I came to Kota on my own decision and I regret it as i have lost almost all of my mental health...I would recommend that if you are genuinely intelligent and you have confidence , you can come here...But if you get demotivated easily....Kota will be a hell for you.... Rest in peace
I am a Kota return student now a software engineer in an MNC, I know reason behind this suicides are depression, hopeless, failures in the coaching factory also too much expectations from parents/family members
@Aarya Mishra never, i am also in allen and they help us a lot but actually the reason for these suicides are not any coaching but it's the family and society this makes me remember one line from 3 Idiots that it's not suicide it's murder because even if child don't want to enter the competitive exams this family and society force's them
@@CyberTack0X yeah bt they told things tp parents n probably?? I have just heard it that's why asking And if this is the case then they aren't that helpful bcz one goes to them bcz they can't tell parents about it in most cases
Parents - beta padai kesi chal rahi hai. Beta (with back logs,lack understanding of subject, worried about completing syllabus ,kuch samjh nahi a raha in mind )-- ha papa sab sahi chal raha hai 🙂
Coaching institutions take a big amount of money still they fail to provide proper counselling and hire psychologist in their institutes. Coaching is nothing but a deadly business model. So unfortunate.
Kabhi Gaye ho Allen beta....? Wha sare facilities di jati hai smjhe.....Allen ko thore ho na ye pta hoga ki uske mind me kiya chal jab tak wo ladka kisi ko btaye na
@@CyberTack0X I know. I have also studied there in 2014. And I also know how they operate. Despite my success in PMT, I still feel abused by the coaching system.
@@neyazahmad76 well yes indeed coaching system is abused here if you see any coaching be it PW or be it ALLEN or be it any other big or small coaching everyone needs money, for money they need toppers isiliye competition kai liye baar baar force karte hai...
Parents should support their children the most I'm studying in here (kota) but the moment my parents made me join the coaching the first thing they said don't over do urself we will be good as long as u r giving ur full ,and after this news my parents were concerned they said nothing matters more than us to them so don't take any wrong decisions and always talk about it to us first in every condition.
Yes! I’m honestly over that period of time, I was once a premed student too and I didn’t even have depression, it was just an unhealthy obsession of outperforming everyone in the institute I was in, which lead me to studying a lot and never giving time to literally anything else, and now, post-MBBS, it’s still so depressing because I have to take NEET PG. and work very hard for that. So just know, that even if you DONT manage to make it through, worst case scenario, you’re not worthless or anything. Life is very, very long and there are a lot of beautiful things that you can enjoy, and you will get plenty of chances to “prove yourself” to everyone, your relatives, parents, friends, everyone.
Here nobody is talking about, the lack of good diet that student faces even after giving a lot of money in hostel which alleviatea the stress level in children
yes the food they provide is just not edible at all. my brother lives there and says that food is the worst thing in Kota. imagine a young teenager who is 16-29 years old who is already burdened with harsh study routine and enormous syllabus and they take a break from all of it and goes to eat some food and then they get this kind of food of course it will alleviate their frustration and irritation level. all those hostel accommodators don't have any empathy for children. The food they provide is soo bad that they themselves will never eat even if they die they will not eat.
So correct. I have experienced this myself and I know how irritating and depressing it is. I used to go 3 to 4 days without eating anything even when I was so hungry just so that I did not have to eat such low graded food.
Yes bro , you're right , m 13 August ko Kota aayi thi , uske baad m first day jese hi hostel ka khana khayi meri tabiyat kharab , khana khate hi vomitting ho gyi , fir 10 din tak juice pike kam chalaya fir thoda thoda khana start Kiya , 13000 rent h hmare hostel uske baad bhi quality acchi nhi h , etni weakness aa rkhi h ki coaching me table pr bhaithne ke baad room me table pr bhaith ke nhi pdh skte h hm , par bhut tej drd krne LG jate h uske alawa UTI ho gya or bhi bhut disease ho gyi , daily medicines leke kam chlate h , but fir bhi hm ladenge , jayenge to white coat ke sath hi.....................❣️❣️❣️
@@engidoc2681 are school bhejna, self learning tab kam aati hai jab ham crorepati ho vrna to sabse pehle do vakt ki roti ki chinta me hi bechara bacha mar jayega. Bas school jate vkt uske man me ye dar na rhe ki mehnat krne ke bad bhi mere achhe marks ni aaye to pappa marenge ya dantenge.
Because you are a girl Kbi kisi girl student ka suicide case suna hai. Quki maa baap ko pta hai agar job lg gyi toh acchi baat hai vrna koi na koi job waala baitha hi hai But humare saath essa nhi hai
लोग समझ क्यों नहीं रहे हैं कि जब तक जनसंख्या इतनी ज्यादा रहेगी तब तक शिक्षा व्यवस्था में बदलाव से कुछ नहीं होगा? पाठ्यक्रम कितना भी सरल बना लो, प्रतिस्पर्धा तो उतनी ही कठिन रहेगी क्योंकि लोग ही इतने ज्यादा हैं। इस देश में बच्चे पढ़-लिखकर भी क्या कर ले रहे हैं? सब पूँजीपतियों के लिए 12-14 घंटे की नौकरी करके तनाव में जी रहे हैं। मैने ये सब देखते हुए इस देश में बच्चों को जन्म ना देने का निर्णय लिया हैI
I was not in kota but in a coaching in hometown. The teacher was a resonance ex faculty who taught foundations and he was head of that department. He was extremely demotivating, who always bragged how weak we are, how much he regrets having such students. He would always tell, how students would solve mcqs within minutes in two three lines. I was extremely demotivated by this all the time. Hated going to coaching class, always felt like a failure. His sister was a chemistry faculty in the same Institute who was not even a MSc in chemistry I guess but would often be samw demotivating as him. Once a student pointed this out that her talks demotivates her, she was furious and never forget to taunt that student about this. I regret going to these coachings. It's been 6 years now, I couldn't clear anything because of constant pressure that i put myself into. Now I feel, wish I was free and learnt how to deal with negativity, I would have been at a better place. Anyways now working as a scientific assistant at central government organization but these coachings are a herd race and not every student is strong enough to control their emotions.
Bro such teachers are a disgrace but yes it all depends on students some might take that insult to the heart and start working to prove the teacher wrong while others will think of themselves as failure and get depressed
Most probably last night there has been one more case of a girl in landmark city...we've seen police and ambulance in a hostel but no clarification is being given to the public...kota me bhot se suicides ko daba dia jata h
Kota is not just a place for medical and iit prep . It is a place that reminds you of the hard truths of life and prepares for it, it prepares you for greatness if you handle this pressure in a positive way Condolences to his family, i am so sorry for their loss Remember there is more to life than a mere exam
Parents pressure, society pressure, competition pressure, afraid of failure,anxiety, depression , loneliness and no social life is the root cause of sucide in kota .
Some of my relatives adviced me to go Kota for coaching, I refuse and with in three months from RUclips lectures i cleared jee mains and I'm typing this comment sitting in my dream college campus.....don't give so much importance to IITs , to do something big it's need to live first.
@@chupretu1602 and no one is talking about that ,well you guys please apna dhyn rkho be strong Jo hoga achhha hoga be positive agr nhi bhi hua koini kuch na kuch toh hoga hi life me but suicide is not option
Guardian is also responsible for this.First analyse your kid ,analyse his/her capabilities,analyse his/her basics,provide good mental support then send kota or any other places. Very few condidate go there to do something in life and many go there only for formalities.
It's all about transparency if u r not able to score good tell them the valid reason. I have seen most of them lies. No parents wants that their child to commit suicide.
The reason behind this 1) Student couldn't get a chance to find out what they want to become, before knowing their own interest they are pushed to pursue a career in medical or engineering... 2) High charge of coaching institutions No matter how much supportive your parents are, you will have that pressure iss saal nhi hoga toh itnaaa Sara paisa badbad hoga.. 3) The myth "agar Kota jaoge tabhi selection hoga" I am also a neet aspirant but I realized that I should become a doctor while doing bsc in physiology, so after completing my graduation I am preparing for neet, my parents are okay with it, they never suggested me to take science after 10th, they never suggested me to pursue mbbs after 12th, All the time they asked me what do you want to do now? Be free, in life it is very important to know what will bring happiness to your life, let your child to choose their career.
sabke parents itne supportive nahi hote ki jao beta jo karna hai karo fir baad mai toh job mil hi jayega aisa nahi hota hai yaha parents ki expectations hoti hai ki mera beta/beti 12 th ke sath sath appearing year mai hi iit nikal le ya neet kyuki woh badi muskil se apne bache ko bejte hai kota aur bache waha pressure jel nahi pate aur papa kya kahenge ghar wale kya kahenge ke chakar mai sucide kar lete par sucide is not a solution par unhe yahi lagta hai solution toh koi kya hi kar sakta hai upar se parosi ka beta yeh wala comparison alag g@ nd marta hai.
Passion choose sirf usa uk me krte h bcche kyuki wha ka standrd of living hnse kai guna acha h unki income bhi hmse kahi jyads h hm kaafi pichde hue h is mamle me
l was a very good student.. secured 91% in my matric.. I wanted to prepare for IlT or UPSC but my father was not supportive...He forced me to marry after 12 class.. somehow I completed my graduation after marriage along with so many responsibilities, taking care of a small baby...You people are so lucky that your parents are sending you to Kota..
I think they have forgot that how precious life is... Suicide ke piche kahin na kahin Society ya Parents ke pressures bhi jude hote hai Parents don't always think about their Child's mental health or trauma, It's a broad issue not only in India but in whole world. I too also studied in Kota at Allen, I have also failed to get good ranks in IIT JEE but I haven't thought of even doing this things. Not any Doctor or Engineering degree is bigger than life. Remember it! I think students become hopeless.
@@ChandraXR the dogma is created by our society, which is nurtured by these institutions... There is nothing else. Currently I'm facing these kind of problem... We have to stood up with standards of society who cares what we want neither family or Institutes
@@ChandraXR I mean why these institutions are alive? Becoz our parents /society wants it to be... They r just fulling that gap... This will never change unless and until the definition of success and failure change in our indian society... This education is this way becoz we want it to be this way
Omg!!! This is so overwhelming....! Suicide is not an option ...plz be there for the people who r in depression!!! Sometimes all they need is a supportive gesture...😔 may god give strength to their families 🙌
Aaj ke time pe chhote chhote bachho ko bhi study ke naam pe itna mental stress diya ja raha hai ki pucho mat, jis bachhe ke abhi khelne ke din hai use school se aate hi tution bhej diya jata hai, parents apni ecchaon ka bojh daal dete hai tuje ye karna hai itne marks lane hai, jee lene do bachho ko🙏🙏🙏
I am a Kota student.This is a very serious matter in kota.a team should be made to make strict rules for coaching centres and to take care of the students
Reason for suicide is always high expectations from parents that put kids into depression. These study coaching factories does not care about your child mental health. They just there to do business. Very bad situation
मैं भी मेडिकल का स्टूडेंट रहा हूँ । कोचिंग के टीचर्स का बिहेवियर भी ठीक नही रहता है । हुमिलेट करते है मैंने खुद ड्राप कर दिया था कोचिंग को और सेल्फ स्टडी की।
कोटा मे पूरा नही तो कुछ सीमा तक गोरखधंधे चल रहे हैं, पेरेन्टस को ध्यान दे । कोचिंग सिस्टम सही नही है कोटा का । प्लीज बच्चो को बचाइए ऐसी जगह मात्र पैसे वालो के लिए सुविधाजनक हो सकती है 🙏🙏🙏
I too have studied in Kota, I just wanted to say if you can't cope don't hesitate to take step back ...there is no point to take life. I know it's hard but worth your life. There are hundreds of them in depressive state.
I came to kota 3 months ago and now I realise that how depressing kota is ,, being a topper of hometown and even a state ranker(97%in boards) I never thought that I wouldn't be able to handle the situation here but now l understand that how different the reality is ,,I do feel like a average student here and cry almost everyday tomorrow I have my test and I'm just not able to handle it,,my family is most supportive and never pressurise me mom dad say jo hoga dekha jayega tu mast reh aram se padh tension na le ,,But i feel so guilty that I'm not doing good in studies and wasting lakhs of my parents hardworking money here ,, I'm literally good for nothing,, frankly speaking, Don't come to kota you will only have depression with u after coming here people talk about toppers and we are nothing for them.
If you are a state ranker you can prepare from your hometown as well if you find that environment depressing. No need to push yourself if you feel uncomfortable there
Exam ka stress 😞😞😞 Or koi problem nahi h... Samaaj or reshedaar kuch teachers itna pressure bnate h ke bachche usko handle hi nahi kar pate.... 🤯 Or log samjhte nahi.... Itna negative kar dete h log bol bol k ke us baat ko handle hi nahi kar pate bachche... 😔😔 Y samjhna chaiye logo ko jo bhi kuch bolne se phale soch samajh kar bole..... Ke ak exam na nikalne se uske life deside nahi ho jate ke Y life mein kuch nahi kar sakta h... Par hamre samaaj ne en sab baato ko itna extreme kar diya h ke perents ko bhi lagne lagta h ke ha hamara bachche exam mein select na hua tho kuch nahi kar payega life mein...... Or Y exam ka pressur itna hota k ke ghar walo ko bhi kuch nahi bta sakte... Ghar walo ko bole tho phale hi logo ne unko itna pressurized kar rakha h ke vho bhi bacche ko samajh nahi sakte h 😔😔 Ak student ke life Es samaaj ne barbaad kar de h.... Tu Y nahi kar sakta tere kuch nahi hoga. Xyz... Kitna shae abhi student vho bhi insaan h 😔 Ak time baad lagta h ke life ko katam kar leta hi sahi h en sab baato se pichaa chhudaane k liye 🥺🥺
I had 22 backs in CS engineering, after lots of depression, family pressure, overcoming, fighting with family, I'm finally doing job in graphic design in a well paid company.. Remember you can overcome everything if you want, you just have to find your passion.. Parents kitna b bol le akhir dheere se wo b samjhte hai.. ab tum samjhana hi ni chahoge to kuch ni hoga.. bonding banani padti hai..
Pls guide me i was too a jee 2022 aspirant i spent around 1 lakh 40 thousands in total 2 year allen coaching for jee ...also did hard work but could clear at last....got in a good rgpv(government) affiliated college in IT branch ......can i still get a good future and placement?? ...this regret will always with me for my entire life tht i couldnt cleared jee also i didnt even take a drop
@@sp8602 first you need to understand the situation of market around you, like what is in demand and what is not. You have a degree, its great but every one around you has same degree and maybe better percentage, But what is required in today's field is 'skills'. If you have the proper skillset you can build your portfolio earlier than many students and you can easily crack interviews. Remember companies are looking for assets and they'll not waste a time if they already has trained people. What you need to do is build your skill and portfolio, along with 4 years education... Start learning demanding languages if you are CS student, start taking small projects, and by your 4th year you will be a fully trained intermediate, You'll just have to tell companies about your 4 year work they'll hire you instantly.....
I have been there for 3 years, All i can say Most depressing place in world only because of coaching mafias. I request all parents if you want your kids to be happy for next comings years take them away from kota . Let them enjoy there plus1 plus 2 happily. Let them take arts , commerce anything not only science . Jee ke bina koi mar nhi jata h , lkin jee ki wjh se bhut mar rhe h .
Life is more than getting good grades or job when will these kids learn. By suiciding they are just putting their family through immense grievance Think twice at least for the mother who probably thinks about you all her life She don’t deserve this
My life almost came to hell when I was in Kota during my engineering preparation in 2010...there either you get gold or guilt ...i suffered from that depression till 2018.... If you suffer from it.. it's better to consult with neurologist only not psychiatrist ... Here I am not advertising anyone but in my case Dr. Tarun Vijay in kailash hospital Noida ..best doctor in such cases...
nahi bhai ye bhed chaal waali baat hai.logon ko lagta hai ki kota bhejne selection ke chances badh jaate hai.jabki aise bohot se log hai jo apne jile me reh kar preperation karke ke top ke iits nikaal chuke hai
Kota is the most toxic city I've come across. I lived there for almost 10 years with my maternal grandparents. Students and teachers were so rude and toxic in my school (Sir Padampat Singhania) 🤮 and even in the coaching classes. That city literally destroyed my mental peace. Finally I'm feeling relieved by getting out of this hell.
Sabhi students ko apne partner ke saath room le kr rehna chahiye and enjoy be happy in all situations 🙂 nd never hopeless!! IIT, NEET 🙃nhi to another platform 👩🦯 may be u make diff.. to born 😇 and life is art bs colour fill kroo jo krna ho .......👩🏫
The main problem is in our basic foundation....someone is studying from Delhi convent school and someone is studying from village school. The huge difference of knowlege and smartness created from start. First of all school and college teachers neither studied engineering not studied medical. They never studied application of basic sciences. But IIT and AIMS wants knowledgeable and smart students who have in depth knowledge of subjects. Many engineers who are unemployed want to teach student and in our government structure you have to have graduation in basic sciences, then you should have B.Ed degree then you are eligible. That's they teach in coaching institutes, and you will find many of those faculties are engineer's or MBBS pass out...they know to crack exam like jee advance and NEET how to prepare the students. Those are smart enough catch those things fast and those studied from village school and college find it difficult to cope up with. Because they are not used to those brain storm session. So engineer's and MBBS should get the opportunity to teach in government schools and colleges. Otherwise many good students know about engineering and medical after passing high school. Till then they are clueless about engineering and medical who are studying in remote areas or rural areas. And smart City student know those things from class six and seven and according to that they prepare. So in my point of view there is inequality in our basic education system. And remove those mark based judgement and shift your focus to overall development of a student physically and mentally. Try to develop their soft skills from beginning, rather than try to pressureize them to learn those things after passing out from schools. It's not their fault actually , it is the high school teachers who are culprit to not discuss with them about this. Because his itself soft skills are not that good. Untill you shift yourself from the conventional system this type of incidents are expected.
Zindagi se bada kuch nahi mere bhaio 😑 Main bhi medical 2012 me fail hua ....... ias De raha hun ........ Failure se mat haaro .... zindagi aur badi hai yaar
M kota me Allen me pdh rhi thi july 2022 se achiever batch me... Pr one week se mujhe depressing feel ho rha tha hostel ke uss bnd kmre ki vazah se.... Mne ek bar apne parents ko kaha ki mujhe depressing lg rha h... And next day on 2 january they took me from kota and now I am in my own lovely house and preparing hard from here☺❤❤
All these things happen just because of fear for not get selected and parents doesn't understand their children,main thing is reservation category ,I am general so ,I can feel it
reservation ki chor bhai problem yeh hai ki seat 1 hoti hai apply 10000 kartey hai asli problem yeh ki jis din indian IIT, IPS IAS OR GOVT JOBS ko chor ke privates jobs yaa business ki taraf yaa koi other options nahi dekhege tab tak kuch nhi hoga
@@kattar-wc6xi dropper walo ke sath to bilkul shi nai hua 🥺🙂.....sept tk to result or college allotment hua for unki couching suru hote wagerah sb kuch me time hi nai mila or ab jan me exam or upar se 75% result ka criteria wapas se😶🥲....
Us people and the society should not make mockery of those who come empty handed from kota without selection I hv seen your own friends from native city and relatives and neighbors everyone kind of prey on those who fail and come empty handed.. We should make it normal to fall back on other option if not IIT.. Parents must say that if not iit then something else.. Coachings must say if not Iit something else... But everyone say kro ya maro.. And these are tender kids of 16-17 years of age coping failure in such a hostile environment becomes harder..
Actually reason ye h ki coaching ki padhai bhot fast hoti h jise match krna asan nahi hota plus ghar ka pressure hota h,me khud kota me medical ki preparation k liye gya tha, but wo padhai mere bass ki nahi thi so mene apne ghar walo baat ki or bataya ki me law padhna chahta hu medical nahi or apne mn ki baat batai or mummy papa man gye and now i happy law intern so,my request to parents and students please apne problem ek dusre se share kro solution pakka milega or rahi baat kota ki to wo ek factory h or kuchh nahi.
There are so many ppl in this world who don't get selected in IIT Or NEET still doing very good in their Career. Many times better than doctors or engineers. Students and parents should understand this. Also Career is not life Life is much more than that. Don't do this.
Mai ,jo bhi parents ye comment padh rahe hain unse bus yahi kehna chahungi ki bachhe humare liye sabse jada jaruri aur sirf jaruri nahi precious hain bhai please unko number laane ki machine na banaye . bachhe humare sath rahenge to doctor ya Engineer nahi to kuch aur bun jayenge par hum unko khush dekhenge to sab kuch mil jayega.please socho sabhi .mai bohot proud feel karti hu jab mai yaad kar k bhi ek bhi moment aisa nahi pati apni life me jab maine apne bachho ko kabhi bhi pressurize kiya ho numbers k liye .unko bus itna sunanana hai ki tum apna best do ,number chahe jo bhi aaye . please 🙏ek bar bachho ko support karein wo jo karna chahte hain unko usi me aage badhaye 🙏
Even in orientation the coaching directors in classroom the teachers say don't make friends during preparation don't live a normal life forget everything during preparation just keep studying but the reality is we are humans we socialize...so the students have a guilt of everything extra they do even if they visit city mall they will have a guilt why I visited there I should not do this now so how a student will release pressure and it's normal if you are taking a break from your studies.. coaching centre should have a responsibility to say that it's normal if you are unable to catch up to your peers it's normal if you are not scoring well just keep trying and everyone is different tbh unique in their own life... comments if I have said anything wrong....these are my opinions and I am open to listening to yours
Don't know why .. bt I just felt the same way after taking a break from my studies... I m happy by myself bt people won't stop asking me .. Ab tum kya kr rhi ho ..Pdhai kaisi chal rhi h... Job ki tayari krri ho k nhi ...mere bacha ye kr rha h..uski job lg gyi h ..tumhe bi khali nhi bethna chaiye ...tumhari cousin govt job pe h ...tum bi tayari chalu rkho ..I mean what right they have over me told all those kinds of shitt...
Galti kota ya coching ki nahi h becuz here in kota the best teachers of iit jee and neet are here and they really provide good quality content. Galti basically bacho mein lack of awareness ki hoti hai becuz nobody has forced them so hard ki vo competition mein aaye hi sahi but they still take the decision without keeping in mind that even if you give 100 percent then also there is chance that u will not get in iits or aiims but what u learn here is the growth of your mind. But students yeh baat samjhte hi nhi h and ya coching walo ko bhi samjhana chahiye infact there parents also. And these suicide are due to wrong company . And children's kahi baar khud ki expectations pr nhi utar paate to isliye they suicide. Har baari kota ya coching ya parents relatives ko zimedaar nhi batana chahiye kyunki most of the cases mein bache ki khud ki bhi galti involve hoti.they distract from their path
I'm a allen student in class 11. Kota is really hard really hard. But I talk to my parents and remember my god . As I was a freelancer during my class 10. So iit doesn't matter for me but giving best
Hindu Muslim karne se achha hai media aur politicians iss baare main baat Karen main abhi kota main hi hu (Allen) aur mujhe pata hai idhr hume kitna pressure jhelna pdta hai roj classes hoti h bhar bhar k hw diya jata hai sundays ko bhi extra classes baki Sunday test hota hai jo humesha humse bolta hai "life main kuch na kro"...toppers k to mje hain lekin mediocre bcche mentally physically aur financially bhot pareshan rehte hain aur amir bcche paise udane aate hain PRESSURE itna jyada hai ki yeh suicides sunkar hume koi jhatka nhi lga qki hume pta hai yeh to hona hi tha aur agar immediate actions nhi liye aur aur bhi jyada hoga 👍
Are bhai padhai k bad bhi khoob zindagi h padhai sab kuch nahi h bro last 10 saall se padhai m struggle kar raha hu jab tak jinda hu tab tak hardwork karunga. Kabhi maro mat kuch nahi hua to chai bech lunga kuch bhi na hua to bartan saf kar lunga kuch na hua to mandir m rahne lag jaunga jio mere dosto.
Oh hello Mr energy.....name energy rkh rkha hai....n kaam energetic nhi hai.....Arey ye umr mai nhi pdenge to kbb pda jayega....pdh likh kr hi youth age bdega n tbb hi hum india ko aage lejayenge! Soch bdlo apni
The reason for mental illness in students is "mobile" 😑 Hum bs dusro ko dekhte h or apni khwahish Badi kar lete h or jab hum unpr work bhi krte to vo adhuri hi reh jaati h or fir depression hone lgta h ... Jitna ho ske apni family, friends or teacher se touch me rhe in real na ki bs phone ke jariye... Be real with yourself 🥺
@@sharvanbedia6693 meko to direct science me daal diya tha kehke cs krna hai abhi maine boldiya mujhe cs nhi krna ANIMATION and 3d VFX krna hai wo maan to gye but mera 12th ka bilkul padhayi nhi hua and 12th boards fail hone waali halat hai
Kota me coaching nahi ... business chalta hai aur business ke liye ye teacher baccho me itna stress bhar dete hain ki unka jeena marna ek samaan ho jaata hai .... More hardwork is more dangerous...
Bhai mere papa ne yaha tak kah diya hai beta ek saal try kar agar neet ho gaya to theek nahi to d Pharma kar lena ya ssc bhai hamari life kewal neet ya jee tak hi na simit hai enjoy bhi karo bhai log ..........jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳
Overall, the scenario is Dull - No moral education, seeing rich are enjoying life fullest, looks highly important, Society is all about Hungry for recognition. This became a deadly cocktail for Middle class and Lower middle-class students. There is no hope too in coming years.
Mental strength is essential during preparation of competition examination which should be given by Parents ,And Student must be remember that It is not only examination of your life ,Donot Depress ,Be Positive ,
Nobody talking about the Sp's statement, "Bachho me jo moral values honi chahiye vo nahi dikhi". Maine bhi ye socha agar uska ek bhi sachha dost hota to shayad, usse samzane/sunane wala koi to hota.
सभी माता पिता से अनुरोध है कि बच्चों को समझिये मानसिक तौर से मजबूत बनाइये मैं 2008 से 2012 तक विज्ञानं नगर में थी मैं बच्चों का दर्द समझ सकती हूँ प्लीज़ 🙏
Why such big coaching institutes in the first place? Why can't students study on their own from Home? Does studying in these institutes gurantee cracking exams? If yes, then how?
@@rk5609 What special Guidance do they give? The syllabus for the exams are foretold already by the examining body. Aren't they? What special guidance do these institutes give? Do they know beforehand what kind of questions will come which year ....If so then how do they know?
@@Rahul_Singh100 ye unhi ko pta chalta h jo wha jate hain!! I have been there for 2 yrs and koi pressure waha teachers ya institutions generate ni krte hain....ye humpe h ki hum chizon ko kaise lete hain...
Parents ko thand mil gyi hogi. Ab baccha jo mar gya hai itna pressure dala hoga bechara suicide kr lia . Aare kuch na krt zindgi me to km se km ankh ke samne to rahta . Police parents pr murder ka case chalaye😢
I came to Kota on my own decision and I regret it as i have lost almost all of my mental health...I would recommend that if you are genuinely intelligent and you have confidence , you can come here...But if you get demotivated easily....Kota will be a hell for you....
Rest in peace
Pd lo kuch nhi hoga
Same situation as you brother
Sahi baat hai
Mai bhi kotaa m hu
Same here😥
I am a Kota return student now a software engineer in an MNC, I know reason behind this suicides are depression, hopeless, failures in the coaching factory also too much expectations from parents/family members
no need to mention that you are mnc engineer
@@karansoni9778 No need to mention what he wants to write or not
23 January ko exam h nd me😓
@@Uniqueone69 Mishra ji shant rhiye apna kaam kijiye
Salary bro
Every coaching centre should have psychologist & psychiatrist to regularly check students' mental condition.
Allen have these facilities
@@villager211 ok, good 👍
@@aaryamishra8514 lol no who tf told you that
@Aarya Mishra never, i am also in allen and they help us a lot but actually the reason for these suicides are not any coaching but it's the family and society this makes me remember one line from 3 Idiots that it's not suicide it's murder because even if child don't want to enter the competitive exams this family and society force's them
@@CyberTack0X yeah bt they told things tp parents n probably??
I have just heard it that's why asking
And if this is the case then they aren't that helpful bcz one goes to them bcz they can't tell parents about it in most cases
Parents - beta padai kesi chal rahi hai.
Beta (with back logs,lack understanding of subject, worried about completing syllabus ,kuch samjh nahi a raha in mind )-- ha papa sab sahi chal raha hai 🙂
Ase express na karne se andr hi andr depression or khaye jata hai 😅.......🙂
To make them feel good
Very true🙂
Same 😐
😪😪😪😪😪
Coaching institutions take a big amount of money still they fail to provide proper counselling and hire psychologist in their institutes. Coaching is nothing but a deadly business model. So unfortunate.
there are psychologists in allen, please don't say anything without knowing
Kabhi Gaye ho Allen beta....?
Wha sare facilities di jati hai smjhe.....Allen ko thore ho na ye pta hoga ki uske mind me kiya chal jab tak wo ladka kisi ko btaye na
@PLAN B no one is forcing you to study there then why u go
@@CyberTack0X I know. I have also studied there in 2014. And I also know how they operate. Despite my success in PMT, I still feel abused by the coaching system.
@@neyazahmad76 well yes indeed coaching system is abused here if you see any coaching be it PW or be it ALLEN or be it any other big or small coaching everyone needs money, for money they need toppers isiliye competition kai liye baar baar force karte hai...
आजके Competition में हम युवाओ की जिंदगी और जवानी जल कर खाक हो गयी है😥😥
Haan to jao jangal mein raho kisne bola competition Dene ko
@@jyotsnasrivastava8172 right
@@jyotsnasrivastava8172 competition me nhi jaayega to tumhe khilaye ga kaise
Tumhari tarh ghar me rahkar zindagi nhi kat ti hai
Ha yaar... Yaha ki government maderchood hai sale college ki seets hi nhi badhare..
@@jyotsnasrivastava8172 bosdike career kyse banega fir... Maderchood
Please don't send your children to Kota. Life is more precious than IIT.
Nahi life ka kya hai wo to agle janam v jee lenge ..... Iit is more important🙃
No,don't send your children to kota forcibly 🧐.
@@RaviGupta-oe9pl agle janam me tu bakra banega aur tera Mutton biryani banega
Khush hoja chutiye
@@RaviGupta-oe9pl yeah you are right.
@@RaviGupta-oe9pl typical parents thinking and to be real who knows there is another life or not but I hope no because I can't handle this one
Parents should support their children the most I'm studying in here (kota) but the moment my parents made me join the coaching the first thing they said don't over do urself we will be good as long as u r giving ur full ,and after this news my parents were concerned they said nothing matters more than us to them so don't take any wrong decisions and always talk about it to us first in every condition.
Yes! I’m honestly over that period of time, I was once a premed student too and I didn’t even have depression, it was just an unhealthy obsession of outperforming everyone in the institute I was in, which lead me to studying a lot and never giving time to literally anything else, and now, post-MBBS, it’s still so depressing because I have to take NEET PG. and work very hard for that. So just know, that even if you DONT manage to make it through, worst case scenario, you’re not worthless or anything. Life is very, very long and there are a lot of beautiful things that you can enjoy, and you will get plenty of chances to “prove yourself” to everyone, your relatives, parents, friends, everyone.
Here nobody is talking about, the lack of good diet that student faces even after giving a lot of money in hostel which alleviatea the stress level in children
You are right bro
yes the food they provide is just not edible at all. my brother lives there and says that food is the worst thing in Kota. imagine a young teenager who is 16-29 years old who is already burdened with harsh study routine and enormous syllabus and they take a break from all of it and goes to eat some food and then they get this kind of food of course it will alleviate their frustration and irritation level. all those hostel accommodators don't have any empathy for children. The food they provide is soo bad that they themselves will never eat even if they die they will not eat.
Sahi kha kota m bc din bhar padhna hota h fhir bekar khana kha hai.
So correct. I have experienced this myself and I know how irritating and depressing it is. I used to go 3 to 4 days without eating anything even when I was so hungry just so that I did not have to eat such low graded food.
Yes bro , you're right , m 13 August ko Kota aayi thi , uske baad m first day jese hi hostel ka khana khayi meri tabiyat kharab , khana khate hi vomitting ho gyi , fir 10 din tak juice pike kam chalaya fir thoda thoda khana start Kiya , 13000 rent h hmare hostel uske baad bhi quality acchi nhi h , etni weakness aa rkhi h ki coaching me table pr bhaithne ke baad room me table pr bhaith ke nhi pdh skte h hm , par bhut tej drd krne LG jate h uske alawa UTI ho gya or bhi bhut disease ho gyi , daily medicines leke kam chlate h , but fir bhi hm ladenge , jayenge to white coat ke sath hi.....................❣️❣️❣️
भौत बच्चे ऐसे होते हैं ,जिनको अपने मां बाप सें ज्यादा प्यार होता है ,वो उनके प्रेंम के कारण अकेला रहना उनको भौत भारी पङता है । 😞☹️
पर बाबा आप ने तो कहा था 'औरतें कुछ ना पहने तो भी अच्छी लगती हैं'। उसके लिए माफी कब मांगोगे?
Education is for us. We are not for education.
My prayers for all the 3 of them🙏🏻
May their Souls be at peace and I pray for their journey ahead🙏🏻
Not exam pressure but India's failed education system did this.
My father once said,"fail ho gai to chlega lekin har manegi to nahi chlega, na jindgi se na jindgi ki ladai se. "
@@Jenni7u Ji nahi, meri bahen fail hui thi lekin usko is bat ke liye danta nahi gaya tha bas dubara aage bdhane ka haunsla diya tha.
@@engidoc2681 to aap shruat karna, aap apne bete ko ye bolna ki beta exam ka stress mat lo.
@@engidoc2681 are school bhejna, self learning tab kam aati hai jab ham crorepati ho vrna to sabse pehle do vakt ki roti ki chinta me hi bechara bacha mar jayega. Bas school jate vkt uske man me ye dar na rhe ki mehnat krne ke bad bhi mere achhe marks ni aaye to pappa marenge ya dantenge.
Because you are a girl
Kbi kisi girl student ka suicide case suna hai.
Quki maa baap ko pta hai agar job lg gyi toh acchi baat hai vrna koi na koi job waala baitha hi hai
But humare saath essa nhi hai
लोग समझ क्यों नहीं रहे हैं कि जब तक जनसंख्या इतनी ज्यादा रहेगी तब तक शिक्षा व्यवस्था में बदलाव से कुछ नहीं होगा? पाठ्यक्रम कितना भी सरल बना लो, प्रतिस्पर्धा तो उतनी ही कठिन रहेगी क्योंकि लोग ही इतने ज्यादा हैं। इस देश में बच्चे पढ़-लिखकर भी क्या कर ले रहे हैं? सब पूँजीपतियों के लिए 12-14 घंटे की नौकरी करके तनाव में जी रहे हैं।
मैने ये सब देखते हुए इस देश में बच्चों को जन्म ना देने का निर्णय लिया हैI
😞
@@rajveerkanojiya2985 क्या हुआ भाई?
To kya unhe Paisa waste hone bachna chahiye ya dusre countries me migration karna chahiye?🥲
At last someone spoke the truth ...abe bacche paida krne bnd kro saalo itni population horhi h ...jobs resorces sbhi ki kmi horh h
I was not in kota but in a coaching in hometown. The teacher was a resonance ex faculty who taught foundations and he was head of that department. He was extremely demotivating, who always bragged how weak we are, how much he regrets having such students. He would always tell, how students would solve mcqs within minutes in two three lines. I was extremely demotivated by this all the time. Hated going to coaching class, always felt like a failure. His sister was a chemistry faculty in the same Institute who was not even a MSc in chemistry I guess but would often be samw demotivating as him. Once a student pointed this out that her talks demotivates her, she was furious and never forget to taunt that student about this. I regret going to these coachings. It's been 6 years now, I couldn't clear anything because of constant pressure that i put myself into. Now I feel, wish I was free and learnt how to deal with negativity, I would have been at a better place. Anyways now working as a scientific assistant at central government organization but these coachings are a herd race and not every student is strong enough to control their emotions.
Bro such teachers are a disgrace but yes it all depends on students some might take that insult to the heart and start working to prove the teacher wrong while others will think of themselves as failure and get depressed
I think the root cause of these suicides is our Education System and government's less attention on Educational Development.
You are absolutely right
Root cause is parents mindset they are now like bussinesman.they want result of their investement.
Coching is 2nd reason not 1st
@@jeenimate8368 agreed 👍
@@jeenimate8368 usko expectations bolte hai bhai.. Middle class parents jb utni fees bharte hai to kuch expect bhi krte hai
@@adarshsri619 to mat bhare fees 🤡💩
Most probably last night there has been one more case of a girl in landmark city...we've seen police and ambulance in a hostel but no clarification is being given to the public...kota me bhot se suicides ko daba dia jata h
Money power
Paisa h to kya hi samne aayega
Bilkul sahi
@@anishkumarsahu8464 yes6
@@anishkumarsahu8464 or hum suicide case jankr bhi kya krenge
Drr sa lgta h or ajeeb si feeling ke alawa kuch nhi aati
İsiliye dabaya jata h
@@riyaaaa8154 my frnd sucide 6 months ago
In kota hostel
Aaj tk bhul nhi paaa rha hu mai
Kota is not just a place for medical and iit prep . It is a place that reminds you of the hard truths of life and prepares for it, it prepares you for greatness if you handle this pressure in a positive way
Condolences to his family, i am so sorry for their loss
Remember there is more to life than a mere exam
@@nikunjjayas4520 hmm
👍🏻
Khud ke baccho ke saath hoga toh same hi bolna😂😂
Greatness in being an iitian? 😂
@@XtenstialKrysis greatness of learning about what hardwork and dedication is
@@GoodBoy-nx3oy main khud kota me padhta hoon
Parents pressure, society pressure, competition pressure, afraid of failure,anxiety, depression , loneliness and no social life is the root cause of sucide in kota .
Some of my relatives adviced me to go Kota for coaching, I refuse and with in three months from RUclips lectures i cleared jee mains and I'm typing this comment sitting in my dream college campus.....don't give so much importance to IITs , to do something big it's need to live first.
Aap konse college me ho?
miet
U r right
I am in Kota for jee ,here students are got depressed due release date for jee exam date in January by NTA.😮
Yesss
Pichle ek week mei 12 suicides lekin ab media cover nhi kr rahi kyuki NTA pe naa aajaye aur coachings kaa dhanda bnd naa ho jayee...
@@chupretu1602 seriously? 12
@@delhiwale6702 yes seriously
@@chupretu1602 and no one is talking about that ,well you guys please apna dhyn rkho be strong Jo hoga achhha hoga be positive agr nhi bhi hua koini kuch na kuch toh hoga hi life me but suicide is not option
Guardian is also responsible for this.First analyse your kid ,analyse his/her capabilities,analyse his/her basics,provide good mental support then send kota or any other places. Very few condidate go there to do something in life and many go there only for formalities.
As a parent i agree with you
@@dipabasumatary2588 Thank you!
It's all about transparency if u r not able to score good tell them the valid reason.
I have seen most of them lies. No parents wants that their child to commit suicide.
@@satyamrudranandwhat lies? They HAVE to lie because parents won’t leave them tf alone!
The reason behind this 1) Student couldn't get a chance to find out what they want to become, before knowing their own interest they are pushed to pursue a career in medical or engineering...
2) High charge of coaching institutions No matter how much supportive your parents are, you will have that pressure iss saal nhi hoga toh itnaaa Sara paisa badbad hoga..
3) The myth "agar Kota jaoge tabhi selection hoga"
I am also a neet aspirant but I realized that I should become a doctor while doing bsc in physiology, so after completing my graduation I am preparing for neet, my parents are okay with it, they never suggested me to take science after 10th, they never suggested me to pursue mbbs after 12th, All the time they asked me what do you want to do now?
Be free, in life it is very important to know what will bring happiness to your life, let your child to choose their career.
sabke parents itne supportive nahi hote ki jao beta jo karna hai karo fir baad mai toh job mil hi jayega aisa nahi hota hai yaha parents ki expectations hoti hai ki mera beta/beti 12 th ke sath sath appearing year mai hi iit nikal le ya neet kyuki woh badi muskil se apne bache ko bejte hai kota aur bache waha pressure jel nahi pate aur papa kya kahenge ghar wale kya kahenge ke chakar mai sucide kar lete par sucide is not a solution par unhe yahi lagta hai solution toh koi kya hi kar sakta hai upar se parosi ka beta yeh wala comparison alag g@ nd marta hai.
Passion choose sirf usa uk me krte h bcche kyuki wha ka standrd of living hnse kai guna acha h unki income bhi hmse kahi jyads h hm kaafi pichde hue h is mamle me
I CAN UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEMS OF BIHARI STUDENTS 😟😟😟😟
Aur Students Ke Maathe Par Hutiya Likha Hai Kya
koi option nahi bhai, padho ya kahi ka na raho, par abhi 10th ka boards de raha hun future ka hope hai
High tution fees in coaching centres and colleges can cause of suicide !
l was a very good student.. secured 91% in my matric.. I wanted to prepare for IlT or UPSC but my father was not supportive...He forced me to marry after 12 class.. somehow I completed my graduation after marriage along with so many responsibilities, taking care of a small baby...You people are so lucky that your parents are sending you to Kota..
I can understand sister.same story with my cousin.
bhad me ja tu ni samjhegi kuch vi
@@ananth218Canada tu bhi bhaad me jaa..tu kuch nhi samjhega .. it's about priority..
Aap online dekhiye upsc ka batch aaya h khan sir ka 7500₹/- PW m 9999/- for 2024
@@reshmakhatoon1624 ji ..Aapke father apni jgh shi the. Wo aaj ka time dkh ke Dre hue hai....
I think they have forgot that how precious life is... Suicide ke piche kahin na kahin Society ya Parents ke pressures bhi jude hote hai Parents don't always think about their Child's mental health or trauma, It's a broad issue not only in India but in whole world. I too also studied in Kota at Allen, I have also failed to get good ranks in IIT JEE but I haven't thought of even doing this things. Not any Doctor or Engineering degree is bigger than life. Remember it! I think students become hopeless.
Jude hote hain????? Aur kya hi karan hai mam
@@sulusukta3935 Yeah you don't know
@@ChandraXR the dogma is created by our society, which is nurtured by these institutions... There is nothing else. Currently I'm facing these kind of problem... We have to stood up with standards of society who cares what we want neither family or Institutes
@@sulusukta3935 Exactly this instituion will label you as a failure and many not able to cope with failure but its part of life.
@@ChandraXR I mean why these institutions are alive? Becoz our parents /society wants it to be... They r just fulling that gap... This will never change unless and until the definition of success and failure change in our indian society... This education is this way becoz we want it to be this way
एक कारण अकेलापन भी है 😥😥
Don't think so in such a technical society, homesickness matters but we can contact our parents when needed anytime n anywhere 😏 😌
@@arshdeepxb745 abe tu abhi 10 main padh raha hai tune duniya nahin dekhi,abhi tu apne gharwaalon ke saath hai,jab alag hoga tab pata chalega
@@arshdeepxb745 babu Jis Din Tu Bahar Nikal Ke Jayega Bahar Padhne, Khud Se Banayega Khud Bartan Dhulega Tab Tujhe Pata Lagega Jindagi Kya Hai.
@@unknown123thakur oh hello....Im in 11th
@@unknown123thakur ye to online study karn 10th mai account bnaya tha yeh....n I'm still at home.....koi hostel nhi gyi mai it was my choice.....
Omg!!! This is so overwhelming....! Suicide is not an option ...plz be there for the people who r in depression!!! Sometimes all they need is a supportive gesture...😔 may god give strength to their families 🙌
Overwhelming??
OVERWHELMING ????
Overwhelming ka matlab sikh, insta ki chodi
Overwhelming ?
Depression ek bimari h ok koi ise par dhyan nahi deta
Government should reduce the syllabus and increase the number of seats in college.
Ban coaching industry of kota
Absolutely right 🙌
@@richakumari5015 👍
Isme ladke ki galti hai usne theek se padhai nahi ki aur ghar walo se jhoot Bola haga
@@mankind12345 jruri nhi baran m b kl ek bacche n suicide ki h bcz neet me 592 marks lane k bad b use clg nhi mila........
@@awaz8203 general Category se hoga n🥲😶
सफलता जिंदगी से बड़ी नही है।जो लोग तैयारी कर रहे है आप लोगो से विनती है की कोई भी गलत कदम न उठाए।
Now days study is all about depression,anxiety , mental torture & nothing else .
Every suicide is A murder by the society 🥺🥺🥺😭😭
True
Naam roshan krne ka pressure hoga
Aaj ke time pe chhote chhote bachho ko bhi study ke naam pe itna mental stress diya ja raha hai ki pucho mat, jis bachhe ke abhi khelne ke din hai use school se aate hi tution bhej diya jata hai, parents apni ecchaon ka bojh daal dete hai tuje ye karna hai itne marks lane hai, jee lene do bachho ko🙏🙏🙏
Nhi ho sakta kuch abhi. Jo ek baar kudh gya is me to matlb ya to jee Sakta hai ya maar sakta hau
I am a Kota student.This is a very serious matter in kota.a team should be made to make strict rules for coaching centres and to take care of the students
Reason for suicide is always high expectations from parents that put kids into depression. These study coaching factories does not care about your child mental health. They just there to do business. Very bad situation
RIP departed souls... 🥺
Om shanti
मैं भी मेडिकल का स्टूडेंट रहा हूँ । कोचिंग के टीचर्स का बिहेवियर भी ठीक नही रहता है । हुमिलेट करते है मैंने खुद ड्राप कर दिया था कोचिंग को और सेल्फ स्टडी की।
Guys exam is not only the things,God has seperate plan for all of us
Parents pressure
Cope.
कोटा मे पूरा नही तो कुछ सीमा तक गोरखधंधे चल रहे हैं, पेरेन्टस को ध्यान दे ।
कोचिंग सिस्टम सही नही है कोटा का । प्लीज बच्चो को बचाइए ऐसी जगह मात्र पैसे वालो के लिए सुविधाजनक हो सकती है 🙏🙏🙏
Essa nhi h yaha padhai bhi acchi hi hoti h dikkat kota me nhi h
Baanki Chizo ko badalne ki jarurat h
बच्चों से अति अपेक्षा करने वाले माता पिता सावधान अपने बच्चों को अच्छे इंसान बनने की शिक्षा दे वो हमेशा आपके साथ रहेगा
Bs Accha insaan bnne se jindigi nhi chalti bhai
Reel life ke dialogues iss duniya se bilkul alag hai
I too have studied in Kota, I just wanted to say if you can't cope don't hesitate to take step back ...there is no point to take life. I know it's hard but worth your life.
There are hundreds of them in depressive state.
I came to kota 3 months ago and now I realise that how depressing kota is ,, being a topper of hometown and even a state ranker(97%in boards) I never thought that I wouldn't be able to handle the situation here but now l understand that how different the reality is ,,I do feel like a average student here and cry almost everyday tomorrow I have my test and I'm just not able to handle it,,my family is most supportive and never pressurise me mom dad say jo hoga dekha jayega tu mast reh aram se padh tension na le ,,But i feel so guilty that I'm not doing good in studies and wasting lakhs of my parents hardworking money here ,, I'm literally good for nothing,, frankly speaking, Don't come to kota you will only have depression with u after coming here people talk about toppers and we are nothing for them.
If you are a state ranker you can prepare from your hometown as well if you find that environment depressing. No need to push yourself if you feel uncomfortable there
Sometimes these suicides r actually murder by bullies
Exam ka stress 😞😞😞
Or koi problem nahi h...
Samaaj or reshedaar kuch teachers itna pressure bnate h ke bachche usko handle hi nahi kar pate.... 🤯
Or log samjhte nahi....
Itna negative kar dete h log bol bol k ke us baat ko handle hi nahi kar pate bachche... 😔😔
Y samjhna chaiye logo ko jo bhi kuch bolne se phale soch samajh kar bole.....
Ke ak exam na nikalne se uske life deside nahi ho jate ke Y life mein kuch nahi kar sakta h...
Par hamre samaaj ne en sab baato ko itna extreme kar diya h ke perents ko bhi lagne lagta h ke ha hamara bachche exam mein select na hua tho kuch nahi kar payega life mein......
Or Y exam ka pressur itna hota k ke ghar walo ko bhi kuch nahi bta sakte...
Ghar walo ko bole tho phale hi logo ne unko itna pressurized kar rakha h ke vho bhi bacche ko samajh nahi sakte h 😔😔
Ak student ke life Es samaaj ne barbaad kar de h....
Tu Y nahi kar sakta tere kuch nahi hoga. Xyz...
Kitna shae abhi student vho bhi insaan h 😔
Ak time baad lagta h ke life ko katam kar leta hi sahi h en sab baato se pichaa chhudaane k liye 🥺🥺
I had 22 backs in CS engineering, after lots of depression, family pressure, overcoming, fighting with family, I'm finally doing job in graphic design in a well paid company..
Remember you can overcome everything if you want, you just have to find your passion..
Parents kitna b bol le akhir dheere se wo b samjhte hai.. ab tum samjhana hi ni chahoge to kuch ni hoga.. bonding banani padti hai..
Pls guide me i was too a jee 2022 aspirant i spent around 1 lakh 40 thousands in total 2 year allen coaching for jee ...also did hard work but could clear at last....got in a good rgpv(government) affiliated college in IT branch ......can i still get a good future and placement?? ...this regret will always with me for my entire life tht i couldnt cleared jee also i didnt even take a drop
@@sp8602 first you need to understand the situation of market around you, like what is in demand and what is not. You have a degree, its great but every one around you has same degree and maybe better percentage,
But what is required in today's field is 'skills'. If you have the proper skillset you can build your portfolio earlier than many students and you can easily crack interviews.
Remember companies are looking for assets and they'll not waste a time if they already has trained people.
What you need to do is build your skill and portfolio, along with 4 years education... Start learning demanding languages if you are CS student, start taking small projects, and by your 4th year you will be a fully trained intermediate,
You'll just have to tell companies about your 4 year work they'll hire you instantly.....
I have been there for 3 years, All i can say Most depressing place in world only because of coaching mafias. I request all parents if you want your kids to be happy for next comings years take them away from kota . Let them enjoy there plus1 plus 2 happily. Let them take arts , commerce anything not only science . Jee ke bina koi mar nhi jata h , lkin jee ki wjh se bhut mar rhe h .
Bhai aap to baniye ho aap log commerce lo yaar, badiya krte ho usmein raula hei aaplogon ka uss field mein bhai
Bhai commerce or arts me bhi padhna padhta he.
@@gaganbansal9185 arts mai nahi bro
@@gaganbansal9185 to kehne ka matlab hai jisme intetest hai wo lo
Life is more than getting good grades or job when will these kids learn.
By suiciding they are just putting their family through immense grievance
Think twice at least for the mother who probably thinks about you all her life
She don’t deserve this
Parents should also think of their children before forcing them a lot for mere marks only!!
well its not like parents dont pressurize their kids
My life almost came to hell when I was in Kota during my engineering preparation in 2010...there either you get gold or guilt ...i suffered from that depression till 2018.... If you suffer from it.. it's better to consult with neurologist only not psychiatrist ... Here I am not advertising anyone but in my case Dr. Tarun Vijay in kailash hospital Noida ..best doctor in such cases...
Sab Ghar walo ki exception ka natiza hota hai jo pahle pressure and fir depression ban jata hai 😞
Kota is a centre of suicide.
Anxiety depression is a serious problem of today's student life gov should spread awareness about it so that parents remain cautious
बिहार जैसे राज्य में शिक्षा का घोर आभाव है यही कारण है की राज्य से बाहर कोचिंग में लाखों रुपए फी देनी पड़ती है। और छात्रों पर मानसिक तनाव रहता है
Mukt reh
nahi bhai ye bhed chaal waali baat hai.logon ko lagta hai ki kota bhejne selection ke chances badh jaate hai.jabki aise bohot se log hai jo apne jile me reh kar preperation karke ke top ke iits nikaal chuke hai
Ganta bc aise kya baat ho gyi bihar me bhi acche institute hai
Kota is the most toxic city I've come across. I lived there for almost 10 years with my maternal grandparents. Students and teachers were so rude and toxic in my school (Sir Padampat Singhania) 🤮 and even in the coaching classes. That city literally destroyed my mental peace. Finally I'm feeling relieved by getting out of this hell.
Reservation brings huge depression in the talented students. Supreme court should think about this ASAP
Bro know exact reason behind the reservation then u will itself say that it is correct
@@mayurghatkar3894 phle thik tha reservation ab nhi ab bas non deserving log iits aur aiims pahunch ja rhen hain
Sabhi students ko apne partner ke saath room le kr rehna chahiye and enjoy be happy in all situations 🙂 nd never hopeless!! IIT, NEET 🙃nhi to another platform 👩🦯 may be u make diff.. to born 😇 and life is art bs colour fill kroo jo krna ho .......👩🏫
COMPETITIVE EXAMS ARE A CURSE ON YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE
Very sad news. Try to understand the value of life.😭🙏
no one takes this steps easily they know what they are doing
Please u try to understand what's important of iit is
@@sharvesu IIT holds more Importance than Life?
@@Hindu428 yaah,it's true
The main problem is in our basic foundation....someone is studying from Delhi convent school and someone is studying from village school. The huge difference of knowlege and smartness created from start. First of all school and college teachers neither studied engineering not studied medical. They never studied application of basic sciences. But IIT and AIMS wants knowledgeable and smart students who have in depth knowledge of subjects. Many engineers who are unemployed want to teach student and in our government structure you have to have graduation in basic sciences, then you should have B.Ed degree then you are eligible. That's they teach in coaching institutes, and you will find many of those faculties are engineer's or MBBS pass out...they know to crack exam like jee advance and NEET how to prepare the students.
Those are smart enough catch those things fast and those studied from village school and college find it difficult to cope up with. Because they are not used to those brain storm session.
So engineer's and MBBS should get the opportunity to teach in government schools and colleges. Otherwise many good students know about engineering and medical after passing high school. Till then they are clueless about engineering and medical who are studying in remote areas or rural areas. And smart City student know those things from class six and seven and according to that they prepare.
So in my point of view there is inequality in our basic education system.
And remove those mark based judgement and shift your focus to overall development of a student physically and mentally.
Try to develop their soft skills from beginning, rather than try to pressureize them to learn those things after passing out from schools. It's not their fault actually , it is the high school teachers who are culprit to not discuss with them about this. Because his itself soft skills are not that good.
Untill you shift yourself from the conventional system this type of incidents are expected.
We are thinking india is growing, yes but from outside, the mental peace or inner happiness of almost every person is just lost away.
Zindagi se bada kuch nahi mere bhaio 😑
Main bhi medical 2012 me fail hua ....... ias De raha hun ........
Failure se mat haaro .... zindagi aur badi hai yaar
Studying in kota for 6yrs and I m not depressed
But little bit anxiety for exams
Live your life brothers NEET or JEE is not your last destination.
6yrs matlab tumne 5 drop liye kya
This is our education system 👏
there is no education in INDIAN EDUCATION SYSTEM
M kota me Allen me pdh rhi thi july 2022 se achiever batch me... Pr one week se mujhe depressing feel ho rha tha hostel ke uss bnd kmre ki vazah se.... Mne ek bar apne parents ko kaha ki mujhe depressing lg rha h... And next day on 2 january they took me from kota and now I am in my own lovely house and preparing hard from here☺❤❤
All these things happen just because of fear for not get selected and parents doesn't understand their children,main thing is reservation category ,I am general so ,I can feel it
reservation ki chor bhai problem yeh hai ki seat 1 hoti hai apply 10000 kartey hai asli problem yeh ki jis din indian IIT, IPS IAS OR GOVT JOBS ko chor ke privates jobs yaa business ki taraf yaa koi other options nahi dekhege tab tak kuch nhi hoga
Really reservation?!?
@@kattar-wc6xi backlog to graduation me lgti hena, lekin wo to preparation kr raha hoga syd neet ya iit ki?
@@kattar-wc6xi backlog kya hota he phir?
@@kattar-wc6xi dropper walo ke sath to bilkul shi nai hua 🥺🙂.....sept tk to result or college allotment hua for unki couching suru hote wagerah sb kuch me time hi nai mila or ab jan me exam or upar se 75% result ka criteria wapas se😶🥲....
Us people and the society should not make mockery of those who come empty handed from kota without selection I hv seen your own friends from native city and relatives and neighbors everyone kind of prey on those who fail and come empty handed.. We should make it normal to fall back on other option if not IIT.. Parents must say that if not iit then something else.. Coachings must say if not Iit something else... But everyone say kro ya maro.. And these are tender kids of 16-17 years of age coping failure in such a hostile environment becomes harder..
Kota is full of scam don't Through ur kids In the Kota jail plz
Actually reason ye h ki coaching ki padhai bhot fast hoti h jise match krna asan nahi hota plus ghar ka pressure hota h,me khud kota me medical ki preparation k liye gya tha, but wo padhai mere bass ki nahi thi so mene apne ghar walo baat ki or bataya ki me law padhna chahta hu medical nahi or apne mn ki baat batai or mummy papa man gye and now i happy law intern so,my request to parents and students please apne problem ek dusre se share kro solution pakka milega or rahi baat kota ki to wo ek factory h or kuchh nahi.
There are so many ppl in this world who don't get selected in IIT Or NEET still doing very good in their Career. Many times better than doctors or engineers. Students and parents should understand this. Also Career is not life Life is much more than that. Don't do this.
Mai ,jo bhi parents ye comment padh rahe hain unse bus yahi kehna chahungi ki bachhe humare liye sabse jada jaruri aur sirf jaruri nahi precious hain bhai please unko number laane ki machine na banaye . bachhe humare sath rahenge to doctor ya Engineer nahi to kuch aur bun jayenge par hum unko khush dekhenge to sab kuch mil jayega.please socho sabhi .mai bohot proud feel karti hu jab mai yaad kar k bhi ek bhi moment aisa nahi pati apni life me jab maine apne bachho ko kabhi bhi pressurize kiya ho numbers k liye .unko bus itna sunanana hai ki tum apna best do ,number chahe jo bhi aaye . please 🙏ek bar bachho ko support karein wo jo karna chahte hain unko usi me aage badhaye 🙏
Even in orientation the coaching directors in classroom the teachers say don't make friends during preparation don't live a normal life forget everything during preparation just keep studying but the reality is we are humans we socialize...so the students have a guilt of everything extra they do even if they visit city mall they will have a guilt why I visited there I should not do this now so how a student will release pressure and it's normal if you are taking a break from your studies.. coaching centre should have a responsibility to say that it's normal if you are unable to catch up to your peers it's normal if you are not scoring well just keep trying and everyone is different tbh unique in their own life... comments if I have said anything wrong....these are my opinions and I am open to listening to yours
True ....there should be balance between study an enjoying life
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teachers are like forget everyone and just study
no friends , no enjoyment but only study
INDIAN EDUCATION SYSTEM is trash killing creative minds
a balanced life is near impossible to get here in india
Don't know why .. bt I just felt the same way after taking a break from my studies... I m happy by myself bt people won't stop asking me .. Ab tum kya kr rhi ho ..Pdhai kaisi chal rhi h... Job ki tayari krri ho k nhi ...mere bacha ye kr rha h..uski job lg gyi h ..tumhe bi khali nhi bethna chaiye ...tumhari cousin govt job pe h ...tum bi tayari chalu rkho ..I mean what right they have over me told all those kinds of shitt...
My condolences to those who lost their loved ones. May they rest in peace🙏
Ankush मेरे ही गांव का था
(Triveniganj Supaul)
भगवान उसकी आत्मा को शांति दे 🙏🏻🙏🏻😢
Axa bhai aapke gav ka 😔😔😔
Mera bhi ak dost rhta h kota me jee ki preparation kr rha h
@@Chandra963yt aap kya kar rahe ho
Parents and society judge on your marks only... They don't care what kind of depression and problem u are going through
You should raise the current issue of jee main 2023,It's also create high mental stress...
Plezzz🙏🙏🙏
Galti kota ya coching ki nahi h becuz here in kota the best teachers of iit jee and neet are here and they really provide good quality content. Galti basically bacho mein lack of awareness ki hoti hai becuz nobody has forced them so hard ki vo competition mein aaye hi sahi but they still take the decision without keeping in mind that even if you give 100 percent then also there is chance that u will not get in iits or aiims but what u learn here is the growth of your mind. But students yeh baat samjhte hi nhi h and ya coching walo ko bhi samjhana chahiye infact there parents also. And these suicide are due to wrong company . And children's kahi baar khud ki expectations pr nhi utar paate to isliye they suicide. Har baari kota ya coching ya parents relatives ko zimedaar nhi batana chahiye kyunki most of the cases mein bache ki khud ki bhi galti involve hoti.they distract from their path
💯 correct
Finally a genuine comment 😃
I'm a allen student in class 11. Kota is really hard really hard. But I talk to my parents and remember my god . As I was a freelancer during my class 10. So iit doesn't matter for me but giving best
These coaching institutes should be regulated, and also all political parties should try to remove reservation
Impact of society and family pressure.
Hindu Muslim karne se achha hai media aur politicians iss baare main baat Karen main abhi kota main hi hu (Allen) aur mujhe pata hai idhr hume kitna pressure jhelna pdta hai roj classes hoti h bhar bhar k hw diya jata hai sundays ko bhi extra classes baki Sunday test hota hai jo humesha humse bolta hai "life main kuch na kro"...toppers k to mje hain lekin mediocre bcche mentally physically aur financially bhot pareshan rehte hain aur amir bcche paise udane aate hain PRESSURE itna jyada hai ki yeh suicides sunkar hume koi jhatka nhi lga qki hume pta hai yeh to hona hi tha aur agar immediate actions nhi liye aur aur bhi jyada hoga 👍
बेरोजगारी, तनाव, सफलता ये सब मुख्य कारण है
Are bhai padhai k bad bhi khoob zindagi h padhai sab kuch nahi h bro last 10 saall se padhai m struggle kar raha hu jab tak jinda hu tab tak hardwork karunga. Kabhi maro mat kuch nahi hua to chai bech lunga kuch bhi na hua to bartan saf kar lunga kuch na hua to mandir m rahne lag jaunga jio mere dosto.
Nice
mat pressure dalo yaaaar bacchon pe ladka agar engineer nahi ban paya to koi life ruk nahi jayegi usko wo karne do jo wo karna chahta hai
भारत में युवाओं के स्वर्णिम साल कोचिंग और किताबो में ही निकल जाते है ।
Oh hello Mr energy.....name energy rkh rkha hai....n kaam energetic nhi hai.....Arey ye umr mai nhi pdenge to kbb pda jayega....pdh likh kr hi youth age bdega n tbb hi hum india ko aage lejayenge!
Soch bdlo apni
Zyada hi diktt hai na debate krlo mera sath chahe....mai to tyaar hu......!😒😒😒
Toh kya cement ki boriya uthaye ?
I am really feeling sad for that friend bhai
The reason for mental illness in students is "mobile" 😑
Hum bs dusro ko dekhte h or apni khwahish Badi kar lete h or jab hum unpr work bhi krte to vo adhuri hi reh jaati h or fir depression hone lgta h ...
Jitna ho ske apni family, friends or teacher se touch me rhe in real na ki bs phone ke jariye...
Be real with yourself 🥺
Agree
Subject /stream apne interest oor capicity k aadhar pr lena chahiye 😃
@@sharvanbedia6693 meko to direct science me daal diya tha kehke cs krna hai
abhi maine boldiya mujhe cs nhi krna ANIMATION and 3d VFX krna hai wo maan to gye but mera 12th ka bilkul padhayi nhi hua and 12th boards fail hone waali halat hai
@Jennifer More power to you🙌🙌
Btw 97% to bohot ache marks hai phir bhi aisa😶
Kota me coaching nahi ... business chalta hai aur business ke liye ye teacher baccho me itna stress bhar dete hain ki unka jeena marna ek samaan ho jaata hai .... More hardwork is more dangerous...
CONGRATS RESERVATION...YOU HAVE ACHIEVED YOUR GOAL..🙂🙂
Jb education system hi esa h tho ye suicide hona bhot common h RIP india education system 😭😭
om shanti
Bhai mere papa ne yaha tak kah diya hai beta ek saal try kar agar neet ho gaya to theek nahi to d Pharma kar lena ya ssc bhai hamari life kewal neet ya jee tak hi na simit hai enjoy bhi karo bhai log ..........jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳
Overall, the scenario is Dull - No moral education, seeing rich are enjoying life fullest, looks highly important, Society is all about Hungry for recognition. This became a deadly cocktail for Middle class and Lower middle-class students. There is no hope too in coming years.
Mental strength is essential during preparation of competition examination which should be given by Parents ,And Student must be remember that It is not only examination of your life ,Donot Depress ,Be Positive ,
Nobody talking about the Sp's statement, "Bachho me jo moral values honi chahiye vo nahi dikhi". Maine bhi ye socha agar uska ek bhi sachha dost hota to shayad, usse samzane/sunane wala koi to hota.
Sahyoog ki bhavna aur Kota me irony hai bhai bahut irony hai
Vlogging from Medical College | Best medical college of India with best food at canteen | Dr Fatima MBBS MD
Every coaching needs a brain doctor or therapist to understand mental consequeness , anxiety, depression etc of students in there life
सभी माता पिता से अनुरोध है कि बच्चों को समझिये मानसिक तौर से मजबूत बनाइये मैं 2008 से 2012 तक विज्ञानं नगर में थी मैं बच्चों का दर्द समझ सकती हूँ प्लीज़ 🙏
Why such big coaching institutes in the first place? Why can't students study on their own from Home? Does studying in these institutes gurantee cracking exams? If yes, then how?
Ghar par guidance kaha milega ?? ..sabke didi ya bhaiya iit ya aiims se nhi hote ..
@@rk5609 What special Guidance do they give? The syllabus for the exams are foretold already by the examining body. Aren't they? What special guidance do these institutes give? Do they know beforehand what kind of questions will come which year ....If so then how do they know?
@@Rahul_Singh100 ye unhi ko pta chalta h jo wha jate hain!! I have been there for 2 yrs and koi pressure waha teachers ya institutions generate ni krte hain....ye humpe h ki hum chizon ko kaise lete hain...
Parents ko thand mil gyi hogi. Ab baccha jo mar gya hai itna pressure dala hoga bechara suicide kr lia . Aare kuch na krt zindgi me to km se km ankh ke samne to rahta . Police parents pr murder ka case chalaye😢
Bachchon khud k pairon par khade hojao bas. Chahe jo naukri karo. Kahin ved puran mein nahi likha hai ki har insaan ko doctor engineer hi banna hai.