becasue it's a stupid thing to do. why take yourself, something good, out of the world and leave the evil behind. take the evil out of the world and don't regret it
I'm so proud of you for taking control of your life and moving forward from that painful betrayal. You deserve happiness and peace, and it sounds like you've found a supportive circle. Keep shining and prioritizing your well-being.
I'm surprised OP didn't slap her mother just to get her to see how despicable and delusional her actions were. How is supporting cheating and destroying a relationship protecting the family. Has she done things like that in her own marriage.
I agree with op. all the mother wanted was control of the situation. she wanted to be the one to write the story. to place the Pieces on the chest board. and now it's all blown up in her face! also I really think the father should have double checked his words before even speaking them. because cheating regardless of the reasoning is still cheating! no matter how you justify it it's a total betrayal worst that even stabbing your family directly in the back with a knife. and now he has not only lost his daughter but his reputation has been completely destroyed! all because his wife wanted control of the situation. not that he's not a blame for any of it. he should have stood up for op rather than tell her to “grow up” and basically watch her boyfriend cheat with her sister. also I love that Sam basically went full nuclear on their asses and to destroyed their entire lives. to be honest if I was one of her mother's friends and I found out why she did I would even ask her “ do you really think it was worth losing your daughter to gain control?” and then leave her. she has pretty much destroyed her family and to be honest I think op should just stay away from her. she can rot in the holes she dug herself. because at the end of the day that's for trash like her belongs. and I hope the father lives a long life so he can regret every single decision he's made regarding his children. because he's never gonna get his daughter back. and the sister? well I hope that she cuts off her mother as well. because nobody deserves a parent like her.
I agree with everything except the last part, the one daughter does deserve to have a mother like that, being as she’s just like her. One could use the excuse that the daughter is just like her mother because of how she was raised but… as older teens young adults, we make the decisions whether we want to be better than what we were raised with or be the same, the sister chose to be the same as what she was raised with and became just like her mother
The family was toxic & should be No Contact but she was surprised that there was a family reunion. Life does go on. Did she think the entire family would shut down? Maybe she would have been invited but she blocked every avenue.
Nick is weak, Claire is a mama's girl and dad is clueless to his wife's manipulative ways. And it took this hot mess for everything to come out. Ruined her family and she just sat back and watched it happen.
That's just how humans naturally are, OP isn't wrong for thinking her family's lives stopped, but she isn't right for it either I think OP was just so caught up in her grief and hatred, that a part of her couldn't imagine their parents in a happy setting. And I also think it was a mix of weird curiosity, like that's why they clicked on the photo.
I'm physcially mad on Ops behalf near the end of the story. Ops mom is such a narcissist she physically can't comprehend Op being happy so she literally sabotaged Ops relationship with her Bf just so Ops sister can be happy. and Ops father never knew the actual story to begin with he thought Op was just overreacting. I'm almost tempted to hope Ops dad files for divorce as his wife can keep this big of a secret for this long, what other things is she hiding, probably an affair of her own?
What her sister did was vile, what her parents did is probably what drove OP to try to take her own life. Imagine getting screwed over like that from someone you trust then others you trust make it seem like you are in the wrong for being upset. Good thing OP had her best friend and grandparents.
Yikes, that sounds pretty rough. Hopefully things will work out for the best in the long run. What do you think might help the family come together instead?
Sounds like OP's dad screwed up but wasn't overtly bad. The moment he realized his wife was involved he became pissed at her. I hope OP and her dad rebuild their bond in the years to come, that's the only bond that deserves a second chance. I also forsee OP's dad filing for divorce, if faith isn't in the way. Grandparents and Sam were awesome though.
@@jamie_8018Maybe but either way I believe he lost his family. His oldest daughter is in another city, his youngest won't speak to him and he's divorcing his conniving STBXW.
@@jamie_8018 looks to me he didn't know, but his screw up was his "don't rock the boat" stance. He finally snapped out of that upon learning his wife was involved
No matter what happens, I want the best for everyone reading this. Wishing you a life brimming with happiness, prosperity, and an abundance of blessings.
It was already destroyed, dad just didn't realize it. There is a high probability mom has been having an affair with a coworker or a neighbor for years.
Suicide by boyfriend drama is the height of immaturity. Also, did OP block them before the Fabrik of after? If before, no wonder no one came to help. If after, parents suck.
Who the duck is your mother to play God she doesn't deserve any forgiveness evil person am so happy u move pass this bcuz I no how much betrayal hurts especially from someone close to you.
Update 1 made no sense. OP cut her family out of their lives. They tried to reconnect, but she dismissed them. Okay, fair play. They don't deserve OP's time. But she is upset that they had a family reunion (one that she wouldn't go anyway, even if they begged her) and moved on????!? Why should you care? It's like a girl breaking up with a boy, then pissed off that he went with someone else. 'I don't want him, but you can't have him!' Make up your mind, OP!
My first thought was well, at least they had their clothes on. Listening to horrible parents rationalize, awe, if you go and burn down their house, do they just rationalize that or crucify you.
Text your father "looks like mom manipulated you to. And now look at your life friends, family, and people hate you and think your trash. You lost a daughter and the other one was just a puppet for your wife to control. Hope your like the life she made for you".
So clickbait title. OP didn't ruin anyone's life. She just took the high road and moved on. Well, I've heard this kind of story many times before. I wasted 20 minutes of my life here ladies and gents. I thought this one would be different
I grew up in a culture that parents have control over their children even if those children have grown up. Before I get bashed for my comment (if ever) let me explain some things first: I see where the mother was coming from. It's her youngest daughter's FIRST boyfriend and she's already crazy about him (she had said so). It seems that the mother wanted her to do more in life first as to her (the mother), her (the daughter) life is starting to revolve around that guy. Perhaps the mother thought it's all going too fast and that it's all too early. She tried to look out for her daughter BUT THE MEANS OR HOW SHE DID IT was all f*cked up and STRAIGHT WRONG.
Oh she wanted the best for you all ? Why don't you do better for your all by introducing your dad to your new potential step mom cause this one is clearly not right for your dad.
So even though she hated them and was happy that the post had essentially ruined their lives, she was still surprised and saddened that they’d had a family reunion without her? And that they “moved on so easily”? Why would that be surprising? She wanted them to continue to beg her to forgive them and just to not be able to go on without her in their lives? Umm ok . . .
This person seems incredibly dramatic . . . This was basically a high school relationship. Of course what her sister and family did wasn’t ok. But the fact that she was gonna end herself, had to get a therapist and was still hung up on it for like a decade after . . . My god. Get over it.
How wishy washy the OP is drives me insane. This is just a post of her rambling, "I miss my family. No, i hate my family. My life is so hard. Let me obsess about my life." You cut them off and just move on. The fact that you are so obsessed with the past instead of leaving things be is insane. Your parents were right. Use that brain to think rationally and with logic. All OP does is live in her feelings and self pity. Cry me a river. You got cheated on by your first real bf. BOO HOO. YTA after the OP.
@@Joseph-by6pv sounds like you are just as entitled and living in your feelings. What, you can't get over that this story just resonates with your feelings? Get over yourself.
I think the worst part was how she parents did not visit her in the hospital after the suicide attempt. That’s worse than anything.
It's probably best they didn't. They would have made things worse for her.
It would be too insensitive to visit her in this situation, but not sending any message or email is truly bad
@@jamie_8018you got a point there. What if the trauma immediately start to sizz to the point of anger and rage.
@@schyracollbrande1900 exactly what I was thinking
Not even a phone call, card or flowers? Wow, that's not good. They could've contacted the facility and asked for advice. Shame
The worst part about betrayal is that, it never comes from your enemies.
The worst part of this, is that OP tried to end her life and her mother STILL thinks she did the right thing. What a piece of shit.
And didn’t even visit that same daughter, who tried to unalive herself, in the hospital.
becasue it's a stupid thing to do. why take yourself, something good, out of the world and leave the evil behind. take the evil out of the world and don't regret it
@@thecursed01 because that takes strength of will and sometime you're at rock bottom feeling worthless and you just want the pain to stop
I'm so proud of you for taking control of your life and moving forward from that painful betrayal. You deserve happiness and peace, and it sounds like you've found a supportive circle. Keep shining and prioritizing your well-being.
We all need a friend like Sam.
I'm surprised OP didn't slap her mother just to get her to see how despicable and delusional her actions were. How is supporting cheating and destroying a relationship protecting the family. Has she done things like that in her own marriage.
I agree with op. all the mother wanted was control of the situation. she wanted to be the one to write the story. to place the Pieces on the chest board. and now it's all blown up in her face!
also I really think the father should have double checked his words before even speaking them. because cheating regardless of the reasoning is still cheating! no matter how you justify it it's a total betrayal worst that even stabbing your family directly in the back with a knife.
and now he has not only lost his daughter but his reputation has been completely destroyed! all because his wife wanted control of the situation.
not that he's not a blame for any of it. he should have stood up for op rather than tell her to “grow up” and basically watch her boyfriend cheat with her sister.
also I love that Sam basically went full nuclear on their asses and to destroyed their entire lives. to be honest if I was one of her mother's friends and I found out why she did I would even ask her “ do you really think it was worth losing your daughter to gain control?” and then leave her.
she has pretty much destroyed her family and to be honest I think op should just stay away from her. she can rot in the holes she dug herself. because at the end of the day that's for trash like her belongs. and I hope the father lives a long life so he can regret every single decision he's made regarding his children. because he's never gonna get his daughter back.
and the sister? well I hope that she cuts off her mother as well. because nobody deserves a parent like her.
I agree with everything except the last part, the one daughter does deserve to have a mother like that, being as she’s just like her. One could use the excuse that the daughter is just like her mother because of how she was raised but… as older teens young adults, we make the decisions whether we want to be better than what we were raised with or be the same, the sister chose to be the same as what she was raised with and became just like her mother
Nah, Claire deserves her parents and Nick.
The family was toxic & should be No Contact but she was surprised that there was a family reunion. Life does go on. Did she think the entire family would shut down? Maybe she would have been invited but she blocked every avenue.
Nick is weak, Claire is a mama's girl and dad is clueless to his wife's manipulative ways. And it took this hot mess for everything to come out. Ruined her family and she just sat back and watched it happen.
Agree. Make up your mind, OP!
That's just how humans naturally are, OP isn't wrong for thinking her family's lives stopped, but she isn't right for it either
I think OP was just so caught up in her grief and hatred, that a part of her couldn't imagine their parents in a happy setting. And I also think it was a mix of weird curiosity, like that's why they clicked on the photo.
People are irrational. Most people can't magically forget all the good times they've had with people who hurt them
Sometimes the updates come from other accounts claiming to be the OP because they know these reddit stories are big money for RUclipsrs like this
That mommy dearest needed a helluva forceful wake-up call that physically hurt for a longtime administrated by her daughter !
I'm physcially mad on Ops behalf near the end of the story. Ops mom is such a narcissist she physically can't comprehend Op being happy so she literally sabotaged Ops relationship with her Bf just so Ops sister can be happy. and Ops father never knew the actual story to begin with he thought Op was just overreacting. I'm almost tempted to hope Ops dad files for divorce as his wife can keep this big of a secret for this long, what other things is she hiding, probably an affair of her own?
OP's egg donor genuinely terrifies me. How can a person be SO divorced with reality?
Claps to the grandparents and Sam for being actual human beings… op do you… let your superficial family play house…
Yeah they are the GOATs.
Shout out to Sam for being the awesome friend!!!!
What her sister did was vile, what her parents did is probably what drove OP to try to take her own life. Imagine getting screwed over like that from someone you trust then others you trust make it seem like you are in the wrong for being upset. Good thing OP had her best friend and grandparents.
Family is just a label to some people. Sometimes better without.
Op is so lucky that she learn the truth about her family and her boyfriend and now op can get rid of these toxic people from her life story1
Yikes, that sounds pretty rough. Hopefully things will work out for the best in the long run. What do you think might help the family come together instead?
I think she should change her number or move to a new city.🤔❓😱💯
I believe the father lost both of his daughters forever thanks to the egg donor aka his STBXW.
Sounds like OP's dad screwed up but wasn't overtly bad. The moment he realized his wife was involved he became pissed at her. I hope OP and her dad rebuild their bond in the years to come, that's the only bond that deserves a second chance. I also forsee OP's dad filing for divorce, if faith isn't in the way.
Grandparents and Sam were awesome though.
Sam is the GOAT
Her dad knew what was going on for months. Months. He allowed some guy to mess around with both of his daughters. He sucks.
@@jamie_8018Maybe but either way I believe he lost his family. His oldest daughter is in another city, his youngest won't speak to him and he's divorcing his conniving STBXW.
@@jamie_8018 looks to me he didn't know, but his screw up was his "don't rock the boat" stance. He finally snapped out of that upon learning his wife was involved
@@rogueshark23 did I miss the part where it said he was divorcing his wife?
After hearing that plot twist... mommy dearest is earning herself a trip to Divorce City. Of course dad ain't innocent either.
They never cared about you. Sometimes your family is your worst enemy. Keep on moving forward.
No matter what happens, I want the best for everyone reading this. Wishing you a life brimming with happiness, prosperity, and an abundance of blessings.
I like this story 👍
OP should announce what her mother has done to her. Her mothers friends and relatives should know what kind of people they are interacting with.
Mommy is a psychopath.
The extreme desperation of OP's family to have their scapegoat daughter back into their lives 😳😳
Meh. With any luck she may have destroyed her parents marriage.
It was already destroyed, dad just didn't realize it. There is a high probability mom has been having an affair with a coworker or a neighbor for years.
@@Nielak-dg8nj Or the milkman.
@@Nielak-dg8njYeah she was already excommunicated from her church. I guess she forgot about this commandment Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery.
Keep it moving man. You should have never met him. Like I said your family can be your worst enemy.
A family like that doesn’t need to be kept
Suicide by boyfriend drama is the height of immaturity.
Also, did OP block them before the Fabrik of after? If before, no wonder no one came to help. If after, parents suck.
Guarantee that Chlaires friends ditched her cause they knew if she could betray her sister there’d be nothing to stop her from betraying them
Even if it was masterminded by the mom, Nick and Claire, if they even cared at all and in their right mind, would have said NO!
Who the duck is your mother to play God she doesn't deserve any forgiveness evil person am so happy u move pass this bcuz I no how much betrayal hurts especially from someone close to you.
They ruined their own lives
My suspicion is mom had been 'excomunicating' people years.
OP cut her family out of her life. Why is she so surprised that they moved on without her?
Because the author is a hack.
The worst part is the people who died playing the creative writing cliche drinking game
Update 1 made no sense. OP cut her family out of their lives. They tried to reconnect, but she dismissed them. Okay, fair play. They don't deserve OP's time. But she is upset that they had a family reunion (one that she wouldn't go anyway, even if they begged her) and moved on????!? Why should you care?
It's like a girl breaking up with a boy, then pissed off that he went with someone else. 'I don't want him, but you can't have him!'
Make up your mind, OP!
Sam is the GOAT!
My first thought was well, at least they had their clothes on. Listening to horrible parents rationalize, awe, if you go and burn down their house, do they just rationalize that or crucify you.
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God save us from the religious zealots
Text your father "looks like mom manipulated you to. And now look at your life friends, family, and people hate you and think your trash. You lost a daughter and the other one was just a puppet for your wife to control. Hope your like the life she made for you".
So clickbait title. OP didn't ruin anyone's life. She just took the high road and moved on. Well, I've heard this kind of story many times before. I wasted 20 minutes of my life here ladies and gents. I thought this one would be different
Adultery is a sin
Cool Story Bro.
I cut off the toxic, hateful, delusional friends who played Quidditch and im much better. So disgusted that the are petty and jealous of my success
But pick it up lol 😂
I grew up in a culture that parents have control over their children even if those children have grown up.
Before I get bashed for my comment (if ever) let me explain some things first:
I see where the mother was coming from. It's her youngest daughter's FIRST boyfriend and she's already crazy about him (she had said so). It seems that the mother wanted her to do more in life first as to her (the mother), her (the daughter) life is starting to revolve around that guy. Perhaps the mother thought it's all going too fast and that it's all too early.
She tried to look out for her daughter BUT THE MEANS OR HOW SHE DID IT was all f*cked up and STRAIGHT WRONG.
Angsty teen fiction.
At least it's free.
this mom and sister and exbf sound like some kind of a jerk.
Ok what game is this?
Was anybody else confused by the age? Or was I just too high and missed that 😅
Oh she wanted the best for you all ? Why don't you do better for your all by introducing your dad to your new potential step mom cause this one is clearly not right for your dad.
Tumblr? How old is this post?
"update too", channel too lazy to correct that, two things not to do 1 subscribe, 2 give a like !
I thought your sis left town
Wait, huh? Claire moved out of town but OP meet her at the grocery store? This bot can't keep up with its story.
This p*** me off
Forgive them for your own peace
So even though she hated them and was happy that the post had essentially ruined their lives, she was still surprised and saddened that they’d had a family reunion without her? And that they “moved on so easily”? Why would that be surprising? She wanted them to continue to beg her to forgive them and just to not be able to go on without her in their lives? Umm ok . . .
I cant figure out why she is still shocked. She tried to off herself and they didn't even come to the hospital! Just TRASH!
She was nineteen years old and needed her family. As for the churches reaction to the mum and boyfriend? That's not how it should have been done.
So fake when ever story the sisters are only 2 years apart 😂
This person seems incredibly dramatic . . . This was basically a high school relationship. Of course what her sister and family did wasn’t ok. But the fact that she was gonna end herself, had to get a therapist and was still hung up on it for like a decade after . . . My god. Get over it.
WOW(.)
My family yes being sneakie
Nine hundred and eleven? It's read nine-one-one.
It's just an AI voiceover. 911 is gonna be read by AI as nine hundred and eleven.
Look kid family dose this shit all the time
How wishy washy the OP is drives me insane. This is just a post of her rambling, "I miss my family. No, i hate my family. My life is so hard. Let me obsess about my life."
You cut them off and just move on. The fact that you are so obsessed with the past instead of leaving things be is insane. Your parents were right. Use that brain to think rationally and with logic. All OP does is live in her feelings and self pity. Cry me a river. You got cheated on by your first real bf. BOO HOO. YTA after the OP.
it sounds more like your salty over a boring story
@@Joseph-by6pv sounds like you are just as entitled and living in your feelings. What, you can't get over that this story just resonates with your feelings? Get over yourself.
@@koryano321 ...you made a whole paragraph at a most likely fake story my guy. If anyone's in their own feelings rn it's you :3