Introverted truck driver here. Never dated or had any friends. Truck driving gives me peace and I don't have to worry about people. I don't trust anyone. I love the wide open roads in the middle of the night. Just me, my truck and an occasional deer.
@HandleNameIsStupid yeah true I'm 32 never had a girlfriend nor do I have any friends also has put my mind in dark places. but not talking and not doing are two different things but can both ruin your life
For my part, I only feel this in gatherings where you know the people somehow or where you are expected to be social, such as at a birthday party. For example it's not a problem in train stations, airports or even on planes because nobody dictates that you have to have a conversation.
I am proud to be an introvert. I don't need attention from people , I'm good with myself, it's a peaceful life . Extroverts can't understand this . And introverts are more powerful in fighting depression and anxiety , we are literally stronger . We introverts are living a world inside our heads , let's make it a good world to live in. Good luck guys !
To those who suffer from social anxiety remember this. If you want something you've never had, you will need to do something you never did. You don't need to take big leaps set small goals that you think are achievable, but still makes you slightly uncomfortable. The most important part is to be consistent with this and don't take things personally if you run into rude people. The only person that you can control is yourself. Remember this is the one life you've got treat yourself with a growth mindset and you will be amazed at how far you can go.
This is not introversion, this is avoidance. The difference between an introvert and an avoidant personality is that an introvert does not complain about being alone because they really like it, while an avoidant personality would like to but cannot because they are afraid.
Yeah just because someone is an introvert doesn't mean they can't be socially confident. What this video portrays is social anxiety which both introverts and extroverts can have it's not exclusive. So many people think they are introverts when in actuality they are just extroverts with social phobia.
I agree with you to some extent. But social anxiety can lead to introversion that is people who suffer from social shyness naturally feel more comfortable being alone. Alternatively, what might be introversion by choice in the beginning can cause one to become socially inept and negatively judged by other extroverts. So, the introverts end being lonely. As, introverts also need social connection, just less than others.
This is not really true either. Although you are right with this video being avoidance, but introversion doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t enjoy socializing or prefers to be alone all the time. It’s more about how they manage their energy. Introverted people can enjoy spending time with others just as much as extroverts, but they may need breaks to recharge. Their ‘social battery’ often drains faster in large gatherings or high-energy environments, while alone time helps them regain their energy.
Yup essentially this. I’ve kind of just become numb to it and don’t care anymore. But because nobody was ever listening I never felt there was a point in speaking.
Me either.. time goes too damn slow when working indoors especially in am office. When I'm outside, I can see changes such as light, clouds and traffic, which for me speeds up my time frame reference
Not all introverts are shy. But we have trouble understanding everyone else's group effort, loudness, excitement, ect. Too much human interaction drains us. But, in my case, I like talking and teasing people but only when I'm in the mood. And the interaction has to be brief as my battery gets depleted the longer I am around people.
Extroverts leave impressions on the living. Introverts leave impressions on the walls of the cells they dwell in, their efforts unknown and unacknowledged until long after their deaths, when their bodies have long gone from this cold, dark world.
@@Lee-wg7en It's not unique to introverts that will happen to everyone far into the future..you may have noticed it by now but the living don't really last very long..there's only so much "living" you can make an impression on until they've all gone and passed on and never to be remembered
@@Saber_Nico something as simple as being a decent father helps society LEAPS. Many overthink it but it is not hard to be a productive member and leave a mark.
Just keep in mind that people are rude because they are not loved and they are selfish because they dont have what other have, when you see someone like that, keep in mind that they are just miserable people 😉🤙
I couldn't even handle being a dishwasher. Tried it a few times but never lasted long. And it wasn't the work. Other people wouldn't leave me alone to do my job.
As an introvert I can say the hardest thing for me isn’t being social. Yeah it’s difficult especially when initiating conversations and interactions but the hardest part is dating and maintaining friendships. Dating as an introvert is extremely draining no matter how much effort you put in and most of the time the person will begin losing interest when you start becoming more open in most cases. It isn’t always like that but a majority of experiences are even if you tell them early on that you’re an introvert. If the person you’re seeing on more personal terms starts distancing themselves from you when you become more sociable toward them, do yourself a favor and end things early, same with friends, chances are they just wanted an “object” to vent to that wouldn’t openly judge or rat them out.
Bro that's so true. I am an introvert too, and i know a lot of good guys that became my friends until these days or at some period of time, for example when we were in one class or when were partners on training section. I know they're great people and i don't mind them being my friends, or even i want to continue be their friend, but as you noticed, i just can't support our friendship, since i don't usually like to go hang out with them or meet them somewhere, or with anyone at all, i just like doing my stuff alone. Introvert after all. Most of the time i live without thinking about them, being by myself, but when that moment comes when i remember about them, i notice how much time has passed since we chat or spoke to each other. 2 months, more than half a year, more than year etc. And at these moments i wonder will that even work, i want to be their friend still but at the same time do almost nothing to maintain our relationships. In my mind friends have to meet each other often. But i can't do anything about it since i'm always forgetting about these friends and continue live by myself as usual. I heard someone once said "fake friends always interact with you wanting something from you, while true friends can remain your buddies even throughout years of not interacting with each other" or something like that. I'd like if it was true, but every human is different so i don't know
The video hits me so hard. Last week there was a fun fair in town for 3 days. I went there twice. I was there with one close buddy. I hardly met anyone else to talk to. Every one seemed super happy and well connected. Seeing all the faces from the same place that you know for years but have nothing to do with really turns you down. The day after it was over, I was lying on my bedroom floor crying when I realized that my presence there hardly mattered. Why do I even exist?
I experienced something very similar in 6th grade. I lived in a semi-rural town and there was a fair going on. As I walked around, I didn't know anybody, even though I grew up there. I realized that I didn't matter and that I had been isolated from natural socialization my whole life up to that point. Deep down I knew it was over; long before the words or rhetoric existed to express it.
@Loui_Siana Sad, just sad. Also not true. Introverts don't have the energy to deal with social events and they don't draw energy from them. It does not mean I do not want to engage with people I want to engage with
@@Loui_Sianaeven introverts eventually will want some level of social interaction. Introverts are still human lol they just have social interactions in the backseat of their priorities. If you NEVER want to interact with others, you might be a psychopath ngl 😂😂😂
Sometimes when I'm around a bunch of people I don't know I feel like I'm having a panic attack and then when I'm back home in my apartment it all goes away and I feel great I just feel better when I'm by myself
The thing that most people get wrong is that our lives are miserable or dark. On the contrary; we just don't want to be part of the group or even try to. We don't feel there is anything wrong about being a loner. We thrive and are happy when we are alone. We feel limited and overburdened when we are around people. Wojak here is not an introvert. He seems to be depressed, insecure and burnt out. This is something that anyone can experience. Not a good representation of an introvert.
Self acceptance as an introvert gives you enough confidence to deal with day by day life, trying to pretend being something we don't are or wanting to be someone else will doom you in misery
As a introvert some of this is true but social anxiety not true for all of us we just don't like interacting with alot of people we don't know and phone calls is just annoying we prefer texting more and ngl it is overwhelming when we in front of alot of people and energy draining for us and we prefer to be left alone and the vital world thing is true same for online well some or all of it
introvert in my mid 20s diagnosed with adhd and currently in college. there are times i get so isolated that i literally force myself to go out to bars and talk to people and i walk around, take a good look, and realize that i simply just dont belong in that crowd anymore and i find myself feeling so defeated afterwards but i just know its a part of life i guess.
As an introvert, I think our power is high EQ. Being an introvert is super helpful when it comes to listening to your love ones. I can listen to my girlfriend's random stuffs the whole day and being supportive whenever she need. I think being an introvert is really cool. All you need to do is to get out of your comfort zone and be courage to connect to people.
i don't even have people messaging me . there's literally no one , one person calling me are people who want to drag me down, have never inspired me to do anything in life and actively discourage and demotivate me. they want me to be trapped like they are, that's my family. i have decided to abandon them, they will hurt me in the long run, they have nothing of value to share nor any proper advice, i could have used some when i was younger. i am practically alone and homeless.
Super bubbly and talkative/ outgoing people have always gotten on my nerves...is it just me??? Like why do you have to talk to every single person that passes by? Lol. Like no one cares what you had for breakfast.
As a introvert this hits hard not only that i also have terrible ADHD, no one to talk amd relate about my personal life, people always being people to you, never had GF honestly (i get some rants about that but hey my life is not simple ok) no family or friends, in fact it took me almost my entire life to talk to my auntie about certain things that i don't like or get and it took me this long like damn
Work 3pm-11pm, tuesday and wednesdays are my days off for the past two years, night owl too. I never have time to hang out with friends anymore, everyone of them work 7am-3pm and have weekends off. Can't drive due to epilepsy. Very being alone everyday for years.
Great video. This captures the experiences of someone living with social phobia and the importance of pushing yourself outside your comfort zone/exposure therapy
Man oh man can I hard relate to this. As an introvert, I think I have to realize that I'm alot less annoying to others than I think I am. My uses to ppl are very niche, so since I rarely come up as a "go-to", I inherently think I'm a nuisance for others, then in return others think they're annoying me. I have to really fight and kick this habit because I can talk to people for hours once i break the mold. I also don't let moments of silence break me since I'm introverted. I'll have relationships where me and my significant other or even the homies just sit there and not say a word and we just vibe. Extroverts and even most other introverts get destroyed by silence and end up saying things they later regret 😅😅😅 But yeah, big part of being an introvert is chances are you're alot cooler than you think you are and people actually like hanging out with you. It's pretty nuts. I'd say the biggest benefit of being an introvert is you're quite literally robotic to the feeling of loneliness since you enjoy being alone. I can probably count on one hand the number of times in my life where I've felt lonely. It RARELY happens and when it does it's a foreign feeling because I'm almost completely immune to feeling that specific emotion. The biggest con however, is not making friends in a world where who you know > what you know. I don't network with people, so if I'm in a situation where others would be like "I know a guy!" I'm pretty much screwed because I simply don't know ppl. Getting jobs as an introvert is a nightmare for that reason.
I like being an introvert... total freedom and peace. Plus, I don't trust others. The only thing negative about being an intervert is if I have an emergency, I have no one to call. Friends come and go, anyway.
Being a nurse as an introvert was an experience for me, people around be like, telling me to speak up more, why I am so silent, they just don't understand that I prefer lone time to recharge. I used to have confrontations back then, especially when under performing.
Favorite Anime: Barakamon. Its about the son of a famous calligrapher following in his dads footsteps who stays on a small town on an island in hopes of peace to work on his craft, but the villagers won't leave him be.
I am introvert cause i was fat as kid and without explanation you can understand in have bunch of Truma that even now as a powerlifter im still introvert and sacred of people
When you get done wrong enough times, you want to disassociate with people all together even if they have good intentions. It sucks. Worst part is always being there for people but no one's ever there when you need them
Listen carefully!! If you take Wojack content very negatively, it will be very bad for you😢 But if you learn from It …. I guarantee this is the only animation channel from which will you gain the fully life knowledge❤❤🗿📈
Been introverted my whole life and at first it was 5x this but ive improved and improved and especially past 2 years ive made huge improvements and its no longer that bad. Its actually better then this video shows which I think is rly great improvement by myself. Should also mention I was recently diagnosed with autism and its probably why I am introverted in the first place and bcs I was bullied age 6-10.
Message to my fellow introverts, understand that there are gonna be times where you will need to be uncomfortable in the short-term so that you can build good relationships in the long term. Take time for yourself, but realize that social anxiety does get better the more you improve your social skills (at least in my anecdotal experience).
@@metrowater2819That is very difficult to stop, there must be support, to stop being an introvert. And I'm experiencing that now, I'm just used to talking to people I know.And it's very difficult to talk to people I don't know, I don't have the words to say unless there are important words, which I want to convey, and also myself every day
@@あMohamed_syaribuden same bro, I try to force myself to go in public, but Its So hard And most of thé time even if I go there I barely talk to anyone, fighting my inner demons everytime..
Fellow ambivert I do not think about fitting in socializing drains me it’s more so how to get out of a conversation and want to keep to myself. I speak when needed
If you want to be that cool background observer character? This is what you get. I never understood that in anime where the cool MC with his dark magic powers who site by in the shadows and hides in the background, blending in and never doing anything. If you do that, life will just slip from under you in no time and it's gonna be so humiliating when you realized what u missed because you wanted to be cool.
I’m ambivert. I love being introverted and just enjoying my vices like porn but I also really like taking a break from the vices and being extroverted. So I’m both. As an ambivert, there are pros and cons for both extroversion and introversion. When I’m extroverted, it’s rewarding because we live in a world where outside things that involves any kind of social interaction is designed mainly for extroverted people. The con for me however, is that I become more interactive/social which results to me being more opinionated which opens the door to more confrontations/disagreements/arguments/disrespect etc. Whereas when I’m introverted, that isn’t an issue. But the con to my introversion is that I don’t fully enjoy the outside things/activities that’s designed for extroversion. To me, they’re both equally rewarding, just in different ways.
Lol at least wojak had friends who called him. My friends almost never called me. I was the one always having to plan stuff. Then after hanging out my friends would ghost me. So then I just assume ok they don’t like me or they’re too busy. They can reach out if they want.
Oh,I just donno what to say. I js be blank and this makes the moment awkward,and then the other person leaves. I hate talking too muchh,it makes me tired honestly. But to some extent I want to get rid of this social anxiety thing and want to be confident while speaking. Lmaoo just remembered,few weeks back alot of guests came to my house and I Literally started shivering while serving them glasses of water😭🙏🏻ugh it was so embarassing.
I don't get anxiety around a lot of people. But if someone talks with me more than 10-15 minutes straight it does drain me physically and emotionally.
They’re a parasitic energy vampire in disguise! RUN!
Yes, that's been a problem for me too.
Drain means what?
@@bncreations1484makes you feel tired
Yeah, especially if you don't know what they are talking about but don't want them to know. 😂 can't wait to get away!! 😂😂
Introverted truck driver here. Never dated or had any friends. Truck driving gives me peace and I don't have to worry about people. I don't trust anyone. I love the wide open roads in the middle of the night. Just me, my truck and an occasional deer.
I'm intrigued 🤔
you said this same thing on another video.
@@Will324😂
Sad life go meet women g
I misread...an occassional "beer" 😂
Every day I wake up and I ask myself what are we even doing.
Damn.. so I am not the only one.
No one knows just follow the rules
@@Wunouno What people do know is if you talk, you get. If you don't, you're fucked.
@HandleNameIsStupid yeah true I'm 32 never had a girlfriend nor do I have any friends also has put my mind in dark places. but not talking and not doing are two different things but can both ruin your life
If you find the answer, good luck, you will then face eternal questions you can never get to the end of.
The hard part of being introvert is the anxiety you feel when you're surrounded by people.
Yes. Why does it happen?
I always look to see how fake people are.
Riding In a car for a long trip with someone you have nothing in common with.
@@Andrew-ci1dgbut having the same interests can cause a very boring life and just isolate yourself even further and make things less challenging
For my part, I only feel this in gatherings where you know the people somehow or where you are expected to be social, such as at a birthday party. For example it's not a problem in train stations, airports or even on planes because nobody dictates that you have to have a conversation.
I am proud to be an introvert. I don't need attention from people , I'm good with myself, it's a peaceful life . Extroverts can't understand this . And introverts are more powerful in fighting depression and anxiety , we are literally stronger . We introverts are living a world inside our heads , let's make it a good world to live in. Good luck guys !
Power to introverts like you and me!
Good for you. Keep on being you.
I can never imagine being the centre of attention, I would rather remain anonymous!
very boring
That's just weird dude
To those who suffer from social anxiety remember this. If you want something you've never had, you will need to do something you never did. You don't need to take big leaps set small goals that you think are achievable, but still makes you slightly uncomfortable. The most important part is to be consistent with this and don't take things personally if you run into rude people. The only person that you can control is yourself. Remember this is the one life you've got treat yourself with a growth mindset and you will be amazed at how far you can go.
My therapist helped me alot .this reminded me of her
This is not introversion, this is avoidance. The difference between an introvert and an avoidant personality is that an introvert does not complain about being alone because they really like it, while an avoidant personality would like to but cannot because they are afraid.
Yeah just because someone is an introvert doesn't mean they can't be socially confident. What this video portrays is social anxiety which both introverts and extroverts can have it's not exclusive. So many people think they are introverts when in actuality they are just extroverts with social phobia.
I agree with you to some extent. But social anxiety can lead to introversion that is people who suffer from social shyness naturally feel more comfortable being alone. Alternatively, what might be introversion by choice in the beginning can cause one to become socially inept and negatively judged by other extroverts. So, the introverts end being lonely. As, introverts also need social connection, just less than others.
@@VivekSingh-tj8qo
this is wrong
This is not really true either. Although you are right with this video being avoidance, but introversion doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t enjoy socializing or prefers to be alone all the time. It’s more about how they manage their energy. Introverted people can enjoy spending time with others just as much as extroverts, but they may need breaks to recharge. Their ‘social battery’ often drains faster in large gatherings or high-energy environments, while alone time helps them regain their energy.
Being an introvert is never by choice. It's usually the result of a lifetime of people closing the door on you everything you try to chime in.
Eh, in my case it's 80% by choice.
exactly.
@KrimsonKauldron Well said.
Also, some introvers suffer from ADHD too which makes things even worse....
It's your gens lol you're an introvert or an extrovert from the birth
Yup essentially this. I’ve kind of just become numb to it and don’t care anymore. But because nobody was ever listening I never felt there was a point in speaking.
The hardest part is to not be an introvert but having no one and being forced to live like that
"It's too much. Too loud. Too chaotic. I can't focus. I can't breathe." - Exactly how I feel about working in an office. I just can't. >_
Me either.. time goes too damn slow when working indoors especially in am office.
When I'm outside, I can see changes such as light, clouds and traffic, which for me speeds up my time frame reference
This video is nothing to do with being introverted, this is social anxiety.
Not all introverts are shy. But we have trouble understanding everyone else's group effort, loudness, excitement, ect. Too much human interaction drains us. But, in my case, I like talking and teasing people but only when I'm in the mood. And the interaction has to be brief as my battery gets depleted the longer I am around people.
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Keep in mind some of the greatest humans to ever live were introverts...i am a damn proud introvert!!
Extroverts leave impressions on the living.
Introverts leave impressions on the walls of the cells they dwell in, their efforts unknown and unacknowledged until long after their deaths, when their bodies have long gone from this cold, dark world.
@@Lee-wg7en why is it a bad thing?
@@Lee-wg7en It's not unique to introverts that will happen to everyone far into the future..you may have noticed it by now but the living don't really last very long..there's only so much "living" you can make an impression on until they've all gone and passed on and never to be remembered
so what did you do to be great to society?
@@Saber_Nico something as simple as being a decent father helps society LEAPS. Many overthink it but it is not hard to be a productive member and leave a mark.
i can completely understand how wojack feels in a way. i have a high general anxiety disorder. it’s not a social anxiety but it’s still relatable
I’ve become more of an introvert since hitting my 40s…
I find people these days more selfish and rude and I don’t want any part it.
Just keep in mind that people are rude because they are not loved and they are selfish because they dont have what other have, when you see someone like that, keep in mind that they are just miserable people 😉🤙
Being a introvert , working as a waiter having face to face with customer and surround by all kind of people is truly a new level of anxiety.
That sounds like hell.
Bruh that’s not an introvert that just social anxiety
It's actually helped me be more talkative and read people more
I'm not down playing your anxiety but introversion and anxiety are 2 different things
I couldn't even handle being a dishwasher. Tried it a few times but never lasted long. And it wasn't the work. Other people wouldn't leave me alone to do my job.
I like being left alone.
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I also
They have a problem with it that is why they are trying to shame you. You do what you want bro. They have a problem, its their problem.
THE CHOSEN ONES ARE ALWAYS ALONE THE OTHERS CAN'T COMPREHEND!!
Me too!!... I love it!!!... And Others! Just seem like they cannot comprehend this!!!!!.... 😂😂😂
Best show on RUclips. Well worth the wait everytime
Yea it’s always rly good
As an introvert I can say the hardest thing for me isn’t being social. Yeah it’s difficult especially when initiating conversations and interactions but the hardest part is dating and maintaining friendships.
Dating as an introvert is extremely draining no matter how much effort you put in and most of the time the person will begin losing interest when you start becoming more open in most cases.
It isn’t always like that but a majority of experiences are even if you tell them early on that you’re an introvert.
If the person you’re seeing on more personal terms starts distancing themselves from you when you become more sociable toward them, do yourself a favor and end things early, same with friends, chances are they just wanted an “object” to vent to that wouldn’t openly judge or rat them out.
Bro that's so true. I am an introvert too, and i know a lot of good guys that became my friends until these days or at some period of time, for example when we were in one class or when were partners on training section.
I know they're great people and i don't mind them being my friends, or even i want to continue be their friend, but as you noticed, i just can't support our friendship, since i don't usually like to go hang out with them or meet them somewhere, or with anyone at all, i just like doing my stuff alone. Introvert after all.
Most of the time i live without thinking about them, being by myself, but when that moment comes when i remember about them, i notice how much time has passed since we chat or spoke to each other. 2 months, more than half a year, more than year etc. And at these moments i wonder will that even work, i want to be their friend still but at the same time do almost nothing to maintain our relationships.
In my mind friends have to meet each other often. But i can't do anything about it since i'm always forgetting about these friends and continue live by myself as usual.
I heard someone once said "fake friends always interact with you wanting something from you, while true friends can remain your buddies even throughout years of not interacting with each other" or something like that. I'd like if it was true, but every human is different so i don't know
The video hits me so hard. Last week there was a fun fair in town for 3 days. I went there twice. I was there with one close buddy. I hardly met anyone else to talk to. Every one seemed super happy and well connected. Seeing all the faces from the same place that you know for years but have nothing to do with really turns you down. The day after it was over, I was lying on my bedroom floor crying when I realized that my presence there hardly mattered. Why do I even exist?
same bud but stay strong and keep your faith in god. you got this
@@kazutora8083 Thanks champ. Yes, there will be better days.
Noone cares about God bro stop
I experienced something very similar in 6th grade. I lived in a semi-rural town and there was a fair going on. As I walked around, I didn't know anybody, even though I grew up there. I realized that I didn't matter and that I had been isolated from natural socialization my whole life up to that point. Deep down I knew it was over; long before the words or rhetoric existed to express it.
Why do you care about what others think 😂 do u homie
Introvert in IRL : 🫣
Introvert in Virtue World: 😎
Introverts in RL: =I
Introverts in virtual world: =)
The best part of being an introvert is; You still want to be social and have friends.
Not necessarily. There are pros and cons to both and for many introverts the cons outweigh the desire to have friends or to be social.
@@AlphaCrucisSaying you want to live alone?
Ture introverts want to be alone.
@Loui_Siana Sad, just sad. Also not true. Introverts don't have the energy to deal with social events and they don't draw energy from them. It does not mean I do not want to engage with people I want to engage with
@@Loui_Sianaeven introverts eventually will want some level of social interaction. Introverts are still human lol they just have social interactions in the backseat of their priorities.
If you NEVER want to interact with others, you might be a psychopath ngl 😂😂😂
Sometimes when I'm around a bunch of people I don't know I feel like I'm having a panic attack and then when I'm back home in my apartment it all goes away and I feel great I just feel better when I'm by myself
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The thing that most people get wrong is that our lives are miserable or dark. On the contrary; we just don't want to be part of the group or even try to. We don't feel there is anything wrong about being a loner. We thrive and are happy when we are alone. We feel limited and overburdened when we are around people. Wojak here is not an introvert. He seems to be depressed, insecure and burnt out. This is something that anyone can experience. Not a good representation of an introvert.
Finaly someon that gets it wanna be friends ?
Speak for yourself
I'm an introvert and life is hardly depressing... I quite enjoy living
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I was an extrovert until I realised it wasn't what I wanted at all, now I like to chill at home doing my own thing
As an introvert i am waiting for this video quietly 🤫
Proud to be a introvert cause the most greatest entrepreneur people where introverts
For all of y'all feeling lonely and all..why dont we just form a chat group or something and see how it goes 🤷♂️
What a fascinating and insightful video. It seems this wojack is good for more than laughs. Thank you
Self acceptance as an introvert gives you enough confidence to deal with day by day life, trying to pretend being something we don't are or wanting to be someone else will doom you in misery
As an introvert I can relate to these feelings on a daily basis 😢
Be strong wojak, don't let him push you around.
i love being a introvert. it is so peaceful.😌
1970: In future we will have flying cars
2024: how to talk to a human
man if that's how introverts actually live, then idk what to say
Its not this is just plain deppresion
As a introvert some of this is true but social anxiety not true for all of us we just don't like interacting with alot of people we don't know and phone calls is just annoying we prefer texting more and ngl it is overwhelming when we in front of alot of people and energy draining for us and we prefer to be left alone and the vital world thing is true same for online well some or all of it
I've no complaints being an introvert and all the things that come with it other than not being able to make money
introvert in my mid 20s diagnosed with adhd and currently in college. there are times i get so isolated that i literally force myself to go out to bars and talk to people and i walk around, take a good look, and realize that i simply just dont belong in that crowd anymore and i find myself feeling so defeated afterwards but i just know its a part of life i guess.
If I physically spend more than 3 hours with someone, I might lose my sanity.
God damn. This resonated with me so much. You genuinely understand what introversion is like
I love you Wojak keep making these videos always so entertaining to watch
As an introvert, I think our power is high EQ. Being an introvert is super helpful when it comes to listening to your love ones. I can listen to my girlfriend's random stuffs the whole day and being supportive whenever she need. I think being an introvert is really cool. All you need to do is to get out of your comfort zone and be courage to connect to people.
i don't even have people messaging me . there's literally no one , one person calling me are people who want to drag me down, have never inspired me to do anything in life and actively discourage and demotivate me. they want me to be trapped like they are, that's my family. i have decided to abandon them, they will hurt me in the long run, they have nothing of value to share nor any proper advice, i could have used some when i was younger. i am practically alone and homeless.
Literally i dont have friends since 2019
Oh, this episode hit me so hard!
Chad is simping hard.
Chad simps because he knows it will pay off.
Nah it works in real life too for some people
Chad has that Greek god body
No. Chad ain't gay, that's all
You don’t know how gay that makes you sound. You gotta be a teenager.
Super bubbly and talkative/ outgoing people have always gotten on my nerves...is it just me??? Like why do you have to talk to every single person that passes by? Lol. Like no one cares what you had for breakfast.
Exactly 😂
As a introvert this hits hard not only that i also have terrible ADHD, no one to talk amd relate about my personal life, people always being people to you, never had GF honestly (i get some rants about that but hey my life is not simple ok) no family or friends, in fact it took me almost my entire life to talk to my auntie about certain things that i don't like or get and it took me this long like damn
Despite all his hardships in Bogtown, Wojack must have a IQ of 300, past every exam and has a incredible list of references. He gets great jobs lol
Work 3pm-11pm, tuesday and wednesdays are my days off for the past two years, night owl too. I never have time to hang out with friends anymore, everyone of them work 7am-3pm and have weekends off. Can't drive due to epilepsy. Very being alone everyday for years.
I'm so introverted I actively avoid the people at work who are going to insist on engaging me in conversation over and above "hi" and "bye"! 😱🏃
Great video. This captures the experiences of someone living with social phobia and the importance of pushing yourself outside your comfort zone/exposure therapy
Man oh man can I hard relate to this. As an introvert, I think I have to realize that I'm alot less annoying to others than I think I am. My uses to ppl are very niche, so since I rarely come up as a "go-to", I inherently think I'm a nuisance for others, then in return others think they're annoying me.
I have to really fight and kick this habit because I can talk to people for hours once i break the mold. I also don't let moments of silence break me since I'm introverted. I'll have relationships where me and my significant other or even the homies just sit there and not say a word and we just vibe. Extroverts and even most other introverts get destroyed by silence and end up saying things they later regret 😅😅😅
But yeah, big part of being an introvert is chances are you're alot cooler than you think you are and people actually like hanging out with you. It's pretty nuts.
I'd say the biggest benefit of being an introvert is you're quite literally robotic to the feeling of loneliness since you enjoy being alone. I can probably count on one hand the number of times in my life where I've felt lonely. It RARELY happens and when it does it's a foreign feeling because I'm almost completely immune to feeling that specific emotion.
The biggest con however, is not making friends in a world where who you know > what you know. I don't network with people, so if I'm in a situation where others would be like "I know a guy!" I'm pretty much screwed because I simply don't know ppl. Getting jobs as an introvert is a nightmare for that reason.
Problem in these great times its almost impossible to live 'alone' because of 1500$ month minimum rent or 400k$ for avarage house.
“I just need a moment of peace in the silence…”
Hare krishna 🙏🙏❤️❤️
I like being an introvert... total freedom and peace. Plus, I don't trust others. The only thing negative about being an intervert is if I have an emergency, I have no one to call. Friends come and go, anyway.
"If you are not at peace with yourself, you will not be with others."
Facts
Being a nurse as an introvert was an experience for me, people around be like, telling me to speak up more, why I am so silent, they just don't understand that I prefer lone time to recharge. I used to have confrontations back then, especially when under performing.
Just love and respect urself for who u are and u won't need anybody for attention
Fav anime Berserk ,to be honest i'm at peace being an introvert i would never give up my peace and freedom not for anything else in this world!
Here we see how we live our life as an introvert 😢😅
There’s no point having a phone as an introvert. No one text or calls you…
Some of us just talk to Siri 😅 that's enough
You made a damn good point. Most of the messages I receive come from groups, so I can totally relate to you.
Favorite Anime: Barakamon. Its about the son of a famous calligrapher following in his dads footsteps who stays on a small town on an island in hopes of peace to work on his craft, but the villagers won't leave him be.
Wojak is too relatable man,
I am introvert cause i was fat as kid and without explanation you can understand in have bunch of Truma that even now as a powerlifter im still introvert and sacred of people
When you get done wrong enough times, you want to disassociate with people all together even if they have good intentions. It sucks. Worst part is always being there for people but no one's ever there when you need them
Me: no one ever texts me or calls me
30 mins later: 10 texts and 10 miss calls
Also me: 😳😳
The world changes when the world changes its important to have peace when alone because we all have our own path
I sure hope so 🙏🏼
@@therealrealshocker we do
Why we introverts have almost the same experiences
Listen carefully!!
If you take Wojack content very negatively, it will be very bad for you😢
But if you learn from It ….
I guarantee this is the only animation channel from which will you gain the fully life knowledge❤❤🗿📈
Great script writing 👍
Can you do “ wojack as a rapper “
Been introverted my whole life and at first it was 5x this but ive improved and improved and especially past 2 years ive made huge improvements and its no longer that bad. Its actually better then this video shows which I think is rly great improvement by myself. Should also mention I was recently diagnosed with autism and its probably why I am introverted in the first place and bcs I was bullied age 6-10.
True introverts want to be alone.
Message to my fellow introverts, understand that there are gonna be times where you will need to be uncomfortable in the short-term so that you can build good relationships in the long term. Take time for yourself, but realize that social anxiety does get better the more you improve your social skills (at least in my anecdotal experience).
What a mess life is as an introvert😩
No it's not, just stop
@@metrowater2819That is very difficult to stop, there must be support, to stop being an introvert. And I'm experiencing that now, I'm just used to talking to people I know.And it's very difficult to talk to people I don't know, I don't have the words to say unless there are important words, which I want to convey, and also myself every day
@@あMohamed_syaribudenyeah And even worse when you Are an introvert with social anxiety 😑
@@freezi1956 Yes, that's right, sometimes I force myself to enter the crowd and socialize, but I'm competing not well, I don't know what to do.
@@あMohamed_syaribuden same bro, I try to force myself to go in public, but Its So hard And most of thé time even if I go there I barely talk to anyone, fighting my inner demons everytime..
Cool video, here's a comment for the algorithm.
Please turn this one into mini series
Fellow ambivert I do not think about fitting in socializing drains me it’s more so how to get out of a conversation and want to keep to myself. I speak when needed
If you want to be that cool background observer character? This is what you get.
I never understood that in anime where the cool MC with his dark magic powers who site by in the shadows and hides in the background, blending in and never doing anything.
If you do that, life will just slip from under you in no time and it's gonna be so humiliating when you realized what u missed because you wanted to be cool.
This is not merely introversion; with the anxiety it's something more serious. Introverts aren't necessarily anxious at all.
Wow what an amazing video the plot twist at the end
Inuyasha , the anime that got my heart!
Thanks for representing me ❤😢
what a long video. im looking forward :)
Now be an extrovert and have the feeling nobody writes you.
Ive been behind on your videos. been trying to improve myself and stay distracted.
I’m ambivert. I love being introverted and just enjoying my vices like porn but I also really like taking a break from the vices and being extroverted. So I’m both. As an ambivert, there are pros and cons for both extroversion and introversion. When I’m extroverted, it’s rewarding because we live in a world where outside things that involves any kind of social interaction is designed mainly for extroverted people. The con for me however, is that I become more interactive/social which results to me being more opinionated which opens the door to more confrontations/disagreements/arguments/disrespect etc. Whereas when I’m introverted, that isn’t an issue. But the con to my introversion is that I don’t fully enjoy the outside things/activities that’s designed for extroversion. To me, they’re both equally rewarding, just in different ways.
Good news is many extroverts peek in their childhood.
This is the most relatable video I've ever seen
Certified introvert here.. i'm lonely but happy ☺
Wop Wop Wop Wop
Right beer always shut my introvert nature
A beer per day keep introvert nature away
Lol at least wojak had friends who called him. My friends almost never called me. I was the one always having to plan stuff. Then after hanging out my friends would ghost me. So then I just assume ok they don’t like me or they’re too busy. They can reach out if they want.
Oh,I just donno what to say. I js be blank and this makes the moment awkward,and then the other person leaves. I hate talking too muchh,it makes me tired honestly. But to some extent I want to get rid of this social anxiety thing and want to be confident while speaking. Lmaoo just remembered,few weeks back alot of guests came to my house and I Literally started shivering while serving them glasses of water😭🙏🏻ugh it was so embarassing.
This only happens when you spent soooo much time inside. Your brain needs interactions to grow
The problem of kids today,they grow up in virtual world,and they don't know how to socialize
Haha the Naruto reference is so good its like wine.
I feel you Wojak
Outlaw Star - Who needs parties anyway? I'm training to be Agent 69.
Introvert is a thing suffer of social anxiety is another thing