Thank you all for your continuous support over the years. Before Chasing: Reality, I was drawing stick figures and turning them into shows, working on my own RUclips Channel, acting in a web series to now making others dreams come true. IMPACTING and CHANGING what it truly means to Chase and Showcase your Talents for people to support WORLDWIDE. From the blood, sweat, and tears put into creating this project and most importantly meeting and uplifting so many unique personalities, I truly feel like I have accomplished something I never thought I would in this lifetime. 📷 Unfortunately, we are not having a traditional reunion, however, I am working on other specials to make up for it. More details are on the final after show here: ruclips.net/video/5EjiiJk8Z8s/видео.html
Well this is one of the first RUclips series I started following/watching since season 1…. I’ve watched the growth and enjoyed it. 🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 keep doing your BIG ONES!!! 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
And the fact that there are people out here who will try to justify touching you against your will or make it seem like you are playing hard to get or hot and cold just blows.my.mind.
@@ColoradoFallsI believe BOTH sides. I believe Cain is a nasty lil play fiend and always has been (he was touching on MULTIPLE ppl there. Not just Oliver and ain’t nobody else feel so violated and they said stop too) but on that day he didn’t see it to be a big deal because they have history with the nasty taps and I believe Oliver didn’t wanna be touched because Tonka was there and he was tryna prove a point to Cain (you chose Tonka so don’t touch me since you wanna be with her) and he had to follow through with his petty point to get back at Cain.
Cain is a full blown psychopath. They love to isolate their partners and feed them lies to get empathy and tears honey 😂😂😂no accountability. Tonka RUN❗️❗️
Yes, Cain i like your energy and you seem like you could be fun, but you took no accountability- and this makes me sad for Tonka because you really owe him better. Do better Cain and i wish you all the success in the future.
Tonka is extremely disappointing. It's giving I never received this type of attention before. This has happened to me and people will use you while pretending they love you. I know this will end in heartbreak for Tonka but it is a lesson she has to learn.
Good for Oliver & Lauryn England. I watched all of the seasons of this show, and they were the two that got on this platform and used it to get themselves to the next level. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Cain acting like Oliver is jealous of his “new relationship” is comical 😂. Cain if your in a relationship with someone you don’t touch others inappropriately or flirt with them 😂
Stand by your man/woman or don't. To each his own. You were born alone, and you'll die alone. Put energy into your relationship. If your friends/family don't understand. Who cares 🤷♂️.
I know people like Tonka - me included - but she has 2 people telling her *to her face* "your boyfriend touched me innapropriately while we were in the same room as you" I just don't understand the neutral mentality after hearing that
They invited Kain based on their mutual dislike for Oliver. Trying to get more tea because they know he has history with him. Berlin you reached out to him only because you knew you were going to see him at the party not that you were checking on him genuinely.
That part !!!! I truly believe that had Berlin NOT CALLED Oliver the day before on some energy.....Oliver would not have walked into the event with his guard up !!!!! That was weird of Berlin honestly
I agree her intentions weren’t pure, the minute she got tempered, she threw everybody side comments into a major dig. In front of everybody, very much so a hater
So Cain is going to skip past the fact that oliver told him to stop? Idgaf how many times y’all slept together or how nasty it was. How simple do you have to be to not understand no means no! Cut it out Cain. I’m not here the slut shaming at all
I feel a little sorry for Tonka because she deserves so much more than to just forgive someone that in a sense is telling her exactly who he is and who he still may be.
@@chocolatechipcookieface3668 say who now? Not my sweet baby, legendary Tonka. Say it ain't so as I pass out on the porch n fan myself like a white lady realizing her sands of time are running out as are the days of our lives.
It is beyond disgusting and disturbing to hear so many of us automatically decide Oliver is lying, or downplay SA altogether because of their history. No is a complete sentence. Nothing to be misconstrued, misunderstood or miscommunicated. Praying for all trigger by this. Even more for those of us going against survivors for Any reason. Shameful AF. Bliss & Blessings to everyone as they move on. Job well done here! 🎉🎉🎉❤🥳
SA isn’t that easy either. Just like there are many victims there as just as many people that use it to their advantage. We can’t automatically assume anything. I wish Cain would have stopped after he said stop. Something tells me they have been in similar situations and it has gone beyond the stop which can be detrimental when you actually want the action to stop. It’s unfortunate that it got to this place but no is no.
Thanks for this post. I didn’t get triggered until Oliver talked with the therapist. It’s sad how Cain admitted but twisted the story and Oliver still was made to look like the problem
So what happens now that Wayne, jatwan both said that they experienced inappropriate touching from Oliver? This is just too much. Production what are you guys going to do about this. This very serious.
Kendra sitting in between Berlin & Jetwaun as they went on their rant was HILARIOUS!!! Sis didn’t want no parts of that mess lol 😂 and might I say she handled that very well and was unbiased.
The fact jetwan and the rest of the birds attacked Oliver the whole episode is wild!! Anytime Oliver tried to make peace with them and include them in anything they were so happy and were ready to be his friend. They would be ready to jump when he said jump, but when he outshines them they wanna be mad and make him the bad person. So glad Oliver never engages with them and continues to shine in their faces while they sit in the same place mad that he’s winning. 🤣🤷🏾♂️
I like that Wayne was able to be separate from Kendra this season. Even though him and Kendra aren’t on the best of terms, I liked him having his own two feet to stand on this season.
My sympathy for Tonka has shifted to my sympathy Jae after hearing and seeing all this stuff come out, I could not imagine loving someone like family and seeing them be with someone that disrespects and hurts that friend/family member along with others in the friend group 38:40 that's real
Berlin gives me second hand embarrassment. The guy on the phone sounded every bit of 25 and a paid actor. WE DON’T BELIEVE YOUR STORY LINE. On top of that, sis be moving around a lot sweating up a storm . You okay girl ? 😂
I respect Jae wanting to fight for Tonka, but sometimes you have to allow people to make choices and learn from them without interfering with what they need to understand about their decision.
I did this with my friends. You can’t care about your friends self worth more than they do. So while I understand where he’s fed up if I could go back I would have just chilled and let the cards fall.. Having a low tolerance for BS even when it comes to my friends doing what I consider themselves a injustice is very hard for some ppl to even be apart of..
I said the same thing. I’ve definitely learned to stay out of family and friend’s romantic situations, because in the end it’s only going to affect your relationship with them.
Nique has really matured. I’m glad he sees his value and taking proper steps to focus on his career and peace. The “friend” group may not be for everybody.
"I'm gonna stand by my man ." Y'all be so quick to stand by a man who is clearly causing you stress, issues, & problems, but will stop talking to your close family member(s) & close/best friend(s) if they say or do something you don't like . When y'all start having relationship problems and/or break up, don't come running back around trying to hang out now . Go right back where you were . Y'all gonna learn .
Berlin tried to make a last ditch effort at an Emmy during these last 2 episodes. Baby you flopped. 😂😂 Sidenote: I’m really gonna miss this show!! Thank y’all for blessing us with this amazing series!!
I 100% disliked the last episode and I have to say I am not surprised. My spirit told me it would be based around a smear campaign of Oliver and his experience with King Cain. To dislike someone so much that their experience is downplayed and looked over as untrue is the exact reason victims don’t speak out. This community wants to be treated as equal, want to bold their daily experience and what they go through, ask for acceptance for who they are, but the minute one of their own stands up for themselves they are the very ones to shame him?! These same people who shamed people were the same people who broke bread with him at one point and most likely it was due to an offer he put on the table. I see why he acts standoffish or “condescending” as Willa tried to call him. He’s surrounded himself around people who are his friend one minute and advocates to destroy him the next. Cain thought he ate by exposing their intimacy details but really just reconfirmed the class act that Oliver IS! He shows class and professionalism is public and keeps his freak in the bed where it’s supposed to be left. I’m glad Oliver is proceeding forward with his legal claims. Some people don’t get it until their name is listed on paper with a criminal background attached to it.
Seeing “series finale” in the title is kind of surreal. From seeing where this show started with S1 to how it expanded to other cities and how much the editing and production has improved is just mind blowing to me. It has truly been a pleasure to have watched this series and other various Chasing: Reality productions since the beginning. Applause all around for the cast and crew. It’s the end of an era.
I'm going to miss this show. Thank you An'Darrio for all the years of hard work and dedication to your craft and letting us come along for the ride. It definitely was a ride I'll always remember. Here's to the future of your brand and channel and I can't wait to see what you have in store for us next. Good luck.
Jae and Rico stepped their game up. Their commentaries GAVE😂😭. And Jae’s commentary being the “real” friend has me on a chokehold, I gagged! Another season of wishing to had seen more of Willa. The guy from we were born (I don’t want to misspell his name) just kept trying to instigate stuff out of the blue, starting fake beef and just misconstruing everything and taking out of context was a chop for me. Miss Seyven, I believe, still has to find her ways. There’s a lot of back and forth and indecisiveness going on, but then again that’s life for some of us.
For Tonka (and those alike)... Anyone can be there for you in your time of need. Yes, it's a great gesture. Yes, it shows care and support. That does not obligate you to commit yourself to them. Like, you can't even defend this person because you know they're on bs and wrong. Ew. *To add: Jae clocked it 40:05 !!!!!!!
Exactly and for people talking about loyalty be loyal to what matters not just blindly being loyal, even if you love the person there comes a time you need to make a judgement call, a true friend/partner will say something when they think you're wrong not just back you up no matter what.
Thank you! I’m sick with RA and had to go through many surgeries. I had a friend who would come sit with me and call me to check up on me throughout that period. Shortly after she started to do a lot unkind things to me and begin not acting like a friend. I begin to make excuses for her like Tonka is doing for Cain, but I had to come to the realization that I didn’t owe her anything and I had to create boundaries between her and I. Although I felt guilt, my mental peace was more important to me. Hopefully Tonka realizes that for himself.
Now wait a minute! This man is disrespecting you to the the degree of inapprorpriate touching 2 of your friends (Rico said Sister, deeper than friend) in the same place where you are also to the point that they both had to say they would F him all the way up if he didn't stop...AND ONE OF THEM ACTUALLY HAD TO DO IT?!? Tonka Baby, I'm starting to look at you a little crazy, because to know all this and you are still with him...??? Baby, you will never "have peace," as long as you are with that man, and I'm going to leave it there.
To hear that “therapist/counselor “ say heterosexual ppl won’t understand sexual assault is wild. Like, Wtf? Did I hear that correctly? Saying heterosexual ppl don’t get assaulted? As someone whose also been assaulted as a child and has endured diff kinds of abuse .. I’m flabbergasted that this came out of his mouth….
I could be wrong but I'm wondering if he was talking about the added component of being shamed/embarrassed for being gay, like how Oliver was saying he didn't want to tell anyone because they were already angry he was gay. And how gay people that are molested can be victim blamed moreso by those that see being gay as automatically sexually deviant and evil/wrong and can't separate the wrongness of the SA (which every sexuality unfortunately experiences) from the being gay part because they don't like that aspect of the victim. But if that was what he meant he worded that wholely improperly and if that wasn't what he meant that was a messed up thing to say.
That’s exactly when I knew, I said this man is not licensed to be a therapist , ain’t no way it’s a LPC,LCW Behind his name . That was really tasteless and ignorant to be honest. Ain’t no damn way that man credentialed, cause huh, and the fact they didn’t cut it out , made me be like interesting. Go back and watch the episode before this one , Toni said something a bit weird too
@@Shyknit nah that ain’t it because he is speaking of the cast members, he first said some ppl had his back then he proceeded to say some was saying things whispering around differently, all the ppl in the chasing circle are homosexuals, so how heterosexuals get thrown into was wild Af ,
You know what’s really crazy though? I had loved Tonka at the beginning, but I did keep one thing in the back of my mind about her. That thing Toni said at the beginning of the season about her advocating for Tonka’s status/title in their kiki scene, but not getting that same energy in return and ending up with nobody speaking up on her behalf… I was hoping that it wouldn’t be a part of a larger pattern of Tonka’s but now with all this shit with Cain I can see that it is. A friend that will remain silent and “neutral” when it’s your time to be supported is a friend you can do much better without. Tonka gives me too afraid of being disliked to stand on any beliefs other than when it comes to standing by a man.
At the table they were just airing out past grievances with Oliver and using that resentment to downplay what Cain did. No one was at least attempting objectivity or trying to be neutral
That’s what gets me about Jetwan and I like Jetwan but when he decides he doesn’t like you, he’s the type to embellish shit and throw salt on your name without fact checking.
Oliver's experience could have been triggering for him . Whether he let King Cain touch him off camera ,doesn't mean he wants to be touched on camera. I feel bad for Tonka because it's like dang King Cain was touching everyone at the party, and Tonka keeps saying that's her man ...like girl he wants to be everyone's man.
It’s something wrong with Tonka fr. It’s screaming insecure. Jae is a good friend for calling the sh!t out. I hope Oliver keeps his foot on Cain’s neck.
@@yeahokaypodcast8234they didn’t really seem like flirtatious messages, besides the “I’m trying to see you before I leave for this secret location”.. you think differently?
Naw Oliver put the paws on YOU sir 😂😂😂😂 I feel Cain tryna use Tonka to get away from Atlanta cause he know being with him he gone be took care of and have somewhere to go....
Consent doesn’t last for weeks days hours or even minutes sometimes. No is no, doesn’t matter when he gave consent once he said stop that should’ve been IT! Period. Cain is a predator if he doesn’t understand that! I said what I said 🙄
Shame on y’all trying to put something like drug uses on someone u don’t even kno…y’all all sound like haters, if y’all would pay attention y’all would kno she suffers from ptsd and anxiety she said it on the earlier episodes…they filmed most of these scenes in the summer….wearing wigs and makeup would make anyone sweat in that summer heat smdh…
Phew the OG LGBT RUclips reality franchise...the blueprint from which many have sprung. What am I supposed to do now lol? I love the spin-offs but ATL always had the best cast and storylines plus the production is top-notch. Thanks for the good times yall!
Tonka, girl no, King Cain is a season, not a forever ride or die for life. Gurl, he’s not for you, he’s for cake and all the sweetest, but not 4 you.❤ You should be beside your friend not the shrimp. I would stand for a Lobster, not a lying shrimp.
Cain totally dismissed Wayne’s tea😂😂I could be wrong but the way he handled that situation would be how I would if I wasn’t into the person Wayne was talking about. He was more interested in the fact that Oliver has “touched” other cast members…..something is off about Cain.
@tabwab83 People only show the good on SM, not saying that they are not happy, just commenting on what I see. And what I see, is Cain playing with Tonka.
@@kerrya5208I agree completely. I feel like you can see it from a mile away. And the way Tonka excuses Cain’s actions is mind boggling. We’ve all seen a friend in that kind of situation or been the one who was blinded by love, but after what Oliver said I’m just surprised by Tonka’s choice.
I see two things. He's really not into Tonka, and now, he doesn't have to feel bad about touching his friends, the grindr ads, nor anyone else he may have had sex with while dating Tonka. He is building his new brand and ready to downplay and dismiss it all for a ride on Tonka's coattails! Sad
Jae should not retire, but definitely take the advice of Montel, which I absolutely loved that he was able to return for the final episode! ❤ Jae should just go in a different route so that he can get paid what he deserves.
Kendra is my favorite girl of the show. So, I can’t wait to hear about what she does in the future with her music career because I will be continuing to support.
Im only 6mins in and this conversation between Cain and Tonka is such gaslighting. Gay Black love sadly is so rooted in superficiality,Tonka is willing to accept a piece of man rather than none at all just because of how he looks. Hoping he finds true love🙏🏾
Found this show during the pandemic, and It really got me through. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve binge watched it from the start. Sad to see it go, but happy to see what’s next
Im so proud of Kendra😊!! It took a lot for her to sit there and listen to the BS!! Little do they know that shit was going in one ear and out the other😂!! Kendra dont trust these folks, Real Talk boo
Poor Tonka he has low self esteem and who likes him, he likes back with no questions.. I need Tonka to come into himself and see and know he's amazing.. Cain is going to have you lose friends..
I know Wayne not making a face talking about “Oliver kissed/touched me”. He was literally one of the first ppl I’ve seen touchey feel, smack a**, and lick his lips towards someone. It’s okay for Oliver to feel some type of way about you “choosing Tonka” it’s not okay to continue to touch him once he said stop. Period. I can’t believe Tonka is a okay with King Cain touching her friends even after they’ve expressed how upset it made them. Um, hello? Very disappointing. Your silence is louder than you think 🤷🏾♀️
I really take issue with what therapist said regarding straight people’s inability to understand sexual assault. 1) therapist is being used loosely because I cannot fathom that this person went through all the required education and would still say something ignorant like that. This is so problematic and harmful to both communities.
I took it as he was referring to that community specifically AND sexual assault being ignored bc they are “gay” some people feel like “you wanted it” it was a broad statement but with more context I don’t think he meant to invalidate any humans unwanted sexual experiences!
All this time this man was on different scenes they have been saying he is a therapist , I don’t believe that. It’s a difference between ppl coming to talk to you all the time and someone being an actual licensed therapist. I work in behavioral health there is no way this man is credentialed.
To Whom is Monitoring. I can not believe Oliver's "Therapist" saying Heterosexual People will not understand about being Molested or Violated as a Child. How DARE He and How DARE Chasing Reality.
Yeah, because we are most likely more vulnerable and most likely to experience this in our homes others home etc....speaking from experience it ruins livez🥺
Jetwan talking about Cookie made me laugh out of pure shock, but that was high key evil and unnecessary. Like, the vitriol he has for Oliver is on another level.
What Cain is missing and it’s truly upsetting is that no matter what, when, where or why yall did anything in the past doesn’t compare to this moment, the moment Oliver said NO, it meant NO. You violated Oliver and instead of being a man about it and owning up to your disgusting behavior your narcissistic ways are showing as a result. Thennnnn to find out you touched Rico tooooo! Oh you are a wild boy, disrespectful! I do hope Tonka wakes up to see what Jae has ALWAYS said and whatever one else is saying! Leave him in the dust with his safety pins and such!
TONKA is like a big teddy bear . He seems so sweet and I think he needs to see that CAIN is playing with his heart . Better to see it sooner than later ! ‘You my slut’ - who says that ?!
Please y’all get a new therapist because what does he mean hetero sexual people will never understand being touched inappropriately? That can happen to anybody straight or gay.
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Thank you all for your continuous support over the years. Before Chasing: Reality, I was drawing stick figures and turning them into shows, working on my own RUclips Channel, acting in a web series to now making others dreams come true. IMPACTING and CHANGING what it truly means to Chase and Showcase your Talents for people to support WORLDWIDE. From the blood, sweat, and tears put into creating this project and most importantly meeting and uplifting so many unique personalities, I truly feel like I have accomplished something I never thought I would in this lifetime. 📷
Unfortunately, we are not having a traditional reunion, however, I am working on other specials to make up for it. More details are on the final after show here: ruclips.net/video/5EjiiJk8Z8s/видео.html
Is there anyway we can help with supporting you so maybe a zoom reunion
Well this is one of the first RUclips series I started following/watching since season 1…. I’ve watched the growth and enjoyed it. 🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 keep doing your BIG ONES!!! 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
You did your thanggg Dario, we’ve watched the growth over the years and it’s beautiful. Congratulations and continue to be great!!!
Thank you for providing such an entertaining show all these years. Continued success to you. ☮
HELLO 👋🏾🤗 WHEN WAS THIS SEASON TRAILER MADE ⁉️⁉️
Jae Armour is the confessional MVP of this season, he's been hilarious every episode
Facts! I been rolling the past few episodes
😂sure has.
Exactly, it’s like where has he been all this time!!
Babay it was his season. He was comic relief and a good friend
He’s the Mimi to me of this group 😂😂😂
Oliver may be a little dramatic, but he isn't wrong. If I say don't touch me, then don't touch me. No matter the reason.
Exactly
And the fact that there are people out here who will try to justify touching you against your will or make it seem like you are playing hard to get or hot and cold just blows.my.mind.
I dont like king cain however if want he is saying is truth OLIVER ISNT innocent
@@ColoradoFallssoooo you think if someone tells you to not touch them it’s ok to continue to touch them?
@@ColoradoFallsI believe BOTH sides. I believe Cain is a nasty lil play fiend and always has been (he was touching on MULTIPLE ppl there. Not just Oliver and ain’t nobody else feel so violated and they said stop too) but on that day he didn’t see it to be a big deal because they have history with the nasty taps and I believe Oliver didn’t wanna be touched because Tonka was there and he was tryna prove a point to Cain (you chose Tonka so don’t touch me since you wanna be with her) and he had to follow through with his petty point to get back at Cain.
Cain is a full blown psychopath. They love to isolate their partners and feed them lies to get empathy and tears honey 😂😂😂no accountability. Tonka RUN❗️❗️
Listen... it's giving narcissist. The smear campaign, the lack of accountability, separating Tonka from her friends, spreading lies, etc.
He’s weird
You saw that too
He's dangerous his eyes show how dangerous he is. He separated Tonka from his friends but mostly from J because he saw his play from the get go
Yes, Cain i like your energy and you seem like you could be fun, but you took no accountability- and this makes me sad for Tonka because you really owe him better. Do better Cain and i wish you all the success in the future.
Tonka lacks self-esteem and this is a classic case of loving the thought of being in love.
Yup! I lost all respect for her like how can you stay wit somebody dat did dat to ppl who cared for you and looked at you like family
Tonka is extremely disappointing. It's giving I never received this type of attention before. This has happened to me and people will use you while pretending they love you. I know this will end in heartbreak for Tonka but it is a lesson she has to learn.
Tonka don’t deserve none of this. He can do better.
Right
Word
Exactly!!
We all learn this lesson the hard way. I’ll pray for Tonka. But it’s a needed lesson to learn.
Good for Oliver & Lauryn England. I watched all of the seasons of this show, and they were the two that got on this platform and used it to get themselves to the next level. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Facts
They understood the assignment 💯
They damn sure did,
Periodt
Cain acting like Oliver is jealous of his “new relationship” is comical 😂. Cain if your in a relationship with someone you don’t touch others inappropriately or flirt with them 😂
All of them tho
then said he peed on him. How disgusting to put that out because you got called out. smdh
Omg I’m thinking the same thing!! He flipped the narrative!!!
Chile y’all must not be in the vlogs where the real tea spills cause 🤯🤯🤯🤯
But Willa also said Oliver was jealous, sooooo….
We were born, have been just looking for a moment. Their story lines were them having make-believe drama.
Cain is pushing everyone out of Tonka’s life one by one. I hope they are playing attention.
Fr but she going stand by her “men” 😂😂😂😂 that’s crazy
Stand by your man/woman or don't. To each his own. You were born alone, and you'll die alone. Put energy into your relationship. If your friends/family don't understand. Who cares 🤷♂️.
It’s giving narcissist.
That's how narcissistic unstable creatures operate
I know people like Tonka - me included - but she has 2 people telling her *to her face* "your boyfriend touched me innapropriately while we were in the same room as you" I just don't understand the neutral mentality after hearing that
They invited Kain based on their mutual dislike for Oliver. Trying to get more tea because they know he has history with him. Berlin you reached out to him only because you knew you were going to see him at the party not that you were checking on him genuinely.
That part !!!! I truly believe that had Berlin NOT CALLED Oliver the day before on some energy.....Oliver would not have walked into the event with his guard up !!!!! That was weird of Berlin honestly
I agree her intentions weren’t pure, the minute she got tempered, she threw everybody side comments into a major dig. In front of everybody, very much so a hater
Tonka deserves the world, I hope she finds true love.
Tonka is a he. He/"they" is not trans.
And gets some self esteem
So Cain is going to skip past the fact that oliver told him to stop? Idgaf how many times y’all slept together or how nasty it was. How simple do you have to be to not understand no means no! Cut it out Cain. I’m not here the slut shaming at all
Drew Friday = “Head, shoulders, teeth and gums lookin like a damn zombie”💀😭😭😭
I screamed at his read of Drew
This took me out
I feel a little sorry for Tonka because she deserves so much more than to just forgive someone that in a sense is telling her exactly who he is and who he still may be.
You said it ALL
She an insecure big dark skin girl!
he showed tonka who he still is... i hate that for Tonka
Tonka cheating too tho
@@chocolatechipcookieface3668 say who now? Not my sweet baby, legendary Tonka. Say it ain't so as I pass out on the porch n fan myself like a white lady realizing her sands of time are running out as are the days of our lives.
It is beyond disgusting and disturbing to hear so many of us automatically decide Oliver is lying, or downplay SA altogether because of their history. No is a complete sentence. Nothing to be misconstrued, misunderstood or miscommunicated. Praying for all trigger by this. Even more for those of us going against survivors for Any reason. Shameful AF. Bliss & Blessings to everyone as they move on. Job well done here! 🎉🎉🎉❤🥳
SA isn’t that easy either. Just like there are many victims there as just as many people that use it to their advantage. We can’t automatically assume anything. I wish Cain would have stopped after he said stop. Something tells me they have been in similar situations and it has gone beyond the stop which can be detrimental when you actually want the action to stop. It’s unfortunate that it got to this place but no is no.
Thank you💛
I agree no matter the sexual history we had if I say no it's no
Thanks for this post. I didn’t get triggered until Oliver talked with the therapist. It’s sad how Cain admitted but twisted the story and Oliver still was made to look like the problem
So what happens now that Wayne, jatwan both said that they experienced inappropriate touching from Oliver? This is just too much. Production what are you guys going to do about this. This very serious.
Kendra sitting in between Berlin & Jetwaun as they went on their rant was HILARIOUS!!! Sis didn’t want no parts of that mess lol 😂 and might I say she handled that very well and was unbiased.
Yes! Kendra was over it... I was thinking "Someone come and save Kendra from this!"... And she gave us a "What's Gooey!"🤗 😭
Kendra is so funny
😂😂😂😂
This is why I Love Kendra...she really aint bout the bullsh*t But all for the real sh*t😂!!
The way she was rocking back and forth listening to Berlin was sooooo funny lmaooooo
I'm so proud of Dominique this season. He's grown so much! I really see it. Happy to see him show us this side of him.
The fact jetwan and the rest of the birds attacked Oliver the whole episode is wild!! Anytime Oliver tried to make peace with them and include them in anything they were so happy and were ready to be his friend. They would be ready to jump when he said jump, but when he outshines them they wanna be mad and make him the bad person. So glad Oliver never engages with them and continues to shine in their faces while they sit in the same place mad that he’s winning. 🤣🤷🏾♂️
Cain is trying to make it seem like Oliver is jealous, but the truth is that he is in love with Oliver.
Jay and Rico face while Tonka is talking is saying it all
Jay definitely grew as a fave this season and Rico is definitely a fan fave
The way jetwain impersonated seyven…. I swear I haven’t laughed that hard in a long time. Thanks😂
I was going to say the same thing...
Cause babyyyy 💀💀
it was hilariousss
😂😂😂 hilarious!!!!! You hear me! He did that!
I came back to watch ,that scene again!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like that Wayne was able to be separate from Kendra this season. Even though him and Kendra aren’t on the best of terms, I liked him having his own two feet to stand on this season.
My sympathy for Tonka has shifted to my sympathy Jae after hearing and seeing all this stuff come out, I could not imagine loving someone like family and seeing them be with someone that disrespects and hurts that friend/family member along with others in the friend group 38:40 that's real
Berlin gives me second hand embarrassment. The guy on the phone sounded every bit of 25 and a paid actor. WE DON’T BELIEVE YOUR STORY LINE. On top of that, sis be moving around a lot sweating up a storm . You okay girl ? 😂
she gives keyed up in the corners of a bag.
lmao
And the excessive eye blinking, don’t forget that too
The sweating and jittering made me interested a few episodes ago on what was really up with Miss Berlin 👀
i searched high and low for this comment...so we just going to excuse the drummed up storyline?
Jetwan copying sevyn/drew, has me in tears lmao. “Head shoulders neck and teeth”
Lmao. It’s complete facts
Really giving Shamar..aint gone lie
😂😂😂😂
@@Torybeemajor facts lmao. I can never unsee it.
I respect Jae wanting to fight for Tonka, but sometimes you have to allow people to make choices and learn from them without interfering with what they need to understand about their decision.
I did this with my friends. You can’t care about your friends self worth more than they do. So while I understand where he’s fed up if I could go back I would have just chilled and let the cards fall.. Having a low tolerance for BS even when it comes to my friends doing what I consider themselves a injustice is very hard for some ppl to even be apart of..
I said the same thing. I’ve definitely learned to stay out of family and friend’s romantic situations, because in the end it’s only going to affect your relationship with them.
Totally agree! I’ve went through dis before
This sugar daddy storyline tiiieeeeddddd😂😂 it’s time for a whole new cast
Nique has really matured. I’m glad he sees his value and taking proper steps to focus on his career and peace. The “friend” group may not be for everybody.
Definitely one of the top contenders for break out star this season 💯
Loooove Nique this season. Major turn around from what we’ve seen from him previously
Yea… he was not my fave at first but he is now one of my faves!! A real one
Literally how I feel about him. He grew on me so much this season!
I always loved him, but he has definitely shown growth.
"I'm gonna stand by my man ." Y'all be so quick to stand by a man who is clearly causing you stress, issues, & problems, but will stop talking to your close family member(s) & close/best friend(s) if they say or do something you don't like . When y'all start having relationship problems and/or break up, don't come running back around trying to hang out now . Go right back where you were . Y'all gonna learn .
I love Oliver and I hope that he continues to soar into the sky with the success of his creative endeavors.
To say Oliver is jealous is crazy, what value can Cain add to Oliver’s life please ?
I STG!!!! 😭😭😭😭
These people are delusional!!!!
No shade Tonka sounds like one of the parents that got a bf that touch the kids & take the bf side
💀🤭
Oop sad but 💯
I felt that
Damn
No, fr!
Berlin tried to make a last ditch effort at an Emmy during these last 2 episodes. Baby you flopped. 😂😂
Sidenote: I’m really gonna miss this show!! Thank y’all for blessing us with this amazing series!!
😂, right she failed miserably
That sugar baby storyline was SO CORNY
@@deenice5444 definitely did!
@@demarcuslee10 it really was. She only talked about it like 3 times this whole season cuz she knew it was a CHOP!
Was she reading a script, cause gworl
THAT FLASH BACK CLEARED TONKA OMG !!! Girl he tried to tell you!
I 100% disliked the last episode and I have to say I am not surprised. My spirit told me it would be based around a smear campaign of Oliver and his experience with King Cain. To dislike someone so much that their experience is downplayed and looked over as untrue is the exact reason victims don’t speak out. This community wants to be treated as equal, want to bold their daily experience and what they go through, ask for acceptance for who they are, but the minute one of their own stands up for themselves they are the very ones to shame him?! These same people who shamed people were the same people who broke bread with him at one point and most likely it was due to an offer he put on the table. I see why he acts standoffish or “condescending” as Willa tried to call him. He’s surrounded himself around people who are his friend one minute and advocates to destroy him the next. Cain thought he ate by exposing their intimacy details but really just reconfirmed the class act that Oliver IS! He shows class and professionalism is public and keeps his freak in the bed where it’s supposed to be left. I’m glad Oliver is proceeding forward with his legal claims. Some people don’t get it until their name is listed on paper with a criminal background attached to it.
Exactly!!👏🏾👏🏾
Fr, like Cain you left the accountability at home or is it in the room with us?
Well said beauty. Well said
period!!!!!!!!
Seeing “series finale” in the title is kind of surreal. From seeing where this show started with S1 to how it expanded to other cities and how much the editing and production has improved is just mind blowing to me. It has truly been a pleasure to have watched this series and other various Chasing: Reality productions since the beginning. Applause all around for the cast and crew. It’s the end of an era.
🗣️🗣️YASSSSSSS POO SAY THAT AGAIN
I'm going to miss this show. Thank you An'Darrio for all the years of hard work and dedication to your craft and letting us come along for the ride. It definitely was a ride I'll always remember. Here's to the future of your brand and channel and I can't wait to see what you have in store for us next. Good luck.
Rewatched the scene with Cain and Tonka and I can’t believe Tonka bought that. Smh Red Flags all up in that “explanation”
Jetwahn had me HOLLERING when he was mimicking Seven 😭😭😭😭😭 NOT HEAD SHOULDERS TEETH AND GUMS, I AM CRYING REAL TEARS 😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I CANNOT UN-SEE IT. I'M HOLLERING
@@TALLFINEPINE I’m still weak 24 hours later 😭😭😭 read of the season. I know everyone dislikes Jetwahn but I love him lol he plays the villian well
@@damieonafterdark Yes, Jetwain is my baby him and Berlin are so oOoOO freaking talented.. adore their music
@@TALLFINEPINE their music is top tier! Radio worthy!
I hope Willa gets to create her own lane in the beauty business. She deserves to be doing hair for the biggest stars! ⭐️
AGREED! I’ve been speaking life over her career she can do hair better then most anyone!!! She gonna be somewhere doing big things soon!!
Exactlyyyyy
Kendra is a BEAST on the mic!
The cameras came on & Cain started selling it 😴😂 Tonka need to see through the bullshit !
Lights, Camera, Action 😂. He was laying it on thick very manipulative
Jae and Rico stepped their game up. Their commentaries GAVE😂😭.
And Jae’s commentary being the “real” friend has me on a chokehold, I gagged!
Another season of wishing to had seen more of Willa.
The guy from we were born (I don’t want to misspell his name) just kept trying to instigate stuff out of the blue, starting fake beef and just misconstruing everything and taking out of context was a chop for me.
Miss Seyven, I believe, still has to find her ways. There’s a lot of back and forth and indecisiveness going on, but then again that’s life for some of us.
Really gonna miss this show😢. Oh well here comes the binge watching!!!!!! You All did an outstanding job Chasing Atlanta 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@s.o.t343yeah it’s ending. I’m thinking they’re going to reboot it. Because it just doesn’t make sense to end this series.
I just started rewatching season 3 lol
Iamma miss this show
Me to
LMFAOOO I still don’t like J’Twahn but when he was impersonating Sevyn 💀😂😂 I lost it !!! He ate that lil one thing up
For Tonka (and those alike)... Anyone can be there for you in your time of need. Yes, it's a great gesture. Yes, it shows care and support. That does not obligate you to commit yourself to them.
Like, you can't even defend this person because you know they're on bs and wrong. Ew.
*To add: Jae clocked it 40:05 !!!!!!!
Exactly. People get caught up in situations because they don't know how to separate someone caring for you doesn't mean to commit.
Exactly and for people talking about loyalty be loyal to what matters not just blindly being loyal, even if you love the person there comes a time you need to make a judgement call, a true friend/partner will say something when they think you're wrong not just back you up no matter what.
Thank you! I’m sick with RA and had to go through many surgeries. I had a friend who would come sit with me and call me to check up on me throughout that period. Shortly after she started to do a lot unkind things to me and begin not acting like a friend. I begin to make excuses for her like Tonka is doing for Cain, but I had to come to the realization that I didn’t owe her anything and I had to create boundaries between her and I. Although I felt guilt, my mental peace was more important to me. Hopefully Tonka realizes that for himself.
Baby rico and jae amour is too funny this season i live for the two of them
Tonka is such a sweetheart! I feel for him❤️❤️Put yourself first, Tonka! You are a star and very special❤️😂
Now wait a minute! This man is disrespecting you to the the degree of inapprorpriate touching 2 of your friends (Rico said Sister, deeper than friend) in the same place where you are also to the point that they both had to say they would F him all the way up if he didn't stop...AND ONE OF THEM ACTUALLY HAD TO DO IT?!? Tonka Baby, I'm starting to look at you a little crazy, because to know all this and you are still with him...??? Baby, you will never "have peace," as long as you are with that man, and I'm going to leave it there.
To hear that “therapist/counselor “ say heterosexual ppl won’t understand sexual assault is wild. Like, Wtf? Did I hear that correctly? Saying heterosexual ppl don’t get assaulted? As someone whose also been assaulted as a child and has endured diff kinds of abuse .. I’m flabbergasted that this came out of his mouth….
I could be wrong but I'm wondering if he was talking about the added component of being shamed/embarrassed for being gay, like how Oliver was saying he didn't want to tell anyone because they were already angry he was gay. And how gay people that are molested can be victim blamed moreso by those that see being gay as automatically sexually deviant and evil/wrong and can't separate the wrongness of the SA (which every sexuality unfortunately experiences) from the being gay part because they don't like that aspect of the victim. But if that was what he meant he worded that wholely improperly and if that wasn't what he meant that was a messed up thing to say.
Yeesss that pissed me off too
That’s exactly when I knew, I said this man is not licensed to be a therapist , ain’t no way it’s a LPC,LCW Behind his name . That was really tasteless and ignorant to be honest. Ain’t no damn way that man credentialed, cause huh, and the fact they didn’t cut it out , made me be like interesting. Go back and watch the episode before this one , Toni said something a bit weird too
@@Shyknit nah that ain’t it because he is speaking of the cast members, he first said some ppl had his back then he proceeded to say some was saying things whispering around differently, all the ppl in the chasing circle are homosexuals, so how heterosexuals get thrown into was wild Af ,
If we all donate $1 the franchise would have 10k to give us more episodes!
Kendra was so uninterested in that fairytale sugar daddy story 😂
Girl As am I!!!! That “call” was soooo fake 😂Was she reading from her IPad!!?? 😂
@@billythakidd7236 I'm glad I'm not the only one who say that! Please hang up the phone and leave that delulu story line alone
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You know what’s really crazy though? I had loved Tonka at the beginning, but I did keep one thing in the back of my mind about her. That thing Toni said at the beginning of the season about her advocating for Tonka’s status/title in their kiki scene, but not getting that same energy in return and ending up with nobody speaking up on her behalf… I was hoping that it wouldn’t be a part of a larger pattern of Tonka’s but now with all this shit with Cain I can see that it is. A friend that will remain silent and “neutral” when it’s your time to be supported is a friend you can do much better without. Tonka gives me too afraid of being disliked to stand on any beliefs other than when it comes to standing by a man.
Tonka and Cain deserve one another. I am out of their relationship.
I wish tonka would’ve made it clear that touching Oliver after he said no was wrong period. Cause regardless of what they had, no is no
At the table they were just airing out past grievances with Oliver and using that resentment to downplay what Cain did. No one was at least attempting objectivity or trying to be neutral
That’s what gets me about Jetwan and I like Jetwan but when he decides he doesn’t like you, he’s the type to embellish shit and throw salt on your name without fact checking.
Oliver's experience could have been triggering for him . Whether he let King Cain touch him off camera ,doesn't mean he wants to be touched on camera. I feel bad for Tonka because it's like dang King Cain was touching everyone at the party, and Tonka keeps saying that's her man ...like girl he wants to be everyone's man.
@@marchaeowens1211 exactly! You’re so right
It’s something wrong with Tonka fr. It’s screaming insecure. Jae is a good friend for calling the sh!t out. I hope Oliver keeps his foot on Cain’s neck.
It’s giving slick slow lol. She’s still a sweetheart tho.
So we all just skipping over Tonka in Wayne’s DM’s ?? Y’all funny!
@@yeahokaypodcast8234they didn’t really seem like flirtatious messages, besides the “I’m trying to see you before I leave for this secret location”.. you think differently?
Naw Oliver put the paws on YOU sir 😂😂😂😂
I feel Cain tryna use Tonka to get away from Atlanta cause he know being with him he gone be took care of and have somewhere to go....
I agree. I truly think Cain is an opportunist as was mentioned before
Consent doesn’t last for weeks days hours or even minutes sometimes. No is no, doesn’t matter when he gave consent once he said stop that should’ve been IT! Period. Cain is a predator if he doesn’t understand that! I said what I said 🙄
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Absolutely
I promise jaetwon been stressing me this season but the way I hollered at head shoulders teeth and gums baby 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What is Berlin on ??? 😂😂😂😂 . She’s melting in every scene 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
right, always sweating
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Melting??? I screamed lmao
Shame on y’all trying to put something like drug uses on someone u don’t even kno…y’all all sound like haters, if y’all would pay attention y’all would kno she suffers from ptsd and anxiety she said it on the earlier episodes…they filmed most of these scenes in the summer….wearing wigs and makeup would make anyone sweat in that summer heat smdh…
Phew the OG LGBT RUclips reality franchise...the blueprint from which many have sprung. What am I supposed to do now lol? I love the spin-offs but ATL always had the best cast and storylines plus the production is top-notch. Thanks for the good times yall!
Tonka, girl no, King Cain is a season, not a forever ride or die for life. Gurl, he’s not for you, he’s for cake and all the sweetest, but not 4 you.❤ You should be beside your friend not the shrimp. I would stand for a Lobster, not a lying shrimp.
Berlin reading off that tablet on that fake call is crazyyyyy😂😂😂
“Head, shoulders, teeth and gums” 😂😂😂😂goodnight
😂😂😂
Baby I hollered!!!!!!!!😂😂
💀💀💀 Jetwyan ate that tf up!!!!
"Gnat with titties" took me out!! As well......I cant with him.
Now everybody has been “touched” by Oliver. Y’all have got to be kidding me 😭😭😭
Cain totally dismissed Wayne’s tea😂😂I could be wrong but the way he handled that situation would be how I would if I wasn’t into the person Wayne was talking about. He was more interested in the fact that Oliver has “touched” other cast members…..something is off about Cain.
I mean what can he say after what just happened? I follow them and they seem to be doing fine in thier relationship
@tabwab83 People only show the good on SM, not saying that they are not happy, just commenting on what I see. And what I see, is Cain playing with Tonka.
@@kerrya5208I agree completely. I feel like you can see it from a mile away. And the way Tonka excuses Cain’s actions is mind boggling. We’ve all seen a friend in that kind of situation or been the one who was blinded by love, but after what Oliver said I’m just surprised by Tonka’s choice.
@@tabwab83I follow them too on SM and looks can be deceiving hunnie.
I see two things. He's really not into Tonka, and now, he doesn't have to feel bad about touching his friends, the grindr ads, nor anyone else he may have had sex with while dating Tonka. He is building his new brand and ready to downplay and dismiss it all for a ride on Tonka's coattails! Sad
What Jetwahn said about drew im crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭head shoulders TEETH AND GUMS
He aint never lie🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girlllllll. I was eating and it started to come out my nose. Funniest shit ever
I hope that keeps him warm in his mediocrity
Jae should not retire, but definitely take the advice of Montel, which I absolutely loved that he was able to return for the final episode! ❤
Jae should just go in a different route so that he can get paid what he deserves.
Nice seeing Montell! It would have been nice to see more past members from previous seasons.
Kendra is my favorite girl of the show. So, I can’t wait to hear about what she does in the future with her music career because I will be continuing to support.
Agree!!!
Im only 6mins in and this conversation between Cain and Tonka is such gaslighting. Gay Black love sadly is so rooted in superficiality,Tonka is willing to accept a piece of man rather than none at all just because of how he looks. Hoping he finds true love🙏🏾
Tonka not gon' ask Cain why he told Oliver that he wishes he would've picked Oliver?
That part. I guess Cain forgot about that part or he CHOSE to forget 🙄
Love Dominique, Jae Amor, Kendra and Oliver's growth.
Wish Tonka was on the show from day 1! I hope they all grow and wish all of them well.
Found this show during the pandemic, and It really got me through. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve binge watched it from the start. Sad to see it go, but happy to see what’s next
Im so proud of Kendra😊!! It took a lot for her to sit there and listen to the BS!! Little do they know that shit was going in one ear and out the other😂!! Kendra dont trust these folks, Real Talk boo
The phrase you let me violate you is just simply ridiculous kingkain
Jeytwan describing sevyn had me dead 😂😂😂
Poor Tonka he has low self esteem and who likes him, he likes back with no questions.. I need Tonka to come into himself and see and know he's amazing.. Cain is going to have you lose friends..
I’m sorry “Head, Shoulders, Teeth, and Gums” made me cackle 😂
I know Wayne not making a face talking about “Oliver kissed/touched me”. He was literally one of the first ppl I’ve seen touchey feel, smack a**, and lick his lips towards someone. It’s okay for Oliver to feel some type of way about you “choosing Tonka” it’s not okay to continue to touch him once he said stop. Period.
I can’t believe Tonka is a okay with King Cain touching her friends even after they’ve expressed how upset it made them. Um, hello? Very disappointing. Your silence is louder than you think 🤷🏾♀️
It was goodddd to see Montellllll , he was one of my favorites
I really take issue with what therapist said regarding straight people’s inability to understand sexual assault. 1) therapist is being used loosely because I cannot fathom that this person went through all the required education and would still say something ignorant like that. This is so problematic and harmful to both communities.
I took it as he was referring to that community specifically AND sexual assault being ignored bc they are “gay” some people feel like “you wanted it” it was a broad statement but with more context I don’t think he meant to invalidate any humans unwanted sexual experiences!
@@kiaramo8987 You said this way better and calmer than me. Respect ❤
Ok I peeped that lol
All this time this man was on different scenes they have been saying he is a therapist , I don’t believe that. It’s a difference between ppl coming to talk to you all the time and someone being an actual licensed therapist. I work in behavioral health there is no way this man is credentialed.
@@FocalPointElisa girl say it with your chest or move tf around
To Whom is Monitoring. I can not believe Oliver's "Therapist" saying Heterosexual People will not understand about being Molested or Violated as a Child. How DARE He and How DARE Chasing Reality.
I agree.
Straight people feel the same way anyone would feel being touched or worse. This isn’t a homosexual or heterosexual thing.
Definitely… cuz SA is SA!!!! Period that was ignorant of him
This! SA is wrong period.
Yeah, because we are most likely more vulnerable and most likely to experience this in our homes others home etc....speaking from experience it ruins livez🥺
Jetwan talking about Cookie made me laugh out of pure shock, but that was high key evil and unnecessary. Like, the vitriol he has for Oliver is on another level.
No shade Jetwahn had me dying with the Sevyn read at the table 😭😭😭😭
This isn’t the end this series deserves
This episode is so unfortunate
When he said Drew come in the chat.. "Head, shoulders, teeth and gums!" TOOK ME OOOUUTT... ITS SOOOOO TRUE!!! Drew IRKSSSSS!!!
Yep Berlin breath stank - Kendra was swaying to and fro tryna relieve herself
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Baby! Cain is EN-TER-TAIN-MENT! He’s funny as hell.
Tonka and that blonde hair piece gets me every time 😂😂😂😂
Me 3 😂
Chile 😂😂😂
Hope they reconsider Not ending this show it was Great !!!! We will all miss you guys❤
What Cain is missing and it’s truly upsetting is that no matter what, when, where or why yall did anything in the past doesn’t compare to this moment, the moment Oliver said NO, it meant NO. You violated Oliver and instead of being a man about it and owning up to your disgusting behavior your narcissistic ways are showing as a result. Thennnnn to find out you touched Rico tooooo! Oh you are a wild boy, disrespectful! I do hope Tonka wakes up to see what Jae has ALWAYS said and whatever one else is saying! Leave him in the dust with his safety pins and such!
Jetwan with that Drew impression😮😅😂
TONKA is like a big teddy bear . He seems so sweet and I think he needs to see that CAIN is playing with his heart . Better to see it sooner than later !
‘You my slut’ - who says that ?!
@46:46 the way Kendra and Wayne be moving be killing me 😂
THEY DID NOT SAY STOP! OLIVER TOLD YOU TO STOP KING CREEP!
what do you not get?!
🗣️ CREEP
22:20 The videographer was IN IT with all that zooming and panning🤣
Please y’all get a new therapist because what does he mean hetero sexual people will never understand being touched inappropriately? That can happen to anybody straight or gay.