The Epic Fail, Destroyed my RV in NC and how it happened. Perseverance Prevailed. Episode 5

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  • Опубликовано: 23 мар 2021
  • In this episode I share how my RV got destroyed and how through perseverance I prevailed and came out the other end with a new RV and back on the road. Follow me as I live full time in my Grand Design Momentum 367THS-R traveling North America living my Bucket List Day....
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  • @Bigsmegma44
    @Bigsmegma44 3 года назад +113

    Whenever visiting a new park for the first time. I always disconnect. Then drive through with my truck planning a route in and out. With your rig being that big. You should make this a standard practice! Good luck

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +9

      Thanks for sharing

    • @Midwesternhighlights
      @Midwesternhighlights 2 года назад +3

      Exactly 💯 lol

    • @jimfreeman7656
      @jimfreeman7656 2 года назад +6

      Yep! This is the way! We captain our ship. Beware of hazards and enjoy the journey.

    • @chrisstaley3364
      @chrisstaley3364 Год назад +5

      or you know just get out and walk through and park on side of road. Allot of wasted time unhooking and hooking back up

    • @chrisgrantham2341
      @chrisgrantham2341 Год назад +1

      exactly what i do whether hauling my race trailer or 5th wheel. i even predrive local areas or shops just to be sure i can get in and out

  • @jodycanfield6684
    @jodycanfield6684 3 года назад +147

    A little duct tape and a couple of cargo straps and you're good to go ~ The Park Manager 🤣🤣🤣

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +26

      Hold my beer and watch this....

    • @jonesjones7057
      @jonesjones7057 3 года назад +2

      Flex tape!

    • @davidsod6800
      @davidsod6800 3 года назад +3

      Park manager " my brother Daryl can fix that right up, he knows welding"

    • @cheryljohnson4292
      @cheryljohnson4292 3 года назад

      🤣😪👍

    • @richardkoch8752
      @richardkoch8752 3 года назад +3

      Don't forget the chewing gum and most of all..........add more Dicor!!!!

  • @SeleTraining
    @SeleTraining 3 года назад +260

    Yikes. What's even more scary is the entire back wall is held on with a few screws on each side.

    • @toonjie
      @toonjie 3 года назад +51

      Yup! Astonishingly junky construction! Put that on the list of Rv's never to buy!!!!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +28

      Yes, room for improvement

    • @sleim754
      @sleim754 3 года назад +27

      The momentum is a good trailer. If you think that any trailer would withstand the torque that was put on this unit to twist the frame and tear the back off then you do not know anything about any sort of construction.

    • @SeleTraining
      @SeleTraining 3 года назад +69

      @@sleim754 Sorry, but look at the picture. The back end has six screws holding it together on each side. Do you think the entre back wall of the RV should be held on with screws like that?

    • @toddwarren609
      @toddwarren609 3 года назад +80

      All these trailers are slapped together as fast as possible..... overpriced junk

  • @luella2u152
    @luella2u152 3 года назад +8

    My parents were full time RVers for over 10 years. My dad said that if he wasn't sure about a place, he walked it first and then decided about staying there. I'm betting that he'd have passed on that RV park, even if it meant not staying in that area. They had a 35' Alpenlite 5th wheel towed with a big RAM diesel pickup...another long tall vehicle like your. I'm glad you're okay and able to get another rig and back on the road.

  • @mightystreaming933
    @mightystreaming933 3 года назад +79

    i lost everything after having a stroke. i learned having things is nice but not the most important thing in life. getting a cargo trailer to convert to a rv is my goal now. stay tuff there is always some one worse off than we are :)

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +12

      True words. Glad you doing better after the stroke. Never Give Up....

    • @carmenrios5321
      @carmenrios5321 3 года назад +8

      Keep your head up God has something better for you.

    • @carmenrios5321
      @carmenrios5321 3 года назад +3

      Rancho Cucamonga California

    • @TeeMarie36
      @TeeMarie36 3 года назад +3

      I hope that your doing well.. Sending you well wishes for continued good health.

    • @edswope28
      @edswope28 3 года назад +2

      Not saying you are wrong. Id prefer to build out my own RV too. But a number of RV parks will not accept "homebuilt" RV's to stay in the park. That is a common theme that pops up in the skoolie community. It may not be a problem if you intend to use your RV in a manner that doesn't require RV park stays. Dispersed camping out west and boondocking a homebuilt rig should be fine.

  • @bretts9149
    @bretts9149 3 года назад +35

    Thanks for sharing this difficult situation, it really helps fellow RVrs. Many folks on RUclips would have been hesitant to share this because of all the Monday morning quarterbacking that goes on in the comments. This was my first video I watched on your channel, you seem very genuine and real. That is refreshing to find. I will be watching your channel from now on!

  • @richardkoch8752
    @richardkoch8752 3 года назад +176

    Man, there's a lot to be said for those sweet little 21-25ft travel trailers with a better ground clearance. Often "Less Is More"

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +10

      Some would agree with you

    • @FullTimeEuphoria
      @FullTimeEuphoria 3 года назад

      21 to 25 feet overall bumper to bumper or for example 243BHS?

    • @richardkoch8752
      @richardkoch8752 3 года назад +1

      @@FullTimeEuphoria I think that one is a little longer. I think it's in the 28ft range which would still be a nice length for most State and National Parks. It could present some problems for some camp sites but it's still a pretty comfortable length.

    • @FullTimeEuphoria
      @FullTimeEuphoria 3 года назад +1

      @@richardkoch8752 thank you!

    • @sesquashtwo
      @sesquashtwo 3 года назад +3

      Yep...as I watched this...I was so thankful for our 20 foot Winnebago 1706FB...high ground clearance, and that it would have followed us nicely down that slight grade this poor chap got shipwrecked upon. Also, only being 2,900 pounds dry, doesn't hurt either!

  • @joanietravel9125
    @joanietravel9125 3 года назад

    Soooo sorry that you have gone through this! Glad you are back on it & keep on keeping on. God bless!

  • @pjballs69
    @pjballs69 3 года назад +135

    I have a rule with my trailer. If you aint paying for it, i aint taking your advice. Only my wife backs me in and we make the calls on what we feel comfortable with together.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +6

      yep

    • @joshreid6426
      @joshreid6426 3 года назад +8

      100% do the same, wife and only wife .. know the limits of slopes , overhangs etc ur Rv can handle , your the one in control and no one else ... drivers fault

    • @PackMom
      @PackMom 3 года назад +6

      I agree. Your rig, your responsibility, ALWAYS. Know your limitations and the limitations of your outfit. It’s better to have people think you’re a fool than to prove them right 😉

    • @cornfed123567
      @cornfed123567 3 года назад +4

      For sure all on the driver and only trust people to guide you if you know them, but if someone says to stop its always best to stop and hear them out, rather waste 10 minutes by stopping rather than wasting 30k because someone saw a rock or branches nobody else noticed

    • @pjballs69
      @pjballs69 3 года назад +3

      @@cornfed123567 Great point. I was pretty sure that would be implied. Always best to hear out a random "stop", but not a random "you got it".

  • @BrokenDreamsReborn
    @BrokenDreamsReborn 3 года назад +73

    We hate to hear that this happened! Thanks for being willing to share your story! It can really help a lot of people out and hopefully prevent this from happening again! ~ Shion and Matthew

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      Thank you

    • @Djdj-kd8ue
      @Djdj-kd8ue 3 года назад +4

      @@MyBucketListDay Sure would have been nice to have heard more about & seen your new "rig," inside & out. I kept anticipating a video tour,@ least of outside

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      @@Djdj-kd8ue Stay tuned, thats coming after I finish the interior remodel

  • @stephenknight3585
    @stephenknight3585 3 года назад +31

    Being a retired trucker, ive owned a few rv's in my day. I always liked the look of a triple axle too. But you really cant blame the park manager. When in doubt, get out of your rig and walk to the site if you have to. And by the way, i hauled for Mayflower. You wouldnt believe how many of my shippers told me you can get your truck in here no problem lol. It was my call whether i could or couldn't. If i determined i couldnt, then the shipper was responsible for paying extra for the shuttle truck. You really can't blame the park manager. Its your lack of experience that got you in trouble. But thanx for the entertaining vidio, i haven't had a good laugh today so thanx. Those people in NC deserve a big thank you for getting your butt out of that mess lol. Im sure Geico will thank you also with a much larger monthly insurance payment lol. Whenever i did do property damage with my rig i always had to pay for it. Happy motoring to you and good luck. And again thanks for the laugh lol.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +7

      Yes, I got out several times, but was directed and then it was to late. Should have trusted my gut.

    • @utubewatcher360
      @utubewatcher360 2 года назад +7

      What part about that story was funny??????? I agree with you about the blame game!! however I found NOTHING FUNNY about his misfortune!!! It sucks, he was kind enough to share his lack of good judgment, however we could all learn from him. Even you Mr. I drive for Mayflower! big deal you move people's furniture and shit!!!! WHOOOOPI

    • @NathanKull
      @NathanKull Год назад +12

      As I pilot I guess I have the mentality that agrees with you... Blaming the park manager for something that happens while "in command" of a massive vehicle kind of rubs me the wrong way. I always operate under the rule that, while I can use helpers, anything that happens while I'm in command of a vehicle / plane / whatever is 100% my responsibility during that time, the buck stops with me. If I'm not sure about what I'm being told I check it out myself.

    • @utubewatcher360
      @utubewatcher360 Год назад +2

      @@NathanKull I understand Nate, good Idea to check yourself and not take anyone else's word for it. I was a bit harsh with my comment also. Thanks for your comment

    • @ginathacker6207
      @ginathacker6207 Год назад +3

      I have a 34’ C-Class….sweet RV. Never let anyone tell me ‘what’s what or where’. He seems like a nice fella but he’s trying to paint the picture without saying, “I f’d up and it’s on me”.

  • @nanettereimer5817
    @nanettereimer5817 Год назад

    You have the right attitude, and so glad everything worked out for you!!! Thank you for being brave enough to share your story!

  • @karenoster8291
    @karenoster8291 3 года назад +8

    Thank you for sharing your "epic fail" journey for we newbies to learn from! Safe & Happy future trails!

  • @brianbrooks1025
    @brianbrooks1025 3 года назад +16

    Thank you for sharing this. Probably the most important video I’ve seen while shopping for my fifth trailer. The lesson is “...always go with your gut!”

  • @danielho2256
    @danielho2256 3 года назад

    My hat is off to you for your courage, determination, endurance, and resilience!
    May you double and triple up on gains in all forms in the future from the time and resources that you lost.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад

      Thanks, I make lemon-aid out of lemons in most cases

  • @paulmeinke9461
    @paulmeinke9461 3 года назад +2

    Wow, glad you are ok and back on the Adventure. Positive take-away is no one was hurt, you can always replace "things". Take care, be safe (I know, I am a bit late), enjoy your future adventures.

  • @robertwood9628
    @robertwood9628 3 года назад +17

    WOW, that totally sucks. So sorry you had to go through all the hassle and frustration. You may have lost a few months and material things but enjoy the times you have ahead. I had open heart surgery a few years ago and it has pretty much kicked my butt. Now I travel vicariously through people like you. Be safe, be happy and enjoy.

  • @krystleviles5673
    @krystleviles5673 3 года назад +10

    I’m so glad things did fall in place.. I couldn’t imagine what you were going through. My heart sank hearing your story.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      Thanks Krystle, you always have to move forward, Right...

    • @krystleviles5673
      @krystleviles5673 3 года назад +2

      @@MyBucketListDay that’s true.. I know my husband and I are trying to buy an rv for the full time living. We have more todo before we can officially make it happen. Just baby steps..

  • @marcusaponte1287
    @marcusaponte1287 Год назад +1

    Thanks you for the video. It's a terrible experience, but I wanted to thank you for sharing. Life is full of complications and letting us see what your going through really helps to get the "full picture" of the RV life. God bless and I look forward to sharing more of your RV journey.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  Год назад

      Thanks, that was a bit over a year ago, but all good and have been on the road with a new rig ever sense

  • @jonlieberman997
    @jonlieberman997 3 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing. wow... an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. My heart goes out to you. Your misery is not entirely lost. Many have learned from your experience.

  • @jerrykuster7672
    @jerrykuster7672 3 года назад +24

    Sir:, I commend you on your composure and candour. A terrible thing to have to endure. I’m glad you were a to get things resolved with insurance and get back to living your dream. Very good lesson for people to learn from!!!
    I wish you luck, happiness and safety on your adventures!
    Thanks for the video .
    J.

  • @oldbroad7672
    @oldbroad7672 3 года назад +25

    That whole debacle would have made my head explode. When I call to make a reservation I tell them I'm an old lady and it would be to everyone's benefit for them to give me an easy in, easy out campsite. Usually works because I tell them I'm dead serious. I can get my 27' TT into tight spots, but it takes me a minute. And of course there are always the lookie-loo's who either give conflicting advice, or just stand and watch LOL. Glad you're up and running again.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад

      Good Idea

    • @mrmotofy
      @mrmotofy 3 года назад

      It is always entertaining to watch the skilled and the not :)

  • @ellenhofer3343
    @ellenhofer3343 2 года назад +1

    You have the right attitude.
    You gave yourself time to cool off, possibly make a list of what needed to be done and followed through.
    I hope in the end, the park was held responsible via insurance.
    You seem to be a great guy.
    Happy trails to you & your friends as you make check marks on your Bucket Lists.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  2 года назад

      Thanks 👍. Hope to see you as a subscriber

  • @Memphisgirl-jk5tq
    @Memphisgirl-jk5tq 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. You were so calm. Keep traveling Sir. 👊🏾

  • @kristinchiles6450
    @kristinchiles6450 3 года назад +23

    Nice job on continuing and not giving up. Perseverance!!!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      Thank you very much. I've always lived that way and taught my daughter, Never Give Up....

    • @shellsomm1
      @shellsomm1 3 года назад +1

      St Armands Cir, Sarasota, FL

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +2

      @@shellsomm1 Hey Shelly, Please put your correct answer here, www.mybucketlistday.com/contest

  • @Thefunnyveterans
    @Thefunnyveterans 3 года назад +31

    Life knocked the stuffing out of you but you got back up... now it’s your turn😤, enjoy every minute

  • @lidildevil
    @lidildevil 2 года назад +1

    My heart sunk when I saw what happened to you. I am so sorry.. I have learned the hard way to always listen to my gut. Stay safe

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  2 года назад

      I appreciate that, Yes my moto moving forward and has served me well...

  • @mrslcbrock
    @mrslcbrock 3 года назад

    Thanks for doing this video. We have been in similar situations, not as much damage, and always trust your gut. That is very good advice!

  • @Wendy-oj7cb
    @Wendy-oj7cb 3 года назад +3

    Traveling full time is something I would love to do. Thank you for sharing your experience with us all. In making the decision to buy a TT, seeing the realities of it are important. When others share their mishaps and regrets, it makes us all more aware of what can happen. Enjoy The Journey shared the moment he didn’t hitch to his fifth when properly and crushed his tailgate as he moved forward and his rig slipped out of the hitch. It’s unfortunate that these things happen, but sharing them really does help others avoid the same situations. Thank you for sharing and I’m glad to see you all set to begin your adventures once again. Wishing you safe travels on the road ahead!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +1

      Thanks Suzy, Yes I saw that episode. I'm glad it helped you a bit, thats my goal is to not only inspire but also to educate and motivate people to get out there and never give up...

  • @LandSea-Adventures
    @LandSea-Adventures 3 года назад +9

    How sad that that happened to you, thanks for the advice, I never rent in any park that gives me a bad feeling,
    keep going forward that life goes on 👌👌👌👍👍

  • @mikedeiana1504
    @mikedeiana1504 3 года назад +1

    God bless you what a nightmare I could imagine the amount of stress you were feeling it’s amazing that you Didn’t suffer any illness over this issue God bless keep strong

  • @Cue881
    @Cue881 3 года назад +3

    Damaging your rig is such a gut wrenching experience! At first it feels like the end of the world but the heartache passes. That's why we buy insurance. I'll keep you in my prayers for safer journeys. Keep up the videos! Stay safe!

  • @mikebrandon3067
    @mikebrandon3067 3 года назад +4

    Good stuff brother sorry for your troubles.

  • @tassopolis1
    @tassopolis1 3 года назад +4

    You are so right. Trust the gut. Sorry you had to go through that.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +1

      Thanks Dave, It sucked but I've moved on... Never give up...

  • @JaysGotFrames
    @JaysGotFrames Год назад

    Thank you for sharing! About to hit the road and thanks to people like you, we get to learn some of these lessons early!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  Год назад

      So glad it was helpful to you. Hope you subscribed to our channels so you can learn more so you can have a stress free RV Life

  • @deanreinglas3679
    @deanreinglas3679 3 года назад +4

    so sorry you went through that God Bless

  • @Isaac-sj3jh
    @Isaac-sj3jh 3 года назад +3

    Glad you got back on the road again!!!

  • @herbprivetts8448
    @herbprivetts8448 3 года назад +11

    I came across your video, I’m so sorry this happened. Been in the same deal in Virginia. But I listened to my gut and walked the roadway and spot, I never would have made it. We left and spent the night in a truck stop. Be careful out there.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      Yes I told myself that evening thats what I knew to do but let her talk me into it. Went against my gut. Will never do that again.

  • @jamies9394
    @jamies9394 3 года назад

    Wow, so sorry that happened! Good message to always trust your gut feelings. I've learned that from experience.

  • @jamesmills4175
    @jamesmills4175 Год назад

    Sorry that happened, glad you made it through. Great message.

  • @jjschloeter
    @jjschloeter 3 года назад +3

    Sorry for your troubles...but thanks for sharing a tough lesson learned so we could all learn.

  • @bernicemiller2130
    @bernicemiller2130 3 года назад +3

    Wow! Bless your heart. That's awful! Prayers for safe travels from now on. I'm from NC about an hr. from the coast. We do have beautiful mountains. Always wanted to live in those hills! Enjoy your travels an follow your instinct, its always right!😏

  • @davidconaway2830
    @davidconaway2830 3 года назад +1

    Just subscribed....as anyone who can maintain their cool and sanity through a disaster like this, deserve my time to enjoy the videos. Best of luck with future bucket list events!

  • @roberteverett8688
    @roberteverett8688 2 года назад +1

    Great job keeping your cool. Inspiration to anyone who finds themselves in a bad way!

  • @jondonahue7163
    @jondonahue7163 3 года назад +3

    Well, as the owner of a MUCH smaller RV, I learned from this to tell my friends with long ones to be VERY careful about parking/driving on slopes, on anything not flat. And to trust your gut! Because what happened to you would for sure happen to me, or to any of us, believing a park manager that their innocent-looking slope was OK. Thanks for the video, and here's hoping you have a great summer on the road!

  • @donwilliams6879
    @donwilliams6879 3 года назад +38

    I'm new to RVing and I appreciate the advice. I'd be apt to listen to someone like the park manager over my own gut. Well, I would have before seeing this video.....

  • @TheKurtsPlaceChannel
    @TheKurtsPlaceChannel 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for posting this. I love all your videos too. Have a nice day now.

  • @MarcNeilson
    @MarcNeilson 3 года назад

    Sorry this happened to you! You sharing this is very helpful to everyone. I've also had good experiences with Geico, so I'm pleased they were able to cover your rig.

  • @thomasdipaolo2349
    @thomasdipaolo2349 3 года назад +18

    Sorry to hear this happened to you and your trailer. We arent full timers. So we have stayed with smaller trailers and we still have run into issues at times.

  • @roadtripsmargaritas599
    @roadtripsmargaritas599 3 года назад +28

    I feel your pain... I had bought a brand new rig and not even a few months old had a fire in it. GD determined it was their fault and gave me a new one-woo hoo!! It gets better. Good luck.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +6

      Thanks for sharing, Glad no one was hurt. Please don't forget to subscribe.

    • @fresh2k2004
      @fresh2k2004 3 года назад +4

      Makes me feel good about buy a GD product.

    • @muggywebster1117
      @muggywebster1117 3 года назад +1

      Scary! You are lucky to be alive.

    • @montanaelkwhisperer1744
      @montanaelkwhisperer1744 3 года назад

      @@fresh2k2004 really? Makes me think their shoddy work could be deadly!

  • @hairyyeti21
    @hairyyeti21 4 месяца назад

    thanks for sharing your tough situation.

  • @bernadenevanburen1521
    @bernadenevanburen1521 Год назад

    Glad you are back on the Road again! That's my dream !

  • @januaryoctober8618
    @januaryoctober8618 3 года назад +5

    So sorry that happened. Always trust you gut is very good advice for life.

  • @zalleywaalley8227
    @zalleywaalley8227 3 года назад +4

    I am currently building out a school bus, I am living in it while I’m building it. One thing I can tell you after 18 years driving truck over the road is that you are absolutely correct. If your gut says no, no is what you go with. I am so glad you got through it and you’re continuing on.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад

      Thanks for the comments.

    • @markiefufu
      @markiefufu 2 года назад

      I'm 3 years into my skoolie build and I watch all these videos too. I want as much info as possible to be as safe as possible when we hit the road this summer for a 2-5 year adventure.

  • @debracurrie3023
    @debracurrie3023 2 года назад

    I am so so sorry this happened to you! On the positive side you have a new RV. I know….not a deal due to finances, but I am glad you are ok. Wish you luck and we can all learn from your experiences. Thank you for sharing!

  • @rswfire
    @rswfire 4 месяца назад

    I really appreciate this advice. It's really important we not give into the pressure of others. Just because they say someone else can do it doesn't mean it's right for everybody. And every rig is different anyway so how can anyone other than you really be sure what is right for you. I am going to remember your words for years to come.

  • @confabulouscruisers
    @confabulouscruisers 3 года назад +3

    😲 Ouch, so sorry this happened to you. Yes, always trust your gut.

  • @user-ny2iu2ks8f
    @user-ny2iu2ks8f 3 года назад +75

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that and I would be interested in hearing what the park manager had to say after this happened.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +31

      She said "Oh lord" a lot

    • @woodsfanatic8569
      @woodsfanatic8569 3 года назад +12

      @@MyBucketListDay is she still employed there?

    • @justsayin6795
      @justsayin6795 3 года назад

      @@MyBucketListDay lol lol

    • @51-FS
      @51-FS 2 года назад

      I bet they took pictures to

    • @bloodyblade916
      @bloodyblade916 2 года назад

      @@MyBucketListDay , yeah she should of been on her knees praying to the good Lord above .

  • @kevinbirney4168
    @kevinbirney4168 2 года назад

    Good on you for not going on a rampage . God blessandhappy travels

  • @gordonpotts753
    @gordonpotts753 2 месяца назад

    Wow. I,m so sorry this happened to u. T.u. for sharing ur experience.

  • @EconomicRefugeesRV
    @EconomicRefugeesRV 3 года назад +9

    You're totally right about trusting your gut, We got in a bad situation where our motorhome was about to roll down a 150 foot cliff, not fun, but I managed to work at it for about 4 hours and got it away from the edge and saved it !! Glad things worked out !!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +1

      Thanks, for you too. That is a scary thought

  • @tkilg7169
    @tkilg7169 3 года назад +6

    Thanks for telling your story, and I'm glad you are back to normal.
    I'm glad I stumbled upon your video, because I have been considering selling our house and land to go traveling. We too often don't think about what could happen, and I realize that not having a house to retreat to, could be problematic. Perhaps we will keep our 15 yr old fiver and our house. I'm thinkin that we don't really need that shiney new luxurious motorhome afterall.
    Thanks again

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад

      Well I'm very glad my video, incident brought more clarity for you in your decisions.

  • @Iwillnotbepushed
    @Iwillnotbepushed 2 года назад

    Sorry you had to go thru that disaster. Thanks for the video. I watched it with my family. We just purchased a 37’ Raptor. Not our first RV but it is our first 5th wheel. We will remember your video and learn from the situation.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  2 года назад

      Glad it was helpful. Ended up getting a brand new one and all is good. Been a year now on the road..

  • @wildadventures4173
    @wildadventures4173 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your update story 🥰

  • @kevinwethy1411
    @kevinwethy1411 3 года назад +30

    The first thing that I learned when I first started towing was know your trailers dimensions and capabilities. Never take someone else's point of view as gospel. You, and only you, know how your trailer handles and if you take a look at a situation and it doesn't feel right go with what you know and to heck with the person that is telling you "Oh, we've had plenty of people do this". Ground clearance is just as important as overall height. It totally sucks that this happened to you and you're not the first RUclips'r that I've seen that this has happened to. Maybe the addition of wheels on the frame in the back may have helped prevent this? Maybe not in soft soil though. Good to know that everything worked out for you!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for you comments

    • @anthonylopez4998
      @anthonylopez4998 3 года назад +2

      For sure! If you have trouble with the size of your RV it might be time to downsize. For everyone’s safety on the road.

    • @garbageman1983
      @garbageman1983 Год назад +2

      I agree,at the end of the day…it’s s your rig,your responsibility,don’t give a darn what everyone says and do what your instinct tell you

    • @garbageman1983
      @garbageman1983 Год назад +1

      I agree,at the end of the day…it’s s your rig,your responsibility,don’t give a darn what everyone says and do what your instinct tell you

  • @237130
    @237130 Год назад +4

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. You nailed it on the head, trust your gut! It’s your rig, your home, your insurance. The park manager doesn’t have any skin in the game. God speed sir, I wish you all the best in your adventures. One day I’ll see you on the open roads or camping!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  Год назад

      Thanks, Looking forward to seeing you down the road...

  • @maryv7495
    @maryv7495 2 года назад

    Sorry for your troubles. Best luck for your future travels!

  • @honestspirit56
    @honestspirit56 3 года назад

    How terrible!
    I’m sorry for the nightmare you had to go through!
    I wish you success in your bucket list journey.
    May you be safe and relaxed as you enjoy all that our beautiful America has to offer…..g

  • @billfearheller4179
    @billfearheller4179 3 года назад +11

    Many of us out here wish we had your 'calm'. I would probably not taken her help as well as you did. I learned a lesson, and for that I thank you.
    Be well and stay safe,
    bf

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +4

      Being calm has alway been my MO. Keeps the hart attacks away and also keeps me out of jail. LOL

  • @scottjones4533
    @scottjones4533 3 года назад +12

    I kind of know how you feel. I booked a space in a park and knew I was going to get there after dark. Found my space and had to work hard (in the dark) to get my 34' into the space (between trees with trees on both sides of the road). Managed to get in with out hitting anything and no damage after about 20 minutes of maneuvering and getting out and maneuvering and getting out over and over. Next morning I got up and took a walk and discovered if I had driven around, I could have pulled straight in.
    In short, it helps to know where you are going.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +3

      This is why I never travel and park at night

    • @arthurkineard7356
      @arthurkineard7356 3 года назад +2

      @@MyBucketListDay At night I like parking at Cracker Barrel and then Walmart. If I have a spotter it is not so important at most places. The the word most is key.

  • @bpass5728
    @bpass5728 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this story!! Scary how little holds the backwall on.. St Armonds circle Sarasota, Fl

  • @compassnorth
    @compassnorth 2 года назад

    AH Man....I am so sorry that happened to you. Horrible ! It's one thing if it's just a vehicle but when it is your home....I can't imagine the complete hassle this must have been. Glad you're back on track now.

  • @stirfry1964
    @stirfry1964 3 года назад +8

    I'm a retired AC mechanic, when we would be towing aircraft we had wing walkers watching for clearance and obstructions. Even if the wing walker was negligent and an accident accurred, the guy in the pilot's seat or tow vehicle steering the plane was ultimately responsible. Sucks you had a crappy wing walker.

  • @dinosaur6756
    @dinosaur6756 3 года назад +19

    So lets get a tour of this new rig and get on with the adventures! Whenever you find yourself thinking about this debacle with your previous rig focus on only one thing: It was a life lesson that taught you to trust your instincts above all else. Then let it go. It took me a long time to realize that stressing out over the past is a pointless endeavor.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +5

      Stay tuned to the channel, Please subscribe and coming soon is some really fun adventure.

  • @barbarasisk3518
    @barbarasisk3518 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for sharing. Accidents happen, we all learn from them. I bet the RV park you were In when this happened will ask questions before booking and not be so reassuring to the next camper they will fit.

  • @WhiteFox011
    @WhiteFox011 3 года назад

    Good on YOU, for not giving up on your dream! A few years ago we were assured that our rig would fin in a space. and it almost did. But I did not feel a bit bad about wiping out their Duimp site for the space that they wanted us to stay in. We backed out of it and drove through the park and left!

  • @valerief1231
    @valerief1231 3 года назад +12

    Legend has it, to this day, Barb is still shaking her head, while murmuring “oh Lord” over and over, while flicking her Virginia Slim 120 nervously.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +5

      LOL, now thats funny

    • @janetholley1004
      @janetholley1004 3 года назад +1

      And having to buy those cigarettes took forever, " I need a pack of Virginia Slims menthol light 100's,... yea blue stripes 🤣

  • @doratheexplorerbegins
    @doratheexplorerbegins 3 года назад +4

    Oh my gosh. So sorry this happened. I’d say you learned a lot from this. Like you said; listen to your gut. Don’t listen to others. They have no stake in the game.

  • @pennyvance5633
    @pennyvance5633 3 года назад

    I appreciate your honesty! Sorry this happened to you.

  • @slowlanes23
    @slowlanes23 3 года назад

    Glad everything worked out. Pick up my ‘21 Momentum 399th this Friday. Appreciate the life lesson. Enjoy your journey!

  • @dragonbutt
    @dragonbutt 2 года назад +6

    I've never seen such a clean separation of rear wall away from the back of the trailer. Usually its a lot more... violent.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  2 года назад +1

      Yes, but it was still totaled

    • @happyrecluse2849
      @happyrecluse2849 3 месяца назад

      Love yer handle.... Lol His trailer was definitely dragging it's butt.

  • @Godofthemoon1
    @Godofthemoon1 3 года назад +13

    Your the only 1 that knows you truck and trailers capability. Since they guide you in and out they should be partly responsible for the damage

    • @Godofthemoon1
      @Godofthemoon1 3 года назад +8

      Don’t beat yourself up over this. I drive semi trucks otr many years ago customers would try and pressure me to put my truck places I knew it couldn’t go their famous for saying trucks do it all the time than you hit something and they act like you killed there first born. I’ve since learned I do not argue with people after 30 years of doing this I get back in my truck and I leave. They can chase me down the road all they want I will not wreck my truck or trailer for anyone ever again

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +5

      Yes, Driver 5, I've moved on and rolling down the road in my brand new rig.

  • @rhalloff
    @rhalloff 3 года назад

    Man, THAT, was tough! It sounds like you've found a way to lemonade out of lemons. I commend you. May the completion of your bucket list go smoothly, your travels and cares light. All my best, and thanks for sharing.

  • @charlesahon
    @charlesahon 3 года назад

    What a bummer. Glad you got it straightened out and back on the road,

  • @tangoindiamike9189
    @tangoindiamike9189 3 года назад +26

    ...and I was pissed off because my wife broke the tub faucet last night. This video showed up just as I'm about to go into Lowe's and get some cpvc and fittings. I'll have it repaired before sundown. When we think we have it hard, It's guaranteed someone else has it harder. Just for the record...this happened in NC. 😁

  • @raythehaulingguymignery5223
    @raythehaulingguymignery5223 3 года назад +4

    New subscriber here, glad you're back on the road.

  • @gfunk4014
    @gfunk4014 3 года назад

    I’m sorry this happened to you. Keep smiling and good luck to you from here.

  • @cherylyoung440
    @cherylyoung440 3 года назад +1

    I’m glad that everything turned out ok

  • @billwright821
    @billwright821 3 года назад +5

    So sorry you had that experience, however love the “trust your” segment it is sooooo true.

  • @rescueraver
    @rescueraver 3 года назад +26

    I understand having a big trailer and having all you want but bigger isn't always better. Sorry for your troubles

    • @RipperYouTubeOfficial
      @RipperYouTubeOfficial 3 года назад +3

      Smaller isn't always better either.

    • @loujohnson6143
      @loujohnson6143 3 года назад +7

      Bigger is better when a trailer is your house.

    • @RipperYouTubeOfficial
      @RipperYouTubeOfficial 3 года назад +3

      @@loujohnson6143 I bought a 40 foot Tiffin Class A last weekend. It's definitely better than a 30 footer, for me.
      If I'm pulling into a mobile home park with a bunch of hills, maybe my Toyota Celica would be better, but it's really hard to cook inside the Celica.
      Bigger is definitely better in many cases, and having room to live in, I would think so as well.

    • @jondonahue7163
      @jondonahue7163 3 года назад +8

      Well, no. Perfect is what's best for each of us, and we are all different, and there are RVs of all sizes. It can be hard to find what's personally best, though. I have an old 1991 23' Lazy Daze, which is VERY well made... but more and more, I just like going out into the desert and the hills near my Tombstone, Arizona in a small 15' Transit Connect. Go figure! As for his long, long trailer... what a beauty, an actual home with all the bells and whistles, perhaps with many ladies chasing him down the highway just to get at that world-class kitchen!

    • @fresh2k2004
      @fresh2k2004 3 года назад +5

      @@jondonahue7163 Well said. We all have different needs, tow capacities, driving and maneuverability skills, budgets, etc.. So much goes into what's "perfect" for you.

  • @gtfg3800
    @gtfg3800 Год назад +2

    Not even an RV'er but being a mechanic & contractor I sure feel your pain ! Seen so many videos on problems with such huge trailers it just does not look like fun to me at all ! Hoping to get a small motorhome sometime soon. Hope your having a better day today !

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  Год назад

      Thanks 👍. This was a year and a half ago and things are great. We have been in the new RIG (same model) traveling the country. We've just learned to better scouting on RV parks thatclaime we can fit. We never truse a RV park employee anymore. most of them have never even been in an RV much less maneuver one.

  • @davidishere255
    @davidishere255 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing so we can learn.

  • @leslie476
    @leslie476 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this video. More and more travelers need to bring these types situations to the forefront. I try really hard to read as many reviews prior to arriving at a particular park, however sometimes there is it not enough information so we contact the parks and hope that they are honest or better yet knowledgable of our situations with these big rigs. I see it more and more of these park employees are doing whatever it takes to get you in their park to please the owners. I truly hope that you took the time to review this park so maybe, just maybe it won't happen to others.

  • @djh3_88hinskey5
    @djh3_88hinskey5 3 года назад +36

    Have to say, dont look like the back end was attached very well. A few screws?? I'd be scared to load anything on the ramp door.

    • @rachelwhitaker4081
      @rachelwhitaker4081 3 года назад +2

      I agree!Smdh!🤦🤔😱🎯🙄😡😠😤😬👍👍💯💯💯

    • @dennistaylor5052
      @dennistaylor5052 3 года назад +3

      Glued and screwed, the ramp door is connected to the floor not the rear wall, if it isn't it should be. It took a lot of force to tear that wall off. Like the song says, "Always look on the Sunny Side", stuff can be always be replaced, it's just stuff. But I'll admit when things like this happen....It'll test your "Sunny Side"

    • @kevinschwinkendorf3202
      @kevinschwinkendorf3202 3 года назад +4

      I thought the same thing. That trailer isn’t very well built!

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +1

      Yes, room for improvement

  • @dangalli1
    @dangalli1 2 года назад

    You handled it very well, I would have been in tears...

  • @encontreunlugar
    @encontreunlugar Год назад

    I´m just getting ready to built my home mobile but I´m not run more than 16.5 foot, specially after see you video. There are a lot of things that I´m learning with people like you sharing their experiences. Thanks.

  • @TheRVDummies
    @TheRVDummies 3 года назад +8

    Look at the positive side through, You now have a Toy Hauler! We are so sorry to hear this.

  • @heretodaygone2morrowrving231
    @heretodaygone2morrowrving231 3 года назад +15

    Unfortunately life is full of lessons which generally are not fun. But keeping a cool head and being smart balances out. Remeber for evey bad thing good will come.

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад +4

      You are correct, for every failure comes an opportunity to learn and excel.

    • @Rogue_1987
      @Rogue_1987 3 года назад

      Lesson Learned....Ditch the TOWABLES!
      GET NOTHING WITH SLIDES AND LESS IS MORE! And MATCH the Correct RV for your needs and what you will be doibg with your RV. I think the GD Momentum is NOT a good MATCH for YOU. Looks like you want to travel alot and adventure, you cannot do this with a triple Axle 43 ft 18,000 lb Fifth Wheel..just my Opionion.

    • @heretodaygone2morrowrving231
      @heretodaygone2morrowrving231 3 года назад

      @@Rogue_1987 I have. 42ft 4 slide and I absolutely love it been everywhere the more you drive the better you'll get. No worries ! Van setups are nice but fifth wheels are more residential and he is a full timer.

    • @Rogue_1987
      @Rogue_1987 3 года назад

      @@heretodaygone2morrowrving231 I had his EXACT 43 ft Grand Design Momentum, shit box on wheels.18,000 lb triple axel Toy Hauler with bed over the garage. Things broke on a daily basis and I was doing it FT as well and wanted to keep moving every couple days. These big ass Fifth Wheels are not meant for that. They should be in the category as Destination Trailers because the more you Drag it around the Country the more everything Breaks and the more situations that you find yourself in like him.
      This is just the beginning, mark my words, if he thinks he can drive Full Time around the Country then unfortunately this is just the beginning of the nightmare. I was pulling mine with an Ram 3500 Crew Cab Dually with CUMMINGS Diesel and Aisen Transmission. It was not the driving, it was the crap was towing.
      Never Again...

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 года назад

      @@Rogue_1987 You'd probably poop your pants if you've seen where I've taken my 34' 2005 Montana Fifthweel with 3 slides lol. I've literally taken it up mountain dirt roads in Montana and Colorado. I wouldn't be able to handle a big 3 axle like this guy I'd have broken it the first day if it was mine lol. That 'hill' he was on (granted cameras make things flat) was nothing compared to what I've done with my camper but it also sits a lot taller and only weighs around 13k pounds loaded.

  • @TheAnywhosavoy
    @TheAnywhosavoy 3 года назад

    I'm about to step into our adventure of owning a toy hauler full-time living and thank you for sharing your video 100% respect there is a lot to be learned right here

    • @MyBucketListDay
      @MyBucketListDay  3 года назад

      You can do it! Stay in touch and subscribe. Love to hear how it goes for you.

  • @Papahoosh
    @Papahoosh 3 года назад

    Sorry to hear about your mishap, From now on going with my gut. Thanks for sharing.