Hello loves! If you hadn't caught part one of my ex best series check out my story time here: ruclips.net/video/88SoF-VJ2OY/видео.html Let me know if you have been in a similar situation and what you guys have been up too
@Nicolettaxo I didn't not probably break up with 3 of my middle or regular school friends but I try to hold contact with them but it always seems only I have been trying to be in contact with them they never try to be the frist one to try so I quit trying I didn't broke up with them but I don't try anymore to contact them I just don't care anymore we never fought it's just they didnt care that much so I chose to do the same
@@zaidysdiysandsquishys6937 if you really are toxic, stop being toxic and get some emotional support. I suggest the professionals at skillsforlifethreapy.com
As an empath I attract friends like this a lot. I've had so many blatant copycats - like buying the exact same earrings a day after I bought them but then also putting me down? This video could be exactly about her
10 signs your ex friend is toxic 1. They are drama 2. It's all about them 3. They put you down 4. They compete with you 5. They secretly copy you 6. They make you feel uncomfortable 7. They are needy 8. They are jealous of your friends 9. You feel responsible for them 10. They are hypocritical
My ex best friend was the same! In the beginning she didn't show it. She was a great manipulator. She grabbed everyones attention. When we became close she started being mean to me. She was so dramatic, she tried stealing the boyfriend of her other close friend. She started making fun of me, telling me that if i wasn't pretty i would look like Sid from Ice age, because my movements are inadequate. She told me I became an awful person because of her and she felt guilty. She told me that i had done something really bad and that i had just another chance (the bad thing was that i had sex with my ex boyfriend...????? Like what????). We are no longer friends because I fell in love and I am in a commited relationship, so she couldn't deal with the fact that she wasn't in the spotlight anymore. I also believe she was jealous that i was happy. She met him once, he came with flowers and was super polite. We were together for 3 and a half months and he had to go to america for 4 months (i am from Europe). He bought us tickets for Paris, so we could meet there. That was the sweetest thing anyone has done for me, but my "best friend" told me he was crasy and that i was like a payed prostitude, because he would expect from me to have sex with him on the trip (keep in mind that i was 19 years old and we were together for 7 months in that time, and we hadn't had sex still). So when he came bake our frienshio ended
It's called narcissism ! I too experienced a similar situation with a ''friend'' I Cut that friend off and never looked back. Now I am currently experiencing a close friend of mine being jealous of me. She gets upset with me anytime I talk about going to Spin class ( She cannot afford the classes) Anytime I talk about moving she will make comments saying well your not going to be able to afford it . ( She has no clue what my husband and I can afford) I think she is mad because she has been engaged for 5 years and her fiance has no plans on marrying her or moving he out of the apartment that they live in. She started blowing me off and said the reason why she cancels on me last minute is because I am more understanding than our other mutual friend. I started distancing myself from her and it's been a breath of fresh air!
My ex friend suddenly removed me from her life one day, for no reason at all. At first I was sad, but then later on I found out she's racist...now even more so because of this pandemic. I'm glad she did me a favour and severed ties.
I'm so glad I found this video. I've been a narcissist magnet and punching bag since high school. I've always been a soft spoken and sensitive person so this has made me an easy target for these kinds of people. My last friendship was honestly hell and caused me a lot of trauma and anxiety. Things she did that were immediate red flags but I tried not to read into it too much. 1. Putting me down in a lowkey way and masking it as just being honest. Now that I look back I know it was 100% jealousy. 2. Controlling. If we went to the mall and I decided to go look at a different isle in the shop we were at she would yell at me for leaving her side. This was incredibly off putting to me as I hate being controlled. 3. She moved into my place { did not pay rent or contribute in any way} and even though I had set up a guest room for her she insisted on sleeping in my room and bed with me then getting upset when I stayed up to speak to my Bf who lives in a different country and is 6 hours behind me. 4. Copying the way I dress, style hair and do makeup. 5. Taking extremely unflattering pictures of me and sending them to my bf or posting them on IG without my permission. 6. Had a fling with my ex bfs roommate and then crashed at their place because I wasn't giving her enough attention. Honestly all of this built up over time began weighing on me heavily, feeling like I had to split myself in 2 to make her happy or id have to deal with her being passive aggressive and rude, just felt overbearing and wrong as I already gave her a lot of my time. I ended the friendship gradually by gray rocking her once she moved out. She has gone onto creating a fake facebook and befriended other ex friends of mine to harass me further. Hoping she moves on eventually.
I had a "friend" who ticked all of these boxes. I was too scared to stand up to her because I know she'd make my life a living hell. I remember I started dating an older boy, and guess what? So did she! (even tho she said before she thought he was really ugly hmmm). If i didnt tell her EVERYTHING about my life and kept private secrets that i didnt want them to know about, i was a liar, i was a fake friend etc, and would get called horrible things, even though i did nothing wrong. So i always apologised. She was so manipulative and horrible, she'd shout rude things about the way people looked (even if she didn't know them) and by the end of school when I had matured and realised how much of a toxic person she was, I told her I did not want to be friends with her anymore and that she was a bully. She literally bullied me, tried to take class mates away from me by telling them not to sit with me and to sit with her instead, she'd shout rude things to me and laugh at the way I looked in the hallway in front of everyone and she'd just make up lies about me. I am no longer friends with many girls, because the majority of them are the same. It really did effect me and still does, but I didn't tell anyone because if I did she would've won. Please get these toxic friends out of your life, I promise you'll feel so much happier after you do.
I can fully relate accept for the shouting abt people, my friend would even drag me into it and me and her aren’t friends anymore but she still does it and she blamed doing it on me . Now she acts like a sweet angel and ppl think that I’m the reason she was rude but in reality she’s just a great manipulative person
It’s pretty sad that I can apply these traits to a lot of people I’ve met throughout my life 👀 thank you for sharing your experience! I can really relate to it 💕
Yes girl preach! Going through the exact same thing right now. I don't want to go into it but now I'm being harassed and it's getting to the point where I'll be going to the cops soon for a restraining order. She's crazy.
I love your intro it’s so nice to hear every video 💜 100% agree with so many of these. I got out of an 8 year friendship last year which sucks but it was such a toxic friendship and I realize that now. My breaking point was I got surgery and a month before that, my dog died and 2 weeks after he died, my turtle died and my surgery made me miss my senior ball so it was a mess and she didn’t care one bit that I was in pain or anything and I confronted her about it and she half ass said sorry but said she had stuff going on, which she didn’t bc she tells her mom, who is also my best friend, literally everything and then proceeded to tell her mom that I didn’t want to be bothered and that I couldn’t have visitors while recovering which was a complete and total lie especially because I was upset that she didn’t text or come see me or anything. It sucks dropping everything for someone and never getting it back If anyone read all this, you’re awesome haha
I have a entire friend group that's toxic! They are all the signs listed in here and the leader of the group who used to be one of my best friends steals all the new friends I make and makes them turn against me and join her toxic friend group so on Monday I am going to completely ignore them all and not talk or even make eye contact with them!
I love that you made this video! For any young viewers, from experience in an abusive relationship, know that these are also all red flags for a future partner. Watch out for these not only for friends but in boyfriends or girlfriends as well 💜
I have a big problem with not knowing who my real friends are and what their intentions were. This helped me so much with seeing signs of fake/mediocre friends thank you!
Definitely had a toxic ex best friend for sure. Was always someone she didn’t like including my own boyfriend. Never wanted the best for me. Haven’t talked to her in so long but all these points are so true. Wow.
The part of always relating it back to them is huge! I genuinely felt like she wasn’t listening to me and she would interrupt me all the time to talk about herself. In groups of people, specifically men, she would literally NEVER let me talk and desperately try to one up and impress everyone. It was awful. I wanted to go out and have a wing woman night and she would just go out of her way to ensure that she got every bit of attention. Ironically, there were times when boys were clearly annoyed with her antics and we’d end up hitting it off because she would be acting ridiculous.
Great video ! you were so SPOT on with this. I'm currently going through this I decided to distance myself. because I'm tired of telling her what I don't like and she constantly does it. either she doesn't care or has a bad memory problem. either way I don't have to deal with it. but thanks for sharing
It took this video as a guide because I noticed I had some of the traits so I’m going to change myself and be a better person. Also I noticed my ex best friend had some of these traits as well. I love the video and it also not just a video about looking for signs of a toxic friend it is also about seeing if you are one and trying to be a good person. Thank you ❤️ well at least I think I have these traits. I’m probably going to ask my bestfriend Mallory lol. Edit she said I don’t I get into my head sometimes lol
It's videos like this that make me thank my past self for being a weird child and not being able to have people as actual friends. Friendship looks so greener on the other side.
So spot on. I had a family member that always made me the butt of jokes!!! Don’t they know that trying to dim others light doesn’t make there’s brighter? ❤️❤️❤️. You have hundreds of friends now chickie?....US!!!
Omg I actually had a friend that would spam my phone when I was busy and then when I wouldn’t answer she would say it’s a emergency and I would ask her what happened and she would just say that she was bored like I have a life to you know
My friend is exactly like that but she wouldn’t say it’s an emergency she would just say I was bored as well and I’m like that is what you were blowing up my phone for?
Irais Juarez yea and when I would talk to other friends they would get jealous and mad and when I would pretend to get mad (I really didn’t care) they would say that am being so dumb
@@iris_0404 My friend would say it’s urgent and then say ‘wanna ft’ like at this point I’m deprived from my own family edit: i broke off the friendshippp :)
Thanks for the awesome video! Had this happen a lot, and made a lot of toxic people. What I say is “If you can’t be there in my life then you don’t need to be in it.~”
omg thank you so much i just needed to hear that! i’m in this trio with Brittany and sarah i don’t want to say there names (just for privacy)….. and i became friends with Brittany and we got rly close than sarah came along and got into our friendship…… i liked this boy named TJ not his real name! and we liked each other for the whole year, and over the summer she got snap and EVERYDAY they snapped eachother and she knew i rly liked him and i had trust issues w her b4 but she rly broke my trust w other stuff, and i asked her “do you like TJ”! and she lied to me constantly and i just figured out a week ago that they like eachother and i’m stuck so pls help me!!!!!!!! luv u!
sign 1: that’s my ex bestie sign 2: that’s my ex bestie sign 3: somewhat my ex bestie sign 4: that’s my ex bestie sign 5: that’s my ex bestie sign 6: that’s my ex bestie sign 7: that’s my ex bestie sign 8: that’s definitely my ex bestie! we both shared a best friend and she was always trying to take me away from her and whisper about me to her! sign 9: tbh, that’s kinda my ex bestie, not exactly sign 10: that’s the thing my ex bestie did the most! so yes that’s my ex bestie! My Story: Me and my best friend, or not my bestie anymore, were besties for a longgg time! But then, she started to be dramatic! And mean and stuff, I can’t explain. She’d always whisper about me to my best friends, telling them bad things about me. She’d always roll her eyes, and not pay attention to anything I had to say. She’d always be mean to everyone, and she was only kind to one of her besties. She had a little bubble with one best friend, and she kicked me out of it. I was hurt, but I couldn’t let her knock me down. I tried talking to her about it, and she said she wasn’t mad at me about anything. But, then, she started the drama all over again. I’d always try to talk about it, but she’d always roll her eyes and storm off, whispering about me. She’d glance at me in class, and roll her eyes. When she was passing out graded papers, when she came to my desk, she’d slam my paper on my desk and try her hardest to crumple it up. She’d tell me to shut up when I said hi to her, and she got worse, actually. We were in a really bad spot that we stayed away for a while. Next time I see her, I’ll tell her, hey, we’re not ok right now! I can’t be around you anymore! And I don’t care what she says, I’ll just be glad to get out of her dramatic circle. Thanks Nicoletta! I’m sorry that this comment is so long, but I just wanna let u know that I’m very grateful that you shared this video with people. Love u! #RoadTo1Mil!
I feel like a totally different person around this one girl. I have no problem with anyone else but whenever she messages me i get weird anxiety- she makes me feel like i'm forced to compete, and has broken my trust multiple times, so i kind of told her that i didn't really appreciate it when she tried to hold hands or hug me. Then she played the "but you do this with this other person, so it's unfair" card. It's true that i'm a bit more affectionate with this other girl, but i think i have good reasons, since she had internet stalked me twice, claimed my art and other work, made me feel like i was being manipulated, belittled my problem(s), been really jealous of my friendship with that other girl and tried to use it against me and sometimes gaslit or quiltripped me. She'd threatened another ex-friend with suicide, too. I've honestly been thinking about it a lot, and i want to cut ties with her right now, altough i'm concerned because she talks about depression a lot and showed us some scars she made, so i'm kind of scared of what she might do, what do i do in this situation? I don't really want her to be alone but for my own mental state it would be better to leave her, i feel like. I still care about her, but after fighting recently, i just looked back on everything and it's been in my head since.
-Don't answer calls or texts -stop giving them attention -if still you have chemistry with them, start to reduce it -love your self and respect your choices. Live the life you want Good luck❤️
I can relate to you sooo much. My best friend, doesn’t even feel like my best friend anymore. She is so toxic and it just drains me so much everyday when I’m around her. I don’t want to tell her this because I don’t want to be mean. She starts drama with every friend that comes into her life. No matter what it is, even if it’s petty or stupid, she starts the drama and makes it so the person feels bad for her. And she drags me into everything. And I don’t want to be mean to her and make me the bad guy. All of my friends agree that she is a drama and she is an attention seeker. She finds any opportunity to get people to tell her that’s she pretty or nice or not fat. But idk what to do. I want to stop being friends with her but i have no idea! 😕😔 Btw, I’m not trying to be mean to her, I have been there for her for almost ten years, it’s just this past year that she is Bugging me, and it feels like she hasn’t been there for me lately.I hope you guys have a good day! 😊
Don't worry sis me too the only reason I haven't beat her ass is because I wasn't raised that way she tries to copy me and she mimics my personality and style all I tell her is " Bish stop copying me like be yourself " and she got pissed so don't worry me too sis xoxo hope you feel better
She sounds like the type that if you were to set boundaries, she would cross them anyways. I know it’s hard but by now I hope you were able to realize that this is not good for your mental and physical health by any stretch. My ex best friend is the exact same way. Don’t let her manipulate you anymore. And if you end the friendship, she will try to make you feel bad and manipulate you but you have to know it’s not true. Do this for yourself.
not even half way through the video, and my so called “bsf” (now ex) from elementary till the end of elementary relates to all these traits 150% !! i cannot begin to describe how controlling and manipulative she was. her and my other ex bsf would team up against me to get me in trouble and to make me feel bad abt myself. keep in mind we were literal children?! and this is extremely immature but whenever i mentioned having a crush, she would soon have a crush on that person too. and then proceeds to have the audacity to say that she liked them first. she made me feel bad abt the way i looked and made me question my self worth. after 3 years of being friends with her, once middle school hit i somewhat dropped her. we talked every now and then but I ddint want to get too close. now fast forward to earlier this year, she was in my class and seeing that she didn’t really have any friends and i was just nice, she leeched onto me once again? i found out that her bsf now ex bsf, actually dropped her as well bc of how toxic she was. it was crystal clear of how nasty her true personality was. then after that quarter, she went online. for the next 5 months i was able to avoid her, until she downloaded this one calling app thst most of my grade has, and coincidentally i confessed to my crush that day. (in elementary we both had a crush on him at the same time :/) she finds out i like him and being the biatch that she was, she proceeds to talk to him knowing that im incapable of doing that bc of how awkward i was. BUT MOVING ON FROM HER 😹 i now have 2 amazing bsfs who are 100% supportive of me in whatever decision i make, and if there is any type of conflict between us, we immediately talk abt it and solve it
Warning! this applies to every relationship you have in your life including family. No one is exempt from treating you with respect idgaf who they are.
I’ve had girl best friends like this. I think they are actually narcissistic I have cut them off all but I have cptsd after them now really messed up with my head and confidence their master manipulators will make you question everything about yourself and constantly put you down
I saw the title and thought about ......... an ex best friend since 15 to 25 last year it was over and she was so toxic and is still spreading her toxic traits to other friends
Thank you for sharing this I went through the same thing so Ik the pain 😞 I unfortunately was like her also my friend was so toxic saying things, interrupting me all the time, complaining about where we would eat, very greedy with money she complained to my other best friend also unfortunately had to drop there friendship also for similar reasons she complained that when we had gone out for my birthday we went for brunch at a place we all loved my other friend ordered waffles and strawberries when the check came she’s like oh why is the bill so high and she looked she’s like oh your meal was an extra 4 dollars bc of the strawberries my friend looked at her and said it’s what I wanted and I’m paying for it not you. Then with me she was so toxic at one point I had a breakdown and just bursted into tears bc everything that she would say to me or behind my back was building up and I couldn’t take it so I called her one day and told her we couldn’t be Friends anymore
Omg the part where you talked about how Sarah would flirt with someone taken is exactly what my bff is doing except the guy she’s been messing with is married. And like you I’m not for it, when I told her it’s not right, all she said was, “I’m single, he isn’t so he’s at fault.”
Not joking, everything you named is my ex best friend to the T. I broke off my friendship forever w my ex bestfriend of many years. She did some really messed up things awhile back so i tried to end our friendship and then she messaged me and tried to apologize reeling me back in and then started talking about her problems. Though i thought she changed, but slowly she shows her true form again. I broke off your friendship for good, and she came back trying to “apologize” yet she would say “im sorry you felt the way you did” “i didnt mean to make you feel the way you did” multiple times, she never owned up to any actions and then started using her manipulative tactics “i understand if you want to block me after this “ TWICE and “i cant stop thinking about you, ive been needing to say this for months”. I originally thought I had blocked all of her insta accounts. After a few days of not answering, I finally did. I sent her some articles on what not to say when apologizing and told her that she should acknowledge her actions. Also that I knew she was talking behind my back and go never contact me again. I then blocked her. A few hours later, one of our mutuals on insta sent me a screenshot of what my exbestfriend wrote in her notes. She called me a pussy for blocking her and not letting her reply, called me psychotic, told me to eat shit, called me a bitch, called my new friends names, and half of the stuff she said she made up in her head. I told her friend that I didn’t care to read it (although i ended up) and this isn’t high school. Then I proceeded to block our mutual which she talked MAJOR shit about when we were friends. TL;DR- my ex bestfriend is extremely manipulative and cannot handle the truth or not hearing what she wants to hear.
So right now my Ex friend has a friend and she blocked me on Instagram but my ex friend still follows me but I don’t follow her so I’m not sure what’s going on
OMG YES I had a so called bf and we stopped communicating just over a month ago now.This person went through a fat period and upon joining a dance group she lost a lot of the weight.She dyed her hair blonde and started calling herself a different name.She also started hanging out a lot with her new group of friends and going out at the drop of a hat and never saying no to any invites She's a real people pleaser and likes to be loud as well.If a person tells a story she likes to go one up and talk about her experience and make it seem so much more exciting.She excluded me from a lot of things and would keep things from me and I know she was a little lets say jealous or envious of me because I'm funny and people just gravitate towards me.She on the other hand would use some of my comments or behaviours to try and be like me.She even started wearing jumpsuits which is something I started wearing and still love to wear and would comment how great they were on tall people like her and I..Mind you I am taller than her.Anyway I also go to the gym and she used to comment how she used to go to the gym ''years ago'' and is over that and wouldn't do it again and then all of a sudden shes doing the gym again and she even mentioned she had a PT which didn't make sense because she still does her dance classes then why would she need gym or a PT.?.She also says she doesn't like people knowing her business and what she does or where she goes yet she still lets people tag her on fb.She never has luck with men even though she brags about how all these guys notice her and tell her shes gorgeous..I have never heard it but then again I stopped believing a lot of her shit and just cant be bothered anymore.Now that i have stepped back I can see a lot of her behaviour was just all about getting attention on herself..I cant be around selfish people like that who just aim to please people just so they can be liked..Pathetic if you ask me..
I used to have two best friends. Hayley and Jasmine. They meant the world to me and they took care of me when I lost my mum. We did everything together until Hayley passed away at which point Jasmine became a completely different person. We fell out a year later because Hayley’s death was too much for her to handle. I still have her number and address to this day but I’m too afraid to talk to her
Sounds like a damn narc. I had a friend like this. She knew I was struggling to save money. Well I accidentally tapped her bumper right at the corner. So I go to the ATM and withdrawal $200 and give it to her and she refuses it saying well figure it out later. So "later" she sends me a picture of a bill for a bumper costing $890 dollars. I'll remind you, it's a 2005 Nissan altama, and its a fist size dent on the corner of the bumper. There was no "talking" about it. She wanted me to replace the whole bumper with this new money she new I finally saved up. So I sent her a video of how to pop out dents. Told her I know a body work guy. Nothing. So I sent her my ins card info. And then blocked her forever.
Yeah I was under this spell for way too long ... all of these are very true . And somehow I still feel bad for leaving everything how I did . Lol crazy how people can manipulate you. 🤯
Once I was in the car and my friend kept texting me and calling me at the same time I didn’t answer cause my mom was in the car with me and she would get so mad id i didn’t answer and she would text me ANSWER ANSWER and I’m like damn calm down is she toxic ?
I'm so sorry about what you had to go through in your high school years and university years too and I love your channel and since our president basically put us in quarantine for the time being we can't go anywhere so what better to then watch Nicoletta ❤️😁
Would you say it is toxic if they say a nice thing to you and then a min later they be straight up rude to you and say bad things about you like I don't like opening up to ppl and I thought I could trust her but all the things I don't like telling ppl I told her but now she bullys me abt those things I think that is toxic but I need someone to tell me that other then myself
I have this best friend who I have known since childhood. Well, I thought wrong. I guess I barely knew both of them and didn't interact that much. I realized this a little late: 1) When she attended the convention I was in and I was showing my stuff to her, since I'm not sure if she's still into anime, I just said, "There, you remember the movie we just watched? I made a fan art of them." and she just said, "Yeah, I know that." in a different tone (like clearly telling me she's not stupid to forget it). So, I was thinking, okay, she did not need to rub it in like that since I no longer think she's into anime that much. 2) Later on, pandemic struck and we were talking about getting vaccinated and she sent me messages on how to register and all. Like clearly, showed me step by step how to do it, like I'm stupid. Of course, at first I thought it was sweet that she put effort to it and all but whenever I try to say something, it's like she's saying, "Just do it. I'm not going to listen to your reasoning." and later on I did not say anything which went awkward. 3) I messaged them again to see how they are doing. The two of them talked while I was away and when I was the one who messaged, there was no interaction, just the other one responding to me (probably for me not to feel bad). When they were saying I love you girls etc. I did not reply (which probably made things awkward). Now I don't know if I'm overthinking it since I saw them as red flags. But I realized that maybe if it was my fault for not reaching out to them or talking to them. Or they just changed. I'm just through with these kind of people. Pandemic helped me sort that out.
My toxic friend would make fun of me and insult me and he would say "I'm just joking." He would always say I was a "fatass" or that if a guy ever liked me he would feel sorry for them He was a great manipulator. And he would manipulate me and would try to isolate me from other friendsI'd like to hang out with at school and he would talk crap about them and say "they arent gonna be with you." He even went as far as saying that my friends are toxic and i should drop them (knowing that I should really be dropping him) My other friend realized what was going on an cussed him out (which I thanked her very much for). My toxic friend made me feel guilty as if i was the toxic friend when really i just needed help from another friend cuz i couldnt take it anymore. He then told me "If you have any problem tell me." But i just couldn't tell him cuz i was uncomfortable. He would always text me and call me and if i didn't answer he would make me feel guilty as if i was the bad friend.......he even made fun and talked crap about my family......all of the signs that you have mentioned are what i have to go through with this "friend."
My best friend doesn't have my back on anything. She keeps on agreeing with my soon to be ex-husband on things I have issues with him on and she treats me like a child. Constantly telling me what to do and not to do. Or thinks she knows more than me so acts like I don't understand what's going on. She's only a year older than me.
I don’t care that I lost her but she’s going to spread all my secrets and always chat shit about me to her new mates, that’s what she did to her last best mate
I had a "friend" that was pregnant with me and our boyfriends were best friends. Cc ended up having emotional issues and I always wanted to help her. When she wanted to hang out and I couldn't shed get angry and blow up on me.when it was just me n her shed be nice and relatable. When it was all us 4 together they'd all be laughing at me and put me down. Eventually she ended up texting my man and I called it quits. End it before it ends u
I'm now realizing that I do have a toxic best friend I always tried to put aside and I would tell myself that I was just jealous of her but its the other way around thank you for helping me realize I really kind of want to get back at her though should I or should I just leave it there? Thank you for helping me ilysm!❤
I know this video is old, but I have a question. I have a friend who started dating a man in Aug, and is now engaged. This was right after an ex she had ghosted her and had a baby with someone else. I feel this is very rushed and I keep worrying about my friend. I want to be happy for her and I will participate in her wedding and stuff, but I can't help to be worried and thinking this is crazy. I don't really agree with the choice and I've never even met this guy and we are almost like sisters. I want to know how I be supportive and maybe express my concern and being honest how I feel, without looking jealous. Cause I don't feel it's coming from that place.
Tell her how u feel and u would want the best for her, straight up. It is too rushed, show her that u feel worried for her that she might regret it and should take her decisions into consideration, If she comes off as thinking ur jealous, thats not a good friend if she would even think u would be like that towards her. Remember friends will think and reflect their replies on how they see u, Lets say, if you would tell her that she is rushing things, then she actually takes ur word of advice instead of calling u a jealous friend, that means she actually sees u as a person who wants the best for her not as a friend who would want the worst for her. I hope this helped:)
I swear I have this one ex friend in certain that I absolutely can’t stand . At first she was so nice and I thought I found the friend for me but I didn’t soon after we became friends she started to hate this one girl she was friends with it got to the point she was starting to want to fight her and drag me into it but I never let her and she would get so mad. skip to recent times we have stopped being friends and we fight so much STILL. She got 5 people to not talk to me and make them all ruin my Life by telling on me bc yes I’m still in school but it has got to the point I stress abt it so much. so word of advice if u can’t stand the person now DROP THEM bc it’ll be worse the more they know bc the stronger they get. And the worse they make ur life.
I remember I wanted a nose ring on the left side of my nose and my ex friend/family said only lesbians get it on the left side What did she do? Got her nose ring on the left side and is now doing music because I am.
My fiance Linda had a friend that she met through a guy that cheated on his gf with my fiance. They were friends for 3 yrs then she made Linda chose between her and Linda's bf at the time Linda said she wanted both and Ashley left their friendship for a guy she married Linda tried here recentlyto get ahold of her and see if they could work on their friendship and Ashley basically said go away.
Let me just say Copying your bsf is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than being Inspired by your bsf and creating a style out of inspiration it’s TWO DIFFERENT THINGS dont mix them up because there IS a DIFFERENCE
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Hello loves! If you hadn't caught part one of my ex best series check out my story time here: ruclips.net/video/88SoF-VJ2OY/видео.html
Let me know if you have been in a similar situation and what you guys have been up too
Nicoletta xo That was mee
Nicoletta xo I am toxic
@Nicolettaxo I didn't not probably break up with 3 of my middle or regular school friends but I try to hold contact with them but it always seems only I have been trying to be in contact with them they never try to be the frist one to try so I quit trying I didn't broke up with them but I don't try anymore to contact them I just don't care anymore we never fought it's just they didnt care that much so I chose to do the same
can you make a vidio on how to move past your ex-bff?
@@zaidysdiysandsquishys6937 if you really are toxic, stop being toxic and get some emotional support. I suggest the professionals at skillsforlifethreapy.com
As an empath I attract friends like this a lot. I've had so many blatant copycats - like buying the exact same earrings a day after I bought them but then also putting me down? This video could be exactly about her
me (an empath) can sense you have been hurt 💔 (please know that my comment is a joke 😭)
@@milkyshcake7777 😭same here
10 signs your ex friend is toxic
1. They are drama
2. It's all about them
3. They put you down
4. They compete with you
5. They secretly copy you
6. They make you feel uncomfortable
7. They are needy
8. They are jealous of your friends
9. You feel responsible for them
10. They are hypocritical
Oh fuck
i knew it. Shes a ho-
One of my ex friends copied one of my ex friend
Facts to the facts
My ex best friend was the same! In the beginning she didn't show it. She was a great manipulator. She grabbed everyones attention. When we became close she started being mean to me. She was so dramatic, she tried stealing the boyfriend of her other close friend. She started making fun of me, telling me that if i wasn't pretty i would look like Sid from Ice age, because my movements are inadequate. She told me I became an awful person because of her and she felt guilty. She told me that i had done something really bad and that i had just another chance (the bad thing was that i had sex with my ex boyfriend...????? Like what????). We are no longer friends because I fell in love and I am in a commited relationship, so she couldn't deal with the fact that she wasn't in the spotlight anymore. I also believe she was jealous that i was happy. She met him once, he came with flowers and was super polite. We were together for 3 and a half months and he had to go to america for 4 months (i am from Europe). He bought us tickets for Paris, so we could meet there. That was the sweetest thing anyone has done for me, but my "best friend" told me he was crasy and that i was like a payed prostitude, because he would expect from me to have sex with him on the trip (keep in mind that i was 19 years old and we were together for 7 months in that time, and we hadn't had sex still). So when he came bake our frienshio ended
It's called narcissism ! I too experienced a similar situation with a ''friend'' I Cut that friend off and never looked back. Now I am currently experiencing a close friend of mine being jealous of me. She gets upset with me anytime I talk about going to Spin class ( She cannot afford the classes) Anytime I talk about moving she will make comments saying well your not going to be able to afford it . ( She has no clue what my husband and I can afford) I think she is mad because she has been engaged for 5 years and her fiance has no plans on marrying her or moving he out of the apartment that they live in. She started blowing me off and said the reason why she cancels on me last minute is because I am more understanding than our other mutual friend. I started distancing myself from her and it's been a breath of fresh air!
My ex friend suddenly removed me from her life one day, for no reason at all. At first I was sad, but then later on I found out she's racist...now even more so because of this pandemic. I'm glad she did me a favour and severed ties.
If you have a fake friend, it's best to keep a distance from them. It better to have only one true friend, than to have 10.
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I'm so glad I found this video. I've been a narcissist magnet and punching bag since high school. I've always been a soft spoken and sensitive person so this has made me an easy target for these kinds of people. My last friendship was honestly hell and caused me a lot of trauma and anxiety. Things she did that were immediate red flags but I tried not to read into it too much. 1. Putting me down in a lowkey way and masking it as just being honest. Now that I look back I know it was 100% jealousy. 2. Controlling. If we went to the mall and I decided to go look at a different isle in the shop we were at she would yell at me for leaving her side. This was incredibly off putting to me as I hate being controlled. 3. She moved into my place { did not pay rent or contribute in any way} and even though I had set up a guest room for her she insisted on sleeping in my room and bed with me then getting upset when I stayed up to speak to my Bf who lives in a different country and is 6 hours behind me. 4. Copying the way I dress, style hair and do makeup. 5. Taking extremely unflattering pictures of me and sending them to my bf or posting them on IG without my permission. 6. Had a fling with my ex bfs roommate and then crashed at their place because I wasn't giving her enough attention. Honestly all of this built up over time began weighing on me heavily, feeling like I had to split myself in 2 to make her happy or id have to deal with her being passive aggressive and rude, just felt overbearing and wrong as I already gave her a lot of my time. I ended the friendship gradually by gray rocking her once she moved out. She has gone onto creating a fake facebook and befriended other ex friends of mine to harass me further. Hoping she moves on eventually.
I rather have at least few good and true friends than being popular‼️Love these vids💖💖 Really inspirational
Indeed!
I'm alone at this point really but I rather that than being with a malicious person
100% of these happened to me! I've healed by now, but it makes me feel horrible that people really do this. The manipulation is real.
I had a "friend" who ticked all of these boxes. I was too scared to stand up to her because I know she'd make my life a living hell. I remember I started dating an older boy, and guess what? So did she! (even tho she said before she thought he was really ugly hmmm). If i didnt tell her EVERYTHING about my life and kept private secrets that i didnt want them to know about, i was a liar, i was a fake friend etc, and would get called horrible things, even though i did nothing wrong. So i always apologised. She was so manipulative and horrible, she'd shout rude things about the way people looked (even if she didn't know them) and by the end of school when I had matured and realised how much of a toxic person she was, I told her I did not want to be friends with her anymore and that she was a bully. She literally bullied me, tried to take class mates away from me by telling them not to sit with me and to sit with her instead, she'd shout rude things to me and laugh at the way I looked in the hallway in front of everyone and she'd just make up lies about me. I am no longer friends with many girls, because the majority of them are the same. It really did effect me and still does, but I didn't tell anyone because if I did she would've won. Please get these toxic friends out of your life, I promise you'll feel so much happier after you do.
I can fully relate accept for the shouting abt people, my friend would even drag me into it and me and her aren’t friends anymore but she still does it and she blamed doing it on me . Now she acts like a sweet angel and ppl think that I’m the reason she was rude but in reality she’s just a great manipulative person
I left my BFF because she was talking about me and she told people that she hates me so I new I had too
It’s pretty sad that I can apply these traits to a lot of people I’ve met throughout my life 👀 thank you for sharing your experience! I can really relate to it 💕
Yes girl preach! Going through the exact same thing right now. I don't want to go into it but now I'm being harassed and it's getting to the point where I'll be going to the cops soon for a restraining order. She's crazy.
I love your intro it’s so nice to hear every video 💜 100% agree with so many of these. I got out of an 8 year friendship last year which sucks but it was such a toxic friendship and I realize that now. My breaking point was I got surgery and a month before that, my dog died and 2 weeks after he died, my turtle died and my surgery made me miss my senior ball so it was a mess and she didn’t care one bit that I was in pain or anything and I confronted her about it and she half ass said sorry but said she had stuff going on, which she didn’t bc she tells her mom, who is also my best friend, literally everything and then proceeded to tell her mom that I didn’t want to be bothered and that I couldn’t have visitors while recovering which was a complete and total lie especially because I was upset that she didn’t text or come see me or anything. It sucks dropping everything for someone and never getting it back
If anyone read all this, you’re awesome haha
I have a entire friend group that's toxic! They are all the signs listed in here and the leader of the group who used to be one of my best friends steals all the new friends I make and makes them turn against me and join her toxic friend group so on Monday I am going to completely ignore them all and not talk or even make eye contact with them!
I love that you made this video! For any young viewers, from experience in an abusive relationship, know that these are also all red flags for a future partner. Watch out for these not only for friends but in boyfriends or girlfriends as well 💜
I have a big problem with not knowing who my real friends are and what their intentions were. This helped me so much with seeing signs of fake/mediocre friends thank you!
Definitely had a toxic ex best friend for sure. Was always someone she didn’t like including my own boyfriend. Never wanted the best for me. Haven’t talked to her in so long but all these points are so true. Wow.
The part of always relating it back to them is huge! I genuinely felt like she wasn’t listening to me and she would interrupt me all the time to talk about herself. In groups of people, specifically men, she would literally NEVER let me talk and desperately try to one up and impress everyone. It was awful. I wanted to go out and have a wing woman night and she would just go out of her way to ensure that she got every bit of attention. Ironically, there were times when boys were clearly annoyed with her antics and we’d end up hitting it off because she would be acting ridiculous.
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Great video ! you were so SPOT on with this. I'm currently going through this I decided to distance myself. because I'm tired of telling her what I don't like and she constantly does it. either she doesn't care or has a bad memory problem. either way I don't have to deal with it. but thanks for sharing
It took this video as a guide because I noticed I had some of the traits so I’m going to change myself and be a better person. Also I noticed my ex best friend had some of these traits as well. I love the video and it also not just a video about looking for signs of a toxic friend it is also about seeing if you are one and trying to be a good person. Thank you ❤️ well at least I think I have these traits. I’m probably going to ask my bestfriend Mallory lol. Edit she said I don’t I get into my head sometimes lol
It's videos like this that make me thank my past self for being a weird child and not being able to have people as actual friends. Friendship looks so greener on the other side.
So spot on. I had a family member that always made me the butt of jokes!!! Don’t they know that trying to dim others light doesn’t make there’s brighter? ❤️❤️❤️. You have hundreds of friends now chickie?....US!!!
Omg I actually had a friend that would spam my phone when I was busy and then when I wouldn’t answer she would say it’s a emergency and I would ask her what happened and she would just say that she was bored like I have a life to you know
My friend is exactly like that but she wouldn’t say it’s an emergency she would just say I was bored as well and I’m like that is what you were blowing up my phone for?
Irais Juarez yea and when I would talk to other friends they would get jealous and mad and when I would pretend to get mad (I really didn’t care) they would say that am being so dumb
@@iris_0404 My friend would say it’s urgent and then say ‘wanna ft’ like at this point I’m deprived from my own family
edit: i broke off the friendshippp :)
Thank you for sharing this! Hopefully this will help someone see or confirm their suspisions about a so called friend🙃❤️
Thanks for the awesome video! Had this happen a lot, and made a lot of toxic people. What I say is “If you can’t be there in my life then you don’t need to be in it.~”
omg thank you so much i just needed to hear that! i’m in this trio with Brittany and sarah i don’t want to say there names (just for privacy)….. and i became friends with Brittany and we got rly close than sarah came along and got into our friendship…… i liked this boy named TJ not his real name! and we liked each other for the whole year, and over the summer she got snap and EVERYDAY they snapped eachother and she knew i rly liked him and i had trust issues w her b4 but she rly broke my trust w other stuff, and i asked her “do you like TJ”! and she lied to me constantly and i just figured out a week ago that they like eachother and i’m stuck so pls help me!!!!!!!! luv u!
sign 1: that’s my ex bestie
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sign 3: somewhat my ex bestie
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sign 8: that’s definitely my ex bestie! we both shared a best friend and she was always trying to take me away from her and whisper about me to her!
sign 9: tbh, that’s kinda my ex bestie, not exactly
sign 10: that’s the thing my ex bestie did the most! so yes that’s my ex bestie! My Story: Me and my best friend, or not my bestie anymore, were besties for a longgg time! But then, she started to be dramatic! And mean and stuff, I can’t explain. She’d always whisper about me to my best friends, telling them bad things about me. She’d always roll her eyes, and not pay attention to anything I had to say. She’d always be mean to everyone, and she was only kind to one of her besties. She had a little bubble with one best friend, and she kicked me out of it. I was hurt, but I couldn’t let her knock me down. I tried talking to her about it, and she said she wasn’t mad at me about anything. But, then, she started the drama all over again. I’d always try to talk about it, but she’d always roll her eyes and storm off, whispering about me. She’d glance at me in class, and roll her eyes. When she was passing out graded papers, when she came to my desk, she’d slam my paper on my desk and try her hardest to crumple it up. She’d tell me to shut up when I said hi to her, and she got worse, actually. We were in a really bad spot that we stayed away for a while. Next time I see her, I’ll tell her, hey, we’re not ok right now! I can’t be around you anymore! And I don’t care what she says, I’ll just be glad to get out of her dramatic circle. Thanks Nicoletta! I’m sorry that this comment is so long, but I just wanna let u know that I’m very grateful that you shared this video with people. Love u! #RoadTo1Mil!
I feel like a totally different person around this one girl. I have no problem with anyone else but whenever she messages me i get weird anxiety- she makes me feel like i'm forced to compete, and has broken my trust multiple times, so i kind of told her that i didn't really appreciate it when she tried to hold hands or hug me. Then she played the "but you do this with this other person, so it's unfair" card. It's true that i'm a bit more affectionate with this other girl, but i think i have good reasons, since she had internet stalked me twice, claimed my art and other work, made me feel like i was being manipulated, belittled my problem(s), been really jealous of my friendship with that other girl and tried to use it against me and sometimes gaslit or quiltripped me. She'd threatened another ex-friend with suicide, too. I've honestly been thinking about it a lot, and i want to cut ties with her right now, altough i'm concerned because she talks about depression a lot and showed us some scars she made, so i'm kind of scared of what she might do, what do i do in this situation? I don't really want her to be alone but for my own mental state it would be better to leave her, i feel like. I still care about her, but after fighting recently, i just looked back on everything and it's been in my head since.
How am I supposed to tell someone I don’t want to hang out or really be friends anymore?
-Don't answer calls or texts
-stop giving them attention
-if still you have chemistry with them, start to reduce it
-love your self and respect your choices. Live the life you want
Good luck❤️
Also they might be toxic if they have a beef with everyone. Must be that big ego...smh
My toxic ex best friend was flirting w my bf our whole relationship and sleeping w him for 8 months😂
I can relate to you sooo much. My best friend, doesn’t even feel like my best friend anymore. She is so toxic and it just drains me so much everyday when I’m around her. I don’t want to tell her this because I don’t want to be mean. She starts drama with every friend that comes into her life. No matter what it is, even if it’s petty or stupid, she starts the drama and makes it so the person feels bad for her. And she drags me into everything. And I don’t want to be mean to her and make me the bad guy. All of my friends agree that she is a drama and she is an attention seeker. She finds any opportunity to get people to tell her that’s she pretty or nice or not fat. But idk what to do. I want to stop being friends with her but i have no idea! 😕😔 Btw, I’m not trying to be mean to her, I have been there for her for almost ten years, it’s just this past year that she is Bugging me, and it feels like she hasn’t been there for me lately.I hope you guys have a good day! 😊
Don't worry sis me too the only reason I haven't beat her ass is because I wasn't raised that way she tries to copy me and she mimics my personality and style all I tell her is " Bish stop copying me like be yourself " and she got pissed so don't worry me too sis xoxo hope you feel better
Daddy Broad shoulders thank you so much!
I suggest drop them after you tell them how u feel
She sounds like the type that if you were to set boundaries, she would cross them anyways. I know it’s hard but by now I hope you were able to realize that this is not good for your mental and physical health by any stretch. My ex best friend is the exact same way. Don’t let her manipulate you anymore. And if you end the friendship, she will try to make you feel bad and manipulate you but you have to know it’s not true. Do this for yourself.
not even half way through the video, and my so called “bsf” (now ex) from elementary till the end of elementary relates to all these traits 150% !! i cannot begin to describe how controlling and manipulative she was. her and my other ex bsf would team up against me to get me in trouble and to make me feel bad abt myself. keep in mind we were literal children?! and this is extremely immature but whenever i mentioned having a crush, she would soon have a crush on that person too. and then proceeds to have the audacity to say that she liked them first. she made me feel bad abt the way i looked and made me question my self worth. after 3 years of being friends with her, once middle school hit i somewhat dropped her. we talked every now and then but I ddint want to get too close. now fast forward to earlier this year, she was in my class and seeing that she didn’t really have any friends and i was just nice, she leeched onto me once again? i found out that her bsf now ex bsf, actually dropped her as well bc of how toxic she was. it was crystal clear of how nasty her true personality was. then after that quarter, she went online. for the next 5 months i was able to avoid her, until she downloaded this one calling app thst most of my grade has, and coincidentally i confessed to my crush that day. (in elementary we both had a crush on him at the same time :/) she finds out i like him and being the biatch that she was, she proceeds to talk to him knowing that im incapable of doing that bc of how awkward i was. BUT MOVING ON FROM HER 😹 i now have 2 amazing bsfs who are 100% supportive of me in whatever decision i make, and if there is any type of conflict between us, we immediately talk abt it and solve it
Warning! this applies to every relationship you have in your life including family. No one is exempt from treating you with respect idgaf who they are.
I’ve had girl best friends like this. I think they are actually narcissistic I have cut them off all but I have cptsd after them now really messed up with my head and confidence their master manipulators will make you question everything about yourself and constantly put you down
I saw the title and thought about ......... an ex best friend since 15 to 25 last year it was over and she was so toxic and is still spreading her toxic traits to other friends
I'm glad I found your channel, I really enjoy your videos 💙
Thank you for sharing this I went through the same thing so Ik the pain 😞
I unfortunately was like her also my friend was so toxic saying things, interrupting me all the time, complaining about where we would eat, very greedy with money she complained to my other best friend also unfortunately had to drop there friendship also for similar reasons she complained that when we had gone out for my birthday we went for brunch at a place we all loved my other friend ordered waffles and strawberries when the check came she’s like oh why is the bill so high and she looked she’s like oh your meal was an extra 4 dollars bc of the strawberries my friend looked at her and said it’s what I wanted and I’m paying for it not you. Then with me she was so toxic at one point I had a breakdown and just bursted into tears bc everything that she would say to me or behind my back was building up and I couldn’t take it so I called her one day and told her we couldn’t be Friends anymore
I ended up having to decide between my mental and my current group of friends. I’m choosing ME! It hurts but it’s necessary.
Omg the part where you talked about how Sarah would flirt with someone taken is exactly what my bff is doing except the guy she’s been messing with is married. And like you I’m not for it, when I told her it’s not right, all she said was, “I’m single, he isn’t so he’s at fault.”
Not joking, everything you named is my ex best friend to the T.
I broke off my friendship forever w my ex bestfriend of many years. She did some really messed up things awhile back so i tried to end our friendship and then she messaged me and tried to apologize reeling me back in and then started talking about her problems. Though i thought she changed, but slowly she shows her true form again. I broke off your friendship for good, and she came back trying to “apologize” yet she would say “im sorry you felt the way you did” “i didnt mean to make you feel the way you did” multiple times, she never owned up to any actions and then started using her manipulative tactics “i understand if you want to block me after this “ TWICE and “i cant stop thinking about you, ive been needing to say this for months”. I originally thought I had blocked all of her insta accounts. After a few days of not answering, I finally did. I sent her some articles on what not to say when apologizing and told her that she should acknowledge her actions. Also that I knew she was talking behind my back and go never contact me again. I then blocked her.
A few hours later, one of our mutuals on insta sent me a screenshot of what my exbestfriend wrote in her notes. She called me a pussy for blocking her and not letting her reply, called me psychotic, told me to eat shit, called me a bitch, called my new friends names, and half of the stuff she said she made up in her head. I told her friend that I didn’t care to read it (although i ended up) and this isn’t high school. Then I proceeded to block our mutual which she talked MAJOR shit about when we were friends.
TL;DR- my ex bestfriend is extremely manipulative and cannot handle the truth or not hearing what she wants to hear.
Just love you Nicoletta! You are so inspiring and I look up to you so much ❤ such great advices!
So right now my Ex friend has a friend and she blocked me on Instagram but my ex friend still follows me but I don’t follow her so I’m not sure what’s going on
OMG YES I had a so called bf and we stopped communicating just over a month ago now.This person went through a fat period and upon joining a dance group she lost a lot of the weight.She dyed her hair blonde and started calling herself a different name.She also started hanging out a lot with her new group of friends and going out at the drop of a hat and never saying no to any invites She's a real people pleaser and likes to be loud as well.If a person tells a story she likes to go one up and talk about her experience and make it seem so much more exciting.She excluded me from a lot of things and would keep things from me and I know she was a little lets say jealous or envious of me because I'm funny and people just gravitate towards me.She on the other hand would use some of my comments or behaviours to try and be like me.She even started wearing jumpsuits which is something I started wearing and still love to wear and would comment how great they were on tall people like her and I..Mind you I am taller than her.Anyway I also go to the gym and she used to comment how she used to go to the gym ''years ago'' and is over that and wouldn't do it again and then all of a sudden shes doing the gym again and she even mentioned she had a PT which didn't make sense because she still does her dance classes then why would she need gym or a PT.?.She also says she doesn't like people knowing her business and what she does or where she goes yet she still lets people tag her on fb.She never has luck with men even though she brags about how all these guys notice her and tell her shes gorgeous..I have never heard it but then again I stopped believing a lot of her shit and just cant be bothered anymore.Now that i have stepped back I can see a lot of her behaviour was just all about getting attention on herself..I cant be around selfish people like that who just aim to please people just so they can be liked..Pathetic if you ask me..
Thank you for makeing this!
I used to have two best friends. Hayley and Jasmine. They meant the world to me and they took care of me when I lost my mum. We did everything together until Hayley passed away at which point Jasmine became a completely different person. We fell out a year later because Hayley’s death was too much for her to handle. I still have her number and address to this day but I’m too afraid to talk to her
I'm sorry for your loss hope she is in heaven
Same and I'm so sorry 😟
Sounds like a damn narc.
I had a friend like this. She knew I was struggling to save money. Well I accidentally tapped her bumper right at the corner. So I go to the ATM and withdrawal $200 and give it to her and she refuses it saying well figure it out later.
So "later" she sends me a picture of a bill for a bumper costing $890 dollars. I'll remind you, it's a 2005 Nissan altama, and its a fist size dent on the corner of the bumper. There was no "talking" about it. She wanted me to replace the whole bumper with this new money she new I finally saved up. So I sent her a video of how to pop out dents. Told her I know a body work guy. Nothing.
So I sent her my ins card info. And then blocked her forever.
Yeah I was under this spell for way too long ... all of these are very true . And somehow I still feel bad for leaving everything how I did . Lol crazy how people can manipulate you. 🤯
Once I was in the car and my friend kept texting me and calling me at the same time I didn’t answer cause my mom was in the car with me and she would get so mad id i didn’t answer and she would text me ANSWER ANSWER and I’m like damn calm down is she toxic ?
Love your content🙌🏽😍
AWWWW Thank you so much beauty ! thank you for even watching xo
I'm so sorry about what you had to go through in your high school years and university years too and I love your channel and since our president basically put us in quarantine for the time being we can't go anywhere so what better to then watch Nicoletta ❤️😁
Would you say it is toxic if they say a nice thing to you and then a min later they be straight up rude to you and say bad things about you like I don't like opening up to ppl and I thought I could trust her but all the things I don't like telling ppl I told her but now she bullys me abt those things I think that is toxic but I need someone to tell me that other then myself
This is a lovely video 🌟🌟🌟
I’m so late I’m sorry I had to finish your other vid love you
Thank u for sharing this....😊love u
I have this best friend who I have known since childhood. Well, I thought wrong. I guess I barely knew both of them and didn't interact that much. I realized this a little late:
1) When she attended the convention I was in and I was showing my stuff to her, since I'm not sure if she's still into anime, I just said, "There, you remember the movie we just watched? I made a fan art of them." and she just said, "Yeah, I know that." in a different tone (like clearly telling me she's not stupid to forget it). So, I was thinking, okay, she did not need to rub it in like that since I no longer think she's into anime that much.
2) Later on, pandemic struck and we were talking about getting vaccinated and she sent me messages on how to register and all. Like clearly, showed me step by step how to do it, like I'm stupid. Of course, at first I thought it was sweet that she put effort to it and all but whenever I try to say something, it's like she's saying, "Just do it. I'm not going to listen to your reasoning." and later on I did not say anything which went awkward.
3) I messaged them again to see how they are doing. The two of them talked while I was away and when I was the one who messaged, there was no interaction, just the other one responding to me (probably for me not to feel bad). When they were saying I love you girls etc. I did not reply (which probably made things awkward).
Now I don't know if I'm overthinking it since I saw them as red flags. But I realized that maybe if it was my fault for not reaching out to them or talking to them. Or they just changed. I'm just through with these kind of people. Pandemic helped me sort that out.
My toxic friend would make fun of me and insult me and he would say "I'm just joking." He would always say I was a "fatass" or that if a guy ever liked me he would feel sorry for them He was a great manipulator. And he would manipulate me and would try to isolate me from other friendsI'd like to hang out with at school and he would talk crap about them and say "they arent gonna be with you." He even went as far as saying that my friends are toxic and i should drop them (knowing that I should really be dropping him) My other friend realized what was going on an cussed him out (which I thanked her very much for). My toxic friend made me feel guilty as if i was the toxic friend when really i just needed help from another friend cuz i couldnt take it anymore. He then told me "If you have any problem tell me." But i just couldn't tell him cuz i was uncomfortable. He would always text me and call me and if i didn't answer he would make me feel guilty as if i was the bad friend.......he even made fun and talked crap about my family......all of the signs that you have mentioned are what i have to go through with this "friend."
My best friend doesn't have my back on anything. She keeps on agreeing with my soon to be ex-husband on things I have issues with him on and she treats me like a child. Constantly telling me what to do and not to do. Or thinks she knows more than me so acts like I don't understand what's going on. She's only a year older than me.
Can I ask you for some advice on a situation that I am in? I'm struggling with it but talking to people too close to the situation isn't easy.
I don’t care that I lost her but she’s going to spread all my secrets and always chat shit about me to her new mates, that’s what she did to her last best mate
I had a "friend" that was pregnant with me and our boyfriends were best friends. Cc ended up having emotional issues and I always wanted to help her. When she wanted to hang out and I couldn't shed get angry and blow up on me.when it was just me n her shed be nice and relatable. When it was all us 4 together they'd all be laughing at me and put me down. Eventually she ended up texting my man and I called it quits. End it before it ends u
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I'm now realizing that I do have a toxic best friend I always tried to put aside and I would tell myself that I was just jealous of her but its the other way around thank you for helping me realize I really kind of want to get back at her though should I or should I just leave it there? Thank you for helping me ilysm!❤
Looks doesn't mean shit if the personality is ugly, like your ex best friend. I'm so glad she ain't your friend no more cause u didn't need it.
I know this video is old, but I have a question. I have a friend who started dating a man in Aug, and is now engaged. This was right after an ex she had ghosted her and had a baby with someone else.
I feel this is very rushed and I keep worrying about my friend. I want to be happy for her and I will participate in her wedding and stuff, but I can't help to be worried and thinking this is crazy. I don't really agree with the choice and I've never even met this guy and we are almost like sisters.
I want to know how I be supportive and maybe express my concern and being honest how I feel, without looking jealous. Cause I don't feel it's coming from that place.
Tell her how u feel and u would want the best for her, straight up. It is too rushed, show her that u feel worried for her that she might regret it and should take her decisions into consideration, If she comes off as thinking ur jealous, thats not a good friend if she would even think u would be like that towards her. Remember friends will think and reflect their replies on how they see u, Lets say, if you would tell her that she is rushing things, then she actually takes ur word of advice instead of calling u a jealous friend, that means she actually sees u as a person who wants the best for her not as a friend who would want the worst for her. I hope this helped:)
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Hey giiiirl❤️ left everything
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I swear I have this one ex friend in certain that I absolutely can’t stand . At first she was so nice and I thought I found the friend for me but I didn’t soon after we became friends she started to hate this one girl she was friends with it got to the point she was starting to want to fight her and drag me into it but I never let her and she would get so mad. skip to recent times we have stopped being friends and we fight so much STILL. She got 5 people to not talk to me and make them all ruin my Life by telling on me bc yes I’m still in school but it has got to the point I stress abt it so much. so word of advice if u can’t stand the person now DROP THEM bc it’ll be worse the more they know bc the stronger they get. And the worse they make ur life.
Currently experiencing this from a close friend. Needless to stay I started distancing myself from her.
Great I'm currently doing the same
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Oh Gosh So True!
Damn rlly thought I was
I remember I wanted a nose ring on the left side of my nose and my ex friend/family said only lesbians get it on the left side
What did she do? Got her nose ring on the left side and is now doing music because I am.
So am the first to watch this
Starts @ 1:45
My fiance Linda had a friend that she met through a guy that cheated on his gf with my fiance.
They were friends for 3 yrs then she made Linda chose between her and Linda's bf at the time Linda said she wanted both and Ashley left their friendship for a guy she married Linda tried here recentlyto get ahold of her and see if they could work on their friendship and Ashley basically said go away.
Let me just say Copying your bsf is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than being Inspired by your bsf and creating a style out of inspiration it’s TWO DIFFERENT THINGS dont mix them up because there IS a DIFFERENCE
wow um why is my best friend responsible for 8 of these
thank you I am ready to talk to my new ex bff
How old are you sweety?
You are so inspiring to me
How could you take this girl?! That long
I feel like we have the same friend 🙄😩
My best friend called me the b word and other bad words once
this is also a sign of narcissistic
Sounds like my ex best friend amalya is secretly your ex best friend sarah
Omg there’s only 22 comments that’s crazy
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I MISS YOU! I hope you and your loved ones are staying safe and healthy during this time xo
Nicoletta xo yes I loved the video and thank you so much for your effort love you 💛hope you also stay safe
BFF has 2 meanings..... BEST FRIEND FOREVER or BEST FAKE FRIEND. wich one are you?
Hi i am the first one
they there hey ;P
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You only uploads bf aur ex videos ??can anyone tell me plz bcz i want to unsubscribe ??
I kinda have balayage hair because I'm lazy but it also looks really nice 😂🤣 but seriously I know a few ex friends like this 🥺🥺