to stay overnight. Only, it’s been years, you’ve been working hard to feed them, they’ve aged out of even looking like they should be job hunting and that was because they’d long decided that you were going to be their sustenance, their healthcare and eldercare plan. You were the one who didn’t get the memo. Sorry this happened to you. But, you’re hardly alone.✌🏽
They are knocking at ours doors duri g this pandemic because it's getting real boring at home. It's harder to cover their tracks because their isn't too many places to go. Alot of the new/primary supply are probably seeing more of what they are. Daily routines help them. They are desperately seeking ways to escape. An ex narc of mine popped up recently. It was so funny to me. Send those dogs back where they came from.
Whoa you nailed it😆 my covert claims to be helpless yet yet so wise they can tell you how your existence should be to serve. Any attempts to prove your situation is met with gaslighting and yes I just got the nondescript apology today - Hello Angela. Hope things are going well for you and yours! I am sorry for my part in our estrangement. Please forgive me as I have forgiven you. Are you still going to be participating in the garden? Just let me know what your thoughts on that. I simply paid for all the dirt and plants because she is dysfunctional in a toxic relationship yet she wants me to plant all the plants as well after insisting what she really wanted was a community garden. Covid covert alert 😆
Approx 10 days ago I figured out that my narc sister is stalking me on fb. She wrote me that she has several people who check what I post on fb and they report it to my sister. I guess this is going on like this since several years. I got so angry and also had a flashback (C-PTSD from mentalabuse). I blocked everyone on fb who also knows my sister.
@@SN-bl6xm I very seldom receive FB requests anymore. The Narc has me blocked on FB. I quit looking at his NS social media. I just thank my blessings now that God saved me from what could've been a very bad situation.
@@tinac6114 Everyone who doesn’t have any evil narcissists, psychopaths or sociopaths in their life should feel blessed. They can be very dangerous and some even kill people. My dad was, most probably killed by my brother. I just know, from my sister (she told me 5 years ago), that my dad fell and hurt his head badly and lost lots of blood. My sister and my brother decided not to take my dad to the hospital and not to call a ambulance. My dad passed away 3 days later from the injury’s. I know my siblings were desperate in need of money, or the inheritance. My brother who would beat us up from time to time, most probably pushed my dad so he would fall. I am happy for you that you are not together with your ex narc anymore. I moved to a different continent, a 11 hour flight from where I grew up and where my siblings live. I was doing good with healing until 10 days ago. Finding out that there a several people I was friends on Facebook, reported to my sister what I post on fb. It seems they sent my narc sister print screens of what I have shared on fb. Well I now deactivated my fb account.
@@SN-bl6xm wow! I'm so sorry. Narcissist are so destructive! This is the first one I know I had ever dealt with. Our relationship was very brief. He couldn't control me therefore he put the other woman he had begun grooming exact same day as me in my place. She look left her hubby & 4 young daughters for him & his 3 young kids. Its amazing what they are capable of talking someone into.
He thinks he is immune. Don't care. Going out and around anyway, and I asked him not to for safety reasons, he did it anyway. His friends used computer he needed help with was more important.
You raised very interesting and insightful points about the CN during this pandemic. Thank you. For certain being isolated will be a huge challenge. Yes they will be making sure their needs are met. They will use this pandemic to get supply. Ie first responder in a small town.
“ THEY “ are the GREATEST PLAGUE on this EARTH 🌍
They are a blight to humanity. I pray the judgment 9f the Lord reigns on them for all the danger and misery they bring.
Yes. This is accurate.
Spot on ! Try exploitation now with all con artists on lockdown the traffickers are more likely to get caught - it disrupts and makes it increasingly difficult to run any dodgey networks 👍
That was the most honest thing I have heard in a long time!!!
who's "THEY ?
I'm being hoovered as I type, he needs a place to stay. No thank you, goodbye forever narcissists
GOOD GIRL 👊🏼.I was saying to a friend that i feel sorry for Empaths who didnt get rid of living with the Narc b4 lockdown .They WILL live off their HOST & take you for every penny You have .then Blame the situation of lockdown & not having anywhere to go & besides .....YOU invited them in so it's YOUR FAULT .Thank GOD you havnt let him make YOU responsible for him staying with you .you would NOT OF GOT RID OF THE FREELOADER
@@debouradeboura3499 is correct, I'm finally waking up. He needs to disappear and never come back
Ayeee Diamond Princess Pussy, I need a place to stay too!😁
Haha good for you I love the way they rely on your Humanity but they show you none
@@diamond_holistics Give them a silent treatment never looked back ever.
Narcissist roommate would keep coming in and out of my apartment. Gone for 5 days then back again. When I got home from a walk she had been in my bedroom. I asked her where is the respect? That's when she started insulting me and coughing in my face saying COVID-19 over and over. I went outside to gather myself when I heard a loud crash. She smashed my Buddha altar that was sitting on an antique mirror into a million pieces. I had to call the cops. They gave her a citation and escorted her out. She didn't pay April rent and wasn't on the lease so I had no qualms about making her leave. Now I can finally feel safe in my home. This video helped me understand why they feel so out of control.
I was dumb enough to contact my narcissistic, and asked if he remembered me and to be safe and take care being out with the virus and all the protestors. He replied back and said “can’t say I do, but thanks” it was then when I realized he is a horrible man wanting validation and an ego boost. Lesson learned.
Beware the covert narcissist. If they think you will leave them, your life may be on the line. When you express concern for your health, and they smirk, it may be your only warning.
Wow!! I am in preparation mode in cutting ties to a covert narcissist who is aware that I am cutting ties but I don't care of the repercussion. I am suffocating! Blessings
This is absolutely true. It happened to me. Every word you wrote plus more, turned out to be eerily true. Pray for all narc survivors.
@@marciaheadley9933 January, in a snowbank, penniless, with seven cats on leashes, became a better option than another second with the narc.
I still agree, many years later.
Just Go No Contact!!
As a scapegoated, blacksheep, empath, I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I even shed a few joyful tears. God is in control. Thats all I need for comfort. God bless you and yours dear, sweet lady. Keep up the awesome work. Subscribed☺👍
I'm the scapegoat youngest daughter of a narcissistic family.... I went No Contact about 4 years ago and my life is more peaceful and happy.... even though I'm alone ... I am at PEACE..God is in Control.... I know they don't like being alone... turnabout is fair play..
While I don't believe in envy or jealousy, I cherish your happiness and freedom, for you. I can imagine how liberated and peaceful that must be. Like all the angels at once, "aaaaaahhhhhh!(in the key of G) Thats so awesome to my ears/eyes to see someone who's been through it, knows their destruction/evil, and is now free of it. Thank you Tammy, for sharing your experience and joy with me. It a actually lifted me a lil' bit. I'm not quite free of toxic family members yet. But I can definitely see soon, a Godly, peaceful life without them. Thanks again Tammy. BTW: With God/Jesus, we're never truly alone. God bless you and yours.❤☺🙏👍
@@nailazion2600 😉
Thank you! Welcome Heavy Joe💖
@@heavyjoechipman3594 Im not free yet but been trying.
They will love it if you tell them you can't find toilet paper. They will pretend they care but they don't. And if they don't have toilet paper they will expect you to give them some. If there's ever a food shortage they will expect you to give them your food but if you need food they won't give you any. Stay away from them all the more during this time! NO CONTACT.
How true, how true of the narcs! They're always playing this toxic game so get off contacts with them and let them chase their own tails, hahaha!
They rely on your Humanity but they show you none isn't it interesting how your emotions don't matter to them
Oh you're so right about them! The toilet paper and food really rang a bell for me....he expected me to provide these things for him....we were not in any kind of relationship!!
Covert narcissists and overt narcissists are the same. An overt only becomes covert because they are scared of punishment or social consequences of their behaviors. When the narcissist feels free to display their ways without receiving punishment they will be more overt about it. Example: head of the household will show their nasty behaviors behind closed doors to their family away from public view. In public they will behave and put on a show to look well mannered and charming.
I actually addressed something along this line in my video Covert Narcissism - 2 Things Everyone Should Knowruclips.net/video/RaobPGJFoso/видео.html
EXACTLY-
I think you're right, my husband during our first year of marriage, 3 months after I had delivered our first born child....He slapped me, he slapped me a couple of months again. We then moved from our developing country to USA still on that first year with our then 8 months son. Upon arriving in USA he never again beat me up. I have only started learning about narcissistic abuse six months ago, my dad I now understand is a malignant narcissist & am the scapegoat child, my mom is a codependent and I have been a codependent all this time. I truly think my husband went from overt to covert and I was thinking he changed lol, when I started learning about all these I started explaining to him because I thought he is good but I saw the range.
Your comment is so spot on!
Spot on!
💯 Fakers!
This must be true ... broke up with the narc over a mth ago and received a msg yesterday... “I missed a call private number was that you?” ... no supply, no sports, no friends, the narc’s slowly suffocating
Narcissists can not be alone, need personal contact and need their gossip group to function so they can continue their mayhem. They work multiple groups of people at a time and this is near impossible to do while sheltering in place. Their victims may also notice they are experiencing a better life sans narc and may call triangulated friends which will wake them up to the narc among them. We may see many of them,purposely get sick, try to get others sick so watch out if you are sheltering in place with a narc.
Yes Exactly. Its Daily harassment of fear based mentality to keep control
😳Wheeww❗Never thought about it like That.. 😢 WoW! Thanks for that Info.
Not always. The schizoid type is different.
Thank God we had an argument and I decided to stay at mine instead. Lord, the peace! Thank you!
They're bored. They've lost their "toys."They need their toys so that they don't descend into the abyss.
Narcissists can't stand on their own two metaphorical feet; they keel right over. They need their crutch!
I guess that's what happens when you have arrested ego development.
Absolutely! Mine hovered me after almost 3 years leaving me flowers and love notes saying “I miss us”. Disturbing.
So accurate...they think they are the untouchables.....but we are all the same in God's eyes...and they need to learn that.....lol
karen watson they will never learn
My grandiose ex father in law to be just had to pay 1400€ because he was not wearing a mask on places he had to 😂😂😂😂
Yes we are all born equal, as it should be
GOD KNOWS the NARCISSIST wicked vile reprobate heart.
Blessings
Exactly.
My narc ex tried to reach out with fake concern, it's been years since I went no contact... Ignored him
Same here. She reached out after 18 mos radio silence. Talking about I just hope you're okay. Yeah sure. You just know I'm still working and you can't find work because you're 35yo and still serving tables.
yes I noticed this. fake concern
My father a textbook Narc has been texting me every day "I miss you" "Do you need anything?" "Are you ok?" And to an outsider he just looks like a concerned father but if you know him at all you know he's trying to manufacture a scenerio where he can swoop in and be the hero by providing me with supplies (he's already offered me lysol wipes and toilet paper. Which i don't need) OR create a narrative where he's a sad lonely victim of circumstance to attempt to get me to drop everything and pay attention to him. He's so desperate for narcassictic supply and he's not getting any.
Sucks to suck my dude. I don't miss you, I don't need you, I don't want to talk to you.
Author Erica Hogan same with mine. Concern about the kids. Lol. My relpy: I have. I concerns.
Nothing more. But I did then have to discuss one child and mentioned how stressful these times are and OMG. he isn’t stressed, their home is good, they ask the kids every day! Don’t imply he is taking this lightly. Lmao defensive much???
Same here. My ex narc tried to contact me and with fake concern and tried to connect with me tru my bestfriend. Told my bestfriend im ok and way so much better without my narc ex. And I'm at peace...
Covert narcissist are thinking about how they look to others and what they can get out of situation. I would agree they can be very robotic.
My ex narc was like a zombie robot!,,,,
Ms. U Are EXACTLY Right About EVERYTHING You're Saying. I can't believe it•It's like you have a Crystal Ball or Something. I can give so many examples to illustrate how on point you are but I don't want to write an overly long msg so I will just give one... She Is EXTREMELY Heartless ANY Other Time & Doesn't Care or Respond to ANYTHING I say or if I "complain" about something she did or didn't do•But Sunday when she woke up she was a COMPLETELY Different person•Talking Nice to me & doing things I like like Cleaning Up & just Behaving like a Human Being-I didn't even think she could act like this anymore since she's been so Evil for so long•But the icing on the cake was when I said one of my Usual "complaints" that she Usually IGNORES or BLAMESHIFTS about and she said "I'M SORRY"•I couldn't believe what I was hearing but I kept my cool & didn't "Praise" her for her "Good Behavior" like I use to do in the past because I'm TOTALLY DONE with her & I Knew this was all a Trick because she's Losing Her Mind because of this Virus & your Video just CONFIRMED IT•When this is all over with & the traveling ban is lifted I'm Moving halfway across The Country to get away from her & Never Looking Back•She Has No Idea I'm Leaving so I Know this is gonna Crush Her-My Only Solace After Suffering Three Years Of Complete TORTURE............
Unbelievable. This channel is so enlightening. I love how she speaks and teaches. I've gained a lot from this channel. I relate too well to what she is saying. I grew up with Narcs.
Michael
... Is that you..? 🤔
I think this really helps me with knowing if I've been dealing with a covert narcissist or a covert psychopath. This person is loving covid, especially lockdown. She finds it really stimulating, all the drama, horror and all the weirdness. She's really calm, calmer than I've seen for years. She seems incredibly alive. She's just in her absolute element. I think she's a psychopath, not a covert narcissist. Thank you.
Sure sounds like it!
My exwife covert narcissist which as alienated my son for over 4 yrs recently texted me saying all communication needs to be open? Strange I thought. I think I'm gonna use this to make her more insane a little payback because shes a teacher stuck at home , while I'm a trucker out an about ! Thank you! Made my day
@Tina L. Ja shes fkn vicious wow I cant believe I used to share a bed w her for 11 yrs it freaks me out , my son is 14 she lies day and night but I dont argue anymore because my son ends up paying for it ! She treats him like her buddy not her son , I on the other hand talk to him like a father and he likes that kids have friends they need parents, she is gonna regret everything when hes independent adult w my guidance ofcourse, I dont say anything bad about her because hes still brainwashed but he will snap out of it. Everytime I'm w him a give him another piece to the puzzle very subtle hints or clues , thanks for your input, hows your friend now ?
Narcissist during the pandemic is forced to loose his grandiosity he becomes common like everyone else and faces the same consequences of the pandemic this causes narcissistic injury and mortification.
Agreed
It didn't stress the narcissist in my life, it gave them a tool to controll and condemn the people around them
I returned home this week from a long business trip of many days to discover that my wife/CN had moved some furniture, household items, and personal belongings out of the house. When I completed unloading my car I was inform that she had somethings important to discuss with me and wanted me to come into the living room and sit down. I was then informed that "for personal health reasons" that she was "temporarily moving out for at least 30 days". Of course she had to
provide me with one more ding of devaluation and claim that I was the reasons for issues in our marriage of 25+ years. She then got up gathered a few more things and departed. I feel relieved because she left me and our marriage long ago. Only her body remained and now that is gone and there is peace in my house. I am relieved and she is not missed.
However, I expect her to attempt to return in a few weeks or gain access to my home to take more things away whenever she is certain that I am not about. She has already enlisted our youngest as one of her flying monkeys and a reporter of my activities. The irony is that before I departed over a week ago she informed me that she was lazy and selfish which is why she historically did not take positive and responsible actions. While gone I reflected on the fact that this personal declaration was the most honest that she has ever been in our25+ year marriage. I wish her well where ever she is, but not with me.
"It is better for a man to sit on the corner of his rooftop than to live in a house with a contentious woman".Proverbs 25:24. God took her out for a reason sir. It may be a sign he wants you to do something. Only you would know what that is. Bless
She is trying to keep a window open by putting a time stamp (30 days) on it. Whatever her real reason is for leaving she wants to be able to come back if necessary. So blaming you for her leaving and saying it's temporary it's all part of the game. She will be shocked when she realises there is no coming back!
Peace and blessings for the future💖
Sir this is a blessing! Pray for your child. continually. Write down (diary) all she is doing. This is
"abandonment." Secure a lawyer asap.
You better take the dangerous and DECEPTIVE intents of a narcissist seriously. Make sure to get legal help and advice asap. Particularly regarding leaving property and how many days she can eturn. Make sure to document and find out State laws for voice recordings. Good luck. Remember the root if this is pure evil.
Change the locks ASAP
Yup. Mine wanted to bring me food all of a sudden. Then he wanted to bring me a gun. Then he was suddenly “Sorry, I know how you feel now losing your church”... (which he drove me out from!) 1-2-3 strikes yer OUT Narc! No, No,.. No you don’t. He knows I’m choosing NOBODY over him. 😂
I was just laid off from work and up just awhile ago when I started watching these videos I could never really put my finger on why the people who where in charge at my former place of employment where in charge . MIND blowing how the company hand picked the most narcissistic people imaginable to be team leaders [ Forman , etc ] I was paid very well for what I did but the arrogance towards anything new that would make things better or easier or more productive was always met with an almost disdain response and if anyone of them where proven wrong that’s when the back stabbing began . Ive always appreciated someone who was smarter than me just knowing if I ran into a problem I had trouble with there was someone who I could turn to to get a new prospective. 13 years with that company and ill miss my coworkers but its a mixed blessing . Not having to prove myself all the time is such a relief . I have a huge experience base to go on in my trade so I’m not to worried about finding a job but I will miss my friends I had there . Now there’s a case study if there ever was one .
They get into these positions for a few reasons one being they are really good at selling themselves and because of their love of control they make 'good' leaders but not really if you know what I mean.
Hi Brad...I just remembered I didn't finish commenting. Sorry that you were laid off work. I wish you all the best for the future with your new found knowledge of these heartless beings. Peace and blessings💖
Yeah, they have a problem to every solution! The Narc I know same story!
I wonder if we could invent some kind of Narcissist test for publicly elected people ?
It might be less cumbersome to identify the few politicians who aren't narcissistic!
Compare them to TRUMP...
They need their own continent.
My narcissist partner did the opposite ,used the opportunity of this time of stress , knowing that I need his help for shopping and care of the children and emotional support , as I work in the front line of covid19 , to kick me out the house with my children and cut all contact with me, blocking me in all the ways. He said that does not need my drama and he is more at peace by himself.
Sorry to hear that. He sounds more like a sociopath.
I pray safety for you and children at this difficult time💞
@@ExposingtheNarcissist thanks ,i apreciate that.
Brother (only sibling) just died and he choose burial day to hit me with house bills.
Which he has been managing.
I understand they choose giving caring people. Found out too late, must cope
Be strong. We are grateful for the work you are doing.
It's so much worse for the narcissists he can't get his Supply can't go to the bar and pick up anybody so he decided to hoover me by calling my number which I have blocked him for the last year-and-a-half then he found out where I was staying, to make a long story short I got a protection order.
Let him suffer alone without supply. Such Agony for the narcissist
My covert narcissist has tried to get back with me day after lockdown...I already knew it was coming...they are really predictable. I know him better than he knows himself. I'm immuned to him!
Yes so predictable and boring lol
@Darth Revan totally agree with that!!!
They are curling up in the fetal position.
😂😂👊
This so true. The vulnerable narcissist whom I separated from is driving Uber now. Her pharmacy job is not supplying them as one video I watched, narcissist don't like sick people.
Her driving Uber gives the opportunity to garner narcissistic supply from her passengers while leaving my children alone at home. Yes indeed this COVID 19 is effecting her and from what I saw in her Instagram messages to friends and her old supply. Isolation is purely leaving her anxious, stressed and loosing control of her false self.
@Reginald Dove I know what you are doing and what you want to do it does not matter to me anymore because I don't want any thing else to do with you and I hope you realize that they are only making sure that you are going to be a f for them
Praise the Lord 🙌
She dont want to get sick and dont like sick people but chose to drive Uber where she wont know if her passengers have it and can spread it to her faster in close quarters driving them to locations.🤨
Narcissists can portray being smart but will show you and prove the very opposite.
I was thinking this as well.
That they, he may very well be finding ways to break through your no contact.
And pretend to want to help you.
And they will be finding ways to exploit this time of pandemic, for their own well being some how.
That's what they do.
Haha the Narc I am detaching from now - has been playing “sick” since the COVID started in March - he has even called out of work and told his boss he might have COVID - meanwhile he is out and about doing God knows what and smoking weed all day - what a loser - he also try’s to call me looking for sympathy saying he’s sick and he’s dying .... LOL!!!!! A day later calls and says he’s better and it’s rinse wash repeat - Thank God after 6 years I truly see him for what he is -
Good you see it.
During those terrifying times,there is a positive which is social distancing! I read local stories of people yelling at clerks in supermarkets or when they receive online orders too late to their liking.Coverts are probably hooked on watching garbage MSM as well😂😂.
I'm going to state something that I heard on the Andy Griffith show. In reference to an old man that was so mean, Andy said "when he goes, he ain't gonna go like everybody else. He's just goin' to nasty away". That's a Narcissist!
They can do what my mother does..go out and thrive on the attention of being a rebel.
It’s like poetic justice. 😂
It is so true! Amazing your explanation ability and skills. The speak velocity also is very helpfull for those who are not curently english speakers or readers. A great "Thank you, Clarice!"💐
If they have an excuse to be in the slightest bit vulnerable, expect them to expect you to put them first and play the victim
The problem is that I'm in lockdown with the CN because I live with her. And she's sleeping just fine at night, however, I haven't slept in 7 days. I keep trying to. So, why can't I sleep? Because I'm on a nocturnal schedule and she knows this- which is why she talks on her phone and tablet EVERY day DIRECTLY outside my bedroom door, which is on a whole separate floor from her bedroom. Very, very loudly. She doesn't need to do that. And she certainly doesn't need to ask me passive-aggressively when I come out of my room each day, doubled over in pain: "How did you sleep?" I truly hate her. I mean that.
And I forgot to add that she's a teacher- so we'll likely be doing this for several more months and I absolutely cannot survive until then.
You will have to be direct and let her know she can't be doing it anymore. It's the only way.
Exposing the Narcissist I'll be honest: I'm terrified of her. That's how she gets away with it.
@@TheNikki284 Have you seen this vid ruclips.net/video/3Wa_06YYvJo/видео.html
Exposing the Narcissist No, I haven't seen that one yet; thank you! I will check it out right now
My x narc sent me a letter just before the quarrentine... I ignored .. I’m getting some secret pleasure in knowing he’s not getting his usual supply of women and having to face himself after my rejection. I swear this virus came so I wouldn’t go back!!
I said the same thing. Covid was the best thing to happen to me to dump the narc and not look back
Don't get hoovered back they will make you pay for leaving in the first place they will promise you everything and then they will forget every promise they told you
My ex husband narc is a mental health nurse and told our children that Covid-19 is not a big deal and the media is blowing it out of proportion.
Of course it doesn’t help that this is messing with his wedding plans next month in Kenya with his online foreign fiancé. He still thinks he is going, and hasn’t accepted that the travel restrictions apply to him...
Some are too proud and delusional to accept that their plans will have to change. Reality will soon set in....
Actually he is completely right. Stop watching TV
He reached out after 6 months. Definitely agree with what you say. Use this time wisely.
I started listening and stopped at 1:1 to write this comment. I have for a number of years been the recipient of increasingly unwelcome overtures and predations on the part of a woman who happens to attend the same church as me. The last encounter was so harrowing that I decided to cut her completely out of my life.
A few months later, church members' birthdays were marked at a certain point in the service, as every Sunday, and after the service I got into a conversation with a fellow-member and noticed this woman hovering in the background no doubt with the intention of resuming contact under the pretext of wishing me happy birthday. My anxiety level skyrocketed. Luckily, my interlocutor changed his position, so that I could no longer see her. By the time I'd finished my conversation, she had disappeared.
I knew enough about her upbringing to attempt to put together some kind of a psychological profile and eventually had some sort of light-bulb moment ad started to explore the possibility that she had narcissistic personality disorder of the compensatory kind--or that she is at least on that spectrum.
On the Wednesday before last, she phoned out of the blue under the pretext that she was phoning other church members due to the lock-down. Though I immediately switched into fight or flight mode, I was collected enough to tell her that I had no desire to speak to her and that this was because I didn't like the way she had spoken to me the last time we had had a conversation.
Had kept to the script I prepared months ago, I would have said, "I'll get straight to the point. I do not wish to resume contact until you have provided answers to certain questions and until I have set appropriate boundaries".
She claimed not to remember, which may be true or a lie. After the phone call, which was short, I googled "narcissism selective memory", which was enlightening. I also learnt the meaning of the word, "hoovering". It also occurred to me that I had at no point given her my number. I wonder how many others are being approached by narcs whom they've cut out of their lives at this time.
The way she responded claiming not to remember is typical of the covert narcissist. I covered that in my last video ruclips.net/video/Y9LAYZRFs8U/видео.html
I am glad that you are learning and becoming wiser to their ways. Churches are filled with them, that's another video I have done😅 Peace and blessings to you! God Bless💖
My narc mother has made sure that none of her children get on with each other
I am no contact with my covert narcissistic sister for a year and a half. Since this outbreak, she has tried to contact me twice through email. She said that she loves me and is praying for me.
Reign I’m 12 years away I forgive but I’ll love her from a distance
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Reign I know the feeling! My dear cousin is calling me and texting, like crazy to make sure I’m ok! I finally had to text her back to let her know I’m fine and told her what’s wrong with me ignoring you & ur mother, you both do it to me all the time! Yep, I texted her that. She said I broke her heart. Ugh, what about mine all these years! Crazy, huh?
I do feel a little guilty bcus this is forever that I’m cutting ties!
Before my cousin calls the health police on me. I had to answer the darn text! To Tell her to stop, I’m ok!
Pat Coco yep , unfortunately they are still acting up. I had a neighbor sit in her car a block me from getting through the drive way for 10 mins for no apparent reason. I also had an interview two weeks ago and stayed there for 2.5 hour only to tell me they are economizing smh
All I hear is his victim mentality
We live in the same building. I went no contact over 3 months ago. There are flying monkeys around but I use them to my advantage rather than allowing him being able to take advantage of me. The flying monkeys are not his friends, they simply want gossip. I'm confident he knows not to ever contact me or come near me. Do I care if he bashes me or attempts to ruin my reputation? No. It would be much easier for me to destroy his, and he's already made many enemies and he doesn't need one more. Listening to you keeps me on my toes.
True. I feel Narc enjoy themselves in this situation. It’s good time for them to post their life style in this crisis.
The one I dealt with has been a bear! Meaner than a snake. I’m staying away,!
Hey thanks for ur help to expose these losers. I am witnessing exactly what u are saying.
You are very welcome💖
I know one thing...if I get rid of the Dragon Lady Queen of the Narcs, I’ll never get married again. It’s been a progression over the last 30 years, and it took that much time for me to label her with this demonic disease. I just have one more college grad to move out. I’ll be gone gone bye bye and only my children will be able to reach me. I smile just thinking about it.
I experienced his hoover right away when the pandemic started. This is exactly his message: " I know and it’s obvious that you do not want to have any connection with me anymore and it’s understandable but I just want to know how are you and Axel ( my son ) is doing. How are you coping up with the pandemic, the lockdown, and the typhoon that just passed. I am not messaging you for us to reconnect nor rekindle what we had before I just really want to know how the both of you are doing." He messaged me for one year without my response so he tried to go into my house.. I did not open the door.
Correct the narc. broke no contact after two years as we went into lockdown
Look at those celebrity breakdowns, that's what happens to Narcessists during this. Expect a lot of online activity to try to reach out and stay relevant.
Thankfully I still have my ex blocked, she can enjoy this time alone (or with the new supply) after my recent discard. What I will say is that be careful of hoovers after this is over. How many will come back turn on the charm and claim that the isolation "gave them perspective" about breaking up with people? Stay strong folks, stay no contact.
Wow yessss you said it be careful when this is over because they might come back with that false sense of charm , but to be honest I don’t think things will go back to normal.
Thank you. I was curious about this, so I am glad you made the video. I haven't seen any other videos about the virus and narcs.
This was an especially good one. I think I'll watch it again!
All facts as usual!👏🏽
FLUSH 'EM , PUT DOWN THE LID FIRST, NO FLASH BACK...THESE PEOPLE WOULD STEAL JESUS
OFF THE CROSS...KARMA BUS
NEVER FORGETS NOR RUN OUT OF GAS...SHE IS COMING FOR THAT SASS...
YES. What an accurate level of your statement.
This is so true with coverts,my narc ex gf may try to hoover,but is only going to get silence.Stay no contact if you can folks!
Perfect analysis.. through a live situation that everyone is suffering
You nailed it sista! My 85yr dad doesnt even SPEAK to me on a regular basis. I moved in to help? watch out for him??. 9 months ago. I can tell you exactly all the fd up statements that have come out his mouth the last month alone. I'm quarantined in the same house with him... 🙄 I quarantine myself in garage/my cave on a regular basis cause he is toxic. I only go to my room to sleep after he FINALLY tires himself from monitoring me and finally goes to bed. I'm also almost knocking myself out with bleach and cleaning more just to keep from him bringing the virus IN to me! He just HAS to go out EVERYDAY ??no mask, no gloves, hand wipes etc. I'm wearing the gloves and mask outside and at stores. I keep a damp cloth to wipe fingerpfints, refrig..you name it. I am not fooled by him or my narc3rd degree sibling whio lives in LA. My other family members passed away. My mom 64 (2006).MS, brother 56(2018) stomach perforation and youngest sister 40(2006 aneurysm while sleeping) I'm 61 female the oldest. left with one sibling female 59 and dad. Both 3rd degree CORONONARCS! WITH GOD 24/7 it is possible. Neither have fooled me. And STILL I RISE! Peace everybody😇
Peace and blessings to you. Stay strong!💖
Thank you so much for vid ..I Really needed to be reminded of what to expect from narcs at this time.
I just had to cut off a covet narcissist right around when covid started to be reported back in February. So glad I did. This anxiety inducing enough as it is
Yep. My mother is being the nicest she has ever been. Even being nice to dad.
Yep, she was playing nice. I didnt take the bait. She now has gone back to being silent.
Thanks for such a straight forward view on this problem 😊♥️
HI CLARICE!THIS SHOULD BE GOOD!🤔SHE KNOWS WAAAAAY BETTER THAN TO CONTACT ME.SHE DIDN'T"BURN"THE BRIDGE SHE PUT 5 TONS OF NITROGLYCERINE SOME TNT,AND ADDED SOME C4 AND VAPORIZED THAT BRIDGE.SHE'S DEAD&BURIED TO ME!
Keep thriving! Peace and blessings💞
@@Dolce-Rose TYVM....STAY AMAZINGLY GORGEOUS😉
My narc ex discarded me at height of pandemic. I couldn’t work and he put me in a dire financial situation to chase new supply out of his boredom. I was forced to sell the home and move on.
I am starting to thrive again a year later. Last I heard, he’s an exposed, nearly homeless joke.
I am grateful to have learned all about narcissistic abuse.
I can never unsee this behavior.
OUTSTANDING thank you Clarisse!
This has already happend to me I was hoovered 28 April approx 1 year after being discarded this is the msg I received HIGH ITS BEEN AWHILE HOW ARE YOU XX there bored with what's going on in the world at the moment
Spot on, as usual. My narc brother already tried to Hoover me through this crises. I’m finished feeding him, and supporting him financially while he lies around playing on his phone. I so recognized the Hoover, thanks to this channel and others...Angie
I'm still living with one, and you on point he's doing exactly that, even started praying for few minutes, helping to clean washed dishes, but keeping the kids up at all night.
🤣🤣🤣 OMG!! this makes so much sense... so so so True and right on!
Thank you!
Thank you that's a good description of who they are and what they have in mind. It gives a clue, of their weird mind and behavior.
My ex boyfriend's narcissistic father just had to pay 1400 euros for not wearing a mask where he had too😂😂
So on point: their niceness is only temporary until they slip up again. The covert narcs in my life started contacting me out of the blue... my initial hunch was “stay away, they want narcissistic supply.”
On top of the pandemic, Global Warming will cause mass migrations. I’m pretty sure (as the covert narcissists in other people’s families will do the same), they’re only reaching out especially, in particular, if they live in expensive beach front homes that will be underwater-these people shouldn’t/won’t be surprised that the Narcs will come around and exploit-they’ll probably do what colonialists do and find a way to kick you out of your own place where you share with others just so they can secure their spot, and scapegoat their narc supply. 💯
You are so spot on with your videos. Your insight is amazing. Thanks so much. XOXO
"Wow, So on point/Marriage to a covert narcissist is a living nightmare(30+years)"!!!
My ex narcs place was apparently like Piccadilly Circus during the national lockdown, a constant stream of girls in and out of his home, absolute dirty b*stard, he still wants copious amounts of supply during a whole pandemic smh... I was given the unsolicited information by a neighbour of his 🙄🤨
For me you are 100 percent right. All you have spoke about is happening with more then one ex narc.
Gosh this makes a lot of sense why my ex is panicking, thank you hadn't thought the epidemic could inflict on his behaviour,
Our government is the narcissist. This training and awareness made me realise this when the crisis started
I just would like to say that was super Hilarious!!! They posses especially weak character!!! I just couldn't stop laughing!!! Thanks for your insight!
Im cutting the strings! I’m not planning to be anybody’s therapist or psychologist making them feel good! I’m taking care of myself in my peaceful and calming home! I’ll let her get her narc supply from ALL her Facebook so called friends and pretend family! Seriously, I’ve been ghosted many times and ignored when she’s in town. Why care about MY well being now?
True.I'm not a shrink either but they'll use u to feel good When they can't get supply from u they go on social media and trash ppl for reaction and supply ! ..LOL😂
"friends and family" probably have more time for others and she cant deal with the scarcity.
My ex narc used this COVID/ “ lock down” to discarded my replacement. I knew he was going to do that cause her “ 7 month” was up. She didn’t know... I did. Now he’s on Social dating sites right where he belongs. Swimming with the Piranhas.🐟
I just found your channel and it's great. I love this video very much,all of the things said is true. I went no contact 9 months ago and never looked back, doors are locked for life. These beings are truly evil, demonic, and the only place they are going is in the lake of fire,where they won't be able to hurt another soul. EMPATHS STAY WOKE AT THIS TIME!!!
@@komaweig89 thanks for the information, but won't need it. My attorney's have been on the job now,over two years. They and the agency they work with won't share with me what they have gathered. I'm in good hands,I will share your information with others who need that kind of help. I walked out almost 10 months ago and never felt healthier, satisfied, PEACEFUL.
Welcome💖💖
Thank you Clarice! Your voice is so soothing to me. High respect
Haven’t heard from my narcissistic ex yet, because she’s got a rebound feeding her the supply. I am sure if he wasn’t there I would’ve heard back weeks ago. 😂
It just happened two days ago she msged me saying she's worried about me and that she loves me, misses me and telling me let's fix things, when she was the one who discarded me suddenly 2 months ago with no viable reason, just thrown me like trash giving me no closure..
I felt disgust and disturbed so I blocked her on social media and phone and I never felt better after
now to me she doesn't exist anymore but truth is that person I knew never really existed because it was all fake, just a mere illusion to deceive us
Indeed!💞
In a comment under the Magic Prepper channel, a few months ago, I mentioned narcissistic marauders.
In the Prepper community, the worry has been marauders during a SHTF situation. People who will come, packing weapons, to break in, while you’re at home, to eat your food preps, take your supplies and even kill and eat you, if necessary.
I think my comment was cause for concern for some as, that is the picture they have in their heads, in regards to marauders. That it is an obvious and abrupt situation. But, perhaps, it’s possible that more people know about prepping, than they do about narcissism.
I explained that there is what I’d consider to be the “soft marauder”. My neighbor, as I’d mentioned about before, might be one of them. That they would be the soft, slow, insidious and imperceptible ones, that are on what’s called the “long con”. They may be working within this pandemic dynamic or they may be planning ahead for personal SHTF. But, they may pick a target, maybe even while things are still going somewhat well or at least appear to be so. They don’t come packing weapons an attitude. They come with a plan. They want to become a friendly face, so that when SHTF, they already have their foot wedged in your door. They’re the friendly face you can’t turn away, from a warm meal or bed. They may have also found out that you’re a Prepper so, they may even feel that they will redirect you to doing the Christian thing, like share your preps with them and to whomever else they’d like to scream to, from the mountain tops, unless they’d like to keep you and what you have, solely, for themselves.
Some of these people are narcissistic parents and other narcissistic family members. They’ll try to hoover you, using the word “family”, as long as it is in their interest. They’ll use virtue and victim signaling to ensure a one way beneficial relationship. And, as per some of the stories I’ve heard on the Dave Ramsey channel, once they’re in, they may even tell you that it’ll take a court order to get them out. They weren’t looking for a meal and a night’s stay. But a place to live. They were looking for there to be home, at your place, all day, everyday, while you worked your tail off and they helped themselves to your preps. They like to setup shop and establish normalcy to it, for you and they’ll work on stretching out time or negating it altogether, if you’ve got the wherewithal to tell them they are leaving in 1 month or 6 months. There’ll be a reason you can’t push them out the door every time. You may quickly find yourself, even as a Prepper, being overtaken by a master survivalist, that has psychologically, emotionally, physically and financially enmeshed themselves into your life.
This is one of the reasons why, although I don’t know enough about my neighbor, to actually call her a narcissist, there was ZERO chance I was leaving myself open to another round of narcissism, after dealing with my mother and, now, possibly with someone I work for.
One has to not simply look out upon the world, but also see how the world seems to look upon them. While I know I’m a person who can self advocate pretty well, I know that most of the world sees me as a single, black woman, who possibly has some smarts and resources, that they need to latch onto. That I’ll be sold the, “You are just so smart.” BS, to massage my ego, for the specific purpose of making me “feel good” and coercing me to do more for them. That they don’t know that I know that they’re simply looking at me, as a resource to take advantage of. That not having a husband and children and having a decent job, according to them, means I should be sharing any good fortune I have and that they’ll decide what to do with my time.
So, there’s more than the narcissists that are described in your video and they will look at hard times in a different, even more opportunistic light. You won’t find yourself at the end of a gun barrel with them. But at the end of a kitchen table, thinking how you’ll get them out of here, while they’re thinking that you’ll be gone, before them.
Very good point.
Holy crap...the same.thing happened to me. Which is why I'm quick to not be friends without getting to know people after a LONG time. I refuse to be used. I don't need validation from the world and don't care if they call me mean, they just need to stay the fk away from me.
@@icalotdonthide2646 I fixed those typos. It was hardly intelligible.
But, these situations play out A LOT. You’re not the first to say that the same or similar has happened to you. The only reason you don’t hear about it more, is because so many more people have no idea what is actually happening and a good majority of us have been raised and groomed to not know the difference between helping someone and being used and abused. That “boundaries” is an ugly and cold word, never to be uttered.
My narcissistic mother passed a few weeks ago and I do believe my neighbor has MS. But, it still doesn’t negate that there was more than “neediness” that I saw coming from that neighbor. While she’d asked for my help a couple of years ago, before things turned worse for her, I’d seen all sorts of red flags and I’d gotten the sense that her “asking” did not at all mean that I had the option of saying no and that she’d already “decided” that she’d start me off on something small, to groom me to eventually spin like a top for her, no matter my own life and that I was a convenience and building perk, for someone who, even knowing they may become ill, did nothing to mitigate her circumstance, because she felt I lived in her attic, rather than a separate tenant above her. She is also not the first to assume I’m a building perk. But, this neighbor not only adopted a dog that she could not care for, but tried to get another neighbor to convince me to do for her, including to care for the dog. You have to look at the entirety of the picture and in the long run to understand. I’d be caring for her untrained Labrador, with a knee injury, no matter the weather, like clockwork, walking him probably morning and night, while she watched TV. It was to not only to get me to say yes circuitously, but, to have me on a daily schedule. Lastly, she wanted my phone number, to give to her husband, who’s imprisoned for the double murder of a woman and her child. Yeah, no, not interested.
But, it is up to the individual to discern people, keep up good solid boundaries, be self sufficient so you don’t cross other’s boundaries and watch for those friendly, smiling faces. Not everyone is evil. But, the world is structured in such a way, where there is predator and prey and, if you’re a good person, you must try to be what Jordan Peterson calls a positive monster, where you have the wherewithal to kick the crap out of someone, but not use it. That you simply protect yourself. The reality of life is that, on several levels in society, there are people who look at others, for the sole purpose of their own consumption. They don’t have any empathy for you and the lens through which they see you, is how they can manipulate, groom and even carve you up, so their needs are met. It can be so much a part of them, that they become perplexed and angered as to why, like cattle, you won’t comply, with your own demise.
BTW, this also applies to those relatives that moved in for a minute, just to stay overnight. Only, it’s been years, you’ve been working hard to feed them, they’ve aged out of even looking like they should be job hunting and that was because they’d long decided that you were going to be their sustenance, their healthcare and eldercare plan. You were the one who didn’t get the memo.
Sorry this happened to you. But, you’re hardly alone.✌🏽
This video is so like my mum and sister I live with it putting up with it and they try to deflate me great video !!!🌷☀️
Both Narcs in my life have decided the shelter in place does not apply to them. They think the SIP iS stupid and of course they know best!!!
Psychology scares people and that makes me happy
They are knocking at ours doors duri g this pandemic because it's getting real boring at home. It's harder to cover their tracks because their isn't too many places to go. Alot of the new/primary supply are probably seeing more of what they are. Daily routines help them. They are desperately seeking ways to escape. An ex narc of mine popped up recently. It was so funny to me. Send those dogs back where they came from.
Whoa you nailed it😆 my covert claims to be helpless yet yet so wise they can tell you how your existence should be to serve. Any attempts to prove your situation is met with gaslighting and yes I just got the nondescript apology today - Hello Angela. Hope things are going well for you and yours! I am sorry for my part in our estrangement. Please forgive me as I have forgiven you. Are you still going to be participating in the garden? Just let me know what your thoughts on that.
I simply paid for all the dirt and plants because she is dysfunctional in a toxic relationship yet she wants me to plant all the plants as well after insisting what she really wanted was a community garden. Covid covert alert 😆
I've been receiving fake FB requests every week! I'm wondering if ex Narc? He just recently started living with NS. I bet shes having fun!
Approx 10 days ago I figured out that my narc sister is stalking me on fb. She wrote me that she has several people who check what I post on fb and they report it to my sister. I guess this is going on like this since several years. I got so angry and also had a flashback (C-PTSD from mentalabuse).
I blocked everyone on fb who also knows my sister.
@@SN-bl6xm I very seldom receive FB requests anymore. The Narc has me blocked on FB. I quit looking at his NS social media. I just thank my blessings now that God saved me from what could've been a very bad situation.
@@tinac6114 Everyone who doesn’t have any evil narcissists, psychopaths or sociopaths in their life should feel blessed. They can be very dangerous and some even kill people. My dad was, most probably killed by my brother. I just know, from my sister (she told me 5 years ago), that my dad fell and hurt his head badly and lost lots of blood. My sister and my brother decided not to take my dad to the hospital and not to call a ambulance. My dad passed away 3 days later from the injury’s. I know my siblings were desperate in need of money, or the inheritance. My brother who would beat us up from time to time, most probably pushed my dad so he would fall.
I am happy for you that you are not together with your ex narc anymore. I moved to a different continent, a 11 hour flight from where I grew up and where my siblings live. I was doing good with healing until 10 days ago. Finding out that there a several people I was friends on Facebook, reported to my sister what I post on fb. It seems they sent my narc sister print screens of what I have shared on fb. Well I now deactivated my fb account.
@@SN-bl6xm wow! I'm so sorry. Narcissist are so destructive! This is the first one I know I had ever dealt with. Our relationship was very brief. He couldn't control me therefore he put the other woman he had begun grooming exact same day as me in my place. She look left her hubby & 4 young daughters for him & his 3 young kids. Its amazing what they are capable of talking someone into.
He thinks he is immune. Don't care. Going out and around anyway, and I asked him not to for safety reasons, he did it anyway. His friends used computer he needed help with was more important.
You raised very interesting and insightful points about the CN during this pandemic. Thank you. For certain being isolated will be a huge challenge. Yes they will be making sure their needs are met. They will use this pandemic to get supply. Ie first responder in a small town.
They completely (all of them) came unhinged during the pandemic. They all exposed themselves to me and discarded me…