MAKING FURRY FRIENDS [The Bottle Ep19]
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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and dont forget if you cant find any meets...YOU CAN MAKE ONE! Pick a place that is easy to get to (accessible by public transport, close parking, etc), check whether or not the place will allow suits (make sure you let everyone know its a non suiting meet if not!!), pick a date and time and how often it will occur, and then post it in a group for your state or country's Furries! Here's some ideas for you:
- Public park BBQ (great for suits!)
- Bowling (ring them for suit permission)
- Mall (NO SUITS!)
- Ice skating (expensive but great for a monthly thing!)
Pocari Roo Hi pocari! I'm a huge fan of your channel! You inspired me to make my own soda roo:) I watch your videos every day! I sometimes watch the same video over and over again. I love you videos Pocari:))) I am lesbian too I'm kinda scared to tell my parents.
Pocari Roo i know thats a thing but the furries in my country is so rare that no one do a furmeet (maybe they are but the last time i check was on 2015), most of em go to another country nearby that have a con XD
Pocari Roo the dancer
Pocari Roo thanks for the advice!! This video really helped since I'm kinda socially awkward ❤️ also I love ur suit and ur vids!!!!!!
Pocari Roo
So in thia episode you tell us how to make Fur-ends ha ha also amazing video keep them up
"I'd like to explain in a song!"
Oh god...
*sings*
*face palms and giggles*
This is why i love Pocari xD
Not to mention it was a Whose Line reference :D
Who doesn’t? I actually get most of my furry advice from her
Pocari is such a dork! I love them
Don't you mean......
Facepaw?
@@Local_acquaintance Facepawm xD
I can’t believe how fast I fell in love with this fandom. It’s only been a week, but I just can’t get enough.
Same here!
Same it’s only been a little while, but I can’t stop watching these vids. 😅
Same
Same! Well actually 6 days but close enough
Same here
I went to a zoo in Detroit. There were kangaroos and when I saw them I thought of you for some reason lol
Uh, ..the Detroit zoo lol thats literally what its called
"For some reason."
Gee, I wonder why?
Awe that’s cute
Idk maybe it could just maybe be that
POKARII a KANGAROO jk
Facebook has silly rules about profiles for fictional characters, which does include fursonas. You can normally go unnoticed by Facebook, but the supported way is to make a "Page" for the fursona. Of course you're supposed to use your real account to set up and manage the page, so I'm not sure what level of shielding your name gets there. I wish they'd just relax and officially let us make profiles for whatever we want.
Raven Snowfall I actually had someone flag my name for not being my actual name on my furry account, Facebook only asked to confirm that this was a name I am known by, seeing as all my furry friends know me by it, I kept it as my sona name
Wulfgang Cadenza i entered my fursona name, git rejected then changed email and was accepted some good security right there
Raven Snowfall YB
I gotta say, these videos are getting more and more helpful. But I hope you start feeling better again, I've had weeks like that.
i met my two closest furry friends through school! i recently moved to a cool arts academy and as people quickly found out i was a furry they introduced me to the other furry in the grade. we quickly hit it off and from there he introduced me to skye, as she graduated from there the year before us. those two managed to get me going to sbfm and i've built up a pretty solid amount of fur friends from there. my younger self would be proud aha
Winnie Your future is stronger than mine XD ;(
Idk this is random but pocari looks really good in that outfit :,3
I has no furry meets nearby...
*cries inside*
you can always make one!! I just pinned a comment about it
Pocari Roo thanks for the ❤️, I've never been noticed before on any video!
Paige Harvey me neither
same
Hileo Tealan same!
I have met quite a few people by joining art streams. I get to talk with people without meeting them face to face right away so I don't feel as nervous. You also get to watch artists work in the meantime and that is pretty cool too.
I know from personal experience that making friends (of any kind) is extremely difficult. I couldn't recall how many times that I've embarrassed myself just trying to get someone to hang out. But, from those embarrassments, I learned how to be a better friend overall and have gained some really cool companions that I still hang with to this day.
I think I'm the only kid in my school who wants time to go by so I can move out, get a job and get a fursuit...
Your Local H2O low key same 😂
Same
I can relate to that because I’m getting a partial fursuit and soon my friends might figure out that I’m a furry ;-;
Same
Me too!
one day I was walking out of class, and I said "woah, I feel light headed", then blacked out. Apparently I fell and smacked my head on the metal pole railing, and when I woke up, a kid walked me down to the office. I got to know him better and eventually met the rest of his friends, who were also furries. *To think it started with a blackout*
OG MELBOURNE MEET DAYS.
I remember when I first met you there :^) bahahah
I sadly haven't found any fur meets near me yet... but Im waiting and hoping. :3
JinxTheGeek same
Why wait? make one yourself! check the comment I just pinned
Pocari Roo It will be easier when I graduate high school and have more freedom. Now I cant wait to set one up. Maybe I'll find more furs in my area than I thought.
making Furry friends when you are scared of everything and everyone XD
Wakaran Like Tripping at a Furry Meet with Coffee in Your Hand and Completely Staining Someone Else's Fursuit?
RB Fernandes Oh shit that is like worst case scenario
Furry Amino is a good place to set up furmeets. there is an entire category in the app dedicated to setting up meets :)
when you've been in the fandom for like 3 years and only have 2 furry friends by coincidence 😭😂
Thats where I am. Except only one lives in the same state as me. And we still haven't hung out lol
This is where I would list my furry friends.
IF I HAD ANY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Jk I have a few)
LAZORGAMER :D chill dude wtf
LAZORGAMER :D dude what the hell, is that what people think of furries? Omg just chill.
Trey Samson I have one! She showed me what furries are, actually. She's the best! :3
Hahaha!
can I get a like from pocari please
BrUUUU
I met my friends at some Georgia fur meets I wont lie I really sat on the sidelines the first time I went to one. But the next few times I worked up the nerve to really speak and met some amazing people and now we chat and hang out during cons and such, doing all of the rumping around in suit its really great 💘
I met my friend when they did a face reveal on furry amino and I realised that they wore my old school uniform! I started a conversation with them and we became friends eventually!
I just typed a wall of text but felt silly and anxious about posting it (publicly).
Thank you for sharing your advice and experience, it helps to find motivation and courage.
I'm one of 4 furries that I know in my grade. One of them is in denial of being a furry and I am determined to make them a furry.
and then the furry nation attacked.
*Majin Inkling* Im jelly of u
*Majin Inkling*
I always go: "Dude. Its time I tell you about the furry fandom."
Don't force them into it, it can make the situation much worse if they're not ready
Your lucky. People are judgmental in my school about weirdos, such as my ex
I needed to here that song after what happend this week, it speaks to me.
*pocari singing gives me life 🐾🐾*
I just joined the fandom a few days ago. So I haven't met anyone in it yet, nor do I have a fursona. I would like to one day though, but with my health issues going out in public to conventions is very hard for me. I would also like a fursuit, but I would never be able to wear it due to the health issues, and I know the creators love to see there work out and about. So I've decided to try my hand at making them instead. I'm very good with art and I enjoy sewing so I hope I can make some suits people will enjoy in the near future.
Hope you're feeling better after your bad week (': we love you! 💙
I only have one true furry friend. I met him not knowing but my sister talked about how I was the only fury in the group but the guy said he was too. (Keeping him nameless for protection stuff)
Sydney McEuen TELL ME!!!
*Takes my first step but falls on my face *..............
you are my absolute favorite furry youtuber! im actually commissioning my fursuit from "more fur less" and im just getting the head and feet paws! but im just glad im getting mine were you got your AMAZING suit!!❤
I met one of my friends in the fandom by scrolling on Tiktok watching they’re content. A few months later I met her on amino and now we are homies lol
I learn more from The Bottle than I do from school
This is an extremely well made video for furries looking on ways to make friends in the fandom!
I have been a furry for 5 years,but I didnt majorly involved until 2-3 years ago. There was a Telegram group that I joined for furs at my uni,and I Met several friends through that.
and One piece of advice for you guys from me : Don't do small talk very often. From my Experience, a lot of people online, and sometimes irl will generally ignore People who try small talk all the time. Most People want to have a real Conversation, Not just hi,how are you?
Again,amazing video Pocari!
Sad truth: I've had someone constantly ask to be my friend and declare that they were friends with "someone popular" without my agreement and when I ignored them they threatened to murder me over Twitter. I wasn't looking for new friends or anything and after that happened I'd been apprehensive about meeting new folks for a while. What I'm saying is that there's a right way and a wrong way to become friends with folks.
Bold of you to assume my anxiety will let me go up to anybody
I just went onto furry amino and it was the best choice I've ever consciously made
I met my only furry friend irl because of fate. I was at an archery club, and there was a human there the same age as me. We both loved memes so we got talking, then my sister meets the kid as well, they get talking. Kid tells sister that he's a furry, and my sister's like "omg my sister is a furry too", so BAM WE HAD EVEN MORE TOPIC. I end up designing his fursona as he was struggling with it, and we are such good fwends now :3
I also got to meet his younger brother who I always liek to chase around and tease with cuddles uwu
Just talking about making friends triggers my social anxiety.....*brings out inner fursona*..I GOT THIS
Ive always been sort of a . . . low key furry? I wasn't associated with the furry fandom in terms of being an active member in the community, but I've always drawn them here and there, seen some fursuits occasionally and thought they were cool. It wasn't until earlier this past school year l that I made a new really good friend, and with him, came a whole group of friends. All of them are furries, which finally motivated me to become a huge furry fan and become a very active member in the community -- I'm even making my first fursuit and designed my first fursona.
Words can't describe how good this community is. Sure it has its bad bullies and overall not nice people, but so far all I've been subjected to is helpfulness, care, immense creativity, and fun! This fandom is truly something amazing.
Love you Pocari! 💜 I'm still not sure what to do. I can talk to strangers at anime cons, downtown, in an airport, I've been on stage, etc, and I adore my online furry friends! but when it comes to the people in the furry fandom I get... intimidated for some reason? I have no idea why this is. The fandom has been part of my life for at least eight years now but talking to other furries at meets and such is still strange to me. Been to both meets and cons and never can feel engaging enough. And I always think that there are precreated friend groups since people usually dont come to these events alone and I'm afraid of bothering people. I always feel "lower" than everybody else. I don't have this problem anywhere else so I don't know a good solution to this... Any ideas? I would really love to enjoy something like Anthrocon next year!!
I love what Pocari's wearing here he looks adorable and the colors go really well together!
I met most of my furry friends online, there are lots of chat rooms you can find if you just search for them.
Furmeet like Pocari said are another great way to meet local furs in your area, though they could possible be a few hours away depending on where you live.
thinking of this. it reminded me of my fursuit maker! we started out as just talking about the commission but then we added each other on discord and starting chatting a bit and then we became friends, and we had our first call! and now we are both so close and always talk to each other every day and i wouldn't trade our friendship for anything.
Amusingly, I found my way onto Second life and a Fallout Equestria (Fallout + My Little Pony) RP server entirely by accident, made friends, had fun and was rapidly made into a fan of the furry fandom in general, even with that server having gone down most of us still hang out in Discord and goof around in games and such or hanging out in SL.
And yes, Fallout Equestria is just as strange as it sounds, but it was a really fun setting to play around with, both due to the juxtaposition of cute ponies in a grim post-apocalypse, and the mix of tech and magic in ways that were quite enjoyable to tinker around with, it's kinda thinned out though, that was at it's height back in 2012.
I. am. socially. awkward.
I’m so loud and a total chatterbox so it’s hard to even go out with my family because people listen to me..
Also, I hate making speeches especially in front of my classmates- It makes me sad that our teachers just immediately expect us to be confident and outgoing because we’re young :(
No one really listens to me and when I’m sad they don’t believe me which makes me even more sad. I don’t like leaving shops without buying something. I don’t like asking to cashiers for something, because last time I did that I payed for the wrong thing. I want hugs :)
I have pretty bad social anxiety so when I used to go to furmeets I got incredibly anxious and ended up leaving early because I just simply couldn't stand all the people there. All this changed when I got my fursuit because I realised that they can't see my face so I can go as red as my body wants me to and I can make little terrified faces and they don't even know! My fursuit has completely changed my anxiety and I don't get as anxious as I used to even without my suit.
Having social anxiety and being an introvert at the same time whilst having no friends really sucks.
I used to be like that for a while but I have now managed to make a few furry friends :D i find it a lot easier if you chat to people online first so things are less awkward before meeting them IRL
although i still cant really socialise for as long as others can go for without needing to take a break, i definitely feel less anxious around people than I used to!
I'm new in this community, in sad I didn't find it sooner!! You guys are so awesome!
I was literally just going to ask you this! Seriously needed this right now thank you so much! I was gonna try to make a discord for anyone who wants to join and talk and play games, still a work in progress but I think it's a good idea
I actually found out about my current furry community through friends at my school's anime club while I was in university!
Many furs are also active in other places where geeky people congregate, like gaming meets, anime/comic/sci-fi conventions, D&D and other tabletop gaming groups... I've even met furs at LARPs, lol!
Also, check out Southern Furries if you live in Mississippi, and Louisiana Furries if you live there! I'm part of both and they are SUPER nice!
Lastly, love the "hoedown" reference from "Whose Line," Pocari!
Why is the song you made up not on ITunes?
I met my best furry friend who really got me into the fandom by ordering a badge from Etsy. I mailed her art back, she mailed back, and we became pen pals. Then we transitioned to Email, then Skype, and now telegram and DeviantArt. We're really good friends, as we have been for over a year.
I have social anxiety and I don’t think fur meets would help me much until I over come my anxiety :)
oh boy. personally if people ask me to do free art or to draw them. Which when someone asks "can you draw me?" I want to say no but I just can't. it's so hard to say no exspecially to young furries or people in general. I just can't, as a just starting out artist I can't pass it up as much as I want to
i hate it when people say that rainbow suits are trashy but i have a frusta that is part parrot so it makes sense that it would be more that 3 colors
I sort of made acquaintances with one furry at a photoshoot. We don't really talk much but they seem nice and I'm glad I met them.
The way I made furry friends is by someone inviting me to a local meet back in December. I had just gotten my partial and had been interested in making friends. well a friend of mine invited me to this meet. I didn't know what to expect but I went and made so many furry friends. Now I attend their meets every month and it has been an amazing experience in the community. I also am going to the groups convention October 6th through 8th in San Antonio, Texas, USA.
I met my best furry friend on furry amino. He was drawing art for my furry youtube channel but we still chated and now we have known each other for almost a year!
That song just made my day much better
Ahhhhh! >w< I'm so glad this actually gave examples of what to bring up, rather than just 'go talk to people'.
I'm better about it now, but when I was younger that advice really would confuse me, because I didn't understand what to talk about. Usually ended up saying hi and them immediately jumping into a conversation about dinosaurs or the like.
I dunno. Just wanted to say I thought that was really nice, since I've not actually seen anybody think more into it when giving advice, and the examples were just pretty helpful.
another amazing and hilarious video, and butts the wolf had me dying (nice song btw)
The part about making friends naturally definitely is the best way to make friends.
I have multiple friends who are non furry and furry related, I love how much thought you put into this video Pocari Roo so I'm gonna share this to spread the word. Keep up your interesting and amazing facts in these videos and I'll see you in the next one soon! 💙💙💙
its super hard to make local furry friends like
in my city. bc the admin of the only online group for the city is very spiteful and "bans" people over personal reasons. lol.
like im "banned" from the furmeets he hosts and from the online group, bc i told him him he was not a great admin for saying "if you are getting harassed by group members its not my problem" he was going to let me back in, but then me and another fur in that group went through a break up so im permanently banned to avoid making in "uncomfortable"
i have 3 local close furry friends, and i public fursuit and go to the yearly public meets still. but really people in this city are REALLY spiteful and rude so i prefer online furry friends haha.
For being a closet fur the past couple years of my life and finally coming out as of late I find this video quite comforting. Thank you for the tips! I really wish I could go to meets and fur cons but working a fulltime job punishes me physically and mentally so I barely get the time :c
Me on a app: very outgoing
V.S.
Me in real life: kinda shy not that outgoing
i'm waiting for the new album pocari
I'M WAITING
8:40 Oh no, I would really love to talk to them but I just forget to respond, for even weeks or months at a time...
*_yeah, I really need to stop doing that, don't I?_*
I have realised yes, this video is 4 years old…but if anyone is still hanging around now, how do I meet other furries as a “YOUNG FUR” I’m planning to go to a con next year, but all this stuff is making me think it’s easier if I’m older suiters age. Like if they are 20 and I’m not even 14, how do interact with them in a cool way? I’m very socially awkward, may seem like and easy thing for some people, but not…really for me….
Yeah, it's kinda the same for me... it double sucks because my entire family hates furries and if i try to defend them then my mum will probably just ban my devices or smthn.
i have been furry for 6 years now. I have noticed that you end up going through 50 or so people and friends before you find the few that you really love and get along with, most often people will ignore you out of nowhere or just kinda fall away, and that's ok i guess. never made friends with any local furies really. i have tried to get to know my local community online before i go to a meet, and i am kinda afraid of meeting some pretty messed up people. so it never really worked out. and yeah, i am too shy and awkward to go to any meets alone. so oh well that is out for me, but it's ok. ^^ Another thing i have noticed is when i try to go out of my way to make friends it never really works out, most of my friends have found me instead. i'm not sure if anyone ells has had the same experience? maybe i don't really resonate with a lot of furries being into partying and drinking a lot, something I'm not really into. i would rather have a deep conversation and enjoy some down to earth stuff and share creativity and hugs. but who knows. = ) good luck finding friends if you are looking, you will find them, don't worry. just keep trying. even if it takes a few years ^^
Me and my friend met when we were 9 were 12 now and we both became furries and she told me about the fandom which was awsome I wouldn't find this fandom without her.Shes changed my life and was awsome.we met on ps3
I only have 1 furry friend as of right now and it was a random encounter. I started volunteering at my local animal shelter and there was a girl there named (we will call her Ann) Ann. And one day I was washing the food bowls in the kitchen and she had came back for lunch and somehow we had started talking and the mention of furries came up and we both realized that we were both furries. So now we hang all the time and we are actually making our first fursuits together.
im pretty social awkward so i rather meet ppl online and only then decide if i want/can to meet them irl
Yes that first step is always very hard for me when meeting new people or meeting people you only know from the internet. I always tend to take a while to work up courage to say hi. I'm getting better at it though I hope.
got into the fandom through a wonderful friend. well, i was in it a year back but dropped oit due to bullying. i don't really care anymore though so i'm going to go make fursuits again thanks to her influence
Just to remind you, I'm not sure if you've seen it but Furry Amino has added a furry meets section to its catalog group. Just some food for thought, not sure if you've seen it yet. Love your videos as always, keep it up!
I had amino but then my brother found it on my phone made me delete my account and told my mom (I didn't make a new account because now they go through my phone every day and I feel so sad because I had a lot of freinds on amino and now I can't talk to them) and now they (my mom and brother my dad left when I was younger) aren't comfortable around me because they only know about the bad part of the fandom and won't let me explain the fact that the bad side is a minority in the fandom and I only know like two other furries in real life
Im a young furry, but i have made some online friends and brought them into the fandom :D I use this app called Sketch witch is a drawing social media app, u can make art and post it around the world, and i rlly love it :3 Someone asked me in the comments a while back to draw them, so i did, and since that day they loved my art. She kept asking for requests and then another girl came in asking me to draw hers, and i did. Then we all started making art of each other and became friends :D One of them isnt active anymore, idk why, but the other is vary nice and i posted my "fursuit" (everything from amazon) and she loved it and thought it was so cool, then i told her about u, and she found out about fursuits, and etc, then fell in love with dutchies xD But yea, we r still good friends today,
How do you feel about this comment, a year later
Alternate Title "How to make fur real friends"
Also I love the Whose line reference
story of how I met my best furry friend:
I run a fursuit maker page on instagram and I had someone ask for a trade for my sockpaws (which are very popular. I really have to make more.) Like I have to be honest. The fursuit head she was offering wasn't the best, and she was a stranger so I declined. I did end up advertising her head being up for sale/trade on my personality ig tho.
afrerwards we had small conversations here and there and one day she asks "Hey can I draw your character?" and I said okay and even offered an art trade which she gladly accepted.
From there we nust started becoming closer and closer friends, and now we have a whoke universe where our fursonas and Oc's live in (as well as several to 3dgy 4 me AUs becuase where dorks)
So yeah. Another way to make a friend is to hit up a new fursuit maker with a trade, have them decline, and then make them art.
Speaking of making friends online, I have furry friend in Tasmania. I love being able to connect with people all around the globe.
Here’s a crown for pocari 👑 because she actually understands that social anxiety is real 🎉🎉
when you find out pocario is in Brisbane like you -dies- xD
It's hard making friends when I'm freaking terrified meeting people for the first time and also have social anxiety
Furry Amino did just add a Furmeets category as well, which is nice
You get a thumbs-up for the Hoedown song alone. Cheers!
I am making my set of friends and I am not really looking for new ones but I am always open to new peeps. Furry amino is where I found most of them.
The problem for me is that I live in a tiny Town where there isn't a lot of furries
But I'm still trying to get into one one day
Oh god a hoedown, I bloody lost it, that was hillariously unexpected.
Thank you, Pocari. I've been asking myself those questions you mentioned. I'll be on the look out for more meets, and I won't be afraid to go!
I love the video that you make and all the hard work that you put into them
I *really* want to go to a furry meet, but my parents won't let me for two reasons: 1) Its halfway across the state. 2) "We don't want you around other 'furries'. You know we don't like the fandom." (Thats a direct quote) My parents have only seen the bad side of the fandom and have applied it to the rest of it. :( The only reason they're letting me be in it and have a fursuit is because they said I can't publicly classify myself as a furry or call the fursuit a fursuit. Any tips for being in this situation?
found my first furry friend through dark souls 3 :D gamersforlive
Wolf claw Eden that's awesome
I went to my first Fur meet recently and it was great. It was a pre-con bbq
lovely song!
also i am absolutley not a person who will message first, i usually don't even like having conversations with people, but i STILL KINDA want friends
FA has some *really* old content of small meets and the like at my university, but this college town is legitimately in the middle of nowhere. There is nothing here. This is gonna be a little harder than I thought.
My country is small and its kinda helpful. The furries here made a groupchat and they find as many furries as possible and add them to the chat. We even have a con called "unicon" and we meet up there. I love the fact that most of the furries here are my friends :)
I was sick but two furries locally wanted to meet me. NOW I WANT TO FIND A MEET
I actually made a furry friend at A SUMMER ART CLASS. Neither of us have fur suits, but we're furrys. You could probably make furry friends anywhere I think. Probably not. But it was nice to find a furry in a art class. ^v^
Cimerie :3 its a common place as the furry fandom is 90percent art and can present a challenge to young artists
(I love the outfit!) I have social anxiety and making friends offline can be very hard for me, so this was very helpful! thank you and I hope you feel better soon