I'm an extreme introvert and shy guy I can't talk to girls bcuz of my shyness and that's why people often think I'm arrogant I'm not arrogant i really want to socialize but I just can't whenever I go out I always feels like everybody is watching me and judging me feels as if I'm in a spotlight I have social anxiety and I always end up being like a clown when I push myself to talk to anyone they think I'm naive I don't know if I can ever get rid of this shyness.
It's heartbreaking too. I've had a girl show interest in me and we only got together after explicitly said I want you. I started to open up a little to her but I couldn't be truly comfortable with her 😢 I guess me being shy and not being responsive does count as putting little to no effort and that's definitely how it appears as well as how it feels when you try to think about how the other person sees it. All this leads me back to the thinking that, I shouldn't be in a relationship. I may want someone and want to feel close and intimate with them but I really don't want to break their heart, so I should probably not engage. Then again I'm breaking their heart by not initially opening up. It's fucking frustrating.
no worries, development is gradual and can go for years. I started first by taking features of other characters I found cool and making an act. Eventually they merge with your Self making you charismatic introvert. If you have nothing to say- dont speak, making up communication, "small talk", is not our thing. Think loud but refine thought before pronouncing it. If you have intrusive thoughts- let them win. Irl cringe is fun for people, they just refuse to acknowledge it. If you think it will look fun seeing other doing it- it will look fun on you. Also practice asking girls out. Only those you didn't see before so you can leave and never see them again.
Probably not my friend , that is exactly how i felt and still feel . But it gets better ! What helps is the realisation that most people take 0 notice of you , they have forgotten your face by tomorrow if you haven't spoken to them or their friends directly . Also remember you're not the center of the universe . If you think about it , this kind of paranoia that everyone is watching you is kind of narcissistic . So forget that . I hope this helps , it helped me .
As a shy major introvert guy.... finally met the right girl....had two kids....and now have a happy drama free life......life is very good actually ....just had to wait and give it some time......
Happened to me, I was at the bar, watching a match of the 6 nations, France vs England, the whole bar and me were supporting France, and there was one single girl who were English, so I started to talk with her a bit, and 2 guys next to me talked with her as well, the girl even bought us shots but at some point, I felt left aside because I don't have much conversation in comparison of my mates, so I left without telling anyone and went back home 😅 I can definitely relate to Wojack's situation, when you feel like you don't belong in a certain situation, you just leave
Yup, when you’re like this it’s pointless to compete with the extroverts. It just comes off forced and weird. It feels like we were born this way just to ultimately suffer.
I'm kinda more an extrovert, but this is not about "who talks the most", it's about sympathy. Maybe the two other guys annoyed her secretly with their blabbering. You never know. Stand up for yourself and listen to the conversation, she was talking to all three of you so why not interfere with your own thoughts about the topic? You can be much funnier than you think, if you don't try it you'll never figure it out. Even if she is not interested, she won't bite you and nobody will be mad. Try it, simply talk about your thoughts about the game and if the conversation differs to interests in general, you simply tell what you like - you don't want a girl which doesn't fit your personality, trust me. I've a high bodycount but not found real love except once in my life.
@@renjiaow3742 Bro, only because we talk more this doesn't mean that the girl prefers us. Maybe you left too soon. This is about the situation and not every girl loves what guys say only because she smiles.
@@anokata-kd8oc it's complicated to stay when you feel that you don't belong in a situation. It's easy to say like you when you're an extrovert. And I think that if the guys were annoying her, she would've stopped talking with them
I stopped being shy almost instantly. I realized that my energy and focus was all on me with these stupid questions like "what are they/she/he going to think about me? " and felt huge shame. I started to focus on other people. Whenever I felt shy, I would really try to understand the person in front of me instead of thinking about me, whatever the topic was, i'd focus on the other. From there everything got better. Hope it helps someone.
I don't know if you would put it in the category of 'shyness', but i was brought up to 'not bother people', not interfere, intrude, upset them and if they were upset i had to feel bad about it because it was my fault. And further directions about avoiding trouble etc. just ended up with me avoiding doing things that might cause 'bother'. And also told to just keep away from people that might be trouble, just ended up with me keeping away from people ! It wasn't until my early thirties that i decided to change. I'm pleased that i did, but annoyed with myself that i didn't do this earlier.
@@treystephens6166There is nothing inherently good about being shy. It serves no benefit to your life and makes you not get taken seriously by women. And you definitely don't want to be a shy adult man. I used to be shy as a kid and thank God I grew out of it. Find the root cause of your shyness and what's causing it. Usually it stems from wanting people to like and approve you and wanting women to find you attractive. You're putting people on a pedestal.
As an introvert from India🇮🇳, this is fu¢kiπg hard to live with. because... There is a lack of awareness about psychology and personality traits among the people here. They perceive me as an egoistic person, which has led to jealousy and hatred toward me.
Being shy It's different from being interoverted, you may have a shy personality but that doesn't stop you from doing things you like to do even though the public. If you were totally introverted you wouldnt have the courage to do that
2:40 dayum, someone in 2024 isn't afraid to use the OG MLG sound effect back from the 2017 MLG era or so when YTPs were blowing up with milions of views
At first it started with shyness, later I became introverted. Now I've been suffering from severe social anxiety for several years. It really is a paralyzing experience. I can't have a conversation, let alone start one, without my voice shaking. It's so embarrassing. The only way I can go to work and communicate with people is a combination of beta blockers and benzos. And even the meds aren't enough to overcome my fear of talking to a good looking woman. Hopeless. Whoever invented this disease is the true definition of evil.
8:04 bro I feel this sh*t to a spiritual level. Whenever I get invited by my colleagues for a drink, all they talk about is fkn woman, doing this, doing that. Sendibg messages. No one really talks about something meaningful or at least something to kill the time. Jokes all the time, like we are a bunch of teenagers. I don’t know man. I might sound weird but this sh*t sounds so stupid to me. That is why I hate clubs. Or basic bars in general.
Who is living like me, always staying at home with parents, no friend no socializing no career always living in comfort zone with bunch of mental health problem
There is nothing inherently good about being shy. It serves no benefit to your life and makes you not get taken seriously by women. And you definitely don't want to be a shy adult man. I used to be shy as a kid and thank God I grew out of it. Find the root cause of your shyness and what's causing it. Usually it stems from wanting people to like and approve you and wanting women to find you attractive. You're putting people on a pedestal.
@@abyudelyakem6449 Yup, I don't know why introverts don't accept that they have elements if shyness. Introverts would freak their life out if they're asked to skeak on stage the next day.
Idk if i am true, the last part is just for coping this whole video is life changing, i am ashmed of myself i could pull any girl in my scholl time where everyone has one but for the fucking shyiness and the coping mechanism that is going on everywhere, please quit shyness, i regret it.
i swear to god if boomer always drank beer from school. bet his beerbum actually is a dead swollen liver with total cirosis. maybe he doesnt have a liver at all, boomers have their tricks for real.... maybe check ur old boomers , maybe every boomber functions without a liver. watching all your clips im hooked like a crack/meth/fentanyl. and believe me i have been hooked to them for ages sober for 2 years tho
Concentrate on what is going on in the surroundings and comment it to the girl, or go on with a compliment like "I really like your shirt, it fits you very well". The most important thing is not to talk to much, but to ask her for a number and plan a meeting, and don't be too nice with planning either. Don't say too much "maybe" but rather say "let's meet ...." Good luck!
I'm an extreme introvert and shy guy I can't talk to girls bcuz of my shyness and that's why people often think I'm arrogant I'm not arrogant i really want to socialize but I just can't whenever I go out I always feels like everybody is watching me and judging me feels as if I'm in a spotlight I have social anxiety and I always end up being like a clown when I push myself to talk to anyone they think I'm naive I don't know if I can ever get rid of this shyness.
It's heartbreaking too. I've had a girl show interest in me and we only got together after explicitly said I want you. I started to open up a little to her but I couldn't be truly comfortable with her 😢 I guess me being shy and not being responsive does count as putting little to no effort and that's definitely how it appears as well as how it feels when you try to think about how the other person sees it. All this leads me back to the thinking that, I shouldn't be in a relationship. I may want someone and want to feel close and intimate with them but I really don't want to break their heart, so I should probably not engage. Then again I'm breaking their heart by not initially opening up. It's fucking frustrating.
no worries, development is gradual and can go for years. I started first by taking features of other characters I found cool and making an act. Eventually they merge with your Self making you charismatic introvert. If you have nothing to say- dont speak, making up communication, "small talk", is not our thing. Think loud but refine thought before pronouncing it. If you have intrusive thoughts- let them win. Irl cringe is fun for people, they just refuse to acknowledge it. If you think it will look fun seeing other doing it- it will look fun on you. Also practice asking girls out. Only those you didn't see before so you can leave and never see them again.
Dude don’t give up trust me you can become more social with time, keep pushing yourself ! I’ve been here too and still is to an extend
We are on the same boat my guy 😶🌫️
Probably not my friend , that is exactly how i felt and still feel . But it gets better ! What helps is the realisation that most people take 0 notice of you , they have forgotten your face by tomorrow if you haven't spoken to them or their friends directly . Also remember you're not the center of the universe . If you think about it , this kind of paranoia that everyone is watching you is kind of narcissistic . So forget that . I hope this helps , it helped me .
if u dont wanna be shy anymore just read the book titled escape the comfort cage, trust me on this
Is this sarcasm?
@@UltraEgoMc it helped me so do as u wish bro
@@UltraEgoMcdon’t it is pointless just try to do thing in 3 seconds of thought
Bro or you just do what you want to do in 3 seconds
whos the author?
If u are reading this i hope you will get an nice day
Thanks
You too
🫶🕊️✌️🖖to you as well 😊
Thanks man same to you
Getting shy
"Nice guys don't finish last, Shy guys do"
Very true, oh how true.
Time stamp?
Nice guys get taken advantage of, shy guys don't allow vulnerability
@@KussDamato u can be shy and nice at the same time :P
@@KussDamatoonly if you allow yourself to be taken advantage of
shy guys dont get to finish at all
As a shy major introvert guy.... finally met the right girl....had two kids....and now have a happy drama free life......life is very good actually ....just had to wait and give it some time......
Good for you
No, you are lucky. She found you and tamed you. You were randomly picked. I know because I am the same
Good for you but that comment will hurt other introverts that never got a relationship y'know
good for u ig?
@@adraxer12This is the correct answer. No sane extrovert women wants anything to do with an introvert especially if they’re going nowhere in life.
Happened to me, I was at the bar, watching a match of the 6 nations, France vs England, the whole bar and me were supporting France, and there was one single girl who were English, so I started to talk with her a bit, and 2 guys next to me talked with her as well, the girl even bought us shots but at some point, I felt left aside because I don't have much conversation in comparison of my mates, so I left without telling anyone and went back home 😅 I can definitely relate to Wojack's situation, when you feel like you don't belong in a certain situation, you just leave
Yup, when you’re like this it’s pointless to compete with the extroverts. It just comes off forced and weird. It feels like we were born this way just to ultimately suffer.
Don't fight. This isn't your fight, fight only more favourable fights. Shy girls exist, they just don't usually go to such places.
I'm kinda more an extrovert, but this is not about "who talks the most", it's about sympathy. Maybe the two other guys annoyed her secretly with their blabbering. You never know. Stand up for yourself and listen to the conversation, she was talking to all three of you so why not interfere with your own thoughts about the topic? You can be much funnier than you think, if you don't try it you'll never figure it out. Even if she is not interested, she won't bite you and nobody will be mad. Try it, simply talk about your thoughts about the game and if the conversation differs to interests in general, you simply tell what you like - you don't want a girl which doesn't fit your personality, trust me. I've a high bodycount but not found real love except once in my life.
@@renjiaow3742 Bro, only because we talk more this doesn't mean that the girl prefers us. Maybe you left too soon. This is about the situation and not every girl loves what guys say only because she smiles.
@@anokata-kd8oc it's complicated to stay when you feel that you don't belong in a situation. It's easy to say like you when you're an extrovert. And I think that if the guys were annoying her, she would've stopped talking with them
Elon Musk as the waiter XD at 7:33
😂😂😂😂
14:11
and 14:10
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the music 🎶 to
and 14:10 too
Why bro represent my life in his video all the time 😢
Stay strong brother, you're not alone.
real
just earn money dawg that all it take
That Ending 😂❤
I didnt expect that
😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Counter-prank
I stopped being shy almost instantly.
I realized that my energy and focus was all on me with these stupid questions like "what are they/she/he going to think about me? " and felt huge shame.
I started to focus on other people. Whenever I felt shy, I would really try to understand the person in front of me instead of thinking about me, whatever the topic was, i'd focus on the other.
From there everything got better.
Hope it helps someone.
> Be me
> Shy guy
> Make 'tistic noises
> Wear a mask
> Troll an Italian plumber
Life is good
All Kappa
As long as you are happy my fellow gangster.
Italian plumbers😔
Never mess with the quiet guys they are unpredictable
I don't know if you would put it in the category of 'shyness', but i was brought up to 'not bother people', not interfere, intrude, upset them and if they were upset i had to feel bad about it because it was my fault. And further directions about avoiding trouble etc. just ended up with me avoiding doing things that might cause 'bother'. And also told to just keep away from people that might be trouble, just ended up with me keeping away from people ! It wasn't until my early thirties that i decided to change. I'm pleased that i did, but annoyed with myself that i didn't do this earlier.
I like the "wage slavery" key words poster at 1:18. I should get one for our wall at the office.
Boomer is right,a Beer a day keeps the shyness away,you can't be shy when you're drunk
Cannabis is better for you though
I’m still shy lol
When I try not to be Shy people think I’m annoying.
@@treystephens6166There is nothing inherently good about being shy. It serves no benefit to your life and makes you not get taken seriously by women. And you definitely don't want to be a shy adult man. I used to be shy as a kid and thank God I grew out of it. Find the root cause of your shyness and what's causing it. Usually it stems from wanting people to like and approve you and wanting women to find you attractive. You're putting people on a pedestal.
@@elyvenkus7485 that's because you choose to be shy, alcohol literally takes shyness away,you decide to stay like that
Very unexpected ending 😂😂
Bro this is literally my life...
Same g😢😢
Wait....Did Wojak beat the CRAP out of the girl with that BAT???
Time stamp?
its just a prank bro
'bonk"
@@austinzhou7628 End of the video
Equality
As an introvert from India🇮🇳, this is fu¢kiπg hard to live with. because...
There is a lack of awareness about psychology and personality traits among the people here.
They perceive me as an egoistic person, which has led to jealousy and hatred toward me.
People in Nepal say you are girly when they see introvert or shy guys
@@aakristadhungana4702 and it really doesn't help
"As an introvert from India "😂 this doesn't make any sense bro , your are not any extinct species .
Same dude everyone thinks I am an egoistic person when in reality I am just shy and want to go home 😂😂
Those girls would rather choose an slightly ugly guy rather than shy one
As a shy, introvert and incel
Life is hard 😞😭
Even if life is hard, we are harder mfuckers.😎
Stay hard.💪
Try stop being an incel then
@@boratsagdiyev522 wtf are u talking about💀
@@boratsagdiyev522 How lol
@@deviator5838 oh idk, maybe stop acting like women owe u their affection and actually be of value to them.
Hahaha I love the motivational poster on the 7th floor :D
At least Wojak has his friends beside to help him
I already this one is gonna hit real close to home for me 🤣
Wojak for President!
Like to vote
I'm shy, but have no problem singing in karaoke, especially after a drink. How's that?
Same. Singing is a different part of the brain than socializing normally or something like that.
A beer a day keeps shyness away
@@godwillmaroko4156 In my case drinking alcohol exacerbates my anxiety after it wears off, therefore I try to avoid it
Being shy It's different from being interoverted, you may have a shy personality but that doesn't stop you from doing things you like to do even though the public. If you were totally introverted you wouldnt have the courage to do that
I can do everything except singing to be honest. It’s just not my thing.
Ive discovered I turn shy when Im unhappy with my job and not confident about my finances
1:18 that poster goes way too fucking hard
2:40 dayum, someone in 2024 isn't afraid to use the OG MLG sound effect back from the 2017 MLG era or so when YTPs were blowing up with milions of views
loll i loved this video man lord wojak i want you to know that i fw you and i appreciate you heavy
At first it started with shyness, later I became introverted. Now I've been suffering from severe social anxiety for several years. It really is a paralyzing experience. I can't have a conversation, let alone start one, without my voice shaking. It's so embarrassing. The only way I can go to work and communicate with people is a combination of beta blockers and benzos. And even the meds aren't enough to overcome my fear of talking to a good looking woman. Hopeless. Whoever invented this disease is the true definition of evil.
"If you never get dates, you'll never waste money on dates." -- A Wise Word: Boomer
Indirect sympathy to singles
Not every shy guy is a nice guy
Yeah im shy,but i did commit horrible war crimes so i guess im not a nice guy
@@Nikola-vs6fd same, once i even killed a mosquito on my house, im sorry little friend, It was an accident 😢
10:21 lol was not expecting that “ehhh”
12:11 “shit shit where did he go” 😂😂😂
i love these long videos
Blood runs thicker than Water.
I love the poster saying "We will do more meetings until we figured out why all of this work hasn't been done" 😂
Haha, this was so funny! It honestly felt like I was watching a documentary about my own life, especially as the shy guy. So relatable!
This is me. I like the “emotional damage” line it must be new. Sums me up pretty good.
As a natural introvert…..this video hits hard af LOL!!! 😆 😂
Love these kind of stories, especially this one since I’m also a shy guy. 😂
I'm not shy. I just don't enjoy people.
I hope and pray that we will become enough strong handle our tragedy and will overcome our every problems and live happily 🙏
Being shy it's just a goddamn curse
Fr bro 😪
Literally
High testosterone reduces your shyness. I was shy when I was weak
cope its genetic
That is Elon musk, the waiter? 😂 7:35
Times changes huh?
The hardest part is that; others guess you are arrognant and so hate you instead of helping😢😢
The second worst; "Zeigarnic Effect" which do not give you chance to forgot your past. So you cannot change your psyhcology easily://
Shortly, it is a trouble especially between 15-25. Yet may be some good aspects are with....
8:04 bro I feel this sh*t to a spiritual level. Whenever I get invited by my colleagues for a drink, all they talk about is fkn woman, doing this, doing that. Sendibg messages. No one really talks about something meaningful or at least something to kill the time. Jokes all the time, like we are a bunch of teenagers. I don’t know man. I might sound weird but this sh*t sounds so stupid to me. That is why I hate clubs. Or basic bars in general.
Its cause you grown up at this point, gotta leave your immature friends behind
@@supremekingowl9350 I understand. The thing is I am only 25 years old. Some of them are over 30.
@@valley6824 no one said all adults become mature. That's why they say people peak in highschool
The emotional damage took me 😂😂😂
Keep it up,bro wojack 💪🏻
HOW AMNY OF THESE CHANNELS ARE THERE? AND ARE THEY ALL CONNECTED??
14:53 bro got friendzoned skill issue
7:22 "OH SHIT. NOT GOOD ☠️"
Who is living like me, always staying at home with parents, no friend no socializing no career always living in comfort zone with bunch of mental health problem
You forgot to add 'work'
"Ah shit, here we go again."
I feel this on a personal level
The happy end came surprising
the life of a shy guy is just being trapped in a box 5m x 5m x 5m, and you get really mad when someone look at your face
Nice guys recognize the dangers of dating and the false accusation.
Bro made a video about my life💀
Resonated with me😅
This has hit me hard.
There is nothing inherently good about being shy. It serves no benefit to your life and makes you not get taken seriously by women. And you definitely don't want to be a shy adult man. I used to be shy as a kid and thank God I grew out of it. Find the root cause of your shyness and what's causing it. Usually it stems from wanting people to like and approve you and wanting women to find you attractive. You're putting people on a pedestal.
Why people confuse shyness with being introverted🙄
One is subset of the other
@@abyudelyakem6449 Yup, I don't know why introverts don't accept that they have elements if shyness. Introverts would freak their life out if they're asked to skeak on stage the next day.
First one minute explaning everything.
7:33 aint no way!
Felt good
Talking to people i don t know much feels like torture. I mostly don t feel comfortable about people i just met
Idk if i am true, the last part is just for coping this whole video is life changing, i am ashmed of myself i could pull any girl in my scholl time where everyone has one but for the fucking shyiness and the coping mechanism that is going on everywhere, please quit shyness, i regret it.
Didn't expected the ending 😂
That gender equality in the end.. I respect that
Spot on
I kinda regret watching this. Too relatable.
I hate being this person I feel like shii bro I wanna break out of this man I feel so shy around Women for no reason 😔😔
That was a good one👏💯💯💯🏆
Yeah....whatever, i'll die single
You won't. I don't know what's your case but it all will change
On time
When you cross the limits of an angel, the devil shivers.
The ending is unexpected 💀😂
Nice plot twist at the end...
Being a quiet man is our gift but also our curse at least thats how it is for me
It's always the quiet ones.
My prank would be: order the most expensive item from the menu for her, then leave.
Wojak is so shy, he wears his shorts when showering on his own :O
That "bat twist".... Lmao!😅
I feel like I just watched my entire high school social life lol 🫠
i swear to god if boomer always drank beer from school. bet his beerbum actually is a dead swollen liver with total cirosis.
maybe he doesnt have a liver at all, boomers have their tricks for real....
maybe check ur old boomers , maybe every boomber functions without a liver.
watching all your clips im hooked like a crack/meth/fentanyl. and believe me i have been hooked to them for ages sober for 2 years tho
Are we talking that all girls identify as introverts and every men think themselves as extrovert?
I can absolutely understand that. 😅
That wage slabery was personal
*Bro hit the home run, he don't play no games*
I just don’t know how to start a conversation
Concentrate on what is going on in the surroundings and comment it to the girl, or go on with a compliment like "I really like your shirt, it fits you very well". The most important thing is not to talk to much, but to ask her for a number and plan a meeting, and don't be too nice with planning either. Don't say too much "maybe" but rather say "let's meet ...."
Good luck!
Bring back memories
You guys need to understand that most of men don’t have a chance regardless whether they are shy or social. The root of the problem is different.
Real (especially the murderous rampage at the end).
Story of my life right here.
I lost someone I loved because I couldn't even say hi to her and now I hate myself because Im not normal guy
10:25-10:35 😂😂 wojak got roasted
Am with u Wojak
Ill judt die single💀😆