Kemar i dont think my daughter inlaw is selfish not at all she just like her own space nothing is wrong with that I'm soooo proud of the man that you're becoming just keep growing my son you can only gets better love you both ❤❤❤💝🔥
Kemar i love your Mom woman of wisdom she taught you well. I am also married to a younger man and you are an example please keep up the good work and let these wicked Jamaican men knows that there is still some good men around. Love you guys.
Hey Suzette thank you.i did the best i could growing up all my three kids kemar is my first child I’m so proud of the man he become to god be the gorly 🙏🙌
Love this 😂 Kemar speak like my uncle he is a real patois speaking jamaican and his American language sound so southern lol it’s too hilarious 😆 Tonya you’re a great sport! My eyes would have been rolling lol I love my personal space and when I’m in Jamaica my circle knows how I stay lol they know when to come around and when to leave me in my personal space lol
Tonya, I am a Jamaican lady and I agree with you on that point of personal space. Also, I don't think it's about being too sensitive. Sometimes I really don't like the tone in which some Jamaican men speak and vice versa. You both had me laughing so hard. Keep loving each other and laughing together for many years to come.
Kemar i dont want you talking about my daughter inlaw like that she's not demanding we are just miserable but besides that we are good people boy you got your self one of the best wife ever 💯🙏💫
I like guys ,I was in a similar situation with my American wife but unfortunately it didn’t work out ,and ended in divorce,il Always love her thou ,I wish you guys All the best ❤️
You two make me laugh...I love Kemar's response and I love you Tonya...the home cooking will happen, but there is also the need to 'kick back' enjoy that free time and NOT cook....
Hey you guys loving 🥰 your podcast. Been married now 1year to my love this past September 12th 2022. Married to a Jamaican too our experience is simular Lol 😂 So worth it. Can’t wait to officially moved to Negril Jamaica with my husband. Anyway Kemar your absolutely correct about Us Americans except your mis-understanding about space. Spending time alone is essential in all forms of relationships. The me-time is a moment to rediscover yourself, think, reflect and enjoy. Besides, specific individuals need breaks from everything once in a while; otherwise, they will break down. But it definitely should be explained why so you both can reason with one another
I love this Video I’m here cracking up 😂 Kemar is so authentic the real deal (Real Jamaican.) Big up yuhself. But still I would not give up Tonya for the world she’s the best and you compliment each other so very much
I don’t think it’s selfish to have personal space sometimes. It’s ok to share space too~ but alone time is needed. It may change for you Kemar as you get older. Don’t run from it, enjoy it, meditate during it, use it as reflection time for self. This is a skill hard to do if you NEVER have self time~ just my opinion 😀
It won't change I came here in the USA 1994 and I still don't care about no silly personal space. When I am with the family I don't want no personal space.
I think Americans are outspoken. Jamaicans tend to take their time and do things on their time. I love the way you both elaborate on culture differences.
You’re not selfish by any means,I’m Jamaican living in the United States and I do like my personal space as well a little me time their’s nothing wrong with that.
Love you guys!! Recently discovered you guys. Kemar is funny and honest. In regards to personal space, don't think it's an American thing. Lots of people are that way. I'm a pisces like katonya and I love my space too. I don't always wanna be around folks. I'm Jamaican living in the US and I agree with everything he said because I've noticed those things too. I notice many parents, mothers especially, don't allow grown kids to be independent. You have to let them be independent and if they have a little difficulty then you help them. Parents won't be alive forever to help kids so they need to know how to cope when you're gone. Independence is admirable. 🫶🫶🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸💐🌺🌴🪴
My son KNOWS almost everyone by name on our block here in the States!! In jamaica, you speak to everyone that you walk pass. Plus you may go to the same school or church.
I’m in the beginning stage of dating a Jamaican man. We have a small (6) year age gap with me being older. I’ve watched a few of your videos and everything reminds me of what I’m going through. Everything she says is me lol. I told my boo he will have to slow me down because I am go go go. I feel like you guys are a great example for us. Thanks
A well trained young MAN also groomed old school teaching he respects women to the fullest thank you Mom .i have four sons same teacings God's continued blessings upon you and family mom.
No you're not selfish,because I'm from the Bahamas and I'm the same way,I would only share my space with my close friends and family, and my sweetheart
Love you guys. I think every society, and environment determine the upbringing of a person. It is a society that gives all those cultures beliefs and thoughts. Jamaican society is more likely African society, especially in west Africa. Here in Africa, we live in unity, we eat together even with neighboring friends and family. We are concerned about every happening around us. Again, men always shoulder the family's responsibility and want women to agree to their authority. Thanks just my opinion.
A lot of Jamaicans r like that 2, my neighbors don’t know each other, we don’t c our neighbor unless occasionally when u going out u c someone & say hi, so it’s not only Americans, depends on the neighborhood u r in
Kenmar is telling it like it is - I was married to a sweet Jamaican man for 17 years( unfortunately he killed by car in Jamaica in 2017 ) but the unity and layed back but hard life is soooo Jamaican and what i loved - we are more self centered in north america( I am from Canada) just trying to get more and most don't know their neighbors - I personally like Jamaican lifestyle better! that's where I was going to retire! God bless u both love is what matters!!!
I'm a Jamaican just loving your channel and admiring both your energies as a couple. Some of us Jamaicans do love our personal space and can't deal with too much encroachment... Sooo wifey is not at all selfish 💞🙂
I felll right in with Jamaicans for some reason yet true there are differences, some are so funny to me, sometimes Yet here in America I'm from the South and Everybody has nicknames!!!
I love this video lol it was so funnny! 😂My husband is Jamaican and he totally agrees with Kemal lol😂 we were cracking up y’all are so sweet and I know we’re late to this video but we still enjoyed it and had some laughs 😂 blessings to you guys from Detroit!!
God knows it’s true. No unity in America, every man for themselves in America. It’s a shame😢😢😢. That’s why I love Jamaica. I’m married to a Jamaican man I love his family dearly and they show me so much love
"In the streets eating"........(dwl). Jamaican cook shops are thriving, thriving, thriving......so J'cans are also "in the streets eating", they are eating some meals outside the home.
As a Jamaican I think most Americans are very selfish it’s all about them, they don’t like to share. That’s called mamas baby boy.Pisces is my sign as well. I’m a very strict and a no nonsense woman. God bless your marriage.
As an American woman who has a Bahamian/Turks and Caicos Island man who's 7 1/2 yrs younger than I, this it's true what he's saying. I live in Turks and caicos and I use to be this way but I've adjusted. My man is a chef so we do eat out maybe on the weekends but I was also married to a Turks and Caicos Islands man for 17yrs and we lived in Miami and I cooked 6 days a week. I also had to learn to share my space because my man comes from a huge family. I became thick skinned years ago because that's Island living. I still do work on trying not to be demanding but yes Island men are laid back and not in a rush.
It's not selfish, sometimes you want your personal space. You don't want to hear music and the other wants music. I just want to be on my phone and the other wants to chat. Therefore time and space is important.
All that really matters is that you all LIVE each other. Just stay true to yourself..So what if the chick's fluffy..some like it hot and some like it cold, some like it in the pot 9 days old...💝💖
London is like that, we hardly know our neighbours. But in London we are more sociable than the USA. I have been 4 times to different States. I love my personal. space too. In Jamaica being called fat is a seen as compliment. I don't really like that. I don't like too much take away. I love cooking. What is in that chalice?? 😂 🇯🇲 🇬🇧
My favorite couple to watch😊 big up! I think it's ok to want your personal space...it's not been selfish...Mr Prezi 😊 many female like to have their Me time...peace and chanquil.
All of his points are valid. Tonya he got it right. 😀👍🏾. Hope you both get a beautiful home in Jamaica. My Nigerian husband think American women have a colonial mindset it was different for me, my family is very dominant I grew up this way. Thanks for sharing this story. Love your videos. ❤👍🏾👍🏾
Kemar i dont think my daughter inlaw is selfish not at all she just like her own space nothing is wrong with that I'm soooo proud of the man that you're becoming just keep growing my son you can only gets better love you both ❤❤❤💝🔥
Yuh dawta a grown woman not a child. And de bredren dun grow in his ways he is very mature
Kemar i love your Mom woman of wisdom she taught you well. I am also married to a younger man and you are an example please keep up the good work and let these wicked Jamaican men knows that there is still some good men around. Love you guys.
Hey Suzette thank you.i did the best i could growing up all my three kids kemar is my first child I’m so proud of the man he become to god be the gorly 🙏🙌
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I like when Kemal say girl .he is so right about people staying to their self no one wants to be bothered or get involve in anything
I just came up on your chanel and I am binge watching but I love you two together ❤️ 💓 💛 💕
Thank you!!❤️❤️
Team Tonya. Girl, u aint selfish. We all need our space from time to time. Nuff nuff blessings guys ❤❤
Omgeeeee I have laughed throughout this video. I love you guys!!! Kemar always keeps it 200 😂😂😂
Here, here for that 'chilling space' self love is NOT selfish...love self to love others...
Love your openness, and respectful delivery..
Delicate!! 🤣🤣 Sad, but yes Kemar is telling the absolute truth!!
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When u married u can’t b selfish every space around each other is precious.
I agree Kemar even neighbors are shut off from each other! It’s sad 😔
Yes
Hi guys this video was extremely interesting thank you for caring to share your lives with us 😊
Good video. I love y’all’s transparency and being open about your feelings and opinions.
Thank you❤️
Love this 😂 Kemar speak like my uncle he is a real patois speaking jamaican and his American language sound so southern lol it’s too hilarious 😆 Tonya you’re a great sport! My eyes would have been rolling lol I love my personal space and when I’m in Jamaica my circle knows how I stay lol they know when to come around and when to leave me in my personal space lol
I know that’s right🤣🤣
Tonya, I am a Jamaican lady and I agree with you on that point of personal space. Also, I don't think it's about being too sensitive. Sometimes I really don't like the tone in which some Jamaican men speak and vice versa. You both had me laughing so hard. Keep loving each other and laughing together for many years to come.
Thank you❤️❤️
Kemar i dont want you talking about my daughter inlaw like that she's not demanding we are just miserable but besides that we are good people boy you got your self one of the best wife ever 💯🙏💫
I like guys ,I was in a similar situation with my American wife but unfortunately it didn’t work out ,and ended in divorce,il Always love her thou ,I wish you guys All the best ❤️
Blessings, sometimes it doesn’t work out. As long as we do our best to try, that’s all we can do. All the best to you!
Tanya you have a husband plus plus he is an old soul like he's been here longer than his birth he is such a sweet spirit 💗 cherish one another 💖
Yes he does🥰
You two make me laugh...I love Kemar's response and I love you Tonya...the home cooking will happen, but there is also the need to 'kick back' enjoy that free time and NOT cook....
Bless up❤️
Hey you guys loving 🥰 your podcast. Been married now 1year to my love this past September 12th 2022. Married to a Jamaican too our experience is simular Lol 😂 So worth it. Can’t wait to officially moved to Negril Jamaica with my husband. Anyway
Kemar your absolutely correct about Us Americans except your mis-understanding about space.
Spending time alone is essential in all forms of relationships. The me-time is a moment to rediscover yourself, think, reflect and enjoy. Besides, specific individuals need breaks from everything once in a while; otherwise, they will break down. But it definitely should be explained why so you both can reason with one another
Awww you’re moving to Negril😩😁 Blessings❤️❤️❤️
@@thebonnicks Yes eventually. We have alittle condo there on the 7 mile. I’m there couple of months there at a time then back here. Love my Negril
@@wandagallimore7434 Love it!! Will be so glad when we find a second home there❤️
I value my personal space and peace & quiet too. That's how I recharge, so I can deal with the world around me.
I love this Video I’m here cracking up 😂 Kemar is so authentic the real deal (Real Jamaican.) Big up yuhself. But still I would not give up Tonya for the world she’s the best and you compliment each other so very much
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I like my personal space and I'm a Jamaican love you both kamar continue to love that beautiful lady you make me proud 💕
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Love the vibes, I think all ladies have the same thing like Jamaica ladies, big up you guys self ❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think it’s selfish to have personal space sometimes. It’s ok to share space too~ but alone time is needed. It may change for you Kemar as you get older. Don’t run from it, enjoy it, meditate during it, use it as reflection time for self. This is a skill hard to do if you NEVER have self time~ just my opinion 😀
i love the honesty and openess May Gods blessing continueto be with you both .
It won't change I came here in the USA 1994 and I still don't care about no silly personal space. When I am with the family I don't want no personal space.
@@movingforward2570 and that’s okay too. Some people don’t know how to be alone with themselves.
Kemar was on Jamaican time, when you asked him to get him some lunch❤️😊
Yes always on Jamaican time😂
Our time is late time lol
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I think Americans are outspoken. Jamaicans tend to take their time and do things on their time. I love the way you both elaborate on culture differences.
You’re not selfish by any means,I’m Jamaican living in the United States and I do like my personal space as well a little me time their’s nothing wrong with that.
Because I have either adopted their behaviour and yes some Jamaicans are selfish
Love you guys!! Recently discovered you guys. Kemar is funny and honest. In regards to personal space, don't think it's an American thing. Lots of people are that way. I'm a pisces like katonya and I love my space too. I don't always wanna be around folks. I'm Jamaican living in the US and I agree with everything he said because I've noticed those things too. I notice many parents, mothers especially, don't allow grown kids to be independent. You have to let them be independent and if they have a little difficulty then you help them. Parents won't be alive forever to help kids so they need to know how to cope when you're gone. Independence is admirable. 🫶🫶🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸💐🌺🌴🪴
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I wouldn't say that you are selfish Mrs bonnick I'm a Jamaican and I love my personal space
Love you guys…Kemar is so comical 🤣🤣🤣
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I really enjoyed the video .you guys are an amazing couple .love you a lot .put God first in everything you do .Bless up
Thank you❤️
Kemar, that’s not only Americans, ladies on a whole is like that, we want it done right away
I have never laughed this much Kemar is too funny
Glad you are enjoying!🤣🤣
Lovely video guys.Road to 1000 let's go squad.
950+🙌🏽
She is not selfish,nothing is wrong with alone time.
New subscriber... love the dynamics between you too. Kemar.. yu jus dead easy
Blessings, thank you❤️❤️
OMG! I recently married my Jamaican hubby and he complains about the same thing. LOL
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I’m going to Jamaica this week for the first time 🙂
My son KNOWS almost everyone by name on our block here in the States!! In jamaica, you speak to everyone that you walk pass. Plus you may go to the same school or church.
Yes!❤️
No you not selfish, I am a Jamaican woman and I cherish my alone time….. it’s really important . ❤❤❤
I’m in the beginning stage of dating a Jamaican man. We have a small (6) year age gap with me being older. I’ve watched a few of your videos and everything reminds me of what I’m going through. Everything she says is me lol. I told my boo he will have to slow me down because I am go go go. I feel like you guys are a great example for us. Thanks
Big up❤️
This was hilarious!!!! All facts!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love you guys😊
Blessings☺️❤️
So much of what he said was also pisces traits specifically matured ones .loved this. Guys me think me watch all de videos now do some more .
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A well trained young MAN also groomed old school teaching he respects women to the fullest thank you Mom .i have four sons same teacings God's continued blessings upon you and family mom.
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Un- United Americans. True. Jamaicans say Clean up the argument.
And we as Jamaicans grow with plenty family. One love ❤️ Jamaica 🇯🇲
No that’s about abunch of bollucks about American
Im just like her and im a Jamaican living in Jamaica...sometimes it can come off as we are selfish
That how it is in uptown Jamaica u might not know your neighbors. In the country side it different
I loved❤❤ this video this topic sounded like a conversation between me and my husband (lol)😅 you missed” your not at work
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Love the energy here it's good to speak what is right n wrong so then people can move forward blessed love ...
No you're not selfish,because I'm from the Bahamas and I'm the same way,I would only share my space with my close friends and family, and my sweetheart
I'm just tickled!!! 😊 I love it when people imitate the way we speak. I'm just waiting for Kemar to do the 'eye roll'... ❤️
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Love you guys. I think every society, and environment determine the upbringing of a person. It is a society that gives all those cultures beliefs and thoughts. Jamaican society is more likely African society, especially in west Africa. Here in Africa, we live in unity, we eat together even with neighboring friends and family. We are concerned about every happening around us. Again, men always shoulder the family's responsibility and want women to agree to their authority. Thanks just my opinion.
Yes totally agree!
I really enjoyed this video! I love you guys!
A lot of Jamaicans r like that 2, my neighbors don’t know each other, we don’t c our neighbor unless occasionally when u going out u c someone & say hi, so it’s not only Americans, depends on the neighborhood u r in
I like my personal space and am a Jamaican
Most of us like to bundle up
Tonya you are not selfish we just like our own space, my name is Tonya also...I see what y'all are experiencing different cultures
We are easily offended! And don’t be calling me fat!
Kemar you ain’t sensitive at all!!😂
Exactly😂😂
I’m not American, I really love my personal space & a lot of ppl do, it’s not an American thing
Tonya you are right everyone needs their space I think everyone need their me time like you said to be quite with your thoughts and regroup
Pisces are very sensitive its not what you do but how you do it! It's not what you say but how you say it!
That’s the truth!
I just love you guys, you always keep me smiling. Feeling the love.❤❤❤
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Kenmar is telling it like it is - I was married to a sweet Jamaican man for 17 years( unfortunately he killed by car in Jamaica in 2017 ) but the unity and layed back but hard life is soooo Jamaican and what i loved - we are more self centered in north america( I am from Canada) just trying to get more and most don't know their neighbors - I personally like Jamaican lifestyle better! that's where I was going to retire! God bless u both love is what matters!!!
Thank you❤️❤️ So sorry to hear🙏🏽 Yes Jamaica is life❤️
🤣🤣🤣 that’s you…”pick up the phone!!”
I'm a Jamaican just loving your channel and admiring both your energies as a couple. Some of us Jamaicans do love our personal space and can't deal with too much encroachment... Sooo wifey is not at all selfish 💞🙂
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No its not an American thing .I love my personal space too and Im a Jamaican .Love this couple have me laughing in this vlog.
Tonya, are u a scorpio? I am a scorpio and I love my space. I enjoy being alone and not feeling lonely, and I also enjoy socializing.
Yes Kemar you are the 🧍♀️
I felll right in with Jamaicans for some reason yet true there are differences, some are so funny to me, sometimes Yet here in America I'm from the South and Everybody has nicknames!!!
That is true too🤣🤣
Nothing is wrong wanting you own space as a woman you just want to be by yourself am Jamaican I like my own space
Whew!! Yes!!👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I love my personal space too 😂 it’s just my personality type. Don’t think it’s selfish at all
I love this video lol it was so funnny! 😂My husband is Jamaican and he totally agrees with Kemal lol😂 we were cracking up y’all are so sweet and I know we’re late to this video but we still enjoyed it and had some laughs 😂 blessings to you guys from Detroit!!
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God knows it’s true. No unity in America, every man for themselves in America. It’s a shame😢😢😢. That’s why I love Jamaica. I’m married to a Jamaican man I love his family dearly and they show me so much love
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I love u guys. He is so right about that. Wow I love it. ❤️❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸💪🏽🤣🤣
Thank you!!❤️
@@thebonnicks always welcome loves. ❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸💪🏽
"In the streets eating"........(dwl). Jamaican cook shops are thriving, thriving, thriving......so J'cans are also "in the streets eating", they are eating some meals outside the home.
True true🤣🤣
Lol, yaaaaasssss! Big up Miss Polly in Mt. Salem wi seh! I ate there breakfast lunch and dinner most days... ❤️
Because them do everything Americans do , them always a get box food.
Hey Kemar and Tonya have you checked out Jewel Estates Bog walk st Catherine?
It’s an older development so they don’t have any houses for sale☹️. I’ve been looking for houses and developments everyday and nothing😭😭
My child’s father is Jamaican, definitely needed to grow a thicker skin when I lived with him lol
As a Jamaican I think most Americans are very selfish it’s all about them, they don’t like to share. That’s called mamas baby boy.Pisces is my sign as well. I’m a very strict and a no nonsense woman. God bless your marriage.
As an American woman who has a Bahamian/Turks and Caicos Island man who's 7 1/2 yrs younger than I, this it's true what he's saying. I live in Turks and caicos and I use to be this way but I've adjusted. My man is a chef so we do eat out maybe on the weekends but I was also married to a Turks and Caicos Islands man for 17yrs and we lived in Miami and I cooked 6 days a week. I also had to learn to share my space because my man comes from a huge family. I became thick skinned years ago because that's Island living. I still do work on trying not to be demanding but yes Island men are laid back and not in a rush.
Yes all of this! Blessings💚
I enjoyed the video I always enjoy your videos you are a beautiful couple
It's not selfish, sometimes you want your personal space. You don't want to hear music and the other wants music. I just want to be on my phone and the other wants to chat. Therefore time and space is important.
Yup so very true!
New subbie and y’all two are amazing
Blessings, thank you❤️
@@thebonnicks blessings to you and yours
Good morning family my husband a Pisces he Jamaican he has the same Way He’s a Bonnick
Pisces nation! He understands me!😁
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No you're not selfish I'm the same love my space
If the shoe fits lol enjoyed the video
I do understand what Tonya r saying. Becuz I am just like her when it comes to my personal space.. I think we have similar personalities
So true Americans jus dnt talk up to ppl not like Jamaica 🇯🇲 we knw everyone lol
But when we woman live by ourselves for awhile we need our space, all loving and caring woman is senceitve.and very emotional.
Kemar West Indians on the whole don't cook Friday and Saturday eat street food. Americans on the other hand just eat take out on a regular bases.
I am Jamaican and I love my space and alone time very sensitive, its a woman 👩 thing
Yes! It’s a must😁
No girl, u r not selfish for wanting ur space, it’s normal
am Jamaican and I like my own space too myhusband complain that I want thing get done as I said it wish is true but only with if its important
All that really matters is that you all LIVE each other. Just stay true to yourself..So what if the chick's fluffy..some like it hot and some like it cold, some like it in the pot 9 days old...💝💖
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London is like that, we hardly know our neighbours. But in London we are more sociable than the USA. I have been 4 times to different States.
I love my personal. space too. In Jamaica being called fat is a seen as compliment. I don't really like that.
I don't like too much take away. I love cooking.
What is in that chalice?? 😂 🇯🇲 🇬🇧
Yup was just talking with my mother in law about how we Americans are offended when you call us fat🤣
I think Jamaicans have more fresh food available. I have food in my back yard . Pick a breadfruit and cook up some salt fish .
Food sound nice😋
Mrs I'm a pisces too we're sensitive people
I live in apartment complex in New York for 10 years an I never known my neighbors I only hear door open an close that real talk
You must have a live and have a topic on these 5 and you would see its basically same
Some American love to have people around
I just joined today I am binge watching 🎉
Blessings💚💚
@@thebonnicks blessings big up yourself
My favorite couple to watch😊 big up!
I think it's ok to want your personal space...it's not been selfish...Mr Prezi 😊 many female like to have their Me time...peace and chanquil.
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Sometimes we as women take this personal tooooo far. Just do not over do it.🐈 just like a cat.
All of his points are valid. Tonya he got it right. 😀👍🏾. Hope you both get a beautiful home in Jamaica. My Nigerian husband think American women have a colonial mindset it was different for me, my family is very dominant I grew up this way. Thanks for sharing this story. Love your videos. ❤👍🏾👍🏾