Most Asked Questions by Teenage Girls in the 1960's
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- Опубликовано: 12 фев 2020
- Seventeen magazine answers teenage girls most FAQ's in the early 1960's. How to be pretty. How to style yourself. How to be attractive. When to get married. Why do my parents not understand me?
Seventeen's editor in chief Enid Haupt offers her own vintage advice. How should a girl style herself, how to wear colors which flatter. What silhouettes flatter her figure, how to be interesting. What age should she get married. The film ends with a famous Mark Twain quote to a round of laughter. The film features a young Mia Farrow in her first notable role on screen.
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“And here’s a teenage girl in her natural habitat..”
he talking like shes a kangaroo on national geographic 😂
@@ghxstwhre6648 omg😭
Alia AlAzzani I’M DYING HSBABSHAJAJHA 😭
Me looks at the camera: while eating Cheetos and watching friends in sweats and then I growls at the camera man
The good old days.
"Teenagers are people" is a lesson many seem to have forgotten today...
Indeed!
At that age ppl want to fit in or feel included. When u grow up u dgaf anymore.
roysdon Isn’t it difficult for ppl to really not care what others think or to not want to be included? I’ve met plenty of adults who definitely gaf. It could be more about a type of mindset rather than closely correlated to age.
@@ny_cruz I feel the same.
@@roysdon Many people like to believe that about themselves but I think it's rarely true. Everybody stops giving af in some areas but without noticing we also start caring about other things we believed to not matter when we were teens.
I really appreciate how she said that any girl can be good-looking. “She must style herself as becomingly as she can for her own type.” In other words, take care of yourself, be confident, have respect for yourself. Great advice for young women actually.
Very true words spoken x
Its not at all any kind of hint, its a salesforce behind that wanted them in "boxes", with false dreams, ideals or goals. Nothing in this conservative thinking is about freedom, its about locking people in in times where daily behaviour was actually oppressed by advertising agencies and branded marketing to force imitation and get lost in it by shopping. Total crap in here. You have to do things according to So called "society's rules" all here is totally negotiating selfacceptance. There is no " beauty " involved its about adapting trends.
@@dereinchecker9376 I’m sorry you feel that way. It is an advertisement and they’re goal is to sell merchandise. But the advice she gave is probably some of the best to give to a young girl. I clicked on this video expecting to make light of it, but I just realized that those girls weren’t very different from who I was.
When she says “Dress for her own type.” She means dress according to your figure (hourglass, pear, straight shape) growing up I had many insecurities about my weight. But really I just needed to find clothes that fit my figure. Incidentally, that meant NOT following the early 2000s and 2010s fashion very closely. I found MY style, that fit ME. That’s what I got from this video, and I hope other young girls do as well.
@@rachelmccray6043 I m fine with analysing the insidious way of false and branded advertising, so its clear that no advice here at all is given in general, just a blueprint for " legal " behaviourism in those times. Most women suffered actually deeply from this and felt locked in those small boxes and suffered lifetime.
@@rachelmccray6043 Don’t bother. People just wanna get bent. These actually are good videos, that teach self respect. It’s a bit outdated, sure, but
“Teenagers are people”
Every 60 seconds in Africa, a minute passes
same energy
Together we can end this!
Actually most of Africa is still a economical third part country who needs 70 seconds for every minute.
Tautologies are self-describing.
@@fonziebulldog5786 actually it was a joke as well as a meme.
"some people are ready at 17 others at 27...a marriage is two people that are ready for marriage" loosely quoted, but the best advice ever.
Helmand Blue 17 is still too young though
@@Fun4u5678123 People were marrying as teenagers for a long aas time and many of those people lived out their lives together too , so how is it really too young?
potato noses you can’t even drink yet bro. Plus 17 in my country if before consent laws. Soooo
@@mellamotina5100 in many countries you can drink legally at like 16 though lol
@@Fun4u5678123 not really. By the time you are 15 you have gone through puberty. If not, it's a medical condition and not because your body can't contribute towards a baby or carry a baby. Whether we like it or not our bodies lets us know when we should (start trying to) procreate. It's only in recent years that age at marriage has gone up drastically because of long educations, houses, new cars etc are conditions that need to be met before marriage. Some people are ready for marriage earlier than others and need less time to mature...others suffer from the "Manchild" and "Princess" syndrome. Once someone has entered puberty, it's up to them to take control of their sexual life. Puberty being a signal of adulthood.
he talks about teenage girls like they’re a different species 😂 kinda like nature documentaries talking about cheetahs lmaooo
We basically are a different species🤣
Just wanted to write that.
😂😂😂😂😂
The first thing they talk about is boys and clothes
Samirah Nasim 😂😂
This man sounds like he is presenting a new product: "Ladies and gentlemen, the teenager. It may surprise you, but it is also a person"
🤣🤣🤣
To me it sounded like an animal kingdom documentary.
@@ritarosa1463 lmfao True
@@ritarosa1463 lool
OMG...You win best comment.... lol
Can we just appreciate the fact that the things that woman said are actually good advices and not any bullshit as most of of us were expecting?
this!
I think we can all aspire to be an older women who is wise with age but never forgets what it was like to be young :)
She speaking facta
I wa really impressed by her marriage advice, so on point.
@@NightTimeDay im a male and want to be an old woman when i grow up
The thought of someone getting married at 17 and im sitting here turning 17 in less than 3 months like 👀 will a boy ever talk to me
People even getting married in their 20s still unnerves me. Most of us take much longer to mature than we think.
@@gordythecat Fair but also keep in mind how many of those young newly wed divorce because they realized they were still figuring themselves out and grew apart. Just because you wait longer to get wed doesnt mean you cant be in a relationship with someone. So the pool isnt a major concern if you're actively dating
@@MyMessyMind so it takes you your entire 20s of your adult life to grow up? That says more about you than anyone else. Divorce rates have only recently risen, they were extremely low back in the 1950s. People grew up behaviour wise by age 16 to 21, the reason it now takes people until age 25 to grow up is because they choose to be children for a prolonged time. Instead of stimulating their brain and experiencing life, they sit all day long watching RUclips or texting on tumblr :D
Just get a life, socialize, and you'll grow up quickly. If you sit all day at home like a hermit, then there's no one else to blame but yourself.
@@vectrex2195 Im a little confused as to why you're making these assumptions about me. All im saying is you dont need to rush into marriage, by no means does that mean that you cant be mature and grown in the general sense but we are always growing and that doesnt stop in your 30s but during your 20s there is a lot of it. Our brains dont even mature until we're 25, and yes i agree our current social climate prolongs the transition from childhood into adulthood, but that wasnt what i was talking about at all.
So maybe take a moment before you start pointing fingers next time.
@@MyMessyMind it has been proven our brains grow up by age 21 for females, 23 for males. You are perhaps mixing the age 25 with when our bodies begin to age, and our facial skin begins most noticably to dry and crack slowly.
Sure, there is improvement in knowledge you will always develop in your 30s and so on, but again, you are mixing up wisdom related growth with maturity. To be mature is more simple than that, you just earn control of your emotions, basic ability to be independent such as by feeding yourself and keeping fit, communicating with your partner, keeping a job, and reacting to social situations correctly on a basic level.
Also sorry, when i say "you" i mean a hypothetical person of the modern world, not literally "you you", the english language has some flaws in that area. I wasn't refering to you directly, but a made up example of a generic person of the modern age.
"How can I meet interesting boys?"
"Well first you must be interesting yourself"
oof
Same for men tbh.
Still, I'm glad her answer wasn't just "wear more lipstick", she did give some good advice
Only accurate thing in here!
That's actually true.
That's actually a very good advice. Being into interesting stuff puts you in contact to people who find the same things interesting
The lead actress here is Mia Farrow. Three years after this 1963 film, she married Frank Sinatra at age 21.
She has 14 children.
And I was thinking that she looked familiar )
I had to google this cause I was thinking there is no way she gave birth to 14 kids haha
Scrolled forever to find this comment! I thought it was Mia Farrow! The only thing that made me question that it was her was that she had a fuller figure as a teenager than she did as an adult when usually it's the other way around. She must have hardly eaten in her adult years to look so frail. I always thought she looked unnaturally thin- now I know why.
Dang
nice
Damn, I love Their Accents and Intonation. Soft, Gentle and Polite
Unlike what we have now. Sad.
It’s film, lol!
"tenagers are people"
As an ex-teenager I can confirm that we were not people.
i confirm this it is true
I am in my mid 50s and I haven't finished growing up. Hehehe. 😁
I cannot give 667th like. EDIT: Ok I can like now.
)))))))))))
@@pinklady7184 That's my idea of a grown-up))
me: i should sleep
youtube: want to see a q&a for teen girls in the 1960s?
me: [a 31yo woman with a sleep disorder] yes, i need to know this
lerche noire priorities you know?
Same boat.
Hope you get some rest 😴
This will be me in the future xD
My 31 yo self felt that
The brunette young lady wearing red asked, "If a girl is not good-looking, how can she make people like her?" I thought she was already quite beautiful, striking actually.
Yeah. I think maybe at the time her olive skin, dark hair and eyes would have meant less attractive. To modern eyes she's one of the more (if not the most) attractive ones in the group
That's because they only picked beautiful actors for this film.
I don't think she considered herself unattractive. She asked the question for those who may benefit on the cast, movie audience, and readers of the magazine.
Maybe she didn't ask that for herself. She could have asked thinking of other people that could be helped.
The standard of beauty was still dominated by the Marilyn Monroe, Doris Day, Lee Remick, Eva Marie Saint, Hope Lange etc etc look.
“The important thing is to care about people. When you care about people you become interesting yourself and then other people want to know you.” Good advice
It's like my daughter says that if you smile then others would it's sad though we are not living in
Innocent times people will get the wrong idea Eileen
For some reason this reminds me of that one spongebob episode where the narrator was telling sponge bob how to make a krabby patty
why is that so accurate 😂
That’s where my mind went too 💀
Sam Tacos OH MY GOODNESS
Sam Tacos GOD BLESS YOU
"Sounds like a lot of- HOOPLA"
Seventeen magazine in the 60s: talking about coming of age, fears of the future, and marriage
Seventeen magazine now: QUIZ - Which Hype House Member Are YOU??!!!?!!
😂
Seems as if our culture has shifted from trying to discover who we are. where we've been and where we're going, to diversion and escape through entertainment and superimposing ourselves onto pop culture to live as an avatar.
@@clutch1141 damn that's deep.
@@clutch1141 so true dude omg!!
Eh, young people shouldn’t be worrying about marriage and the like. Let them enjoy their quizzes.
This lady is so wise and she gives such a good advices! I was surprised when she said every age is good for marriage. Now, in 21's century we are still told 30 years old is too old, and then in 60's she was more sense than most people are now! Thank you for sharing
Who says 30 is too old? Not anybody who is educated?
@@genxx2724 when I was 20 years old my father came to me and said I should already be married 😂 and having two childreen running around me. And when I said to him I will marry at the age of 30 he said I will be too old and noone will want me 😂
@@aleksandraferek2856 OMG. What year was this, where did you live, where is your father from?
@@genxx2724 it was actually one year ago. And we are from Poland
But it is unusual, I think. I hope
That marriage advice was actually really on point! I really love the way she acknowledged that not everyone gets married, and that it is often a bad idea to rush into marriage in a hurry (or sometimes at all). Wise words, especially back in the 1960s when there was so much more pressure on girls to find husbands and become homemakers.
I love that she said "any girl can be good looking" instead of "any girl is beautiful", it's more realistic this way and more friendly.
I’m not sure what you’re getting at, could you explain further?
@@Suzie-ui9vg If you say "every girl can be beautiful" you're not enforcing your beliefs on anyone who may not consider that everybody is beautiful (this is why it's more friendly), and it's more realistic because with all the necessary help everybody *can* become beautiful / good looking ^ω^
@@Suzie-ui9vg I'd pitch in that whether you're beautiful or not is down to your genetics, but looking presentable and put-together is up to every person individually.
So true, this line was so good and thoughtfully chosen. While not everybody might be naturally beautiful, everybody can show self respect by putting work into themselves to be good looking. This will also compel others to like and respect you.
@@talknight2 this is fact
"When you care about other people, you become more interesting yourself."
I read that at the same time I heard that
I think that older editor woman had a lot of good advice. Caring for others and making yourself interesting will help others be attracted to you.
When you care about yourself you become
that's the best advice someone can give I think. I feel happy when I focus on myself and care for myself, but I feel truly fufilled when I take care of others. It's like I have more worth and more meaning. I genuinely believe if you're feeling down and lost in life, like you don't matter, if you go your way to make other people's lives better and see how much good that caused, all will make sense. It's amazing we're on a self-love period, but that can't just be it, it has to be about other people as well and work on that just as much as you are working on yourself. It's all about balance after all.
@@dgnyheiardottir1477 I totally agree with you - what you just said is quote-worthy 💯💯💯
Kids need more people like that woman at the end, in their lives, giving such great guidance and advice.
"Teenagers are people"
Oh yes the floor is made out of floor
In other news ....water is wet.
Every 60 seconds in Africa, a minute passes.
@@mjg1544 water is H2O actually
Teenagers are people means they have the right to make mistakes, and disasters for that matter.
My floor is made out of teenagers.
“Oh wow I wish I could live in those times” “people actually had class back then” These kind of films were advertisement, propaganda, and social conditioning. It’s okay to admire the hair, makeup and fashion of past times like this, I do myself, but every time I hear someone say they wished the lived back then it shows a clear ignorance to history. These are not desirable times to live in at all.
bitter.shamu people of color, LGBTQ people, and any woman who tried to think for herself would like to have a word with you
I'm a teacher. I've worked in several schools, and as many colleagues I know personally and many others online can testify, even 20-30 years ago, those were indeed the "good old days" of behavior, when we could actually teach something without constantly managing behavioral problems. What was exceptionally disrespectful behavior by a few then has become far too common now.
The values and courtesy that were taught and reinforced by adults previously have fallen by the wayside. Some children have no idea that they're even being disrespectful. I've had to teach basic social skills everywhere I've been, from the rich public schools to the poor inner-city schools.
So many families are broken. Children are hurting and having meltdowns in my classes and being assessed by psychologists because their parents, who themselves are often distressed and don't know what to do, are unable to create and maintain a stable environment. I often have to stop teaching to comfort overwhelmed children.
It's not hopeless, but it's a very difficult time in history, like never before. I'm not denying the good progress we've made in some areas historically, but other utterly essential basics have regressed to a degree of incomprehensible dysfunction.
Just today I spoke with a substitute who described the generally good behavior at my current school in a large city as "a shock to my system." Societal breakdown should not be a norm...and statistically, it wasn't, in those days. But many values and standards changed from the 60s onwards, if not earlier, and we're reaping the consequences.
On the bright side, I believe things can change for the better as we realize these things and each of us makes a difference wherever we are! I already see many children responding to the calm and respectful environment I always try to create, and many teachers have remarked on it. I've seen whole classes of students start the year like wild monkeys and, believe it or not, become relaxed students in a well-oiled machine, in their places doing what they should and actually reminding me if I forget to give a warning! 😊 I first saw this was possible as a teacher in training from watching veteran teachers with big hearts who developed great systems and never gave up. Seeing their happy students was the best! As I once told a suicidal student who stopped muttering his dark phrases when he heard it, "Where there's life, there's hope." 🌟
@@vectrex2195 You haven't researched this era at all. Don't try to kid us.
The post-war economy made life great for white suburbanites. That's what this propoganda represents. The petit bourgeois, the white collar, etc. Every other group in America - poor people, black people, gay people, foreigners, 'communists' - were disenfranchised, ignored, and often directly oppressed. Furthermore, even within the picture-perfect families, women were kept a league below men all through their lives.
The reason mental illness has 'increased' recently is because it a million factors, few of which support your thesis. In the early 20th century, it was not uncommon for those who were 'antisocial' (e.g. depressed or anxious) to be made to undergo lobotomies; a barbaric practice which took people's minds from them. It was either that, or enter into a psychiatric hospital which wasn't much better of an option.
Plenty of people in the 50's and 60's were suffering in America. Those who actually lived to tell their tale were often the wealthy suburbanites I mentioned before, who were insulated from the real face of the era.
@@vectrex2195 Do you just think I'm cherrypicking because I care about people other than middle-class white folk?
I agree. I'm black so I never wanted to go back, and it really makes me cringe when people say otherwise. I do like vintage clothing and makeup though.
I don’t know what it is with adults saying teenagers “think they know everything”. Do they say it to make themselves feel like they know more? Because I am an adult and I still don’t know shit.
Well exactly😂 once you grow up you start realising that you actually don't know a lot of things. When i was a teen i thought i'd had it all figured out, and i didn't need any advice. Thankfully, i grew out of it.
Damaris I you got me there 😉
Everybody thinks they know everything. Otherwise the Comment section on RUclips would be soooo dull!
@@WoodlandPoetry so true lmaoo
No because when I was a teenager, I thought I had it all figured out.
“Mrs helped I don’t find the boys in my high school interesting, where can I meet interesting boys?”
The boys in her school: 👁👄👁
It's hilarious! :)
She looks kinda gae tho hahaha
Maybe Mary Sue is gay.
I mean im looking at her like her name is Haruhi Fujioka
I think she was trying to come out. Fail!
"As you grow up, in your teen years, you see your parents as people, you see their weaknesses as well as their strength"
This is very true, many kids at a young age, would consider their parents heros, saints. But growing up, you discover your own pain, and you then see your parents pain. I think from there you realize no one's truly perfect, everyone has flaws.
"Even if they understood their problems they wouldn't care" some things never change
Periodt
Felt that
What were the problems, if anyone could care to explain. Pardon I'm not from that period of time..
@@karthik7282 there aren’t any serious ones like you and I may have. Maybe like, not being pretty enough or being bad at cooking?
@@joeschmoe7866 bruh. They barely had rights back then
Rolls her eyes at the guy smiling at her...pulls out powder to "freshen up" 🤣
ablazing on the arsnal green colour !
@xyz zyx They'd probably rather have you act awkward than look like a bitch. It's very straightforward with guys; if you act/look like a bitch, they'll think you're a bitch.
Idk why they called it "freshen" it feels anything but fresh
the guy looked 25 wasnt she a teen
@@ghxstwhre6648 that's probably why she rolled her eyes 😂
I love how elegant and dignified the teenage fashion was then. I wish people still dressed like this.
dont wish. do it and other people will follow.
@@Senumunu Quote that! Now! Its brilliant
It would a nice trend for men too. Instead of walking around with some saggy pants, a dark hoodie, and some tacky sunglasses, imagine some dudes walking down the sidewalk in some work jeans, a dress shirt, and some neat combed hair. Let's all engage in some fashionable self-respect!
@@josephb.4640 Yes! I agree
@@Senumunu Yes I love this quote! I dress up yo go anywhere lol
Narrator: “And now we can see “women” in their natural habitat”
I'm hoping that was a joke lol
A joke? Probably not.
The old lady's talk at the end was surprisingly good. It stands the test of time.
That's what I thought
Old lady... oof. I mean she's dead now, but she wasn't THAT old jeez. :)
She definitely knew what she was talking about. Does anyone else notice the blonde looks an awful lot like Mia Farrow? Anyone know if it's actually her?
@@GameChanger597 scroll the comments down. It's confirmed to be her first role
Yes I was thinking that
"I dont find boys in my school interesting" I feel you girl, maybe we like girls..
The depoulation agenda would love to convince you of that
She sounds super feminine I doubt she’s lesbian. I relate with her and so did other girls in high school we were tired of the same guys in our class. Branching out to meet other guys from different schools help...
@@sofiabravo1994 Oh Sofia, don't be ignorant.
Sofia Bravo Sooo lesbians can’t be feminine? Lmaooo sorry to burst your bubble but there are feminine lesbians.
Sofia Bravo i mean,,, i don’t identify as lesbian, i’m pansexual, but i’m quite feminine myself. that’s why i prefer girls that have a sort of “masculine” vibe to them. lesbians can ofc be feminine though!
1:09 The boy's grin followed by the girl's eye roll was hilarious. Some things never change.
Lmao
The video quality is so good it actually humanizes the people from that time.
"TeEnAgErS aRe PeOpLe "
Parents:😲😢😭🤧😤😡😠🤡
FDNHIDFSUH 😭😭😭😭
BYE
LMAOO
*surprised pikachu face*
agree to disagree.
"I don't find the boys very interesting."
"You're a lesbian, dear."
Her haircut and outfit says it all.
LMAO
hydrotherapy, now!
😂
Honestly? No necessarily. I’m straight (bi-curious) and I had no crushes in high school. I had a few in elementary and middle school but the boys in high school were all dumb and I hated them.
can we talk about how clear their skin used to be? :O literally noone has acne
Maybe the quality of the food was an important factor. It was different in that decade, without many chemicals, not like today.
@@luiscazares4465 everything is chemical dude .
@@testacals i mean synthetic chemicals
They didn’t select kids with acne to participate.
makeup?
These sorts of videos are such wonderful time capsules
I was a teen in the 60s and never read Seventeen magazine! And no one I knew did either.
It seems this magazine was only grooming girls to be girl friends, wives, and mothers. I know, that was how it was in the early 60s - still a throwback to the 50s. By the late 60s girls were not all about getting married and having babies! Many wanted jobs and adventure! I know I did!
This kind of video is quaint and an idealized way of looking at things. It was also a not so subtle way of shilling for Seventeen mag!
Its like the opposite of today. Now the media and magazines want women to get jobs and make lots of money, but there's so many girls who dont want that and feel unhappy because now they dont get the choice of being a homemaker, even if they dont know thats what they want. Just the social pressure to compete in the workforce is undesirable for a lot of girls
@@Demi.d3mi Well, everyone, man or woman, should be able to take care of themselves. They should never have to depend on someone else to support them, because life can quickly throw you a curve ball and the person who is supporting you may die or leave! Women are not fragile little things who can't fend for themselves or compete in the workforce! If you want to stay home and take care of kids and a house, better make sure to marry someone who is making enough money to afford such a situation. With prices of everything today, most women do not have the choice to stay home. Life and prices have changed a whole lot since the sixties!
squishy booty nowadays you can’t depend on anyone. It’s just yourself! It sucks for those women who want a huge family, amazing husband, big house, etc. It was never that and it’s just all fake.
wait, you’re like..... someone’s grandpa. (edit) *grandma! excuse me!
@@bugi9309 No, actually I'm someone's grandma! My handle is the name of one of our pugs. Garm T(he) pug! I know, it looks as if I were a man. :-)
Come on people, get real. It's a video. It's a fantasy. You can't judge your life today vs. a made up reality with models and actresses and make up artists and a magazine's clothing budget. In 50 years will people look back at Instagram posts of today and think everyone had perfectly decorated gorgeous homes, took amazing vacations, had flawless skin, smiling kids and cooked healthy food?
True
100%
@Legion Huh?
Elise in the Attic
how does that not make sense?
@@willowr1735 Oh the statement make sense, I just don't know how it relates to what I said.
The advice the lady gave around the 4:00 mark and onwards is actually timeless and good stuff.
I find this so informative and relaxing at the same time, thanks for providing this!
"Teenagers are people"
OH WOW THAT'S A BRAND NEW INFORMATION
Yet some peoppe forgot about that
Are you looking for brand new info on a 60 year old document? Lol
@@anaclaudiagarciacalderon192 you clearly didn't know what I meant
@@anaclaudiagarciacalderon192 it was a sentence from f.r.i.e.n.d.s
"Black lives matter" OH WOW THAT'S A BRAND NEW INFORMATION (?)
"why are parents so immature?" Lmaooo😂😂😂😂😂
My parents are immature
@@nevergivingup3434 same tbh
Especially emotionally
@@nevergivingup3434 my mom literally threw a trantum (don't know how to spell it) because my dad re-married. She screamed for 3 hours and i was sitting there like 😐
@@tiaranereaconenna3432 bruh ;-;
@@nevergivingup3434 same
I read that publication back in the day.
No one I knew ever looked like the models in that magazine.
I loved looking at the pictures.💕🇺🇲
Wow, Mia Farrow is so pretty - an absolute dream girl!
boy: smiles at her
her: ok time to put some makeup on..
The right thing to do... Even more so if you're not that good looking.
Hey, if a boy smiles at you BEFORE you put makeup on, doesn't that say something important? They like you as you are!
@@chameleonsandcaramel5979 Exactly
@@vampirethespiderbatgod9740 :)
@ThatOne I suppose it depends on the person/couple's preferences. I grew up never really wearing any kind of makeup, and one of the biggest reasons I am grateful for that is that it helped me find someone to marry who liked me for me, who thought I was beautiful, but who loved me inwardly, and not just because I looked pretty on the outside. Although, he does say I am beautiful outwardly as well. I believe that the best kind of attraction isn't for the outward appearance, but for the heart, and that when you see someone's heart and love that, then no matter how they look on the outside, they are going to be beautiful to you. Now, I am not saying to just let yourself rot or look terrible all the time or whatever, and that it is nice to dress up and show care for your appearance. And it can show your significant other that you still want to be and look your best for them, like you put more care and attention into how you looked when you first started dating or whatever. But it really means a lot when your man says that "you know, you don't have to put that on. You look amazing without it," when you go to put on any type of makeup, and that you know you can be yourself and be loved that way, however life strikes you that day. I hope my thoughts came out the way I was hoping. I kind of brain dumped, lol. Sorry. But thanks for sharing your thoughts about that. I appreciate you sharing! :)
me clicking on this video: "this is going to be so stupid"
me by the end of the video: *hanging onto every word*
Props.
I feel you
@@Kalani_Saiko lol
@@panpan581 They were literally saying that they only thought that when they read the title
@@panpan581 np
All jokes aside, that lady gave great advice.
Idk where this channel gets its content, but I love it 🥰
“When you care about people you become interesting yourself and then people want to know about you.” - 1950’s Seventeen magazine editor. ❤️ love this
1960's OMG
It is incredible how young women apply this today so little.
What the lady said about marriage wss surprisingly better than I had expected for this time period and true in many ways. I like that she emphasized that different people are ready for that sort of commitment at different ages (or never) and if both aren't ready for such a big step, maybe don't get married yet.
I think many people would be surprised that it wasn't as rigorous about those things back then. maybe very early 1900's but my grandparents, who grew up through this entire era, tell me all of what it was like and it's nothing MSM says it was.
I'm always surprised that doesn't seem to be common knowledge
I love those questions and her brilliant answers 😆
“Teenagers are people”- whew!
I’m glad he clarified that. 😂🤣😂🤣
the fact that theyre all in their 60's and 70's now...
most of the ones in the video were in their 20s.
Yes mia farrow is 76 this year. The blonde girl in the beginning.
@@retire14pattaya9 i thought it was her, and then I read your comment. She has always been so beautiful...
@@retire14pattaya9 oh John lennon wrote dear prudence about her
No one stays young forever. Just think about it, people born in the 1450s were once considered as the "young people of today".
She gives some pretty sound advice. Even for the modern day it's still pretty useful.
eternalypissed people weren’t so dumb back then 😉
@@matthewlocke9225 people always were and always will be pretty dumb ;)
I was just gonna comment this, so glad others feel the same. U know advice is good when it's timeless and still applies decades later
@@inspiredby624 I often wonder, were there more smart people back then, or are there more dumb people now?
@@Shock_Treatment there are more smart people today but people were much more wiser and well-spoken back then, well some.
This is actually a really good video and explains quite a few teenage problems now-a-days.
haha this channel teaches and motivates me more than my health education class 🤣
"None of the boys in my high school are interesting where can i find interesting men?" ....damn
Impressive! Right? I ❤️ her!
😂😂😂
3:53
Now females just get pumped & dumped on Tinder.
Ouch
I like how they didn't think you had to be born pretty but just take care of yourself to be good looking
And why were females then better looking than females today?
@@danielm3670 good question what do you think?
@@Sus-hb4fw A big reason is that today women eat a lot of inorganic foods, watch the wrong type of films and tv shows, listen to the wrong kind of music, the transgender/homosexual type such as ed sheren, and are far too active with mobile phones always in their hands. All that does in fact make a negative difference, as it warps your mindset, which makes you look much different than the women of the past.
@@danielm3670 Third Wave Feminism.
@@danielm3670 bruh doing my homie ed sheeran dirty
"A girl may be ready at 17, or 27, or never ready at all." "but a marriage involves two people, and those two people have to be ready, or it will be an unhappy marriage"
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 🙌
I didn't expect the lady at the end to give such matured answers.
people are getting mad because she said "if a girl is not good looking, how can she get people to like her?"
have u guys really listened to her? she said "any girl can be good looking", she is talking about grooming, self-care
IKR.They just have a lot of ignorance and anger. SJWs are a cynical lot. They feel empowered by negative emotion and perception of others.
I guess I can’t be an *SoCiAlalla JusstIc Warararoaaoauior* anymore because I agree with this comment
omg yesssss ikr
The language was different then.
People think good looking is about "visual" appearance. Truth is that people must be careful about who they call ugly. At school, Cameron Diaz and Sandra Bullock were called "ugly". Bullock does not remember the name of any friend from school, but she does with every person who called her ugly. Cameron was nicknamed "skeletor" at school. Can you imagine how these people must feel now?
This interesting film features Mia Farrow in her first screen appearance !
glamourdaze Yes! I knew I wasn’t wrong!
Omg I was just thinking that girl is gorgeous and looks like a young Mia Farrow! 😆
I knew that was Mia Farrow! 😊
She’s so beautiful! I thought it was her!
I THOUGHT THAT WAS HER!!!!
I remember watching this in Home Economics Class - early 70's.
Excellent advice! People will only be interested in you if YOU are interesting. Care for others. Be interested in them. Timeless.
Getting married at 17...
Um well hi I'm almost 18 and have never had a boyfriend 😂
Nothing wrong with that!! I wish I would have waited to have boyfriends til I was out of school. My life would have been so much different.. In a good way. Lol
Sarah Lister same!
maybe its cuz u never tie your shoes
Almost 20 and same...might be getting into my first relationship soon tho >.
Dw i have friends (both guys and gals) who are 21 and have never had a relationship
03:58 "The way to meet interesting boys in your high school, or anywhere else, is to be interesting yourself..."
A concept from a bygone era, that encouraged individuals to self-reflect and improve themselves, not just for their own sakes but for others around them, and by extension, the society in which they live.
I don't think we have to make everything about "Things were better back in the day", in all times there were tons of people with different opinions and attitudes
@@cheydinal5401 Yes, but cultural regression is a thing. People don't like to admit that with all the benefits the internet affords human civilization, it has its price.
@@brandonporter6223 At this point I'm pretty sure the internet has more downsides then positive sides.
@@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790 Yeah, I agree.
Actually the internet was developed for males searching for female nudes and back at the time more than 90% contents were pornographic. Now its reduced a bit. Its fascinating to know how the development of the Internet took place.
These answers are so well thought together I like her , so relaxed and comfortable I gotta be like that when answering questions.
Love the wall art in the background.
Enid's advice is perfect. Treating teens as young adults rather than talking down to them.
Teens are almost younger adults, in our teens, our bodies are becoming adults and our brains definitely are, but when we're teenagers, we are not children anymore, but not totally in our young adulthood either, that's why it's called "adolescence"....you're not totally grown up in your teens, physically or mentally, that's why it always says the most recommended age for young women to start having children is biologically 20+ but not over 35, because 20s is our young adulthood and when women reach highest fertility, but we are capable from the time we start our periods, but our bodies grow and develop estrogen levels up to 20+ years old
@@duskyviolets2560 my mom had me when she was 42 lol
@@darkmodeaj no...you still CAN..but a woman's fertility prime is her 20s, not teens, not 30s, NOT 40s...20s but you can still get pregnant at that age..and you can definitely get pregnant in the teens unless you have problems with your reproductive system..but a young women in her 20s can get pregnant easier than any other age and give birth easier than any other age, because she ovulates the most eggs in the 20s, that's why ovulation symptoms are much more common in the 20s than in the teens, and most of her good eggs are gone by her 30s..she not only ovulates the most but ovulates the healthiest eggs as well
@@duskyviolets2560 yeah I know I just thought it was funny cuz, you said it isn't recommended to have children if ur over 35
@@darkmodeaj yeah..it's not, but it can still happen obviously, any doctor will tell you a young woman in her 20s is in her most fertile years and at the healthiest for childbearing
When you care about people, you become interesting.
Then I must be boring as heck.
70 years ago uau.
@@alguem9701 your math is off the charts
Bcoz everyone is selfish and wanted everything to be about them. If people don't care about u, of coz u won't care about them too. We are selfish.
Not true when care about people you become a sheep🐏
These are genuinely good advice
"Why are parents so immature?"
Exactly!!!! that's what I'm always saying!!...
*Teenagers are people* -thank you so much for telling everyone that because some thinks that teenagers are superman/woman ,they can overcome every difficulties and can't do any mistakes..
In the end the old lady who was telling facts take my heart away...she is so amazing..❤️💜
3:39 I feel so intimidated...
My question is: "Why the hell is RUclips recommending me this?"
same
X3
Their AI interpreted N A as >Non Adult
@@kulturfreund6631 yeah your joke died before it was conceived.
@@NA-xg7lf 😂
This is so interesting for me to watch. My grandma was in her sixteens at that time, and she wrote a diary of meeting “him”.They got married four years later 20 &25. Funny how we thought they were so different back in the days. This video/interview shows us how wrong we were (or atleast some of us).
Her advices are timeless I guess
None of these girls were even close to looking like a teenager
Teenagers looked differently back then.
@Will Brown Poor men?! Have you seen the boys back then? Giant glasses, goofy grins, and bad acne? They were mostly huge dorks. The women might have had bad hair but most the men had bad faces. Poor women! Lol
@Will Brown what do u mean poor men are girls supposed to live up to there expectations shut up
I’m here just in case there’s a nice read developing
@Will Brown it looks nice wdym
Older generations laugh at us. We laugh at them. The circle of life.
Truth. 👏
Meanwhile, I'm here laughing at my own generation.
i dont see what there is to laugh about here ?
But just take a momment and think who raised this new genaration
This is the last generation. It can't get any worse than that
I like how the old lady at the end basically said both people must be ready no matter the age before marriage
0:45 "teenagers are people"
Me: 🤯
Teenagers then: How can I meet interesting boys?
Me: Where is the shaky voice filter on tik tok?
Thats really sad. we fucking devolved
SERIOUSLY WHERE IS I WANNA KNOWW
@@ambrosia_fragments WHERE ISSSS ITTT I RLY WANNA HAVE THAT SHAKY ALIEN VOICE
@@ambrosia_fragments After you record a video and press the check mark look to your top right corner and you'll see the voice filters. It's none of them, I don't remember which one
@@tirales8699 check my last comment
So this is basically one deliberately effective advertisement for a magazine.
Specifically for teenagers, that btw are people.
Well, the magazine is meant to help teenagers and so if the video, so it is basically a free sample.
This is such good advice I can apply to my life❤
These videos could be used still today. The video every teenage girl needs to see.
Dude if I was alive in the 60's I'd just be in my room jamming out in my room the The Beatles and The Rolling Stones
You can still do that :)
@@90sHONEY I do :) and like every other classic rock n roll band
Trust me, most of them WERE doing that.
Just the tail end of the 60s...it really started rockin in the early 70s ala Zepplin, Mott the Hoople, Cactus, on and on...💚
@@5DNRG I'm more of a 60s person myself but I mean I do love 70s music very much 💕
« People were so classy back then. I was born in the wrong generation »
Yeah let’s forget about misogyny, homophobia, racism...
you can still appreciate positive aspects of the timeframe- like class -without wanting to subject to all of that. it's a true statement that people were much classier back then and there's really nothing wrong with someone desiring to live in a diff gen.
rice roller Of course you can appreciate how classy people where back then.
But if you wish you lived in a generation that was so intolerant towards some people it just shows that you don’t care about others.
rice roller well how do you define classy? pearls and dress suits? those are still available to be worn. fancy accents and a good vocabulary? again, not impossible to come by today either. what’s so good about those things anyway? if wearing my jeans and fake jewellery and talking casually is “low class” then I’d prefer to be. lol. who cares?
Leila that person isn’t wrong for wishing to live in a different generation. There was always intolerance in every generation. I think living in the 1800s would be amazing. But they had slavery back then and I would be a slave. But it’s the ideal of that generation, despite the negative things, that is appealing. Living in America when it was open and vast and traveling to the west sounds amazing to me. And my family is Native American too! So, that was definitely negative for them as well. But it’s the ideal of that freedom and open land that is appealing.
savanah smith it’s hard to explain but people may wish to live in simpler times because they want certain things those times had, not the bad stuff of those times.
I just wanted to say that the blond teenage girl in this video is actually gorgeous. Also, the style from the 60s is simply magnificent and lovely. People looked way more healthy at that time, they were clean and fresh and were taking care of their appearance but also of their behaviour. Grace and elegance, this is what our current societies lack !
This is gold.
Me: its 2am and I need to sleep I’ll find a good meditation to sleep to
Also me: I wonder what was the most asked questions by teens in the 60s....
Hahahahahaha
😆🤣
Lol sammmmmme
Dear God those advices are soo good, my 29 yo ass can learn a lot from.
same i had to listen multiple times
omg true
Boomer
@@smalltiny lol I'd take that 💁
@@smalltiny God I hate my generation. Trying to reduce everything in the English language down to stupid one liners xD
Omg sis was spilling FAXXS at that table 💅🏼😌.
This advice was given a long time ago.
But it can still be applied today.
"They are diligent students at the art of making themselves attractive" as a former e-girl with clown make up and karen hair dyed a dark blue, I can confirm it is indeed true.
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Ok 😐
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Bro what?
I think your paragraph didn't land well with this audience.
5:11 "I'm asking for a friend"
she not ugly
I died ...internally ...externally ...
The wise lady is so classy and eloquent.
I would've loved to live back in this time. Growing up in that simplicity, then going to college when it was affordable in the '60s, then having a career in the '70s, sign me up.