Well we need an Update on these 2 young ladies.... This was 2 year or years ago. Imma go on a limb, *they're NOT in an Successful Lationship nor Marriage yet* ❗️ She with the beige shirt, is h.e.r. OWN reason I KNOW no Successful Lationship have occurred. 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾
Women will never miss an opportunity to flatter themselves.. I’m single because I’m so great and awesome and it’s hard to find someone with sunglasses dark enough to stand how hard I’m shinning lol
Men aren't intimidated. Men with means aren't interested in getting on you and your child's program and schedule. If you are doing your own thing, congrats. I have my own thing going and I don't need any distractions from it, especially since almost all women will be expecting that the man pays.
There's too much trauma-bonding in with Blsck women like this. They want to wear their trauma like a Merit Badge. They don't want to be fixed. They want men and children to enter their orbit.
Men told women to say what they bring to the table. This is all way too combative and double sided there’s a new goal post. You may just not think they’re good enough for you.
Everyone is complete if they are wholesome, meaning they love God and themselves. "Add on" just means someone great, teaching something new, teachable and unique to share life with. It's a compliment. Romantic love is not guaranteed. Its a bonus blessing.
@@SpiritualLifeCoach43No, it means... worship me. I am the center of this relationship. I determine how this goes. They don't want husbands. They want wives. They have a masculine posture.
The Lady in the gold thinks that her level is much higher than what it is. She wants no social media. Back then, she would be told what her reality is. Her level is not high. Period!
This broad needs to get a wife, its time for her to settle down. She has her career, her own house, shes busy and hardly has time, all she needs is a woman ro take care of the house and be her peace. All of them should date and marry each other. They'll see how easy and wonderful women are.
She clearly doesnt understand what competing means 🤦🏾♂️ she clearly just set expectations showing that men have to compete for her attention by having certain characteristics. Talking to some women is like talking to a wall
Unfortunately You are spot on....And then they Wonder why the Passport Bros is a Real thing.......Leave these selfish, overly entitled, Totally Ran Through 304s right where you find them.
Dating is like high schoolers dating with everyone trying gain stature and popularity among their peers. That’s what it seems like. Especially in your 30’s.
Unfortunately if a woman is at least decent looking and likes men, she not likely to make it out of high school without having at least one kid unless she is devoutly religious or literally cannot have kids. If a woman finds you attractive enough, she won't be concerned with you wearing a condom during sex and f- boys don't like condoms and don't care because he not gonna help with the kid anyway more likely than not
Nah she’s just been ran through and damaged. She so silly lashing out I’m a way that makes her feel good: better. And she’s got a child. Yeah she burnt toast
An ambitious woman is never a woman to be in a relationship with. There’s no balance, yall both can’t be ambitious. Not saying be lazy but ambitious is a different level of commitment to a craft or career.
Most of my friends & me are all ambitious and we are single - I agree. It’s hard to balance. Men often thrive married in their career, women thrive in their careers single. Ambition is a personality trait, some times a hiding place for avoidance too. I will say I would rather make my own money than beg a man for it. That’s crazy. I’ve always made less money in relationships, I stayed single so I could cash up without distraction.
These things make me realize most people don’t really understand “why” they’re dating. If you’re dating to be married…..the criteria for what you’re looking for is different than dating to have fun. I think a lot of these podcasts miss an important point. The nature of relationship is WORK. NONE OF US come ready-made. You’re blending cultures/background in hopes of creating a new/healthier culture moving forward. Its SACRIFICE. As long as men and women are living with a “me, me, me” mindset….it isn’t sustainable long term.
I appreciate you saying this! I have found this to be the biggest hurdle in dating in my 30’s. Some people looking for finished products, not enough people knowing it’s going to take work and you’re not going to know people after a few texts. I’m just glad you said it as a man. I have experienced when saying it as a woman, it’s not received well.
That's the type A personality speaking. Combative and masculine. Ambition ISN'T attractive to men looking for a woman. We don't want that in a relationship with a woman. It's great for her to get a bag though.
Why do BM have to understand what a BW is going through? We all going through something. Then BW saying they aren't competing for a man but then they are always trying to prove themselves at their job. This is why BM don't understand why BW will submit at work and try to prove themselves at work, but in a relationship they don't want to do either of those things.
@@useyourwords3286anyone who is married will tell you Marriage is work. Love is a feeling that comes and goes, married people will even say there was times there didn’t love each other but they were set on making things work because love is like an ebb and flow you have ups and downs.
She can tell you one leadership quality of OP, she just likes his voice😂😂😂😂 However the girl in the gold explained exactly why OP is a good leader to her and most modern women. Op just comes in a fixes the problems they made then transforms and stays out the way until they need him again. Moderen women try and treat men like a tool😢
You are suppose to prioritize each within bounds and comfort of each other. Prime example, if you meet someone who is taking care of a dying family member. It’s not you are not priority it’s working one in. It could that person mom, child or whatever. So when you say that it’s not taking into the account of what’s going on their lives. I met guys who have stage 3 cancer,. I have met guys who have had strokes. I have met guys who have lost their children, a parent, a sibling. So when you say prioritize people have to account for people lives before they meet.
The uncomfortable truth is this. Fake hair, fake lashes, overweight, BBL, attitude, insults, shaming, need to be right, non-agreeable, no peace. Needs and wants to be handled. Wants to be independent and strong, don't need a man mentality. unrealistic expectations. With children. FYI, Wives are always found. Found mine 27 years ago. Women made the dating scene uncomfortable for men and men are walking away. Pretty simple.
Those who grew up witnessing a healthy strong family dynamic, value obtaining that above everything, career money etc. All while still being highly successful and content. Those who didn’t more than likely don’t know the true value of creating a family and the fulfillment that comes from it, hence why they won’t “compete” or “fight” to potentially create one.
The girl in the yellow having all these demands with already having a child is crazy. Please stop giving your unsolicited advice when not even being qualified to give it.
I'm a black man I am not intimidated if a woman has more resources than I do I am more afraid of child support because you can put me on there if I'm in your life for too long and the courts will make me pay even more in child support knowing the child is not mine
I personally loved the Optimus Prime example.. that comparison went over everyone’s head.. you can tell she actually watched transformers back in the day
She's in her 30s, has a kid and feels because she has a career and a house a man would pick her over a 24 year old girl with no child who he can mould to what he desires.
B.w y'all don't understand a dam thing I've experienced...i can't believe she said they understand us.. especially on a personal level,you don't know what that person know, endured,overcame until you truly get to know them...
As a man, I disagree with other men who make the argument of “women should compete” - at least in the way he described. It was funny to me how he brought up the analogy of being an employer looking to interview someone new because the current employee wasn’t performing well. Moments before he said this, I was already thinking that same scenario in my head but from the opposite angle. When a person goes to work, they shouldn’t be thinking “let me work really hard today because if I don’t then someone else is gonna have my position tomorrow”. That’s a horrible mindset to have. Yes - you need to be aware of it, but it needs to be deep in the back of your mind, because your mindset should actually be “I’m going to do my best and give it my all today”. It shouldn’t be contingent upon the fear of being replaced. What the woman said was correct on this point.
It's crazy to hear a woman say she's once Optimus Prime but in the same breath expect there to be a bunch of him. Ma'am...Optimus Prime is RARE!! Lol and not one woman asked "what would Optimus Prime want from me?"
The lady in the hat is speaking of humility & emotional growth = kudos to her.....if you can analyse yourself that's better than having a big ego or super sensitive to critique
She said, we should get rid of social media because we always think we can do better. She is the one who thinks she can do better. You best shorty is a man who isn’t ambitious, and makes less than you that’s willing to help you with your child. His looks maybe average to above average but if it’s above average then he really is going to need you financially. She be wanting more due to her social media explore page.
I think when women, like the girl in gold, have personal success it allows them to look for love like a man does. She can now look for love, loyalty and respect instead of resources, status and protection, when looking for a mate.
23:20 Opimus Prime is the kind of Man she is looking for....... She does not sound Delusional at all.....SMMFH And they wonder why brothers marry out and moving on....This is Sad to watch.
Great Conversation. Im 46 and The ladies all seem fun, and have a convo to go with it. Would love to take them all out with company, to see how the socialize.
Please bring more of these kind of ladies. And not these immature childish females in the past. They're very open-minded and agreeable. And they can have a decent conversation without sounding narcissistic or childish.
The problem is that no one is not understanding the position the black people are in. We are at war and are oppressed to the degree that it’s not acknowledged. And Our perception of reality is jaded and we’re not coming to terms with the damage that has taken place in how we move.
Ya’ll need more experts on some of these panels. This is good fodder for entertainment but some of what these guests espouse is so divorced from reality, it’s scary. If you start with a faulty premise you are guaranteed shitty outcomes. Start with this book, The Value of Others: Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual Marketplace by Orion Taraban. To give some context, married for 17 years.
Unfortunately a lot of baby daddies think that they can come in their baby mothers life at any time and resume their intimate relationship with their baby mothers . They boast about this in the barbershops all over the country.
She's been in a relationship for 14 years and she's not married. What is she talking about she doesn't know what it's like to date in your thirties? 0:20
The young lady in the middle say if you are not adding your subtracting.She caught in a situation that is difficult to get out of coming with baby in tow
For her to say BM don't know what single BW are going through but those same men grew up with a single mother. But I can say BW don't know what BM are going thru, do to fathers not being there, and them just seeing what their mother goes thru 🤷🏿♂️
If asking a man to meet and match what I have and not coming to my life single-handed because I can already do it by myself and he's complaining about my standard, I would rather be single. I need to know that the man in my life can match what what I have or accumulate more any man coming into my life less than that I would rather be single because he is going to stress you the hell out and disturb your peace and your pH.
Yall Talking about adding and subtracting to get a to total but if you knew algebra . One side of the equation can equal the other if you know how to work the equation and that’s just basic order of operations( basic algebra skills)
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That's biblical
I don't know what yall on I'm 30 and I ain't doing no single mom it is settling. I don't want them kids.😂. Don't be desperate.
Well we need an Update on these 2 young ladies....
This was 2 year or years ago. Imma go on a limb, *they're NOT in an Successful Lationship nor Marriage yet* ❗️
She with the beige shirt, is h.e.r. OWN reason I KNOW no Successful Lationship have occurred. 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾
The second one is talking about energy, one is full of crap
Getting with a woman who has a child is always a bad decision no matter how old you get. Stay strong brothas
NEVER BE A STEPDAD
Women will never miss an opportunity to flatter themselves.. I’m single because I’m so great and awesome and it’s hard to find someone with sunglasses dark enough to stand how hard I’m shinning lol
Literal insanity
😂😂
If a woman loving herself and flattering herself bothers you I would take a moment to look inside myself and figure out why that's not normal
@@theglowup247 if the thats how you took it, your probably a narcissist.
Sadly🤦🏽♀️
Men aren't intimidated. Men with means aren't interested in getting on you and your child's program and schedule. If you are doing your own thing, congrats. I have my own thing going and I don't need any distractions from it, especially since almost all women will be expecting that the man pays.
💯
A man who could rent but lives alone. Has a career & is ambitious- I don’t think that’s a crazy expectation..
@@yasminogbu8929 and, yet, she can't get it. Why? Men like me are no longer signing up for bad deals.
When she said “I have a child” it was a wrap. And have the nerve to have a “list” 😂
@@yasminogbu8929and women like the one in the middle want congrats for being an adult.
amshe's doing grown folk shit😂
Some are so narcissistic that they are subconsciously saying, "no one is good enough,"
There's too much trauma-bonding in with Blsck women like this. They want to wear their trauma like a Merit Badge. They don't want to be fixed. They want men and children to enter their orbit.
Protecting men from themselves 🙏🏾
to say the lease "damaged-beyond-repair" THE END-----
She thinks she is all that!
Men told women to say what they bring to the table. This is all way too combative and double sided there’s a new goal post. You may just not think they’re good enough for you.
“Maybe you’re so independent you don’t know how to be in a relationship anymore.”
I think he actually hit the nail on the coffin with that conclusion.
When a women say add to me... a man is likely to not take a woman seriously
Everyone is complete if they are wholesome, meaning they love God and themselves. "Add on" just means someone great, teaching something new, teachable and unique to share life with. It's a compliment. Romantic love is not guaranteed. Its a bonus blessing.
Yep, succubi talk
@@SpiritualLifeCoach43No, it means... worship me. I am the center of this relationship. I determine how this goes. They don't want husbands. They want wives. They have a masculine posture.
Facts
@@SpiritualLifeCoach43I agree to a point. That phrase is not used in that context for the most part.
The Lady in the gold thinks that her level is much higher than what it is. She wants no social media. Back then, she would be told what her reality is. Her level is not high. Period!
Why would a man that has all the things she wants in a man would date a single mom.
These relationships conversations are exhausting. Ppl just need a counselor.
And the one in the brown don’t give anyone a chance to express their opinion.
WOMEN need MALE couselors. Not people. women live in la la land.
@@indigohelps7715they’re exhausting because women aren’t improving from their delusion.
@@indigohelps7715straight yapping
@@indigohelps7715Sure doesn’t. You can tell she has a lot of lying in what she is saying.
This broad needs to get a wife, its time for her to settle down. She has her career, her own house, shes busy and hardly has time, all she needs is a woman ro take care of the house and be her peace. All of them should date and marry each other. They'll see how easy and wonderful women are.
Nailed it
Facts
Correct
Dead A$$.......Spot on.
She clearly doesnt understand what competing means 🤦🏾♂️ she clearly just set expectations showing that men have to compete for her attention by having certain characteristics. Talking to some women is like talking to a wall
Gold shirt is every black woman in her 30s America
Yep I'm 31 no kids I'm getting that passport...I'm not dating in the states...
Yeah why would anybody want her?
Unfortunately You are spot on....And then they Wonder why the Passport Bros is a Real thing.......Leave these selfish, overly entitled, Totally Ran Through 304s right where you find them.
Your NOT wrong ....
Leave their Ran Through A$$es right their and keep it movin.
Every relationship podcast need an older female mediator. It's mandatory
We need more podcasts with older people to begin with.
You think most of them have sense when they're in the same boat and competition with the young hyenas?
Absolutely. That part is biblical
NO bring their "dad(s)" on the podcast > he will tell the TRUTH.. rebellious or he did not TRAIN her to be a housewife !!!
Yea because a woman’s ego can only be trumped by another woman
Lady in the Gold is 🧢 and toxic but she thinks she’s saying something smh …. These woman are lost
Dating is like high schoolers dating with everyone trying gain stature and popularity among their peers. That’s what it seems like. Especially in your 30’s.
status not stature
They all think they deserve a man with a yacht
I already tired dating a single mom they never have time for anybody I refuse to believe that just because I’m 32 I need to settle for a single mom
Don't settle. They won't settle for you if you don't make their income requirements.
Unfortunately if a woman is at least decent looking and likes men, she not likely to make it out of high school without having at least one kid unless she is devoutly religious or literally cannot have kids. If a woman finds you attractive enough, she won't be concerned with you wearing a condom during sex and f- boys don't like condoms and don't care because he not gonna help with the kid anyway more likely than not
Never be a step dad.
Boss get your passport! Take a cruise to the islands.... easy 123... you will meet... ladies on the boat single and ready to mingle
The lady in the brown obviously don’t wanna date this is why she still single
It's not that she doesn't want to date, it's that she doesn't qualify for what she thinks she deserves.
they don't know how to pick men. They love pookies until they are in their decline then go looking for a simp to take care of pookies babies.
It’s the wig. Them wigs be positioning their brains. Peep she the only one with a Hair-hat, talkin absolute foolishness
She's A Modern Day Mercenary Hynea, Buss Down Weave, Spider 🕷️ Lashes, & Spike Nails 💅
Nah she’s just been ran through and damaged. She so silly lashing out I’m a way that makes her feel good: better. And she’s got a child. Yeah she burnt toast
Men should start their own family and not Settle for sloppy seconds. Having a kid IS a huge negative rops her SMB by 2 points.
15 points
Modern men don’t want to be a step dad
Anyone else notice how they asked what men want then immediately changed the subject before getting any answers?
An ambitious woman is never a woman to be in a relationship with. There’s no balance, yall both can’t be ambitious. Not saying be lazy but ambitious is a different level of commitment to a craft or career.
Ambitious and a single mom, she simply doesn't have time for a relationship.
Most of my friends & me are all ambitious and we are single - I agree. It’s hard to balance. Men often thrive married in their career, women thrive in their careers single. Ambition is a personality trait, some times a hiding place for avoidance too. I will say I would rather make my own money than beg a man for it. That’s crazy. I’ve always made less money in relationships, I stayed single so I could cash up without distraction.
The compete part for women is setting yourself apart from all the other women. That's a form of competing 😊
Ain’t nobody checking for her, she is really in her head. She is not even all that
Black women always say they're engaged engaged engaged stop the 🧢
I laugh 😹 so hard! Kevin Samuels is undefeated! Engagement for years no wedding 💒
She said she's been engaged for 14 years.. That man isn't going to marry you!😅
Nah she said dating for 14 years lol now she’s engaged
Being engaged for 14 years is nuts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was looking for this comment! Women will let a man string their them along for years without marrying them.
Man that was the first thing I heard and bout turned it off. Wayyy too long for commitment without marriage period.
I thought the same thing. I was engaged for 1 year and got married wedding 💒
These things make me realize most people don’t really understand “why” they’re dating.
If you’re dating to be married…..the criteria for what you’re looking for is different than dating to have fun.
I think a lot of these podcasts miss an important point. The nature of relationship is WORK. NONE OF US come ready-made. You’re blending cultures/background in hopes of creating a new/healthier culture moving forward.
Its SACRIFICE. As long as men and women are living with a “me, me, me” mindset….it isn’t sustainable long term.
I appreciate you saying this! I have found this to be the biggest hurdle in dating in my 30’s. Some people looking for finished products, not enough people knowing it’s going to take work and you’re not going to know people after a few texts. I’m just glad you said it as a man. I have experienced when saying it as a woman, it’s not received well.
It’s not settling when it’s the woman with a kid….”it’s not like it’s a bad thing” ….
Bullshhhh!!! It is certainly a liability at the minimum
The one in middle does a lot of talking but said absolutely nothing. She just likes to hear herself talk. Like girl…wtf are you talking about??
😂
If she talks down to men saying they are not good enough that explains it.
That's the type A personality speaking. Combative and masculine. Ambition ISN'T attractive to men looking for a woman. We don't want that in a relationship with a woman. It's great for her to get a bag though.
Or she's picking the ones beneath her to feel in control
@travtra8346 or that's her lvl fr 🤔😂
Are they still saying those "he's intimidated" slogans from the 90s!?
But the older men are from the 90’s that say it😂😂😂
Do they even know what the word means or do they just like the sound of the word?
A car and a house is kind of common. U mentioned this 10 times. Ur a single mother. Successful men are not interested
Right, like they achieved the impossible…
By the time a Woman is 30 Most Women have already met their Husband and Rejected Him.
The Woman in the Brown should just Marry her Baby Daddy..
True….
Why do BM have to understand what a BW is going through? We all going through something. Then BW saying they aren't competing for a man but then they are always trying to prove themselves at their job. This is why BM don't understand why BW will submit at work and try to prove themselves at work, but in a relationship they don't want to do either of those things.
Going to work and being in a relationship are 2 totally different things.
@useyourwords3286 marriage is work, relationships are work, taking care of a home is work, taking care of children is work. Your welcome.
@@phenomenal-xv4ey it's "you're " and again, going to work and being in a relationship are two different things.
@@useyourwords3286anyone who is married will tell you Marriage is work. Love is a feeling that comes and goes, married people will even say there was times there didn’t love each other but they were set on making things work because love is like an ebb and flow you have ups and downs.
@@useyourwords3286 Typical, can't dispute the facts
Why everyone coming off like they successful... stop the cappppppo!!!! lol 😂.. u have a house and a car.. student loans... a child... ur in Debt
I swear to god
Facts!!
Exactly
And a weave😊
A man who could rent but lives alone. Has a career & is ambitious- I don’t think that’s a crazy expectation..
This is a good show for entertainment purposes only
Also for actors working on their East Coast BW accent. This show is great for that.
She said, Optimus Prime! Such an amazing example of leadership, I like that.
She can tell you one leadership quality of OP, she just likes his voice😂😂😂😂 However the girl in the gold explained exactly why OP is a good leader to her and most modern women. Op just comes in a fixes the problems they made then transforms and stays out the way until they need him again. Moderen women try and treat men like a tool😢
@@TalentedMisterHeat8💯🔥
If you’re not willing to prioritize a man, don’t be upset that he doesn’t prioritize you.
You are suppose to prioritize each within bounds and comfort of each other. Prime example, if you meet someone who is taking care of a dying family member. It’s not you are not priority it’s working one in. It could that person mom, child or whatever. So when you say that it’s not taking into the account of what’s going on their lives. I met guys who have stage 3 cancer,. I have met guys who have had strokes. I have met guys who have lost their children, a parent, a sibling. So when you say prioritize people have to account for people lives before they meet.
All those shows with families and friends from the 90s both men and women worked and they weren't rich (except the fresh prince) but they were happy.
The uncomfortable truth is this. Fake hair, fake lashes, overweight, BBL, attitude, insults, shaming, need to be right, non-agreeable, no peace. Needs and wants to be handled. Wants to be independent and strong, don't need a man mentality. unrealistic expectations. With children. FYI, Wives are always found. Found mine 27 years ago. Women made the dating scene uncomfortable for men and men are walking away. Pretty simple.
the problem is people are not dating to marry, and why should we be dating in age group cohorts?
A single mother who says she won't compete for a man. Cool.
Those who grew up witnessing a healthy strong family dynamic, value obtaining that above everything, career money etc. All while still being highly successful and content. Those who didn’t more than likely don’t know the true value of creating a family and the fulfillment that comes from it, hence why they won’t “compete” or “fight” to potentially create one.
Very heavy statement...
The girl in the yellow having all these demands with already having a child is crazy. Please stop giving your unsolicited advice when not even being qualified to give it.
No man should take on another man’s responsibility!
Hey brotha on the right..no matter what age you never have to SETTLE for a single mother if you don’t have kids..
Optimus is a literal war veteran who has been fighting continuously for thousands of years….
He’d be the Brotha that’s always busy abcs what not.
Bingo!! You think Optimus Prime is going to sit for five MINUTES with these broads??
Can’t imagine coming home to any one of them. Ever.
A man in his 30s do not have to date a woman with a child men have the ability to date younger women with no children
I'm a black man I am not intimidated if a woman has more resources than I do I am more afraid of child support because you can put me on there if I'm in your life for too long and the courts will make me pay even more in child support knowing the child is not mine
15:18 how everyone agreed w the man about his requirements as he got older.. but when women30+ requirements change😒
Choosing to not be a step dad is not the same thing as all these delusional expectations women have.
That lady who did all of the talking sounds horrible to date. She’s the type you hit & keep it moving.
Having a child can be a bad thing depending on the person you’re dealing with and how mature they are.
I personally loved the Optimus Prime example.. that comparison went over everyone’s head.. you can tell she actually watched transformers back in the day
It's definitely not a good thing she has a kid
She's in her 30's. Thats typical for most people.
@@SpiritualLifeCoach43no not age
She was really trying to convince that it’s not a bad thing 😂😂😂lawd have mercy 😂😂😂
She's in her 30s, has a kid and feels because she has a career and a house a man would pick her over a 24 year old girl with no child who he can mould to what he desires.
3:00 pause the video and take a moment of silence
Loved this dialogue 🙏🏾
That Optimus prime answer , top tier 😂😂
B.w y'all don't understand a dam thing I've experienced...i can't believe she said they understand us.. especially on a personal level,you don't know what that person know, endured,overcame until you truly get to know them...
As a man, I disagree with other men who make the argument of “women should compete” - at least in the way he described. It was funny to me how he brought up the analogy of being an employer looking to interview someone new because the current employee wasn’t performing well. Moments before he said this, I was already thinking that same scenario in my head but from the opposite angle. When a person goes to work, they shouldn’t be thinking “let me work really hard today because if I don’t then someone else is gonna have my position tomorrow”. That’s a horrible mindset to have. Yes - you need to be aware of it, but it needs to be deep in the back of your mind, because your mindset should actually be “I’m going to do my best and give it my all today”. It shouldn’t be contingent upon the fear of being replaced. What the woman said was correct on this point.
Y'all get all the high earning career women with the best weave on y'all show.
😅
Definitely settling
This girl talks more than everyone but says a lot of nothingness...Im so glad I left modern women alone.
It's crazy to hear a woman say she's once Optimus Prime but in the same breath expect there to be a bunch of him. Ma'am...Optimus Prime is RARE!! Lol and not one woman asked "what would Optimus Prime want from me?"
This lady said Optimus Prime. We see why she single, she wants a robot fictional character as her man. Lol.
The lady in the hat is speaking of humility & emotional growth = kudos to her.....if you can analyse yourself that's better than having a big ego or super sensitive to critique
She said, we should get rid of social media because we always think we can do better. She is the one who thinks she can do better. You best shorty is a man who isn’t ambitious, and makes less than you that’s willing to help you with your child. His looks maybe average to above average but if it’s above average then he really is going to need you financially. She be wanting more due to her social media explore page.
I think when women, like the girl in gold, have personal success it allows them to look for love like a man does. She can now look for love, loyalty and respect instead of resources, status and protection, when looking for a mate.
This would be a nightmare if you married that woman. Masculine, showboating, baby momma! She will be forever single!
23:20 Opimus Prime is the kind of Man she is looking for.......
She does not sound Delusional at all.....SMMFH
And they wonder why brothers marry out and moving on....This is Sad to watch.
40s and 50s hit these ladies reality kicks in in general
Settleing is part of adapting. 😂😂
Sharing is the goal
Great conversation
6:50 Ace was tryin not to laugh lol
Great Conversation. Im 46 and The ladies all seem fun, and have a convo to go with it. Would love to take them all out with company, to see how the socialize.
39 dropped gems throughout! Take skills to navigate relationships
I hear monk mode calling. It baffles me how women have these super high preferences for men. And expect results.
You shouldn't have the sisterhood recommending simp behavior, and then bring a man to parrot whatever the sisterhood says.
“I’m not competing” so your losing
Please bring more of these kind of ladies. And not these immature childish females in the past. They're very open-minded and agreeable. And they can have a decent conversation without sounding narcissistic or childish.
The guy in the middle is single because he is red pilled- he’s argumentative- blaming women for everything- he seems like hard work
Dang..I’m 23 and I know that dating is harder(especially in my generation)but pleaseeee 30 is still young like omg 🥹 have hope ladies !!
When you hit 30 as a woman you have 40 % chance
Why are women so delusional about reality why do they lie to themselves?
When they start talking bout dating baby mommas I get quite just like Eli 🤣. Nope no can do.
I would really like to hear from successful women who are in good relationships. I want to hear their mindsets and how they think.
The problem is that no one is not understanding the position the black people are in.
We are at war and are oppressed to the degree that it’s not acknowledged.
And Our perception of reality is jaded and we’re not coming to terms with the damage that has taken place in how we move.
Ya’ll need more experts on some of these panels. This is good fodder for entertainment but some of what these guests espouse is so divorced from reality, it’s scary. If you start with a faulty premise you are guaranteed shitty outcomes.
Start with this book, The Value of Others: Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual Marketplace by Orion Taraban.
To give some context, married for 17 years.
At her big age she ask the question "okay so what do men want?" ...smh
every man is different, it’s a valid question.
@Nitabita_ yes that's true but she probably didn't just start dating men either
Unfortunately a lot of baby daddies think that they can come in their baby mothers life at any time and resume their intimate relationship with their baby mothers . They boast about this in the barbershops all over the country.
Can't confirm that, but I believe it.
It’s a sad sad world when we can’t get together naturally. Self-destruction!
Seemingly these women are not gonna have some of the best times in the market.
These women are looking for their superficial match instead of looking for a man they are truly compatible with.
That's because average women think that they deserve above average men.
She's been in a relationship for 14 years and she's not married. What is she talking about she doesn't know what it's like to date in your thirties? 0:20
Soon as she said "I feel like", she lost me. I know it's wrong but i despise those words😂
Same. 🤬
The young lady in the middle say if you are not adding your subtracting.She caught in a situation that is difficult to get out of coming with baby in tow
Single mom? Yeaa it’s over with.
😂☕️🐈
For her to say BM don't know what single BW are going through but those same men grew up with a single mother. But I can say BW don't know what BM are going thru, do to fathers not being there, and them just seeing what their mother goes thru 🤷🏿♂️
Aye yo black 🐈⬛ jacket and black 🖤 hat looks like Mary j Blige yo 😲
If asking a man to meet and match what I have and not coming to my life single-handed because I can already do it by myself and he's complaining about my standard, I would rather be single. I need to know that the man in my life can match what what I have or accumulate more any man coming into my life less than that I would rather be single because he is going to stress you the hell out and disturb your peace and your pH.
When the women laugh when they brought up selling P is because most of them did it 😂
Yall Talking about adding and subtracting to get a to total but if you knew algebra . One side of the equation can equal the other if you know how to work the equation and that’s just basic order of operations( basic algebra skills)