This story is a generic "You are not the father" episode of Maury. OP needs to grow a spine and tell the parents immediately and throw the entire legal system at her lying, cheating, manipulative ass especially after the paternity test results proved he's in the clear rather than wait it out slowly over time. But it can just be another fake story dragged out to make things sound dumber than it is.
@@cheryljackson7908They should help her if they're sympathetic with her as friends but make her BF help her like saying to him be a doormat and it's okay you're a beta anyway! What kind of friends is those!! It's good that ryan help him doudge this wrack woman and it's good that she help him escort the trash so called friends out of his life..The only true person who cared for him is jack.
Drunk and pregnant. Real classy. I feel sorry for that kid. She actually said, you're the better guy. I need you. Jessica needs to terminate the pregnancy or put it up for adoption. She is too unstable. No child needs this trainwreck as a parent. One more thing. If your psycho ex keeps coming to your patents house, they ARE involved. Tell them what's going on. Jeez.
Moral of the story: Control the narrative. When you dump your SO for cheating, unless it would be legally disadvantageous to you (such as damaging you in the upcoming divorce - check with a lawyer in this case), make sure that *everyone* knows you've broken up with them and why. Broadcast it on social media, tell all the friends, post it to the family chat. Get out in front of it. It is no shame to be cheated on if your response is to automatically boot them out of your life.Because if you don't, *they* will.
I want the best for everyone hearing this essay, even if we don't end up meeting. May you have a life full of happiness, good fortune, and unending blessings.
" youd think everything would calm down, but nope" "Just when i thought it couldnt get any worse, but nope" Like goddam stfu with those lines its annoying
Good luck? This happens all the time. It's kind of how we get step family's. Sorry, I thought this was already common knowledge. Smh. And no child is ever a " leftover", thank you. The woman? Maybe. But the child? No.
@@danielleburchette2599 Yep. The original commenter has no idea about the magnitude of the simp epidemic. Many men will volunteer to raise the result of another man's fun time with their woman. Certainly no winners.
The best part is no one will want anything to do with her now that she's a single M.O.M. Honestly would have had a better chance if she put it up for adoption and gave it to a family who will love it
Things that op did wrong. - Not telling everyone about this. - Not posting the Paternity Test online. - Not calling out Jessica as the cheating liar that she is. - Not lawyer up as soon as she started the defamation and harassment. Also, you know it's fake, no lawyer will take Jessica's case once they know there is a paternity test.
Agreed he’s an idiot for that like as soon as you get test result back you should’ve let everyone know in case she tries to guilt trip and tell everybody
I was getting so triggered man lmao, like dude after trying to manipulate his Parents and going to his damn workplace, that's the point where I would've cracked and made a post on every social media and messaged every friend and family member about the situation so she couldn't do any more damage.
The court hearing was hilarious, I'd imagine Jessica's Lawyer had a fair bit to say if she'd conveniently withheld the fact that a paternity test was in OP's possession and would instantly dismiss their case.
The fact that a court would even entertain 'not his baby but I need his money' child support cases just proves the entire system is incredibly flawed. This woman should be in prison and the child needs to go somewhere safer and saner.
And any friends that hemmed and hawed with 'well maybe you could have helped her' deserve for sure to never be talked to again. Trash believe trash, and if they're on her side, they're 100% human trash.
Dude is an idiot. Why didn't you explain to your parents and inner circle in the first place what happened? You could have saved yourself a lot of trouble.
I believe this. I have a friend who had this happened to him. He is fighting to get off the birth certificate now. 88% of everyone has abandoned him for it. I have not. I am doing all I can to help him out.
BS story. He literally has the test results. Just post that publicly and say you wish that she is able to work something out with her first ex who fathered her child! Willfully stupid to pad the story.
People who say that you could have helped more tell them they are quite welcome to help with bringing up her child seeing as they are so concerned about it
This is what happens when an idiot man decides to take the high road. He should've told everybody why they broke up. That would've helped in the long run of ending this situation.
I'm listening to stuff like these at work, as a background. The reason is: I know they are fake, but I want to spot the inconsistencies in the story. Like in this one: - OP leaves the party, but the GF doesn't go looking for him, calling/texting him where he was - the GF is pregnant, planning to keep the baby & raising with OP, and then gets almost blackout drunk. yeah, right.
That one post was infuriating "I couldn't let her win so I.... I let her spread her lies unchallenged and without consequences. You would think that would be enougth to make her stop right?" No, obviously no. The paternity result and your side of the story should have been public the moment she lied to your parents...
Wait, you're saying after a paternity test, a successful court ruling and a restraining order it's unreasonable people would still believe Jessica?!?!?! WHAT?! Sorry pal, the real world doesn't work like that. In the real world, you take half measures to distance yourself from a cheating ex, then think to yourself, "You'd think this would be the end of it, but NOPE" and somehow get blindsided 12 times in a row because you never once did what a normal person does and just tell people your ex cheated on you. No, NORMAL people? We don't tell anyone anything, we somehow get paternity tests proving our innocence and win cases in court against our exes, but THEY KEEP COMING and blindside us again and again with us every step of the way saying, "You'd think this would be the end of it, but NOPE again!". That is the real world pal.
The minute you had the paternity test results stating that you are NOT the father you should have lawyered up and demanded a RO against her. Also a "gag order" preventing her from ever slandering you .
No she's trying to guilt trip you to accept it's your fault that you let Ryan trip and fall inside her and Knock her up. Women truly have a really hard time in taking accountability for their actions
Restraining order with 3rd party clause and additional defamation lawsuit if it continued. One way or another, that brings the circus to a close. Either she stops or she winds up arrested.
He needed to post every result. Paternity test, child support case results, and restraining order trial results. Also sue for defamation and do everything far sooner than he did. Ryan should probably call CPS and sue for custody/visitation. I say CPS because that chick really is unstable.
Why in the hell don't people just tell people the truth from the beginning? Why in the hell did he not pursue a restraining order from the moment he realized she wasn't going to stop bothering him? I get pissed when someone has been wronged and trying to be discreet about it they become victims again due to slander or defamation. Especially when most, if not all, of it could have been avoided if the betrayed person had just aired all the details to those closest to them in the beginning. Same thing when parents get divorced because of infidelity and the betrayed partner doesn't tell the kids the truth. Seen to many kids turned (most often) against fathers because he didn't want to destroy their opinion of their mother. Meanwhile she is actively poisoning their relationship with him. That is just the most common example. Certainly not the rule.
OP felt bad for the ex??? he's one of the main two actors who wrecked OP's relationship and OP felt bad because the ex got caught in the flak of the ex-gf's lunacy???
@@RagingWoody74 Yeah I do that when there's a paternity test in the post. Sometimes I just write like what Maury would typically say when it comes to so and so and it's either you are/ not the father. I did that to another post about an OP who finally got a paternity test done after 15 years of dealing with an cheating ex.
What kind of effing lawyer did this dude hire? He should have filed a restraining order from the get-go and then had his lawyer send the ex a cease and desist letter for harassment and slander....
When other people spout vague nonsense about how you could have helped more. Let them know it's very generous of them, offering to take care of children that aren't theirs.
Seriously. This should have been done about 10 insane antics ago. By the time of the forced kiss and messing with you at the job you should have gotten a RO.
Should’ve filed a restraining order and once she went public (the online post may not be enough if it didn’t mention you but once she showed up at your job) a defamation lawsuit. OP gave her time to file a BS lawsuit of her own by not doing anything, pretending your problems don’t exist doesn’t make them go away. I know he’s a kid, his parents should’ve stepped up for him and told him to do it. These type of people need a threat of consequences to stop, ignoring does nothing
Why was she, her friends, and family not blocked after the first confrontation? No man with any self respect will raise an affair baby. Women like this are so delusional.
This is a clear example of how some individuals, both men and women, believe that when a child is involved, males must do everything possible to support the female parent, even if the parent is not a good person. Some women say, "You're not a real man if you don't date single mothers." However, single mothers are often in that situation because of their inability to make sound choices. Men should not enter into relationships with such individuals unless the person has proven they have taken responsibility for their actions by attending counseling and truly changed their behavior. Only then, if someone chooses to be with them, it is their choice. Personally, I wouldn't take on that responsibility.
All the people in these stories go about their problems in the dumbest fucking way every single time. It's infuriating write at least one of these where they're competent.
I like to sometimes close my eyes and listen to these stories imagining them as high schoolers in a horror movie, Makes it seem way more interesting and fun.
You didn’t lose friends. Why are people so fascinated with having lots of friends so much? Why do you as an adult seek so much validation? Personally if I feel it’s none of your business then that is that. Whatever you hear and believe is your business. I’m not explaining myself when no one asked me anything.
No it's not I like the dude's voice, but... Almost every story in this channel seems to be fake.... If you following the channel you see the pattern...
love a fake story (half way thoughts) ill be honest this is like 60 % ops fault he is willing excepting the treatment. he asked this crazy ladie like 20 times to stop dose not just post the puternity test results and say good luck with your lit shit and the man you cheated on me with, doesn't get a lawyer or police involved, dose not tell this girls parents, dose let her come to his house whenever to cry at him let her come into his work and talk ,etc (final half thoughts) so ig he only got a lawyer after she decided to sue him? no counter sue no harassment or deformation charges then after her going after his familie and repeatedly trying to ruin his life nah a restraing order feel a bit much? 100% this guys fault by this point( and its fake weird way to right a story but ok op)
Still don't understand why western women believe that who is the father doesn't matter and whoever they choose to raise the child must accept it without complaining I honestly do not understand this point if view 🤔
It's because not only do they tend to get away with it they are actively incentivized to do so. Why would they stop being pieces of shit when it's financially beneficial to them to do so?
OP fault for keep things quiet and SHADY on his end. Even not tell his parent and let them hear from others? That's shady seeing the gravity of the situation.
Dude a freaking idiot as soon as he got the paternity test he should’ve told them and anyone knwing exes will do this stunt and let them know wat happened in case this happens to give them heads up
When she made first post online, he should have made a post stating he was not father as she was cheating with ex, who is the father and he had DNA that he was not the father. By waiting months to go online with truth, he gave her numerous opportunities to spin her lies.
"You are the better choice! So I will choose to sleep around with this deadbeat guy and you are supposed to just accept it, move on and father his spawn!" Women ☕️
Wrong all you do is send a cease and desist letter telling her if you don't stop making these false accusations you'll see her for defamation. And also you can sue her for harassment. What people say they can't do nothing to do something about they can.
Although this story maybe fictional, women do the very things presented here. This story illustrates that there are certain levels of responsibility and accountability most women are not used to taking. The story didn't state it, but I'm assuming she cheated with her ex, accidentally got pregnant, didn't want an abortion, and in a panic decided to pass the baby of as belonging to her current BF. However, her drunken party confession ruined her plans.
He should have posted the paternity test immediately when she implied that he was the father in her post. Then he could have got ahead of the rest of her bs. Unfortunately he has no spine and stuck his head in the sand for far too long.
Bruh. I would've lost my mind on this kid and told him to get TF off his a$$ and handle this. She's obviously off her meds, and somehow he keeps acting shocked, as if this problem will somehow magically vanish. Only took like 10x crazy episodes before he realizes he juuuuust might have to do something about it...ffs this was frustrating to listen to
I would have gone after her with harassment and defamation lawsuits against jessica. Jessica sounds unhinged so the baby needs to be taken away and her to be in the funny farm.
Kinda obvious that this girl dosen't care about her ex or her now curent ex boyfriend, only stability! Like she's using evey card in the book from suing, social media shaming, and guilt triping to the parents saying how she's scared and dosen't know what to do, and she won't let the real father see his baby UNLESS they get back together!
why are people arguing like this is real, its entertaining that's it, a high girl getting a lawyer and suing for a kid that she knows isn't even his. if you believe this i have a bridge to sell you.
A lot of people out there are stupid. She probably thought he'd be liable because they were together. While the lawyer only saw $. Nearly all of these stories are copy and paste from Reddit. Sure, there are some fakes because people want attention. But the majority are based in reality, even if some are embellished.
Bruh op is so annoying 🙄 The second someone constantly makes a private issue public, theres no more "handling things privately" once she kept slandering him, op should've made a post explaining everything ffs. Once someone makes something public, you can no longer handle things privately
She drunkenly told Matt this secret. Including being pregnant. She was drunk enough to be unable to judge how trustworthy OP’s friend would be for her. She got that drunk while pregnant. I mean… I hate kids. HATE them. But drinking heavily while pregnant is up there with drunk driving, on my list of reasons I’d leave someone. She wasn’t just planning to leave the kid for OP to raise, she also was going to throw fetal alcohol syndrome into the mix. It would be bad to ghost him with your handicapped child. But she’s trying to give the handicap to the child… why? For shits ‘n’ giggles
OP-s an idiot, he should have just openly said the baby is a result of her cheating and if she "loved" him why did she cheat? Why would anyone bother keeping the shameful secret of an ah who keeps trying to ruin their life?
Why is she drinking knowing she is pregnant? That alone should make him run.
Shoes this is fake as hell you fool
Let me tell you something I am exhausted from hearing that story like physically exhausted
@@trublacking8572 huh?
Her kid would likely get those fetal alcohol syndrome eyes like black Arielle
Get a frickin restraining order
Edit: Should’ve added in the third party clause and sued her for defamation
Sue her for slander
She should have the kid taken away by CPS and she should be imprisoned for the false child support claim and defamation.
My suggestion if she don't take out those posts I'm going to sue her for defamation
My thoughts exactly
This story is a generic "You are not the father" episode of Maury.
OP needs to grow a spine and tell the parents immediately and throw the entire legal system at her lying, cheating, manipulative ass especially after the paternity test results proved he's in the clear rather than wait it out slowly over time.
But it can just be another fake story dragged out to make things sound dumber than it is.
All he had to do was post the DNA results show the official results.
It seems like some of his so called friends still didn’t care that he wasn’t the father by saying “ Couldn’t you help her out a little?”
@@cheryljackson7908They should help her if they're sympathetic with her as friends but make her BF help her like saying to him be a doormat and it's okay you're a beta anyway! What kind of friends is those!! It's good that ryan help him doudge this wrack woman and it's good that she help him escort the trash so called friends out of his life..The only true person who cared for him is jack.
OP - GROW SOME FREAKEN BALLS! He should have called the cop and gotten a restraining order.
Fake story....who would let this go this far...I don't know anybody that would.
Drunk and pregnant. Real classy. I feel sorry for that kid. She actually said, you're the better guy. I need you. Jessica needs to terminate the pregnancy or put it up for adoption. She is too unstable. No child needs this trainwreck as a parent. One more thing. If your psycho ex keeps coming to your patents house, they ARE involved. Tell them what's going on. Jeez.
Moral of the story: Control the narrative. When you dump your SO for cheating, unless it would be legally disadvantageous to you (such as damaging you in the upcoming divorce - check with a lawyer in this case), make sure that *everyone* knows you've broken up with them and why. Broadcast it on social media, tell all the friends, post it to the family chat. Get out in front of it. It is no shame to be cheated on if your response is to automatically boot them out of your life.Because if you don't, *they* will.
If you would have told every one what happen on day one. You would not have lost friends.
So true and still not going to the cops , this is why you have to control the narrative
I want the best for everyone hearing this essay, even if we don't end up meeting. May you have a life full of happiness, good fortune, and unending blessings.
Those aren’t friends…why would you care to lose people that clearly don’t have your best interests? Be thankful they revealed themselves early.
They are not his friends! Never really were!
Don't think OP lost any true friends
" youd think everything would calm down, but nope"
"Just when i thought it couldnt get any worse, but nope"
Like goddam stfu with those lines its annoying
Haha she now gets to raise the baby as a single mom. Good luck finding a father figure who's willing to put up with someone's leftovers 😂😂
leave the kid out of this
Good luck? This happens all the time. It's kind of how we get step family's. Sorry, I thought this was already common knowledge. Smh. And no child is ever a " leftover", thank you. The woman? Maybe. But the child? No.
Ryan was trying to step up, though? So you clearly didn't pay attention.
@@danielleburchette2599 Yep. The original commenter has no idea about the magnitude of the simp epidemic. Many men will volunteer to raise the result of another man's fun time with their woman. Certainly no winners.
The best part is no one will want anything to do with her now that she's a single M.O.M. Honestly would have had a better chance if she put it up for adoption and gave it to a family who will love it
With these situations, ALWAYS talk to an attorney. ALWAYS.
Things that op did wrong.
- Not telling everyone about this.
- Not posting the Paternity Test online.
- Not calling out Jessica as the cheating liar that she is.
- Not lawyer up as soon as she started the defamation and harassment.
Also, you know it's fake, no lawyer will take Jessica's case once they know there is a paternity test.
Agreed he’s an idiot for that like as soon as you get test result back you should’ve let everyone know in case she tries to guilt trip and tell everybody
If in the states, there are lawyers who would be willing to take the case as long as they get paid, regardless of if they win or lose.
I was getting so triggered man lmao, like dude after trying to manipulate his Parents and going to his damn workplace, that's the point where I would've cracked and made a post on every social media and messaged every friend and family member about the situation so she couldn't do any more damage.
if those idiot you call friends chose to believe her and not even get his side. then maybe they're not real friends to begin with
Threw the pregnancy test on table: go ahead pick it up
The court hearing was hilarious, I'd imagine Jessica's Lawyer had a fair bit to say if she'd conveniently withheld the fact that a paternity test was in OP's possession and would instantly dismiss their case.
Wait, Wait, Wait. She pragman and she drinks alcohol. And drunks, so she tells everyone her secret plan? Isn't it the time to call some authorities?
The fact that a court would even entertain 'not his baby but I need his money' child support cases just proves the entire system is incredibly flawed. This woman should be in prison and the child needs to go somewhere safer and saner.
And any friends that hemmed and hawed with 'well maybe you could have helped her' deserve for sure to never be talked to again. Trash believe trash, and if they're on her side, they're 100% human trash.
"I had no way to defend myself."
Has a WHOLE ASS PATERNITY TEST PROVING HIS INNOCENCE!
Dude is an idiot. Why didn't you explain to your parents and inner circle in the first place what happened? You could have saved yourself a lot of trouble.
“I love you, but I’m pregnant by another guy” who really wants to hear that?
Unless she was r****, there is no excuse whatsoever
I believe this. I have a friend who had this happened to him. He is fighting to get off the birth certificate now. 88% of everyone has abandoned him for it. I have not. I am doing all I can to help him out.
OP seems smart, even had a lawyer. Then you realize DEFAMATION is not on his vocabulary. 🤪
That girl is going to self terminate.....
We can only hope.
@@79rustyk10 Amen to that.......girl has something broke in her.
BS story. He literally has the test results. Just post that publicly and say you wish that she is able to work something out with her first ex who fathered her child! Willfully stupid to pad the story.
Some people are sadly spineless
I imagine AI was asked to write a story to maximize infuriating listeners
Why did this fool not go to a lawyer immediately and get a restraining order.
People who say that you could have helped more tell them they are quite welcome to help with bringing up her child seeing as they are so concerned about it
This is what happens when an idiot man decides to take the high road. He should've told everybody why they broke up. That would've helped in the long run of ending this situation.
I'm listening to stuff like these at work, as a background. The reason is: I know they are fake, but I want to spot the inconsistencies in the story. Like in this one:
- OP leaves the party, but the GF doesn't go looking for him, calling/texting him where he was
- the GF is pregnant, planning to keep the baby & raising with OP, and then gets almost blackout drunk. yeah, right.
That one post was infuriating "I couldn't let her win so I.... I let her spread her lies unchallenged and without consequences. You would think that would be enougth to make her stop right?"
No, obviously no. The paternity result and your side of the story should have been public the moment she lied to your parents...
Wait, you're saying after a paternity test, a successful court ruling and a restraining order it's unreasonable people would still believe Jessica?!?!?! WHAT?! Sorry pal, the real world doesn't work like that. In the real world, you take half measures to distance yourself from a cheating ex, then think to yourself, "You'd think this would be the end of it, but NOPE" and somehow get blindsided 12 times in a row because you never once did what a normal person does and just tell people your ex cheated on you. No, NORMAL people? We don't tell anyone anything, we somehow get paternity tests proving our innocence and win cases in court against our exes, but THEY KEEP COMING and blindside us again and again with us every step of the way saying, "You'd think this would be the end of it, but NOPE again!". That is the real world pal.
The girl knew she was pregnant. And yet she got drunk at a party?!
So infuriating that women think they can just pick the better guy to be a dad.
I remember back when a girl tried to pin a baby on my robot friend as well.
"So I filed for a restraining order..."
Should have done that four "I thought it couldn't get worse" ago.
The minute you had the paternity test results stating that you are NOT the father you should have lawyered up and demanded a RO against her. Also a "gag order" preventing her from ever slandering you .
No she's trying to guilt trip you to accept it's your fault that you let Ryan trip and fall inside her and Knock her up.
Women truly have a really hard time in taking accountability for their actions
Restraining order with 3rd party clause and additional defamation lawsuit if it continued. One way or another, that brings the circus to a close. Either she stops or she winds up arrested.
He needed to post every result. Paternity test, child support case results, and restraining order trial results. Also sue for defamation and do everything far sooner than he did. Ryan should probably call CPS and sue for custody/visitation. I say CPS because that chick really is unstable.
Why in the hell don't people just tell people the truth from the beginning? Why in the hell did he not pursue a restraining order from the moment he realized she wasn't going to stop bothering him? I get pissed when someone has been wronged and trying to be discreet about it they become victims again due to slander or defamation. Especially when most, if not all, of it could have been avoided if the betrayed person had just aired all the details to those closest to them in the beginning. Same thing when parents get divorced because of infidelity and the betrayed partner doesn't tell the kids the truth. Seen to many kids turned (most often) against fathers because he didn't want to destroy their opinion of their mother. Meanwhile she is actively poisoning their relationship with him. That is just the most common example. Certainly not the rule.
It makes me so angry. Almost as if these are stories lifted directly off of reddit and completely made up nonsense made by dorks fishing for upvotes.
He is infuriating with his slowness. He should have gotten an RO months back.
OP felt bad for the ex??? he's one of the main two actors who wrecked OP's relationship and OP felt bad because the ex got caught in the flak of the ex-gf's lunacy???
Why does nobody sue for defamation?!
“I wasn’t going to let her drag me back in to her mess.”
Continues to not actually do anything.
I really want to know why he didn't just post the DNA results on his socials when she first started this nonsense
OP...... YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!!!!!!
Another Maury moment
@@RagingWoody74 Yeah I do that when there's a paternity test in the post. Sometimes I just write like what Maury would typically say when it comes to so and so and it's either you are/ not the father. I did that to another post about an OP who finally got a paternity test done after 15 years of dealing with an cheating ex.
"I heard a knock on the door and when i opend-" ive never once opened a door without looking to see who it is
This is wild, do women like exist?
What kind of effing lawyer did this dude hire? He should have filed a restraining order from the get-go and then had his lawyer send the ex a cease and desist letter for harassment and slander....
When other people spout vague nonsense about how you could have helped more.
Let them know it's very generous of them, offering to take care of children that aren't theirs.
Why get a restraing order and not use it?
Seriously. This should have been done about 10 insane antics ago. By the time of the forced kiss and messing with you at the job you should have gotten a RO.
Jessica's like the final boss of borderline personality disorder.
You didn´t loose any friends, you found out who were really your friends
Remember gents, she's not yours its just your turn.
Should’ve filed a restraining order and once she went public (the online post may not be enough if it didn’t mention you but once she showed up at your job) a defamation lawsuit. OP gave her time to file a BS lawsuit of her own by not doing anything, pretending your problems don’t exist doesn’t make them go away. I know he’s a kid, his parents should’ve stepped up for him and told him to do it. These type of people need a threat of consequences to stop, ignoring does nothing
Why didn't you post a photograph of the paternity test results? That would have shut everybody up.
I know this is an AI story because no-one would be so dumb and stay stoically silent while someone was going around slandering them.
Why was she, her friends, and family not blocked after the first confrontation? No man with any self respect will raise an affair baby. Women like this are so delusional.
If she wanted child support, she should have sued Ryan - unless she wasn't sure if Ryan was the father, either.
If you have the paternity results then post them!! And let everyone know that her baby's father's name is supposed to be Ryan?? And be done with her!!
He should have sent that single mom song.😂😂😂
OP should have counter-sued and stopped the lunacy
The AI writing for this channel is awful.
This is a clear example of how some individuals, both men and women, believe that when a child is involved, males must do everything possible to support the female parent, even if the parent is not a good person. Some women say, "You're not a real man if you don't date single mothers." However, single mothers are often in that situation because of their inability to make sound choices. Men should not enter into relationships with such individuals unless the person has proven they have taken responsibility for their actions by attending counseling and truly changed their behavior. Only then, if someone chooses to be with them, it is their choice. Personally, I wouldn't take on that responsibility.
you're the better guy is the best line ever
Translation, he has more money.
All the people in these stories go about their problems in the dumbest fucking way every single time. It's infuriating write at least one of these where they're competent.
I like to sometimes close my eyes and listen to these stories imagining them as high schoolers in a horror movie, Makes it seem way more interesting and fun.
Dude the guy Ryan did you a favor the girl is nuts. You should thank him big time
This story feels like a massive rage bait, like every incident is crafted in such a way to provoke the biggest amount of rage.
Do not be alone with her! Desperate people who act hinky are to be avoided!
Be glad about the so called friends. The trash took it self out there. Besides they just didn't want her coming to them for a hand out.
You didn’t lose friends. Why are people so fascinated with having lots of friends so much? Why do you as an adult seek so much validation? Personally if I feel it’s none of your business then that is that. Whatever you hear and believe is your business. I’m not explaining myself when no one asked me anything.
If they believe her over you they're not your friends to begin with.
"...But Jessica had other plans. Update 2..." Wow, how did he know? I mean, this *is* a real story, isn't it?
No it's not
I like the dude's voice, but...
Almost every story in this channel seems to be fake....
If you following the channel you see the pattern...
love a fake story
(half way thoughts)
ill be honest this is like 60 % ops fault he is willing excepting the treatment. he asked this crazy ladie like 20 times to stop dose not just post the puternity test results and say good luck with your lit shit and the man you cheated on me with, doesn't get a lawyer or police involved, dose not tell this girls parents, dose let her come to his house whenever to cry at him let her come into his work and talk ,etc
(final half thoughts)
so ig he only got a lawyer after she decided to sue him?
no counter sue no harassment or deformation charges
then after her going after his familie and repeatedly trying to ruin his life nah a restraing order feel a bit much?
100% this guys fault by this point( and its fake weird way to right a story but ok op)
Mark another point on the wall for mandatory DNA paternity testing.
Still don't understand why western women believe that who is the father doesn't matter and whoever they choose to raise the child must accept it without complaining
I honestly do not understand this point if view 🤔
It's because not only do they tend to get away with it they are actively incentivized to do so.
Why would they stop being pieces of shit when it's financially beneficial to them to do so?
OP fault for keep things quiet and SHADY on his end. Even not tell his parent and let them hear from others? That's shady seeing the gravity of the situation.
Take the father ( ex best friend ) to court
Dude a freaking idiot as soon as he got the paternity test he should’ve told them and anyone knwing exes will do this stunt and let them know wat happened in case this happens to give them heads up
When she made first post online, he should have made a post stating he was not father as she was cheating with ex, who is the father and he had DNA that he was not the father. By waiting months to go online with truth, he gave her numerous opportunities to spin her lies.
"You are the better choice! So I will choose to sleep around with this deadbeat guy and you are supposed to just accept it, move on and father his spawn!" Women ☕️
MATT is the real OG
That's why hookup culture bad
Wrong all you do is send a cease and desist letter telling her if you don't stop making these false accusations you'll see her for defamation. And also you can sue her for harassment. What people say they can't do nothing to do something about they can.
Although this story maybe fictional, women do the very things presented here. This story illustrates that there are certain levels of responsibility and accountability most women are not used to taking. The story didn't state it, but I'm assuming she cheated with her ex, accidentally got pregnant, didn't want an abortion, and in a panic decided to pass the baby of as belonging to her current BF. However, her drunken party confession ruined her plans.
Jessica is a nut case & needs to see a therapist the kid is going to be messed up.
So why didn’t OP block her as soon as she started to harass him? Or immediately after breaking up?
Spinelessness is a disease
WHY THIS SHIT IF HAPPENING to US MALES? GRRR IT'S LIKE WE GOT THE BALLS AND WE SUFFER FOR IT OMG...
What a doormat 😂
Why did she not just take Ryan to court for cash?
He should have posted the paternity test immediately when she implied that he was the father in her post. Then he could have got ahead of the rest of her bs. Unfortunately he has no spine and stuck his head in the sand for far too long.
Fake story 😂😂😂😂😂
Bruh. I would've lost my mind on this kid and told him to get TF off his a$$ and handle this. She's obviously off her meds, and somehow he keeps acting shocked, as if this problem will somehow magically vanish. Only took like 10x crazy episodes before he realizes he juuuuust might have to do something about it...ffs this was frustrating to listen to
I would have gone after her with harassment and defamation lawsuits against jessica. Jessica sounds unhinged so the baby needs to be taken away and her to be in the funny farm.
Put the baby up for adoption.
Kinda obvious that this girl dosen't care about her ex or her now curent ex boyfriend, only stability!
Like she's using evey card in the book from suing, social media shaming, and guilt triping to the parents saying how she's scared and dosen't know what to do, and she won't let the real father see his baby UNLESS they get back together!
why are people arguing like this is real, its entertaining that's it, a high girl getting a lawyer and suing for a kid that she knows isn't even his. if you believe this i have a bridge to sell you.
A lot of people out there are stupid. She probably thought he'd be liable because they were together. While the lawyer only saw $.
Nearly all of these stories are copy and paste from Reddit. Sure, there are some fakes because people want attention. But the majority are based in reality, even if some are embellished.
She's drunk snd pregnant. Think about that.
Jessica should go back to her lover…
LAUGH.
Some men are simply a nice guy who have weak impulses, doormat status ..
Bruh op is so annoying 🙄
The second someone constantly makes a private issue public, theres no more "handling things privately" once she kept slandering him, op should've made a post explaining everything ffs.
Once someone makes something public, you can no longer handle things privately
Why not go after the actual baby’s father this much.
She drunkenly told Matt this secret. Including being pregnant. She was drunk enough to be unable to judge how trustworthy OP’s friend would be for her. She got that drunk while pregnant.
I mean… I hate kids. HATE them. But drinking heavily while pregnant is up there with drunk driving, on my list of reasons I’d leave someone. She wasn’t just planning to leave the kid for OP to raise, she also was going to throw fetal alcohol syndrome into the mix. It would be bad to ghost him with your handicapped child. But she’s trying to give the handicap to the child… why? For shits ‘n’ giggles
You hate kids? Or you hate having kids?
OP-s an idiot, he should have just openly said the baby is a result of her cheating and if she "loved" him why did she cheat? Why would anyone bother keeping the shameful secret of an ah who keeps trying to ruin their life?
Jesus this guy took forever to do what needed to be done