My Husband's mother used to say "the candle burns brighter before going out" when it came to the kids high energy before going down for naps or bedtime! I just loved that!
Ty, Adam Yes, this definitely gave me something to think about; I can't wait for Saturn to get through Pisces! Melancholy, oh yeah, I'm feeling it more so than ever. Lol and crying. Venus, though, will bring some beauty to me through music this weekend as I bought front row ticket a year ago to see a fav instrumental band I like😊 Ahhhhhh, music as balm for melancholy ❤❤❤😊😊😊
My 5 year old runs laps around the house for about 15 minutes before we start bedtime. We find it helps with emotion and body regulation right before the bedtime routine. Works like a charm! ((I totally did a deep dive google search on this topic too 😂))
I’m in my 50s, but I clearly remember that when I was a kid, my younger brother and I would literally run around in circles right before going to bed on Christmas Eve - all to the musical accompaniment of some old album of Christmas songs that my parents had bought at the A&P. We wanted to exhaust ourselves so that we would fall asleep fast and the night would pass quickly. 😂
We used to have living room dance parties before bed, when the kiddos were still shorter than me. Now my teenagers show me what’s popular on TikTok by performing for me! So much better than an app! And we’re a fun late-bed-time family ❤
I love and appreciate your wisdom and your lists and themes that are applicable to my life ,give me something to practically consider and work with .They are my favorite videos of yours and I appreciate you.Thank you!🙏🏼
This was really good. I listened while I went on a walk before work. I have Saturn transiting my 3rd house and so Venus transiting the 6th. My first client got sick while driving and had to cancel. I had extra time so I decided to go to the gas station near my office as I had a “2 miles til empty”warning! As I pulled up I saw the Bricks security truck and the guy with the money bag walking into the gas station. I thought maybe I would be locked out while they transfer $ and that could be Saturn. But I walked right in and heard the teller telling the Bricks representative that they have been locked out of their own safe. Neither the key or the code would open it. And I just started laughing. The teller and I were both laughing. And I wanted to tell him about the square but figured it would be too weird so I kept it to myself. 😂
Ive found over the years, 55 Abundance, has a dark side. It can offer Abundance of Sorrow, maybe a sense of helplessness. Also, its interesting in referencing eclipse energy. Especially at this time. It seems we use the energy of 21, Biting Through, often, in daily problem solving.
I'm ALWAYS telling my son to be specific when he gets into throwing that word around. Remember that story about the monkeys paw? You could accidentally manifest an abundance of silverfish in the basement!
How this is showing up for me is processing trauma around a relationship . Coming to terms with the emotional consequences of abuse and pain in relationships. Doing this through virtual therapy. Very venus in Gemini (5th) square Saturn in Pisces (2nd) for me.
Just before listening to this, one of the headlines today is that the "Bad" tourists in Bali are "playing" being unruly, and the locals are taking a stand and looking for ways to "limit" such behaviors with with visitors to the extent of deporting them. Very interesting. Thanks Adam!
Pen name suggestion: Jillette. Love the Calvin/Hobbs analogy. The lists are great. They help organize my thoughts while listening. I sometimes write them down if the topic is particularly relevant and then you speak from my refrigerator.
In human design, there are energy types that help define what bedtime routines are helpful. If they are energy types they need to run out of physical energy before bed. If they are non energy like me, they need to wind down with a book before bed.
I have a natal 12H Saturn in Pisces trine 4H Venus in Cancer and that last part you said about an old mansion really struck me because of the ancestral houses I’ve had to move between growing up
Adam, I HOPE you name the pen Carol! She couldn't help been a Golden Girl if she wants the right age when they were on TV initially. Carol was my Aunt and Godmother and we were very close. And she was a Taurus married to Pisces. The day you posted on Dead Poets Society I was listening to your video and I fell asleep (not boring but just back from a long day in hospital for tests) and I actually dreamt of you and your family and my Aunt Carol was in the dream. So yeah that.
As a Venus in Gemini (in the 12th 😅) square to Saturn (in Virgo) this combo has gotten me in trouble many times in various ways. Here’s to the “lotus” phase? The soundtrack to that Romeo and Juliette is still one of my very favorite. Soooo many emotions and yes, angst.
I have Venus in Gemini @ 29 degrees with Saturn in Pisces @ 3 degrees. They are not in a square, but are trined. Even though the aspect is different, I could see all the things you listed (I also love lists) as having played out in my life either in the past or the present. I always enjoy your teachings, thank you!
I am nearing the end of the year one course and I’ve already signed up for year two. If you love astrology and want to learn more I cannot recommend it enough!
I have natally Venus retro in Gemini and I am a big kid. My 2 friends have it also and are obsessed with skateboarding which Venus in Gemini perfectly fit .. interesting is that I heard that skateboarding was "invented" during Saturn in Pisces
My son and I have Benus in Gemini and lots of Saturn and Aquarius energy so we've been butting heads but it's a good and necessary process cus we've let things go with playfulness that can turn passive-aggressive. It's really intense, pray for me :)
Loved this! When you crack up, I crack up, LOL! #grabbed So, the night before last, my husband was playing video games with two of my kids and I told them it was time to get ready for bed and then went away for a little while, put the baby to bed, and read my book. Then an hour and a half later, they were still in the living room, laughing their asses off, mind you, but I had to go in there and be the "adult" and ask my children and my husband to go to bed! When I looked at the transits, Venus was 2 degrees away from this square to Saturn! What's funny, is I have this aspect in my natal chart, and between my husband and I, I am often the one who has to be the voice of authority--sometimes I feel like I have six kids instead of only five! Great video, as always. Thank you!
the middle section of this talk inspired me to pause you and go write a letter to a private community i belong to regarding the recent uptick in inappropriate and ablist/bigoted behavior toward sensitive members of our community. considering most of us are some combo of lgbtq+, neurodivergent, with mental illness/trauma, it's just not okay that this behavior is being allowed to go on. so i messaged the mods to discuss expanding our rules to be more protective of basic ethical treatment of others. i've been pushing back individually against these types of things when i see it, but i have my own struggles and it takes a lot of mental energy from me. not to mention, i only get further harassment as these types aren't prone to self-reflection. id' rather remove the behavior from our community than block them individually. as you said, allowed to go unchecked for too long, the behaviors can take over and cause further harm. squashing it now while it's smaller can make a better community for all.
This is so wild, I'm only half way through the video but what you're talking about is literally playing out in my life right now! As Venus moved into Gemini I had to contact my ex (with whom I got closure a month back, he wanted another shot, I didn't) over a Spotify login information since he uses my Spotify and somehow we got to talking on friendly level which I thought nothing of but now he's writing me super friendly messages, even saying how much me misses me and so on and I'm starting to feel like maybe I shouldn't engage as much because I know he wants more and I don't anymore. And as you said I feel like I need to pull back a bit because it's getting way too playful and I don't want to cross any lines, because I know the consequences would be him getting hurt again. Also he's cancer rising and Venus just moved in his 12 house, wow, I'm so amazed at how astrology works! Thank you for such insightful video!!
Oh my Goddess! I totally did that. I made my little (Gemini Sun) brother a mud pie. Told him it was chocolate. And he ate it. I was 4 and he was two 🙈 I also had him taste the bubble bath because it smelled yummy. I was awful! I swear I love him! He's alive and well, people.
@@miaj5118 my brother David tried to tattoo one of my other brothers (Danny) with that thing on his arm to make it look like our dad's vaccination scar and that looked brutal!
#grabbed (Venus square Saturn) I watched this video on 4/16 so I swear everything I'm about to say was completely uninfluenced by this video! 😂 My husband and I love to play video games together (both Gemini Venus, Mars ruled people). We usually play them on Saturdays and the game servers kept crashing making it completely unplayable. I suggested we go out to a bar but it was packed and we ended up at a winery. We did a wine flight (no full glasses, how Gemini appropriate) while eating a charcuterie board of cheese, cured meat, dried fruit, nuts, and crackers. On the way out I remember looking at the caskets that had future dates (some out all the way to 4 years in the future) written on them when they would be opened and bottled and thinking about how much time and effort it took for good wine to be made (and how I could never do it myself). Because, fuck it, why not, we ended up going out for dinner to a nice seafood restaurant (I see you Venus) and ended on a pretty opulent note. However I got less food than I would normally, so I didn't feel like I over ate. Thank you Saturn. Looking back we were extremely disappointed by not being able to play games but in the end had a great bonding day together. And also spent way too much money. 😂 Worth it!
this week an old partner and i have been redefining our relationship. we gave it more of a title; created more definition to what we look like and how we explain ourselves.
I was going to suggest the big pink minx, but I saw someone mention Dorothy and I was like wow that is really fitting. Conservative most of the time, but every now and then you get a giant arrow and you know she has a wild streak in there somewhere 😁
Oh wow I didn't realize it but I think the majority of my time on a half pipe was in the last Saturn Pisces back in the days of grunge and Pepsi Clear and Zima!
I have Benus( I mean Venus lol) in Gemini and My Saturn is in Pisces .So very apt .You explain it so well i signed up to your first year Astrology course
Exactly my sister is a helicopter super controlling parent and i am the opposite. Her son has behavioral issues, and acts like an animal coming out if a cage. Does not listen. Most parents i know trying to “protect” and their kids by controlling them end up having super anxiety issues
The quote I like for this transit is: “I do protest, I never injured thee, But love thee better than thou canst devise, Till thou shalt know the reason of my love: And so, good Capulet,--which name I tender As dearly as my own,--be satisfied.” - R+J Saturn with Venus can be the type of love where tough decisions and strong actions have to be taken that may seem limiting, punitive or strict, but have a bigger effect of love than not doing so: breaking up with someone sooner while the hurt is small instead of letting it go on and become a very painful breakup that you know they can’t handle, breaking your kids’ heart to leave a marriage to save them from long-term abusive home, reporting a crime of a loved one to reign in someone’s destructive behaviors, saying the hard and maybe hurtful thing instead of letting someone go on in happy ignorance making more painful blunders, letting a jealous friend naturally see your success and not saving their ego so that maybe they’ll get inspired to act on their own behalf instead of resenting your success til you hide it. Loving people in ways they may be angry at you for, because they don’t and can’t yet understand the value in what you’re giving them- the same as the Universe does for all of us. ♥️
It could be the deep pressure of wrestling acting similar to a weighted blanket that helps the kids feel more into their bodies and relax for bed, sensory regulation
Thank You I have Venus in Gemini this is very informative. In Human Design Saturn is sitting at 55.5 💚. I do have Eris in iChing|Hexagram 21.4 -4th house & 21.5- 10th house This helps me understand the communication between my Saturn & Venus.
my pluto is at 3degrees sagittarius my venus is at 3degrees scorpio & my mercury is at 4degrees virgo i feel like no matter what happens i should try to build tolerance as best as possible . its weird because i have responsibilities & restrictions that stop me from doing the things i wish i could but maybe half of those things are situations i dont "need" . it feels like invisible boundaries
What’s weird is I just referenced this aspect as a random example without knowing this was a transit about to happen. It was about how music can often explain astro concepts better. Song(s): Elysian Fields - Bum Raps and Love Taps + We’re in Love. They capture the paradox of Saturn square Venus well. Somewhat related to astro classes, I’d definitely suggest anyone interested to learn traditional as early as possible before modern. For me, it took 2 years to have my “Ah-Ha” moment where some weirdo tried to pull me into a comic book in terms of understanding the 12th house which is THE house I should inherently know right out of the gate. I’m still on topic since the 12th is a joy of Saturn. I’m more “conceptual” than “practicing”, but I’d say that taking astrological classes isn’t a bad investment at all. I was contemplating a proper attitude towards my overall view on something like these hard aspects, but pinpointing the 12th made it click that if I go about it as if a person can’t handle what something means, it suggests they can’t handle it. Meaning, the 12th actually does fit a Jungian shadow archetype of unintended consequences that are paradoxical. If something like Saturn square Venus is softened, it’s similar to saying a person can’t handle something and they may actually believe it and (as Adam said) it’s not THAT big of a deal. Hard aspects can be extremely creative. I did check out Adam’s video on the libra full moon (libra/aries axis) and something said is important which is if you remove the social stigmas with hard aspects they’re really not that big of a deal. I have my ascendant ruler in retrograde in combustion in the 12th; it’s not that big of a deal and I wasn’t cast down from the high heavens to suffer a lifetime in hell as the star of lucifer.I don’t mean to appreciate difficult placements as that, I just mean everyone has a 12th house and Saturn in their chart so there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Saturn transits…. I could write 10 volumes on the 12th and (in fashion) they’d be wildly unpopular. 😂 I’d say, if someone listens to “bum raps and..” to think of it as how fear can cause self imposed isolation as “protection” creating new fears and self fulfilling prophecies until starting to realize the solution is worse than the problem. I haven’t watched the 2nd part yet, but just looking at the stark contrast with the 12th and 5th is interesting. Astrological humor: that moment where you realize the 12th is just the contrary to the 11th and it’s blatantly SAYS it in writing. Gemini Venus: you get: “Lovage - Book of the Month. And.. “Lovage - Strangers on a Train”.
BENUS!!!! Made me think of Beavis and Butthead. then i started thinking of other planet names. They’re not as good, but… Erf Moo Schnoopiter Plooter and so on…
Didn't Beavis and I start during the last Pisces Saturn? Your list made me remember the way my foreign boot grandma said certain words and her way to say 🌏 was urch 💀 detch and🛀🏻 was batch.
I am just venting but right now in my life but there’s certain things that I can’t change cause I don’t have the inner resources the inner understanding or power within myself to change I don’t have the power or strength to take responsibility for myself I want to have more power or control over myself but right now i don’t have the ability to do that
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My Husband's mother used to say "the candle burns brighter before going out" when it came to the kids high energy before going down for naps or bedtime! I just loved that!
Adam’s laugh is contagious 😂
Love your lists. Shows an organized mind. You clearly get the point across without constant repetition and rambling like some astrologers.
Omg yes. Drives me crazy
Golden Girls were Blanche, Rose, Dorothy and Sophia... perhaps your mouse feels like Blanche the "naughty one" 😂
😂😂❤
Yes! Blanche Devereaux, for sure.
Adam, I treasure your teachings. I learn so much from your instruction. You are superior at your work. Thank you!
The hour before bedtime with my friend's 6 year old daughter is known as the 'Witching hour' in their household 😂
I vote for calling your pointer Benus! In a separate note, this placement is in my birth chart and I’m looking out for a few planetary grabbers.
Ty, Adam
Yes, this definitely gave me something to think about; I can't wait for Saturn to get through Pisces! Melancholy, oh yeah, I'm feeling it more so than ever. Lol and crying. Venus, though, will bring some beauty to me through music this weekend as I bought front row ticket a year ago to see a fav instrumental band I like😊
Ahhhhhh, music as balm for melancholy ❤❤❤😊😊😊
My 5 year old runs laps around the house for about 15 minutes before we start bedtime. We find it helps with emotion and body regulation right before the bedtime routine. Works like a charm! ((I totally did a deep dive google search on this topic too 😂))
this is why it's so important to be neuro-informed and affirmative. good parenting
I’m in my 50s, but I clearly remember that when I was a kid, my younger brother and I would literally run around in circles right before going to bed on Christmas Eve - all to the musical accompaniment of some old album of Christmas songs that my parents had bought at the A&P. We wanted to exhaust ourselves so that we would fall asleep fast and the night would pass quickly. 😂
I like your lists and your laughter.
We used to have living room dance parties before bed, when the kiddos were still shorter than me. Now my teenagers show me what’s popular on TikTok by performing for me! So much better than an app! And we’re a fun late-bed-time family ❤
I love and appreciate your wisdom and your lists and themes that are applicable to my life ,give me something to practically consider and work with .They are my favorite videos of yours and I appreciate you.Thank you!🙏🏼
This was really good. I listened while I went on a walk before work. I have Saturn transiting my 3rd house and so Venus transiting the 6th. My first client got sick while driving and had to cancel. I had extra time so I decided to go to the gas station near my office as I had a “2 miles til empty”warning! As I pulled up I saw the Bricks security truck and the guy with the money bag walking into the gas station. I thought maybe I would be locked out while they transfer $ and that could be Saturn. But I walked right in and heard the teller telling the Bricks representative that they have been locked out of their own safe. Neither the key or the code would open it. And I just started laughing. The teller and I were both laughing. And I wanted to tell him about the square but figured it would be too weird so I kept it to myself. 😂
Lol-ed at "Benus" 🤣 Venus in Gemini vibes for sure ha!
One of the Golden Girls, Bea Arthur previously was in a sitcom called Maude. I think that would be a good name for the arrow!
Ive found over the years, 55 Abundance, has a dark side. It can offer Abundance of Sorrow, maybe a sense of helplessness. Also, its interesting in referencing eclipse energy. Especially at this time. It seems we use the energy of 21, Biting Through, often, in daily problem solving.
I'm ALWAYS telling my son to be specific when he gets into throwing that word around. Remember that story about the monkeys paw? You could accidentally manifest an abundance of silverfish in the basement!
🤣 thank you for the laughs! You're awesome!
I know this is a year old video but boy is it prevalent right now 🙏💖
this transit for me has already manifested as a short but sweet conversation with a social media famous musician about our deadbeat dads.
I like the lists ! The concepts are clear for me to understand when you make lists. Thank you !
How this is showing up for me is processing trauma around a relationship . Coming to terms with the emotional consequences of abuse and pain in relationships. Doing this through virtual therapy. Very venus in Gemini (5th) square Saturn in Pisces (2nd) for me.
Benus, Lol. Its 25* here in Ontario Ca, the weather is very "pleasing"! Ty Adam
Beautiful that you try to adjust to your kids🎉
Great video Adam. Thank you! Really enjoying the E Ching! 😎😎😎
Thanks for encouraging viewers to do your Astrology courses. I'll take one sometime.
Just before listening to this, one of the headlines today is that the "Bad" tourists in Bali are "playing" being unruly, and the locals are taking a stand and looking for ways to "limit" such behaviors with with visitors to the extent of deporting them. Very interesting. Thanks Adam!
Making lists being mentioned has made my day. It's the little things
Pure gold
Benus! Ha! That’s all I can think about 🤣 you crack me up. Great advice for this transit. Looking at it completely differently now
Pen name suggestion: Jillette. Love the Calvin/Hobbs analogy. The lists are great. They help organize my thoughts while listening. I sometimes write them down if the topic is particularly relevant and then you speak from my refrigerator.
In human design, there are energy types that help define what bedtime routines are helpful. If they are energy types they need to run out of physical energy before bed. If they are non energy like me, they need to wind down with a book before bed.
I have a natal 12H Saturn in Pisces trine 4H Venus in Cancer and that last part you said about an old mansion really struck me because of the ancestral houses I’ve had to move between growing up
Adam, I HOPE you name the pen Carol! She couldn't help been a Golden Girl if she wants the right age when they were on TV initially. Carol was my Aunt and Godmother and we were very close. And she was a Taurus married to Pisces. The day you posted on Dead Poets Society I was listening to your video and I fell asleep (not boring but just back from a long day in hospital for tests) and I actually dreamt of you and your family and my Aunt Carol was in the dream. So yeah that.
As a Venus in Gemini (in the 12th 😅) square to Saturn (in Virgo) this combo has gotten me in trouble many times in various ways. Here’s to the “lotus” phase? The soundtrack to that Romeo and Juliette is still one of my very favorite. Soooo many emotions and yes, angst.
Also, I have struggled with the bedtime craziness w/ my girls. Always trying to get them calm. I’ll try to go with the flow a little more.
Def go with Blanche if you’re going Golden girls route. Although Carol is good too.
I have Venus in Gemini @ 29 degrees with Saturn in Pisces @ 3 degrees. They are not in a square, but are trined. Even though the aspect is different, I could see all the things you listed (I also love lists) as having played out in my life either in the past or the present. I always enjoy your teachings, thank you!
I have the same degrees combo, but reversed. Venus in Pisces at 2, Saturn at Gemini at 29. I agree with you!
We love your list sir!!❤❤❤❤
12:21 Calvin & Hobbs is brilliant
I am nearing the end of the year one course and I’ve already signed up for year two. If you love astrology and want to learn more I cannot recommend it enough!
🌠I enjoyed your take of Venus Square Saturn! 🌠🌟🌌 Thanks Adam!
lambs play and gambol at sunset, running before night and sleep
I have natally Venus retro in Gemini and I am a big kid. My 2 friends have it also and are obsessed with skateboarding which Venus in Gemini perfectly fit .. interesting is that I heard that skateboarding was "invented" during Saturn in Pisces
Thank you Adam that was Devine!
Casting the I Ching seems very Venus in Gemini. Meta!
My son and I have Benus in Gemini and lots of Saturn and Aquarius energy so we've been butting heads but it's a good and necessary process cus we've let things go with playfulness that can turn passive-aggressive. It's really intense, pray for me :)
Carol was the Brady Bunch mom!! 😂
Loved this! When you crack up, I crack up, LOL! #grabbed So, the night before last, my husband was playing video games with two of my kids and I told them it was time to get ready for bed and then went away for a little while, put the baby to bed, and read my book. Then an hour and a half later, they were still in the living room, laughing their asses off, mind you, but I had to go in there and be the "adult" and ask my children and my husband to go to bed! When I looked at the transits, Venus was 2 degrees away from this square to Saturn! What's funny, is I have this aspect in my natal chart, and between my husband and I, I am often the one who has to be the voice of authority--sometimes I feel like I have six kids instead of only five! Great video, as always. Thank you!
Benus! Man I needed that. Thank u.🤣❤
😂 Benus. Love it. Thanks for the fun while learning.
Today has been an intense day I didn’t know Saturn was doing stuff but that makes sense since Saturn is working
Thank you! Lovely take!❤
the middle section of this talk inspired me to pause you and go write a letter to a private community i belong to regarding the recent uptick in inappropriate and ablist/bigoted behavior toward sensitive members of our community. considering most of us are some combo of lgbtq+, neurodivergent, with mental illness/trauma, it's just not okay that this behavior is being allowed to go on. so i messaged the mods to discuss expanding our rules to be more protective of basic ethical treatment of others. i've been pushing back individually against these types of things when i see it, but i have my own struggles and it takes a lot of mental energy from me. not to mention, i only get further harassment as these types aren't prone to self-reflection. id' rather remove the behavior from our community than block them individually. as you said, allowed to go unchecked for too long, the behaviors can take over and cause further harm. squashing it now while it's smaller can make a better community for all.
This is so wild, I'm only half way through the video but what you're talking about is literally playing out in my life right now! As Venus moved into Gemini I had to contact my ex (with whom I got closure a month back, he wanted another shot, I didn't) over a Spotify login information since he uses my Spotify and somehow we got to talking on friendly level which I thought nothing of but now he's writing me super friendly messages, even saying how much me misses me and so on and I'm starting to feel like maybe I shouldn't engage as much because I know he wants more and I don't anymore. And as you said I feel like I need to pull back a bit because it's getting way too playful and I don't want to cross any lines, because I know the consequences would be him getting hurt again. Also he's cancer rising and Venus just moved in his 12 house, wow, I'm so amazed at how astrology works! Thank you for such insightful video!!
I just luv your work man!
Oh my Goddess! I totally did that. I made my little (Gemini Sun) brother a mud pie. Told him it was chocolate. And he ate it. I was 4 and he was two 🙈
I also had him taste the bubble bath because it smelled yummy. I was awful! I swear I love him! He's alive and well, people.
Haha at least you didn't get him to touch the red hot cigarette lighter in the car - yup, i did that ...
@@miaj5118 my brother David tried to tattoo one of my other brothers (Danny) with that thing on his arm to make it look like our dad's vaccination scar and that looked brutal!
I love your lists. Very clear and concise! I might take on a bedtime routine like your girls, get my energy out 😆
Dorothy was the Golden Girl who was a teacher. I vote for Dorothy 🙂
My son ( taurean)does this with his son (taurean)whos 4 they have a 10 minute wrestle on the bed to get the energies out works a treat 😊
Good video! Felt the “Benus”/Gemini vibes 😂
Thank you
Go with Carol.She knows.
Benus. I gut-laughed. Needed that.
Love to play 🎉 Gemini Mars in 6 th rules 7 th..puts people off when u want to stay happy 😁 saggy raising 🐝🤗 pisces sun..
My Sagittarius parents were so fun sometimes.
#grabbed (Venus square Saturn) I watched this video on 4/16 so I swear everything I'm about to say was completely uninfluenced by this video! 😂
My husband and I love to play video games together (both Gemini Venus, Mars ruled people). We usually play them on Saturdays and the game servers kept crashing making it completely unplayable. I suggested we go out to a bar but it was packed and we ended up at a winery. We did a wine flight (no full glasses, how Gemini appropriate) while eating a charcuterie board of cheese, cured meat, dried fruit, nuts, and crackers. On the way out I remember looking at the caskets that had future dates (some out all the way to 4 years in the future) written on them when they would be opened and bottled and thinking about how much time and effort it took for good wine to be made (and how I could never do it myself). Because, fuck it, why not, we ended up going out for dinner to a nice seafood restaurant (I see you Venus) and ended on a pretty opulent note. However I got less food than I would normally, so I didn't feel like I over ate. Thank you Saturn.
Looking back we were extremely disappointed by not being able to play games but in the end had a great bonding day together. And also spent way too much money. 😂 Worth it!
this week an old partner and i have been redefining our relationship. we gave it more of a title; created more definition to what we look like and how we explain ourselves.
Love these talks
In how far does the exaltation ruler dispose a planet/ruler over a planet?
I was going to suggest the big pink minx, but I saw someone mention Dorothy and I was like wow that is really fitting. Conservative most of the time, but every now and then you get a giant arrow and you know she has a wild streak in there somewhere 😁
Oh wow I didn't realize it but I think the majority of my time on a half pipe was in the last Saturn Pisces back in the days of grunge and Pepsi Clear and Zima!
Beanus - LOL. Thank you for all you do.
Love the lists! 💪🏾
Love your lists!!
Thank you Adam 💜🙏
Wonderful, thank you 🌹💙
Love your lists
I have Benus( I mean Venus lol) in Gemini and My Saturn is in Pisces .So very apt .You explain it so well i signed up to your first year Astrology course
That's a good arrow name- beanis!! Lol!
Exactly my sister is a helicopter super controlling parent and i am the opposite. Her son has behavioral issues, and acts like an animal coming out if a cage. Does not listen. Most parents i know trying to “protect” and their kids by controlling them end up having super anxiety issues
I can attest that the kids certainly have a few tendencies to anxiety. My mom tried to protect and control everything about our lives.
Love the lists!
Love the lists!! ❤😊
The quote I like for this transit is: “I do protest, I never injured thee, But love thee better than thou canst devise, Till thou shalt know the reason of my love: And so, good Capulet,--which name I tender As dearly as my own,--be satisfied.” - R+J
Saturn with Venus can be the type of love where tough decisions and strong actions have to be taken that may seem limiting, punitive or strict, but have a bigger effect of love than not doing so: breaking up with someone sooner while the hurt is small instead of letting it go on and become a very painful breakup that you know they can’t handle, breaking your kids’ heart to leave a marriage to save them from long-term abusive home, reporting a crime of a loved one to reign in someone’s destructive behaviors, saying the hard and maybe hurtful thing instead of letting someone go on in happy ignorance making more painful blunders, letting a jealous friend naturally see your success and not saving their ego so that maybe they’ll get inspired to act on their own behalf instead of resenting your success til you hide it. Loving people in ways they may be angry at you for, because they don’t and can’t yet understand the value in what you’re giving them- the same as the Universe does for all of us. ♥️
It could be the deep pressure of wrestling acting similar to a weighted blanket that helps the kids feel more into their bodies and relax for bed, sensory regulation
The EPIC pen!! :D
Great talk, the lists are great too 👍
What’s wrong with lists?? I would cease to exists without them!
Thank You I have Venus in Gemini this is very informative. In Human Design Saturn is sitting at 55.5 💚. I do have Eris in iChing|Hexagram 21.4 -4th house & 21.5- 10th house This helps me understand the communication between my Saturn & Venus.
So Very True💜
The golden girl! 😂😂
Pointer should be called Cybill hahaha
So this Venus square Saturn transit can be also be called "Benus and Butthead" 😂
I do hope its not symbolic ..I am Carol and one of your new students!😂
my pluto is at 3degrees sagittarius
my venus is at 3degrees scorpio
& my mercury is at 4degrees virgo
i feel like no matter what happens i should try to build tolerance as best as possible . its weird because i have responsibilities & restrictions that stop me from doing the things i wish i could but maybe half of those things are situations i dont "need" . it feels like invisible boundaries
I've got a son who has a similar placements.
What’s weird is I just referenced this aspect as a random example without knowing this was a transit about to happen. It was about how music can often explain astro concepts better.
Song(s): Elysian Fields - Bum Raps and Love Taps + We’re in Love. They capture the paradox of Saturn square Venus well. Somewhat related to astro classes, I’d definitely suggest anyone interested to learn traditional as early as possible before modern. For me, it took 2 years to have my “Ah-Ha” moment where some weirdo tried to pull me into a comic book in terms of understanding the 12th house which is THE house I should inherently know right out of the gate. I’m still on topic since the 12th is a joy of Saturn. I’m more “conceptual” than “practicing”, but I’d say that taking astrological classes isn’t a bad investment at all. I was contemplating a proper attitude towards my overall view on something like these hard aspects, but pinpointing the 12th made it click that if I go about it as if a person can’t handle what something means, it suggests they can’t handle it. Meaning, the 12th actually does fit a Jungian shadow archetype of unintended consequences that are paradoxical. If something like Saturn square Venus is softened, it’s similar to saying a person can’t handle something and they may actually believe it and (as Adam said) it’s not THAT big of a deal. Hard aspects can be extremely creative. I did check out Adam’s video on the libra full moon (libra/aries axis) and something said is important which is if you remove the social stigmas with hard aspects they’re really not that big of a deal.
I have my ascendant ruler in retrograde in combustion in the 12th; it’s not that big of a deal and I wasn’t cast down from the high heavens to suffer a lifetime in hell as the star of lucifer.I don’t mean to appreciate difficult placements as that, I just mean everyone has a 12th house and Saturn in their chart so there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Saturn transits…. I could write 10 volumes on the 12th and (in fashion) they’d be wildly unpopular. 😂
I’d say, if someone listens to “bum raps and..” to think of it as how fear can cause self imposed isolation as “protection” creating new fears and self fulfilling prophecies until starting to realize the solution is worse than the problem. I haven’t watched the 2nd part yet, but just looking at the stark contrast with the 12th and 5th is interesting.
Astrological humor: that moment where you realize the 12th is just the contrary to the 11th and it’s blatantly SAYS it in writing.
Gemini Venus: you get: “Lovage - Book of the Month. And.. “Lovage - Strangers on a Train”.
Yay, I Ching time 💎
The Golden Girls names are Blanche, Rose, Dorothy and Sophia. I think the pen might be a Sophia 😆
Penny would be a good name
Penny
If it were my pen, I would definitely name it Penny;-)
Curious, how did you land on hexagram 21 and 55?
BENUS!!!!
Made me think of Beavis and Butthead. then i started thinking of other planet names. They’re not as good, but…
Erf
Moo
Schnoopiter
Plooter
and so on…
Didn't Beavis and I start during the last Pisces Saturn? Your list made me remember the way my foreign boot grandma said certain words and her way to say 🌏 was urch 💀 detch and🛀🏻 was batch.
ha! that’s excellent
I am just venting but right now in my life but there’s certain things that I can’t change cause I don’t have the inner resources the inner understanding or power within myself to change I don’t have the power or strength to take responsibility for myself
I want to have more power or control over myself but right now i don’t have the ability to do that
Wild. My best friend literally just broke up with her man of 2.5 years.
Pen=Rosaline (Roz)! Blanche! Dorothy!