Cocaine Addict interview-Antoinette

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @BB69175
    @BB69175 8 месяцев назад +1066

    I’m a former cocaine addict and alcoholic with over 13 years of sobriety and I can promise you that recovery is possible.

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 8 месяцев назад +14

      No such thing as former.

    • @BB69175
      @BB69175 8 месяцев назад

      @@terrytownsend5583 I've left my addiction behind. You can be an addict for the rest of your life if you want to but I won't.

    • @annoyingkid1993
      @annoyingkid1993 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah my brain will forever remember the feeling. I always get intrusive thoughts about using numerous times a week.​@@terrytownsend5583

    • @petejablowski2123
      @petejablowski2123 8 месяцев назад +32

      Cocaine is the easiest thing to quit in the world I done it all . Quitting cigarettes and coffee is way harder. Alcohol is worse than cocaine to be honest. You see how she still looks healthy and has a brain . This is a person that always has struggled and is blaming coke for everything

    • @marion1517
      @marion1517 8 месяцев назад +4

      Yup it's easier to quit than opiates,cigs, caffeine but seems to be the most dangerous when it comes to withdrawal they say.

  • @oldfashionedtruth7704
    @oldfashionedtruth7704 8 месяцев назад +560

    I’m a 44 year old father, husband, and business owner… and I’ve dealt with addiction for years on and off. I have watched and cried at so many of your videos. I can relate to so many of these people and their stories. More than anyone realizes. My words for Antoinette are these… DO NOT GIVE UP. You’re smart, you’re well spoken, you’re beautiful, you have a huge tender, sincere heart. Please get clean and get your life back. I promise you can. I promise. I love you my friend. Mad love and prayers from Tennessee good people. 💪🏼🧡🇺🇸

    • @terriblue68
      @terriblue68 8 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly- NEVER GIVE UP! I couldn't get any time in, but I kept hanging around the rooms of AA. I knew I belonged there. So that cliché 'keep coming back' is so true!!!

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 8 месяцев назад +2

      You sound better than her dad you didn't just leave and move across the country

    • @jeanroth159
      @jeanroth159 8 месяцев назад +3

      Perfectly said♥︎. Sweet Antoinette please know you are so worth this fight...in time it will get easier I swear it will. If I may add just one peice of advice it is ONE DAY AT A TIME,if that feels too much then take it ONE MINUTE AT A TIME, it saved me many times when I felt some struggle , funny thing is that temptation passes pretty quickly if we keep ourselves and our minds busy. You got this, much love and strength to you😘💙.

    • @jessicanienhuis3521
      @jessicanienhuis3521 8 месяцев назад +3

      That was a very nice post :)

    • @jerryhatrick5860
      @jerryhatrick5860 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yes these are facts.

  • @esrealwilleatit8574
    @esrealwilleatit8574 8 месяцев назад +976

    Mark, we need a follow up on her in a few months! I feel like we’re going to see a totally different person! You got this Antoinette!

    • @jmeA86
      @jmeA86 8 месяцев назад +15

      This is exactly what I was going to comment! 💜💜💜

    • @oldfashionedtruth7704
      @oldfashionedtruth7704 8 месяцев назад +8

      Praise God

    • @James-m3o5x
      @James-m3o5x 8 месяцев назад +12

      Yes,I believe in this woman

    • @heather8518
      @heather8518 8 месяцев назад +8

      Agreed!

    • @esrealwilleatit8574
      @esrealwilleatit8574 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@James-m3o5x me too. You can absolutely tell that she’s tired of that life.

  • @NasDaily_11
    @NasDaily_11 24 дня назад +84

    I started doing drugs years ago as a teenage, got addicted to cocaine, spent my whole life fighting cocaine addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder, got diagnosed with OCD. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly, 6 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @canerbakar-jv2si
      @canerbakar-jv2si 24 дня назад

      I love hearing great life changing stories like this. I want to become a mycologist because honestly mushrooms are the best form of medicine (most especially the psychedelic ones) There are so many people today used magic mushrooms to ween off of SSRI medication- its amazing! Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death buddy, lets be honest here.

    • @MuratBasar-jm9lc
      @MuratBasar-jm9lc 24 дня назад

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Germany. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them

    • @Caroljoyce-mp8sk
      @Caroljoyce-mp8sk 24 дня назад +3

      YES very sure of Predroavaro. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, BPD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @Joeyann
      @Joeyann 24 дня назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your story. That's rough I sympathize. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health. I will pray for you all.

    • @AnnaRoth-pb8xv
      @AnnaRoth-pb8xv 24 дня назад

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @stoney_703
    @stoney_703 8 месяцев назад +951

    Definitely don’t miss the sun coming up and the birds chirping not being able to sleep, a bloody runny nose, feeling like a piece of scum etc

    • @Madison.Rutherford
      @Madison.Rutherford 8 месяцев назад +51

      I remember those days

    • @TinCupChalice40
      @TinCupChalice40 8 месяцев назад +67

      Those were miserable days.

    • @juju.bean3435
      @juju.bean3435 8 месяцев назад +83

      Yeah, spot on. The thought of it makes me feel sick.

    • @tammylouasksdearsubswtf7955
      @tammylouasksdearsubswtf7955 8 месяцев назад +83

      SAME!! gawwwd I almost wish I wouldn't have read this statement,, I haven't thought about those days for a long while now,, nope, DON'T miss any of that! .. I would watch traffic in the early morning of all the ppl up and on their way into work to start their drug free days and be productive and wonder wtf my problem was & why I couldn't seem to get my own life together .. such misery,, it was terrible, but yet I would go find my next fix and continue the misery...I've been clean now for 2 decades and remembering those days now just brings it all back,, it was awful..

    • @HrjneEhehhe
      @HrjneEhehhe 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@tammylouasksdearsubswtf7955❤

  • @CassieBee88
    @CassieBee88 8 месяцев назад +169

    “Everything I go through, he goes through”
    That is some self-awareness right there. She’s not absolving herself from accountability, and I think that’s a huge glimpse into the kind of person she is. I, too, am looking forward to an update.

  • @baghodler508
    @baghodler508 8 месяцев назад +375

    The shame and guilt is overflowing from her, I've been there and I hate to see anyone like this.

    • @olusholakenny9532
      @olusholakenny9532 8 месяцев назад

      for real

    • @nocapFR
      @nocapFR 7 месяцев назад

      Im going thru this right now. Been working over 70hrs a week just to stay away from it

    • @baghodler508
      @baghodler508 7 месяцев назад

      @@nocapFR focus on yourself, keep yourself busy, cut ties with negativity

    • @niviagomez4712
      @niviagomez4712 2 месяца назад

      But no remorse

  • @tgbeam
    @tgbeam 8 месяцев назад +179

    Bro, this was sad. You can tell this woman is hurting

    • @dm4njoseph881
      @dm4njoseph881 6 месяцев назад +2

      You’ve been fooled, she’s playing the victim, her life is sunshine and rainbows for other people

    • @tgbeam
      @tgbeam 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@dm4njoseph881 and you know this because you know her personally? Diminishing what one person has went or is going through because someone else is worse off is kind of a shitty perspective to have. There's nothing wrong with being empathetic towards someone having a rough go at life, regardless of how trivial YOU feel her problems are.

    • @Eyerock2024
      @Eyerock2024 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah.... something doesn't seem genuine about this. I could be wrong but she doesn't legit.​@@dm4njoseph881

    • @dm4njoseph881
      @dm4njoseph881 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@tgbeam and you know she’s hurting cuz you know her personally ? Shutup lol

    • @tgbeam
      @tgbeam 6 месяцев назад

      @@dm4njoseph881 nope, I don't. But I did go to school and learned how to assess people and she's clearly not just playing victim. So got eat a bag full of hot 🐓

  • @kristengrimm7340
    @kristengrimm7340 8 месяцев назад +232

    I feel for her. You can see she's holding back tears and just needs to let it out. It's okay to cry. Sending her hugs and love. ❤❤

    • @Daniea3
      @Daniea3 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yeh, she's shy too.

  • @emmareed1332
    @emmareed1332 8 месяцев назад +63

    I know her. She was a regular at the bar I work at in Idaho. I saw this and immediately clicked it because I thought I recognized her. Interesting perspective. I’ve been to barbecues she’s hosted, had multiple conversations with her. I hope she finds peace of mind and help because she isn’t a bad person. This frankly made me really sad to watch.

    • @rachelngatia3753
      @rachelngatia3753 6 месяцев назад +4

      It's sad to watch. Hope she finds clarity and peace

  • @jacobwiggers1973
    @jacobwiggers1973 8 месяцев назад +199

    She seems like a smart, no-BS kind of person. She can do anything she puts her mind to.

    • @murderycatdoll1380
      @murderycatdoll1380 8 месяцев назад +4

      100% agree!

    • @salcee6311
      @salcee6311 8 месяцев назад

      I hope ans wish her the best but... I guarantee shes been a scumbag of a person and has done people real dirty especially to the undeserving, even before and during the drugs, id bet 100$ shes racked up some real bad karma

    • @hipsonsogbo
      @hipsonsogbo 8 месяцев назад

      This is equality women having problems men have always had to battle with, they asked for it and we get to see it.

    • @jambreakfast4341
      @jambreakfast4341 8 месяцев назад +4

      Like an 8ball?

    • @twinturbo3461
      @twinturbo3461 8 месяцев назад +1

      A lot of people are smart and bright yet they end up in this situation. This was my story from 2005-2010.

  • @kittymeowc8061
    @kittymeowc8061 8 месяцев назад +99

    I had a roommate who was lonely and did coke. She's clean now and thriving. You got this

  • @Emzzz78
    @Emzzz78 8 месяцев назад +146

    The good thing about this is you CAN recover! You’ll have a hell of a story to tell when you’re clean. I hope you fight like hell, girl!! We DO recover.

    • @stonedbeachaidan6574
      @stonedbeachaidan6574 8 месяцев назад +1

      Stimulant recovery is Hell and by no means easy. Everything loses value, and you garner happiness from nothing due to the receptors in your brain being fried. She can quit, but she’s permanently altered her brain chemistry with this specific DOC

    • @Emzzz78
      @Emzzz78 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@stonedbeachaidan6574 do you think opiate addiction is any different? It isn’t. But it’s all doable. You just have to fight like hell!!

    • @david-csmhaltero77
      @david-csmhaltero77 6 месяцев назад

      ​@benjaminhenderson4786 not all ROA

  • @veneta72
    @veneta72 8 месяцев назад +40

    One of the saddest pieces. She’s so gentle and sweet and such a good person you can tell and I hope she gets ahead of this. What a precious soul. The part on self love hit

  • @stdismas
    @stdismas 8 месяцев назад +187

    I will keep Antoinette in my prayers. I think she has great potential and can make it!

    • @elizabeth3064
      @elizabeth3064 8 месяцев назад +7

      I feel the same

    • @Abbieabma
      @Abbieabma 8 месяцев назад +3

      God won't help

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 8 месяцев назад

      Liar

    • @dgtwo3724
      @dgtwo3724 8 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Abbieabmapraying won't hurt either.

    • @denz4133
      @denz4133 8 месяцев назад

      @@dgtwo3724placebo’s for everyone!

  • @malama_ka_aina
    @malama_ka_aina 8 месяцев назад +37

    Addiction doesn't discriminate. Very true. Sending thoughts of patience and courage. Thank you Mark and guest.

  • @galateazul
    @galateazul 8 месяцев назад +80

    As a recovering cocaine and alcohol addict i felt so touched by this. My addiction looked very similar to hers.. people don’t understand that the problem is not the drug.. it’s way more than that. And one day you wake up and realize you have nothing left. We DO recover antoinette!!! Please.. seek for help, you can do this.

    • @JohnnygSawyer
      @JohnnygSawyer 7 месяцев назад +3

      Right!? We do recover from a Coke habit. I used blow for 14 years and got clean. You gotta be ready to feel again. All those feelings come rushing back. You have to retrain your brain to be able to deal.

  • @BB-pw7ig
    @BB-pw7ig 6 месяцев назад +52

    My friend had a bad coke problem. Like bad bad. He wanted to stop but couldn’t. Then one day, he told me he did a massive dose of Ls D, asked the universe to let him not be addicted to coke, and listened to Ram Dass - sit around the fire (meditation) for hours. When it was over, he was no longer addicted, had zero desire for the drug, and has been clean for several years. Pretty amazing bc I thought he was done. Wish you all the best.

    • @BB-pw7ig
      @BB-pw7ig 4 месяца назад

      @@apparentlyworshipped7747nope. He got sober and became super successful

    • @NoName-ql1wk
      @NoName-ql1wk 2 месяца назад +1

      BS

    • @BB-pw7ig
      @BB-pw7ig 2 месяца назад

      @@NoName-ql1wknot BS.

    • @HezOmanjo
      @HezOmanjo Месяц назад +3

      My guy a huge dose of LSD can reveal the truth... And if you are not ready it will be a very nasty trip

    • @NoName-ql1wk
      @NoName-ql1wk Месяц назад

      @@BB-pw7ig total BS

  • @carolseven3802
    @carolseven3802 8 месяцев назад +38

    I can’t tell you how happy it makes me to see you accepting rehab! You’re going to come back with a whole new story. We’re all rooting and praying for you. You matter and you can do it!

  • @san3jay
    @san3jay 8 месяцев назад +36

    this was my drug of choice. heavily addicted for a couple of years. i moved to weed and psychedelics. had a tough time weening off those as well. i just vape now. and looking to quit soon. i believe in you. you are strong. rehab to start and therapy every so often will secure your safety. wishing you so so well. the addiction is a part of us and will never leave us, however, we can manage it and stop using hard drugs. so much love. best of luck

  • @mrmav1889
    @mrmav1889 8 месяцев назад +69

    WoW it’s a tough watch. I felt quite emotional myself.
    Antoinette .. you have a lovely smile please don’t give up! You got this..

  • @titogarcia2508
    @titogarcia2508 8 месяцев назад +12

    thank you for not letting her beat herself up by mentioning she’s not the only one. i needed that during my addiction

  • @Bloodreign137
    @Bloodreign137 8 месяцев назад +100

    This one hit close to home but with heroin instead of cocaine. When she started crying it made me incredibly emotional… Antoinette, I can promise you it does get better. I would love a follow up down the line

    • @jimurrata6785
      @jimurrata6785 8 месяцев назад +2

      ¿Porque no la dos? 🤷‍♂️
      Snowballs are a thing precisely because you're not too high, or too low. (there's no such thing as "too high", right? 🤔)
      40 years on, I can say owning my life, instead of the needle owning it is still the biggest accomplishment I have. 👍

    • @PROUDTOBEANAMERICAN55
      @PROUDTOBEANAMERICAN55 8 месяцев назад

      Down the line 👃

    • @paulholland5270
      @paulholland5270 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@PROUDTOBEANAMERICAN55 a big per cent of cocaine uses always end up on crack , followed by heroin from what's of seen with my own eyes 💯👹. strangely most all of them are smokers 💯👹

  • @rgth3167
    @rgth3167 8 месяцев назад +29

    I am a struggling coke addict coming on 16 years now. I relate to you Antoinette. And I have no idea how to get out. I'm ruining my marriage and my whole life. Thank you for sharing and I wish you all the best. You're not alone!

    • @jenbrender3815
      @jenbrender3815 8 месяцев назад +4

      I don’t know if this helps but working out and lifting weights helps me get a mini rush. It’s not as intense as the coke rush but it definitely helps.

    • @rgth3167
      @rgth3167 8 месяцев назад

      @@jenbrender3815 Thank you.

    • @mikejabourian1593
      @mikejabourian1593 8 месяцев назад +1

      You can do this call uplift recovery they will help you

    • @magsvro6668
      @magsvro6668 8 месяцев назад +2

      Adderall

    • @janinem9794
      @janinem9794 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@jenbrender3815this is a good idea, however you need to be careful when excerting yourself physically and doing cocaine. Its already very strenuous on the cardiovascular system.

  • @rosegarden1903
    @rosegarden1903 4 месяца назад +13

    I'm a former coke, benzo, and alcohol addict. I had to hit rock bottom. You have to get clean for yourself. Not your child. Cause if anything connected with him goes wrong you'll use again. I've been clean for over a year. God bless you and keep you.

  • @MikeBehindtheWheel
    @MikeBehindtheWheel 8 месяцев назад +22

    I just watched it for three and a half minutes, and I feel like Antoinette is going to make it.
    This interview, I believe, has helped her realize that she needs to get her life back.
    I empathize with her. Wishing her a lot of strength and a new kind of addiction that will be helping people. She has a great background!

  • @kimbasciano_
    @kimbasciano_ 8 месяцев назад +33

    Her story is so similar to mine.
    Been clean for 12 years off coke and heroin. It’s possible. ❤❤

  • @johnfernandez2060
    @johnfernandez2060 8 месяцев назад +22

    Finally someone I can relate with heavy! Thanks for being vulnerable , not easy thing to do

  • @yamarider6199
    @yamarider6199 8 месяцев назад +12

    good luck on your journey to sobriety, all 5 million of us here are rooting for you! you got this!

  • @ashtontawton1318
    @ashtontawton1318 8 месяцев назад +33

    It's wild to me that this is the first cocaine addict you've featured. Cocaine is HUGE here in the UK.

    • @josephk4310
      @josephk4310 8 месяцев назад +6

      Meth is number 1 here in USA.

    • @Centerpointless
      @Centerpointless 5 месяцев назад

      Cocaine is huge every where I’m pretty sure

    • @valenciavalentine4543
      @valenciavalentine4543 5 месяцев назад

      Meth is big in NZ but Cocaine is huge with every type of person who likes to party and has some $ no matter the age. I guess people think its less addictive then meth and less social judgement from peers so they'll be fine.

    • @jeffmccullough7341
      @jeffmccullough7341 3 месяца назад

      Cocaine costs way to much for most addicts in America. Most folks who have that kind of addiction are either rich enough to dodge consequences or turn to harder drugs

    • @708mattt
      @708mattt Месяц назад

      Yea one of my friends from Scotland does it and shes been doin it since a teen, shes 23 :/

  • @kayem9909
    @kayem9909 8 месяцев назад +28

    Antoinette we are all cheering for you!!!! You have everything you got to succeed.

  • @networkninja2971
    @networkninja2971 8 месяцев назад +8

    This woman has a wonderful soul. I hope you make it through this addiction, you are worth so much more.

  • @devansantori557
    @devansantori557 8 месяцев назад +46

    Waking up from a bad dream about drugs at 3am to see swu upload this
    Ty Mark:)

    • @GORILLA_PIMP
      @GORILLA_PIMP 8 месяцев назад +1

      I almost didn't leave a comment for you but the Lord wanted me to:
      3am is the hour when demonic forces are at the height of their powers
      Demons will give you tempting sinful dreams (about about drugs, booze, food, sex etc) to try an get you to give into them when you are awake
      One of the things that they like to do is give you the most vivid and intense sinful dreams RIGHT before you wake up so it will stay in your mind longer/throughout the day
      And if you actually give into the sin in your dreams this basically means you failed the test and the Lord will allow them to keep coming back off an on until your spirit is strong enough to easily say no
      Once you can easily abstain from sinning in your DREAMS is when you are completely healed

  • @petespencer-smith5059
    @petespencer-smith5059 8 месяцев назад +45

    As good as Mark is, he does have a tendency to ask quite leading questions. Particularly relating to addiction stemming from childhood trauma. Although there is a strong correlation between these two, its isn't always the case. The danger in always asking questions which lead an interviewee in this direction is that you can miss the nuance associated with the emergence of an addiction. Understanding this nuance is key to recovery. Oversimplified hypothesis don't help as the issue of addiction is by definition, a complex one.

    • @thebeautyoflife327
      @thebeautyoflife327 6 месяцев назад +2

      Excellent point

    • @maggiemolly111
      @maggiemolly111 5 месяцев назад

      “I can’t keep it together.” “And you blame the coke for that?” 😂 I saw an interview where a woman was molested at age 9 and Mark asked, “So you didn’t want that to happen?” It’s like he’s trolling.

    • @hs6114
      @hs6114 5 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. She also alluded to a shooting, which led to her increased coke use, which he didn't delve into at all

    • @jeffmccullough7341
      @jeffmccullough7341 3 месяца назад +1

      He’s not a professional interviewer, he’s a photographer

    • @maggiemolly111
      @maggiemolly111 3 месяца назад

      @@jeffmccullough7341 that depends on your definition of professional. Probably doesn’t have a “degree” but he makes money from interviewing people. What’s the definition of “professional”?

  • @Nikkiwhatarethose
    @Nikkiwhatarethose 8 месяцев назад +39

    I hope this doesn't come off as dismissive, but I really think she'll be ok. She seems like she wants to help herself even if the fear of the unknown of the path towards getting clean seems daunting right now. When there's a will there's a way, and she seems to have the will to change. I have faith in her.

    • @inagreenminute6525
      @inagreenminute6525 8 месяцев назад +1

      I agree.. something about her.. that statement when I look in the mirror. She's gonna make it.

    • @janettecorona805
      @janettecorona805 8 месяцев назад

      You seem to have hope in the hopeful.

    • @coldbrewlife
      @coldbrewlife 8 месяцев назад

      If she doesn't start smoking crack when here nose starts to fall apart....maybe

  • @missannthrope2484
    @missannthrope2484 8 месяцев назад +16

    Antoinette, I relate to and understand every single thing you said - I too am a paralegal who hasn’t worked for the past year and other previous periods due to my addiction. I wish you strength for you and your little boy, but please don’t be too hard on yourself, it may take a few times but you can do it!! You’re in my thoughts, all the absolute best…

  • @kirstron2390
    @kirstron2390 8 месяцев назад +39

    Babyyyyy, I lost everything to drugs. You gotta be ready. If you’re not, it won’t ever stop…but you have to find your reason to want to stop because it’s never just gonna happen…see what you can find that makes you feel happiness. I have a son. He’s my everything. Thats why I’m clean. I’m lucky my son is little still but your son will thank you time and time again if you can stop.

    • @rachelngatia3753
      @rachelngatia3753 6 месяцев назад

      That's true. The cycle won't stop till she goes clean.
      I'm proud that you too the chance and risk to stop. That's good.
      Keep going. May opportunities, blessings, favour and comfort find you as you continue with life
      Love and light to you❤️

  • @livelauflace
    @livelauflace 8 месяцев назад +6

    I lost my best friend 8 years ago from a destructive cocaine addiction. He constantly struggled with the guilt of using. Id do anything to have him back. Antoinette, I am sending you so much love and support! This is a huge step for your well being and your sons. We all deserve a fresh start, leave the guilt and the shame in the past. We as humans we are changing and evolving everyday. You're stronger than yesterday.

  • @adriannes1213
    @adriannes1213 8 месяцев назад +70

    😢 IMMEDIATELY when she started to cry, I felt a lump come in my throat as I almost cried also..... I know exactly how she feels to have sold things, have a bunch of money and it's gone in no time, and have absolutely NOTHING to show for it!!! My grandma died 14 years ago and left me and my sister with several savings bonds, and I was in active heroin addiction at the time, and cashed in ALL the savings bonds that had matured over 40 years, and received thousands and thousands of dollars, and literally almost every penny went to heroin within about 4 months! I did buy a nice mustang, but when my money ran out, I sold the mustang and bought a cheaper car, and did that same thing about 3 or 4 times until I was left with a POS bucket of a car. What a vicious cycle addiction is!!!!! My grandma would be SOOOO hurt if she ever knew what I did with those savings bonds! I get choked up every time I even start to think about what I did, and I immediately switch to thinking of something else because I just can't bear it! 😢
    I love you gram, and miss you more than you will ever know 😘💞

    • @rachael497
      @rachael497 8 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly that.. for people that judge.. drugs REALLY do not discriminate!! It doesn't matter who you are!!!!

    • @rachael497
      @rachael497 8 месяцев назад +8

      Addiction costs a lot of money!! That's why dealers are balling and laughing hard!! It sucks! I feel you hun!! Xxx

    • @AJP-j8c
      @AJP-j8c 8 месяцев назад +4

      If you can, forgive yourself the next time, it comes up for you instead of switching to thinking for something else, truly resolve it inside, and forgive yourself, for what you did when you were in addiction, or even at any other time, then it can truly go away, and you'll never have to push those thoughts back down deep inside of you. That's what we call shadow work
      God bless you

    • @carsen161616
      @carsen161616 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@AJP-j8coff of what you said, forgiveness is the path to loving yourself and truly practicing self maintenance. I'd be lying if I said it wasn't very hard, but no matter what damage you have caused, it is repairable. I thank my God everyday for giving me the strength to love who I am. Inner peace is achievable, and it starts with forgiving.

    • @TeeGreen222
      @TeeGreen222 8 месяцев назад +5

      Trust me, your Gram loved you NO MATTER WHAT. She would only care that you’re healthy now. She would want you to be healthy and happy. Let it go, child. Forgive yourself ❤️

  • @sophiaferreira7322
    @sophiaferreira7322 8 месяцев назад +8

    i have been waiting for a cocaine interview! not crack as a substance dependant person, cocaine is one thing i struggle with. so thank you mark for this interview and Antoinette i wish you the best of luck and hope to see you in a follow up interview hearing great things. Im rooting for you girl don't give up!

  • @vincevarano1187
    @vincevarano1187 8 месяцев назад +26

    I love that SWU has people from wide field.Everyone from addicts to cops ,porn stars to nazis.This one hits home cause you can feel her pain.And she wants to get clean.Addiction doesn’t discriminate,how right she is.Mark if you can help her find a rehab.This one looks ready.I hope you make it.🙏🙏

  • @SherylStreisfield
    @SherylStreisfield 8 месяцев назад +5

    A follow-up interview is needed for sure Mark. Antoinette did fall off the rails as you said. Wishing her all the best in rehab. You can do this Antoinette.

  • @8.B.I.L.
    @8.B.I.L. 8 месяцев назад +35

    Girl, don't beat yourself up about the house, we all out here struggling just to pay rent each month and have NOTHING to show for it. I did the coke. It was fun until it wasn't. And I wouldn't touch ANY street drugs or even prescribed drugs nowadays. Sending love and light on your journey. It's a tough life and it's stopped being fun anymore.

    • @alexandriaturner3492
      @alexandriaturner3492 8 месяцев назад +4

      Literally. We’re all one paycheck away from losing our homes, so she really shouldn’t beat herself up. Lol. It’s hard as hell right now. And street drugs now are sooooo different from when I was using heroin 8-10 years ago, before I went to rehab and got clean. I’d be scared as hell to even do a line of anything out here now, cause the purity is trash, and everything is laced and unsafe. Your last line, shot, etc might be your last line or shot for real. You just don’t know what you’re getting. My cousin who’s still in his addiction said finding real heroin is like winning the lottery, cause there’s only fentanyl out here. I’ll be so glad when he’s ready to get clean. I pray for him so much.

    • @stonedbeachaidan6574
      @stonedbeachaidan6574 8 месяцев назад

      @@alexandriaturner3492the difference is she had full owner ship of it.

  • @AnonYmous-vu1lw
    @AnonYmous-vu1lw 8 месяцев назад +7

    Also used it for years before it got the better of me. The change was I became hurt and struggled with midlife adjustment. It waited that long. Addiction is patient. That’s when recreation changed face and escapism took over. 12 steps, sponsor and rehab.
    You deserve to be happy. And this can all be your past. Not your future. I wish you all the strength and courage. I did it. And you can too. The cravings will cease and you’ll get yourself back. One day at a time and be kind to yourself like you would to another. Go girl x

  • @craigrock8444
    @craigrock8444 8 месяцев назад +7

    You can do this Antoinette!! I never thought I could beat my addiction!! Nothing scared me more than getting clean! I was terrified of the sickness. I was terrified to feel again. You think coke makes you feel? Just wait until you detox and all those endorphins and the natural serotonin starts to reboot and kick in!! It's like being born again feeling, tasting, seeing and hearing for the first time again!! It's amazing!! You got this now all you need to do is trust the process and let it happen! The reward is so worth it!! If I can help in any way, let me know. Your not alone!! God Bless!! Go get your life back!!

  • @marianaawawda4588
    @marianaawawda4588 8 месяцев назад +18

    Admitting , and asking for help takes a lot of courage …… you got this girl …. Sending you positive vibes…

  • @Waakiyl01
    @Waakiyl01 8 месяцев назад +65

    Escapism is the most POWERFUL trigger for myself and others.

    • @Callmezachhx
      @Callmezachhx 8 месяцев назад

      Hey, I’ve seen you on Rom Wills comment section!

    • @Waakiyl01
      @Waakiyl01 8 месяцев назад

      @@Callmezachhx yeah that is my man.I don't come around as much.Too much deleted comments when I say something against the narrative.But yeah I was there from day one.

    • @JoeMoffat
      @JoeMoffat 8 месяцев назад

      Escape ism ya buddy! !!!

  • @Jennifer-bw7ku
    @Jennifer-bw7ku 5 месяцев назад +204

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 5 месяцев назад

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 5 месяцев назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

    • @jeffsmith2447
      @jeffsmith2447 5 месяцев назад +1

      Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episode, enough to start working on my mental health.

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 5 месяцев назад

      Can Dr. sporessss send to me in UK?

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 5 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely, his offerings extend to global delivery, prioritizing complete confidentiality for individuals valuing their privacy.

  • @Shelbarino1
    @Shelbarino1 8 месяцев назад +16

    You got this! Like other commenters have said in this thread, everyone makes mistakes. You are enough! Take the tools they give you in rehab and make them your new habit! I'll pray for you!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @juliemackenzie1978
    @juliemackenzie1978 8 месяцев назад +6

    Wishing her all the best. I would love to see how she is doing later on in her recovery. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 It really comes down in the end...how badly they want to be sober. After seeing so many of Mark's interviews...it's all about them, & the change that they want in their lives. As much as we want to see them succeed...it has nothing to do with any of us. They need to want it.

  • @patriciawilson6978
    @patriciawilson6978 8 месяцев назад +20

    Thanks for sharing you story, Antionette.

  • @18spd4Life
    @18spd4Life 8 месяцев назад +3

    I feel her, I’m currently struggling with the same problem, had everything and lost it all recently, trying to find myself and some direction, people
    I know don’t have any patients with me, I don’t blame anyone that’s abandoned me, but being alone carrying a heavy weight sucks, depression and anxiety is never far, sleep is minimal. I only blame myself and I know I can turn it around again, but my mind is my worst enemy so it’s a process for sure. I can see the desperation to shake the addiction, I feel it too. Hearing your story hits me hard because you’re telling my story too., I rarely run into anyone that would understand what it’s like. Thank you for sharing, stay strong you got this

  • @tomsparks6099
    @tomsparks6099 8 месяцев назад +50

    Mark, it amazes me your resilience in these daily encounters with the darkest characters in society. I am 25 years a nurse, and am realizing the PTSD that I suffer from daily service to others. Holding on to your own spirit and joy is a challenge.

    • @jellylight3358
      @jellylight3358 8 месяцев назад +11

      It's called burnout, not PTSD.

    • @florairvan8305
      @florairvan8305 8 месяцев назад +1

      Mark, I sense in your voice such weariness and sadness. Please
      give yourself some me time. You
      can't allow yourself to be gobbled
      up by, people who use you over
      and over and over. Your voice is
      flat and uninterested. Sense your
      enthusiasm and eagerness about
      one of your frequent guests is doing
      a number on you. You are a very
      caring person with a caring heart,,
      and I understand what is going on,
      almost identical to what I've experienced.......the strong desire
      to make things right. for another.
      to no avail.

    • @ctrl_alt_delete4729
      @ctrl_alt_delete4729 8 месяцев назад

      @@jellylight3358exactly

    • @BelleTolles
      @BelleTolles 8 месяцев назад +6

      @jellylight, you don't know what someone else is experiencing.a nurse may hear and see things that trigger PTSD

    • @jellylight3358
      @jellylight3358 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@BelleTolles Here we go again with the 'You don't know what someone else is experiencing, so you don't know bla bla bla bla....'
      It's called burn out.

  • @nor_cal530
    @nor_cal530 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is the very first interviewee I have felt bad for on SWU. This is very sad she seems like such a sweet person. I really hope she pulls through her addiction

  • @JBeautyNFashion
    @JBeautyNFashion 8 месяцев назад +26

    She would make a great detective, she's smart and seem to have had her head on her shoulder at one point of her life. I hope she gets the help needed.

    • @willsmith39
      @willsmith39 8 месяцев назад +2

      Plus she'd definitely be able to find where they'd stashed the coke.

  • @davemcintyre4799
    @davemcintyre4799 8 месяцев назад +3

    Hearing her say how tired she is was the relatable part for me. When I was finally ready to give up alcohol, it was being tired of the whole pattern. Never mind any kind of “rock bottom” moments.
    She’s got a whole new community of like-minded souls who are ready to welcome and support her.
    Can’t wait to see the update.

  • @hellraisincraisin
    @hellraisincraisin 8 месяцев назад +10

    It’s normal to have fear of the unknown, but you can do it Antoinette. You and your son deserve a better life, and you can do it. Rooting for you 🎉

  • @BlvkColossus
    @BlvkColossus 8 месяцев назад +8

    Wishing her the best luck in recovery

  • @ThePortalTheory
    @ThePortalTheory 8 месяцев назад +9

    Girl you are still young enough to fix your happiness. Forgive yourself. $200,000 is nothing. People lose millions and fix their lives. Only you are creating your reality. Go ask for help. ❤ you are not alone.

  • @BradYouAreAwesome
    @BradYouAreAwesome 8 месяцев назад +29

    When she brought up her son it reminded me of my mother. She used coke on and off during my childhood. It’s interesting though, most people I met who use coke seemed to be able to drop it pretty easily when they want to, or don’t use it very regularly.

    • @LayLoow
      @LayLoow 8 месяцев назад +4

      I use to think the same not that I take it but from friends that take this nasty drug it’s a myth, have friends that are on it and it takes a real Hold of you

    • @kitkat-ev6xt
      @kitkat-ev6xt 8 месяцев назад +5

      It really does.... and it's more common than we think. 😢

    • @camdecay
      @camdecay 8 месяцев назад +7

      i think its less common to be a heavy user bc of the price, and different substances affect everyone differently. physically its highly addictive though, so if she had the money for it, it makes sense it got this bad. hopefully she’s able to forgive herself and get off of it.

    • @caity8904
      @caity8904 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@LayLoowit's not a myth. Plenty of us use substances recreationally and have no issues. That's not to say we don't have other addictions, I struggle with food myself. Drugs have never had that effect on me though.

    • @natashamcdaniel2846
      @natashamcdaniel2846 8 месяцев назад +3

      There was a Summer years ago when my son was 8 & at his dad's for Summer, I tried a few things but boy when I tried Coke, it had a hold on me that Summer. When I got my son back from Summer break, I literally told myself "ummm no I can't do this" He's 19 now and I never picked it up again. Man that was a Crossroads moment...

  • @sandrajohnson-k8m
    @sandrajohnson-k8m 8 месяцев назад +2

    Mark, your compassion and empathy is enviable. We all need kindness.

  • @pattycorm
    @pattycorm 8 месяцев назад +27

    One day at a time, Antoinette. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. You’ve got this!

  • @michaelrobertson1736
    @michaelrobertson1736 8 месяцев назад +1

    You’re a saint Mark! Deep family history with addiction - not sure I have the capacity for sympathy for addicts but the world is better with people like you in it!

  • @susanh8685
    @susanh8685 8 месяцев назад +7

    I'll never understand it. My childrens father, he is now dead from his addiction. My daughters friend she deserted her 2 children for crack. My children are damaged from their fathers abuse. Even in death is was the worse possible thing as my Son found him dead after weeks. He's now traumatized. But, I dont get why people do this to themselves. I've been so poor and struggling for years. But, I never turned to drugs. I just kept struggling. Finally after 30 years divorced I now can live fairly confortable. I had to work hard and make a ton of sacrifices.

  • @Spiderlash97
    @Spiderlash97 День назад

    I loved it when she said everything she goes through, her son goes through. Very insightful and self aware of her

  • @Smashthesecondhalf
    @Smashthesecondhalf 8 месяцев назад +8

    And turn “I hope so” into “I know so.” Have faith. You can do it. I know it.

  • @tatumpiano8569
    @tatumpiano8569 8 месяцев назад +2

    Antoinette, this was hard to watch because you are so likable and so smart. I have so much faith in you and picture you after doing the program and thriving. I see the compassion and sensitivity in you and one day you will make a wonderful friend to people who are lucky enough to be in your life. You're amazing, I see it. I wish you so much success and also hope to see you in a second interview with Mark! Rooting hard for you!!

  • @shaunc5102
    @shaunc5102 8 месяцев назад +13

    Addiction turns good people into monsters man, it destroys everything good in your life. Not judging at all, have had my own struggles in that area.. I feel her pain

    • @jewels18261
      @jewels18261 8 месяцев назад

      True that bro, but you wouldnt call Antoinette a monster im sure 😁
      You n me, seen folks who'll break morals within weeks of their first hit, and those who don't.
      Different strokes for different folks, yet all "addicts" are labelled as the same ..
      Time we overhauled the labels around mental health struggles and consequent illicit self medicating imho.
      Its a sort of global racism thats been going on since "reefer madness"
      very complex topic in a black and white world.
      Diabetics whose lives would be hideous without insulin arent labelled addicts or monsters.
      Yet imagine If insulin was illegal and only available on the street in questionable quality and insane prices... we'd see more than a few moral transgressions by diabetic desperados!
      Opiates are given such a bad rap but Methadones been dispensed safely for many decades.
      Sure, diversion happens, collateral damage is unavoidable but in the end reducing harm and keeping families intact is key
      For a certain percent of humanity alcohol is a magical Jekyll and hyde potion, yet all who drink alcohol arent labelled alcoholics..

  • @joedanker3267
    @joedanker3267 8 месяцев назад +5

    She's ready to recover. She's at her rock bottom. She's filled with guilt and shame AND she knows there is a better way, a better life. She used to live it.
    I think that's a crucial piece of successful recovery - knowing the better life you once had and knowing you can get it back.
    It's a great motivator and you already have a template for how.
    I'd love to see a follow up, good or bad.

  • @electricsnut
    @electricsnut 8 месяцев назад +9

    Not sure if you will ever read this but you can come back from this, you’re stronger than you could ever image. Coke is just a means of escape from childhood trauma and it’s perfectly understandable why. Once you can have self compassion for why you need to escape, you can start to heal from it ❤️🙏

  • @Daniea3
    @Daniea3 8 месяцев назад +16

    Should have asked her more about the shooting that triggered the chronic cocaine use.

  • @Smashthesecondhalf
    @Smashthesecondhalf 8 месяцев назад +6

    You love yourself by acknowledging that you’re making a decision that’s in your and your son’s best interest. That’s how you love yourself today. And tomorrow you love yourself by knowing you’re taking the next right step.
    Girl, you got this. I swear to you, the cravings will subside. It’s a miracle and unfathomable right now. But I promise you, life is so good on the other side.

  • @mimi1o8
    @mimi1o8 8 месяцев назад +4

    Well I didn’t expect to start my day feeling this emotional but I can fell Antoinette pain, I’m so sorry for what you are going through, you are young and can turn your life around, you are stronger than you think. Don’t listen to your mind saying that you cannot do it. You will, you are worth it.

  • @katttpiffnsam
    @katttpiffnsam 8 месяцев назад +55

    Everyone makes mistakes, now toughen up, and get your life back!

    • @thahighestgiggler
      @thahighestgiggler 8 месяцев назад +12

      So easy to say....what lead you to this channel? If you have zero compassion comments like this, aren't helpful

    • @James-m3o5x
      @James-m3o5x 8 месяцев назад +1

      YH it’s that simple 🥱

    • @James-m3o5x
      @James-m3o5x 8 месяцев назад +3

      You don’t know what tough is.Your ignorance shows.

    • @Jaypc06
      @Jaypc06 8 месяцев назад +1

      So many snowflakes in these comments

    • @James-m3o5x
      @James-m3o5x 8 месяцев назад

      @@Jaypc06 ❄️

  • @jeanmichellelaurent
    @jeanmichellelaurent 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is probably one of the darkest and saddest interviews marks done, you can tell from her voice that her addiction has cost her her life, much love to her and her family and prayers for recovery ❤❤

  • @ASOA_STRENGTH
    @ASOA_STRENGTH 8 месяцев назад +22

    Something I hear time and again. An addict becomes estranged from their family due to their substance abuse issues, isolating them even more, pushing them deeper into addiction. It's a vicious cycle. Instead, families should step up and surround the addict with company, love and give them purpose. Just dropping by to see them every so often isn't enough. Move them in with you if that's what it takes, an addict needs constant distraction whilst they get clean and even still once they're navigating life without the crutch they've depended on for, in most cases, years. Johann Hari's TED talk on addiction nails this exact point. We need connection not isolation. The whole way society and governments approach drug use and users is completely broken. We need change!
    My heart goes out to you Antoinette, know that we do recover, it is possible. I have faith in you

    • @stoney_703
      @stoney_703 8 месяцев назад +21

      It sounds like you’ve never gone through this, drug addicts avoid family and friends, or only come around when they need something

    • @ASOA_STRENGTH
      @ASOA_STRENGTH 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@stoney_703 I did go through this actually, hence I can speak from a place of experience. Yes, I know we avoid people, but I didn't say it'd be easy. But that's what we need. Not to be allowed to isolate ourselves. I don't have the answers for _how_ that's achieved, something for those much smarter than I to figure out. But it starts at the highest level in civilised societies via our governments taking positive actions first, instead of avoiding it like the plague to avoid risking their political careers.

    • @jewels18261
      @jewels18261 8 месяцев назад

      i disagree friend
      ive seen first hand how stigmatizing and drug shaming by family members just makes the situation much worse.
      its like pouring petrol on a fire.
      Gets nowhere... Look at the stupid neverending war on drugs
      Society across the planet encourages openly judging and vilifies the most vulnerable in our communities
      No wonder users gravitate towards each other, if meds were prescribable by healthcare in safe doses they way methadone, suboxone, Desoxyn and ritalin are, many users would glady remove themselves from the bankruptcy and shitshow dramas of obtaining illicit meds on the street.
      And the money saved would give living in regular society a chance.
      @@stoney_703

    • @stoney_703
      @stoney_703 8 месяцев назад +7

      @@ASOA_STRENGTH I feel for addicts especially people coping with abuse, but unless you’re mentally ill, one must make a choice if they want to continue on the life of drugs or make the choice to get help and stop doing drugs REGARDLESS of what anybody else has to say about it. It’s on them and no one else, they don’t need to blame anyone or think “they need to be nicer to me” or “what aren’t they coddling me” They need to not worry about anyone else but themselves and to get off drugs !

    • @TeeGreen222
      @TeeGreen222 8 месяцев назад +8

      Have you ever moved an addict into your home? Oftentimes it is simply not safe.

  • @leftfieldsports8703
    @leftfieldsports8703 8 месяцев назад +1

    Recovering addict of almost 9 years here. Same D.O.C., and similar in that my active addiction didn’t take off until I was in my 30s. If you were to see my life today vs. my life on the day that I got clean, it would be unrecognizable. The only thing that has remained the same is a commitment and willingness to recovery a day at a time. A day clean is a win, and I am so proud of you for making the decision to love yourself and get help. If I can make one suggestion to you, it would be to surround yourself with strong women in recovery. Latch onto them. They will give you the comfort, wisdom, guidance, and love that you will need in this process. You got this!!

  • @amstel5468
    @amstel5468 8 месяцев назад +8

    Just keep seeking treatment honey. I went to detox 29 times and relapsed every time I left. On my 30th attempt, I got it right..

  • @jessicacl2689
    @jessicacl2689 8 месяцев назад +6

    My close friend died from taking cocaine not knowing fentanyl was in it's cut. She never used those drugs ever so please people avoid this garbage. It's not worth it. I'm so scared for anyone that thinks we're in the late 70s or the early 2000s we are in a time of crisis. You can trust no one with your life when it comes to drugs. Out of respect for her child I tell nobody we know in common these details because I understand her families right to preserving their privacy and my friends dignity but it's just so upsetting to hear anyone go into these powders blindly. I wish she had gone somewhere else that day or I'd called her.

  • @DadinWA
    @DadinWA 8 месяцев назад +23

    I hope this lady overcomes her addiction and raises her son.

    • @gabrielleandrew542
      @gabrielleandrew542 8 месяцев назад

      I so hope she does well … or did well
      She has so much promise

  • @christinekowalski6132
    @christinekowalski6132 8 месяцев назад +9

    I used cocaine for 20 years. One day i stopped and never looked back. I never thought i could stop but i cried out to the One who can set you free. Jesus is real amd He loves you and he will help you. Just ask. He will take it from their

  • @maryfrizzell5945
    @maryfrizzell5945 8 месяцев назад +8

    My councilor told me about a client he had that "Put a million dollars up his nose" and had nothing left to show for how successful of a business man he was. Coke became more important. Addiction takes away everything.. it's just a matter of when.

    • @LayLoow
      @LayLoow 8 месяцев назад +4

      His probably not got a nose to show for it now aswell

  • @positvelyexpectant1383
    @positvelyexpectant1383 7 месяцев назад +2

    Praying for her recovery 🙏🏽

  • @charlotteupton5760
    @charlotteupton5760 8 месяцев назад +10

    I felt like the you were talking about your childhood I could see that little girl, I just wanted to hold her. I've gotten over my addictions, I forgave myself and I've held on to the idea of a life I want to live. Loving yourself isn't easy but it gets easier.

  • @anthonystitt3052
    @anthonystitt3052 8 месяцев назад +2

    Antoinette - you are strong & you are still young & you are so wise & you can defeat this problem. take the smallest of steps forward - it takes the courage that's already inside you. and this is huge - and i used to do this - stop shaming yourself. shaming yourself is the fuel to this disease... remember that, shame leads to using.... and one more thing: we are rooting for you.

  • @gabrielwolter4794
    @gabrielwolter4794 8 месяцев назад +6

    Oh my heart breaks, i feel you and send you all the love and light!

  • @kyzrsosay
    @kyzrsosay 5 месяцев назад +2

    I was addicted to cocaine for the better part of 8 years in my 20’s-early 30’s. When I decided to stop, the first 2 weeks was awful, but it got easier. Thankfully I have a supportive family and friends to lean on… That loneliness started to go away, but she’s right; No one can help you fix yourself from addiction but you.

  • @rpierce7004
    @rpierce7004 8 месяцев назад +9

    Good luck Antonette . Keep your eye on the prize which is your son ! He needs you. ❤

  • @flooferwoofenschnizz3858
    @flooferwoofenschnizz3858 8 месяцев назад +11

    It sounds like after the traumatic thing she went through she dipped into PTSD. She keeps saying everything started getting bad a couple years ago….I just relate a lot and I hope she gets all the help she needs. I have been healing for 6 years and counting and I really feel for her. Much love! 💗🙏

  • @trteeerryfse-wy2ww
    @trteeerryfse-wy2ww 8 месяцев назад +10

    I cant wait until she gets better ❤

  • @yellowsubmarine7073
    @yellowsubmarine7073 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video!❤ It breaks my heart that all these people take advantage of your kindness. I’ve been a subscriber on your site off and on for a year or so but I am going to go over and get a year subscription. Thanks for clarifying everything. And most importantly thanks for doing what you do to show real life stuff!!

  • @mylifecap
    @mylifecap 8 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you Mark ❤

  • @tvgreign9882
    @tvgreign9882 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hate seeing such a short video. Such a strong story. Hoping the best for you and your son.

  • @sophiegolden
    @sophiegolden 8 месяцев назад +12

    Antoinette, take care of you, just you, and never go back to people who dropped you. You will be proud of you to get back your life and dignity. I wish you the best from Paris France, you have a friend there ❤😊

  • @mariemeyer1734
    @mariemeyer1734 8 месяцев назад +2

    Walked in those shoes of hers!! She has made the first step to the rest of her life! I’m praying for her to find the peace strength and love of herself!! ❤

  • @loriwalker4583
    @loriwalker4583 8 месяцев назад +10

    You are worth it! You can do this!!!

  • @christinasanders5625
    @christinasanders5625 6 месяцев назад

    Antoinette, the observation I made watching your interview is that having someone spend time really talking with you and holding space for you to express everything you're feeling could make a big difference in you creating the life you want. Therapy is a fantastic place for that.
    Thank you for sharing.

  • @nessygee7561
    @nessygee7561 8 месяцев назад +19

    Looking forward to an update!

  • @AnnieDaddo
    @AnnieDaddo 8 месяцев назад +1

    Antoinette.. Go well.Stay focussed and be brave.You are smart.Do this for you first. then for your son.Have been in the pit of darkness too but there is light beyond.Thankyou Becky for getting this opportunity in place: Thank you ,Mark for your compassion ,as always .🙏xxx

  • @TruthTeller-ez7ev
    @TruthTeller-ez7ev 8 месяцев назад +6

    Been off that junk for 12 years and one day it will be like it all never happened because you can remove yourself so far from the lifestyle and the junk. I don't even think about it and I'm never tempted because I truly don't want it. You can recover.