Why My Channel Sucks Lately
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- A lot of you have been wondering where I have been... I really struggled with publicizing this, but ultimately I feel that honesty, transparency, and authenticity is always the right choice.
He truly was my biggest supporter, in life and RUclips. In fact, he was so fascinated with the business-side of RUclips that he would've wanted me to monetize the heck out of this video, but I feel that would come across horribly. If RUclips plays ads that is out of my control.
Dude your channel doesn't suck. I'm going on my first solo Vegas trip tomorrow because, in part, to your videos. I'm pushing myself past what I would have ever thought of doing because of your attitude to life.
You should know you have a positive impact in real people out in the real world. I hope you're doing well man, and I'm really sorry to hear about your Father. Your audience is here because of your authenticity and trying to give advice to other travellers. We will still be here for you no matter how long it takes for you to grieve the way you need to.
Grief and sorrow does change the attitude.
I hate when people say GET OVER IT.
No, work through it. There is nothing like a Dad and son bond.
I love your channel. That’s all sir.
Video should have been titled A Tribute to my Father. He deserved every word you said. Father and son relationships are everything. My Dad was the greatest man I have ever known and now I work hard everyday to bring the same joy to my son that my Dad brought to me. Your videos are amazing in part because your Dad was amazing. You are him. He is proud of his son.
Praying for you James keep moving forward your dad would want that
You're actually really good. Please don't be so hard on yourself. Your perspective, observations and recommendations are top notch. Sending an honest review from Vancouver BC Canada
I’ve been a follower of the channel and a follower of you since the beginning. The fact that you are a real person and not some flashy fake personality is refreshing. Thank you for sharing a small glimpse into your life and I think we can all appreciate the understanding of your loss.
Thank you for being you.
James, I’m not a typical RUclips commenter, however I felt compelled to tell you how much my wife and I appreciate you and your videos. We’ve been watching for years and you’ve inspired us to pursue travel and ignited a greater passion for adventure. Thank you for your hard work, resiliency, kindness, and desire to inspire us all. Obviously nothing can replace your dad, but throughout the rest of your life you will be the beneficiary of moments and reminders that you carry his love with you everywhere you go. I pray that this will bring a measure of unmatched comfort whenever you need it most. Thank you for what you do, keep pursuing your dreams, and safe travels my friend
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I had a dad that I felt the same way. Think about him every day. You gave me a few tears. I wish I could meet you one day. You lift my spirits.
Beautiful Tribute James. Thank you!
Sorry for your loss James. FYI....your videos are better now, than the past few years. Not that they were bad. You just keep improving. Hope to see you someday in Mexico
I loved the ending when you showed photos of your father. He's in heaven . Thank god you got the last bit of time with him.
Yes, noticed. We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for letting us in and knowing why you haven't been you. Thanks for sharing. May you be blessed with peace and happiness in your life.
Man I tell you what, there’s a lot of less than desirable people making content on RUclips. Obviously I don’t know you in person, but you really seem like one of the few really great and genuine people out here. I hope the best for you in whatever you decide is going to be best to put your effort into moving forward. Sorry for your loss brother.
You said that so well. I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my Father in 2022. I feel you my brother.
Keep striving and moving forward the best you can.
James how amazing that you’re able to turn something so heartbreaking into a positive! That says a lot about your character, wishing you peace and happiness ❤
So sorry to hear about the loss go your dad. I lost mine to stage 4 cancer 12 years ago. It never gets better but it does get a little easier as time passes. There are still times that I go to call home to talk to him and forget he’s not there. This was a brave video and I congratulate you on your courage and openness and the fact that you stay positive.
Watching your videos and traveling has inspired my wife and I we are going to try and start our own channel soon. We will be making our first video in Key West at the end of July.
Take care of yourself, stay positive and keep making great videos.
I am so so sorry mate. We don't know each other obviously, but this hits home and I am so sorry for your loss. You're a fighter and always keep it real, don't feel ashamed about having to go through what will be one of the hardest times in your life.
I just stayed 3 nights at the Wynn in Las Vegas. It was not my 1st time there but I went back due to your videos. Thank YOU!
This is exactly why you never judge someone so fast you just never know what they are going through.
Remember you are human stay strong. My condolences.
I’m so sorry for your loss man. I went through the same thing losing my father and it’s probably the loneliest feeling I ever had. Your parents are your biggest fans in life! You will never get over not having them but you will learn to think of all the good times and that will keep you going! He may not be on this earth anymore but he will always be with you! I’ve never commented on any of your videos but have liked everyone I’ve watched! You have helped me and my family with so many vacations and we appreciate you so much for what you do! I’m glad you’re doing what makes you happy and I know your father is looking down on you smiling! You my friend are sincerely the Coolist!
James, me and my wife are sending you our deepest condolences. Filming this video was an incredibly brave thing to do! I admire your vulnerability and honesty putting this out there.
Me and my wife LOVE your content, we stumbled across you a few years ago while looking to travel to the Dominican Republic. We've watched all of your travel videos and must have watched your Punta Cana content 10× at least. Following your advice, we booked our trip to Royalton Bavaro and loved it!
I'll add that we had our honeymoon in the Riu Palace Montego Bay Jamacia and was so excited to see you visit. We were over the moon to see you enjoy it.
Sending you some love, brother. 👊🏻💚
My husband and I I have watched you for several years. I turned to my husband a few months ago and said “Something is off, I think he is burnt out or lonely”. Kudos to you for pushing through. My dad just passed away too on May 30th after suffering from a stroke 2 years ago. You will never regret those extra months you got to spend with him and now he is along with you on your travels. God bless you in your time of grief.
Sorry for your loss
So I'm only a minute into this video but if you don't think your content makes a difference, it really does. I've talked to multiple people on vacations in Mexico and Punta Cana and so many of them have referenced your videos when they were making vacation plans. So, your content is definitely reaching people and makes a difference in trip choices.
Almost the end of the video. Sorry for the loss of your pops. Don't apologize to anyone for a lack of content. Take care of yourself first and don't ever have a hint of being apologetic for it.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know my husband was devastated when he lost his Dad/bestfriend. I completely understand how you are feeling I then lost my husband 14 months ago suddenly in his sleep. After 31 years growing up with him I need to find myself, joy and purpose as well as honouring his life 💔💔
Sending you love, brother.
You have provided joy to others...and I hope that you reclaim your light.
The very best to your entire family.
My sincere condolences for the loss of your dad to you and your family. God bless you all.
First and foremost, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. As a true supporter, we’ll be here for you and the channel REGARDLESS!!! Stay strong and live life to the fullest.
I’m so sorry about your Dad. I lost my mom unexpectedly 2 years ago so I’m happy you had a chance to spend so much time with your Dad before he passed. I found your channel not too ong ago and love the videos!
Sorry for your loss Coolist. The bottom-line is that you reach your highest point when you are in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. These are the most wanted/watched videos by far.
Just returned from Lopesan Costa Bavaro! Your videos are AWESOME
@@curleeque3703 Curleeques, do you think Lopesan is a good alternative for a couple or even a solo traveler? I want to travel solo one day and thought about Lopesan.
@@curleeque3703going there for my honeymoon. So excited!
God bless you
@@ElvisGarciaDeJesus-bl4cf yes! First day I walked around I told my husband this is a grown and sexy resort. The architecture and design is absolutely beautiful. Multiple pools restaurants and bars! Lots of trees on the grounds to keep you shaded. There are kids on the property but the waterpark is almost separate.
Thank you for the best vacation advice..As someone that took a Cancun trip last year after I lost both my parents,that was a rebirth and a reconnect with my other half. Our parents give us the greatest memories and coming from modest beginnings myself helps us grow. Keep your chin up. Heading to Punta Cana this year.
My wife and I are big fans of your channel. I don't comment much on videos but I felt compelled to do so now.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 14 years ago so I understand what you are going through. I hope the pain goes away and you are left with the wonderful memories you have had with him.
I really admire you. You are the BEST, my favorite travel content creator, and you deserve the best. Thank you for showcasing my country as passionate as you always do. Cheers from 🇩🇴, keep it up!
I am so sorry about the passing of your dad. He sounds like a great man and an amazing father. I was lucky enough to have one of those. It's also cool he got to see you live out your passion. Take the time to grieve and I'll be here for your next adventure. Thanks for being vulnerable and the update.
James, I'm so sorry. I always relate to you because I'm from Milwaukee. I live in socal now but we are still all one big family. My girlfriend tells me she can't believe how it seems like everyone from Wisconsin is the nicest person ever. It is wonderful you got to spend that time at the end though . My father grew ill, suffered from MS and was hospitalized. I was on my way out there but the medical team said he "was gonna be alright " . He passed 2 days later, not a day goes by I kick myself I didn't go. Then my mom passed in 2019 , in Houston in the parking lot of a brewers / Astros game . Not a day goes by I don't think of them. Thinking of ya man, always look forward to your videos , take care
Mama Coolist, you have an amazing son that produces incredible, honest travel videos that sometimes create friendships even he's over at another sunny beach. Our household went to Lopesan Costa Bavaro three weeks ago, and I met a gentleman from the UK while watching the sunrise over the party boats just offshore. About five minutes into the conversation, we both found out the reason why we were there was because of some RUclipsr that goes by Coolist highly recommended it. James, your content is amazing and it was so cool to talk about it with a stranger that soon became a friend. We're going to try to cross paths again next year from opposite sides of the globe. Regarding your father, my dad beat Stage 3 Esophageal cancer, and I get to cherish my bonus time with him. I'm happy to see that you had the opportunity to do the same. I am anxiously awaiting your journey back to happiness...keep up the good work!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad. May he live on through you. Have really enjoyed your videos and took a tip from one of your prior videos and had booked a resort a year out and saved some $ got an 8 night for what we paid for a 6 night this last year.
You’ve inspired me to self care. To have that dinner alone and not to feel shame for it.
You make me want to indulge and enjoy my life. I can’t stress enough, you’ve helped my personal mental view and perspective tremendously.
So sorry to hear about your father. All the love in the world headed your way my friend.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom almost 4 years ago and it truly sucks. Although you and I travel very differently I've found your content to be incredibly helpful in making travel decisions. Thanks for all your videos.
James, thank you for sharing this deeply personal part of your life. Your wonderful Dad raised an equally wonderful son. Sending you all good vibes & love & best wishes for the future!
You were integral when I planned my upcoming trip to Punta Cana. I'll be at Breathless in 2 weeks because of you! I didn't get a notification for this video, I saw it when I came to your page to look at your Vegas videos. You're helping me plan my first trip there, too. I'm sorry about your loss. Your channel doesn't suck. You do help people and make a difference.
So sorry for your loss James. Growing up, I used to dwell on my biggest fear of someday losing my parents. When those days came, they were worse than I ever imagined. All I can say is time will ease your pain if you let it. I really value your content and hope you find the inspiration to continue it.
I can really relate to this video! My dad has 4 stage lung cancer and is suffering on the daily basis. I live in a different state and dread a phone call from my relatives. My dad is on borrowed time right now. I remember my dad when he was young, tall, and handsome but he is very weak and sick right now. It is extremely sad to lose a parent and mentor! I am so sorry that your dad passed away!
Stay strong… my dad passed in March , he was sick but managed well on his own back in Ukraine. We video chatted every Friday but I knew that one day I will receive that dreaded phone call… he went fast and painless… lost consciousness, one week in a coma and that’s it…
What you focus on grows. Rightfully so, for the past 18 months, your emotional connection and relationship with your dad grew the most. Now that your focus is back on Coolist, because during good times you were consistent and invested so much, it will experience tremendous growth in the coming year. Thank you for providing entertainment, joy, travel data, and a community for us to connect with. May your dad RIP, and I'm sending good vibes your way.
My condolences. I lost my dad to stage 4 cancer in 2020. Was the worst time of my life. Stay strong brother ! Praying for you 🙏🏼❤
I lost my dad to cancer ten years ago, and I feel the pain and struggle to keep going. Appreciate your dedication to keep going despite the circumstances and wish you all the best for the future. Just remember to do what's right for you and your family and the rest will take care of itself. Your mental health is the most important thing, just look after yourself.
Because of your channel my family and I are planning a Xmas trip to Moon Palace Jamaica.
Thanks for your research
I am really sorry for your loss. My dad was similar and I lost him 20 years ago. It hurts like nothing else. Keep making your excellent content, we are all here for you. ❤
Thank you James! I was with you from 2k subscribers! Excited that you almost 100 K now! Keep doing great job and being honest! Thats what counts!
Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. 2023 I lost my Dog then my Mom and 2 months later my Grandmother. My best advice is keep going. Your videos are important to people; not only for advice, but some can't make it to these destinations and get to experience through your channel. Peace.
Giving you all the hugs! I lost my father too and he was also my best friend. It’s such a struggle but you eventually learn how to work with the grief. Thanks for sharing this. ❤❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone grieves differently and sometimes you just need to breathe. Your videos are the best! Your channel has helped me plan so many vacations.
Honestly I love your channel and your videos… I’ve been watching your travel videos for over the last 3 weeks. I’ve probably watched 20 of your videos in the last 3 weeks.
Don’t ever give up on your goals, your content is gold and your tips.
We all experience difficult situations in life.I lost my father at 25 years old and he never saw me start my construction business. I never truly realized how much he meant to me until after he was gone so I do understand.
Do what makes you happy brother, take time be with your family. Do you!!!! But keep in mind he would want you to be happy and succeed on your channel, that’s 100.
My condolences, Coolist. I personally can say you helped me have the best vacation of my life at the Lopesan resort, which got me through an extremely difficult period in my life last year. It was exactly what I needed to power through and get my mind right. I owe that to your recommendation. I wish you all the best.
My deepest condolences for your loss. Hang in there brother.
We watch every video, keep it going James.
First off, my deepest condolences. That is rough stuff, and I have been in your shoes. I lost both of my parents at an early age. My mother when I was 15 and my father when I was 29. I'm 55 now and it still hurts, but as you said, I was lucky to have been born in the US and had them as parents. I appreciated you opening up and explaining why you thought your videos were off, but you didn't need to. I wonder, and find it remarkable how you even mustered the will to do any videos with everything that you had going on. Kudos to you showing your personal human side. Took a lot to do that. Too tell you the truth, I didn't notice any downgrade just the length between videos was more. I thought it was just being tired from having that much fun partying, eating, and drinking all the time. Anyway, I just want to also thank you for sharing your passion for travel, showing us cool stuff, and your honest opinions. It really helps narrow down hotels that are out there. Someday my wife and I hope to take your advice and hit one of these hotels. That's if, like you said, the new 1 dollar still is a 10 dollar bill or more the way it's going. You are awesome at what you do and look forward to more. Keep your passion going, and take time for yourself to heel. Stay safe and take care!
My condolences. My mom passed away over 30 years ago and I still do not talk about her to others. It takes a lot to talk about this on camera for everyone to see. Wish you the best in your journey.
Your reviews are my favorite. I don’t care about the fancy editing and will continue to watch your channel regardless of how many videos you decide to post. Continue to honor the process of grief and we’ll continue to support. May your dad rest in heavenly peace 🩵
I’m so sorry about your dad. I have to tell you that even what you’d consider your “lousy” content, is good to me! Yours is the only travel blog i pay attention to. ❤ 4:30
So very sorry for your loss. We appreciate all you do. What a wonderful tribute.
your vids helped me book my first all inclusive, still my go-to channel for travelling.
Deeply sorry for your loss. Losing my Dad is my biggest fear too, but it is inevitable, sadly. Take time to heal properly for YOU. We will all be here cheering you on.
My condolences James. 💜
My father-in-law is in comfort care right now and I know how this affects your whole life. Take time for you and do what feels good for your soul.
sorry for your loss brother 🙏
Most of your followers on vacation. On your awesome suggestions
that’s a great point!
Facts I have had so many awesome memories with friends and family because of this channel
Great point💯
I’m literally hear right now because if him! Today I drank a coco loco out of a coconut on a paradise beach! This wouldn’t of happened without James’s ideas putting DR on the map for me!
Stay strong bud and I love your videos. You motivate me to go live this life
James, I am so sorry for the loss of you dad. I can relate in some ways, but it is not easy. Your video do not suck and you did your best under what your were going through and any of us that care and support you we all would understand. Congrats on chasing your dreams and your videos have helped us decided on a resort. I love your energy and honesty and care that you put into you hard work in every video. Looking forward to what is coming next. Your the best, stay strong!
appreciate you james!
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing and allowing your followers to support you!
God bless you James. Family first, always. Love your videos & have used many of your recommendations on my own trips. I think your content is awesome!
My wife and I have enjoyed your videos for years now and it has helped our planning, hotel selection etc. When at the hotel, my wife even asks are you going to try that drink that Coolist had in the video? We also re-watch videos months after we visit a particular hotel and reminisce about the pool, room and foods as you visit them. This was a touching video, thanks for sharing that part of yourself with us. I know it won't be easy when this day comes for me and I will have pretty big shoes to fill as well. I appreciate you sharing that deep, human side of yourself. We are here to support you and can't wait for the new content whenever you're ready!
So very sorry for your loss! I have lost both my parents and in-laws. Everyone grieves differently. Prayers that days will become better and wonderful memories will prevail 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sorry to hear what u are going through.Stay positive and u have a great channel.
Well damn. I'm watching this through blurred vision. I lost my dad in 2020. It was swift and brutal - three months from the time we found out until the time he took his last breath. I'm sorry to say, it still hurts every day. It sounds like we had similar relationships with our fathers. My condolences, James.
Take things one day at a time James. It never goes away, but it does get better with time. You had a great father it sounds like, and one day you will pass on the lessons he passed on to you. That is the beauty of having that kind of dad. His light and wisdom lives on in you. Peace to you as you walk this journey man. Been there and I feel your pain.
My condolences Coolist. I know it’s been tough loosing your dad. You’re amazing and thank you for sharing this with us. I love your content and I’m glad you’re rejoining the platform.
So much respect for you for opening up. I lost my Mother to Cancer 5 years ago last Wednesday, I know she is with me all of the time as your Father will be. Followed you avidly for 2 and a half years now. Looking forward to many more. Respect James 😊❤
Much love brutha❤ Ty for your vulnerability 🙏🏼
Take a break bro, everybody needs it even if you are every time in paradise but hey no for to long, your videos are so amazing and your life is amazing. I will do anything for have it.
The algorithm has not failed me. You do pop up in my feed.
18 months? I found you within that time. I came for the travel advise, but you stayed for the human connection that we all sorely lack. Don't be so quick to discount that.
I'm sending you the biggest digital hug, handshake, whatever...
Find some stillness. Reflect. Appreciate.
Thank you for what you do. You've made a difference in my life and others. No matter how big or small.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend my mom September 2022 and went on vacation July 2023 with my friends for my first birthday without her on this earth. And although I enjoyed my friends. There was a part of me, still a part of me today that will forever be sad. I try to live in the moment. Let myself cry when it comes, but I continue to make good memories bc I know that's what she would have wanted. Prayers to you. Grief is a life long journey 🙏🏾
Prayers my guy, thanks for the transparcy and inspiration
I'm sorry for your loss. A beautiful inspiring message. Keep going, brother 💪 you are an amazing content creator and more amazing human. God bless you!
Sorry for your loss James, sending love and light from Ireland 🫶 your videos have shaped so much of my luxury travel, so thank you 🙏
I totally get how you feel. I lost my Mom six years ago unexpectedly and it's tough. Talking about it, like you did, will help you get back on your happy path. I appreciate your videos, especially the ones about Punta Cana as we are thinking of going there soon. I like to be informed and you do a great job! Keep it up!!
Sending you lots of love James. Sorry to know you arn't feeling the best on the inside. Also sorry for your loss. Thank you for everything you do! I understand burnout too well... I hope you find personal some peace. 💞 You deserve it! We appreciate you!!!
Your on point. Been there before. Be happy and most of all, enjoy every sandwich (zevon).
James, this is emotional on so many levels. I wish the best. You are so talented, love your content!
Oh man you just made me cry so hard and then the pictures at the end...so sad and yet so happy because you can see the joy in your face when you are around them. So tough cuz it makes me think of losing my own parents and how hard it will be. This is my 1st time commenting on your stuff although I have been watching you for a long time and have watched your videos numerous times. You travel and have the same interests as my husband and I, so I know I'm getting honest like-minded content when I watch your videos. We are set to go to Royalton Chic Cancun in December and so excited that I have watched that video, Royalton Punta Cana, and the comparison videos so much lately its crazy! Thank you for your content and for keeping going...it sounds like this has been a rough year and half for you and yet you still put on your game face and get done what you need to. Thank you for being you and hope you find inner peace! Sending good vibes your way!
You've been putting your best foot forward and we all appreciate it, big hug , it gets easier is all I can say ❤
Thank you for efforts during such hard times. You have been a key reason in my grown family becoming closer. I use your content to guide my travel decisions. We went from never traveling to traveling together several times a year. You're appreciated, stay honest, we will be here for you. God Bless
My wife and I are both battling cancer and have for 2 years. We have been married since 1982.
I find your channel to be therapy (and have been following you since 2022 or so) as we can’t physically travel like you anymore. We are going to head up CA Hwy 395 to the California High Sierras and Tahoe this week. Please keep going as you can.
Condolences to you Coolist, beautifully said and we are here for you. Looking forward to you getting a second wind and the great informative videos. You are the BEST, great energy and giving us the most information, especially for us that don't travel a lot.
Sincere condolences. I really appreciate your honesty and genuineness.
Allow yourself to grieve and process. I was in a very dark place after my mom's passing. Everyone handles grief differently. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Sorry for the loss of your father. Your channel has contributed to several great trips I've taken my family on. Keep it up man. The world needs more like you. Take care.
NOPE!! Your channel will NEVER suck! Now let me finish watching the rest of this non-sucking video🤩😂
Hi James!
My husband and I have watched your videos for over a year now. This video hit hard. We lost my FIL Feb 2023. We relate to everything you said. We laughed when you mentioned the projects in Harlem- it’s where my husband was raised. We are so sorry for the loss of your dad. It was beautiful to see his pictures at the end. This video was a great reminder of how lucky we are. I wish I could say more and more eloquently but my watering eyes won’t allow it.
Looking forward to seeing more content.
James SR is smiling down.
Sorry for your loss James, I get it completely. Losing a parent or loved one will always change your life. I have been through this as well and time will heal all.
James, it was really refreshing seeing a more personal side. Much love as you go through the process of grieving. So much of what you said rang true for me in the loss of my father. My description would have paralleled yours. It is a gift to him for you to find your joy again.
Great tribute, Sorry for your loss Coolist.... "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times. if one only remembers to turn on the light" Dumbledore
Sorry for your loss, it’s gotta be tough on you.
We have booked many a holiday just based on your content. Keep it going, things will get easier.