"Rapes can only be stopped by women" Delhi residents on why sexual assault happens

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @kuhu534
    @kuhu534 3 месяца назад +5792

    she was a doctor wearing a white coat and saving lives, she did not wear short "inviting" clothes for men. Can we please stop with the victim blaming? instead teach men to keep their hands to themselves.

    • @ajaykumarsingh702
      @ajaykumarsingh702 3 месяца назад +6

      Sex is a biological need.
      Either stop complaining or reform the society as a whole to keep the sexual need of each individual in check.

    • @kumarincome
      @kumarincome 3 месяца назад

      ABE CHUP when did u protest false rape case? BADI AAYI LECTURE DENE

    • @Nini27062
      @Nini27062 3 месяца назад

      Even if someone walks around naked. It's still not an invitation. If someone wants sex they can ask for it. Remeber guys non consensual sex is not a real thing it's just a romanticized form of RAPE. The clothes,the place,the situation, the person nothing matters. CONSENT IS CONSENT!

    • @randomlyswatching9481
      @randomlyswatching9481 3 месяца назад +152

      For that You'll have to leave Indya. Dudes there have no sense

    • @shrutit.a1034
      @shrutit.a1034 3 месяца назад

      That's right.... No doubt.
      But also the women in the name of modernization, over doing it . We can't deny the fact also, men both educated n uneducated, will definitely judge women by their dressing on the road n women have faces many problems on their clothes.
      I'm not telling them to cover head to toe, but definitely women need to find their way , when they are in public

  • @Pottahverse143
    @Pottahverse143 3 месяца назад +529

    Can't believe society is still blaming the victim over such a horrific incident.India will never change.Shame

    • @moveon89485
      @moveon89485 2 месяца назад +7

      The problem is lack of responsibility this people think that rape is something that happens because of both the men and women's fault but the problem is the way they view the woman some kind of meat which just exists for satisfying their pleasure and the piece of meat have no emotions,no desire (thank you bollywood for normalising stalking) no aspirations I would go long to say that these type of people don't even think women as a human even as a boy it frustates me my sister can't go wherever she want ,she has been harrased once as a minor and I even seen people in their 50's catcalling a fucking 14 year girl and what same thing happens to their daughter and what does government do impose more laws making sure innocent men suffer as same as innocent women instead of tackling the real problem where do the point of view is born to not see woman as a equal

  • @1963kb
    @1963kb 2 месяца назад +590

    My father was a paediatric specialist. He handled rape cases involving children as young as a six-month-old infant. Is a three-year-old girl wearing provocative clothes? Is a 60-year-old woman dressed to excite a man? When are we going to stop victim-blaming? In the past, women didn't even wear blouses and often roamed with bare chests. Even today, many tribal communities do not cover themselves. Is it acceptable to sexually assault them? If you can't look directly at the sun, you close or cover your eyes - you don't try to cover the sun.If you are carrying a purse, is it acceptable to be robbed? As a society, we fail to educate our children on how to treat women. Laws need to be stricter, and the time to get justice in such cases should be quicker.

    • @Sandwich-h1e
      @Sandwich-h1e 2 месяца назад +4

      laws se nhi hoga early marriage he solution hai

    • @1963kb
      @1963kb 2 месяца назад +2

      @Sandwich-h1e aur apko lagta hai..married women are not getting raped!!
      People had raped wives in front of their husbands.

    • @Sp-gu6tt
      @Sp-gu6tt 2 месяца назад +3

      Kuch b😂😂😂

    • @kenich2611
      @kenich2611 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Sandwich-h1e yeah because martial rape doesn't exist

    • @ebadurrahman7848
      @ebadurrahman7848 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Sandwich-h1eMan Ki Baat bol Di ❤❤😂😂😂

  • @lorelai1701
    @lorelai1701 3 месяца назад +5068

    Why is it that "sanskaar" comes only for women? Is assaulting a woman "sanskaar"?
    Is being a rapist "sanskaari"?

    • @bikashmishra6675
      @bikashmishra6675 3 месяца назад +30

      True but isn't it the mothers who nurture the child? So sanskar will go from the mother 1st to the kid rather than from the father And the discipline comes from the father.

    • @Ss..348
      @Ss..348 3 месяца назад +439

      @@bikashmishra6675 Only mothers nurture child?..father has no role?

    • @cybercop3108
      @cybercop3108 3 месяца назад +290

      ​@@bikashmishra6675 kisiki ki maa to daaru cigarette bhi nahi peena sikhti, phir bhi bhot ladke Peete dikh jayenge. To uske kisko blame karoge? Ladke ko hi na?

    • @atanubhuyan7004
      @atanubhuyan7004 3 месяца назад +219

      @@bikashmishra6675 so father has no sanskaar to pass on?

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад +94

      its indian parents who teach sanskaar only to girl and boys learn kusumskar and they feel its ok.

  • @slime1592
    @slime1592 3 месяца назад +715

    It is unfortunate that ladies are also blaming it on the dress. Priyanka Reddy of Hyderabad, Moumita debnath or an eight month old were not wearing anything provocative.

    • @ankitamalick8626
      @ankitamalick8626 3 месяца назад +15

      Please don't mention the name of the victims.

    • @level1865
      @level1865 2 месяца назад +59

      It's actually shows how a patriarchal society functions. Mohak mangal made a really good video going about this. A large percentage of women think it's fine for husbands to beat their wives.

    • @tanushreeMishraaa
      @tanushreeMishraaa 2 месяца назад +13

      these people depicts illiteracy of our society

    • @haruk2312
      @haruk2312 2 месяца назад

      Most of those women are uneducated and fed patriarchal beliefs from childhood instead.

    • @thecupressiana5923
      @thecupressiana5923 2 месяца назад +5

      @@ankitamalick8626 why shouldn't they be mentioned? Their names should continue to be mentioned, so they are not forgotten about. They deserve justice for what was done to them.

  • @AnuradhaKumari-lu1xl
    @AnuradhaKumari-lu1xl 3 месяца назад +198

    It seems that younger generation are far much more better than older ones.
    Hopes for a better society in future.

    • @trishasym2722
      @trishasym2722 2 месяца назад +11

      Look like you didnt watched india's daughters. There Are lot of wahiyad comment on women by kids.

    • @XwwXr
      @XwwXr 2 месяца назад

      Ah yes we are heading towards western degeneracy

    • @RagnarLothbrok-n2h
      @RagnarLothbrok-n2h 2 месяца назад

      True ..nothing scared me more than 12 to 18 year old Indian kids on social media 🍇​@@trishasym2722

    • @canwegetmuchhigher729
      @canwegetmuchhigher729 Месяц назад +7

      ​@@trishasym2722 I watched a youtube video about rape in Haryana and the mentality of literal high school kids were sick and disgusting.

    • @bhavya7953
      @bhavya7953 Месяц назад

      Yes actually younger generations are changing a bit but it's actually the middle aged men who are married and have kids. They're the ones actually teaching and encouraging these monstrous ideas and they actually don't fear to act! I'm not defending younger generation men, but they're learning from them.

  • @Iahrsh
    @Iahrsh 3 месяца назад +2646

    What about that doctor huh!? She hadn't wore any short clothes while on duty for 36 hrs and what about those 4 year old girls from Mumbai? Were they also wearing short clothes? How illiterate people and their cheap mindset..!😤😤

    • @alkasoli4002
      @alkasoli4002 3 месяца назад +199

      True.... it's not about clothes...it is about the mindset of people... parents should teach boys to respect girls

    • @sushilhansda1345
      @sushilhansda1345 3 месяца назад +24

      If girls wear short dress. Guys will state, if a pretty girl passes by. Guys will stare atleast one time for sure. It's human tendency. But rape is not men vs women. U cannot stop crime before it happens. Least u can do it impartial investigation so the culprit get published for sure n set an example

    • @Vedh_kalra
      @Vedh_kalra 3 месяца назад +94

      @@alkasoli4002 teaching doesnt matter here maybe because many parent teaches their son to respect women and then at night that father beat his wife ironically

    • @ryuray1677
      @ryuray1677 3 месяца назад +131

      It does not matter if anyone walks naked even you are not entitled to rape, you cannot rape. If someone's clothes clothes offend you look away!

    • @reardelt
      @reardelt 3 месяца назад

      Bro. USA has 200 rapes per day. India only has 10 rapes per day.

  • @iamhriee
    @iamhriee 3 месяца назад +2213

    when will india stop victim blaming ??????

    • @major2707
      @major2707 3 месяца назад +14

      Only Indian media 😁

    • @Hecatemoonlight
      @Hecatemoonlight 3 месяца назад

      Never honestly....people r shit....and these want to become vishwaguru😂

    • @YazhiniS-kn8zi
      @YazhiniS-kn8zi 3 месяца назад +38

      Never

    • @Jihyotwice-i3s
      @Jihyotwice-i3s 3 месяца назад +35

      It will never happen😢

    • @Priya_T011
      @Priya_T011 3 месяца назад +18

      Never

  • @GaganDeep-ds4kq
    @GaganDeep-ds4kq 2 месяца назад +37

    I'm completely amazed by the fact -
    A girl has been sexually assaulted and people has the audacity to say her choice of wearing lead her to this.
    Wow!

  • @Skysky2318
    @Skysky2318 3 месяца назад +1774

    All these people putting the blame and responsibility on the women ARE THE REASON. Shame on all of you.

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад +72

      they might have sexually harassed too, those who harassed only talk in this way and wait that aunty talking about dress his son will be in news for rape case in future, and she will support him

    • @Kugelbkitz
      @Kugelbkitz 3 месяца назад +4

      Looks like you didn't even watched it entirely & jumped to the conclusion...

    • @reine2212
      @reine2212 3 месяца назад +27

      ​@@Kugelbkitzyour comment doesn't make sense

    • @sushilkumarlohani6709
      @sushilkumarlohani6709 3 месяца назад +2

      Not all

    • @psh19821
      @psh19821 3 месяца назад

      Right. These men who are blaming it on the woman are themselves rapists

  • @owl234
    @owl234 3 месяца назад +2623

    1:38 he just compared all the men to a wild animal lmao. So ladies, note: These type of men don't view humans as lions and lionessess, they view themselves as lions and women as FOOD. Do your math

    • @KrishnakshiNathKuhi
      @KrishnakshiNathKuhi 3 месяца назад

      Because of This type of man this cases happened they have lack of education and they failed to teach youths how to repect each other

    • @PPPPSSSSCCCC
      @PPPPSSSSCCCC 3 месяца назад +153

      Prey and predator..
      Agar bhukha ser hai to jungle may ya pinjre ke piche rakhna chahiye.. Samaj may aise "bhukhe shero" ki koi jagah nhi hai

    • @Muskanhere-j9x
      @Muskanhere-j9x 3 месяца назад

      ​@@reardeltsooo....Ghar pe rakheee valuable asset ...bczzzz harrr jagahhh tohhh tumlog ne unsafe hii bnadiyaa h...huhh...Andrew tate ke chigmas

    • @aeshnasalwan8768
      @aeshnasalwan8768 3 месяца назад +149

      ​@@reardelt who gives anyone the right to break into my car and steal anything?
      It's a crime - read the law

    • @kumarincome
      @kumarincome 3 месяца назад

      @@aeshnasalwan8768 pehle nange punge ghoomo phir kaho rape rape, waise bhi 99% cases joothey hain

  • @metadentalcare
    @metadentalcare 2 месяца назад +110

    omg i saw 2 potential rapist in the video and i totally agree with the concept of the guy who spoke with an accent the more you hide the more your mind wants to unravel the mystery.

    • @akshayapatil9865
      @akshayapatil9865 2 месяца назад +3

      Those two should be under surveillance

  • @eighteen_06
    @eighteen_06 3 месяца назад +1196

    Again, The man who compared women to a lion's prey and the rapist to a lion is utterly reprehensible and his analogy is absurd. A lion preys out of necessity to survive, but there is no justification for equating such natural behavior to a heinous act of violence against women.

    • @Paparazzi1e
      @Paparazzi1e 2 месяца назад +18

      Exactly

    • @ashwini1859
      @ashwini1859 2 месяца назад +63

      And again comparing men to lion and women to weak and a prey is stupid.

    • @ereh987
      @ereh987 2 месяца назад

      the comparison itself shows the mindest lol, women can never be free if they think women as "lion's prey"

    • @Chest_No_14
      @Chest_No_14 2 месяца назад +48

      He should be arrested under preventive detention

    • @Youdumbo-id4gw
      @Youdumbo-id4gw 2 месяца назад +4

      I agree very well

  • @devanshudodiya
    @devanshudodiya 3 месяца назад +935

    🤦‍♂🤦‍♂ India is in a serious need of real co-education and environment where both gender can work and respect each other. the incels (uncles and aunties both) are all the victim of the lack of interaction and understanding with the opposite gender and that's why they resort to crap like "taali ek haath se nahi bajati".

    • @yashvardhanchoudhary5363
      @yashvardhanchoudhary5363 3 месяца назад +40

      Exactly.We need to normalize boys and girls talking to each other and respecting each other.If in early age kids are taught to not sit with,not talk to opposite gender then people will remain the same.

    • @devanshudodiya
      @devanshudodiya 3 месяца назад

      @@yashvardhanchoudhary5363 yep

    • @sudambeshra857
      @sudambeshra857 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@yashvardhanchoudhary5363 agreed

    • @beachplease_
      @beachplease_ 2 месяца назад +2

      @@yashvardhanchoudhary5363exactly. I was in an all girls school from LKG to class 12 and now that im finally in college, my mom is asking me to go talk to everyone when I have no social skills whatsoever

    • @adityatomar5333
      @adityatomar5333 2 месяца назад

      Education has nothing to do with it. Character development har school college me compulsory kr dena chahiye.

  • @precioussoulmj07
    @precioussoulmj07 2 месяца назад +130

    The victim blaming is horrendous.

  • @NamruLim
    @NamruLim 3 месяца назад +2159

    Sexual assault is not always about sexual gratification but it's more about dominating people. Stop objectifying women as sex objects who are there to fulfill men's sexual needs. Our education system, our so called Sanskriti, our upbringing needs a serious reformation. Capital punishment is not a long-term solution. The root cause of all these problems happening in India rapidly is because of our flawed value system

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад +51

      all these centuries indian men are taught this way thats why its not changed at all. still movies and serials teaching the same pattern. atleast it should start with present gen movies. because many men go to theatres watch entire movie. movies should not teach in sanskari manner, they must teach practically logically rationally that its mens arrogance which these crimes happen not the womens fault.

    • @anikabyjus1833
      @anikabyjus1833 3 месяца назад +17

      Our real indian sanskriti was never taught to anyone since British left ... After the Mughals the distorted sanskriti has been continuing ....

    • @letsbeantihate.9821
      @letsbeantihate.9821 3 месяца назад +60

      ​​@@anikabyjus1833 Stop blaming others for your thousand year old problems. Caste discrimination, skin colour and gender discrimination are part of the 'sanskaari' values ingrained into society. Wake up and make the change. Change your thinking and teach your children to treat everyone equally irrespective of religion, caste, gender, skin colour or financial standing. Jai Hind

    • @lakshyawhy
      @lakshyawhy 3 месяца назад +19

      ​​​​@@letsbeantihate.9821no one blaming it is truth and these are not thousand of year problem they mainly became part of society after several invasion.
      Skin colour discrimination wasn't existed earlier firstly.
      And women are not sexualised before as at that time women doesn't even wear blouse under sari but were safe.
      And you will only find the origin of sati partha and gungath partha just after mugal period. Gunghat partha doesn't exist in south because they were least affected by mugal invasion.

    • @SSraii
      @SSraii 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@reardelthorrible

  • @philipzerubbabel3583
    @philipzerubbabel3583 3 месяца назад +2063

    Every rape got these layers behind it.
    1. Objectification of women in our movies
    2. The common role our actresses are offered is to support a man emotionally or to earn his love as her prime goal which disempowers them.
    3. The iniquitous 'item songs'
    4. Men never told to not stare at a woman rather women are told to dress properly
    5. Lack of proper sex education
    6. Prostitution and pornography
    7. Patriarchy causing men to feel superior
    8. Alcohol, drugs
    As long as we don't address all of these collectively, we'll only erupt now and then and won't find a solution.

    • @monoj3299
      @monoj3299 3 месяца назад +14

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      a term originating from the French Revolution of 1789, in reference to those citizens who opposed the French (so-called) king, yet currently used to describe those wicked persons who favour assorted ideologies and practices that contradict dharma, such as non-monarchical governances (particularly socialism, communism, tyrannical fascism, and liberal democracies), egalitarianism, feminism, perverse sexuality (such as homosexuality and transvestism), multiculturalism, and the illegitimate abortion of poor, innocent, unborn children. In the past decade or two (of this treatise being composed), the mass media, especially the motion picture industry and television production companies, has been aggressively promoting all the above CRIMINAL ideologies and practices, helping to expedite the destruction of human society. As explicated in Chapter 11, the state of being of any particular human (or any other animal) is due entirely to his or her genetic code and his or her conditioning. Therefore, the explosion of the leftist/liberal mentality in recent decades, particularly in Western countries, has been caused by
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      चिंता यहां भी है.!
      गांव में तो केवल,
      "फसलें" ही खराब हो रही थीं.!
      शहर में तो,
      "नस्लें" खराब हो रही हैं.!
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    • @dineshbandari5407
      @dineshbandari5407 3 месяца назад +105

      Upbringing by the parents is also equally important. Respecting women should be taught right from childhood.
      These days parents give money and mobile to kids but not values.

    • @joshnasreet48
      @joshnasreet48 3 месяца назад +5

      Exactly!!

    • @madhvisingh3259
      @madhvisingh3259 3 месяца назад +7

      Exactly ,all points are covered

    • @itsme-sq5rd
      @itsme-sq5rd 3 месяца назад +8

      It's biology.
      We are just trying to apply social rules on people.
      Most people will follow but some people don't follow.

  • @hijack69
    @hijack69 2 месяца назад +29

    Uncle really said " Andar ki Jwalamukhi" 💀

  • @taotree4097
    @taotree4097 3 месяца назад +76

    As a man, I am outraged by those who blame women for rape. Such men are often the ones who would commit assault and molestation themselves.

  • @Rewinddd-c3t
    @Rewinddd-c3t 3 месяца назад +918

    Why the hell are people obsessed with clothes when it’s the sick mindset that pollutes the whole community

    • @AkashBrahmachari
      @AkashBrahmachari 2 месяца назад

      ​@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719😢
      So are you saying if a woman wear burkha and go out at night will she be safe? In Kolkata rape case, the female doctor Moumita Debnath* was on duty, no 🚫nudity, no short dresses. ❌👗But still some bastard raped and killed her.
      Do you know that men are also raping men?
      You can't say it's only woman wo make rapists. Say we should control move, ban porn, and give death⚰punishment for rapist. Do you know that even I used to think that women enjoy rape because that's what I saw on porn.
      Education is necessary. It's true that women also should stop making nude reals, vedio etc for followers and men also should be sanskari. ❤
      : I am a man, don't think I am a woman and only taking part of women, but saying the truth.

    • @SanviSingh-ew8hq
      @SanviSingh-ew8hq 2 месяца назад +57

      @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719you are saying that someone gets raped because of their clothes? And that it is the truth? are u kidding me?

    • @jimkpani4829
      @jimkpani4829 2 месяца назад

      ​@@SanviSingh-ew8hq you will not understand mens mindset about womens. When a men stare at a women he analyze her whole body and imagine her in his mind..so clothes matter.if you wear something very short they will rape you in their mind ..some people they coulnt control themselves and rape their victims

    • @AlooParantha_311
      @AlooParantha_311 2 месяца назад +16

      Its because of the sheer amount of explicit and sexual content available on the internet

    • @fhjj-b6z
      @fhjj-b6z 2 месяца назад +28

      @SHAHABUDDINKHAN719abe chal na bawde

  • @ashley6427
    @ashley6427 2 месяца назад +124

    Babies, toddlers, geriatrics, pregnant women, disabled people, and even a goat. A GOAT. The sexual frustration and depravity of Indian society seep through individuals, who manifest their feelings into sexual violence. It seems in India it is more shameful to be raped than to be a rapist. Nothing has changed after Nirbhaya.

  • @aminafatima1011
    @aminafatima1011 3 месяца назад +408

    Salute to the watchman uncle he spoke the truth all the other men were talking about clothing but he talked about the cause root which is strict laws and justice system. Thank you sir, please stand for justice 🙏🇮🇳
    Ya Allah har ladki ki hifazat karna 💔

    • @Simran-hb2jl
      @Simran-hb2jl 3 месяца назад

      The problem is not the law. The problem is the laws are not being applied. The deep rooted problem remains that the psychology of the rapists which is fked up! These people who can bring themselves to do such thing are mentally sick. Problem is nobody wants to evaluate the psychology of children or older men or women because mental health is not a thing in India, Bangladesh, Pakistan etc countries.

    • @User_123abc64
      @User_123abc64 2 месяца назад

      So true 👍

  • @AdarshSingh-g5k
    @AdarshSingh-g5k 3 месяца назад +370

    The fact that people are searching for R@pe videos on adult websites shows the mentality of our so called "sabhya samaj" . There is nothing sexual about r@pe, period. From a very early age the notion of superiority is filled inside men's head by their own family which makes them look down upon women , it makes them feel entitled of women's body and life. We need to stop victim blaming and teach our boys about sexuality , consent as well as gender equality at a very young age.i myself am the only son in my whole family , my uncles and aunts ,dadi dada everyone treated me like i was some superior species than my cousin sisters ( which made me look down upon them) , it was only later when i started living with my mom that she taught me about the basics of being a man by treating me and my cousins with eqality and respect.

    • @prabha6886
      @prabha6886 3 месяца назад +17

      Thank god men like you exist. ❤

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean 3 месяца назад +18

      What should I do to make my 5 y/o brother learn about consent, individuality, respect the opposite gender without my family screaming at me because I was teaching him "inappropriate" things?
      I'm also from a typical indian family: putting male babies and sons on a pedestal, treating them like royalty all the while pretending they really respect women by praying to female deities. But not really treating us the same.
      The important part is that my baby brother was really, REALLY wanted. He happened 15 years after me, and 10 years after my younger sister.
      If he was born a girl, it would have been tragic and my whole extended family would have had a mourning.
      So he's really really loved, which is not a problem at all because I love him to death myself. He's my precious little baby because of the 15 year age gap he's almost like my own baby.
      My parents are not horrible people and believe in my education and my getting financial independent but they still hold on to patriarchal beliefs. The main problem is my extended family, they're all like these people in the video saying taali ek hath say nahi bajti and always blaming women. They influence my parents to a great deal unfortunately.
      And my cousin tried to grope my breasts while he thought I was asleep. His mother and sisters think hes innocent and at this moment, he's treated normally. Even my parents seemed to have forgiven him because so called sanskari family values. So there's that.
      You can imagine what type of household he was raised in, to not even have controlled himself to try to assault his supposed sister, in my house too. All i want is for my baby brother to never have the same influence in his upbringing that raised my perverted cousin.
      ALL I WANT IN THE WORLD IS FOR HIM TO GROW UP TO BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING. nothing less. My heart will break into a million pieces if he grows up to become like all the other men around me, i hate them so much.
      Please tell me how i could be a positive influence in his life? Do you have youtube channel recommendations? Books? Podcasts where i could learn?
      I'm sorry for this whole emotional rant I know it's so ridiculous of me to be subjecting people to my personal problems but i couldn't help myself when you said you were raised to be a mysogynist but improved later in life😭🥲 help me I love my baby brother more than anyone in this world. I don't want him to become an a&&hole. He already says - he has no female friends in his kindergarten and he doesn't like talking to girls. Wtf?

    • @AdarshSingh-g5k
      @AdarshSingh-g5k 3 месяца назад +11

      @@smollilbean first of all I am really sorry that you had to go through your cousins meliciousness but yet again it's he who needs to be sorry , my apology is completely useless.
      Don't keep your brother away from your family (extended) and their misogyny rather let him see all of it and remind him that whatever he is seeing is wrong . We don't give much credit to children's IQ and EQ. But children are far more emotionally competent than we think they are.
      Always take your stand against your family in front of him .
      Most of the time family members force their male child to not spend their time with women and to hang out with boys only , this distances men from their women counterparts and makes them emotionally stunted ( don't alienate him and make sure he has females around him).
      Let him embrace his emotions ( big men do cry. I bet your extended family would say otherwise haha)
      Make sure he has his own voice and he is not scared of his elders (respect them but not be scared of them ) , let him know sometimes elders can be wrong too .
      Answer all his all questions about women and sexuality ,feed his curiosity and never let him attach shame to it ( I know he is five but trust me kids are far more curious than adults.)
      Create a safe and non judgemental space with him .
      I can go on and on but I am a 100 percent sure that he is gonna be a wonderful man because he has a strong female role model in form of his sister .
      And a very big FUCK YOU to your cousin !

    • @ayushisrivastava4950
      @ayushisrivastava4950 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@AdarshSingh-g5k People like you are rare. Your mother have successfully raised a good son. She should be proud of her upbringing. ❤

    • @vivekkarajasegaran2664
      @vivekkarajasegaran2664 2 месяца назад +4

      @@smollilbean Actually, I can answer this. I'm sorry abt your brother doing such a vile act. I get your concern when it comes to a boy in the family being put on the pedestal. I'd say that you have to be the voice of reason. You have to speak up on behalf of other women in the family like my mother did. I respect my mum for that till date. Teach him about respecting everyone equally, no matter the socioeconomic status, gender, caste, or religion. The best way is to teach him the basic concepts about systemic oppression and what kind of oppression women have faced decades before this and they're still facing till date. I'm not a guy but I was shaken at my core to realise that my great grandmother was married at 11 to a 40 yr old man. If you have stories like that, share those with him and the struggles that they faced as a kid being married. This will help him understand how systemic oppression works as well as gender based violence. Well, when he gets older like till 10/15, I'd suggest exposing him to gender based violence to make him aware on how women are being treated as objects and how our thoughts and opinions don't matter. He shld be aware on how women are a completely separate entity and shld be treated with respect. If a woman says no, it means no. Also, it's very simple no means no but there's something called coercion where a man just pressures her into having sex and wear her down mentally and emotionally to the point where her no turns into yes where she did with her consent but did she do it willingly? My ex did that to me and I feel that that's not spoken much about, so yeah he has to be educated about systemic oppression, then as he gets older gender based violence and consent and respecting boundaries no matter the person. I believe that everyone shld be treated with respect and equality but it shld be ingrained in every child's mind however, it isn't really being taught at home and school because speaking abt such issues is frowned upon and considered taboo. When this mindset changes, then maybe, only maybe can we see a slight change

  • @rd1163
    @rd1163 2 месяца назад +36

    The cow, dog that got raped, what kind of clothes were they wearing if such people could answer.
    You can have your thinking regarding clothing but justifying rape with such lame prejudices is worse.

  • @KrishaParmar-k4u
    @KrishaParmar-k4u 3 месяца назад +222

    Alright, then to prevent robbery, all of us should stop buying expensive goods.

    • @kartikeyasharma8997
      @kartikeyasharma8997 2 месяца назад +16

      what a reply to these ppl, how dare they blame the victim for being a woman

    • @Sp-gu6tt
      @Sp-gu6tt 2 месяца назад

      ​@@kartikeyasharma8997😂😂😂 ole ole

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 месяца назад +1

      It's not matter of stopping buying expensive goods, but you should keep your home locked if you have expensive goods at home to prevent robbery.

    • @PMcse
      @PMcse 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@@kavishwarmokal124 yes, but never teach the people to not commit robbery. Right ? 🙄💩

    • @Shrupx7
      @Shrupx7 2 месяца назад

      ​@@PMcsethere can be many reasons as to why even if u teach to not rob since birth, they'll still rob in future cuz, at a point we have our own learning. Also surroundings etc and future situations matter

  • @pari8211
    @pari8211 3 месяца назад +401

    whatt..? because of dress.. invitation.. really..? then what about a 2-3 years old girls being raped ..? Ask them the reason for this

    • @Hecatemoonlight
      @Hecatemoonlight 3 месяца назад +67

      Dont forget 80 ywars old granny dogs and moniter lizard

    • @ishanirayNEET
      @ishanirayNEET 3 месяца назад

      exactly my thoughts ! women aren't safe , even if they're wearing a diaper , Burkha , naqab , salwar , white coat and stethoscope , saree .

    • @madhub08
      @madhub08 3 месяца назад +13

      Completely agreed !!

    • @prabha6886
      @prabha6886 3 месяца назад +23

      ​@@Hecatemoonlight bro monitor Lizard must be wearing revealing clothes.

    • @SanjayBaghel471
      @SanjayBaghel471 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@prabha6886 कामवासना हावी होता है तो इंसान के ज्ञान और बुद्धि को ढकती है !
      फोर अंजाम की फिक्र करे बिना वो बस अपनी वासना शांत करने के लिए कुछ भी कर लेता है !

  • @Nyebyo2332
    @Nyebyo2332 2 месяца назад +33

    After Nirbhaya case there are a interview in Delhi maybe conducted by Quint or some other media and in that interview I have seen men doing the same thing blaming women and her coice of clothes and her freedom for being sexually assaulted. Being a man I was disgusted by looking at those people who blame women and her clothing choices and freedom even though women wearing sharees have been sexually assaulted. No changes have been made in 10 years mentality is still the same in gutters we will never change. Thank you brut for showing ourselves mirror

    • @Sp-gu6tt
      @Sp-gu6tt 2 месяца назад

      You are mam or women

  • @learn_innovation
    @learn_innovation 3 месяца назад +848

    Let’s set the record straight: Rape isn’t about what a woman wears; it’s about the mentality of the predator. Blaming a woman’s clothing for provoking rape is not only ignorant but also a dangerous myth that shifts responsibility away from where it belongs-on the rapist. Rape is about power, control, and a deep-seated disrespect for another human being, not about sexual desire triggered by an outfit. If someone believes that a short dress justifies rape, they are part of the problem, perpetuating a culture that excuses predators and silences victims. We need to stop this toxic mindset and start holding men accountable for their actions. This isn’t about what women wear; it’s about ending the violence, changing the culture, and ensuring that justice is served.

    • @navyauday9819
      @navyauday9819 2 месяца назад +38

      Indeed, the households should start teaching their sons to respect women and understand the cruelty of rape

    • @umbertlambert2113
      @umbertlambert2113 2 месяца назад

      Rape has nothing to do with MEN as a whole. We need to start holding RAPISTS accountable. Only .00000001% of men are rapists.

    • @devleenasarkar6203
      @devleenasarkar6203 2 месяца назад +5

      True

    • @Forthechills
      @Forthechills 2 месяца назад +34

      Rightly said...a rapist who is filled with lust, rage, animalistic mindset, hatred, is least interested in what the woman is wearing. His morals suddenly don't change by seeing a saree or a burka or a baby wearing a frock.

    • @learn_innovation
      @learn_innovation 2 месяца назад +4

      @@Forthechills Damn True

  • @KshitijSahuVLOG
    @KshitijSahuVLOG 3 месяца назад +1239

    what he mean by "bhooke sher ke saame khana hoga ko koi bewkooof hi hoga jo uska nahi kahyega".
    so disgusting, i cant say anything so disgusting

    • @anjumaarasecaroll5887
      @anjumaarasecaroll5887 3 месяца назад +23

      True

    • @Blessedbyshriradhekrishna
      @Blessedbyshriradhekrishna 3 месяца назад +135

      I literally just stopped the vid after tht... Such shameless statement...it shows his own mindset tbh 😔

    • @Rukamylove-i6h
      @Rukamylove-i6h 3 месяца назад +69

      Kya yaar it pains me that India still lacks here

    • @Behappyyyyyie
      @Behappyyyyyie 3 месяца назад +31

      Negative aura

    • @Harshpawar-n7g
      @Harshpawar-n7g 3 месяца назад

      I think this pervert is also a potential rapist police can take some action about his statement

  • @emtoon7667
    @emtoon7667 2 месяца назад +76

    people will blame the victim, bollywood , clothes, anyone but the rapist

  • @priyanka5283
    @priyanka5283 3 месяца назад +829

    Agar "dono taraf se invitation hota h" to usko consensual sex bolte, rape ka Matlab hi hai 'zabardasti, against someone's will, forcefully "

    • @ENZERYN
      @ENZERYN 3 месяца назад +42

      GREAT WORDS. Yahi toh. Thop kyun rahe ho apna gyaan, pehle situation ko dhang se read toh karo!

    • @070ankitapalariya6
      @070ankitapalariya6 3 месяца назад +13

      Exactlyy

    • @JOYNAREED
      @JOYNAREED 3 месяца назад +30

      Exactly.... people don't know the difference.....

    • @reardelt
      @reardelt 3 месяца назад +4

      If you keep money and valuables in your check-in bag at the airport and then your money gets stolen, whose fault is it?

    • @pushparawat5255
      @pushparawat5255 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@reardeltthe one who stole it
      If you keep your head on your shoulder who knows? Someone might cut it.
      Whose fault do you think it is ?
      The men who urinate in public were never been catcalled , eve teased or raped by anyone.
      There are gay people there are transgender people nobody raping a man who is urinating in public near hospitals temples or roads
      If it was usa they'll be called register sex offender

  • @AdiParaShakthiAmma
    @AdiParaShakthiAmma 3 месяца назад +313

    A monitor lizard (an animal)was raped in a zoo in Maharashtra. Please cover your pet dogs and cats too with clothes if that is the reason for rapes. If you think that this news is fake, let me tell you BBC made a story of this incident.

    • @MunnBubble
      @MunnBubble 2 месяца назад

      Cows, buffaloes, dogs, cats( not sure) , chicken, monitor lizards, goats, sheeps( not sure again) .... they all are victims of rapes. Your information is true, have read all those true stories.

    • @vi950
      @vi950 2 месяца назад

      Yup beastiality is on the rise. Men are becoming demons. I don't want to call them animals as that feels like an insult to all the innocent animals out there

    • @krishnakumar-pp8ie
      @krishnakumar-pp8ie 2 месяца назад

      If bbc makes a story,it's fake

    • @outofcontextworld
      @outofcontextworld 2 месяца назад

      BBC reporter 1 week ago graped and killed 60 dogs, women grape 2 dogs daily in this world. Shut your feminism down.

    • @thecupressiana5923
      @thecupressiana5923 2 месяца назад

      Horrific. Every day I think I've seen humans stoop to their lowest, but the next day I find out they've stooped even lower. We are the most barbaric of all species, a plague on Earth.

  • @shalinibalakumar7975
    @shalinibalakumar7975 2 месяца назад +14

    I just want to leave india 😢 can literally see majority of people blaming victims and comparing women with food😢

  • @naaz_4339
    @naaz_4339 3 месяца назад +430

    All these people who are saying rapes happen because women wear short revealing and its both fault i wanna ask them
    What about nursery school kids who wear there school uniform
    What about a baby who was wearing a diaper
    what about the lady who was wearing burqa it cover your entire body she wasnt inviting anyone was she
    Or what about your job uniform
    JUST SO PEOPLE KNOW NO ONE WANTS TO GET RAPED

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад

      atleast u north indians are fighting against these misogynist sexist views in the comment sections and all sm platforms. you know what my south indian men says if this video is played in telugu or tamil : they will support that misogynic men views shamelessly and blame women in comments .iam tired of pinpointing each one and explaining them ,yet they dont agree. iam proud atleast north indian men women are far educated well mannered than south indians .my south states are such a dangerous states .i feel really unsafe to live.

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад

      thats south indian behavior that uncle and taxi driver in this video, has inherited from. all south indians talk like this shamelessly, omg south indies esp tamilnadu karnataka that 2 telugu states all are misogynistic and sexist men you cant even believe how cruelly they talk on social platforms and make videos even influencers are toxic and they spread to all men in states . im so happy that atleast north indian men are very gentle decent

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад +1

      Ha lekin chote kapde pehna koi achi cheez nahi hoti aur youth pe galat influence karti hai

    • @viasa8275
      @viasa8275 3 месяца назад +37

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs Kapdo ki bat ho hi nhi rahi hai idhar bhai thora toh humility la ki tu kis mahol mein kya bolra hai

    • @DarkkDevill
      @DarkkDevill 3 месяца назад +10

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs Bhai ruk ja... Kapde ki baath nahi ho rahi h.. pehele padle kya hua h Thane mein fir gurda ho toh baath karne aana.

  • @NaRaK143
    @NaRaK143 3 месяца назад +395

    Rape is result of too much ego and trying to prove their domination.
    It's not totally about lust.... sometimes it's about power .
    NOT ANY WOMEN'S FAULT!!!!!!
    PERIOD.

    • @NaRaK143
      @NaRaK143 3 месяца назад +11

      I said what I said....

    • @Snowdrop7974
      @Snowdrop7974 3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly . Men can go any level to satisfy their Ego . That's the Problem .

    • @ki_zagreb
      @ki_zagreb 3 месяца назад +12

      Facts. It is a cheap power game.

    • @Snowdrop7974
      @Snowdrop7974 3 месяца назад +1

      @@NaRaK143 Exactly 💯 Men can go any extreme to satisfy their Ego .

    • @viasa8275
      @viasa8275 3 месяца назад +6

      So true

  • @Divya-h5w
    @Divya-h5w 2 месяца назад +18

    Omg watching this is making me sick. I cannot imagine how many people have the same mindset like culprits.

  • @_786RP
    @_786RP 3 месяца назад +251

    To the Brut reporter who was recording this, you should have asked these counter questions to those who were blaming the dress of the victims :
    - if dressing of the women is the problem, then how come a doctor who was "modestly" dressed got raped?
    - what about old/ elder women who got raped though they dress modestly ?
    - what about babies who got raped? School children in uniform?
    - what about all the rapes that happened before invention of media and Bollywood and pornography?

    • @yuvrajganguly
      @yuvrajganguly 3 месяца назад +19

      We are too far gone...... The problem is not just Bollywood or pornography, but a total lack of proper sex education and a laughably inept judiciary system. Monsters will stay monsters, but we need to instil so much fear that they won't dare to commit monstrosities.

    • @rameshkumargangele1973
      @rameshkumargangele1973 3 месяца назад +15

      Exactly. There's no point counter-questioning these people because these nonsensical beliefs have been instilled in their minds to such an extent that they can't be so easily changed. All we need is a proper sex education and an apt judiciary system, but that didn't happen in 2012, and it will not happen now too.

    • @ParamvirSingh212
      @ParamvirSingh212 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@EmanFatima-lg9kt what?
      Just looked it up and holy shit you weren't joking

    • @C8ffeine2
      @C8ffeine2 2 месяца назад

      Yes. That's

    • @pollarr3240
      @pollarr3240 2 месяца назад

      ​​​@@ParamvirSingh212 in maharashtra 🗿 a monitor lizard got gang raped

  • @imherein
    @imherein 3 месяца назад +343

    My only point is if rape depends on clothes being worn by women, then what about when a 75 years old Nun gets raped, or a 8 months old baby gets raped, or a 12 years boy gets sexually assaulted or even a doctor fully draped in her medical suits gets raped and assaulted......
    Rape is nothing but a perverted mindset of suppressing the weaker and proving myself as stronger.....
    That's why proper and educational upbringing matters a lot.....both the genders should be treated equally as well as should be given proper education of how to respect each other....

    • @yourcommentmademeconfused
      @yourcommentmademeconfused 3 месяца назад +16

      These people will always be ready with their excuses you see

    • @Aamkamilkshake
      @Aamkamilkshake 3 месяца назад +10

      There are also many women who don't report it either because of their circumstances. The commentors point was that rape is about establishing power over others, and is never the fault of the victim. It doesn't say anything like there aren't male victims, so what exactly is your point.

    • @RahulYadav-nk6wp
      @RahulYadav-nk6wp 2 месяца назад +9

      This instinct of egocentric masculinity comes from a deeper trauma.

    • @sagaronline265
      @sagaronline265 2 месяца назад +2

      my only question to u is wearing vulgar dresses has not affect on men u say?

    • @Aamkamilkshake
      @Aamkamilkshake 2 месяца назад

      @@sagaronline265 Effect or no effect, even if a woman is naked on the streets, the only right a man has is to call the police to get her arrested for public indeceny. And what's the point of your question? That women should dress fully covered up in a tropical country like India? And still get raped?

  • @shagunpandita2596
    @shagunpandita2596 2 месяца назад +16

    This video is self explanatory of the eroded "mindset" of Indian men. 🙏🏻

    • @jesusChrist34596
      @jesusChrist34596 2 месяца назад

      Its not r@pe its called suprise $eX

    • @hazelmint6671
      @hazelmint6671 2 месяца назад

      ​Then Suprise $ex is fine if it happens to your daughter, mother or sister right?
      Ripiss mentality.

  • @satavishamohapatra7177
    @satavishamohapatra7177 3 месяца назад +538

    To the lady who said that the Brut representative is wearing the "correct and decent" kind of clothes.... should have asked her if she thinks this "properly dressed" woman can walk a deserted, dark road in Delhi in the middle of the night by herself and come out of it safe and happy?
    Can aunty herself pull off this stunt? In her very covering salwar kameez?
    Can she let a little girl in a normal frock do the same?

    • @virginboi4654
      @virginboi4654 3 месяца назад +10

      So does that means you have the right to be dumb and wear whatever crap you deem as right and expect nothing ? Spreading vulgarity is not gonna reduce the problem

    • @Shubhangi.Priya.
      @Shubhangi.Priya. 3 месяца назад

      You're not understanding the point she's trying to convey here... ​@@virginboi4654

    • @mu_chords3412
      @mu_chords3412 3 месяца назад

      So does that mean our goddesses, that were depicted barely covered on the walls of certain ancient temples were also vulgar? The whole point here is to stop sexualizing showing skin. Nobody is entitled to rape.​@@virginboi4654

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад

      @@virginboi4654 arey south indian chup khar .. from your words itself i can judge you are sastha south indian

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад

      @@virginboi4654 sir this is women issue this is not an issue of rapist and molestors like you please get out of these comments , just have nice alcohol and sleep but please dont hurt any girl just because you saw a bikini girl on tv. sir please dont tear a womens vagina dont tear a womens rectum with your intercourse on them please dont spoil their intestines with your sex craving ,just ask the women you wish to have sex with and if she says no or if she slaps you just accept the fact that she doesnt like it and please dont force on her and its wrong to force its like a thief stealing money from you if you dont give . sir please kids untill 18 yrs are considered as minors and babies you should not lure them its a cheating and fraud sir. and for above 18 just sir see what kapada they are wearing and sir we women have breasts same like you men have chest ,please sir breasts is not compared to penis of men, because one is above and other below its like comparing tongue to a hand . Sir also one more, have any women raped normal men outside just because she saw men on tv has nice abs ????? no right. you may think women are weak ! right! i will clear your thought. women are not weak sir, they have learned humanity since childhood. if imagine women gangraped men, what do you say sir is it because of mens kapada their six sexy packed abs and imagine that ladka penis got teared due to that ,would you now blame that ladaka or women, because you are also a man who may not feel safer at such state right. now you must got the point ,clothes arent nothing relate with rapes.
      just watch this video and listen to that black foreigner man what he is saying. the more women hides with her clothes the more the man gets tempted.
      Sir also stats says somalia where women wore burka afghanistan pak has highest rapes even more than india so where is clothing issue here .

  • @h-ash_tagblast8318
    @h-ash_tagblast8318 3 месяца назад +621

    To Predators it doesn't matter if they're wearing western or Indian clothes. Many of the recent cases prove that. Stupid people talking about dress codes 😑.
    Edit: People Should demand Stricter Laws instead of still blaming Clothes.

    • @Harshpawar-n7g
      @Harshpawar-n7g 3 месяца назад +46

      Two 3-4 years girls are sexual assaulted in badhlapur maharastra it doesn't matter what the girl is wearing or age also wtf is judicary system doing in this country as a guy living in australia feels shame to me about my country

    • @PoojaMishra93295
      @PoojaMishra93295 3 месяца назад +31

      Jis desh ke neta aise bolte ho " Ladko se galti ho jati hai espar unko faansi ki saza kyu dena" kya hi expect kiya jaa sakta hai logo se bhi "Yatha raja tatha praja" 😐

    • @Harshpawar-n7g
      @Harshpawar-n7g 3 месяца назад +22

      @@PoojaMishra93295 as a guy I ashamed myself why I was born in this most fucked up society

    • @shwetaroy9084
      @shwetaroy9084 3 месяца назад

      @@PoojaMishra93295 constitution me sikhaya gaya hai ki hame unhe moka dena hoga apni galti sudharne ke liye. isliye ham bat bat pe phasi nahi dila sakte.

    • @iamaseokjinnist902
      @iamaseokjinnist902 3 месяца назад

      Very true... I feel like women who wear decent clothes gets assaulted more vigorously than who wear shorts, just like the blue shirt guy with shades said it's just a body, molesters feels curious what is under these woman's cloths.

  • @ashishsengupta6980
    @ashishsengupta6980 2 месяца назад +63

    "Educated people don't rape"
    Most of the rapists were doctors in RG Kar.

    • @izhanvk8546
      @izhanvk8546 2 месяца назад

      It's all because of alcohol, movies and p**n content. Firstly this has to be stopped. 99 percent people don't understand this.

    • @adventuretime4451
      @adventuretime4451 2 месяца назад

      It's MALE
      GAWAR ANDHPADH AND MOST ARE THE PADHA LIKHA GAWAR!!!!
      INDIA THUIIII....

    • @Mhojito53
      @Mhojito53 2 месяца назад

      No they weren't. 😅😅😅

    • @imTiah-i19
      @imTiah-i19 2 месяца назад

      Its higly plausible that the interns and fellow mates who she had dinner with her are equally responsible ...may be they did SA to her or allowed that group of people to do ..

  • @simranjaglan9932
    @simranjaglan9932 3 месяца назад +224

    As long as people blame women for rapes, they will never end in this country. How these people can jutisfy rapes is beyond infuriating. I have lost all hope in this country.

    • @aash4688
      @aash4688 2 месяца назад +1

      Then leave this Country. You won't change yourselves but expect others to control there Urges most of time despite having power to grab that .

    • @simranjaglan9932
      @simranjaglan9932 2 месяца назад +18

      @@aash4688 yeah I am actually. But thank you for your advice 😊

    • @outofcontextworld
      @outofcontextworld 2 месяца назад

      pls leave this country cause if you believe other countries don't have this issue then enjoy their.

    • @ananyachaturvedi7347
      @ananyachaturvedi7347 2 месяца назад

      How could the doctor change herself tell me? You wanted her to stay at home all the time to avoid? Instead of teaching men you are telling women to leave the country if they don't want to be raped​@@aash4688

    • @Sp-gu6tt
      @Sp-gu6tt 2 месяца назад

      ​@@simranjaglan9932bhag pakistan 😂😂

  • @shradhasuman1659
    @shradhasuman1659 3 месяца назад +246

    To All these uncles aunties speaking about covering the body.. kya kabhi purane mandiron me devi devtao ki murtiyon ko dekha hai.. ya mandiron ki diwaron par ukeri gayi day today life depiction ko dekha hai.. dekha hota to pata chalta ki it was never abnormal to show skin ever.. all our traditional clothing were designed to keep the middle part of body specially belly button (nabhi) open to sun.. which is considered beneficial for health in aayurvedaa.. not even open chest of women were sexualised.. the covered body and skin is not our sanskar but the sanskar of invaders and English men.. if you actually care about the sanskar you would never objecify women body parts and skin.. please do not glorify your frustration and animal instincts with fake sanskar..

    • @ifykyk679
      @ifykyk679 3 месяца назад +4

      Let's not normalise walking bare chested. But yeah everything else was on point.

    • @prabha6886
      @prabha6886 3 месяца назад +19

      ​@@ifykyk679 no nobody does that.

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@prabha6886 oh please educate yourself. The old lady in this video said for the same thing only where girls reveal their chest and it's NOT our culture

    • @raaghavverma176
      @raaghavverma176 3 месяца назад +34

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs bare chest IS our culture... saree didn't have a blouse... MEN used to have respectful gaze... there was no Ghunghat system aswell...

    • @shradhasuman1659
      @shradhasuman1659 3 месяца назад +11

      Not even 100 years ago sri Rabindranath's sister was not allowed in some enter some elite English club for wearing traditional bengali saree *back then women dint wear blouses..
      I just wonder how people protect the tradition imposed on us by our oppressors so fiercely in the name of sanskar.. it is just mind boggling!

  • @monicasahay5321
    @monicasahay5321 2 месяца назад +97

    Best thing for women is to move abroad. If you are unlucky to be born in india

    • @Aishyhere
      @Aishyhere 2 месяца назад +13

      So true 💯...i feel same now

    • @Alice-7777
      @Alice-7777 2 месяца назад

      U will meet the same fate in other countries

    • @danrainbow9000
      @danrainbow9000 2 месяца назад +8

      Ha jaise abroad me to sab kuch sahi hai..........abroad me sab kuch sahi hota to Andrew Tate jaise log Hero nahi hote vaha ke😅

    • @monicasahay5321
      @monicasahay5321 2 месяца назад +27

      @danrainbow9000 I live abroad, and it's much better here. In Indian you can't even walk on the street. It's everyday struggle with a bunch of men standing road side starring at you. Here you don't see such things, much more freedom. But go on keep defending india. ​

    • @danrainbow9000
      @danrainbow9000 2 месяца назад

      @@monicasahay5321 Me R*pe ke context me keh rha tha....jab Countries wise report publish hoti h, to top per USA & European countries hoti hai....
      Ha but starring(dekhna) India me hi jyada hota hai,......ye to dikhta hai
      Btw Andrew Tate ke video per jo comments hote hai, unhe padh ker samjh aata hai ki Ladke India ke ho ya bahar ke __ ham sab ek jaise hi hote hai.... Lonely, frustrated, misogynist, 😅😅 bahar se achche bante hai, ander se bure hote hai

  • @durgasingh6620
    @durgasingh6620 3 месяца назад +407

    If lawyers like Kapil sibal are alive it's not possible to stops criminals doing crime

    • @johnnyenglish1264
      @johnnyenglish1264 3 месяца назад +22

      this is bullshit. he is a lawyer. he is doing his job. In legal matters, one should keep their personal feelings aside.

    • @harshitapandey4892
      @harshitapandey4892 3 месяца назад

      ​@@johnnyenglish1264 U should be deadly ashamed of urself

    • @taniasharma9600
      @taniasharma9600 3 месяца назад +5

      @@johnnyenglish1264exactly

    • @gyanranjanmahto7717
      @gyanranjanmahto7717 3 месяца назад +18

      ​@@johnnyenglish1264 just for the sake of money right.

    • @kazeb8979
      @kazeb8979 3 месяца назад +13

      ​@@johnnyenglish1264yup, he's doing his job. Doing his job only for money, he is just not providing justice to the victims, he's doing his job by making criminals relieved because someone is taking their side. Just for the sake of some lakhs . He's doing his job. Well done, Sibal uncle.

  • @aswathyar3049
    @aswathyar3049 3 месяца назад +90

    Do we ever heard men get raped due shorts and shirtless way of roaming.. Then what the hell they are blaming the women for short dress... Guys do change your mindset regarding women.. they are are not strange species or objects.We surely deserve the the same respect and freedom as you have in this society.

  • @AdritaPaul-l3l
    @AdritaPaul-l3l 2 месяца назад +11

    5:25 Respect to this lady, for such a strong mindset.

  • @4darsh
    @4darsh 3 месяца назад +71

    Y'all remember the video released by The Quint, shortly after the nirbhaya rape case? Not much differences in the answers.

    • @nehasaraf6048
      @nehasaraf6048 3 месяца назад +7

      Exactly what I was thinking and the classic "taali ek haath se nahi bajti".. What a shame man!

    • @Rkives-218
      @Rkives-218 3 месяца назад +7

      Because nothing has been done to change their mindsets
      The older ones are stubborn and the younger ones are being brought by the older ones

  • @tonmoyeenathofficial3828
    @tonmoyeenathofficial3828 3 месяца назад +77

    I salute the journalist for being so calm in hearing some of the absolute nonsense responses from some of these people,had i been there,i would have screamed at them!!!

    • @mystical_mahima
      @mystical_mahima 3 месяца назад

      Exactly !!!!!!

    • @youtubegk4105
      @youtubegk4105 3 месяца назад

      they are the reason of backward society caste skin color religion discrimination so on..........

    • @Fairy_buttercup10
      @Fairy_buttercup10 3 месяца назад

      ikr

    • @Prxkxsh
      @Prxkxsh 2 месяца назад

      Karen 💀

  • @shataksheemathur5334
    @shataksheemathur5334 2 месяца назад +12

    Rapists or any kind of criminals are actually psychopaths who get a kind of pleasure after hurting someone. This can happen under influence of many things but the most important factor for india is the environment in which the children grow up.

  • @risithabanerjee2157
    @risithabanerjee2157 3 месяца назад +153

    is rape happened due to clothes, tell me why babies in diapers and little girls in princess dresses are getting hurt, old aunties in sarees and moms in pregnancy clothes, doctors in suits and police with badges, Muslim women in niqabs and Hindu women in veils? If it were the clothes, shouldn't these be exceptions? Make it make sense.

    • @izhanvk8546
      @izhanvk8546 3 месяца назад +3

      There is something called as alcohol which is normalised in our country. This should be banned. we don't need social drinking culture and need to be like Americans

    • @risithabanerjee2157
      @risithabanerjee2157 3 месяца назад

      @@izhanvk8546 / americans?? brother have you ever even been to america? they are one of the highest alcohol consumers in the entire world. alcohol is normalized world wide and while it influences people, it isn’t the cause of rape. if you know you’re gonna rape then don’t drink.

    • @omeshparsad7504
      @omeshparsad7504 3 месяца назад

      But today in social media there is so much of nudity is being served by girls it is should be clean line between nudity and fashion.

    • @risithabanerjee2157
      @risithabanerjee2157 3 месяца назад +16

      @@omeshparsad7504 / read my comment again. it's not the clothes, doesnt matter if its a tight dress or a baggy sweater. rape will happen no matter what.

    • @Cocoworld999
      @Cocoworld999 3 месяца назад

      Are Bhai alcohol b excuse h kitna b nashe m hoga admi tatti ni khayega puch ke dkh lena dhutt nashe m b admi goo ni khata it means usko hosh hota h daru ka bahana h .. obviously ye zehar h bann hona hi chahye but iska bahana b ni Lena chahiye wrna tatti khila k inke nashe ka test kraya jaye ki kitne nashe m hn​@@izhanvk8546

  • @Vickyverma2024
    @Vickyverma2024 3 месяца назад +325

    First of all sexual assault is not a totally a gender issue. Rape kisi ka bhi ho sakta hai , kisi bi masum ka, kisi bi kamzoor ka, kisi bi gender kaa male female ya shemale.
    So you have to discuss this as a human, not blaming opposite sex.
    Second thing is today's so called education plays a very less role in stopping rape.
    Let me give a real life once a group of scientists went to a forest tribe to study their behaviour, they showed them nudes of model and porn Stars and noted their brains activities. There reaction were normal to these photos. They were not sexually excited while seeing those nudes.
    And same they repeated in the civilized society.
    The participants recations were horrible. Some tried to suppressed .
    And both the gender were included in this studies.
    So do you think forest Tribes are more educated then our so called civilized society?
    Why their women are safe?
    Why there were no rape cases in that tribes?
    Many women who are filling fake rape cases are also educated. Is this not a misuse of education and empowerment?
    Its not that rape is caused by a single factor. There are multiple factors affecting and resulting in rape. So aisa bolna bilkul galat hai ki . Ladki pure kapde phene toh rape ruk jaye gaa, behuda bakwas.
    The most voilent factors are pornography+Alcohol or Drugs . This is like a volcano 🌋 of unconscious sexually desire. So samne koi bi kamzor mil jaye choti bachi ya , chota ladka, yah ladki, transgender no matter of gender.
    Insan neh toh Komodo dragon ko bi nahi chorda ( Case of Maharashtra)
    Solution
    1.Let all genders grow together, play together, work together.
    2. Introduce sex to students through education not through porn.
    3. See all as a human not as male female or other.
    4. Make people busy in some things they love , hobbies any productive.
    5. Have a strict law with proper implementation and awareness to root levels.
    6. Learn to Exercise, yoga and breathing techniques .
    7. Stop objectify male and female on social media, telivision, and in Movies .
    8. Have a toll-free 24×7 number, where general public can anonymously talk to a psychologist or consultant about their unnatural sexually urges.
    Last but not the least ( we must stop listening and watching to Vuglur songs which objectives women and men body and sexuality. Example "Meh toh tandoori murgi hu yaar gatkale shaiya alcohol se" and girl keep make Karina Kapoor as their Idols.
    Meri baaton ko itne dhyan se sunne k liye Dhanyawaad.
    Plz feel free to correct me if you think any of the point is wrong.
    I will take it as a feedback

    • @Rukamylove-i6h
      @Rukamylove-i6h 3 месяца назад +16

      Also bollywood objectification

    • @adityakannojia1385
      @adityakannojia1385 3 месяца назад +35

      also teach your child to respect everyone despite of their gender, race, caste and status

    • @adityakannojia1385
      @adityakannojia1385 3 месяца назад +20

      plus ban the free pornography content on internet

    • @ENZERYN
      @ENZERYN 3 месяца назад +5

      Jo pehli ek cheez tune kahi, ussi mein asli mudde ko bhatka diya. I wonder if you were a judge, would you ever get a boil?

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean 3 месяца назад

      Yes r₹&e can happen to men too but it's a literal rare occurrence considering the level of regressiveness in indian society and the attitudes against women. Women are literally considered the property of men in india.
      Your objective with mentioning was definitely not genuine, you tried to derail and take away from the conversation around women's safety and make it about men. I've never heard a case of a man getting gangr₹&ped and brutally murdered had his testicles burst out and his d*ck choped off. But this literally happened to so many women where the r₹&ists took the victims organs out to inflict maximum pain and give them an undignified death.
      You're delusional dude. You don't even care about women because this is literally a gendered issue, men are the preparators in 99.9% cases because this society is okay with them devaluing and disrespecting women. It's gendered issue, and you decided to make it about men. What's wrong with you?
      The only exception to this is children. Young boys also get sexually assaulted and society needs to talk about this more. But definitely not men, men DO NOT face gendered violence on the same capacity as women in india.
      Yeah now all the men will come at my throat to fight me, idc. Y'all make everything about yourselves and have zero humanity

  • @wildforfreedom6614
    @wildforfreedom6614 2 месяца назад +10

    If clothes are to blame then why did 4 yr old in Badlapur in school uniform get assaulted, if women moving around is to be blamed then why did Kolkata Doc sleeping in her hospital get attacked ???

  • @Cinnamoroll-u7v
    @Cinnamoroll-u7v 3 месяца назад +415

    😂😂
    Typical indian men mentality
    Kapde par shuru ho jao
    Chote kapde hai toh kardo kaand
    Who's stopping u
    Sara blame toh girls ka
    Indian wear mein hi dekho
    Gaon mein jo hota hai
    Faltu ka gyan dena rehta h bas

    • @ifykyk679
      @ifykyk679 3 месяца назад +33

      Not just men. Some women too.

    • @Cinnamoroll-u7v
      @Cinnamoroll-u7v 3 месяца назад +46

      @@ifykyk679 true
      Internalised misogyny

    • @prabha6886
      @prabha6886 3 месяца назад +17

      ​@@ifykyk679 majority men

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Cinnamoroll-u7v to tum kya justify karti ho chote kapde pehna?

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Cinnamoroll-u7vit's true ki ye cheez kisi ke bhi sath ho sakti hai but kis type ke clothes ek ladki ne pehne the wo bhi role play karta hai kafi jagah pe

  • @iamsk2002
    @iamsk2002 3 месяца назад +41

    Short Clothes don't matter, but Cheap thoughts matter a lot.

  • @Kpopstalic.
    @Kpopstalic. 3 месяца назад +5

    For these type of specific “Over Sanskari men”, the society will only see the victim’s fault, whether she’s wearing a doctor's coat or a school uniform. Shameless.

  • @Panthera555.
    @Panthera555. 3 месяца назад +40

    I myself being a man is feeling ashamed to say this...that the maximum people here in the clip or over our Indian streets have an illogical point that "its the women's dressing that triggers rape" while if you ask them cross question they can't justify the rape of thousands of minor or the rape recent rape case of doctor happens for this illogical reason.. It's shame that even a 5year old girl isn't safe in our country..we people are responsible!!
    Inspite of blaming others let's change our education & manners not only in school but in every household right from the beginning when a child learns about the outer world!!

    • @prabha6886
      @prabha6886 3 месяца назад +5

      No words left.❤
      Thank you for existing ❤

    • @Ketones-bi6nj
      @Ketones-bi6nj 2 месяца назад +3

      you people still exist thanks for that 🥰

  • @jahnaviis
    @jahnaviis 3 месяца назад +74

    0:41 andar ka jwalamukhi nikal Ata Hai and rape ho jata Hai, this is 2024 , I'm assured now that Indian men won't change , the mentality won't change , we can eradicate polio hiv even cancer but we can't eradicate this mentality, no matter how much we protest , no matter how much we scream , our voices will always be unheard and ignored . God please " agley janam mohe bitiya na kijo" 💔

    • @umbertlambert2113
      @umbertlambert2113 2 месяца назад

      Only 0.00000000001% of men are rapists. We must stop the RAPISTS. This has nothing to do with men.

    • @asnaKhan-em5bx
      @asnaKhan-em5bx 2 месяца назад +4

      Exactly, is video ko dekh kar mere andar ka jwalamukhi phat raha hai

    • @chahakkaushik3078
      @chahakkaushik3078 2 месяца назад +1

      This guy should be arrested. There is a high possibility that he is a rapist himself

    • @deepanshjohri3997
      @deepanshjohri3997 2 месяца назад

      Shame on us, for what you are demanding from god , devastating 😔

  • @Mhojito53
    @Mhojito53 2 месяца назад +5

    Security guard uncle being the most wholesome man amidst all the trash here.

    • @Anishhh260
      @Anishhh260 2 месяца назад

      They are not trash!....they are humans 😎😎😎

  • @nam151986
    @nam151986 3 месяца назад +61

    Cant believe this is 2024

  • @minirsaha8163
    @minirsaha8163 3 месяца назад +148

    Why always blame girls????

    • @sunizidukki9135
      @sunizidukki9135 3 месяца назад +62

      Its a tradition here victims are blamed instead of criminals.

    • @itsme-sq5rd
      @itsme-sq5rd 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@sunizidukki9135
      Crime is social creation.

    • @virginboi4654
      @virginboi4654 3 месяца назад

      ​@@sunizidukki9135more like the lack of accountability which is prevalent in feminists. To change others start from yourself and be smart .
      Nobody is victim blaming they are stating the wrong

    • @RamBhakt12352
      @RamBhakt12352 3 месяца назад +27

      @@virginboi4654bro so for u the victims should take accountability for this…wtf bro, how is it their fault..

    • @virginboi4654
      @virginboi4654 3 месяца назад

      @@RamBhakt12352 accountability is a general thing . All should take it. Including yes victim and all.
      Be cautious be safe is what they say

  • @GoofyChaiLoverGirl
    @GoofyChaiLoverGirl 2 месяца назад +14

    yeah cab driver ka record check karo isne 100% kuch na kuch kiya hain

  • @anshuthakur761
    @anshuthakur761 3 месяца назад +56

    The fact that most of these people contradict their own statement 🥲

  • @rajdeepbharali272
    @rajdeepbharali272 3 месяца назад +154

    We are in 2024 and still saying " ladkiya achche kapde nahi pehente hai toh ladke logon ko achche nhi lgte, isliye rape hote hai"
    Sad 😢

    • @anandsharma7430
      @anandsharma7430 3 месяца назад +12

      1.4 billion is a big number. At least HALF of them are still in the 1970s or earlier mindsets - see, for example, caste discrimination. You won't have someone who is bigoted enough to be casteist but egalitarian on gender and sex. Discrimination and bigotry for both issues come from he same circuits/habits in the mind. This is not going to be solved easily, not for another century.

  • @parnitha3826
    @parnitha3826 2 месяца назад +6

    People with these victim-blaming mindsets and women not even supporting their fellow women makes my blood boil with fury

  • @gh-ps5es
    @gh-ps5es 3 месяца назад +100

    Yes this video clearly shows why it happens. Think about it: if a person murders a 2 year old, and a 22 year old, he is considered a murderer and a monster. But if a rapist rapes a 2 year old and a 22 year old, then he is a monster in the first case, but in the second case we ask "Well what was the woman wearing?"

    • @hershmishra1499
      @hershmishra1499 2 месяца назад

      He is still a monster. No one has ever said that , the perpetrators should not be punished.
      Imagine going to the most dangerous street at midnight with a lot of money with you . Now even if you went with no money to a dangerous place at midnight it is stupid but with money it's diabolical your chances of getting robbed increase exponentially..
      That is the whole argument of "what was she wearing .."

    • @kartikeyasharma8997
      @kartikeyasharma8997 2 месяца назад +3

      @@hershmishra1499 so ppl are not free in this country, if a woman is walking on the delhi roads at night she is not safe , no matter what she wears. and dont say its her fault, why she there. it is the fault of law enforcemet that this country is not safe for its hardworking and innocent citizens

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 2 месяца назад

      @@kartikeyasharma8997 in which country are they free? Even after so many protest the perpetrators are still on the loose. We all have failed.....

  • @FauziaPires
    @FauziaPires 3 месяца назад +137

    Men free society is the only solution

    • @major2707
      @major2707 3 месяца назад +4

      Go to cave

    • @Hecatemoonlight
      @Hecatemoonlight 3 месяца назад +27

      ​@@major2707even cave iant safe😂😂

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Hecatemoonlight 🤣

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад +5

      dont you have father and brother. are they same like this

    • @AbanStudies-bv8xt
      @AbanStudies-bv8xt 3 месяца назад +6

      then sorry fauzia but there won't be any world !! no existence of human.

  • @galadriellotr
    @galadriellotr 3 месяца назад +10

    An 8 month old infant got raped by a care taker , in kathua case 8 year old got raped and murdered. What kind of obscenity did they wear to have that fate. Men who justify women's clothes are responsible for assaults are weak of mind. Men of this mindset should wear same kind of clothes , so women can identify weak minded people and they will definitely save themselves and it is far more useful to girl children and their parents. If clothes are a label for assaults then these weak mindsets should also be labelled.

  • @xoxo456
    @xoxo456 3 месяца назад +30

    When they say "They get raped because of the kind of clothes they wear" Are they talking about babies and grandmas? If so then I really believe babies and grandmas need to start dressing PROPERLY so that they don't look like they're INVITING!!!

  • @artmonster3513
    @artmonster3513 3 месяца назад +41

    women who tells rapes happens becoz of dress needs to get proper education.. see rape cases everyone was wearing indian traditional dress saree churidar and now from recent case she was wearing "DOCTOR'S UNIFORM".. and she was on duty.. india was once with brilliant people . now see the condition of peoples mindset 😢

    • @deepthinker1710
      @deepthinker1710 3 месяца назад

      she has given birth to a rapist son and wants to protect him it seems thats why blaming girls only

  • @SUMMARIZERS
    @SUMMARIZERS 2 месяца назад +3

    Totally agree with the red top girl.. it’s about hatred, dominance and misogyny

  • @healthyyou9397
    @healthyyou9397 3 месяца назад +25

    Some men have a deep desire to show dominance...
    Because of patriarchal mindset...

  • @milindvaidya433
    @milindvaidya433 3 месяца назад +28

    1: Moral education, Sex Education,
    2: Pornography baned ,
    3: Alcohol Shops minimize , government not given licence to many shops ,
    4: increasing number of courts
    Fast Judgment, increasing Police Force,
    Watch films like Gargi ,Jana Gana Mana

    • @Rkives-218
      @Rkives-218 3 месяца назад +2

      Totally

    • @hazelmint6671
      @hazelmint6671 2 месяца назад +1

      Very good idea for measures✔️✔️

    • @Prxkxsh
      @Prxkxsh 2 месяца назад +1

      And social media vulger women restrictions too

  • @dakshinibhattacharya996
    @dakshinibhattacharya996 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the video, Brut. I do wish your team had asked those who were talking about why women wear “short” clothes and that women are the ones inviting rape- what “short clothes” was the doctor on duty wearing or little girls or old women wear when they get brutally raped. Very, very keen to see how they answer these pointed questions.

  • @kushrajsinghh
    @kushrajsinghh 3 месяца назад +34

    Illiteracy and poverty in itself cant be the sole reason for rape, it is the believes of male superiority and objectification of women that makes a man thinks he is above the other gender and women are only meant for the fulfilment of desires of men. As in most of the rape cases the rapist justifies themselves as the women were wearing short cloths, hanging out alone late at night, involved in a sexual relationship with their boyfriend so they can have sexual relation with them too. All these believes comes from the upbringing and environment in which the rapist was a part. Because if sex was the sole reason the rapists were seeking they could easily get that in all red light areas in the country but the main motive behind a rapist mindset is to degrade and humiliate that women to an extent so to get a psychological push of his superiority against women.

  • @SpiderMan-bb8hv
    @SpiderMan-bb8hv 3 месяца назад +27

    what about small girls , seems like they should also understand how to wear proper cloths in moms womb , seriously how can they still blame it on such things like cloths ?

  • @tanishka5914
    @tanishka5914 3 месяца назад +7

    I can't imagine what these people's kids live like
    Wtf is this thinking??
    To be brought up in such environment is the worst nightmare and I KNOW there are people here who live in such environment just wanted to say guys you be better and do your best to end this shit generational mentally.

  • @meenaabraham5717
    @meenaabraham5717 3 месяца назад +55

    The mentality of this people judging them on their bases of clothes is shows why India is still behind

    • @positivekumar3546
      @positivekumar3546 3 месяца назад +1

      You people are in search of an excuse to blame India....you can get out if you have problem...

    • @meenaabraham5717
      @meenaabraham5717 3 месяца назад +7

      @@positivekumar3546 Do you need more proof why India is still behind 2gb ram 😂😂

    • @anshikachahar4742
      @anshikachahar4742 2 месяца назад

      ​@@positivekumar3546 umm... well people gladly are moving out and will move out because of people like you and mentality like yours

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 2 месяца назад

      @@meenaabraham5717 check cases of other countries and then you will realize if India is actually behind or not

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 2 месяца назад

      @@meenaabraham5717 India definitely has less smart people because of people like you

  • @nagaanjana4457
    @nagaanjana4457 3 месяца назад +25

    and then they ask, "Why do u want to leave India? is sit not safe?''. they didn't even spare a foreigner, a 2 yr 13 yr old 15,17, ....even 60 yr old women were raped. I don't think a 2 yr old baby has anything to show nor does a 60 yr old woman. a doctor man, bloody hell, she was covered from top to bottom, what abt that, a school kid was raped as she was returning home from a man. at this point go and ask any women if they have ever felt scared or unsafe, I swear they will never tell you no. we cover ourselves top to bottom, stay home before 8, and never say anything against men, Isn't all of this a part of what has been our past culture. if so, y did women get raped then? what abt aruna shanbaug , what abt Ajmer rape scandal , and the list never ends . it is high time for people blaming women for getting assaulted to realise that, no matter how we dress or behave, we will get mistreated. but still, we get objectified every day, cuz men will be men right?

    • @priyadarshini4418
      @priyadarshini4418 3 месяца назад +4

      They will come to know... when it happens with their loved ones or themselves

    • @kartikeyasharma8997
      @kartikeyasharma8997 2 месяца назад +1

      @@priyadarshini4418 no, ppl like these lack humanity

  • @nasimakhatun8764
    @nasimakhatun8764 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks to Brut India ..we can understand real picture and mentality of people.

  • @navyauday9819
    @navyauday9819 3 месяца назад +75

    People who blame the victims and their choice of clothing should probably be taught what freedom means. Girls don't wear short clothes to attract men but for their own need to look the way the want. The uprising of the cases is due to the fact that men think that they can get away with it due to the lack of serious punishment. "Rapes can only be stopped by women" yes if they are taught to defend themselves in dire situations because it'll probably take eons for the laws to become stringent and even longer for the men to stop looking at women as if they were commodities.

    • @ritzmarcos7733
      @ritzmarcos7733 3 месяца назад +2

      Due to such mentality and repeatition of horrific rape cases, it takes our society much backwards. Women will be on extra guard to not entertain any random stranger even if he approaches with a good mentality. It will kill love based marriage and relationship. Whereas our Yogi and Gurus used to say LOVE is the most pious and powerful force in Universe. Kahan se Kahaaaaan aagayae hum. Dhikkar hai aise society ke logo se

    • @AbanStudies-bv8xt
      @AbanStudies-bv8xt 3 месяца назад +2

      sorry girl but defence isn't the option !! varna sari ladkiyan seekh ke defend krleti ye sab kehne ki batein hai

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад

      So do you justify wearing short clothes? Well is a woman has the freedom to choose what she wears then a man has the freedom to look where he wants. Wearing short clothes should be criticized as it puts a bad influence on the youth

    • @Bluebarries-s5s
      @Bluebarries-s5s 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs bhai kya bad influence? Purane time pe blouse wagera bhi nhi hota tha fir bhi rape kam the , and kisi aur ko dekhna kaheka freedom, khudke body ke sath kuch bhi karo wo hota hai freedom, humara desh bas kapdo ke piche hi sab galti de kar hath khada kar leta hai, S.korea jaisi jagaho par ladkiyan raat ko bhi safely aa ja sakti hai koi chota/bada apne marzi ka pehen ke

    • @viasa8275
      @viasa8275 3 месяца назад

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs you are literally commenting everywhere about women clothing and now i want you to answer that why toddlers are getting raped, yea they must be inviting right? Even a women in burkha isn't safe bhai kya batein kar raha hain do some research about how women wearing even sabse traditional kapde are getting raped and rape isn't even about sexual needs first of all bata du tujhe if you look into psychology to you'll get to know for them raping is a way showing dominance rather than completing sexual needs warna itna brutal rapes nahi hote.

  • @rajdeepbharali272
    @rajdeepbharali272 3 месяца назад +22

    1:05
    Exactly...jab bachche rehte hai tab ladke aur ladkiyon ko ek dusre ko samman krna sikhana chahiye

  • @bakaforever
    @bakaforever 2 месяца назад +3

    nothing will change as long as the idea of victim blaming is going to persist

  • @kris21107
    @kris21107 3 месяца назад +22

    But what are mistakes of old woman, girl child????? They are also using revealing dress???? Why you are not asking questions properly

  • @tamannagill416
    @tamannagill416 3 месяца назад +21

    One of the biggest contributors to rape is the widespread addiction to pornography, as seen in many cases. Additionally, many men have regressive mindsets and resent seeing women progress. Some men, who feel unsuccessful in life, take out their frustrations on women, targeting those they perceive as weaker. This behavior is deeply troubling and reflects underlying mental issues that society fails to address. It's crucial to control and ban the factors that lead to these problems.

    • @ProudIndian-kb7ov
      @ProudIndian-kb7ov 3 месяца назад +1

      Porn dekhna ban kar sakte ?

    • @Rkives-218
      @Rkives-218 3 месяца назад

      Yes porn
      They watch BDSM in porn videos and think that just like the women in video is enjoying the bdsm, real lifw women will also enjoy it

    • @ishtheswiftie13
      @ishtheswiftie13 2 месяца назад

      Porn kind of contributes to rapes but it is not the main reason rapes occured back when porn wasn't a thing porn isnt the main reason the main reason is misogyny and men feeling entitled to women's bodies and their life, patriarchy teaches them that women are below men and are to be controlled and abused by men

  • @tarun501
    @tarun501 2 месяца назад +3

    INDIA and the INDIAN MINDSET ☕️

  • @sandhyachettri7227
    @sandhyachettri7227 3 месяца назад +51

    I am not much of a comment person but looking and hearing the driver and a lady talking about the clothes we women wear,I couldn’t resist myself from writing this comment.First and foremost then why do these rapist rapes a child , she is just a girl child don’t know about what age but still these monsters does. And what about old aunties , do they also wear short clothes?
    Shame on these type of people who just sits and criticize women and give all the advices to only women.
    It’s not about the clothes it’s about the mentality of these type of people that our India will not change and we have to be afraid every time to go outside.

    • @AbanStudies-bv8xt
      @AbanStudies-bv8xt 3 месяца назад

      means u stay in middle east may be UAE ??

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад

      @@sandhyachettri7227 you live in Pakistan?

  • @aditikumari65
    @aditikumari65 3 месяца назад +21

    Idk how YOU control yourself, IF I SAW THEM SAYING SHIT LIKE THIS, I WOULDN'T HAVE CONTROLLED MYSELF OMG.

  • @champcricket6576
    @champcricket6576 2 месяца назад +6

    Use of abusive slangs in each and every conversation by the young generation from the childhood is also a main reason for the deterioration in their mindset. Each and every slang is related to objectification of our mother's and sisters only. These type of things will create only problem in future.

    • @hazelmint6671
      @hazelmint6671 2 месяца назад

      True. I always cringe when the ML refers to the FL as a 'figure' in Tamil movies to their buddies.

  • @ayeshashree
    @ayeshashree 3 месяца назад +170

    finally yhn bhi wahi same sentence sunne ko mil gya...
    SAB LDKIYON KI GALTI HOTI H , LDKIYAAN HE LADKO KO SEXUALLY ATTRACT KARTE H...
    wah re society or uske soch... ...👏🏻👏🏻

    • @Parag-by5jm
      @Parag-by5jm 3 месяца назад +4

      I would say when it comes to beauty of women ,it is over glamourized in movies ,advertisements and she is potrayed as something beyond the universe ....
      So far as women clothing is concerned ,2000 Year back ,women were wearing even less than today.but then women was not that much objectified as if a medium of carnial pleasure ,desires.

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад

      Tuhari pfp dekh ke hi sab samjh aata hai

    • @samairakhanna1403
      @samairakhanna1403 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs tumhe dekhne ko bola kya usne

    • @samairakhanna1403
      @samairakhanna1403 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@FreeFire-hz9qs sabse pahle nazar blouse pe jati hai tum logon ki

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 3 месяца назад

      @@samairakhanna1403 usne dekhne ke liye hi lagai thi

  • @aninseo1998
    @aninseo1998 3 месяца назад +22

    These people need to know that it takes two to tango doesn't apply to rape. Should we blame a 5 year old girl child at her clothing when she gets raped? Just stop blaming on someone's clothing as the reason for getting raped....
    India as a whole needs to be educated in this topic

  • @fancytorchh
    @fancytorchh 2 месяца назад +2

    There was a Same Street interview video uploaded four years ago on "The Print" channel titled "Know Why Delhi is Called the Rape Capital." It's disheartening to see that the responses from people in that video are exactly the same today. The troubling part is that, despite it being the end of 2024, it seems society has not progressed in overcoming its victim blaming attitudes.

  • @pj_pop9346
    @pj_pop9346 3 месяца назад +17

    It's never about the clothes because a dead body can not do anything about it.
    It's not about the behaviour of the girl because what kind of behaviour does a 2 month old baby can have.
    It's all about power.
    All they want is power, power over the weak.

  • @GEETAGUPTA-xf7of
    @GEETAGUPTA-xf7of 3 месяца назад +20

    Really sick....how we live among such people their mentality is so freakimg outdated🤡

  • @Aamkamilkshake
    @Aamkamilkshake 3 месяца назад +5

    The problem starts at home, where children observe their parents interactions, then it worsens in school.
    Boys and girls are usually separated and given very less chances to talk to each other, even in coed schools.
    This creates less understanding and makes it seem like the other is some alien creature.
    Then the problem with boys worsens because of movies, serials, and comments about a girl's value, her sanskaar, her clothes, and these passerby comments saying the blame lies on her when these rapes happen.
    I really think this issue wouldn't have been so bad if proper gender integration was implemented in schools so children could understand that they're all the same, at least then they probably wouldn't have been so rotted inside by the sexism perpetuated by other people.

  • @dodoof9525
    @dodoof9525 3 месяца назад +52

    a young woman sleeping and taking breaks from treating patients for hours on end is an invitation for sex?
    those 3 and 4 year old babies that were sexually assaulted by the cleaners in their OWN SCHOOL gave invitations for his dirty innapropriate touch?
    this dumb hypocrisy needs to stop and some sense needs to be talked into the men of this country. it is becoming more and more embarassing seeing the lack of common sense and empathy in our "great bharat"

  • @ritzmarcos7733
    @ritzmarcos7733 3 месяца назад +27

    Confused boy- Ek haath se taali nahi bajti
    Chad internet guru- Ek haath se chutki toh bajti hai. As a man, I find it funny how men of our country tries to get away from their responsibility to not act like Animal or should I say ' Worse than Animals'.

    • @DihaadiYoutuber
      @DihaadiYoutuber 2 месяца назад +1

      Alone women is neither opportunity nor responsibility of any men. If all men just ignore women or becomes gay, there will be no such unfortunate event.

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 2 месяца назад

      @@DihaadiRUclipsr become gays? 🤣

  • @arnabdas9503
    @arnabdas9503 2 месяца назад +3

    STOP. BLAMING. VICTIMS.

  • @tanutripathi711
    @tanutripathi711 3 месяца назад +98

    Didn’t really want to say but that taxi driver’s statement speaks volumes why he is a taxi driver.

    • @yuvrajganguly
      @yuvrajganguly 3 месяца назад +12

      That's a pretty classist thing to say, there are many taxi drivers out there who are well respected morally upright individuals. No need to bring in classism when a watchman gave the truest response and "educated" people went out yapping about women's clothing.

    • @Rkives-218
      @Rkives-218 3 месяца назад +24

      I won't agree
      Someone's job has nothing to do with his mentality
      I have seen rich elite men having poor thoughts

    • @FreeFire-hz9qs
      @FreeFire-hz9qs 2 месяца назад

      @@tanutripathi711 by that logic you shouldn't even be born

    • @ishtheswiftie13
      @ishtheswiftie13 2 месяца назад

      Rich men rape too shiney ahuj he was a rich actor still raped respected people in authority rape too many cases of teachers harrassing students are recorded politicians do it too this just shows your classism it is about mindset not about rich/poor

    • @vedantmandwe5868
      @vedantmandwe5868 2 месяца назад +2

      Totally Agreed