I was in an abusive relationship for years & throughout time he would demand I stop talking to all my friends until one day I woke up & had no friends. This happened slowly throughout time. I was so desperate to make the relationship work & be loved that I was willing to lose EVERYTHING. I am embarrassed & ashamed. What Skylar mentionee feeling is probably how my friends feel about me now, which is why I haven't reached out to them. I have finally left that relationship, however I know things will never be the same again to where I can reach out to old friends. 💔 God bless 🙏
I’m one to isolate myself when life gets tough. I do not do it as a personal attack towards friends, more often it’s to gain perspective. We all grow and learn and sometimes we have to remove ourselves from ppl and places to help see things from a different lens. You’re entitled to your opinion and reaction towards someone like that. But it’s poor judgement to think someone does it bec they never cared for the other person.
Reminds me of how people will put you through a crazy traumatic experience and then pop back up as if nothing happened and get *_mad_* when you bring it up
I feel ya on that, I have had family members like my mom's mother, and my bio-donor try to come back years later and I'm like "No, you should've been there when I needed you most and you cared less so no". Even friends that I've helped out who eventually turned on me and then a few weeks or a month go by and they are like hey how are you doing can we be friends again and I'm like no, you fucked up not I, that friendship we had is long gone, find someone else to be your bitch.
I agree.. take your power back from them.. Those are narcissistic ppl that feel entitled to your life when they get ready they come back like they’re running the show or something. No ma’am!. No second chances after. Moving on “flips hair” 💇🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ stay away from me
A narcissist hoover....probably low on narcissistic supply and you know they can't go a second without it, they need to keep stocked up with a whole hareem.
Needed this thank you !!! You are 100% dont let someone show you more than once who they really are it’s important to just leave some people where they are THE PAST!👏🏾👏🏾
You are so BEAUTIFUL, I wish I could find someone like you. Love the way you Carry yourself as well as the comfortability, confidence. Keep doing what you are doing.😘
I had that happen to me as well only to find out that he wanted me to come back because I basically took care of him when we was together I cooked all the meals for him his roommate and kids, I did the laundry, I cleaned the entire house from top to bottom, i made sure he had everything that he needed he wanted me back just to be a wife without the ring. After 3days I realized that, I pack my bags and left while he was at work. Oooo and he did nothing nothing at all for during the first time we was together but a Pepsi and a snickers 😢 lucky I had my own money.
Word and most of the time when a guy has left in the past and is trying to come back it’s because whoever he left you for ain’t work out. So no bby boy you cannot come back.
To whoever is reading this Jesus loves you and he’s coming soon! All you need to do to be saved is believe Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins was buried and came back to life on the 3rd day confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and you’ll be saved! God bless!
I agree! I always hate it when people get out of your life, and then, out of nowhere, they say hey buddy, and it's like, yo, a lot of time has passed, it's time to move on. I hate it when people think that you're just supposed to be the same person that you were when you were in high school, middle school, or elementary school for that matter, and yeah, there are people who, when they see you for the first time in a long time, and see that you've changed, and are like, why did you change? And the answer is, people are supposed to change. Everyone changes, and it's just crazy that some people just don't get it. Congrats on the GED journey. For some people, finishing high school when you're younger is the way to go, but it's not for everyone, and it's cool to see you on these shorts where you get to be super girly in your Classes, and good for you.
Please tell us the make up products you use. I am new to your channel but in love with ur make up. You do a wonderful job. Your foundation looks so soft and clear on the skin and always beautiful. Please tell us !😁
I feel you but sometimes u have to give them a second chance but you can’t just accept them right there and then you have to make them feel what you felt but go if skylar
my favorite way to say this is “if they shenan once, they’re gonna shenanigan” (bc of shenanigans. it sounds better vocally, but the idea should be understood)
I just have to say Sky you are absolutely beautiful! I hope I don’t offend you or anyone but I’ve been following you for a long time but when I first found out you were Trans I couldn’t believe it! You are absolutely one beautiful woman! I would have loved to look like you! BEAUTIFUL! ❤
I understand if they just want to see how you’re doing out of care, but even then sometimes people check up on you to see if you’re doing better than them, and to be nosy about what’s happening in your life
Me walking out of peoples lives because I self sabotage and have depression: 🤷🏻♀️👋🏼 Also yall doesn’t mean everyone who is your friend and cuts you off doesn’t care. Ppl have their own lives, don’t expect anyone to drop their life or issues for you. It’s ok to be your own individuals and come back as friends later on in life.
I definitely needed to hear this. Nine years and a failed marriage later, I’m learning to put myself first.
I was in an abusive relationship for years & throughout time he would demand I stop talking to all my friends until one day I woke up & had no friends. This happened slowly throughout time.
I was so desperate to make the relationship work & be loved that I was willing to lose EVERYTHING.
I am embarrassed & ashamed.
What Skylar mentionee feeling is probably how my friends feel about me now, which is why I haven't reached out to them.
I have finally left that relationship, however I know things will never be the same again to where I can reach out to old friends. 💔
God bless 🙏
Thank you for sharing- this is definitely something we should all take into account. Sending you good vibes and positive energy. ☮️🌱
Go off skylar!
I’m one to isolate myself when life gets tough. I do not do it as a personal attack towards friends, more often it’s to gain perspective. We all grow and learn and sometimes we have to remove ourselves from ppl and places to help see things from a different lens.
You’re entitled to your opinion and reaction towards someone like that. But it’s poor judgement to think someone does it bec they never cared for the other person.
Reminds me of how people will put you through a crazy traumatic experience and then pop back up as if nothing happened and get *_mad_* when you bring it up
Facts! I've been going through same thing! Exs & past friendships are season. Those who stay in your life are reason 🙏.
THIS IS THE MOTTO!!! I needed this today 🥺 thank you, beautiful!!!! 💕💕💕
You are truly an amazing person!
Amen, to hell with those who leave your grace then want back in, they’re usually users and abusers, IMO💁🏻♀️
Your not wrong. They need to fall all the way off 😂😂
I feel ya on that, I have had family members like my mom's mother, and my bio-donor try to come back years later and I'm like "No, you should've been there when I needed you most and you cared less so no". Even friends that I've helped out who eventually turned on me and then a few weeks or a month go by and they are like hey how are you doing can we be friends again and I'm like no, you fucked up not I, that friendship we had is long gone, find someone else to be your bitch.
I needed to hear this so badly, thank you!
I agree.. take your power back from them.. Those are narcissistic ppl that feel entitled to your life when they get ready they come back like they’re running the show or something. No ma’am!. No second chances after. Moving on “flips hair” 💇🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ stay away from me
A narcissist hoover....probably low on narcissistic supply and you know they can't go a second without it, they need to keep stocked up with a whole hareem.
Needed this thank you !!! You are 100% dont let someone show you more than once who they really are it’s important to just leave some people where they are THE PAST!👏🏾👏🏾
Skylarr you know thats the Scorpio in you. I can cut people off who i loved and never thinknof them again. I call it my Scorpio superpower
You are so BEAUTIFUL, I wish I could find someone like you. Love the way you Carry yourself as well as the comfortability, confidence. Keep doing what you are doing.😘
I had that happen to me as well only to find out that he wanted me to come back because I basically took care of him when we was together I cooked all the meals for him his roommate and kids, I did the laundry, I cleaned the entire house from top to bottom, i made sure he had everything that he needed he wanted me back just to be a wife without the ring. After 3days I realized that, I pack my bags and left while he was at work. Oooo and he did nothing nothing at all for during the first time we was together but a Pepsi and a snickers 😢 lucky I had my own money.
Thank you , I really needed this to hear it
I really needed to hear this -agree! and at 58, I’m learning (too late) that I don’t wanna dip my foot in that pond again, it was bad the first time❤
Sometimes 2nd chances are warranted, it just depends, tons of variables, its not black and white
Nope. Never ever. Your basically saying ‘ come hurt me again, I’m ready’..
DEFINITELY WELL EXPLAINED💯
Word and most of the time when a guy has left in the past and is trying to come back it’s because whoever he left you for ain’t work out. So no bby boy you cannot come back.
I spent years repeating pointless.💩 That got me no where and caused more harm than good. Exactly.
Facts 💯
I had 2 of my exes ask me for a second chance, these mfs were both toxic as hell. The second one though, he was desperate as hell 😭.
To whoever is reading this Jesus loves you and he’s coming soon! All you need to do to be saved is believe Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins was buried and came back to life on the 3rd day confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and you’ll be saved! God bless!
Love the makeup 💜
I agree! I always hate it when people get out of your life, and then, out of nowhere, they say hey buddy, and it's like, yo, a lot of time has passed, it's time to move on. I hate it when people think that you're just supposed to be the same person that you were when you were in high school, middle school, or elementary school for that matter, and yeah, there are people who, when they see you for the first time in a long time, and see that you've changed, and are like, why did you change? And the answer is, people are supposed to change. Everyone changes, and it's just crazy that some people just don't get it. Congrats on the GED journey. For some people, finishing high school when you're younger is the way to go, but it's not for everyone, and it's cool to see you on these shorts where you get to be super girly in your Classes, and good for you.
I totally agree because when I have given people a second chance they shitted on me again so yes no second chances is wise
Please tell us the make up products you use. I am new to your channel but in love with ur make up. You do a wonderful job. Your foundation looks so soft and clear on the skin and always beautiful. Please tell us !😁
It’s good that u right away set ur boundaries most ppl don’t rlly do that💅🏻❤️
Girly! You should make vlogs or longer content videos❤
You’re sooooooo funny! 🤗🤣
I feel you but sometimes u have to give them a second chance but you can’t just accept them right there and then you have to make them feel what you felt but go if skylar
It's NEVER the same!!!
Gurrrlll. That beat tho 💜🫶💜🥰🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
POP OFF QUEEN!
Yasss skylar u did yo thangggg
She's slaysss❤️🔥🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🖤🩶🤍🤎❤️🩹
I feel you beautiful
Preachhhhh❤
SLAY girly 😂😂❤❤
So True sweetie ❤
That part sis💯💯💯‼️
😂😂💯
Amen Sister❤
Yeah no second chances don’t exist, you have one chance to prove yourself and if you fuck up, ✌🏾 Your beautiful btw hon ❤
Big Facts Sky!!!!
my favorite way to say this is “if they shenan once, they’re gonna shenanigan” (bc of shenanigans. it sounds better vocally, but the idea should be understood)
Yes agree they want to go away then come back. True u will never look at them same. Things change people need to let go
You are freaking gorgeous, and yeah you are so right! What she said ya’ll!❤
💯I use the Block feature. Prevents this
Really real 💯
I feel the same way.😂😂😂😂
Damn sky you are so beautiful 😍
It’s a dude. Are you into men?
I just have to say Sky you are absolutely beautiful! I hope I don’t offend you or anyone but I’ve been following you for a long time but when I first found out you were Trans I couldn’t believe it! You are absolutely one beautiful woman! I would have loved to look like you! BEAUTIFUL! ❤
but Skylar meeting new people is hard
I understand if they just want to see how you’re doing out of care, but even then sometimes people check up on you to see if you’re doing better than them, and to be nosy about what’s happening in your life
You got the right mindset for that, you go ! Are we allowed to send you fan mail ? or nah.😊❤
I call it the spin a block I tell them to F right off 😂😂❤
I love you 😘
Always Evolving Go Sky ‼️‼️‼️
I hit the like button so fast
I thought you were talking about me
Amén ❤
Indeed 💯👍
If I was your friend I would stay your friend till the end of time
Its a dude
FACTS 😊
The title made me worry. Thought you meant us. 😂
Me walking out of peoples lives because I self sabotage and have depression: 🤷🏻♀️👋🏼
Also yall doesn’t mean everyone who is your friend and cuts you off doesn’t care. Ppl have their own lives, don’t expect anyone to drop their life or issues for you. It’s ok to be your own individuals and come back as friends later on in life.
Amen 🙏🏾
Slayyy skyy
SKKKKYLLLAAARRR❤
Amen !!!
I just ❤❤❤❤ you.
I AGREE 100 PERCENT
❤️❤️
❤
Agreed. ☺️Kx
💯❤
Truth is....
Good for you.
Yes girl ❤
Yooo I thought I was the only one that felt this way that come back be super weird.... huge side eye on the come backs ummm no thank you
You go skylar
PeriodT ❤
💯💯💯
Real, like just be gone. Depending on the reason
No literally ❤❗️
facts
Thats me aswell
Amen
I love you skyler
Oh. Your doing girlfriend things to me now 😂 lol. Okayyy, letting it happen 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
Thank you
Exactly
PERrrrrrFeeeeCTly said
100%
I agree 👍🏼
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🥰
Take care of 😅😊😊
Aman ❤
Okay💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾