Good Day to the Bonnicks...question..is it only me, who when the alert pops up..there is so much excitement....my dilemma is 1. Watch it there and then...2. Save it ...and savour smiling through the Vlog....Answer ....No.2...
As a Jamaican I would have known most Jamaican men don’t appreciate men doing their hair unless they are getting an haircut shape up or shave. They don’t like women to give them a haircut, shape up or shave either. Tonya did her best to get you an emergent appointment. She’s learning your culture and you hers as well. This is a great learning experience. Stay blessed!
13:10 People in Jamaica are busy as well my sista. Also there are salons that have walk-in policy here as much they do in Jamaica. However, Jamaica Is a little more laid back, and you're able to find what my past cosmotoligist teacher called , " mango tree hairdresser ," more frequently. Those are the unlicensed persons who you can pop up at random time and get your hair and nails done. But they're businesses in Jamaica where appointment is required just like it is here in America.
Tonya, I am Jamaican and I am dying with laughter. I don’t know how you can keep a straight face when he is talking. Pig wallowing in mud took me out. 😂😂😂
Kemar it's your mind!! If a man can be in your face shaving you and you aren't thinking what might be going through his mind then why can't you be the same when he is massaging your scalp lol!!
I love you both and you both inspire me! this is a cultural experience! and you both have to determine what works for everyone, nobody is wrong or right.
So what's the difference with a man trimming your hair and shaving your face? Isn't it the same difference? Why can't he do your locks? I can't see the rational. It's your mindset that cause the problem. Jamaican men thinks like that but they are braiding their hair and shaving their eyebrows like women do. They are behaving contradictory to what they claim they are against.
Kemar I'm not discriminating anyone people will always be people but keep your head in the sand same way kemar , stick to your culture Nuh make nobody make you change that, keep your chin up. 👍🏽
Nahh I would have never expected any man to want a man to do his hair good work or not that’s wild . I’m on Kemar side with this one . New subscriber here ! I have been binge watching the last few days . Tonya you are a true queen I love your personality . You shine so bright 💎 im a younger female taking notes from you . Be blessed guys
Yes I have learned from my guy some of the beliefs that most Jamaican men have and what would seem like "no big deal" to me is "something" to him, so I make a mental note of it and remember that we come from 2 different cultures, so we teach each other as we go💚🖤💛🥰
11:12 I've imagined it long time and knew you were going there. I guess it's because I'm Jamaican ,so I understand. See,cultural differences is a fascinating thing. Because wifey was simply doing something nice,she wasn't giving much thoughts to any of that. Because that's not apart of her cultural awareness.
Tonya I felt like Kemar before I make an appointment to see a gynecologist and when I turn up and see it was a female I walk right out of the office I’m just not comfortable with a lady gyno so I kinda understand him. At the same time you are not wrong with booking an appointment with a male. He should make it clean to you that he doesn’t want a male to his hair.
Hi I think your wife need to know more about your culture . Because that's a no no according to Kemar culture especially when you went and saw the place and the person action wow I just have to laugh but your wife means well.I think that she have learned her lesson.
I didn't realize how culturally important this was until I experienced it myself. My Jamaican husband would say NO WAY. I found that out when we went together to have a pedicure and a guy came to do his feet. He instantly got up from the chair and left. So I feel you Tonya but..... I understand now Kemar's point of view.
I believe a man or woman should feel comfortable with the person they chose to do their hair. This is a process that takes hours and for me I like to be a little stress free at the hairdresser.
I am Jamaican, and I totally agree with Tonya. A professional is just that. It shouldn’t matter the sex of the person as long as they are good at what they do. That is discrimination. If you are uncomfortable with a male doing your hair, then what are Barbers for? There really is no difference in my opinion.
Hi Guys, I'm a fairly new subs and love, love what I've seen. I went back a bit just to get to know you both. I've never commented before and would have gone on being a silent watcher but felt I had to say something when you said you were so mad at your wife you did not speak to her all day for not knowing you would not want a man doing your hair. That irked the ish out of me!!! I'm Jamaican and truly did not know this was a thing; but did you tell your wife? Why did you wait for the day before your trip to get your hair done? Now you're panicked and mad because she didn't know what you FAILED tell her. Then got your friends involved, like how come you did not know that, Tanya? Kemar, DO YOU KNOW ALL THINGS AMERICAN? I see her teaching you over the years with patience and love. There are times when we do not know what we do not know. She did everything right; research, etc and you dared to treat her like that; the day before your departure, I bet you did not apologized because even now you can't understand how she did not know this!!!!!! I can only imagine what that good bye was like and how she felt. I love and admire you both fr fr.. YOU'RE DOING THE DAMN THING.
It doesn't matter how good that guy is he could not put a finger in my hair, i would go with a lady who is not as good as him. JAMAICAN WE ARE AND WILL NOT CHANGE ANY WHERE WE ARE.
We are hear to learn sis. And what i said is not disrespect to any one but its who we are and thats what we will stand for. I learnt that we're like this because of our history and what slaves masters did to the strong slaves men who oposed them.
@@carltonrowe443 Carlton which law is that? Uptown people make appointments and downtown people work with each other, many have people come to their homes to do do hair and nails.
Tonya did the best that she could do to be fair but Kemar you coulda teach Tonya how tings go so she knows the code! Continue the journey of love and life together, we never stop learning no matter what, love and respect to you both ❤️
Every culture have biases and it’s good to have a dialogue with that person to get their viewpoints without forcing your beliefs on the person. Culture awareness and reflection. You guys made me laugh 😂.
7:19🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He sashay towards you, Kemar. Perhaps he happy to see your fine self. 😂😂😂😂😂 I know, I'm trouble. But Kemar is too funny funny. He said, " him a waltz a come suh Katania." 🤣🤣🤣 I think wifey set you up!
You have not heard the half of it. Real men go to Devon house and buy ice-cream in the cup. Don't go licking on an ice-cream cone. It don't look good. Jamaican's shun the very appearance of anything that look evil💯
My loctian is a professional with a shop and a family. He does locs, cuts, lining etc for mostly men in a barber shop. I understand there are cultural differences but I wouldna thought anything of setting an appointment with him. It's not hard to do locs, you may have to watch some RUclips videos and learn for next time Tanya. I feel more comfortable doing my man's locs if I have time, that's MY culture difference 😆 🤣 no woman massaging my man's head
@@thebonnicks it definitely takes patience especially having a lot of hair...maybe you can wash, condition, wrap it up and he can go to someone for the twist🤷🏾♀️ That's what I do anyway (when I dnt want to do my own twist), plus i like using my own products. And It's just so convenient to go to someone that does the locs and the lining (for my son). Anyway my vote is for Tanya, because of culture differences
13:10 lunchtime up,I'll finish this another time. But respect and love yo both of you. The goid thing is Kemar ,Tonya is open and respectful so you'll both smooth out the little rough patches. Hey, look at this way, it gives you guys and us your viewers something to laugh about. Because I laughed so just now, I forgot I was at work. 💜💜 P.s. mi still think you could allow the man to massage your scalp. 😂😂😂😂
I think your wife did a good job. 1. You did not say to her, you want a male or female to do the job. 2. Remember it's two different cultures. 3. I don't see anything wrong with a male doing a female or male hair it's a professional style 4. Males can cut your hair so a male can style your hair. Everyone needs to eat food. 5. A female did it and it was not to your liking and you waste your money not getting it done by that guy. I only have a problem with how you say the place was looking. I love you both, stay safe, and have a wonderful weekend 🙏🏽💓🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Kemar there is no right or wrong. She will not do it again, she is still learning our culture. She can book it again so give her a chance. I am on both of you side, she fires it out of love for you. I am sure she learned from this experience. I know you are upset but look at it that she is still learning. Love you guys. I am a new subscriber and am hooked. Kemar you represent us well, keep loving and caring for your true queen.
It's not that she is wrong...she was just trying to get your hair done.. Now she gets the message you both can move on forward doing the right thing....
love the honesty...you are a wonderful couple...you were not wrong because of your beliefs n good intentions but Jamaican men nahhhh.eventhough things in Jamaica changing now where some men wouldnt mind but its taboo for many
It is quite understandable on Tonyas part becuase she's viewing it from a "logical" point of view, but to be fair Tonya went to Yard very green, which is what makes her curiosity and love for the culture authentic and wholesome. JAMAICA has always been known for these things, if your not familiar with the "CULTURE" from jump there's things you may miss, here and there, Kemar "Memba seh" ya wife isn't one of those people dat grew up "de inah" Brooklyn enuh, so there isn't "a Winston, a Marlon, a Devoy", around her parts growing up lol. So it was a great example for you Tonya, and a great experience for you Kemar, continue learning and exploring, Toya just a suggestion look into the "Maroon" culture in Jamaica 🇯🇲, you will find it fascinating about a nation with in a nation, These free people that conquered British and gained independence. • 1 Fi Di Empress • 1 Fi Di General AKA Prez! Manners Honor and respect 🙏🏾
You learn something new every day lol I think Kemar should have made his appointment unless he had someone to do his hair and give tonya the number and tell her to make the appointment for him because he didn’t have time to call find some one to do your Hair on regular bases and have a back up tonya didn’t know she went on reviews it’s better to be safe than sorry lol
If Kemar never communicated the fact that men will not be doing his hair then how would she know! Tanya did an AWESOME job trying to get things done for her boo…. Kemar you really should have checked your email, BIG UP #TEAM Tonya💯💯💯👍🏽
@@thebonnicks yes you did and that’s what should be appreciated….. and now you know! You’ll never make that mistake again cause you love your husband … and I can tell!❤️ #TeamTonya
🤣🤣🤣Okay, this one had me laughing from beginning to end!! Tonya is not wrong because she didn't see a problem with it. Now, on the other hand, Kemar is ABSOLUTELY correct in his feelings. I don't know of any Jamaican men who would sit down and have another man wash and a massage-up dem scalp....and thinking, "ummm dreads long" 🤣🤣. NOT going to happen....straight up!! (no pun intended) 😎
Well, your wife didn't know your preference when it comes to who does your dreads. Now, she knows. We got an old saying here in America, "When you know better, you do better." So, she was not "wrong". She did what most of us (especially most of us girls) do. And that's book an appointment with the salon that has the best reviews. That's what matters to us; who's the best at what we need done. But, I understand there are cultural differences to take into consideration at times.
The average Rastaman or 99.9% of Jamaican men will "ROO" (Very upset) if they found out the person refreshing their locks, in particular is male...... In the words of Beenie man's song that popped into my mind ...."Straight prison". Locks is a spiritual thing.🙏 Still enjoying your content, wishing you much abundance. ❤💛💚
Come on back family don’t let the devil stop you all don’t fear man good people with good hearts very positive channel he was just speaking your truth Real life you did nothing wrong❤️🙏
Tonya, having a man shaving and cutting another man's hair is ok.. But to have a man doing more than that, oh no... Anyway guys, this video was very, very funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.. Thanks for the laughter🤣🤣🤣
I think it was just a big misunderstanding guys. I don't think neither of you were wrong because l can see both of your views but, my husband is jamaican too so I get it.
Well she is an American where anything goes, so she wouldn't know what some Jamaican men stands for and is not all Jamaican men would have a problem with him doing their hair.. maybe you need to tell her your do's and don't, she tried her best kemar go easy on her... Love you guys
God bless you Catonya... because you are very patient and understanding and helpful to your husband..I understand both sides..To each his own.. but I got your back because my husband is like that too.. Catonya just didn't know that a male hairstylist would offend Kemar as she explained she has had a kind of hairstylist done her hair so its not a problem for her...so she just didn't know..she didn't do it on purpose
Hey my favourite couple Toyna no way a real Jamaican will never allow a man to do his hair never Kemar yuh done know real yard man style straight female to do your hair
I had to laugh Kemar and Tanya. Jamaican men don’t like no gay man doing their hair, so it’s best not to book a man to braid their hair. On the other hand, they will go to a man barber 💈😏. Tanya had no way to know he was gay and many American women don’t be thinking like Jamaican men. We want to get the best person to do the hair. Gay men often can slay the hair, but she didn’t know. I say, even and Kemar can book his own last minute to see what happens 😅😂
Hi I am from a different island but no from Jamaican but live in the USA for many years. I have five brothers and I can assure that my brothers would have done the same thing. This was just culture differences.
I don't blame Kemar he is from a homophobic country I would leave to, go easy on your wife, she was not informed about how Jamaicans felt about gays she is from a different country where gays are accepted. This reminded me of an appointment i had, I went for a breast ultrasound and the lady called and said your clients is here then she mentioned the name. I asked her if it's a man she said yes, I told her I don't want a man I rather a woman she try to convince me to stay. I said to her, it's my choice to have a woman other women came to this country claiming they want only women so what is the difference when I asked for a woman. Then she rebooted the appointment with a woman quick and fast, I aways prefer a woman for that kind of service she also said you are booked for an hour I did not feel guilty at all.
Nothing is wrong. It is a job. Remember most barbers are men, additional styling is just a more advanced duties . It is a job so there is no right or wrong if a man does another man hair.
Hi guys, am a Jamaican and I do my hair myself, but has a woman am going to a salon I am looking for a woman hair dresser and not a man hair dresser, but their are male and female hair dresser are hairstyles.
Lol! Yes lord West Indian men don’t play those games, if he ain’t a barber it nah happen..tonya plz find him a regular hair stylist so him nah haffi go thru this. Love u guys
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 NUH SAH MEH LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS CHANNEL I AM NEW AND I LOVE TO WATCH YOU GUYS 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 KEMAR NEXT TIME GO TO THE AFRICAN WOMAN THEM THEY GOOD AT BRAIDING DREADLOCKS HAIR OR TRINIDADIAN THEM I LIVE IN BROOKLYN AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO MAKE APPOINTMENT
kemar you know I love you but Jamaican men need to get there head out of the sand there are a lot of men hairdressers and some of them do really good work and as long as you are comfortable in your masculinity I dont see why not dont discriminate ❤❤
What If you had a son and he turned out to be gay or bisexual . Sometimes God allows that to teach us a lesson . I understand where he's coming from but the guys wasn't gay .
Good Day to the Bonnicks...question..is it only me, who when the alert pops up..there is so much excitement....my dilemma is 1. Watch it there and then...2. Save it ...and savour smiling through the Vlog....Answer ....No.2...
Best comment ever!🙌🏽🙌🏽
Kemar I fall out on the floor laughing you are down right a true Jamaican 😅😅😅😅
True Jamaican👏🏽👏🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a Jamaican I would have known most Jamaican men don’t appreciate men doing their hair unless they are getting an haircut shape up or shave. They don’t like women to give them a haircut, shape up or shave either. Tonya did her best to get you an emergent appointment. She’s learning your culture and you hers as well. This is a great learning experience. Stay blessed!
13:10 People in Jamaica are busy as well my sista. Also there are salons that have walk-in policy here as much they do in Jamaica. However, Jamaica Is a little more laid back, and you're able to find what my past cosmotoligist teacher called , " mango tree hairdresser ," more frequently. Those are the unlicensed persons who you can pop up at random time and get your hair and nails done. But they're businesses in Jamaica where appointment is required just like it is here in America.
Mango tree hairdresser, love it!!
This day and age as long as the person does a good job, it shouldn’t really matter who the person is.
Tonya, I am Jamaican and I am dying with laughter. I don’t know how you can keep a straight face when he is talking. Pig wallowing in mud took me out. 😂😂😂
Kemar is hilarious🤣🤣
Kemar, Tonya did her best based on her culture..
But being a Jamaican, we know we don't roll like that..
I really enjoyed this video🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had good intentions but I know better now!!🤷🏽♀️😂 Big up!
Kemar it's your mind!! If a man can be in your face shaving you and you aren't thinking what might be going through his mind then why can't you be the same when he is massaging your scalp lol!!
This was funny 🤣🤣.Kamar I am with you on this one!! My husband and I are Jamaican he would have done the same 🏃🏃 no man in a him head!!!
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OMG, I can't stop laughing 😆
.Kemar's description of the hair washing
Kemar is funny and so dramatic😂
I love you both and you both inspire me! this is a cultural experience! and you both have to determine what works for everyone, nobody is wrong or right.
Thank you!💚🖤
So what's the difference with a man trimming your hair and shaving your face? Isn't it the same difference? Why can't he do your locks? I can't see the rational. It's your mindset that cause the problem. Jamaican men thinks like that but they are braiding their hair and shaving their eyebrows like women do. They are behaving contradictory to what they claim they are against.
Kemar I'm not discriminating anyone people will always be people but keep your head in the sand same way kemar , stick to your culture Nuh make nobody make you change that, keep your chin up. 👍🏽
Kemar is TRUE Jamaican. Don’t worry, he will never change!🇯🇲💚😁
@@thebonnicks that is it , ORIGINAL YARD MAN FI LIFE ❤️
Yo! I just found ur channel and binge watching.... Yaad man prezi funny yu f#&k... Keep the laughs coming....
Awww nice!!! Big up and welcome!!💚🖤
Nahh I would have never expected any man to want a man to do his hair good work or not that’s wild . I’m on Kemar side with this one . New subscriber here ! I have been binge watching the last few days . Tonya you are a true queen I love your personality . You shine so bright 💎 im a younger female taking notes from you . Be blessed guys
🤣🤣Awww thank you!❤️❤️
I agree with kemar however I love you both and Tonya is a real woman from birth.
Yes I have learned from my guy some of the beliefs that most Jamaican men have and what would seem like "no big deal" to me is "something" to him, so I make a mental note of it and remember that we come from 2 different cultures, so we teach each other as we go💚🖤💛🥰
Yup and we have to learn to respect one another’s culture.
thats good
Kemar, just starting to watch the vlog n u r killing me with laughter 😃
11:12 I've imagined it long time and knew you were going there. I guess it's because I'm Jamaican ,so I understand. See,cultural differences is a fascinating thing. Because wifey was simply doing something nice,she wasn't giving much thoughts to any of that. Because that's not apart of her cultural awareness.
That's right
No Tanya thats the first thing to understand about the Jamaican man . This is so funny . Mi naw laugh. Mi belly. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Tonya I felt like Kemar before I make an appointment to see a gynecologist and when I turn up and see it was a female I walk right out of the office I’m just not comfortable with a lady gyno so I kinda understand him. At the same time you are not wrong with booking an appointment with a male. He should make it clean to you that he doesn’t want a male to his hair.
0:14😂😂😂😂😂 Mi mumma! This is where culture plays a big part in one's perspective. And it depends on the individual and how open he/She is as well.
Yeah Kemar made me laugh, the part with the man massaging his hair. Tonya u got a good man from jamaica
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Hi I think your wife need to know more about your culture . Because that's a no no according to Kemar culture especially when you went and saw the place and the person action wow I just have to laugh but your wife means well.I think that she have learned her lesson.
I didn't realize how culturally important this was until I experienced it myself. My Jamaican husband would say NO WAY. I found that out when we went together to have a pedicure and a guy came to do his feet. He instantly got up from the chair and left. So I feel you Tonya but..... I understand now Kemar's point of view.
Yes I understand his point of view, even if I disagree😐 and I respect his culture and decision🙏🏽
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Tonya...welcome to the stereotypical Jamaican men 😆 🤣 😂 😹
Now that’s a mouthful Oliviene!😂😂🇯🇲
I believe a man or woman should feel comfortable with the person they chose to do their hair. This is a process that takes hours and for me I like to be a little stress free at the hairdresser.
Totally agree!! Team Tonya🙌🏽😂
I am Jamaican, and I totally agree with Tonya. A professional is just that. It shouldn’t matter the sex of the person as long as they are good at what they do. That is discrimination. If you are uncomfortable with a male doing your hair, then what are Barbers for? There really is no difference in my opinion.
Hi Guys, I'm a fairly new subs and love, love what I've seen. I went back a bit just to get to know
you both. I've never commented before and would have gone on being a silent watcher but felt I had to say something when you said you were so mad at your wife you did not speak to her all day for not knowing you would not want a man doing your hair. That irked the ish out of me!!! I'm Jamaican and truly did not know this was a thing; but did you tell your wife? Why did you wait for the day before your trip to get your hair done? Now you're panicked and mad because she didn't know what you FAILED tell her. Then got your friends involved, like how come you did not know that, Tanya? Kemar, DO YOU KNOW ALL THINGS AMERICAN? I see her teaching you over the years with patience and love. There are times when we do not know what we do not know. She did everything right; research, etc and you dared to treat her like that; the day before your departure, I bet you did not apologized because even now you can't understand how she did not know this!!!!!! I can only imagine what that good bye was like and how she felt. I love and admire you both fr fr.. YOU'RE DOING THE DAMN THING.
It doesn't matter how good that guy is he could not put a finger in my hair, i would go with a lady who is not as good as him. JAMAICAN WE ARE AND WILL NOT CHANGE ANY WHERE WE ARE.
True Jamaican pride. It was def a learning experience💚🖤
Nope! Not under a real jamaican law.
A male can only be a jamaican barber and he have to be straight he cant be a funny man. (Chichi man)
We are hear to learn sis. And what i said is not disrespect to any one but its who we are and thats what we will stand for. I learnt that we're like this because of our history and what slaves masters did to the strong slaves men who oposed them.
@@carltonrowe443 definitely a cultural learning experience.🙏🏽
@@carltonrowe443 Carlton which law is that? Uptown people make appointments and downtown people work with each other, many have people come to their homes to do do hair and nails.
Tonya did the best that she could do to be fair but Kemar you coulda teach Tonya how tings go so she knows the code! Continue the journey of love and life together, we never stop learning no matter what, love and respect to you both ❤️
Just to be fair🤷🏽♀️☺️ Big up💚💚
Yes yes yes. He has to teach her 👍
im with kamar...glad to see a man be man and have man vibes...
I am laughing so hard Kemar typical Jamaican 😂 love it.
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NO SIR !!!! NO SIR !!!! lol lol... Team General this time sista. Big Up much respect fam. Blessings and love always
Team General😩😂😂😂😂
Every culture have biases and it’s good to have a dialogue with that person to get their viewpoints without forcing your beliefs on the person. Culture awareness and reflection. You guys made me laugh 😂.
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7:19🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He sashay towards you, Kemar. Perhaps he happy to see your fine self. 😂😂😂😂😂 I know, I'm trouble. But Kemar is too funny funny. He said, " him a waltz a come suh Katania." 🤣🤣🤣 I think wifey set you up!
8:57🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lord mi gad. You could've allowed the man to at least part your dreads man. 😂😂😂
You have not heard the half of it. Real men go to Devon house and buy ice-cream in the cup. Don't go licking on an ice-cream cone. It don't look good. Jamaican's shun the very appearance of anything that look evil💯
That last statement tho💯
Love the organic Jamacian accent....that is or dat is..'di talk' when the Jamaican is NOT happy..OH dear..belly laughing 😀
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Real yard man no man round here
@@ruthlyndaley8244 🤷🏽♀️😂😂
Mrs bonnick it's just the way that us Jamaican was brought up it's how we were cultured but I understand your point of view
Yeah I see his point. I had good intentions tho🤷🏽♀️☺️
@@thebonnicks I know that you did
11:02🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg.... Kemar, weh yuh seh, nuh boy nuh fi ah shampoo and massage man dreads round here! Ah fiyah!!! 😁😁😁
My loctian is a professional with a shop and a family. He does locs, cuts, lining etc for mostly men in a barber shop. I understand there are cultural differences but I wouldna thought anything of setting an appointment with him. It's not hard to do locs, you may have to watch some RUclips videos and learn for next time Tanya. I feel more comfortable doing my man's locs if I have time, that's MY culture difference 😆 🤣 no woman massaging my man's head
😂😂😂 I have tried and it’s a lot😩😩😂
@@thebonnicks it definitely takes patience especially having a lot of hair...maybe you can wash, condition, wrap it up and he can go to someone for the twist🤷🏾♀️ That's what I do anyway (when I dnt want to do my own twist), plus i like using my own products. And It's just so convenient to go to someone that does the locs and the lining (for my son). Anyway my vote is for Tanya, because of culture differences
@@thebonnicks I forgot to mention, I'm loving your hair as well Tanya 😍
13:10 lunchtime up,I'll finish this another time. But respect and love yo both of you. The goid thing is Kemar ,Tonya is open and respectful so you'll both smooth out the little rough patches. Hey, look at this way, it gives you guys and us your viewers something to laugh about. Because I laughed so just now, I forgot I was at work. 💜💜
P.s. mi still think you could allow the man to massage your scalp. 😂😂😂😂
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Fire bun 🔥.....with man massaging the scalp😅😅😅
@@rosied355 😂😂
Kemar you gonna have to reimburse me cause I cried out my eyelashes😮😮😅😅lord give me strength I have all kind of aches from laughing so hard😅😅😅😅😢😢😢😢
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First let me say this is HILARIOUS..Dwl..but as an artical yaardie I have to lean towards Kemar ..suh di ting set ..bless up
I understand but I had good intentions, trying to help my man😂😂
I think your wife did a good job.
1. You did not say to her, you want a male or female to do the job.
2. Remember it's two different cultures.
3. I don't see anything wrong with a male doing a female or male hair it's a professional style
4. Males can cut your hair so a male can style your hair.
Everyone needs to eat food.
5. A female did it and it was not to your liking and you waste your money not getting it done by that guy.
I only have a problem with how you say the place was looking.
I love you both, stay safe, and have a wonderful weekend 🙏🏽💓🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
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Kemar there is no right or wrong. She will not do it again, she is still learning our culture. She can book it again so give her a chance. I am on both of you side, she fires it out of love for you. I am sure she learned from this experience. I know you are upset but look at it that she is still learning. Love you guys. I am a new subscriber and am hooked. Kemar you represent us well, keep loving and caring for your true queen.
8:19🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Kemar, you could put that one down as a culture shock being in America.
Yall funny as hell!! I love you two!!
🤣🤣thank you!
You know real jamaican man dont want no man fi do them locks...
She should have confirmed with you who doing your hair and if you are comfortable with the same sex doing your hair
It's not that she is wrong...she was just trying to get your hair done..
Now she gets the message you both can move on forward doing the right thing....
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Kemar mek mi nearly drop off the bed.
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11:24🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Woie! " ooh this dread is long." Weh yuh seh Kemar,might start have ideas about things. Lol. I can't.
I died laughing, hubby is a typical Jamaican man…..
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no man a play inna mi head fyah fi dat 🔥🔥
Team Kamar here … I enjoy your channel thanks for sharing your lives
Thank you for watching!❤️
Tanya did not do anything wrong. As I Jamaican I understand what Kemar is upset about.
It was a learning experience, on both sides🙃
I agree with you Katonya 100%
😂I’m not choosing, I see both sides…🤣
But I simply love the interaction between you two!
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love the honesty...you are a wonderful couple...you were not wrong because of your beliefs n good intentions but Jamaican men nahhhh.eventhough things in Jamaica changing now where some men wouldnt mind but its taboo for many
Yup👏🏽
🤣🤣🤣🤣 hi guys , Kemar you have me rolling, team kemar!
Kemar is hilarious😂😂😂😂
It is quite understandable on Tonyas part becuase she's viewing it from a "logical" point of view, but to be fair Tonya went to Yard very green, which is what makes her curiosity and love for the culture authentic and wholesome.
JAMAICA has always been known for these things, if your not familiar with the "CULTURE" from jump there's things you may miss, here and there, Kemar "Memba seh" ya wife isn't one of those people dat grew up "de inah" Brooklyn enuh, so there isn't "a Winston, a Marlon, a Devoy", around her parts growing up lol.
So it was a great example for you Tonya, and a great experience for you Kemar, continue learning and exploring, Toya just a suggestion look into the "Maroon" culture in Jamaica 🇯🇲, you will find it fascinating about a nation with in a nation, These free people that conquered British and gained independence.
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Manners Honor and respect 🙏🏾
Nuff respect🙏🏽❤️
You learn something new every day lol I think Kemar should have made his appointment unless he had someone to do his hair and give tonya the number and tell her to make the appointment for him because he didn’t have time to call find some one to do your
Hair on regular bases and have a back up tonya didn’t know she went on reviews it’s better to be safe than sorry lol
Team Tonya🙌🏽😂 I had good intentions!
If Kemar never communicated the fact that men will not be doing his hair then how would she know! Tanya did an AWESOME job trying to get things done for her boo…. Kemar you really should have checked your email, BIG UP
#TEAM Tonya💯💯💯👍🏽
Team Tonya!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 I had the best intentions! Big up!💚💚💚
@@thebonnicks yes you did and that’s what should be appreciated….. and now you know! You’ll never make that mistake again cause you love your husband … and I can tell!❤️
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Tonya, I agreed with everything you say. Luck for Kemar hope he was satisfied with the other stylist,.
🤣🤣🤣Okay, this one had me laughing from beginning to end!! Tonya is not wrong because she didn't see a problem with it. Now, on the other hand, Kemar is ABSOLUTELY correct in his feelings. I don't know of any Jamaican men who would sit down and have another man wash and a massage-up dem scalp....and thinking, "ummm dreads long" 🤣🤣. NOT going to happen....straight up!! (no pun intended) 😎
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Well, your wife didn't know your preference when it comes to who does your dreads. Now, she knows. We got an old saying here in America, "When you know better, you do better." So, she was not "wrong". She did what most of us (especially most of us girls) do. And that's book an appointment with the salon that has the best reviews. That's what matters to us; who's the best at what we need done. But, I understand there are cultural differences to take into consideration at times.
No it is NOT okay for man to do my Jamaican husband hair. She made mistake, forgive her. She know better for next time.
I love you guys!♥️
The average Rastaman or 99.9% of Jamaican men will "ROO" (Very upset) if they found out the person refreshing their locks, in particular is male...... In the words of Beenie man's song that popped into my mind ...."Straight prison". Locks is a spiritual thing.🙏 Still enjoying your content, wishing you much abundance. ❤💛💚
Come on back family don’t let the devil stop you all don’t fear man good people with good hearts very positive channel he was just speaking your truth Real life you did nothing wrong❤️🙏
We’ll be back, hopefully this weekend!! Thank you for all you encouragement, you always support!❤️
Kamar you sound so great when you be yourself. sounds very authentic keep that vibes.
Lol my dad is the same. Even on his death bed when he was in the hospital he wouldn't let the male nurse wash him
Kemar, I would run🏃😆😆😆...
I don't want a man to do my man's hair... Nooooooo way!
I was trying to help my man tho🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂
Your wife is righttttttt, wife all the waysssssss 👍🏼😍😍👍🏼.
I understand both of you ..
Tonya, having a man shaving and cutting another man's hair is ok..
But to have a man doing more than that, oh no...
Anyway guys, this video was very, very funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..
Thanks for the laughter🤣🤣🤣
I guess I know better now🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂😂
Tonya , I think he will ask you again. Because you now understand the assignment.
I think it was just a big misunderstanding guys. I don't think neither of you were wrong because l can see both of your views but, my husband is jamaican too so I get it.
Yes def misunderstanding and miscommunication🙏🏽
Well she is an American where anything goes, so she wouldn't know what some Jamaican men stands for and is not all Jamaican men would have a problem with him doing their hair.. maybe you need to tell her your do's and don't, she tried her best kemar go easy on her... Love you guys
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Tanya is right i understand you said the place was dirty so for that reason you shouldn't but I dont see anything wrong with it
Thank you! Team Tonya!🙌🏽☺️
God bless you Catonya... because you are very patient and understanding and helpful to your husband..I understand both sides..To each his own.. but I got your back because my husband is like that too.. Catonya just didn't know that a male hairstylist would offend Kemar as she explained she has had a kind of hairstylist done her hair so its not a problem for her...so she just didn't know..she didn't do it on purpose
True words spoken❤️❤️❤️
Hey my favourite couple Toyna no way a real Jamaican will never allow a man to do his hair never Kemar yuh done know real yard man style straight female to do your hair
Yes this was def a learning lesson. I respect his decision☺️
I had to laugh Kemar and Tanya. Jamaican men don’t like no gay man doing their hair, so it’s best not to book a man to braid their hair. On the other hand, they will go to a man barber 💈😏. Tanya had no way to know he was gay and many American women don’t be thinking like Jamaican men. We want to get the best person to do the hair. Gay men often can slay the hair, but she didn’t know. I say, even and Kemar can book his own last minute to see what happens 😅😂
Lesson learned but Tonya def would have let him do her hair🤣🤣🤣
Hush T, I have three boys and that would be their reaction. I would would give him the side eye if he had taken the service.
🙌 🤴 & 👸 .No 👨 to yuh ting my yute
Hi I am from a different island but no from Jamaican but live in the USA for many years. I have five brothers and I can assure that my brothers would have done the same thing. This was just culture differences.
Yup def cultural
🤣🤣🤣 He is so funny!
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I don't blame Kemar he is from a homophobic country I would leave to, go easy on your wife, she was not informed about how Jamaicans felt about gays she is from a different country where gays are accepted. This reminded me of an appointment i had, I went for a breast ultrasound and the lady called and said your clients is here then she mentioned the name. I asked her if it's a man she said yes, I told her I don't want a man I rather a woman she try to convince me to stay. I said to her, it's my choice to have a woman other women came to this country claiming they want only women so what is the difference when I asked for a woman. Then she rebooted the appointment with a woman quick and fast, I aways prefer a woman for that kind of service she also said you are booked for an hour I did not feel guilty at all.
Yes!!❤️❤️
Nothing is wrong. It is a job. Remember most barbers are men, additional styling is just a more advanced duties . It is a job so there is no right or wrong if a man does another man hair.
If the guy isn't gay shouldn't be a problem. She probably should have asked you first. But if the guy ain't gay don't worry about it .
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅. Jamaican men Don't play with man even touch them. And the Beautiful of the Marriage is that you're still learning each other💝.🥰.
Yes Jamaican men are true to the culture😁😂😂 and yes we are always learning💜
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I don’t blame you kamar. That would feel 😄 😅😅😅.
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Yeah tonya I see what u mean now.
Hi guys, am a Jamaican and I do my hair myself, but has a woman am going to a salon I am looking for a woman hair dresser and not a man hair dresser, but their are male and female hair dresser are hairstyles.
Well that's a experience that he will learn from.
Kemar is too funny😂😂
No sa, no eena Jamaica..No way . NO NO. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. A want dead. This a d joke fi my morning.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Ok, I need to stop commenting, but Tonya you husband is funny..remember I'm also Jamaican
Love it!!😂❤️
Yes she did a good job it's your culture which she didn't know.
Lol! Yes lord
West Indian men don’t play those games, if he ain’t a barber it nah happen..tonya plz find him a regular hair stylist so him nah haffi go thru this. Love u guys
Never tell a lie🥹
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 NUH SAH MEH LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS CHANNEL I AM NEW AND I LOVE TO WATCH YOU GUYS 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 KEMAR NEXT TIME GO TO THE AFRICAN WOMAN THEM THEY GOOD AT BRAIDING DREADLOCKS HAIR OR TRINIDADIAN THEM I LIVE IN BROOKLYN AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO MAKE APPOINTMENT
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kemar you know I love you but Jamaican men need to get there head out of the sand there are a lot of men hairdressers and some of them do really good work and as long as you are comfortable in your masculinity I dont see why not dont discriminate ❤❤
Exactly what I was thinking, especially of the work is good over a woman! Team Tonya🙌🏽🇯🇲
Got nothing got to do with discrimination.... We must respect people beliefs without forcing them to do things our way
Kemar is a rasta no man in rasta man hair more love to the Bonnicks from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Hilarious . He can tell a story.
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Kemar your hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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You did the right thing no cissy round here to do your locks 😂😂
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What If you had a son and he turned out to be gay or bisexual . Sometimes God allows that to teach us a lesson .
I understand where he's coming from but the guys wasn't gay .
No Jamaican man not gonna want nuh man a do them hair🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had good intentions😁
7:43🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't!