Joy, please do not pay attention to those who leave malicious comments, I want to tell you that I am your most ordinary viewer from Russia and even the language barrier does not prevent me from watching your videos. Whether you are sad or having fun, but you always radiate an incredible craving for life. It's amazing. Any of your videos charges me with optimism and strength. May you be all right!❤
I hope your eyes start to improve and the pain stops. You've been such an inspiration for me when I was going through a hard time! You do what makes you happy.
Oh, and I just wanted to add, I have one prosthetic eye, my eye was removed when I was three so to me, it’s not a big deal, but I guess if I grew up having both eyes, maybe I would feel different. Either way, I hope your pain gets better and you get whichever outcome is best for your mental health and physical health.
I have been a subscriber of yours for years now, and I honestly see no difference when it comes to the way you dress, and your approach to fashion. Any negative comments, I honestly feel like it comes from the fact that you got a boob job. It's really crappy how a woman who is more flat chested can wear low cut tops, and no one cares, but as soon as someone who is well-endowed does the same thing, it's suddenly scandalous. Don't even get me started on the ethics behind how society treats people with breasts, and how it's THEIR job to cover up for the sake of others. Like, get over yourself. I can't believe in 2023, in a progressive country, people are still slut-shaming. Being offended by how other's dress is their problem, not yours. You don't owe them anything.
25:28 is where she talks about why she changed the way she dresses and I have to say, Joy you are 1,000 percent correct. Continue making yourself happy, dress how you want. I can't believe anyone would say mean things to this lady or anyone else for that matter for how they choose to dress and live.
Hi Joy. I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a while. First off I have to say that the fact that your husband photographs you as well as chooses the pictures you post is sexy in itself. I think it’s wonderful how supportive he is and it’s wonderful how supportive your girls are. Honestly, the only kind of little thing I saw a bit before you moved into your own apartment for a little while is that it seemed like may be you were getting a bit more serious. Like your depression started showing through the screen a little bit. I could tell that, you wanted to see more than what you were saying, and I could tell that you wanted to do more than what you were doing but you were second-guessing yourself. I could tell that your family sometimes didn’t want to be in your videos and it made the Vlogs a little bit awkward. But I never really saw that you were trying to be somebody you weren’t. I think it’s interesting that some people are saying that. You’ve been posting pictures of yourself, long before you went through this transformation of sorts. I’m going to say long before you evolved because of humans we evolved as life goes on and as we grow, and as we learn. maybe you weren’t posting a lot of bikini photos but honestly what you’re doing is not anything anybody should be so shocked about. All of this to say that I’m very proud of you and I’m very proud of where you are in your life. I am very happy, truly, for you and your husband. As someone who has been totally blind from birth with no light perception at all, even, I know how hard it is to have that fear of showing another side of you that you love because you’re so afraid of judgment and rejection. But slowly, and surely I have learned that people are going to judge you regardless. I don’t like it when people try to be some thing they’re not, but I truly never thought that of you. if I saw it at one point, it was brief. I’ve also learned that you can do almost anything when you have a wonderful and beautiful support system behind you; and you have that. You are truly blessed and I am very proud of you.
your strength gives me strength every time i come here. been dealing with chronic pain the last year. it can be so draining some days. thanks for all you do.
My dearest joy, I can’t believe you had to make this post on your video. I found your videos a few years back, and I just loved watching them so much seeing all of the joy and the pleasure you got from going shopping or singing with your girls, or being with your family. My favorite one was when you were vacuuming your staircase. Then we had 2020. December 25, 2019. My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I am mediately flew up to New York leaving my family in North Carolina so I can take care of my mom. This truly was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life thus far. I remember being in the hospital while my mother was sleeping, and I would watch your videos. Every one of them meant so much to me. Even the one when you explained that you were being separated from your husband. I thought to myself, this woman is the truest of fighters, the bravest of all of us. I thank you for that. I especially loved when after you got your breast implant surgery. I thought holy cow. This woman is amazing! She really knows who she is. I say you keep doing what you’re doing. You know everything that you have been through and you are incredible for it. I hope you know that.❤️⭐️⭐️
I also have chronic pain. Mine is quite severe, and have been through the eye pain journey as well. I have finally gotten that part beat, but the chronic pain and the mental struggles are with me daily. Just keep on keeping it real. -Saoirse, West Belfast, NI
I have prosthetic eye and it moves just as good as my real eye. And when I go to the eye doctor they don't realize unless it's wrote down or I say something that it is prosthetic.
Hey Joy! I have been watching your videos for years. I’m totally blind too. my right eye is a prosthetic. I love your new stronger healthier srlf image and the more open and honesrt representation of your authentic self. People like to lump us all into a box as blind or disabled and then can’t accept when we aren’t what they think “blind” should look like. But we are all individual people that also just happen to be blind. I love fashion too. I also love to make pottery and play with my pet rats. I also love to feel cute and sexy we are all smart brautiful people just trying to do our best and to find the joy and happiness in life. I’m so happy your relationships are healthier and stronger now. Relationships take work, and not everyone understands that with therapy, hard work and better communication we learn to be better for our family and friends. We come out stronger. This is already too long lol and my cat is trying to takr over the keyboard. Good luck in your guide dog quest. I have a dog from a small east coast school. .
I've been following you for years and I don't see your change as a bad thing. I see it as metamorphosis caused by the world locking down, we all changed for better or worse. As for your husband, your followers should know that he was never in the spotlight to begin with. Sending you love and praying for your eyes 💜
Joy don't worry about what people think. Do what makes you happy. We all love you girl. Stay strong, you have an amazing attitude. Keep smiling pretty lady.
Hi joy its barry from the UK again,i am sorry your having all these eye problems! Being deaf i cannot hear what your saying but i could see you looked tearful,your right you dont want to lose those eyes incase something can be done down the line,they are a part of you! Is there a way you could have an eye transplant & see again? As for your hearing aids,you are deaf so they will aid you! Nobody can see them even with your hair tied back! Also you cant see if anybody is staring at you! It took me years to accept i needed hearing aids,they would end up in a drawer! But now without them its an almost silent world 😭😭 its taken me ages to accept i need a long blind cane mostly in the dark! I am legally deafblind & i hate that term! Please make more videos about your hearing loss & show people your hearing aids out of your ears! I dont know if they are rechargeable or need batteries but always keep spare batteries & wax builds up & can block the sound from getting through,make sure you go to your audiologist & get further adjustments made until you can hear as well as you can & maybe get an earmould like the other ear as the domes have a habit of coming out & causing feedback,the noise is terrible! Dont give up wearing them as your gonna be wearing them for life & as they have Bluetooth try & listen to music with them! Your hearing may get worse but at least your on top of it! I hope the pain in the eyes stops soon,sending love from the uk 💖💖
I had my left removed along time ago and may lose my right eye. It's okay to be scared. It's normal to be scared. I love your contents. Much love is going out to you. You are in my prayers always.
I have a little story for you to consider the next time you feel like judging others. This story takes place in January 1972. It takes place in a hospital corridor. Picture if you will a fit looking 28 year old fit looking young man in a wheelchair being pushed along by a heavily pregnant (just a few weeks away from delivering her second baby) 28 year old woman. Many people are giving the young man harsh looks thinking the woman should be in the wheelchair, not the man. What they haven't considered is the fact that fit looking doesn't always mean actual fitness. In this case the young man has just woke up from a painful surgery to harvest a bit of bone to be transplanted into the leg of his 2 year old son in an attempt (that will fail) to save the child's leg. The young couple are on their way to the pediatric ward to visit their son who is just waking up from his own surgery. Surely if the strangers in the hallway knew this, they would judge the situation more fairly. Of course they don't know why the man is in the wheelchair, they just assume it's because he's lazy and doesn't mind his very pregnant wife pushing him along. Just remember if you ever see something you don't approve of, maybe there is more going on that you can't see just by looking. I don't agree that we should never judge others, but we need to keep in mind that there is more to life than you can see with your eyes, so make sure you judge fairly, and be prepared to change your judgment if new information comes to be known. And if others judge you unfairly, don't forget, they are not judging you fairly, so their judgment doesn't count.
That’s great joy. I’m genuinely happy for you. I never thought it made sense to expect one person to represent everyone in the blind community. Expecting one person to represent me as a blind person would be like expecting Liz Cheney to represent me as a Republican just because we happen to be in the same group. Good for you for speaking out against this. It’s OK for us all to choose our own path.
i’m sorry u have to deal with such negative messages. let haters be ur motivators. if u got it flaunt it!! i honestly love seeing people live their best life. u clearly have a great figure that u worked hard for and there’s no shame in embracing fashion and beauty :)
Hi Joy! You are doing great! If the worst thing anybody can say about you is that you are too beautiful… You’re doing pretty good!! I am a blind woman myself, I understand the physical pain you have and the fear. I love you. Everything’s gonna be OK. God bless you! Keep rocking it!
hey joy, just wanted to tell you i know how you feel to a point. i was born with 4 major holes in my heart (2 heart surgeries by 2), at 3 or 4 i lost a hearimg (ended up with 2 hearimg aids), in 2014 i was told i have RP mow legally blind, in 2018 i was told i have a lung disease had to have a lung transplant was probably 24 hours from passing, in 2021 i got RSV damaged ny new lung so i had to have a 2nd lung transplant. all that beimg saic i always say, wouldnt wish it on anyone but wouldnt give it up for the world it has made me the person i am today, it has been a great witnessing opportunity for sure. God bless you and your fanily.
I’m so very happy for you joy!! I love the confidence that you have. I wish it had the confidence like you do. I follow you on all your social media. And I love all your posts. You have always been so beautiful , since I knew you when you were at Lumberton, MS til now.
Omg no wayyy!!! You're gonna be at national convention this year?? Ugh! This would happen the year I’m not going!! 🤣😭 But I’m happy that you're growing and glowing!!! It looks good on you!!! And also, wanna let you know what a strong and resilient woman you are. From tackling the mom thing, the wife thing, and your own mental health struggles? Get em, girl!!! I know we haven’t chatted in a long time, I want you to know that I love you, and I’m here for you, and will definitely be keeping you in my prayers. You're a queen, my darling, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!!😘💕
Praying you will be blessed with continued peace and healing. I started following you a long time ago. Are you still involved with your church and sharing your musical talent ?🥰🙏🏼
Joy you have been so strong and such an amazing source of hope, inspiration and love for me and so many others. I can't imagine how amazing yet exhausting that must be. There's nobody I can think of that deserves rest and down time more then you. I hope where ever you are right now you're taking it easy and never doubting what an incredible gift you are to the earth. Wishing your pain eases with love from Australia 💘
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this incredibly sweet heartfelt message. I’m crying, I needed to hear that so much at this moment. I haven’t slept all night, I’ve been in pain with my eye, I just now crawled into bed, trying to get a little rest After the long night. Just when I was feeling down about everything, trying to regain my strength to get back to making videos, Feeling like no one’s thinking of me, because I haven’t been making videos like I used to, but your message warmed my heart. Sending you the biggest hugs, thank you, you’re an angel to me right now, and it means so much to hear your words of encouragement. 💜😊
10:00 I knew a girl who was a paraplegic. She got an infection in her leg and it had to be amputated. I was kind of shocked at how traumatized she was. Her leg didn't work. It was just this floppy useless bit of flesh that just gets in the way. But it was still a part of her body. It was part of who she was, so I understood that feeling.
Joy i like and love the way You are, and please keep yourself this way. I have the same as You that they can't keep everyone in a box and do everything the same. Love that You and Me are Completely our selfs. I know that You also have to deal with a lot and so do I, but We can handle Ourselfs and are spontaneous as always please keep going through with this. Lots of love and hugs sending in your way 💐🍀💞😘😊
Hi Joy, I hate that you are in so much pain. I pray that your eyes get better. You are an amazing, beautiful good person . I will pray for your peace of mind and good health. Best wishes to you and your family.❤❤
Hey Joy! Your hair is so amazing and I would love to see a hairstyle video with all of that hair! Being blind I would love to see how you get it looking good. I’m glad the treatments have helped your depression. Stay strong!❤
Oh, absolutely I can do that, and thank you! By the way, my hair is naturally long, but I also have real sown in human hair extensions to give it the extra length and fullness. I take care of it the same as I do my natural hair, it blends in beautifully. I flat iron and curl my hair all on my own so I can do a video showing that :-)
Joy I have followed you for years and as someone with depression myself have always been inspired by how you keep such a positive and joyful disposition knowing you’re choosing to put your struggles to the side. You are setting a wonderful example for your daughters you’re an amazing role model for us all. ❤❤❤ sending you love and light
Hi joy how are you doing today we miss you I glad you back your fans love you you look great we so proud of you stay strong joy your tube loves you joy always follow joy on Instagram you shoes are awesome joy joy loves fashion and everything else hey joy you and Amanda are the best hard working people in the world and thanks for sharing this with us joy and keep up the good work and you rock🎸joy and stay safe joy I can't wait for New videos to come out joy and god bless you to your family 💓💓❤🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 love XO from marcus from VA 💓💓💓❤❤❤💓💓🌈🌈🌈🌈😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
I was wondering and I hope you don't mind me asking but why don't you have your eyes removed? Will that stop your IP in? I mean you don't see out of your eyes anyway, so why keep them if they're paining you?
That very much depends on the person. For some people, removing the eyes that is causing a lot of pain is the solution. For others, it is much more complex. It is a huge deal for many to have their eyes removed because that is a body part. I am blind, I have eyes which don't work, but if I had to have them removed, I would only do it as an absolute last resort. They are a huge part of me. It doesn't matter whether I can see out of them or not. Also, pain is very nuanced and very individual to the person.
I am very happy for you! I was in dialysis for 59 months and just got my kidney transplant almost three months ago. My mother wants me to go into modeling ...... There is nothing wrong with you, I always imagined you to be a beautiful lovely woman, because I've always judged those for their character and never on their physical appearance, this could explain why a lot of girls liked me when I was younger before I became blind, I was easy-going and did not care for physical appearances, plus I'm told I'm good-looking but was never really interested in relationships since I was very busy with school and work ... now I'm in a really unhappy place where my suppressed feelings of not being excepted has resurfaced because a majority of my friends have abandoned me and it is super hard to make new friends and I always dreamed to have a family and now that seems impossible and long gone - so far from what I can tell most girls don't want to be with a blind person and the ones that I have met only wanted one thing... super happy about how you can feel how you look, I have long forgotten how I looked and I know for sure I'm dad-bod'ding it up lols, I mean I'm still very fit but not like when I was in my 20s ... I know easier said than done, but my advice that I've taught myself is just ignore the jellyfish haters
I loved you before, but I love the real you even more. Just keep being you and tell all the haters to F off. No one is perfect, and anyone that wants to see perfection isn’t wanting to see real life. I like to watch RUclipsrs and follow pages of real life, if I wanted to see fake perfection, I would just watch movies. And as someone that’s been blind, since birth, I have definitely never been one that has wanted to fit in with what peoples ideal blind person should be. Lol!
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Joy, please do not pay attention to those who leave malicious comments, I want to tell you that I am your most ordinary viewer from Russia and even the language barrier does not prevent me from watching your videos. Whether you are sad or having fun, but you always radiate an incredible craving for life. It's amazing. Any of your videos charges me with optimism and strength. May you be all right!❤
I hope your eyes start to improve and the pain stops. You've been such an inspiration for me when I was going through a hard time! You do what makes you happy.
Thank you, I pray so too! And thank you I’m so glad I have inspired you through your life challenges as well. Hugs and many blessings. 💛
Stay strong 💪 I'm so sorry you or going tru this it's not easy God bless 🙏
Thank you, I’m always standing strong!!! :-)
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your Joy. Lots of love.❣️
Praying for you
Oh, and I just wanted to add, I have one prosthetic eye, my eye was removed when I was three so to me, it’s not a big deal, but I guess if I grew up having both eyes, maybe I would feel different. Either way, I hope your pain gets better and you get whichever outcome is best for your mental health and physical health.
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I have been a subscriber of yours for years now, and I honestly see no difference when it comes to the way you dress, and your approach to fashion.
Any negative comments, I honestly feel like it comes from the fact that you got a boob job. It's really crappy how a woman who is more flat chested can wear low cut tops, and no one cares, but as soon as someone who is well-endowed does the same thing, it's suddenly scandalous. Don't even get me started on the ethics behind how society treats people with breasts, and how it's THEIR job to cover up for the sake of others. Like, get over yourself. I can't believe in 2023, in a progressive country, people are still slut-shaming. Being offended by how other's dress is their problem, not yours. You don't owe them anything.
25:28 is where she talks about why she changed the way she dresses and I have to say, Joy you are 1,000 percent correct.
Continue making yourself happy, dress how you want.
I can't believe anyone would say mean things to this lady or anyone else for that matter for how they choose to dress and live.
Hi Joy. I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a while. First off I have to say that the fact that your husband photographs you as well as chooses the pictures you post is sexy in itself. I think it’s wonderful how supportive he is and it’s wonderful how supportive your girls are. Honestly, the only kind of little thing I saw a bit before you moved into your own apartment for a little while is that it seemed like may be you were getting a bit more serious. Like your depression started showing through the screen a little bit. I could tell that, you wanted to see more than what you were saying, and I could tell that you wanted to do more than what you were doing but you were second-guessing yourself. I could tell that your family sometimes didn’t want to be in your videos and it made the Vlogs a little bit awkward. But I never really saw that you were trying to be somebody you weren’t. I think it’s interesting that some people are saying that. You’ve been posting pictures of yourself, long before you went through this transformation of sorts. I’m going to say long before you evolved because of humans we evolved as life goes on and as we grow, and as we learn. maybe you weren’t posting a lot of bikini photos but honestly what you’re doing is not anything anybody should be so shocked about. All of this to say that I’m very proud of you and I’m very proud of where you are in your life. I am very happy, truly, for you and your husband. As someone who has been totally blind from birth with no light perception at all, even, I know how hard it is to have that fear of showing another side of you that you love because you’re so afraid of judgment and rejection. But slowly, and surely I have learned that people are going to judge you regardless. I don’t like it when people try to be some thing they’re not, but I truly never thought that of you. if I saw it at one point, it was brief. I’ve also learned that you can do almost anything when you have a wonderful and beautiful support system behind you; and you have that. You are truly blessed and I am very proud of you.
your strength gives me strength every time i come here. been dealing with chronic pain the last year. it can be so draining some days. thanks for all you do.
We all love you for just being so sweet to share tiny parts of your amazing life.
Actually, your sunglasses make you look amazing. I love your new look.
Mam I want to ask u that stem cell tharapy can work or not in your condition???? I am asking u bcz I worried about u nothing alse
My dearest joy, I can’t believe you had to make this post on your video. I found your videos a few years back, and I just loved watching them so much seeing all of the joy and the pleasure you got from going shopping or singing with your girls, or being with your family. My favorite one was when you were vacuuming your staircase. Then we had 2020. December 25, 2019. My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I am mediately flew up to New York leaving my family in North Carolina so I can take care of my mom. This truly was the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life thus far. I remember being in the hospital while my mother was sleeping, and I would watch your videos. Every one of them meant so much to me. Even the one when you explained that you were being separated from your husband. I thought to myself, this woman is the truest of fighters, the bravest of all of us. I thank you for that. I especially loved when after you got your breast implant surgery. I thought holy cow. This woman is amazing! She really knows who she is. I say you keep doing what you’re doing. You know everything that you have been through and you are incredible for it. I hope you know that.❤️⭐️⭐️
I also have chronic pain. Mine is quite severe, and have been through the eye pain journey as well. I have finally gotten that part beat, but the chronic pain and the mental struggles are with me daily. Just keep on keeping it real. -Saoirse, West Belfast, NI
I have prosthetic eye and it moves just as good as my real eye. And when I go to the eye doctor they don't realize unless it's wrote down or I say something that it is prosthetic.
Hey Joy! I have been watching your videos for years. I’m totally blind too. my right eye is a prosthetic. I love your new stronger healthier srlf image and the more open and honesrt representation of your authentic self. People like to lump us all into a box as blind or disabled and then can’t accept when we aren’t what they think “blind” should look like. But we are all individual people that also just happen to be blind. I love fashion too. I also love to make pottery and play with my pet rats. I also love to feel cute and sexy we are all smart brautiful people just trying to do our best and to find the joy and happiness in life. I’m so happy your relationships are healthier and stronger now. Relationships take work, and not everyone understands that with therapy, hard work and better communication we learn to be better for our family and friends. We come out stronger. This is already too long lol and my cat is trying to takr over the keyboard. Good luck in your guide dog quest. I have a dog from a small east coast school. .
You could be a model for skims!!stunning joy 🩶
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I've been following you for years and I don't see your change as a bad thing. I see it as metamorphosis caused by the world locking down, we all changed for better or worse. As for your husband, your followers should know that he was never in the spotlight to begin with. Sending you love and praying for your eyes 💜
Joy don't worry about what people think. Do what makes you happy. We all love you girl. Stay strong, you have an amazing attitude. Keep smiling pretty lady.
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Hi joy its barry from the UK again,i am sorry your having all these eye problems! Being deaf i cannot hear what your saying but i could see you looked tearful,your right you dont want to lose those eyes incase something can be done down the line,they are a part of you! Is there a way you could have an eye transplant & see again?
As for your hearing aids,you are deaf so they will aid you! Nobody can see them even with your hair tied back! Also you cant see if anybody is staring at you! It took me years to accept i needed hearing aids,they would end up in a drawer! But now without them its an almost silent world 😭😭 its taken me ages to accept i need a long blind cane mostly in the dark! I am legally deafblind & i hate that term! Please make more videos about your hearing loss & show people your hearing aids out of your ears! I dont know if they are rechargeable or need batteries but always keep spare batteries & wax builds up & can block the sound from getting through,make sure you go to your audiologist & get further adjustments made until you can hear as well as you can & maybe get an earmould like the other ear as the domes have a habit of coming out & causing feedback,the noise is terrible! Dont give up wearing them as your gonna be wearing them for life & as they have Bluetooth try & listen to music with them! Your hearing may get worse but at least your on top of it! I hope the pain in the eyes stops soon,sending love from the uk 💖💖
I had my left removed along time ago and may lose my right eye. It's okay to be scared. It's normal to be scared. I love your contents. Much love is going out to you. You are in my prayers always.
I have a little story for you to consider the next time you feel like judging others.
This story takes place in January 1972. It takes place in a hospital corridor. Picture if you will a fit looking 28 year old fit looking young man in a wheelchair being pushed along by a heavily pregnant (just a few weeks away from delivering her second baby) 28 year old woman.
Many people are giving the young man harsh looks thinking the woman should be in the wheelchair, not the man.
What they haven't considered is the fact that fit looking doesn't always mean actual fitness. In this case the young man has just woke up from a painful surgery to harvest a bit of bone to be transplanted into the leg of his 2 year old son in an attempt (that will fail) to save the child's leg.
The young couple are on their way to the pediatric ward to visit their son who is just waking up from his own surgery.
Surely if the strangers in the hallway knew this, they would judge the situation more fairly. Of course they don't know why the man is in the wheelchair, they just assume it's because he's lazy and doesn't mind his very pregnant wife pushing him along.
Just remember if you ever see something you don't approve of, maybe there is more going on that you can't see just by looking.
I don't agree that we should never judge others, but we need to keep in mind that there is more to life than you can see with your eyes, so make sure you judge fairly, and be prepared to change your judgment if new information comes to be known.
And if others judge you unfairly, don't forget, they are not judging you fairly, so their judgment doesn't count.
Smile we all love you 🥰 ❤
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Love you Joy. You are such an inspiration. I will always watch what ever content you put out!
Hey my sweet friend talk later, love you. You look great!❤😘🤗 I'm proud of you...
I love you so much 💜
Joy Ross Love you more my beautiful friend 🤗
I wish the very best for you
I remember when you said you wanted to be on Dancing with the Stars. I’m still hoping for that to happen.
Missed you Beautiful Doll ❤️
Awe thanks, glad to be missed :-) and glad to be back!
I had my eye removed in sixth grade and I’m 51 now - I have survived just fine as a blind woman without ever feeling like I miss my eye.
Same i had both my eyes removed in my 20's at different times. I don't miss the pain of them dieing and they both move.
You are amazing joy hope you eyes feel better soon you are such a genuine lovable person always love your videos
Thank you, and I always appreciate your sweet comments :-)
Thanks for the life update joy and I'm glad the treatment have helped your depression joy
❤much love from Beaumont TX 🇨🇱
That’s great joy. I’m genuinely happy for you. I never thought it made sense to expect one person to represent everyone in the blind community. Expecting one person to represent me as a blind person would be like expecting Liz Cheney to represent me as a Republican just because we happen to be in the same group. Good for you for speaking out against this. It’s OK for us all to choose our own path.
Only thing weird about this comment is that anyone would still subscribed to being republican or democrat.
I miss you Tiffany, and I love you speaking out!
Next stop sports illustrated! You are a total model. Get it joy!
i’m sorry u have to deal with such negative messages. let haters be ur motivators. if u got it flaunt it!!
i honestly love seeing people live their best life. u clearly have a great figure that u worked hard for and there’s no shame in embracing fashion and beauty :)
Hi Joy! You are doing great! If the worst thing anybody can say about you is that you are too beautiful… You’re doing pretty good!!
I am a blind woman myself, I understand the physical pain you have and the fear. I love you. Everything’s gonna be OK. God bless you! Keep rocking it!
Happy memorial day good 👍
Hello joy Ross
hey joy, just wanted to tell you i know how you feel to a point. i was born with 4 major holes in my heart (2 heart surgeries by 2), at 3 or 4 i lost a hearimg (ended up with 2 hearimg aids), in 2014 i was told i have RP mow legally blind, in 2018 i was told i have a lung disease had to have a lung transplant was probably 24 hours from passing, in 2021 i got RSV damaged ny new lung so i had to have a 2nd lung transplant. all that beimg saic i always say, wouldnt wish it on anyone but wouldnt give it up for the world it has made me the person i am today, it has been a great witnessing opportunity for sure. God bless you and your fanily.
I’m so very happy for you joy!! I love the confidence that you have. I wish it had the confidence like you do. I follow you on all your social media. And I love all your posts. You have always been so beautiful , since I knew you when you were at Lumberton, MS til now.
Hi Joy, maybe you might do videos on your diet and fitness and what you use on your skin to keep yourself looking so great ❤❤best wishes
Omg no wayyy!!! You're gonna be at national convention this year?? Ugh! This would happen the year I’m not going!! 🤣😭
But I’m happy that you're growing and glowing!!! It looks good on you!!! And also, wanna let you know what a strong and resilient woman you are. From tackling the mom thing, the wife thing, and your own mental health struggles? Get em, girl!!! I know we haven’t chatted in a long time, I want you to know that I love you, and I’m here for you, and will definitely be keeping you in my prayers.
You're a queen, my darling, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!!😘💕
Yay for you and Tracy going to the convention! You two make me laugh so much. I miss seeing her. Love you Joy. I’m a long time subscriber.
Oh, I know, it’s going to be nothing but fun!!! So many fun videos to come for sure
Hii ❤
Man im sorry about the pain, what a beautiful soul
We miss and love u joy
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@@JoyRoss thank youu
Praying you will be blessed with continued peace and healing.
I started following you a long time ago.
Are you still involved with your church and sharing your musical talent ?🥰🙏🏼
Thank you, and no, we are not currently involved with a local church, but who knows what the future holds :-)
Joy you have been so strong and such an amazing source of hope, inspiration and love for me and so many others. I can't imagine how amazing yet exhausting that must be. There's nobody I can think of that deserves rest and down time more then you. I hope where ever you are right now you're taking it easy and never doubting what an incredible gift you are to the earth. Wishing your pain eases with love from Australia 💘
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this incredibly sweet heartfelt message. I’m crying, I needed to hear that so much at this moment. I haven’t slept all night, I’ve been in pain with my eye, I just now crawled into bed, trying to get a little rest After the long night. Just when I was feeling down about everything, trying to regain my strength to get back to making videos, Feeling like no one’s thinking of me, because I haven’t been making videos like I used to, but your message warmed my heart. Sending you the biggest hugs, thank you, you’re an angel to me right now, and it means so much to hear your words of encouragement. 💜😊
You should do an only fans...
just promise me if you do that I get a free subscription for suggesting the idea ;)
Have you tried THC or CBD for pain control!
Yes I have, it doesn’t work for me.
10:00 I knew a girl who was a paraplegic. She got an infection in her leg and it had to be amputated. I was kind of shocked at how traumatized she was. Her leg didn't work. It was just this floppy useless bit of flesh that just gets in the way. But it was still a part of her body. It was part of who she was, so I understood that feeling.
Hey Joy. Love you Lady ❤
You should show your eyes up close without your prosthesis
She has
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Joy i like and love the way You are, and please keep yourself this way. I have the same as You that they can't keep everyone in a box and do everything the same. Love that You and Me are Completely our selfs. I know that You also have to deal with a lot and so do I, but We can handle Ourselfs and are spontaneous as always please keep going through with this. Lots of love and hugs sending in your way 💐🍀💞😘😊
Miss Joy, I personally love that you're confidence. The people who take issue with your photos are jealous. Keep doing you?!!!
Hi Joy, I hate that you are in so much pain. I pray that your eyes get better. You are an amazing, beautiful good person . I will pray for your peace of mind and good health. Best wishes to you and your family.❤❤
I love you Joy. Please keep doing whatever makes you happy. Thats what your followers want to see 💖💖💖
thank you Joy, that was a beautiful ,thank both of you for sharing with us -so sorry about your eye ! take care and love you and your lovely friend
hello joy iam glad that your not leting any thing put you down and don’t listen too those people just continue to be yourself
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I love you Joy. Strong, warrior.
You’re so sweet, thank you that means so much
Hey Joy! Your hair is so amazing and I would love to see a hairstyle video with all of that hair! Being blind I would love to see how you get it looking good. I’m glad the treatments have helped your depression. Stay strong!❤
Oh, absolutely I can do that, and thank you! By the way, my hair is naturally long, but I also have real sown in human hair extensions to give it the extra length and fullness. I take care of it the same as I do my natural hair, it blends in beautifully. I flat iron and curl my hair all on my own so I can do a video showing that :-)
Joy I have followed you for years and as someone with depression myself have always been inspired by how you keep such a positive and joyful disposition knowing you’re choosing to put your struggles to the side. You are setting a wonderful example for your daughters you’re an amazing role model for us all. ❤❤❤ sending you love and light
Awe thank you, that truly means so much 💜
Hi joy how are you doing today we miss you I glad you back your fans love you you look great we so proud of you stay strong joy your tube loves you joy always follow joy on Instagram you shoes are awesome joy joy loves fashion and everything else hey joy you and Amanda are the best hard working people in the world and thanks for sharing this with us joy and keep up the good work and you rock🎸joy and stay safe joy I can't wait for New videos to come out joy and god bless you to your family 💓💓❤🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 love XO from marcus from VA 💓💓💓❤❤❤💓💓🌈🌈🌈🌈😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
Still waiting for your Onlyfans debut!
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I was wondering and I hope you don't mind me asking but why don't you have your eyes removed? Will that stop your IP in? I mean you don't see out of your eyes anyway, so why keep them if they're paining you?
Did you watch the whole video?
That very much depends on the person. For some people, removing the eyes that is causing a lot of pain is the solution. For others, it is much more complex. It is a huge deal for many to have their eyes removed because that is a body part. I am blind, I have eyes which don't work, but if I had to have them removed, I would only do it as an absolute last resort. They are a huge part of me. It doesn't matter whether I can see out of them or not. Also, pain is very nuanced and very individual to the person.
I am very happy for you! I was in dialysis for 59 months and just got my kidney transplant almost three months ago. My mother wants me to go into modeling ...... There is nothing wrong with you, I always imagined you to be a beautiful lovely woman, because I've always judged those for their character and never on their physical appearance, this could explain why a lot of girls liked me when I was younger before I became blind, I was easy-going and did not care for physical appearances, plus I'm told I'm good-looking but was never really interested in relationships since I was very busy with school and work ... now I'm in a really unhappy place where my suppressed feelings of not being excepted has resurfaced because a majority of my friends have abandoned me and it is super hard to make new friends and I always dreamed to have a family and now that seems impossible and long gone - so far from what I can tell most girls don't want to be with a blind person and the ones that I have met only wanted one thing... super happy about how you can feel how you look, I have long forgotten how I looked and I know for sure I'm dad-bod'ding it up lols, I mean I'm still very fit but not like when I was in my 20s ... I know easier said than done, but my advice that I've taught myself is just ignore the jellyfish haters
I loved you before, but I love the real you even more. Just keep being you and tell all the haters to F off. No one is perfect, and anyone that wants to see perfection isn’t wanting to see real life. I like to watch RUclipsrs and follow pages of real life, if I wanted to see fake perfection, I would just watch movies. And as someone that’s been blind, since birth, I have definitely never been one that has wanted to fit in with what peoples ideal blind person should be. Lol!
I always comment on your videos and pics on Instagram ❤️❤️❤️❤️