How To Be Confident (5 Steps To Harvey Specter Confidence)
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The first thing you notice when you see Harvey Specter is his undeniable, immense self-confidence.
He thinks fast on his feet, always has a witty remark up his sleeve and he always gets what he wants from others.
Today I’m gonna break his character down and show you what exactly makes him so confident, so that you can gain that Harvey Specter confidence yourself.
You would think that people like Harvey were born confident, yet here’s the truth:
Confidence is all about self image, how YOU see YOURSELF.
And since Harvey Specter sees himself as better than anyone else, he is confident around anyone: his clients, women, his boss, his colleagues… H ie believes he’s higher status than any of them… And, while that may sound arrogant, seeing yourself as higher or, at least, equal status as the person you’re talking with is the key to confidence.
Just by looking at this short clip, you will understand how to have more confidence around women. Harvey knows how to be self confident around women: He sees himself as superior in every department to the guy he’s talking with…
Harvey knows how to be alpha: he straight up tells him that.
There’s no doubt… No insecurity… No shame…
Harvey says what he thinks about himself, and he doesn't care if the guy doesn't like it… he knows how to be charming and how to be charismatic, but he doesn't care. He decides to be an alpha male and act confident.
You see: how you see yourself is how other people will see you. So, if you see yourself as a high-status, successful guy, other people will see you that way, too…
So, you can apply the same logic to girls as well… If you’re a guy, and you think that hot girls are out of your league… Then, the next time you’re in a bar… And you’re talking with a hot girl… You’re going to start feeling uncomfortable… And she will notice that…
The reason why that happens is because you let her hotness influence your perception of her…
And, you give her more value that you should.
Listen to me: Whether you’re confident around a person depends only on the fact if you see yourself as higher status than that person.
So, to act confident around those hot girls, you need to accept the fact that her looks have nothing to do with you. If you’re high-status [which you will be], you’re going to act that way around any girl regardless of her looks.
Another key to being confident like Harvey Specter are his high standards. You see, if you ever watched a couple of episodes of Suits, you’ve probably noticed that Harvey doesn’t simply want to win a case… He expects to win it…
Those high-standards are also applicable to girls. You see, when you go out with a girl, you should replace hoping that she likes you with expecting that she does.
And from the first moment you talk to a girl, you can start being playful with her assuming she is already attracted to you.
The third reason why Harvey is always so confident is that he always - comes - prepared. Just look at what Harvey said about himself: 
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fictional or not...posture, eye contact, preparation, self confidence are all things that work in everyday life
Jevon Collins nailed it man
Video Summary :
RULE 1 : Confidence is all about self-image : the world sees you the way you see yourself .
RULE 2 : Set Higher standards , high standards unlocks the doors to high places .
RULE 3 : Practice makes Perfect , always plan ahead your way .
RULE 4 : 80% of a conversation is body language , always express confidence through your gestures and body language , keep it classy
RULE 5 : Don't Settle for average mindset , always think differently
i hope i summarized well , if i forgot anything about this breakdown , be free to correct me in the replies
Cheers !
Super
Have the self image that you're the best
Cheers man
why the hell they don't make him the next James Bond? he so deserves it!
SNRTR true!
SNRTR yeah you're buddy
They should start rethinking about it again hhh
How about a US agent movie with him as the star? That would be great!
SNRTR so does don draper!
I don't see hin as the next James Bond
Harvey is so amazing because he also walks the walk...
1. He is a GREAT poker player which translates to him reading people, negotiating, dropping the hammer when closing.
2. He is confident because he looks good... his body, his face, his hair, his tailor-made expensive suits, his charming grin, smirk, smile etc as well as his stature when standing and walking.
3. He is a boxer and can stand nose to nose with someone during a confrontation and is scared of it escalating.
4. He is remarkably compentent at his job... great lawyer, great closer and has great confidence in his ability.
5. He keeps tabs on all the poeple he owes favors and those who owe him favors.
6. He chooses the fights that have a higher probability of him winning unless the fight comes to him and there is little or no choice. Smart.
SUITS is extremely layered in regards to characters and character arcs (this was not so strong after season six or so but I still enjoyed the show until the final episode in season 9 and plan to rewatch it all on NETFLIX)
Also gotta give credits to Gabriel Macht for playing the character "Harvey Specter" so well clean and smoothly really did an excellent job
People dont understand the video : its not about becoming Harvey specter, Its about becoming more confident, alpha which Harvey is and is written like
Not sure why people are getting so upset because he's a tv character... It's called character analysis, and there's nothing wrong with applying their characteristics to real life, keeping in mind there will be some limitations.
people just get triggered over nothing
That’s what’s wrong with people instead of being wise and trying to learn something they shut it down I’m sure most of those morons don’t have 1 bit of confidence
Did Louis Litt narrate this?
Holy shit.
Yeah totally sounds like louis when he was a kid!
Fuck 😂
On his Dectaphone😂
I dont hear it....
Everyone wants to live a Harvey Specter life
Nope
mamat seking u Mad
@@theotherschannel7087 ?? are you crazy??????
Be humble
Harvey is a great character but he has his flaws, he is always alone and doesn’t have a life outside of work, he doesn’t have a family and is emotionally damaged to the point where he struggles to maintain any relationship he begins. Everyone has their flaws, you can’t want one part of his life without the other.
Thanks I told a guy to take a swing at me after this video to prove my masculinity and I ended up in hospital.
Lol, unless if it really happened, then...ouch.
You're welcome
You shouldn't have said that unless you were capable of dealing with what was about to come.
😂😂😂
That means you are not a man enough
The fact that so many people are not able to understand and grasp the basic elements of this video is sufficient to make me realize that we are indeed living in a world plagued by fools and eggheads
thus we can stand out easier, which is a good thing, isn't it?
@@user-by1sm4mt1i you stole those words from my mind ,and i can't agree more !
It’s important to note when watching shows like Suits that the dominance in a character like Harvey Spector isn’t so much he himself but the way the other characters and plot are written around him. In reality if you showed up to work acting like Harvey Spector you’re going to make a lot more enemies than admirers and probably get fired for either breaking the rules to win or violating some code of conduct lol
Truuuuw...couldn't be better said
honestly speaking tru but no one is asking u to be exactly like harvey...this is abt how to be more confident and not a particular character..so its not fair to say that this video is showing the wrong premise
But in the show he has a reputation. And he has a reason to be confident on
Well in the show it also states that he worked his ass off to get to a position like that. Everyone either admires or fears him, but only because they know what his genius is capable of. It still is a tv show so it still has some unrealistic aspects, but this video is about boosting your confidence and i think those techniques work fine
You are absolutely right! A new guy in my department tried to act all tough like Harvey Spector. And most people were just put off by his arrogance. Only 2 other nerdy guys in the office bought his tough guy act.
He is confident and know what he talks about. He is actually good at what he does. He shows it that is Great
Arrogance =Thinking you are better than others
Confidence=Thinking you can achieve and withstand anything life throws at you +Humillity
But first of all, you'll need a HARVARD'S LAW degree.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Lol
Just fake it like mike Ross😁
lol word 😂
Litt haves it but he is a mess xd
Marcos Greg Louis isn’t a mess lol.
God this guy is gold, you can learn a lot from him. I did
But you have got to back up that confidence. Talk and posturing wont get you too far when they call you on it. You have to build a good track record first." Competence" !
Off course
One thing: you can never fool people by acting confident if you’re insecure. You will end up being Louis.
True confidence does not come from superiority, rather indifference to what people think of you. That’s a huge difference. Harvey acted from the position of power because he trusted himself and his abilities. Not because he stood upright and wanted to prove he knew better.
he could be batman
Smit Shewale true
He's too small, IMO.
Jordan he is 184cm
He must be te villain
Or james bond
I always fascinated to observe Harvey's eye contact while talking to people Brilliant expressions
I am straight, have a man crush on this character.
Super Lokar his alpha traits got you wet and weak in the knees. 🥰
An straight man could never talk that way , gayyy
@@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 WTF! u gays r weird xD
You forgot to say No Homo Tho
i think you guys don’t know what man crush means 🤦♂️
As I was watching the video, I noticed how well acted & Directed each of the roles are. To be used as a model of confidence including body language.
Impressive stuff.
Great de-coding of it as well. Good job!
Great videos man. Very insightful breakdown of the characters. Keep on!!!
truly amazing video
learned a lot from it
Oh man. This was really amazing!!
He has such a great confidence because he made his life great.
Everything is possible you just need to have will
I don't usually watch videos till the end lately but Oh My this was such a good and useful video to watch and half way there pressed like button! I know I am like a year later to watch this but I am glad I've seen it now. Harvey is a God and you, my friend, is a legend! Keep it up!
I'd like to add that the main thing for Harvey is confidence in himself. The video does highlight that he feels superior and for guys to imitate that to a small degree. I do disagree a bit with that, as true confidence comes from within, not from viewing oneself as superior to others. Knowing you have the answers is different than knowing the other guy doesn't have the answers.
Excellent advice and wise words ☝🏻
Excellent job, bro! Excellent!
LOVE IT DD !!!!!!!!!!
Amazing video,good work!
Harvey is my icon !
This is your first content I am going through..!! And let me tell u I never comment in videos..!! But your content made me do that..!! Awesome..!!
First of all,
His confidence is backed by his supreme intelligence.
And his extreme beauty
I feel like one point should be added before all the others:
"Give them a reason to fear or like you. One of the two, no in between."
This entails you need to MASTER a skill, become the best of the best, of atleast try to be. Show up for work/your appointments and work your ass off. Results will show soon enough. But the steps mentioned can definitely improve your mindset.
Probably, the best video on Harvey Specter.
"You know why I win???... because I don't hope" --- Patrice O'Neal (RIP)
there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance.
I think one should always keep that in mind as u may seem to have strong personality
but are very low on the grounds of morality.
Right
Thank you for this. :)
Helped a lot. Do more such videos.
Very good!!!!!
subscribed dude....i liked everything u said in the video
Excellent video
Thank you very much
thanks.good tips.
Awesome!!
I've never seen this show before. Might be worth checking out. Good breakdown.
This show gets me out of bed on the morning. I watch it on the train to work!
Great vid
I met a girl who was so confident and good looking but unlike this guy she was very very humble and respectful. People just give her what she wanted. Harvey specter is just arrogant. That's where his confidence comes from, Real deal is to be confident and humble.
You are just Amazing... I love the way you dedode these characters, is there any plan to decode the confident Female Characters on your channel... would be appreciated if you do!
While I do tend to agree with what you are saying. I feel like you have self-esteem and self-confidence mixed up. Self-esteem is about your self-image and how you feel about yourself and self-confidence is how you feel about your abilities and aptitudes. It is taught in psychology. I do not mean to be nit-picky, but too many people use these terms synonymously when there are distinct differences between the two and they should not be used like that. Thanks for understanding. Yes, I do have a degree in psychology. While other people may be pickier than me, I do feel like you have valid content. Keep practicing and getting better. I enjoy your videos along with Charisma on Command. This kind of content is what a lot of guys need. Keep up the great work.
Good point
But if my self-image is better, I also feel more confident in my abilities. So they are correlated with each other, aren't they?
@@KeesJansma7689, yes they are. I have done some more recent research since my last post and learned something new. Self esteem is a product of the media and supposed gurus of self help. In all reality. Self esteem is nothing more than controlled narcissism. Whereas Self confidence is confidence in your abilities and yourself. Yes, self image is correlated with self confidence. Without a decent self image, your self confidence will suffer. In fact through research it has been discovered that how you dress also helps determine how you feel and not just self image and past successes.
@@galenblack8321 Interesting research, thanks for your reply!
I was about to close this video and all of a sudden it said listen to me.. 😂
Good analisys
Just put this guy in next Kingsman movie, he is the best fit for that role. Nice video tho.
What makes him confident are Mike and Donna giving him all the Infos he needs to use them against the other people 😂🙈 we need a video being as smart as Mike and all-knowing like Donna. But really. Jessica is the greatest 😊
I dont usually comment on videos ... but this is really a very good clip abt confidence ... short yet very effective and informative !
I love Harvey ❤❤
The First is Tip is Everything for Confidence.
Hi "The Attraction Switch", your videos are amazing. Could you make a video on Tomas Shelby?
Awesome
The deep knowing and belief has got to be there..otherwise its fake !
With the character of Harvey..he is completely confident in his ability as a Lawyer..so his competence feeds his confidence.
Like the saying goes..
If you think you're good..you'll tell everyone..but when you're great..everyone will tell you !🙏
God damn beast
WOW!
I love that
I always get what i want from udders too, just need the right technique and speed in the pulling.
plz make video about stephan amell, AKA The oliver queen, AKA green arrow.
Please make one on Tommy Shelby 🙏🙏🙏
Good video
Can someone please analyze Ragnor Lathbrok from Vikings and tell me what is it that makes him ooze confidence and power?
BISWAJIT DAS ^^^^^^^^
That's a good suggestion.
We can learn a lot of things from harvey specter.Make more video about him.
He is a badass!!!❤👍
Amazing keep it up please do more videos about how to make your voice more confident
Guys he is saying. That confidence is the main key in everything it doesn’t matter who u are
Harvey is clearly a stand user, he can erase time to back away out of frame at 1:38 xDD
Wich episode is that
Actually The character had influenced me a Lottttttttt .
Your profile pic says a lot.
@@vikashbhuyan8955 I shouldn't be laughing, but I did.
And I laughed hard.
@@vikashbhuyan8955 never judge a book by it's cover
Hi your work is so great i loved it so i have advice for you : what about attach your video with some translations? 😕 It will make you work better and better. And thank you again for your impressive work. Your brather from Egypt 🇪🇬
Good game
1st thing you need to do is BUILD A CARREER LIKE HARVEY SPECTER
Harvey is what most women love about men. Also, most people neglect #3. They neglect to do their homework. That’s what makes them arrogant. They’re just as cocky, but wrong because they talk without thinking. That’s a big part of what distinguishes confidence from arrogance.
what episode was that last clip? I couldn't remember.
greattttt
Make Your Dreams Life Goals And Do That Everything To Get Them On Any Cost And Don't Make Excuses....
This is targeted more for picking up women but it crosses over and was a good video.
the clip that you have been playing in video is taken from which movie ???
its from the tv show 'suits' from 2011
I’m short af man. I’m 5’4 and people point that out quite often, that’s the only thing that’s making me see myself as lower status haha
I never knew Harvey was a real lawyer until I researched
In truth though on what you really need and even Harvey Specter will admit is you need a "Donna"
The frame of the body language Tyrion lanster he used with his grandson
Do one on James "Ghost" St. Patrick please
NOW I AM GONNA GET ALL THE GIRLS I WANT !!!
What makes Harvey specter so charming
did anyone noticed that the police man at 4:43 is attila the hun from night at meusem?
There is thin line in between Arrogance and Self confidante. If you always succed in what you are doing that self confidence and if you fails with the situations that is Arrogance.
make a "How to be likable like Johnny Depp"
*Jensen Ackles (Dean from Supernatural) and Gabriel (Harvey) should both be in James Bond type films.*
Please tell the name of movie
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