Why Do My Relationships Keep Failing? | Therapy Thursday | Jerry & Tanisha Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
  • Have you ever wondered why all of your relationships keep sinking? Why you keep drowning in pain and people-pleasing? It's important that we understand that you cannot make what was never God's will into being His will.
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Комментарии • 251

  • @Miss_Tika1
    @Miss_Tika1 14 дней назад +100

    I’m proud of us for showing up for therapy

    • @denishafamily83
      @denishafamily83 14 дней назад +3

      I’m proud of you for being intentional 🙌🏽

    • @southernroots3896
      @southernroots3896 14 дней назад

      What a precious comment ❤ God bless you sweetheart

    • @joi5787
      @joi5787 10 дней назад

      Stay blessed beautiful! It’s a blessing to be here!

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 9 дней назад +9

    *”Until you understand the cause of death, you’ll keep killing things.” Whew!!!!*

  • @MelissaTondji
    @MelissaTondji 14 дней назад +74

    Last year I randomly came across a video of pastor Jerry on facebook. It was so intresting that I had to search for him on all social media. And here I am one year later, showing up to all therapy thursday and sunday service on line. I am from Cameroon in central Africa, and this church is a huge blessing for my faith. May our lord Jesus bless you❤

    • @mhodges118
      @mhodges118 14 дней назад +5

      @@MelissaTondji 😭😭😭🕊️🕊️🕊️😇😇😇🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🙏🙏 it's 15 mins from my house and I found him on Instagram me and hubby watch ever Sunday for last 2 months and now Alot of my friends are finding him😭🕊️😇🙌🏼🙏

    • @MelissaTondji
      @MelissaTondji 14 дней назад

      @@mhodges118 great to ear this too❤

    • @beuncamalone
      @beuncamalone 14 дней назад +1

      same

    • @jovisan1770
      @jovisan1770 13 дней назад +4

      Same ! I’m a travel nurse in Nebraska right now . They have been such a blessing 🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @LQR633
      @LQR633 13 дней назад

      Same

  • @vp205.
    @vp205. 13 дней назад +23

    Mrs Flowers is speaking FACTS! I wasted 5.5 yrs playing wife! N never got a ring. Yes! Wait on the Lord. Wasted time is the worst n so painful!

    • @DyaLi-O
      @DyaLi-O 10 дней назад +1

      Yes I give you a hats off for walking out after 5.5 years. I sat there for 15 years and now I don’t even recognize the image in front of me in the mirror. I am so scared of my explosive anger and hurt

    • @vp205.
      @vp205. 10 дней назад +3

      @DyaLi-O just pray. I was angry but then I realized the amount of peace that I have without having a piece of a man. God has a plan no matter what. I beat myself up for months. Almost 1 year since the breakup n it will be bad days. But I have smiled more since leaving than i did the whole 5.5 yr relationship.

    • @ajwriter5699
      @ajwriter5699 9 дней назад +2

      I’m proud of you and glad that you’re here.

    • @londontyler6598
      @londontyler6598 9 дней назад

      Wow!! You must be my twin

  • @camiekit44
    @camiekit44 14 дней назад +28

    "Jesus is my doctor and he writes out all of my medicine in my room". I'm proud of everyone for attending Therapy Thursday ❤

    • @lexifresh1552
      @lexifresh1552 13 дней назад +1

      Proud of you for showing up sis

  • @NaeBae0502
    @NaeBae0502 14 дней назад +22

    Yassss Tanisha has an amazing voice!! I love seeing Mrs. Flowers! I’m proud of us for showing up to therapy.

  • @tootie3377
    @tootie3377 7 дней назад +1

    31:54 “Allow the Holy Spirit to drive your attraction.” 🔥🔥🔥

  • @wdsanders04
    @wdsanders04 14 дней назад +38

    Yelling don’t make them get it.
    1. You keep making a selection before seeking God's direction.
    2. Never perform a relational autopsy.
    3. It was season-based.
    4. You're treating thoughts like facts.
    5. God has better
    We need boundaries towards you:
    1. If you have a short fuse.
    2. If you're the teacher, never the student.
    3. If you never consider a different narrative.
    4. If you have to have control
    5. If you are a liar

    • @nathifablanchfield8925
      @nathifablanchfield8925 14 дней назад +1

      Thank you

    • @wdsanders04
      @wdsanders04 14 дней назад

      @ more than welcome

    • @GodMade1012
      @GodMade1012 13 дней назад +1

      Thank you for the notes brother. God bless you

    • @wdsanders04
      @wdsanders04 13 дней назад +1

      @godmade1012 your more than welcome I make sure I do them for each one I been doing it for over a year.

    • @gurlycash7394
      @gurlycash7394 12 дней назад

      The consistency and dedication is impressive. Good job​@@wdsanders04

  • @kayejones300
    @kayejones300 14 дней назад +24

    We both ruined the relationship. The enemy had its way. He let a problem fester, and then the attack was on me. Ending in overthinking and frustration with only one person open and willing to rebuild. The root of a problem festered and my words came out harsh. Other than that we were good for three years. I beleive it really had to happen to strengthen me.

    • @ajwriter5699
      @ajwriter5699 9 дней назад +1

      Ma’am! Please get your camera out of my old apartment! Lol

    • @kayejones300
      @kayejones300 9 дней назад +1

      @ajwriter5699 chile...lol

  • @gyongyverdr.tamas-kovacs7164
    @gyongyverdr.tamas-kovacs7164 11 дней назад +8

    I have the kind of personality, that if I could, I'd embrace the whole world and keep them in my bosom.
    So I felt rejected a lot of times... Now as I just turned forty - great shout-out to womn born in 1984, like Tanisha Flowers, too! - I realized, like exactly on my bday I came to realize, maybe it's not about feeling rejected that people leave, it's more about change is permanent and maybe the grace is in people, that stay!
    It felt so relieving!

    • @ms.williejean2056
      @ms.williejean2056 3 дня назад

      I hate the rejection has had it's way with you as many times as it has. It is a lier and is demonic and is not a part God's Kingdom. God accepts you, loves you and wants you to know Psalms 139 +.
      You are loved❤

  • @sarahrisee
    @sarahrisee 14 дней назад +21

    Ahhh I’m so happy to see Tanisha on here!!!

  • @Melaninnmuse
    @Melaninnmuse 12 дней назад +3

    I love when they double team, hey Mrs.Flowers 🌺🌸💐

  • @monicafuston2349
    @monicafuston2349 14 дней назад +8

    Proud of all of us who are showing up each week for therapy

  • @VivianaNance
    @VivianaNance 10 дней назад +2

    Hey everyone! I’m proud of you all for being here!!!🤍🤍🤍

  • @tootie3377
    @tootie3377 7 дней назад +1

    0:44 such a beautiful voice 1st Lady!

  • @NaomiHaffordSmithJones
    @NaomiHaffordSmithJones 14 дней назад +11

    Levels of maturity affects response

  • @NaomiHaffordSmithJones
    @NaomiHaffordSmithJones 14 дней назад +18

    I’m proud of myself for showing up for therapy

  • @ayeyoitsdrop
    @ayeyoitsdrop 14 дней назад +19

    Mrs. Flowers needs her own segment . Please

    • @Quietdayz
      @Quietdayz 14 дней назад +10

      When you ready Sis! A Flowering Life. Lol

    • @Marci82
      @Marci82 14 дней назад +2

      ​@@Quietdayz love it!

    • @ayeyoitsdrop
      @ayeyoitsdrop 13 дней назад +3

      @@Quietdayz ouuuuu!!!! Sister Saturdays With mrs flowers

  • @msmia8016
    @msmia8016 14 дней назад +12

    I am proud of all of you who checked in.

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 9 дней назад +1

    You betta SANG, Lady Tanisha!!

  • @tootie3377
    @tootie3377 7 дней назад

    42:23 yes!!! There’s a time for everything. Ecclesiastes 🔥

  • @IyalooTwapewaN
    @IyalooTwapewaN 14 дней назад +7

    I am proud of all of us for showing up for therapy'😊

  • @angelacerniglia4801
    @angelacerniglia4801 14 дней назад +8

    Praying for God’s discernment, Holy Spirit be my guide.

    • @sarahtilahun7144
      @sarahtilahun7144 14 дней назад

      I am proud of you for showing up for therapy

  • @DarianaMiller
    @DarianaMiller 7 дней назад

    I am proud of myself showing up for Therapy Thursday!!

  • @terrielsettles110
    @terrielsettles110 7 дней назад

    I’m proud of you for showing up for therapy

  • @Isabelle-mm4ep
    @Isabelle-mm4ep 7 дней назад

    I'm proud of us showing up for therapy.❤

  • @LRNJ-43
    @LRNJ-43 14 дней назад +4

    That part about being EMOTIONALLY and SPIRITUALLY MATURE. 🎯🔥💯

  • @ayeyoitsdrop
    @ayeyoitsdrop 14 дней назад +10

    I love that we get to see mrs flowers! it gives me something to look forward to your relationship with your spouse

    • @monicagill2942
      @monicagill2942 14 дней назад

      I'm proud of you for showing up 👏🏽👏🏽❤️🙌🏾

  • @tyeshacross6421
    @tyeshacross6421 14 дней назад +2

    I’m so proud of you all for showing up for therapy ❤

  • @Blu_Goddess7789
    @Blu_Goddess7789 9 дней назад

    Thank you Lord 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @All_That_Jazz-JL
    @All_That_Jazz-JL 5 дней назад

    I can’t wait to hear you guys returning to your music ministry as well as continuing to guide our souls with Godly guidance🙏. Bc wow! 🙌🏽
    🔥Mrs.Flowers👑 yassss💖! Pastor Flowers 🎤bars okay!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ryanstrong212
    @ryanstrong212 6 дней назад

    Thank you. May God continue to bless your family.

  • @GODAnointedOneAnderson
    @GODAnointedOneAnderson 14 дней назад +2

    Proud of you all for showing up for therapy

  • @KeyanaJaee
    @KeyanaJaee 14 дней назад +3

    I thank you both for your surrender and obedience to the Holy Spirit!!! This is the only ministry that goes in depth on these topics that this generation so desperately needs! Thank you Jesus 😭😭🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @latriecewhitaker2579
    @latriecewhitaker2579 14 дней назад +8

    Im proud of myself for checking in for therapy. Thank u both

  • @tootie3377
    @tootie3377 7 дней назад

    37:13 oh my goodness!!!! I was just in the book of Joshua this week and read about Ai 😮I have to go back now that I have this wisdom. Thank you!

  • @gococogococo
    @gococogococo 13 дней назад +1

    The timing is amazing🙏🏾

  • @purposebyhisdesign7614
    @purposebyhisdesign7614 14 дней назад +6

    Two of my favorites🥰🥰🥰🥰 loooove you guys all the way from Mississippi ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JaninaTylr
    @JaninaTylr 13 дней назад +1

    Been there. Thankfully I am learning from my mistakes God’s way, no longer the world’s way.

  • @keeronee203
    @keeronee203 14 дней назад +3

    Omg . I been listening to y’all for 2 months now and such a change in me .. thank god for the word and understanding

  • @pluvlocs
    @pluvlocs 14 дней назад +5

    I'm proud of all the newbies and og's that are here today with us!

  • @mmuton01
    @mmuton01 8 дней назад

    Its been 3 weeks I haven't turned up, I am so proud of us for showing up for therapy

  • @PreciousOne777
    @PreciousOne777 14 дней назад +8

    Say that Jerry! Someone told me that years ago..."Age doesn't mean maturity."

  • @JakquiJones
    @JakquiJones 13 дней назад +1

    Thank you Flowers family for showing up for yourselves, us and the glory of our father. I need this and I'm happy to be intentional with my time to be here with you. You have been a blessing to my life and walk in therapy and with christ. Thank you.

  • @shanziiifbaybee
    @shanziiifbaybee 5 дней назад

    This therapy thursday really spoke to my heart

    • @chinesechance
      @chinesechance 3 дня назад

      Thank you for showing up to therapy today❤

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 11 дней назад +1

    You Guys are really a beautiful couple. The genuine & sincere love that you have 4 the LORD JESUS CHRIST 🙌 and for each other shines true!!!💓🧭🧸🪖🥾

  • @tootie3377
    @tootie3377 7 дней назад

    44:06 “Anger is one letter away from danger.” 🔥🔥🔥

  • @alishabolton1957
    @alishabolton1957 14 дней назад +3

    My husband and I needed this conversation so bad.

    • @krish1of1
      @krish1of1 14 дней назад +2

      i’m proud of you for showing up for therapy

    • @ajwriter5699
      @ajwriter5699 9 дней назад

      Thanks for showing up!!

  • @Miss_Tika1
    @Miss_Tika1 14 дней назад +4

    29:36 YESSS 👏🏾 PREACH MRS FLOWERS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rozkeijahmorman5093
    @rozkeijahmorman5093 9 дней назад

    I’m proud of us for showing up

  • @Faith-bv4yr
    @Faith-bv4yr 13 дней назад +1

    So very proud of everyone for showing up 🙏❤️

  • @GodfidentLove
    @GodfidentLove 14 дней назад +3

    The definition is definitely my issue. It's just me and my kids so it's something I really have a issue with expecting them to know my definition. That is such a word. It hit home pastor

  • @jamesthompson222
    @jamesthompson222 13 дней назад +2

    I'm 50 years old and I'm learning about Asperger's that's in me. Also learning about the autistic meltdowns and artistic shutdowns that create problems in my life daily.
    Thank you for your therapy sessions they do help.
    I have started several months ago to build a partnership with the Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @nakiawyatt8962
    @nakiawyatt8962 11 дней назад

    I’m proud of us for showing up for Therapy

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 14 дней назад +2

    I’m glad to hear this about seasonal bonds concerning people (family)

  • @Thetruthwillfindyou
    @Thetruthwillfindyou 12 дней назад

    Ooooo the definitions!!!! I swear that’s why most relationships fail!

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog 13 дней назад +1

    Thank God for good relational wisdom.

  • @areyfni
    @areyfni 14 дней назад +2

    thank you for your wisdom! & proud of everyone for showing up for yourself.
    ps - online small group would be so great!

    • @walkertiffani24
      @walkertiffani24 14 дней назад

      I’m proud of you for showing up to therapy today ! May God continue to bless you & your home. Remember through Christ , all things are possible 💖

  • @vlxcalcell2892
    @vlxcalcell2892 14 дней назад +1

    Im proud of us for showing up for chat!!!

  • @PlusSizeKayanna
    @PlusSizeKayanna 13 дней назад +1

    Literally came across a video on TikTok, about a 1 min clip of Jerry talking about “voices” and I was trying to seek and hear God’s voice about what to do, about my current situation. And I couldn’t. And I came across that video. And I was searching through the comments, trying to find the name of the video or the name of the speaker(Jerry) at the time. And I watched the whole video. And I’m like WOW!!!! This is the reason why!!!! Man oh man!!!! And I’ve been following Jerry for the past two months now.. I plan to visit the church soon.

  • @peteythedisciple813
    @peteythedisciple813 2 дня назад

    Beautiful and insightful session. Thank you beloved. I’m grateful for the wisdom you both gave and have given in the fast few sermons of the cheat code series. Definitely helping me prepare for what’s to come with the treasure God has placed in my life.

  • @WainaWay
    @WainaWay 13 дней назад +3

    Not all women cry to get things to go in their favor. Especially if criticism is not the truth and you get blamed for stuff you not doing and it’s all the time. People have to learn how to talk to other people. Sometimes others like to criticize others cause they’re deflecting from something and taking something out on you.

  • @Cnoodle
    @Cnoodle 8 дней назад

    Mrs. Flowers is dropping gems 💎💎💎 Sis snatched my virtual lace front 😭 Thank you both always for the Godly wisdom 🙏🏽💛

  • @liciadee6003
    @liciadee6003 9 дней назад

    I feel every word of this....😢

  • @PerfectlyPayla
    @PerfectlyPayla 11 дней назад

    This is really good. I sent it to like 6 to 7 ❤❤❤❤people I know.

  • @rebeccawalling3111
    @rebeccawalling3111 14 дней назад +3

    I am proud of you for showing up to therapy ❤

    • @kandace2232
      @kandace2232 14 дней назад

      I am proud of you for showing up for therapy 💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @GodfidentLove
    @GodfidentLove 14 дней назад +2

    Ohwee pastor you all are definitely maturing with eachother to actually notice this. Yesssss amen. Thank yall for doing this Thursday. This is sooooo true.

  • @shyannmoore1819
    @shyannmoore1819 14 дней назад +2

    this couldn't have came at a better time, God is GOOD! Thank you Church Family ❤

  • @monicarobinson3612
    @monicarobinson3612 13 дней назад

    I’m proud of everyone for showing up!

  • @playfulpuffinstudio
    @playfulpuffinstudio 13 дней назад +1

    I used to binge watch Redefined TV. Usually during my downtime at the end of the day, I would do artwork in some form and just binge watch. I’ve been in a very difficult season and I have not been able to. This is the first video I have watched in a really long time Like usual, it was so good. Honestly, in the first 5 1/2 minutes I felt like someone was cutting some onions because I felt convicted. I’m planning to binge watch again, but I honestly started here because I was so excited to see Tanisha lol

  • @courtnianderson3374
    @courtnianderson3374 12 дней назад

    This is a sermon I am able to speak about to my spouse, i just want to thank you for being the hands and feet of our mighty Lord.

  • @joi5787
    @joi5787 10 дней назад

    Such a blessing to be here! So proud of y’all for showing up to therapy today 😃🤍💛🤍💛🤍

  • @vinnieedwards9699
    @vinnieedwards9699 14 дней назад +2

    Mrs Flowers You Preaching! ❤❤❤

  • @kyraelisayoumans3961
    @kyraelisayoumans3961 14 дней назад +1

    I am proud of all you . Continue to keep seeking God no matter what !!! ❤

  • @3minutesofencouragement278
    @3minutesofencouragement278 12 дней назад

    So glad to see the beautiful Tanisha!! ❤❤😊

  • @Jazzykayyyy
    @Jazzykayyyy 12 дней назад

    The flowers are just beautiful!!! Thank you Yah for them!!! No matter who gives a message on this channel YOU WILL WALK AWAY WITH NOTHING BUT YAHWEHS WORD!! Thank you YAH FOR THIS MINISTRY ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @hollieflowers4995
    @hollieflowers4995 14 дней назад +1

    Thanks for the message and speaking life. God is truly using you two.

  • @sarahroyer0914
    @sarahroyer0914 2 часа назад

    This is soooo good!

  • @eritt123
    @eritt123 12 дней назад

    These two amazing servants of the Lord,,,are couple goals fr! If i don’t have this type relationship….i don’t want it ❤

  • @tamekabarnes8538
    @tamekabarnes8538 10 дней назад

    This is really good! I’m gonna take note of those reasons why relationships keep failing📝

  • @jswithmommyplus3072
    @jswithmommyplus3072 11 дней назад

    Preach First Lady Flowers 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @terriyonaadams3063
    @terriyonaadams3063 10 дней назад

    amen!

  • @misssmith6179
    @misssmith6179 10 дней назад

    This is sooo good!!!💖💖💖

  • @rarejourneys
    @rarejourneys 14 дней назад +1

    Tanisha speaking truth to us ladies, at least for me, had to realize I was immature

  • @LadyJay_23
    @LadyJay_23 13 дней назад

    Proud of the intention of everyone's presence‼️🙏🏾

  • @ms.williejean2056
    @ms.williejean2056 3 дня назад

    Ouch, thank you!

  • @Honeylove888
    @Honeylove888 11 дней назад

    I’m proud of us for showing up ❤

  • @shugababybooks
    @shugababybooks 14 дней назад +3

    Hey y’all miss y’all🙏🏾❤️

  • @Jeneawhite.
    @Jeneawhite. 14 дней назад +2

    Beautiful message.❤

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 13 дней назад

    Thank you!! I needed all of this!! Praise the Lord ❤

  • @deannaroberts9857
    @deannaroberts9857 10 дней назад

    I needed this. I stumbled upon your page last week and have been watching your videos ever since. This is my current season. I know this wasn't by mistake.

  • @kingdomtalk3264
    @kingdomtalk3264 12 дней назад

    Absolutely love this tag duo!!!

  • @sunsetsandsea
    @sunsetsandsea 14 дней назад +2

    Love them❤
    thank you for the therapy

  • @crystalsjourneywithjesus3918
    @crystalsjourneywithjesus3918 9 дней назад

    This was sooo good!!! 🙌🏽💕

  • @annatsilo5757
    @annatsilo5757 14 дней назад +1

    I am proud of you all ❤❤❤❤

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 13 дней назад

    Proud of you all for showing up to therapy. This was soo good.

  • @kaylnwilson
    @kaylnwilson 14 дней назад +2

    This was really good, and eye opening. I wish I knew all this earlier.

    • @silvergray2345
      @silvergray2345 14 дней назад +1

      I truly understand! God is giving it to u now for His purpose

  • @darkskinisalwaysin
    @darkskinisalwaysin 14 дней назад

    Every relationship I’ve had has been a homicide. Thank God 🙏🏿✨

  • @shentariamitchell3377
    @shentariamitchell3377 12 дней назад

    Thanks for taking time out to do these podcast! ❤

  • @kholekathabisilegenatrudis4450
    @kholekathabisilegenatrudis4450 13 дней назад

    I'm proud of you for showing up for therapy ❤